These two may be a curiosity to everyone else but really pretty happy together. Gemini is able to light Aquarius up and draw him more into life. Both the Aquarius man and the Gemini woman have a basically detached view of reality, a love of people, and an innate gregariousness. In fact, there may be so many people involved in their lives, that they hardly ever find themselves alone with one another, which can be fun.
How to Attract a Gemini Woman as an Aquarius Man: The problem is not attracting her so much as in keeping her. Unless you do something to make her know that she is special to you, she will think that she is just one of your many friends (you have many friends of both genders). It will help if there is some diversity involved, for example, if you two are different ages, cultures, or if there's a difference in economic circumstances. You will enjoy her quick mind and broad variety of interests, and will rely on that during courtship. Find out what the Gemini woman is interested in and cultivate the same territory if possible.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Gemini Woman: No one can control an Aquarius, and no one can predict their behavior. All you can do is hope. On the contrary, don't be afraid to try anything. It might help, and at any rate he won't hold it against you.
Degree of Romance: Some of the sexiest men on the silver screen are Aquarians -- Clark Gable, Paul Newman, John Travolta, and Burt Reynolds just for starters. If he wants you, he will absolutely knock you off your feet. There is such an electrifying quality to an Aquarius man, the chemistry is bound to be illegal in all 52 states and one you haven't thought of. An element of romance is freshness and ingenuity. He will court you in a way that makes you sure he isn't doing the same thing to five other ladies. He will identify something unique about you and him, and it will ring true. What's not romantic about that? And Gemini, you little flirt … you are such a creature for every man, but that's our little secret.
Degree of Passion: This can be a surprisingly passionate relationship. The shadow side of Aquarius is passionate to the hilt. If he really wants her, he will win her over by utterly sweeping her off your feet. The fact that she always has one little foot out the door just makes the game more exciting.
Degree of Friendship: Aquarius has the reputation of being friendly, but if you look around, you will find that they usually don't have many friends at all. Gemini -- on the other hand -- is everybody's running buddy. So this relationship may be especially meaningful to the Aquarian because it provides the Aquarius man with a friend.
Degree of Marriage: This makes a good marriage,
Progression of Relationship: There is no telling what's going to happen, which is part of the fun when an Aquarian man and a Gemini woman pair up. Much of the courtship may take place in room crowded with friends and shared activities. These are two of the busiest people in the zodiac, both famous for multi-tasking -- don't be insulted if she's constantly on her cell phone. Because of their need of space, they may rely more than other couples on texting and IM. Aquarius will keep the relationship on track.
Sex: The relationship may include phone sex, videotaping and other, shall we say, electronic tools for enhancement. Aquarius males can be pretty quirky, and Gemini females are willing to go along with just about anything. The Gemini woman's basic attitude toward sex is "I can't believe I'm really doing this." Look for a lot of innovation. There certainly will be nothing routine about it. It also inclines towards an on-off switch. A lot of days can go by with the off switch, but that just makes on time that much more exciting. ;-)
When It’s Over: When it's over, he will find out that she never really committed in the first place, but went along for the ride. This means there will be no hard feelings on her part and the decision is up to him. Gemini women are quite likely to have extra-curricular activities, which takes the pressure off monogamous relationships, but Aquarians are monogamous by nature, and this may not be immediately obvious when they start out.
Our Rating: 8/10

#1 by Haz91 on January 26th, 2010
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Hey ,
Just to tell you this is a brilliant summary of the relationship… I never read something so well researched and well written… Good job!
I just have one question for you and that is it says in some of the articles I have read about this relationship.. that it is often the Aquarius male that is smitten with the Gemini woman.. and plus that the Gemini woman is really the only woman of the zodiac that can tame the Aquarius.. ? Is it true?
Plus I just wanted to ask what is your zodiac sign?
Thanks again for a great read !
