The Aquarius man and Capricorn woman couple falls into the archetypal Greek realm of logos and eros. Aquarius is "the word" and Capricorn is "the word made flesh." Together they make the perfect pair. Aquarius is the visionary, master-minding in the conceptual range of pure archetype. Capricorn will draw the vision down into reality and ground it with commitment and structure. They are mysteriously drawn to each other because of this hidden bond; each is only half without the other. Capricorn brings out the visionary aspiration of the Aquarius because she has the potential of making it real.
How to Attract a Capricorn Woman as an Aquarius Man: If you are an Aquarius man trying to attract a Capricorn woman, it actually helps if you have your mind on other things. She expects you to be tripping out in the universe and she is eager to help you deal with the reality of people, places and things, while your inclination is to stay with forms and ideals. You are the architect for her building. Because of this connection, your first conversations may be rather peculiar and abstract. You may now know what you are fishing for in each other. The more you talk to her, the more inspired you will become until you realize that it is her energy that is giving you the extra realm of possibilities that suddenly becomes obvious to you. It doesn't even matter if she understands what you are talking about; it's all her energy.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Capricorn Woman: If you're a Capricorn woman trying to attract an Aquarius man, what you need to do is to get interested in what interests him. Your attraction to him will be based on your potential ability to ground his vision. He is attracted to your practical nature and your substance as a woman. Unlike other men who may find you a little boring or staid, you are exactly what this man is looking for. Ask practical questions. Question everything. Be the ladder that Jack in the Beanstalk climbs down to reach the earth. You also need to be tolerant of his eccentricities. It doesn't matter if he's smarter than you are. What he's looking for is a sounding board. Just talking to you helps him straighten out his thinking.
Degree of Romance: This combination can be very sweet in its attempt at being romantic. Neither sign is particularly gifted with the Romantic Gene, but for some reason when they get together, they start to feel like they should be. Each will be very tolerant of the other's attempts at romanticism, rudimentary as they are. Each will appreciate the attempt to include romanticism on the menu of an otherwise pretty strict diet.
Degree of Passion: The Aquarius man seems to feel the need to present passion at times but really it is not necessary and it isn't well-conveyed by an air sign. Air signs like Aquarius are meant to be detached, cool, logical and even distant in their relations with people and feelings. It's better to stick with what you know. Aquarius is a very loyal sign, although only around half the time. Loyalty will have to pass for passion with the Aquarius. It won't make any difference to the Capricorn woman who does not give a feelings-value to passion.
Degree of Friendship: The Capricorn woman and Aquarius man can be splendid friends. They collaborate well together. They have an equal degree of commitment, intelligence, and scope of understanding. They both think The Big Picture. They like working with large-scale models. They have leadership styles unique to them, and they enjoy being productive. They will be more challenged if they try to build a friendship on leisure, as neither is particularly leisure-oriented. They may very well make the perfect team.
Degree of Marriage: The Aquarius man and Capricorn woman is a great combination for marriage. If they are attracted to one another, it is on a serious wavelength of productivity and commitment. They respect one another for their intelligence and integrity. They learn to rely on one another for results. They tend to focus on the overall result rather than the details, which is something
Progression of Relationship: The relationship will move along at a steady pace. Both signs are likely busy with other things and only able to meet once or twice a week. They will tend to pass that meeting with quality time. The level of conversation will be quite high. They will focus immediately on future goals, and begin to dovetail their characteristics together as a team. Each meeting will seem to be the natural outgrowth of the one before. Capricorn is cautious, but Aquarius can be cautious too. They are likely to move slowly but surely toward a shared teamwork effort. This is one relationship where the woman is absolutely equal to the man in input and responsibility.
Sex: Sex will have a more prosaic dimension with this combination than with any other involving Aquarius. For some reason he is much more grounded with a Capricorn woman. She brings out his more conservative nature. He is likely to supply a steady supply of sex at particular intervals. This is responding to her needs as well as his. There will be little variety in the love-making. It is best looked at as a means of communication and the way to stay in touch with each other's vibes.
