Aquarius Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility

Famous Aquarius-Aquarius Couples:

John Brolin and Diane Lane

Most times when two of the same sign get together it is too much of a good thing. But not so when the Aquarius man finds an Aquarius woman. They will understand each other’s special language which requires them to refer to each other as “best friends” and never anything more. Their secret code also dictates that they live together without marriage; after all, marriage is soooo conventional. I like to think of these two trying to shock each other. That’s their favorite game with third parties, but I wonder if it works between the two of them. “Let me shock you.” “No, here, let me shock you.” “No let me slap you.” “Okay, slap me. Then I’ll slap you harder.” And so it goes, and so it goes. Of course it’s all just talk. These two are air signs and they tend to suck up all the air in the room. They can be so sure that they know everything and see everything and envision everything that has ever been and ever will be. I do wonder what they talk about very quickly.

How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as an Aquarius Man:

If you’re an Aquarius man trying to attract an Aquarius woman, of course you will know to give her lots of space. Aquarians have the reputation of being very friendly but they really don’t like people at all, so she is likely to be alone when you encounter her. If you have crossed her path, you are likely involved in a common cause which makes the perfect entrée into a conversation. This should keep you going for the first several dates. Nothing personal, please. After that, since you’re both pretending that you’re not dating, you’re just friends, a lot is left up in the air. You have to keep getting together, but under the pretense or guise of dating. Keep it cazs.

How to Attract an Aquarius Man as an Aquarius Woman:

For starters, interrupt the conversation he’s having with someone else. Act like you could care less about the social context of the meeting. Show your strong individuality and your preference for mental engagement, not emotional entanglement. It’s okay to be smarter than he is if you really are. Turn and walk away as abruptly as you walked over to start the conversation.

Degree of Romance:

I don’t think so.

Degree of Passion:

Only for other species.

Degree of Friendship:

For as much as they will tout their relationship as “best friends,” they are probably each other’s only friends as well.

Degree of Marriage:

This actually works well because they live in their own world of ideals and special values. Others might consider them cold, aloof, arrogant and absent-minded, but to each other, they are Two Master Minds creating Universes together. One wonders who’s doing the dishes and paying the bills, but eventually they get around to it. They would secretly be better off with step-children or adopted children so if it’s heading in that direction, embrace it.

Progression of Relationship:

The Aquarius man and Aquarius woman keep going back to start, because they insist that it’s just a friendship which makes for an expanded consciousness between them and it allows them the space they need to co-exist happily in their universe.


If they could, I’m sure they would prefer to do it on the holodeck or take part in the famous Vulcan Mind Melt. Aquarians are the one sign constantly at odds with the human body. They tend to think of themselves as energy circuits, or units of energy, programmable through the mind at a safe distance. They tend to look at sex as procreational and ironically they are singularly displeased with their own creations. The Greek god Uranus, the Ruler of Aquarius, ate his own children because they weren’t good enough. This leads us to a circular place regarding this most human of all functions. Sometimes the “problem” is solved with gadgets and “toys”, especially of the electrical shock variety. Sometimes the group gets involved. It was the Uranus in Gemini generation that invented swapping. Whatever can be conceived of — I’ll let you imagine — as long as it is at arm’s length and no messy bodily fluids are involved.

When It’s Over:

When it’s over, they turn their backs and walk away as if they were pacing off for a duel except the trajectory is exponential. They can’t get far away from each other fast enough. All the rest is just words.

Our Rating: 8/10

I give them this high a rating because (1) they are not likely to marry at all; (2) if they do marry, it should be to one another; and (3) if they do get together it will probably only ever be one of the same species.

