Capricorn Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility
Famous Aquarius-Capricorn Couples: Carla Bruni-Nicholas Sarkozy, Helena Christensen-Michael Hutchence, Loretta Young-Clark Gable, Christy Turlington-Edward Burns, Ali Wentworth (actress) – George Stephanopolous. [thanks, Vero]
The Aquarius man and Capricorn woman couple falls into the archetypal Greek realm of logos and eros. Aquarius is “the word” and Capricorn is “the word made flesh.” Together they make the perfect pair. Aquarius is the visionary, master-minding in the conceptual range of pure archetype. Capricorn will draw the vision down into reality and ground it with commitment and structure. They are mysteriously drawn to each other because of this hidden bond; each is only half without the other. Capricorn brings out the visionary aspiration of the Aquarius because she has the potential of making it real.
How to Attract a Capricorn Woman as an Aquarius Man: If you are an Aquarius man trying to attract a Capricorn woman, it actually helps if you have your mind on other things. She expects you to be tripping out in the universe and she is eager to help you deal with the reality of people, places and things, while your inclination is to stay with forms and ideals. You are the architect for her building. Because of this connection, your first conversations may be rather peculiar and abstract. You may now know what you are fishing for in each other. The more you talk to her, the more inspired you will become until you realize that it is her energy that is giving you the extra realm of possibilities that suddenly becomes obvious to you. It doesn’t even matter if she understands what you are talking about; it’s all her energy.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Capricorn Woman: If you’re a Capricorn woman trying to attract an Aquarius man, what you need to do is to get interested in what interests him. Your attraction to him will be based on your potential ability to ground his vision. He is attracted to your practical nature and your substance as a woman. Unlike other men who may find you a little boring or staid, you are exactly what this man is looking for. Ask practical questions. Question everything. Be the ladder that Jack in the Beanstalk climbs down to reach the earth. You also need to be tolerant of his eccentricities. It doesn’t matter if he’s smarter than you are. What he’s looking for is a sounding board. Just talking to you helps him straighten out his thinking.
Degree of Romance: This combination can be very sweet in its attempt at being romantic. Neither sign is particularly gifted with the Romantic Gene, but for some reason when they get together, they start to feel like they should be. Each will be very tolerant of the other’s attempts at romanticism, rudimentary as they are. Each will appreciate the attempt to include romanticism on the menu of an otherwise pretty strict diet.
Degree of Passion: The Aquarius man seems to feel the need to present passion at times but really it is not necessary and it isn’t well-conveyed by an air sign. Air signs like Aquarius are meant to be detached, cool, logical and even distant in their relations with people and feelings. It’s better to stick with what you know. Aquarius is a very loyal sign, although only around half the time. Loyalty will have to pass for passion with the Aquarius. It won’t make any difference to the Capricorn woman who does not give a feelings-value to passion.
Degree of Friendship: The Capricorn woman and Aquarius man can be splendid friends. They collaborate well together. They have an equal degree of commitment, intelligence, and scope of understanding. They both think The Big Picture. They like working with large-scale models. They have leadership styles unique to them, and they enjoy being productive. They will be more challenged if they try to build a friendship on leisure, as neither is particularly leisure-oriented. They may very well make the perfect team.
Degree of Marriage: The Aquarius man and Capricorn woman is a great combination for marriage. If they are attracted to one another, it is on a serious wavelength of productivity and commitment. They respect one another for their intelligence and integrity. They learn to rely on one another for results. They tend to focus on the overall result rather than the details, which is something they have in common as well. For something with as big a scope and longevity as the idealized, committed, marriage partnership, these two have what it takes to bring it home. Aquarius keeps drafting new plans as times change. Capricorn keeps bringing them back to the drawing board when they don’t fit reality any more. Capricorn woman and Aquarius man is a real winner.