#2 by nancy on February 2nd, 2010
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I think both those statements have a lot of truth to them, Thaank you for the compliment about my writing and research. I did my “field work” out in the trenches, reading for real people from all walks of life, learning from the ground up. Everything I say is the result of 25 years’ experience with the psychic arts. I’m a Leo
#3 by Ana on February 27th, 2010
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I’m happy to have found this site because I have a huge crush on an Aquarius guy but he’s going out with an Aries now =( hopefully it won’t last long -haha- so I can tell him how I really feel
I thought he felt the same way too but idk I’ll try again for him later – he makes me more curious than any other guy I’ve met before so I can’t give up
#4 by A.Man on March 7th, 2010
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Never been with a Gemini,but been great friends with plenty of them..they just dnt seem like the type you can really settle for..I want to grow from a relationship if/when its over..Geminis just seem like you summer fling..I HOPE,im wrong…
#5 by Michelle-Angelina on June 8th, 2010
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Okay everyone. Help! I have been searching high and low for a particular Aquarius man. We met as teenagers at a shopping center and all of the sudden (I was 15 and he was 14) and all of the sudden we began kissing near the fish tank in this store. We were inseparable until shortly after our affair he left my life forever to California. Every single relationship that I have had with a guy or man has tanked. Every time in the in between I have searched for hm high and low. We did write letters to each other, but we had gone our own separate ways and my hands were tied as a result.
This was in 1983-84
FF to 2010. The Millinieum of FB and My Space. Everytime I tried searching for him on line I could not find his name anywhere. Now, I am married and my husband has cheated on me and ruined our lives,,but I have forgiven him, but now this is reunion month for me and suddenly I find myself looking for my Aquarius man yet agai, for a friendly hello at this point as this young man is hot and was hot in the 1980s. Suddenly by chance I find him. He was going by his given birth name, not the name I knew him by which is his middle name. Anyway, I wrote him a letter and boy has he become successful in these years. He wrote me back after being astounded that I had been looking for him for over 20 years non-stop in the 20th Century. And now, he is (to my own surprise) melting me over in every way. Last night he called me at home and told me that if he would have remained we would have been married. I just lost it because I know that some how, despite our absence from one another all of these years, that this is so true. I felt this from the deepest recesses of my true heart. He would never have hurt me as all the others have in my entire life. I would have cherished being his wife and it felt so natural for him to say that, but it made my heart beat wildly. This is not a crush. I am a Gemini female and every thing that the article says above about us is frighteningly true. I will love him and my way ward husband. but for the Aquarius man, I will share him with whoever he may fall in love with as long as I will be his girl forever. I know that things happen for a reason, I know that if we were meant to be married we would because I was single until 2001 (when my first husband left me for another country. But we are very best friends and he will help me and my current husband as we are not well physically) but my Aquarius man has just told me that I was his first everything and I did not know this and he was wowed at the fact that in all of these years I searched him and he is single and hot as ever and we love the same music . movies , books, food. We love things with a passion and he is the only one who can make me sexually aroused by the things that he says to me. For some reason, I may feel jealous if he did love another, but I would respect my Aquarius man because I would rather have his love than to lose it and he can be as free as he wants as long as I know that I will belong to his heart forever. I am not a harlot or a hooker, I am just a romantic who loves her men deeply. I will pray to the Lord about this and I have confessed my feelings and I feel the Lord’s love and understanding about this. My Aquarius man was my second kiss of my life (I wish he were my first) but this other Aquarius guy in my school would chase me around the convent and hijack my book bag and one afternoon on a friday in 1981, (I was 13 and he was 14). He just threw me down and stole his kiss from me and would snatch me all over the school and I was floored at this Italian guy doing this to me. But THAT guy was nothing like my 2nd Aquarius man. I do agree that we should have been married and we would have been very happily married to this day and I would have been his woman and he would have been my man. But I will take him as he is because no other woman will melt in his arms as I will. Forgive me Lord because I did not plan to even feel this amourous now. I am in so much physical pain that I thought that this was all over. I never thought that my feelings would be this strong or this intense. At best, I thought we would just talk about the old days and respect our past…but…as he has admitted, he has been looking for me too. I did not know that any one would look for me. I want to fly to where he is and cuddle with him and pick up where we left off. Never would I have thought about ANYONE in this way while married. I thought that those feelings were gone. but I have been tricked.