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  1. AL+CK=HJLJuly 24, 2017 at 1:33 am

    This is pretty much on the money! Im an aquarius women fell in love with aquarius man. Ive met other aquarius men but the one i fell for was just like me! We have a child together and your right we would be better off with step children. And your right when we break up we cant get away from each other quick enough! 5 years ive known him now he was my only friend he did give me a ring but as a promise ring. He did call me his wife though but did not want to marry. I want the entire wedding but am defiantly good just spending my life with him!. We are so the same yet very different we talk about anything and everything and yes we think we know it all and when him or I think we know better we accept the difference of opinion with respect ok honey but you know im right… and as the women yes im not much for people i love my space love being alone yet i can charm anyroom being a life of the party if the atmostphere is right. Right now were broken up .. im very faithful devoted he likes to sleep around he loves his freedom he prefers friends 100s of friends even the girls he sleeps with over the commitment to me. Yes we do play the shock game he does something shocking i do something better and the game goes on… it turns me on. Once i decide to give him his space that he truly needs i get over all the cheating because deep down i know im the best i know he loves and cares for me i know he will never have what we have with anyone else.. he checks in with me over months to see if im still single and i am and i think he loves it knowing how loyal i am yet can spend months away from him i like to brag about my loyalty towards him i think he loves it. Sex is amazing with him first its in my head and he can trun me on there 1st always 2nd everything else about sex is just on point between us and pretty much thats what i like best about him i cant have sex with other people. He likes it though if i start it and im still shy really shy so this new game we started to play was after he falls asleep i start doing sexy things to him and when he wakes up hes so turned on me doing “stuff” to him its always a go… but yah most of all he was my friend and ill always go back to that us having kids together really ruined our relationship i want my freedom bad but im the parent while he still has his complete freedom. I have to wear the pants when it comes to bills and dinner and kids when i wish i didnt have all the domestic responsibility at least being single and alone its my choice to keep it all together he has a new gf with kids and they call him daddy now so i dont know maybe it works better for him knowing thats not his responsibility he can leave whenever but this new women is an aries and the talk of marriage between them has already happened they both said its a go between them i dont know if its a game or joke but i read aries aquarius compatibillity and they seem better matched then we were … now id like to stay single forever truly would but it sure would be nice to have a new male friend to have fun with! So i wait peacefully alone until i find the magic again. So many men try to tie me down and once they do i run fast never looking back. Thanks for being so on point confirming im not crazy im just an aquarius women!

  2. Am an aquarius man wants to marry an aquarius woman

  3. Hope ArmstrongAugust 24, 2016 at 6:49 am


    Dear Future Husband,

    Quite frankly I don’t know if you exist or will I ever find you, however, thought I’d just put this out there in confidence should incase I ever do.

    The day I met you, I had absolutely no idea you would be the man of my dreams, I did not know who you were or where you came from, we did not meet at the airport, in the grocery store, at the coffee shop, in a bar or at the wedding of a mutual friend; where you liked me as I entered the room and I liked you back, it all just happened seemingly out of nowhere, I had no idea when I met you that it was the beginning of the rest of my life, during that intense moment I did not realize that is what it was, I did not know just how much we would be connected on such a significantly high synchronizing level, they say fall in love with your best friend and you get the best of both worlds because it not only makes the relationship stronger, it ignites incredible moments of passion and I fell in love with you because of all the slight weird little things you had absolutely no idea you were doing.

    I can tell you this right now, I have a lot, well maybe not a lot but a few flaws and I plan on keeping every single one of them, I get miserable and I plan on staying that way, I love to hiss my teeth a lot; but don’t take it personal, I have a resting bitch face; doesn’t mean that I’m mad or annoyed at you, but the more you complain about it is the quicker its likely to become a legitimate bitch face LOL but I know how funny you will be so it might be safe to say I may end up parading with a damn near well perfect joker face because I won’t be able to contain myself remembering all the little funny stuff you’d say , if you do something and I don’t like it, I’m damn well going to bring it to your attention immediately because I feel communication is essential, I am apologizing right now on the behalf of my conscience; when I give you a hard time if things aren’t done a particular way or at a particular time; it’s in my nature and I can’t help it, I’m even going to bitch about things even when I know that it may not even matter that much, sometimes I will need some alone time, get silent for no reason and you may feel like I’m ignoring you but it will be far from that, sometimes a girl just need to replenish you know, especially during menstration…LOL, but what I am saying is that, even in the serenity of our silent moments, the connection of our bond will always endure , but Future Husband I can guarantee you this, I will never let you feel alone, or feel like you have no one to talk to when you get stressed, upset or feel depressed over just about anything, when you want to get way, I want to be your escape place, I will never let you feel you have lost your best friend because that was the solid foundation that made us felt comfortable around each other; like we could talk about any and everything, I will do my very best to be attentive to you needs without smothering you . I will be your support in good times and bad, will never make you feel inadequate or that your goals are unattainable, we will figure it out together, I will try to relax your mind and ease your stress and anxiety. I will never let you settle for less than what I know you are capable of, I will challenge you to be the best you even if I know you will get angry at me for pushing you too hard or repetitively in your skin, I want to inspire you and be your motivation in attaining your goals, I want to be the one to make you see all your potentials and believe with you that your goals are obtainable.