Progression of Relationship: The relationship will move along at a steady pace. Both signs are likely busy with other things and only able to meet once or twice a week. They will tend to pass that meeting with quality time. The level of conversation will be quite high. They will focus immediately on future goals, and begin to dovetail their characteristics together as a team. Each meeting will seem to be the natural outgrowth of the one before. Capricorn is cautious, but Aquarius can be cautious too. They are likely to move slowly but surely toward a shared teamwork effort. This is one relationship where the woman is absolutely equal to the man in input and responsibility.
Sex: Sex will have a more prosaic dimension with this combination than with any other involving Aquarius. For some reason he is much more grounded with a Capricorn woman. She brings out his more conservative nature. He is likely to supply a steady supply of sex at particular intervals. This is responding to her needs as well as his. There will be little variety in the love-making. It is best looked at as a means of communication and the way to stay in touch with each other’s vibes.
When It’s Over: It’s over when Aquarius has enough. He does not lose his temper easily but if something happens that cools him off, he may disintegrate into cold very rapidly and it will be very difficult to warm him up again, and you will see the famous closed mind of the Aquarius. She will feel locked out and confused because he has never failed to listen to her before, but his mind will be made up, and there is no changing it.
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i need advice on my situation with a cap, me being an aquarius. who is willing to listen and give advice?
@ taylor: yes, I’m def willing to listen & give advice….
I am a Capricorn woman, in love with an Aquarius man (going thru a rough patch at the moment though).
what’s going on with you & your Cap?
So what kind of advice you need taylor? Tell me more” Jayme” lol!
@ leigh I just love your post it is all so very true everything im going throw with my aquarius. but that im not talking to a different guy. we dated before, my summer out of high school. but i was going throw so much at the time, so we ended up ending it. I have knew from the first time i met him in freshman year that he was the one i wanted. but now after reading this page and your post i understand why. right now i am trying everything to win him back but it is soooo hard….. we where seeing each other for a little bet this summer up i did just get out of one very ugly relationship and he he been single for some time…. he isn’t looking for a relationship right now, and i really shouldn’t be trying to get into one again so soon. i waited for him throw high school. i will wait for him again. i know that he is the one. but i feel that if i tell him he’ll just try and push me away…. how do i make sure he stays in my life this time and get him to come after me this time?
I don’t understand how astrology works, but, apparently, it does. I am in love with a Capricorn woman, who dumped me because of the impracticality of the relationship.
Here’s the funny part: I find her practicality profoundly attractive, and her dumping me on that account only makes me love her more.
I really never have loved nor likely ever will love anyone else, and here I am happy about having been dumped because I finally found someone worthy of dumping me. That’s life, I guess.
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Aquaman II, I am the reverse of your situation (I’m Aqua female) and I totally agree with what you said lol! It’s like they’re us in a really weird way. I think it’s the Saturn being the ruling planet, honestly. He even dumped me like I would dump a guy… it’s funny how that kind of stuff work sometimes.
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this aquarius guy has my head spinning..i dont knw how to deal with this..he told me he loved me but i dont know if i should believe him..any advice for this confused capricorn ?
hi Gina – give him a lot of space…understanding, patience & space…that’s what they love!
good luck, a fellow Cappy
…and please let us know how it goes!
Help I’m an older Capricorn woman in love with a younger Aquarius man. I’m 17 years older than him. He recently went thru a terrible incident and I realized that I don’t want to live without him
I told him that I loved him the other day and he told me I didn’t love him. bc he didn’t love me. I feel like I did something to hurt him but he wont tell me. I have apologized many times but I don’t know what for and now I feel like he might be gone forever. I hurt so bad I don’t know what to do. How do I fix it, how do I get him to talk to me he’s so cold.
Hey id just like some advic, im a capricorn male with an aquarian woman. Every horoscope i read says its not gonna work and we are not meant to be l, care about her a lot l, idk if sould mates are real but to me she feels right, anyone know what i should expect out of this relationship? How to make it hold, we are having a child together, accidental but it really has brought us close in a special way…idk i just dont know what to expect, she has the power to destroy my world…. help tips…idk
ok , so im an aquarian male and ive been dating this capricorn woman for 3 years but on and off . the thing is with her the more i push her away the more she try’s to find me , but if i start showing love ecc …. she just goes off again what’s the deal ??