#6 by Michelle-Angelina on June 8th, 2010
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Aquarius (A-Man). No that is not true at all. Aquarius men (with out words) will put a Gemini girl in her place and she is afraid to provoke him to say something heart breaking because she would just not recover. A man, please understand that we Gemini girls do love you so much but some of do not know what to do when we are around you. Yes, YOU ARE THAT sexy and it doesn’t matter WHAT you look like. It is the things that you say. You have to take that Gemini girl and take the lead because you DO have this strange power over us that we will never, ever forget. I haven’t. My Aquarius man is a business man through and through amd he is ambitious and once he has his mind on something he is truky fixed about it.
I would have remained his woman if he had taken a “take charge” campaign over me and that IS the secret to us. If we do not sense that , we will WAIT but in the mean while, us Gemini girls need some love(which is different that Co-dependacy and that’s just it—we are independent to a fault, but when it comes to love you Aquarius men have us stumped.
You have got to take us to where we will obey your every move and make love to you until the moon leaves the atmosphere. We know that you can have anyone you want, but we have to wait for you and this breaks our hearts and we have to just wait until you practically stalk us and even then, we will find this sexy as hell.
Oh, my goodness, you just need to understand the power that you have over us. We are afraid to be junked away because we will seriously become dysfunctional if you were to do that to us.
A-Man, find a Gemini female who has a Pisces rising or has some fixed sign rising and also make sure that she is older than you are because she will still be very pretty as an older woman.
She will appreciate you very much as long as you make the effort and please try not be so disconnected as you A men tend to be. Sometimes, you can sound kind of cold and detatched and it makes us feel like crawling under a thousand blankets until some jerk comes along and lies to us and we will date that SOB until YOU come back for us. We date SOBs to forget about you because it hurts SOOOOOOO much to think about you.
I KNOW from die-hard experience. It isn’t that we have just given you this power, it is merely that this is the energy that these signs have with one another. All that you need to do is to communicate what kind of space that you want and we will give it to you , but please treat us right because we feel everything and it is the same passion that you enjoy when we are all alone with you that will keep us in bed for days at a time.
You need to ask questions and find out where we are and what we want. Sometimes, we are literally convexed in another situation that is hard to extricate ourselves from. but some of us are not whorish as we may appear.
Just love us right and marry us when we are older (in our 40s) because we are true and we will stay with you as long as you want us there.
Some of us are even comfortable to stay at home and be busy with our projects just as long as we can even go to school from home, or write or interact with our causes and creativity. If my A man would have kept me with him (even in another state and told me what I meant to him, I’d belong to him right now, waiting for him to come home with a delicious meal and stories to tell.
I’d do whatever he wants. But I have had some pretty awful relationships and I have tried to be good to all of them (there were two men in my life that I could have done better, but I was younger and they weren’t my type really–not like my 2nd A-man.
My A-man is so beautiful to me and as long as he will keep me in his life, as long as I will be the special one above all, I will respect his other lovers (I will not love it b/c I do love him .
We do have hx and I was his first–but he kissed me as if he knew his business). I love that I was his first. I love it when he is agressive and I am his little wee thing. I mean, I can make my own money and do my own thing. But come on Aquarius men, pay close attention to your Gemini girls, because she loves you more than you really know.
#7 by Michelle-Angelina on June 8th, 2010
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Little Ana–darling, do not worry about THAT relationship b/c he is just going through a thing w/ this one. Aquarius men ARE sexy like that and that Aries will end up being too forceful with him and this WILL make him leave her. I do not care how hot those sheets can get. Any Aries has the power to do that. What an Aquarius man wants is that Gemini girl who came first. Be his friend, but don’t be shy about telling him how he feels, but also wait for his cues first because he will give them to you as soon as the fire peters out with the Aries one. believe it or not, you need to ask him what makes him hot for the Aries gal. Did they have a past together? Where did they meet? Do you know her? How wel? Also, does she give him his space (A-men, need this to function, You are almost better off falling in love with some one else because THIS is when they decide that you are exciting. Sadly, they may feel safe if you are taken too. Who knows, I hope that I am wrong.Me, I don’t want to hurt anyone at all. I just want to love and that everyone loves each other and not leave me out. These are personal feelings that I can share with you as a stranger b/c I could never share these feelings with others because they just would not understand.