    In our marriage I want us to grow and change together making our bond stronger, not changing who we are as an individual, but changing the way we will work through our difficulties and challenges; on the new adventures that we will come to discover together along the way. I am not going to dare say this will be perfect or easy, but I want you to know that I will always be your someone and for you to always be my someone, never let us go to bed angry, because I know me and I will be upset and turn my back on you or decide to sleep in the other room ( I never ever want that between us, never), so please just pull me close, hug me tight and let me know everything will be all right, allow me to breakdown in your arms with tears running down my face knowing everything will all be fine. I will always say sorry for whatever I did wrong, I will own up to my own mistakes, I will respect you enough to be forthright honest and truthful with you even if it will be hurtful and occasionally harsh and ask for nothing more than the same of you, I know for an absolute fact we will have tons of fights, tempers will flare, unending debates and everlasting irrational arguing LOL but I will never ever stop loving you, yes I know life is filled with a lot of unknowns both good and bad, but I will never ever stop loving you.

    I will do everything in my powers to keep my promise of fidelity and keep me only unto to you, to keep you happy, and never to let the spark die that ignited the passion we felt the first time we met, the first kiss we shared and the first time we did the nasty Hehehe, I will continue to love you more and more each and every single day for the rest our lives and hope you will do the same, and so whenever God sends you, I will be ready to exchange garlands then jump the broom and start this adventure together.

    And don’t hesitate to question; I know you yourself will be two handsful and a couple canisters plus the extra large storage containers in the garage, but I am ready to learn and grow with you then, and I will never stop loving you.

    I am really excited to meet you and to find all the new ways to be the best wife for you.

    If you are reading this, thanks for waiting and for being patient with me.

    Love always,

    Yours in anticipation “my wife”

    P.s finding you will be by fate, meeting you will be by chance and falling inlove with you, well that will be beyond my control because we’ll be drawn to each other with a passionate, powerful soulful connection from a higher frequency that will undoubtedly shift our energies to a place beyond unraveled insanity.


  4. I am an Aquarius woman who has met an Aquarius man and I can say from direct experience when we fight it is far beyond ugly and I will shut down and not speak to him on any terms and he will try and try to engage me. When we are together and sedate It’s an amazing union of intense energy. We think alike and are instantaneously friends as well as interested in each other. As described Aqua men like to be in charge of the relationship and how they are seen. What is unfortunate is Aquarian Woman does not really care what money they make or what things they have, we care about their dreams and the big picture. We care about the moment. And yes the Aqua man is hard to commit to someone but as an Aqua woman with far more relationship experience on the long term it is easy to keep the Aqua man on his toes as we tend to have a large amount of admirers and know the work around to most relationship concerns. Aqua woman is also highly intelligent and we can separate our hearts from our minds to further observe the behavior of Aqua men. I have fallen for mine but he will not get in my head as they are far more able to cause havoc there. And yes as an Aqua woman I am craving being out and about among my many admirers but when he wants my time I will drop everything as we are loyal beyond expectations. All I can say its like a lightning storm meeting a supernova explosive and electrifying.

