Capricorn Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility


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The Aquarius man and Capricorn woman couple falls into the archetypal Greek realm of logos and eros. Aquarius is “the word” and Capricorn is “the word made flesh.” Together they make the perfect pair. Aquarius is the visionary, master-minding in the conceptual range of pure archetype. Capricorn will draw the vision down into reality and ground it with commitment and structure. They are mysteriously drawn to each other because of this hidden bond; each is only half without the other. Capricorn brings out the visionary aspiration of the Aquarius because she has the potential of making it real.

How to Attract a Capricorn Woman as an Aquarius Man: If you are an Aquarius man trying to attract a Capricorn woman, it actually helps if you have your mind on other things. She expects you to be tripping out in the universe and she is eager to help you deal with the reality of people, places and things, while your inclination is to stay with forms and ideals. You are the architect for her building. Because of this connection, your first conversations may be rather peculiar and abstract. You may now know what you are fishing for in each other. The more you talk to her, the more inspired you will become until you realize that it is her energy that is giving you the extra realm of possibilities that suddenly becomes obvious to you. It doesn’t even matter if she understands what you are talking about; it’s all her energy.

How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Capricorn Woman: If you’re a Capricorn woman trying to attract an Aquarius man, what you need to do is to get interested in what interests him. Your attraction to him will be based on your potential ability to ground his vision. He is attracted to your practical nature and your substance as a woman. Unlike other men who may find you a little boring or staid, you are exactly what this man is looking for. Ask practical questions. Question everything. Be the ladder that Jack in the Beanstalk climbs down to reach the earth. You also need to be tolerant of his eccentricities. It doesn’t matter if he’s smarter than you are. What he’s looking for is a sounding board. Just talking to you helps him straighten out his thinking.


Degree of Romance: This combination can be very sweet in its attempt at being romantic. Neither sign is particularly gifted with the Romantic Gene, but for some reason when they get together, they start to feel like they should be. Each will be very tolerant of the other’s attempts at romanticism, rudimentary as they are. Each will appreciate the attempt to include romanticism on the menu of an otherwise pretty strict diet.

Degree of Passion: The Aquarius man seems to feel the need to present passion at times but really it is not necessary and it isn’t well-conveyed by an air sign. Air signs like Aquarius are meant to be detached, cool, logical and even distant in their relations with people and feelings. It’s better to stick with what you know. Aquarius is a very loyal sign, although only around half the time. Loyalty will have to pass for passion with the Aquarius. It won’t make any difference to the Capricorn woman who does not give a feelings-value to passion.

Degree of Friendship: The Capricorn woman and Aquarius man can be splendid friends. They collaborate well together. They have an equal degree of commitment, intelligence, and scope of understanding. They both think The Big Picture. They like working with large-scale models. They have leadership styles unique to them, and they enjoy being productive. They will be more challenged if they try to build a friendship on leisure, as neither is particularly leisure-oriented. They may very well make the perfect team.

Degree of Marriage: The Aquarius man and Capricorn woman is a great combination for marriage. If they are attracted to one another, it is on a serious wavelength of productivity and commitment. They respect one another for their intelligence and integrity. They learn to rely on one another for results. They tend to focus on the overall result rather than the details, which is something they have in common as well. For something with as big a scope and longevity as the idealized, committed, marriage partnership, these two have what it takes to bring it home. Aquarius keeps drafting new plans as times change. Capricorn keeps bringing them back to the drawing board when they don’t fit reality any more. Capricorn woman and Aquarius man is a real winner.

Progression of Relationship: The relationship will move along at a steady pace. Both signs are likely busy with other things and only able to meet once or twice a week. They will tend to pass that meeting with quality time. The level of conversation will be quite high. They will focus immediately on future goals, and begin to dovetail their characteristics together as a team. Each meeting will seem to be the natural outgrowth of the one before. Capricorn is cautious, but Aquarius can be cautious too. They are likely to move slowly but surely toward a shared teamwork effort. This is one relationship where the woman is absolutely equal to the man in input and responsibility.