Gemini women tend to get burnt and burnt badly with men because they use us an they do not understand how to love us and get the milage that they can get with us by marrying us. We are always hurting and most of these men really.
Oh, and don’t give up on him under these circumstances only:
1. He must be a truly sweet and caring man.
2. He must be sensitive and loves you for who you are as you are.
3. YOU must find things to DO, because these things (make sure these are true interests and gifts that YOU develop because this WILL play an important role in your possible future with him.
4. Have your back-up male friends for certain if he does break your heart. Remember, A-men are unpredicable–very unpredicable and they will like this about you.
5. Let him sow his oats if he is really worth it, but by all means, sow yours or just be patient. Try to rein your power back because he should never mistreat you and do not show him all your card, the A-men needs to earn this because they want to earn it because they will if they have the character.
6. Find out what his rising sign is and what your rising sign is because your Sun-sign is just that, it does not tell your story. You have to find out exactly when YOU were born to the minute and if A-Man knows, ask him (they are usually sweet enough to tel you.
7. Be as sexy as you can, A-men enjoy the beauty of women (but they like this consevative part about us. Remain a girl who KNOWS what she wants. be that little lamb, but also KNOW what you want. When he asks you where you’d like to go, don’t ask a question with a question. KNOW what you want. They love this. Feel for his cues. This is tricky. Be honest with him, but don’t give him the cow just yet. Let him sip on the milk.
8. The hardest part for me will be not to answer his every call, because they seem to like the chase. Don’t ever play games, though. Never. they are straight-up men and the good ones do not deserve it.
9. By all means, do not love them for what they can get for you. Love them because there is this animal attraction between the two of you.
10. Ana, please write back and tell me more. I am excited FOR you and you have to tell me what your A-Man is like. Even pray for him while you are making yourself the woman he will salivate over. Be sexy. don’t act sexy, don’t where skimpy clothing (no fun) where powerful clothing like a dark man’s blazer with men’s fragranec (Polo Sport) with a small white cotton t-shirt and baggy jeans that accentuate your butt. do not wear high heels. Where cute pumps or loafers with thin sculptured socks. No underwear, except for someting Victoria’s secrets. Something terribly sexy. Dress solid, but underneath, dress feminine. shave everywhere. be smooth.
Wear your hair in lushious lose curls flowing past your shoulders. be sure to douche(I am sorry but this is true—this is never out of disrespect, this is to save face—- and smell as if you just got out of the shower.
He will LOVE these things. Also, do not pack on gobs of eye make up or any make up. If you do, go for the no make up look. Achieveable. This is to avoid leaving it behind in the bed or on his clothing.
Go as natural as you can, You can use mascara and a light dark powder at the crease of the eyes but never all the way across. Smell delicious, but not too fruity. Smell like nature–not musk. Be clean and clean cut.
This is sexy because they want to corrupt this clean cut look and YOU will love how he treats you. I KNow that this is sexy for them. They are easy to talk to. Read lots of books while you are waiting for him. They love an intelligent woman.
Aries seem intelligent and that is because they are bossy and managerial. So to an Aquarius male, this appears intelligent.
But you, Ms. Gemini, remain who you are, but upgraded. You can do this. Keep that breath fresh and your teeth movie star white. Make him feel special because he usually is and he is worth it.
What do you say? Hey help me too, I do not know everything. Read my bizarre little true story. I love to help others to save face for them because, it is humiliating to go through something that can be avoided. I care about people as long as they do not mind my caring for the,. I am not judgemental because i have my own issues to judge first, but i have to be discerning and none of us have licked that, Everyday poses strange new challenges for the Gemini lady.