Luke – could you provide more detail on under what circumstances she pushes you away? It could be that she is scared and/or trying to test how serious you are about her… we Capricorns are very protective of our feelings & afraid to trust others.
hang in there-
I am a 20 year old Capricorn woman in college. I am falling for a 22 year old Aqua man more and more each day. I met him at my job in July and right from the start we had tons of chemistry. We went on a lot of dates throughout the summer and I could tell from the way he looks at me that he has deep feelings for me. Now im back at school and we’ve had some rough patches since we’re far apart. We still talk but not as often and are not exclusive. I dont know whats going to happen and neither does he but I have hope that we are meant to be in the future once we mature and accomplish some more of our goals. He has told me that he sees us being together in the future. I hope this gives any Capricorn or Aquarius match hope that our signs can have a beautiful lasting love with patience dedication and honesty. Signed, a hopeless romantic Cap
I am a Capricorn woman “involved” with an Aquarius man. We actually didn’t speak for about 9 mths because we had a falling-out over some fotos I found of him on Facebook with someone else — but I never told him I saw them. I just stopped being as friendly (OK, I admit – I was downright cold- but he has been cold also). He definitely knows that I know about the other girl b/c I was at a party at which they were there together (I nevertheless had a great time with my friends & stayed away).
OK…so a bit over the summer & recently we started talking a bit. About 2 weeks ago, he did something really really sweet for me, and it was like an apology…I think we both felt like progress was made & wounds were healed. He then went away on business for 2 weeks.
Yesterday I saw him for the first time since that ‘nice’ day, I was a little shy, but when I tried to talk to him, he was EXTREMELY cold — i.e….completely ignored me and acted, very blatantly, as if he hated me. Literally made it very obvious that he was ignoring me. It was AWFUL!
Would someone take a stab at what this means? I feel so hurt & confused and I wonder where my sweet friend has gone…I thought we were back in good shape…how do I react to this?
Am a cap gal and I dated an aqua guy long back…it ended really bad and i had to end it to save myself from throwing my life at him. there were so many things wrong with the whole thing..it was long distance, he would never really make me a part of his life and yet say things like we are soul mates and he loves me to death. it was very hurtful for me as words without actions don’t mean anything to me. still i kept my faith until in the end i found some very personal and disturbing things about him from someone else that just shattered me…
after 2 yrs of showing such passion n all…it ended with an sms….. i was so hurt then that i couldn’t ask to meet him..but he didn’t even have the courtesy to meet me in person and explain his side to me even if it meant we were over…
i never had a closure and i still get heartbroken thinking about it… we had a connection that i hvnt had with anyone else…i gave with all my heart and for him it was just some arbitrary fling…atleast thats what he made me feel.. getting over him has been the hardest thing for me ..
i am married to a taurean now and its all fine…but i have developed some very serious trust issues bcos of the earlier experience..and the hurt refuses to go… i really dont kno why…
my request to all aqua men is…cap gals might not show it but they are intensely emotional.. not many people know this. when she loves you – pl keep her faith… if you dont feel the same ..make it very clear. we dont like to play games in this dept. and we will appreciate your honesty. even if the relationship ends there will be respect. Aqua guys usually move on very quickly i think… so please please dont lead the cap gal on to a dead end…
I am a Capricorn girl and am really into this Aquarius man… We recently started talking after not seeing each other for 10-15 years, which is a really long time especially since 15 years ago we were in the same 5th grade class together. But anyways… We’ve been talking since August and have been meeting to see each other about once a week… We try to more, but we both have little kids so it can be a little difficult. I have totally fallen for him since the first time I met him… there’s just something about this boy that drives me absolutely crazy!! I can’t explain it… I was soo scared and nervous to meet him the first time but when I did it was like we were old friends. I’m usually shy and reserved at first until I get to know someone but its not like that with him. And when were together its like nothing else matters in the world. I only wish I knew how he felt about me… Every since we had great sex I can’t help but think I’m nothing but a booty call… But then again this could just be me over-analyzing every aspect of my life like usual. My sister and mom and close friends know that I have been seeing him… but he hasn’t told any of his family about me and the only reason any of his friends know is because my brother has a lot of the same friends. I don’t know if hes just unsure of where this relationship is going or what?