Sex: Sex will have a more prosaic dimension with this combination than with any other involving Aquarius. For some reason he is much more grounded with a Capricorn woman. She brings out his more conservative nature. He is likely to supply a steady supply of sex at particular intervals. This is responding to her needs as well as his. There will be little variety in the love-making. It is best looked at as a means of communication and the way to stay in touch with each other’s vibes.

When It’s Over: It’s over when Aquarius has enough. He does not lose his temper easily but if something happens that cools him off, he may disintegrate into cold very rapidly and it will be very difficult to warm him up again, and you will see the famous closed mind of the Aquarius. She will feel locked out and confused because he has never failed to listen to her before, but his mind will be made up, and there is no changing it.

Rating: 8/10

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127 Replies to “Capricorn Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility”

  1. I am an the Aquarius guy and for the most part here I have seen equal parts of truth when I look over what every woman’s opinion of whom we TRULY are….with the exception on one, the 50 yr old Capricorn cheating on the Aquarius guy. sweetie, you are paranoid and as soon as you found someone you like/love/enjoy (US) you can settle your train wrecked ass down….you want to sabotage It before It’s done to you.

    I think therapy, medication and a few zaps to your ego with electricity with an accompanying bitch slap from me and the rest of Aquarian Nation should remedy that stupidity! My guess, you always have the last word In everything you do because you don’t want It done to you! Also, you probably have Daddy-Daughter Drama Issues because Daddy treated your Mother just as you are doing to Aquarian Nation! Aaaahhheemmm!

    Anyhoo.. moving on…we are moving and looking…

    If there Is anything I can say to you ladies….be patient with us Aquarians. Easy In theory – hard In practice. Try being In our shoes! Fitting Into society Is worse than square peg Into round hole at times.. So to us, we are used to being out of the norm society demands we subscribe to.

    If we find a relationship that Is too difficult with our typical fringe problems. we become overwhelmed. We will either: 1. cocoon (get quiet and find a realm where the world stops) and regroup or 2. find a path of least resistance…(ie Not You – maybe a broken toilet to fix or TV show that didn’t get watched!)

    Here Is the million dollar secret:

    while doing #2…we are really doing #1.

    Whether It Is an hour, 1/2 day or a few days – your Aquarian will vary..

    when your Aquarian fella re-surfaces – his problem has been worked out In his head 15,000 different ways and Is ready to go back to work as If nothing happened! Because of his loyalty to you (HIS TRUE ROOTS) he’s back.

    One thing about what I’ve seen here about you Capri Ladies, unless you personally witness an Aquarian cheating on you – your ego Is running so many scenarios so fast that even WE can’t keep up!

    Remember the distraction thing earlier?? Its like watching TV without really watching.. yah we are there but our mind Is elsewhere. When we snap out of our altered state and come home… your ego Is off to the races when we get back – as soon as we get Inside the door – your jealous ass Is questioning, yelling, even demanding an answer for whereabouts/details and If Its not answered timely you are reaching for the knife or gun and hell – what’s the use!!! If you are going to accuse us of doing cheating we might as well fan the flames so hot you’ll have no choice BUT to believe your own drama! Hey.. we watch Soaps too 😉

    … If It was me, I’d lead you on too….just to see what color the fire Is coming out of your mouth, nose and ass!

    Remember.. I’m calm so to me…that’s entertainment! (So It Is a joke – amusing. fill In the blank) Now can you understand why we are emotionally distant…when we resurface and snap out of our funk – come back, we already worked out our emotions, reactions, timing, thoughts. whatever etc, etc, etc, etc. The heavy lifting Is already done!

    We WANT to now see YOUR loyalty to how you solve and resolve a problem while we stopped our world, got off and calmed down to find our way through.

    So now…with a firm grip on our reality we are ready to make our decision WITH YOU! We want to see our LOYAL PARTNER (YOU) and your solutions ready so WE can compare and contrast so WE CAN FIT the pieces together!!

    Think about all what I have told you.. and you gals wonder why we are cold when we decide on something that others would be a basket case about…too bad you didn’t see us Inside our heads pounding out all the possibilities for the Good of All Concerned! Yep..we think of everybody! Just be ready to get an answer that Is sharp and swift because Its been considered from directions you Capricorn Women couldn’t even conceive.