When It's Over: It's over when Aquarius has enough. He does not lose his temper easily but if something happens that cools him off, he may disintegrate into cold very rapidly and it will be very difficult to warm him up again, and you will see the famous closed mind of the Aquarius. She will feel locked out and confused because he has never failed to listen to her before, but his mind will be made up, and there is no changing it.
Rating: 8/10

#1 by greez on September 19th, 2009
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part of me hates astrology and doesnt believe a word of it, and yet when i read this, and i see my capricorn girlfriend i have to say to myself, what if? how could this be so accurate? i have nothing else to say besides this article is really strange and coincidental
#2 by nancy on September 19th, 2009
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Thanks for stopping by the site and giving me some feedback. Many Aquarian men are natural astrologers.
#3 by AAW on November 10th, 2009
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I am a Capricorn woman involved with an Aquarian man for over 4 years. I am stunned by the accuracy of the description. Just stunned. I have actually talked about how I can bring his vision to fruition and he has referred to us as a “team”. I am familiar with astrology and this is the first compatibility text which nailed what I am experiencing as part of a couple and as a Cappy gal. Well done and THANKS!
#4 by nancy on November 13th, 2009
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Thanks for the detailed and enthusiastic feedback and good luck with your Aquarian honey.
#5 by Cappie1622 on November 24th, 2009
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WOW I haven’t even physically met my Aquarian yet, and I have experienced most of those traits through conversation. and we will be meeting very soon, and already the chemistry is almost unbearable. As a Capricorn I find myself to be more similar to his traits in personality, but the grounded, and serious side is strong.
#6 by nancy on November 27th, 2009
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Thanks for the great feeedback. Thanks for visiiting the site. Tell all your friends.
#7 by Vero on December 6th, 2009
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Thanks for this great analysis! But why is the celebrity couples section blank? For Capricorn femme-Aquarius man couples, there are: Carla Bruni-Nicholas Sarkozy, Helena Christensen-Michael Hutchence, Loretta Young-Clark Gable. I’m sure there are others, but these are the only ones that come to mind at present. Thanks!
#8 by Vero on December 6th, 2009
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I’m back. Just thought of a couple more Cappy girls with Aquarius blokes: Christy Turlington-Edward Burns, Ali Wentworth (actress) – George Stephanopolous. OK, I’ll stop now. You’ll have me on the payroll next! Have a good evening, Vero
#9 by nancy on December 9th, 2009
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Thanks! I’ll add them.
#10 by Biased on January 23rd, 2010
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Seems like the aquarian man benefits more in the relationship than the capricorn woman but since she seems to be in ‘control’ of him and steers him on path I guess her needs are fulfilled…
#11 by nancy on January 25th, 2010
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@Biased
Ya’ think????????
#12 by Audrey on February 11th, 2010
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As a Capricorn woman, I have never been in a Romantic relationship with an Aquarius but I have been somewhat courted by three of them and the similarities are uncanny. Even though I never dated one, I experienced that rapid coldness, it’s pretty devastating.
#13 by solace on March 2nd, 2010
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well,as a capricorn woman i have known a guy for years but has never spoken to him about relationship till we saw this and read together…he is aquarius.and we seem to get along so well….this i read has made me realise that even if we come together one days we will be just so good for each other.he is all i read and i am all i read too…how amazing….babe i am waiting for that day….
#14 by Kristina on March 4th, 2010
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I am going to meet an Aquarius male this weekend that a friend is setting me up with. This is the first and ONLY site where what I read does not make the Aquarius male sound like a total DICK. I only hope you are right.
#15 by SearchingTheWord on March 31st, 2010
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I am a capricorn woman and am starting to like this Aquarian Man… And after spending whole evening trying to read about the compatibility between the 2 signs, I finally have one article and so many comments which make me feel better. I think my going over all these articles and trying to find about ‘us’ says everything about me as a carpicorn
… thanks for such a wonderful analysis. I haven’t met him yet but I really wish to… and there is so much in him that I really have liked him a lot.. and keeping my fingers crossed.. I wish this works out
#16 by Cj on April 15th, 2010
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In school and have had a shit load of great evenings with an Aquarius man. although we know we can never be together due to our circumstances it seems like we connect on some deeper level than most people do. this is the first article I’ve read where my feelings and the feelings I get from him are acurate. I hope one day we can grow up and maybe have a meaningful relationship. regardless I love the way I feel when I’m with him even if we are just playing video games.