I wished that I had more female friends, but they tend to want to compete and they can be very chilling and cruel. Men do not have the time for that. But, if there is a female who does love me as their friend. I am here. Just no competition or below the belt games, there is plenty to go around.
Ana, write back and lets walk through this together. At best, you’ll have a shoulder for the good times and the not so good times. There is too much heart break in this world and it brings me to tear inwardly as well to see people hurting and not being able to have the confidence to truly enjoy another’s company. We have to begin by treating people right and respecting their turf and their position in life. If he was not your friend first, then become his friend, for real. That is how this will turn out. Don’t be so curious about him for a fling; these Aquarius men are special and they may be detached because they are the real thing and some may have been hurt. Love them as a friend and as your lover.
#8 by Michelle-Angelina on June 8th, 2010
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Please forgive me my typos, Ana (and for the rest who are reading this )I am, too excited about this topic.
Exchange “where” for “wear” and the other childish errors I have made–i am embarrassed, but my heart is in the right place.
I really do know how to spell and I can see my mistakes through out my diatribe. But I enjoy discussing about meaningful things like this. Love is an excellent thing and LOVE can last, as long as you and your lover are real, it is better than money and it can get you both through these rough days. Love outweighs this money issue. When you love, then you can respect things, include yourself, your partner and money. If you truly love, it truly lasts.
It is important b/c life is way too short to hurt others for a quick round in the sack. Sleeping around messes up the spirit and when others play with your heart, it soils up the soul for THE one who truly deserves your best and vice-versa.
Look past my errors and fish for the intent rather than my errors b/c I mean well by my intent. Thank You.
#9 by Michelle-Angelina on June 8th, 2010
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Leos are sexy and dynamic people and when they work, they really work. Kudos to the research. A Gemini female can tame an Aquarius to an extent, but the thing to remember is that THEY have to give you the unspoken word (which means to LISTEN to what they say which will allow you to allow them to be tamed).
And really, they do not need to be so much as tamed when they are with you Gemini lady, because this will come naturally by the energy between the two of you. These creatures are very sensual and when you catch that combination, let it out, but don’t play games as they are very intelligent people. Just wow them and tell them so.
#10 by Antrlna, on June 9th, 2010
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Well,its indeed true that the mystic relationship between a gemini and an aquarius is rather unnoticed by the crowd… Their bonding has a mute existence,unheard and unseen to the rest in the world….
#11 by nancy on June 12th, 2010
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@Antrina
Would you care to elaborate?
#12 by speak on June 15th, 2010
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Very interesting! I have a story to share very soon..as the end is drawing near to my Gemini (me-) Aquarius (him) relationship…and it was the fact that he couldnt get over his ex…even though she treated him like shyt. Ill elaborate soon.
#13 by Rebecca schine on June 20th, 2010
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I have dated 3 aquarius men and they ALL have the same birthday !
weird much ?
I loved them though .
& the est just fell aroun the same date .
#14 by illyzebith on June 22nd, 2010
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i happen to be dealing with an aquarius guy… i think he might be starthing to fall for me… but i know he has feelings for one of my best friends as well! it’s been my entertainment for the past few days =) i think it’s going to get really interesting!
#15 by LH on June 27th, 2010
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So, tell us Antrina…..what sign is the most compatible for Gemini? I see nothing posted that says 10/10.
#16 by Ana on June 28th, 2010
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Thanks Michelle-Angelina
I just came to check if anyone replied
Your words are really encouraging to me and I’ll try to follow your advice the next time we hang out (I will report back to you if anything positive happens) and I agree that the Aries dominating but so far they’re still going out but they are together constantly which I don’t really understand because their signs are more independent but I guess the other signs are factors as well
#17 by Emma on July 7th, 2010
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When alive, my grandmother was very much into astrology, and as I have grown up, I too have been getting really into it.