    Then Imagine this, we want your side since the grounding (Practical) part completes our solutions from outer space – only you could provide to us…that is why we return willingly. deep down we know …We need Y O U.

    So..

    Be Patient

    Be Present

    Be In the Moment – with Love

    Don’t Yell, demand, fret, accuse.. stress whatever…grab yourself a Personal Flotation Device…roll over on your back – grab a drink and float down the stream. Take It easy…we got this. Aquarian man lives to care for and do the heavy lifting for our Capricorn Women – Beautiful, Stable, Secure and Grounded. Maintain the stability of Our home and when Your Aquarian returns. Your 3% he covertly looks for and sees (sometime asking but mostly NOT) In you will ground that 97% he did when mentally away….now steer that ship with your Wisdom and Killer Beauty knowing that You and He completed together!

    Your ego will sink this If you try to steal credit and rearrange the steps If you aren’t careful….trust, allow and detach woman 😉 only tweak while In process. remember he already accounted for It

    Follow this my Capricorn friend, and you will have just pimped your ride for life…the world will be brought to your feet so all you do Is enjoy – choose which color and how many (3%) because Aquarian Man (97%) will make sure you get (100%) of It 😉

    Now, THATS how WE roll 🙂

  2. Ive noticed every Cap woman ive been talks, kisses and is passionate in literally almost identical fashion. Down to a T; even the little behaviours.

    Im not deeply bothered by it, but I find this trend that ive picked up on to be rather interesting.

  3. Yeah @ Max. She’s definitely a lil Looney. Have to say so myself. Lol. She dont need a bf, she’s needs a Psychologist 1st. I (cappy) really dont know how to help u . I’ll just be here 2 listen, I guess. Sorry. ..o_0

  4. Damn…that was 1 wild ride @ Max!!! well I’m a Capricorn woman and we don’t like to play games but will Test you to see if u really love us. we don’t love easily but we love hard. sometimes we would even do foolish things just to prove it. we are definitely complicated and simple at the same time. If we love someone we will probably love them forever. It’s so hard to let them go.I sometimes don’t understand myself. We Can go do things to try to hurt the person who has hurt us. revenge is most of our middle names. Caps usually are kind patient and understanding. As Heartbroken Caps we could be very vindictive. Definitely personal when we have let you in our busy lives, hearts and you just destroy it with what seems like not a care in the world. now it’s time for you to hurt in some way shape or form 2. we may not act out physically or emotionally but we will get you back for causing us heartache and pain and stress. Definitely with a display of calculated aha moments. such as being successful ,beautiful and moving on with a new sexy new boyfriend in your front of u and your friends face. silently wanting to be happy with or without u, but on the inside still kind of feeling a lil bad about it. we pretend to have a nonchalant demeanor but we are soft as mush on the inside. that’s part of our nature.with that being said I can go on and on and on about us but I’ll just stop here. lol