  5. Dear Nancy
    Please do not be so firm and rude about a generalized idea about a bunch of people in the world because they were born within a given span of time in the year. I am an Aquarius woman, I do not go on blind dates but i was involved in with various different signs romantically. I need intellectual and emotional bonding, but i also like warmth in a relationship. I do not really care a lot about signs because funny enough in my culture I am a scorpion. But it is all just giving you a general idea. So. i don’t know what makes you write about a sign so pacifistic way. I am sorry if you had any personal bad experiences with one of them. I have met few Aqarius men ..some of those are wonderful friends, one of them cheated on me, one was really really boring. I am in a relationship with an aqua man for past 4 yrs and we are very happy togather. He makes me feel complete. We have good times and bad times that we braved togather and grow in a relationship. It is true I am a free spirit so is he..He is the wind beneath my wings.I do not know if you will let this post through, but for more than anyone else it is important that you see it, and have some hope. Love and peace.

  6. Thank toy very much for your interesting website, it is at times most informative but as you have said and others have commented on, it is very basic, but…
    As an Aquarius just try to love us as we are, try to be as patient with us as you can, yes at times we can be dreamers and emotions are difficult, but we love the world more than you can see, and with little space once in a while, we will love you too with all our hearts and souls, just don’t hurt us as you will live to regret it!

  7. Everyone is foolish in terms of looking at this regarding compatibility.
    It’s all about Venus, Moon, and Mars placements. Mercury in terms of communication.

    I’m an aquarius sun. With a scorpio Moon, Venus and Mars in Capricorn.
    I’m very passionate in terms of relationships. I tend to get jealous and possessive.

    I will say this, the owner of the website is pretty biased about Aquarius. You seem to always have something negative to say.

  8. i am an aquarius man. i was trying to convince an aquarius woman for a relationship. bt aftr some days i came to know that she had previously a bf who was leo. actually she was not happy with him. bt still she loved him. bt i would not know that she was engazed. so i had loved her so much. i felt that she was my soulmate. after that i have never been abled to commit in any relationship.

  9. lalala youwillneverknowDecember 21, 2011 at 7:22 pm

    i am an aquarious got with my aquarious ex boyfriend after being good friends with each other for a year and our relationship lasted 2 months. I dont know what it is but every time i see him that feeling comes back and i start missing him and our friendship, but it ended badly we broke up but he moved on so quick with one of my closest friends so obvv i was angry! and there was alot of drama but then we ‘act’ like we are friends after sorting everything out but its so awkward when i see him. just that feeling of knowing what we were like (best friends) to complete strangers. but the emotional mental connection was so strong ahhhh shit happens. but i still have a little bit of place in my heart for him and i just want him out foreverr!! because hes such an arssssssss! arghhh

  10. I was looking up compatibility between two aquarius’ since me and a long time friend seem to be more serious. We have been friends since high school (although we were JUST friends back then) but lost touch for a few years as I became involved in a serious relationship and had a child with a Scorpio. We recently came back into each others’ lives and the relationship seems to be going somewhere, although we have not talked about “labeling” ourselves bf and gf, there seems to be a mutual expectation that we are not going to sleep with anyone but each other. I thought it was uncanny how the description fit us to a T, especially the part about calling each other friends.

  11. I agree with most of the comments posted above. My girlfriend is an Aquarius, and no one that we know would ever describe her as ‘cold’ or ‘aloof’. In fact, she’s a generally caring person who will help out anyone in need. She has a wide variety of people in her social circle that she loves to hang out with on a weekly basis. Finally, she does not act as if she knows everything or as if she’s God’s gift to human kind. On the contrary, she has quite the low self-esteem that I’ve been trying to build since we got together in 2006.

    Dear Nancy, I think that you had a bad relationship with an Aquarius man or someone in your life had a falling out with an Aquarius and so it has affected your general opinion on them. Yes, my girlfriend needs her space sometimes(and I admit that, as a Cancer, I can get pretty clingy) but that only shows that she’s human. She loves to be independent, but only because if she gets around people, she will be more focused on trying to please them and trying to be a great friend, that she’ll forget about the task at hand.