Another thing that bothers me is he has only had one serious girlfriend ever and she cheated on him, so he has issues with trust. He doesn’t understand that I’m not that kind of girl and I would never sleep with anyone else even though we aren’t in a committed relationship. I want commitment but from what I’ve been reading that’s nearly impossible to get from an aquarian man… Gee willikers!! I know he likes his space and so do I… we can go days without talking but when we do its like we never stopped and I love that…
I just dont know what he wants out of this relationship… how do I get him to tell me what he thinks… I mean the mystery is hot, but if its not going anywhere than I really don’t want to get my heart ripped to pieces either… I know hes a sweetheart and wouldn’t intentionally rip my heart to shreds, but I do have feelings even though I refuse to let anyone see them!! Please helP!
Hello! I am a capricorn woman in love with an aquarious man. I have been drawn to him since the moment I first saw him. It was as though the universe sent me the person i’ve been searching for. It took us awhile to converse but as soon as we did it was instant fireworks. He confessed that his heart dropped as soon as I walked in the room and that he feels he was supposed to have met me. It all seemed so perfect, until I found out he was in a relationship. It killed me hopes but we decided to get to know each other just to see where it would go. The more time we spent together, the stronger our bond grew and the more convinced I was that he was perfect for me. He was absolutely intrigued by me and I was of him. After a few months of this puppy love, I asked him to make a decision to end his relationship or let me go. He simply couldnt, so I walked away. I know it hurt him but I lost hope that it would ever be something. I ended communication and tried to move on, and I simply couldnt. He is constantly on my mind, I feel so heart broken. So the other day I told him in a poem how much I missed him. He responded by saying that he still thinks of me everyday. It was a shock, I figured he had written me off. He wants to casually meet up for coffee. It scares me though because hes still with her. But I feel that after it all, our love and connection is still strong. I dont want to miss a chance with me again. What do you think I should do about mending things with his aquarious man?
Him*
Well, I’m an Aquarius male who’s been smitten by a Cap. girl. She looks so bloody wholesome! Don’t know if it’s going to go anywhere, though, I’ve been with one before and they can be rather dull and predictable and jealous. What’s with that? Don’t they know that the water bearers are the coolest people in the universe???? Advice for all you Caps…..lose the jealousy, give him space, don’t piss him off and he’ll love you to death! LOL!
To all you Cap girls, DO YOUR HOMEWORK! Good Astrology is accurate and scientific. Only an earth sign would expect an air sign to go against it’s nature! Duh! Aqua’s aren’t emotional, they don’t trust emotion. I ended it with a Cap girl because she cheated on me and wouldn’t own up to it, because she was insecure. I never cheated on her, but her stupid “emotions” ruined the whole thing. There’s a reason 75 percent of true geniuses and inventors come from this one sign. If things were “fair”, it should only be about 8 percent. Know who and what you’re dealing with….I know personally I’m the most loyal guy around, so what’s that say about you “earth” chicks. huh?????
Oh, nice column by the way! This Cap girl I like is also year of the horse, and I’m year of the sheep, which is about as good as it gets in Chinese astrology. Is there any hope???????
@ Randall Selinger –
i am a Capricorn in love with an Aquarius….i definitely think there’s hope for you and your Capricorn…but be patient with us Earth-lings…not everyone is as ahead of the universe as you Aquarians! Forgiveness and patience…
I know this can be a great connection
happy new year & keep in touch!