  5. Aquarius male 28 years old in dire need of guidance. I have been seeing this Capricorn women 22years old for over 2 years. She recently broke things off with me. I’ve never been one to pursue after a women left me but she is special; makes me laugh, pushes me to achieve professional success, etc. However, she’s is contouring in what I me we should sleep things we should eat the amount of time we should spend together(always). Anyhow she recently broke things off with me on Easter Friday after we had sex in he morning,brunch, dropped her off at the gym to later on that day she called me saying on MONDAY we should talk and have diner together which immediately detected has more and forced her to tell me that she wanted to break up with me on basis she needed to be her best friend and be on her own. I agreed even thou it didn’t make any sense. I avoided talking to her for three days until on the 3rd day she texted me saying how she never been so insulted in her life by the fact that she found out from my friend that I didn’t tell him or to anyone meaning I didn’t care at all about the break up. She then proceed to text me about two shirts of mine that she wanted to give me back which I want to get at her home prior to us having sex. Then again she said she didn’t want to be with me that it didn’t mean anything. Couples days past I text one of those long long text msg about how I feel about her no response (Sunday). Then what insues is the hell week where I don’t talk to till the next Sunday. However in that week she proceeds to go out on Tuesday give her number out to a guy she just met even when she told him her relationship status was complicated. Then on Friday she took off from work to go to a playoff hockey game with the same guy she just met 3 days ago and kissed him !!!! Mind you I’m 2 years of dating she never took a day off even for my family events. Anyhow, I found out all of his the following Sunday after work (where the guy dropped her off & picked her up at 1am)where she told me about her week saying she spent the whole on my Facebook to see if I was connected that she couldn’t stay at home waiting for my phone call. That she gave her number to a guy on Tuesday not mentioning the date yet… I went over there that night where we argued kissed had sex I slept there still refusing to get together however the next morning we had sex again cuddle fell asleep woke up to me questioning her because I knew something was wrong… that’s when she proceed to tell me about the date and the kiss highlighting that we weren’t together so it was okay!!! I immediately left !!! Kissing her on the cheek telling I was discussed by her and her actions and left it to that. Before I could even reach my car she called me saying you’re not gonna say anything you got nothing to say !!?? A couple of days later while at the gym we crossed path without me saying hi or even looking at her. I left right away. Again she proceed to text me that she found it really sad that we couldn’t look each other in the eye or say hi. I didn’t reply. I got met with the same I don’t give a shit she’s not sure about her decision but she knows it best for her. Again I fell into the trap slept with her and slept over. The next day she had a date with her best friends (male 31years old) who I been telling from since she introduce us that he was in love with her anyhow she always refuted it. Anyhow that I picked her up at the bar automatically notice that something was wrong with her she was more than drunk. Mind you were not dating and I still pick her up. While in the car she admits to that they put the date rape drug in her drink and she’s ashamed to tell me because I was right all a long. I didn’t say anything didn’t rub it in just told her I wants was best for her dropped her off at her house and went home. Texting me I wish you slept over tonight. All this all along saying she couldn’t never say that she doesn’t love me but she thinks it would be best for her to be all alone.

    After that I snapped because I found about him dropping her off at home before I came over to sleep with her. I told her I am not her Ricardo and I’m not gonna deal with this anymore that she wouldn’t have it both ways. Anyhow I couldn’t stay away from her I went yesterday to her house around 3 am where she opened the door inviting me in where she wouldn’t let me hug her because of the things I said to her. The hell insued where she started saying I was harassing her telling me to leave her house (I didn’t it) cause I just couldn’t understand that hot and cold attitude. Started screaming saying I was a nightmare a fucking asshole crazy etc!!!!! I didn’t leave just pleading my case pouring my heart out to her. She never answered any of my questions blank stare. After a while it got to me I started calling her names (bitch,lack of integrity,dishonest,liar,two faces) after a while she started punching me slapping me got the left sides of my face swollen !!! Never once hitter her back just came my hands down palms open just in shock (I’m black guy 6’3 245lbs) she’s (white girl 5’10 155lbs) but I could leave she treated to call the cops never did. Puched me so hard I lost my earrings all this for 4 hours. I finally decided to leave around 7am. The only thing she said was that she never slept with the guy he only kissed him. That he is not looking to have sec with her he knows that’s not he’s gonna win her over. She then blocked me on facebook. Saying she never wanna see me again I’m her life that I am the worst men ever.

    I want women perspective. I don’t know what to do…
    Than you

  6. As a Capricorn woman, I want to tell you Aquarian males. We may slough something off in conversation with you, but don’t think we don’t address it in our mind later. We analyze why you said it, what you really meant… And let it be known that we will fight and make up JUST SO MANY times, but once we’re done, we’re done. Don’t even try to make it work anymore. We just know it won’t.

  7. Aquarius man should chill! He’s not the one cooling off rapidly not since a looong time. I am a cap woman and he has space a lot of it.