    This information is probably accurate about SOME Aquarians, and about some humans in general, but it’s not for all. I think that you should probably do more studies on Aquarians and then use that as a basis for your opinion/compatibility advice.

    Much love, Tom.

  12. Correction: You said that the Greek god Uranus, the Ruler of Aquarius, ate his own children because they weren’t good enough, but that’s actually SATURN that ate his children. Saturn WAS the ruler of Aquarius, but that was only until they discovered a better match in 1781. Uranus had his balls cut off by one of his children. THAT’S the reason that Aquarians think twice before jumping into the procreative game.

  13. I am a divorced Aq and revently met an Aq male and was wondering if this was a good or bad idea. My ex was a Pisces. I have also met a Gemini…..

    which is best Aq male, Gemini or another?

  14. This is a hilariouscombo. id give it a 4 or 5. there both so airy each is in their own hot air balloon floating away on clouds. They should be brought back to earth before too long by concerned friends such as this pisces woman.

  15. veronica wardJune 27, 2011 at 9:10 pm

    hello..i am aqurian women seeking a aqurian man we both have stong passion for eachother and wants a everlasting relationship we get along perfect, both have loving hearts and same interest and both looking for the same out of a relationship . the thing is he lives out of state and i plan on moving down with him to live! will it work??

  16. the thing is it is freaky how we are on the same wavelength , like really the more time is going the more you realise there is no end to what he’ll do or say next, he’s just like this little new cosmos just waiting to be explored not taimed he’s simply wow

  17. Young DeeeeeeJune 4, 2011 at 2:41 am

    Hello…I have a crush on a man that is 14 years older than me…I am in my early I found out that not only are we BOTH aquarians but our birthdays are 3 days apart in the same month…I am so excited but I am fascinated by the article on how to attract him..because I have already been doing alot of what it says…just on my own..I feel a slight chemistry but it may just be in my head. My last relationship with a Scorpio end last year and it wasnt go anywhere in the first place…I am really not trying to get in another one so soon but I guess I am just testing the waters…

  18. am a aq gal, and in a relation with an scorpio guy since last 6 mnths, and we really love each other. . but whenever i check on net about our compatibility why there is something negative about our relation. as we both never feel like anything negative . . we are very happy with each other. i read it that scorpions are selfish stubborn but he is quite different.

  19. @rommy sure you can go into realestate…I mean realition with her. Check your spellings mate…you’ll get day… some day! 🙂

  20. can u please tell me it is gud to date with aquarious female .. i am aquarious male .. nd recently meet with aquarious female … i like her nd wanna to go in realition with her .. so i want to knw that is it gud nd will our relation wrks ..????

  21. marreloa09@aol.comMarch 31, 2011 at 11:15 pm

    i completely disagree with the sex part….cuz that is NOT how i view sex LOL. but its about 60/40 true for the rest of the stuff

  22. just celebrating 38 years of marriage with another aquarian. the secret to it is to give and take in all things . with a some fire works spicing up the mundane.

  23. i am an aq woman who has been dating an aq man for 9 yrs until now..i cheated on him once and now he tells me that his faith in relationship is over..he tried really hard to forget tho..believe me..I KNOW..a little later he started flirting with this girl which i found about and i made a huge fuss about it..he still wants to be friends but im not settling for anything less than an exclusive relationship..the problem here is i just cant give up on what he had for such a long was this yr that had all the drama but then we loved each other so much..what do i do to get him back HELP

  24. ok….i looked up her bday and she is a virgo not a libra….lost my aquarian man to a virgo….it doesn’t make it any better.

    and he is “in love with her” so there future is pretty much set.

  25. excuse me, where to yin n yang we know very well ……. thx 4 ur advice 😉

  26. Ladies if you want your aquarius man to believe in a future with you, there are many factors involved, but please do not be too yang. Show your feminine nature (yin). This is one thing that will help a lot.

  27. im aquarian woman. ive been best friends with my ex aquarian man for like 6 years. and were together for about 4 years (have a 2 year old with him). we were in love….im still in love with him. and i miss him…and want him back…i lost him to a freaking libra woman…there is no chance of getting him back now and that saddens me because i still love him.