#17 by mcl on April 17th, 2010
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i am a cappy gal in head over heels in love with my aquarius man! He doesn’t scare me off, he keeps me on my toes and the sex omg, is awesome! The chemistry is sooooo indescribable. I lose my cool when he is around. He is just sooo awesome and yeah there is like a big age difference! I’m the cougar and he is still rockin my world! We were NOT friends first, neither. I thought it was gona b a one nite stand and now it’s like 5 months now…
#18 by Cheyenne on April 20th, 2010
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I had a sort of meaningful friendship based thing going on between an Aquarius male…it was very, very strange, unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before. The electric between us was off the hook!…And then I blew it. Now he wants nothing to do with me. I honestly don’t know specifically what I did except at out of my character because I was going through some upheavals in my life. He had high expectations for me and I guess I let him down…i guess there is no hope for us to ever be friends again. It was great while it lasted though, and I sure did learn my lesson.
#19 by Mia on April 28th, 2010
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I’m a capri woman, and I liked this article a lot. I have an aquarian friend for just over a year and though we clicked instantly, we have had our shares of disagreements and fights all along. Lately, we had this one night of passion and it was so incredibly awesome. I’m not sure if it is ever going to turn into a serious relationship or whether it might ruin our friendship…. Frankly, I am quite apprehensive about the future as I would never want to lose him as a friend. Any advice?
#20 by nancy on April 29th, 2010
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@Vero Thanks for the tips of celebs.
#21 by nancy on May 3rd, 2010
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@Mia Not to worry. Aquarians can mix sex and friendship, no problem.
#22 by Clark on May 3rd, 2010
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Interesting read. I am an aquarius male dating a cappy female. much of this is so true. We are a great team when we are doing anything together and we couldnt be happier. I am the younger one and we have been seeing each other for about a year. One thing I do get frustrated with, is her tendancy to “show me that she is going to do something regardless of me and my decision, advice, and feelings.” One thing I have to know is, do I stand my ground and show her I will not tolerate the behavior and that there are consequences for her actions, or do I stand down and do or say nothing. She is the love of my life for the first time in a long long time and I would give her the world, Im just not going to feel like I said nothing at all when its hard enough as it is for me to open up. “What was she thinking”
#23 by ansh on May 5th, 2010
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Well actually i hav one capri woman as my frend and generally we argue fr nothin .. we hav verbal fights almost evryday. i am aqua. and i m not getting why we both are behaving so ?
Is that the stars are nt allowing us to become frenz ?
acording to the givin discription it shud be something different but its not evn goin in that direction! I want an explaination to it Please !
Thank YOu !
#24 by Clark on May 12th, 2010
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Nancy, any direction or advice? I sense its the stubborness in both but general rule says we should be compatible if we understand each others quirks. I also sense the true comment of cappys age backwards so to speak. The older it seems the more she seems to display teenage like behavior. “Play along or ignore” who knows?
#25 by nancy on May 13th, 2010
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More likely Aquarius to display the teen behavior!
#26 by Vero on May 16th, 2010
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Nancy thanks so much for putting up those Cap-Aqua couples… I think I was feeling a tad over-zealous that night. great site, I hope you keep adding to it (p.s. I loved the Scorpio-Aqua analysis; tots made me jealous LOL)
#27 by Vero on May 16th, 2010
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@Clark I am a Cappy girl in love with younger Aqua boy. One thing I notice is we’re both really proud.
I’d def tell her how you feel…no good to bottle things up…maybe try to tell her in a humorous way, i.e. ‘we’re both pretty strong-willed, we should try & take turns with our stubbornness ‘ hahaha, give her a kiss and laugh it off…
be patient if you can
good luck, space creature!
#28 by nancy on May 19th, 2010
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There will soon be a SEXY TIME section. Also visit http://www.bemyastrologer.com/optinnewsletter.html for more articles and to sign up for my newsletter.