As a gemini woman, I have only been intimate with aquarius’, something that I had not realized until reading this article! Also, my best friends birthday is february 20th, not an aquarius but close enough!
Very cool…
#18 by nancy on July 14th, 2010
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@Emma Grandmothers know best
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#20 by Zeus on August 1st, 2010
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wow, i have no idea where to start, im an aquarius male, mid 20′s and i have an awesome story to tell…its still brewing but alot of earth moving life changing things are possibly going to happen in the next 6-8 months. i actually stumbled upon this because too many ducks are in a row about this…if u’ll all be patient with me i may be able to help by answering some of ur questions from an A-man that fits this description to the T! again tho excellent posts and article!
#21 by Zeus on August 1st, 2010
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Ooooookay im not sure what the rules are on what all i can put here and i will try to condense this down as much as possible.. as i posted earlier, i am an A man to the T. I am a very social person when comfortable, but have very very few ppl i actually consider friends. I dont feel too many ppl are like me and have the same understanding on anything as i do. I’ve never had a problem atrracting the opposite sex which has resulted in two failed long term relationships. one 3 years (ex wife libra) and the other 4 years (ex gf aquarius) the problem, i loved them, but they never understood the give me space part. i never felt i had met my match, a woman on my level, i was never content mentally(and u know how rationally we think)which turned me off and i would go out, use charm, bravdo, and a smile to mingle with other women..now back at home in socal, i didnt always have a ‘legal’ job so i met a lot of ppl thru other ppl if u get my drift…and one particular night im at a ‘clients’ apt smoking a cig on his balcony and i looked down and his neighbor was outside on her patio(lets call her X)..anyway i end up doing business with her. we end up hanging out when i would come thru and i eventually met her best friend..the moment i saw the best friend i instantly had a crush(lets call her Y)..a regular old junior high crush. but seeing as they were both 8 years my senior i never said anything. didnt think i stood a chance (gemini’s have a drop dead gorgeous aura) SOOO one night we were hanging out and they were both going to bed and X gave me a hint that she wanted me to come to her room, but on the way to the room Y asked me to come in..we had the most amazing sex ive ever had in my life, and thats a high plateau for me. the next night i ended up sleeping with X when Y wasnt there…which was fine with all parties(turns out she did that cuz she was jealous, i think she heard us)..I end up losing contact with both a year or so later and that brings us to present day..3 1/2 years later..im in another state now, Y is engaged and we just got back into contact with each other…now everything is all out of control! we grew up alot in the time passed. i actually dont cheat anymore, havent for quite some while, really just looking to spend my life w/ somebody that i adore and wont get tired of .im legit now and shes engaged! which sounds good right? come to find out, the crush was mutual between us! and soooo many planets seem to be in line between the two of us its scary! shes in a safe engagement with a really good guy and now is willing to risk it all…after all the convo and msg’s and other things.(It’s like bert and ernie found each other again) she doesnt want safe and boring..i feel this gemini woman and i are magnetic! we understand each other on a level ive never EVER experienced with any woman in my life, then again shes the first and only gemini ive ever been friends/lovers with, it almost seems to perfect. from major to little things such as pets, to jobs, life views, relationship views, i mean our convos can go on for hours @ a time, and the depth of them….wow gemini women you, and us A men are truly here for one another! i guess my whole reason for posting this story is i want to ask u a few questions and i would appreciate all of your opinions and i will answer any from you!
1.if we do go through with this, how can i keep my gemini woman happy? not just content but loving more every day?
2. are we both too silly to think with the timing of everything this happened for a reason?
3. if u ended up being engaged and ur lost Aman came back into the picture and the situation was similar to this what would you do?
#22 by Patsy on August 29th, 2010
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@ zeus
answer to # 3 i would drop everything for my Aquarius man, well not everything but the other guy…
boy, do i miss my aquarius… we’re still friends, but i miss how attached he used to be to me. we’re still young, so i have a a feeling in the future we can try again because we really have this great connection/friendship/bond. he’s my best friend.