  28. Hello there,
    Im an aquarius girl leo rising scorpion moon and have always seemed to be dating libras and find geminis really interesting. I had a little something with an aQ guy in the past although he wasnt giving me any space so I run away as fast i could and i got rid of him.

    Just started seeing (kind of 😛 ) an aQ guy a month ago which i knew 5 years ago. We ve been seeing each other every other day since it was Xmas holidays, so lots of free time, although at the beggining i really really really felt that this was tooooooo much! And he is been texting me and calling me eveyday.. I do enjoy meeting him, chating with him and everything. Although I do also know my self.. And if this is gonna get to the point of a “relationship” thats not gonna happen if he doesnt give me any space. I seriously do not understand! He is aQ doesnt he need his space as well????? :S Maybe because he is Libra Rising 😛 Anyhow… I did try to make him understand. Also he told me that he is inlove with me and that made me a bit scared as well. Was thinking to myself danger danger run away quick quick quick. And this is only because everything happened so quickly. I do get in relationships myself but not that easy and not that quickly.

    I dont know what to say about the match yet.. i would believe its an interesting match related to aquarius “standards” and surely could make really good friends. I will find out soon about the relationship (or not) part I suppose.

  29. As an aqua girl, I recently met an aqua man who also shares my bday. Never been involved with someone of my same sign. The sex with this man was incredible as tho we had been together before. Id like to see him again and he has expressed the same but for the first time, I’m not sure how to go about it because of the sign/bday coincidence. Like I’m afraid we are so much alike I may push him away but if I’m too distant he’ll disappear. Hmmmm…..

  30. its true dat aqua couple its a piece job. M an aqua woman currently dating an aqua man. He lyk gvng me lot of space. Its nt working i fl lyk m being hs roblem sumtyms. Help me God never bles me wit an aqua man

  31. I was involved with an Aquarius man and I am an Aquariuan woman. We had the best sex and we were very fond of eachother but I couldnt bring myself to begin a relationship. I looked at him as my bestfriend. I loved him. And now the relationship is over I find I am still in love but can’t be in a relationship but I want to keep him as my friend. We’ll see what happens I guess that’s the nature of Aquarius and Aquarius love. Geesh

  32. I can;t see how people think Aquarians are passive at ALL. Maybe in matters of the heart, Aquarians are reserved and a little aloof, but once we make a decision, there is little on Earth that can stop us from carrying it out, whether it’s a good idea or not. And not to toot my own horn, but it usually is. If an Aquarian is heading off in a weird direction, you should probably take a peek and see what he or she is heading towards.

    In love, I’ll admit it takes a while for me as an Aquarius to get the nerve up to approach someone. The reason for that is Aquarians generally pick someone to be involved with long-term – in general Aquarians are monogamous and avoid short-term flings. If I go after someone, I like to make sure they’re as serious as I am about the relationship before I get invested.

  33. i am an Aq. i meet girl who is AQ after some years
    try my best to get intoche with any person that AQi finally find one that is close in my naogbour hood.

    what yous aid is through she dont want accpet the fact we loved each other when looking at it from out sideout but … we have not really say this out to each other…am pressin on as a man…but she likes been by my side we do everything togther.stay in my house togther.i still want her to say i have accept to be your loved one…..but know she only told me that we can be best friends…then i ask her when she was born i realize she is an AQ.i had to look up for what is wrong with her…
    through this site. because no woman have ever given tough time to say i yes I DO…i came to realize that her saying NO…we can be just friends. was just a nutural thing from her… people thinK we are good lovers and we hv done everything togther…but within i know there is nothing going on… and am still asking her for a chance to be loved in her life….but she gave me excuse which i know is not real she just want to scare me .. so that i wont ask for that …she is very free with me… and can sleep on me do anything with me except kiss, and sex .well i gusss is because i just know her…. but i need an advice on how to go on with her because she is really pretty and i need her so much please advice me…