#29 by Kristen on May 22nd, 2010
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Like my friend before me CJ I have Been seeing an Aquarius man as a Capricorn woman. we met a few times before he asked me to be his “friend with benefits”. I happily agreed! I am young and though I am
not one to sleep around I have alway felt comfortable with him so I knew I could detach myself from every catching deep feelings. Well I guess I was wrong. next thing I knew we were spending more and more time together. the conversations were long and the sex was amazing but the next morning he would treat me like a stranger.I started notice we would become jealous of eachothers other romantic partners. one night he opened up to me more than usual and told me he was jealous of the other guy I was seeing and it made him sick to know he wasn’t the only one, yet he never wanted anything serious because I was talking to other people. but why would I give up other men for a playboy like him. now that we live thousands of miles apart there is little communication. He will text me once every bluemoon and tell me he misses me but nothing ever more, not even a reply back to my “miss you too!” Deep down inside I feel as if something could work between us if he wouldn’t be so distant and I could put my pride to the side. I am returning to where we met in a few weeks should I try to contact him or leave things as they are? Please help!!!
#30 by cassie on June 25th, 2010
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I am a capricorn woman and inlove w/ an aquarius man. one thing that I’ve noticed is that.mostly woman are more older than men.when it comes to this relationship.based on my own.I’m a year older than him. I’m so into him,though we haven’t met yet.we just talk through fb or twitter.we don’t talk that very often but when we do.he makes me smile a lot! he’s very sweet,a truly gentle man,always cheers me up,telling me not to be down(as a capricorn.we’re very pessimist!) but all of a sudden there were days where he’ll became cold, not talking to me for days.ignoring me.sometimes I even make the first move.he confuses me a lot! I don’t know if he really likes me or just want to play around or be friends?? but there’s something about our conversation that sometimes make me feel that I’m special than any other girls that he’s been talking with..any advice nancy?? and oh, btw can you read a couples compatibility through their date of births??
#31 by Wale on June 25th, 2010
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Nancy, you are a genius, I recently met my Capricorn girlfriend and you bet, nothing has ever clicked like that for me in a relationship. I’m sure going to give this relationship my all, having read all you wrote about the two signs. Bundle of thanks for your genuity.
#32 by forsakeneyed on July 30th, 2010
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This article is one of the few that gives me hope! I have been in a difficult but rewarding relationship with an aquarian man for two years. Being a cap woman that he is just now learning to understand can be sooooo frustrating. But recently he has changed his cool behavior toward me and showed me what he threatened when we first met, that he’d never hurt me and never leave me. Odd for an aquarian man to admit so early, and i didnt believe him for over a year. Naturally pessimistic capricorn trait, but also worried his supreme coolness at first would last forever (IT DOESNT
DDD), but to anyone in a Cap-Aqua relationship, KEEP AT IT. work together and it will be something to be reckoned with.
#33 by Stephanie on August 3rd, 2010
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I have the pleasure of being married to an Aquarius man for sixteen years(I am a Capricorn girl, of course!) For the first few years, we argued alot, but that’s only because we are both strong-willed and independant individuals. As time went on, we learned when to let the other take the “lead”. This advice is for the ladies, when your Aquarius man is angry with you, back off and give him space, he’ll come to you when he’s ready to talk. And this advice is for the gentlemen, when your Capricorn lady has a problem, don’t stress about it! It’s not that she doesn’t value your input, she just wants to try and solve it without worrying you about it. Eventually, if she can’t solve the problem on her own, you will be the first to know. And just as a reminder, remember to always be honest with each other because both signs hate to be lied too.
#34 by Gypsy on August 19th, 2010
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I’m a Capricorn women married to a Aquarian man for 12 yrs we have 6 children. When we first me it was instant connection On every level even sex was awesome. After being together for a few more years he started to change a little being more withdrawn and etc and wanting more independence having second thoughts about having a family. Even thou I was doing everything in my power to work with him (I know about his traits and how I can work around them) nope didn’t work, We went thru tough times. but we are working on things now so far seems okay. Still continuing working with his traits But I can’t help but sometimes feel like it’s not fair that the Aquarian man has to be so stubborn and not work around mine as well and even sex is zero now. It just fusterates me that they are just so STUBBORN and refuse to. It seems to be all about him and his traits.