Hey everyone reading this page! I’m an Aquarius guy and u actually started reading this page because I believe the girl I want to spend my life with (well considering I’ve like her for 4 years now I think this) is a Capricorn girl. I’m also actually in high school and I know that seems like an early opinion of wanting to be with her but… I don’t know. Well this girl I have to say is one of my best friends though I can’t say she feels as much of that, more like I think she thinks I’m a friend and even kinda gets annoyed by me, or so she says haha. Well even with that my feelings have never left me, i just can’t get over her really. I’ve told her I’ve liked her before and she didn’t like me and now she doesn’t think I like her but I do. Any advice whatsoever even if just to move on?
Capricorn woman who has dated three aquarius men. This relationship can go either way. Capricorn women give aqua men an intellectual challenge while still maintaining their mystery and an sir if femininity. Aquarius men can really help the cap lady relax and indulge in utter silliness, reminding us that life is fun. I think this relationship works best if three aqua man is more mature than his cap lady which can be hard…not necessarily older, but emotionally and financially responsible. Young-minded aqua men stretch the truth greatly and are very shallow.
Im a 27 yr old cap woman and im in love with a aquarius man! We have a special connection that ive never had before! There was 100′s of girls around and he wanted me. He spotted me as soon as i walked in the door. Weve had ups and downs but we are destin to be together. I love this man more than life itself! And he feels the same way! He is 10 yrs my senior, my lover, friend and my soulmate! Cap gals and Aqua men are the perfect couple!
Capricorn female, here.
My first relationship was an Aquarius my first year in college for nearly a year. He was funny at first, but then he started re-using his old jokes over and over and began to smother me with way too much affection. I’m not very comfortable with PDA and no matter how many times I asked him, he would not stop grabbing my butt in public (his excuse would be “I forgot.” which irritated me to no end). He would also want to cuddle every second we were together and I really just don’t like a lot of physical contact. My hugs to my own family are even pretty awk. For the most part, he didn’t really seem to care what I was comfortable with and only seemed concerned with what he wanted from me. Unfortunately, I’m pretty cooperative, so I went through a lot of PDA (even though I tried to repeatedly communicate how I really didn’t like it) before I’d finally had enough of it.
Eventually it just got kind of awkward and we both decided to end it in a fairly civil way over summer.
All in all, it wasn’t a terrible experience, but I’m a little bit afraid of relationships now because of it since I feel like I won’t be listened to.
I am a Capricorn and my boyfriend is an Aquarius. Its our 4th year. Honeymoon period doesn’t end for us. It seems I fall in love with him every single day. No distance is ever a problem. We never ever went through issues that other people have. But yeah, we both have the same moon (taurus) and mercury signs (capricorn), and our venus signs are highly compatible (cap/pisces). Moreover, he is in my 7th house (soulmate house). Perhaps, thats why things are so great between us. Within 6 months of our meeting, we even decided to marry and we have been working towards it now. He is my entire world and I still have trouble believing he is real.
Hey im a aquarius man and i seem to have trouble with a capricorn female ive been knowing her for about 8 months now and im trying to get closer… i dont know if she likes me or not, its hard to tell can anyone help me out
It would be much apreciated
Not to mention she is a very perverted woman, but i like it.
capricorn female here: been with my aqua Man for 4yr now and yes on and off… RANDALL question how can a aqua not think off emotions if cheating is offensive i would think you dont care!! aqua men have a load of contradictions. How do you not piss a aqua man off???? if you guys emotions are so shallow and have a dont give a crap attitude. but anyway… aqua men get on my nerves!!!! they mean one thing then do somethan else geminis are crazy too i dont look at it as brillance i look at it as reckless, kids that are always out of reality its unbelieveable.. how crazy they are and it makes since too them. im starting too think that aquas do not have feelings SORRY!!!