  34. i am an AQ.woman. but i have had many tauran friends, including my best friend n my first love. however i find them extremely hard hearted n practical. however i m still attracted to taurans in every cases…though i pacify myself thinking they are least bothered n i shud take dem practically..

    but recntly i met an AQ.guy who is freedom loving and unique in his nature . we know we share a great chemistry between ourselves but we show that this is nothing but friendship. he is very kind, intelligent, intellectual n outgoing but i sometimes feel he remains detached…he never texts from his own but when i text him he replies, again he wants to b on date with me[which he tells indirectly many tyms] bt i doubt whether he will be serious in a relationship

  35. I am an aqua woman, supposedly with Aqua rising, BUT, i hardly see myself in all the above comments. Ive always been someone who cares too much about what others think and in my last relationship I fell in love with a Leo and suffered so much heartache. Mostly due to my clingy, needy nature. I told you, Idont fit the definition.

    3 days ago, i met a guy through a friend for an informal PT job interview. We agreed on alot, chatted a lot and found out that he was an aquarius, too. Same afternoon, he texted me saying, it was a pleasure to meet, etc. by the end of the night, we had exchanged over 200 text msg and spent 3 hours on line chatting. The following night we went out to dinner and ended up spending the night together.

    I really like him. I started work today, It wasnt uncofortable. Thats where the Aqua comes in I guess. But im worried and dont want to ruin a nice, sweet, yet sexy relationship by getting emotionally involved. One part of me craves for a relationship, the other says, no, not the right time, not the right guy, etc.

    And all the negative comments on A/A relationships scare me, cuz as I said, I havent been a typical A and worry that I may scare him off.

    in my last relationship with a Leo, I was very clingy and needy and jealous. I was head over heels in love with him for 4 yrs. and my very UN-Aquarian attitude killed everything. I didnt recognize myself.

    i hurt myself, my dignity and the relationship for 4 years. Since the breakup Ive been hooking up with some guys that dont live in my town so that I dont go through any of this mess again. And ive been very happy. I dont miss or look for any of those guys, if they keep in touch i will.

  36. Well, I’ve read all your comments and I’ve recognised myself in most of them. I am an Aquarius (and very proud to be one) – yes, we are both great and awful (depending on the situation), we are smart and kind, and also stubborn and cold (again, it depends on the situation – you cannot be kind to someone who hurts you….). I was never involved with an Aquarius man, but I am convinced that only one of my own kind will be my soulmate (because he will understand me perfectly and won’t be surprised when I need space, or affection, or anything else and I’ll know exactly what he needs because it’s what I need….!). I was amused when I read the part about the sex; I am sorry to contradict you, all the Aquarian women I know (5, counting me) love sex – I think because we think that sex is natural, and funny, and interesting. Of course, toys are sometimes involved; after all, it’s 2010 and we are adults!!!!!

  37. I find this to be another incomplete, shallow and thoughtless profile of aquarians. If so much can be said of aquarians and other signs, why not the two together? I read a couple aquarian/xxx compatibility profiles and so I expected acquarius/aquarius to be as well thought out but… not. Aquarians are many things and one of them seems to be the constant butt of jokes for astrologers.

  38. im an aquarius woman who is with a aquarius and our “relationship” is more like an emotional rollercoaster.It seems like we’re together for entertainment,but we also bring out the best/worse in eachother honestly dealing with him is a job itself.

  39. I am a aquarius woman. I have never dated my own zodiac sign before but I have meant this guy who is an aquarius and it seems like we are connected for some odd reason. He is always texting me saying that he miss me but what is so funny about it, I be texting him at the same time when he be texting me. I really like him and what it to work but everything that you and others are saying about a aquarius man and woman dateing is scaring me because I don’t wanna loose him due to us being the same sign. Do you have any ointers?

  40. @Angie
    Makes sense that you’re both into music, too. Let’s see what kind of harmony you can create together. Thanks for dropping by the site.