  8. I’m a capricorn woman currently courting an Aquarius man. I admit, this relationship does take some work in terms of communication but I couldn’t have ask for a better partner than him. Our differences always bring out the best in me. I used to date a Leo man (which was 10/10 compatibility level) but it didn’t work out. Horoscopes might be true to a certain extent but at the end of the day, it is still up to the couple whether they are wiling to give the time, effort, commitment, trust, love each other and set aside their differences for their partners.

  9. Hi everyone. Im an aquarian male married to a Gemini but in love with a capricorn woman also married.we simply have a connection unlike anything I’ve ever felt before. We just enjoy each others company and flirt often. She is 8 years older than I but boy is she cute and warm and sensitive. My wife can be but its very hard to feel this. I have not let on directly to the cap woman friend..that Im woopped by her and nor has she but at every instance we try to text or meet up. We act like kids when we see each other its weird but fun…I need some help here on what I should do.

  10. Hello! I am a capricorn woman in love with an aquarious man. I have been drawn to him since the moment I first saw him. It was as though the universe sent me the person i’ve been searching for. It took us awhile to converse but as soon as we did it was instant fireworks. He confessed that his heart dropped as soon as I walked in the room and that he feels he was supposed to have met me. It all seemed so perfect, until I found out he was in a relationship. It killed me hopes but we decided to get to know each other just to see where it would go. The more time we spent together, the stronger our bond grew and the more convinced I was that he was perfect for me. He was absolutely intrigued by me and I was of him. After a few months of this puppy love, I asked him to make a decision to end his relationship or let me go. He simply couldnt, so I walked away. I know it hurt him but I lost hope that it would ever be something. I ended communication and tried to move on, and I simply couldnt. He is constantly on my mind, I feel so heart broken. So the other day I told him in a poem how much I missed him. He responded by saying that he still thinks of me everyday. It was a shock, I figured he had written me off. He wants to casually meet up for coffee. It scares me though because hes still with her. But I feel that after it all, our love and connection is still strong. I dont want to miss a chance with me again. What do you think I should do about mending things with his aquarious man?

  11. I am a Capricorn girl and am really into this Aquarius man… We recently started talking after not seeing each other for 10-15 years, which is a really long time especially since 15 years ago we were in the same 5th grade class together. But anyways… We’ve been talking since August and have been meeting to see each other about once a week… We try to more, but we both have little kids so it can be a little difficult. I have totally fallen for him since the first time I met him… there’s just something about this boy that drives me absolutely crazy!! I can’t explain it… I was soo scared and nervous to meet him the first time but when I did it was like we were old friends. I’m usually shy and reserved at first until I get to know someone but its not like that with him. And when were together its like nothing else matters in the world. I only wish I knew how he felt about me… Every since we had great sex I can’t help but think I’m nothing but a booty call… But then again this could just be me over-analyzing every aspect of my life like usual. My sister and mom and close friends know that I have been seeing him… but he hasn’t told any of his family about me and the only reason any of his friends know is because my brother has a lot of the same friends. I don’t know if hes just unsure of where this relationship is going or what?

    Another thing that bothers me is he has only had one serious girlfriend ever and she cheated on him, so he has issues with trust. He doesn’t understand that I’m not that kind of girl and I would never sleep with anyone else even though we aren’t in a committed relationship. I want commitment but from what I’ve been reading that’s nearly impossible to get from an aquarian man… Gee willikers!! I know he likes his space and so do I… we can go days without talking but when we do its like we never stopped and I love that…

    I just dont know what he wants out of this relationship… how do I get him to tell me what he thinks… I mean the mystery is hot, but if its not going anywhere than I really don’t want to get my heart ripped to pieces either… I know hes a sweetheart and wouldn’t intentionally rip my heart to shreds, but I do have feelings even though I refuse to let anyone see them!! Please helP!