  41. It was interesting to read this post and comments 😉 I just googled compatibility and found this page.
    I’m an A. woman, very “difficult to catch”. Never dated an aquarius guy. It was always Tauruses, Scorpios, Leos, Geminis..
    But now it got to the point where other signs just can’t really understand my mind and soul on aquarius level. I started dating a famous DJ (and I am a concert pianist and dj/producer myself). It’s unbelievable how much we understand each other, and he gives me plenty of energetic support that I need. We are energy units – for sure 😉 I like that expression.
    Aquarius is the sign that is uncommitted one until we find that “ideal” we are looking for. But would we ever find it, I don’t know ;)))
    Aquarius with Aquarius connection is very special. Unique+another unique makes it thrilling for both of us 🙂

  42. @ndn
    You Aquarians are just too much!

  43. Well, this is interesting! Two of my ex’s are aquarius men and I am an aquarius woman. The first, we challenged each other all the time. We were great friends before we got together. Then when we finally made it for sure, I had to remind myself that I was in a relationship. I would be here and there; just everywhere. He gave me my space the majority of the time but wanted to show me affection when I had important things to do and had to be on the go; he could only keep up sometimes. I got tired and bored with him. One morning I woke up and told him I wanted to be alone…for good. He still is chasing after me after 4 years. why I don’t know. He will start a relationship and the next thing I know, he’s back on my tail! but we are still friends, by my choice.

    The other man is a friend with benifits. A very handy thing to have I must admit! No ties, no strings, no questions or smothering. We don’t get around to it too often, but when we do it’s great. We made it clear that we will remain friends even though people think that we are a couple. I don’t wish we were and neither does he. this works for us. I think it works so well is that we both got out of long relationships and aren’t wanting those ties again. I see it as we are helping one another out.

  44. AGrant

    Very nice description! Good luck with your VIrgo lady, a wise choice for Aqua Man, and, please tell a friend about the site!

  45. I’m an Aq man who was in a relationship for two years with an Aq woman. It began with the speed of light, and yes, it was about trying to out-shock the other one. It was an exhausting two years but we accomplished more together that many couples do in 10 years. Eventually she he turned her back on us so fast my head spun and I got so angry because I wasnt finished playing the game yet. Funny because I didnt care that she was leaving or that our relationship was over but I wasnt finished playing yet. That is truly how I thought about it. I wont date an Aq woman again. I didnt like what it made of me. I am very interested in a new lady, a Virgo who interests me on a totally different level. Thank you for this site which has clarified some things for me…. 🙂

  46. That’s because you can never tell an Aquarian anything 🙂

  47. Aquarian girlDecember 26, 2009 at 1:15 pm

    My husband and I, both Aquarians, just celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary. We’re both very passionate and loving, and have two amazing daughters that we are exceedingly proud of. While it is true that we are best friends, and have to work to keep the sizzle in the relationship, we’ve been really happy all these years. Cold? Aloof? Hmm, not us. We do both appreciate some private space and “down time” but while a bit of this reading seems dead on, the rest leaves me puzzled.

  48. This is the coldest relationship that anyone can imagine, Aquarians along with Pisces are the most passive people of all. When two Aquarians want to start a relationship together, none of them bother to arrange the initial dates and therefore they loose contact. This is not the case with Pisces due to their clingy and dependent nature. The reason mentioned is the main reason why there are not too many Aqua-Aqua relationships compared to Aqua-other signs relationships. Another reason why this is the coldest relationship ever is because Aquarians really want to detach things from each other (as well as from themselves). Thus, In an Aqua-Aqua relationship, both of them want to detach from the other one and refuge into their ice tower, which this makes them extremely unable to make the least commitment to each other. Aquarians are the sort of people that if you go to them to solve your relationship problems, they are quicker and less hesitant than anyone else to offer you to separate from each other.
    By the way, dear Nancy, can you answer my question about the appropriate time of my heart surgery posted in the other page. I know the moon position is also very significant in the result of the surgery.

  49. Thanks for the great feedback, Sue!

  50. My husband and I are both Aquarius. We both give each other a lot of space. Your accuracy in describing our relationship is uncanny! Nancy’s astro readings are very interesting and unique.

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