  12. Am a cap gal and I dated an aqua guy long back…it ended really bad and i had to end it to save myself from throwing my life at him. there were so many things wrong with the whole thing..it was long distance, he would never really make me a part of his life and yet say things like we are soul mates and he loves me to death. it was very hurtful for me as words without actions don’t mean anything to me. still i kept my faith until in the end i found some very personal and disturbing things about him from someone else that just shattered me…

    after 2 yrs of showing such passion n all…it ended with an sms….. i was so hurt then that i couldn’t ask to meet him..but he didn’t even have the courtesy to meet me in person and explain his side to me even if it meant we were over…

    i never had a closure and i still get heartbroken thinking about it… we had a connection that i hvnt had with anyone else…i gave with all my heart and for him it was just some arbitrary fling…atleast thats what he made me feel.. getting over him has been the hardest thing for me ..

    i am married to a taurean now and its all fine…but i have developed some very serious trust issues bcos of the earlier experience..and the hurt refuses to go… i really dont kno why…

    my request to all aqua men is…cap gals might not show it but they are intensely emotional.. not many people know this. when she loves you – pl keep her faith… if you dont feel the same ..make it very clear. we dont like to play games in this dept. and we will appreciate your honesty. even if the relationship ends there will be respect. Aqua guys usually move on very quickly i think… so please please dont lead the cap gal on to a dead end…

  13. I am a Capricorn woman “involved” with an Aquarius man. We actually didn’t speak for about 9 mths because we had a falling-out over some fotos I found of him on Facebook with someone else — but I never told him I saw them. I just stopped being as friendly (OK, I admit – I was downright cold- but he has been cold also). He definitely knows that I know about the other girl b/c I was at a party at which they were there together (I nevertheless had a great time with my friends & stayed away).

    OK…so a bit over the summer & recently we started talking a bit. About 2 weeks ago, he did something really really sweet for me, and it was like an apology…I think we both felt like progress was made & wounds were healed. He then went away on business for 2 weeks.

    Yesterday I saw him for the first time since that ‘nice’ day, I was a little shy, but when I tried to talk to him, he was EXTREMELY cold — i.e….completely ignored me and acted, very blatantly, as if he hated me. Literally made it very obvious that he was ignoring me. It was AWFUL!

    Would someone take a stab at what this means? I feel so hurt & confused and I wonder where my sweet friend has gone…I thought we were back in good shape…how do I react to this?

  14. I am a 20 year old Capricorn woman in college. I am falling for a 22 year old Aqua man more and more each day. I met him at my job in July and right from the start we had tons of chemistry. We went on a lot of dates throughout the summer and I could tell from the way he looks at me that he has deep feelings for me. Now im back at school and we’ve had some rough patches since we’re far apart. We still talk but not as often and are not exclusive. I dont know whats going to happen and neither does he but I have hope that we are meant to be in the future once we mature and accomplish some more of our goals. He has told me that he sees us being together in the future. I hope this gives any Capricorn or Aquarius match hope that our signs can have a beautiful lasting love with patience dedication and honesty. Signed, a hopeless romantic Cap

  15. Luke – could you provide more detail on under what circumstances she pushes you away? It could be that she is scared and/or trying to test how serious you are about her… we Capricorns are very protective of our feelings & afraid to trust others.

    hang in there-

  16. ok , so im an aquarian male and ive been dating this capricorn woman for 3 years but on and off . the thing is with her the more i push her away the more she try’s to find me , but if i start showing love ecc …. she just goes off again what’s the deal ??

  17. Hey id just like some advic, im a capricorn male with an aquarian woman. Every horoscope i read says its not gonna work and we are not meant to be l, care about her a lot l, idk if sould mates are real but to me she feels right, anyone know what i should expect out of this relationship? How to make it hold, we are having a child together, accidental but it really has brought us close in a special way…idk i just dont know what to expect, she has the power to destroy my world…. help tips…idk

  18. Help I’m an older Capricorn woman in love with a younger Aquarius man. I’m 17 years older than him. He recently went thru a terrible incident and I realized that I don’t want to live without him
    I told him that I loved him the other day and he told me I didn’t love him. bc he didn’t love me. I feel like I did something to hurt him but he wont tell me. I have apologized many times but I don’t know what for and now I feel like he might be gone forever. I hurt so bad I don’t know what to do. How do I fix it, how do I get him to talk to me he’s so cold.

  19. hi Gina – give him a lot of space…understanding, patience & space…that’s what they love!

    good luck, a fellow Cappy

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