Leo Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility

Famous Leo-Aquarius Couples:

Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown, Loni Anderson and Burt Reynolds, Gracie Allen and George Burns

Sparks and chemistry abound in this hot wired, tense and exciting combination of heart, mind and will.  The attraction (if it happens) is instantaneous.  The lioness is dumbstruck with how different he is, how daring, how he just does whatever he wants and doesn’t seem to care what others think.  She loves a challenge and her subconscious reaction is this:  “All men are attracted to me but this one is different  He seems so strong.   Wonder  if I can bend him to my will?”  On his part, he lives for shocks and thrills.  It’s hard to resist the experience of being stalked by a BIG game hunter.

How to Attract a Leo Woman as an Aquarius Man:

This is one of those easy “either she does or she doesn’t” kind of things.  There’s not likely to be any middle ground.  This lady knows her own mind and likes to choose rather than be chosen.  You can hang out and be friends but she’ll likely let you know what’s up in a matter of a few encounters.  Your sometimes insufferable conceit is definitely a plus in surreptitiously courting the Queen’s favor.  Rhett Butler was played in the movie “Gone with the Wind” by Aquarian Clark Gable.  Buy this movie and study his techniques carefully.  Especially the scene early on where he’s hiding on the couch and sits up and shocks the drama queen, Miss Scarlett O’Hara.  Be full of such surprises, deliver the shock treatment and never, EVER quiver when the lioness roars.

How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Leo woman:

You love a challenge and being the opposite sign from Aquarius, you innately know what to do.  Put on your queenly air of feigned indifference and parade it past him a few times.

Degree of Romance:

This is the one combination where a friendship can suddenly turn to love; then, when passion is spent, it will revert back to friendship.  If you’re deeply into the mating game, you won’t want to remember that the passion always dies, but, dear reader, and especially dear Leo reader, it does and, that being the case. friendship is a great foundation for a lasting marriage partnership.  WORD:  The definition of friendship, according to Michael Lutin, is someone who, when they hear you slept with someone else, just laughs.   Lady Lioness, read that sentence over a few times.  You may possess his heart but never his will.  This Aquarian creature is always his own man.

Degree of Passion:

There is a high degree of passion during courtship and if there isn’t, Leo will stage it. Mr. Detached Aquarian, read that sentence over several times and make sure you can live with it.  Not every Aquarian is cut out to play the leading man.  It can make costly inroads into your “I did it my way” territory.

Degree of Friendship:

The possibility for friendship could be fantastic which would suit Aquarius just fine because he can avoid all that sticky stuff.  It’s just that it won’t suit the Leo woman. She doesn’t want male friends.  She wants romantic enthrallment, admirers or loyal subjects.  It’s a power thing.

Degree of Marriage:

Depending on the degree of maturity and desire for conventionality that can be summoned up, this is not a bad combination.

Progression of Relationship:

The relationship starts suddenly and gets very intense right away.  Then it can quickly become a contest of wills.  The lioness will demand attention and worship while the Aquarian keeps trying to slip out and get some space.  One relationship skill they really have in common is a great sense of humor.   With a generous application of self deprecating willingness to laugh at themselves, both of these signs are pretty quick to clear the air, kiss and makeup.


Sex can be fantastic and the secret glue.  Neither sign particular enjoys the “missionary position only” approach.  Aquarius has a treasure chest of shocking suggestions which may or may not be agreed to by the Leo but, whether she goes along with it or not, she will definitely appreciate the nerve she thinks it took for him to suggest such a thing.

When It’s Over:

When it’s over it will end on a dime – he will evaporate into thin after a few protestations about enduring friendship.  She will likely resent the time she “wasted” on him and never want to hear from him again.  “Poof!  Banished from the Queendom!”  His response?  Space, at last!”

Our Rating: 8 /10

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  1. LoveTheINTJJuly 20, 2017 at 5:02 am

    I love the relationship examples. I must admit.. George Burns and Gracie Allen were balanced and it was a wonderful, beautiful, blissful marriage and example of how a healthy Leo Sun Woman can be every single thing an Aquarian Sun Man needs. There was never a dull moment, in fantastic and hilarious ways.

    My heart still hurts for Whitney and Bobby Brown. The biggest imbalance here was the drug use and him trying to take a firm stand in his sobriety. Had she been able to kick the habit, there wouldn’t have been all the craziness.

    Burt Reynolds is too fyne to have dealt with that vain bitch, Loni Anderson, for so long. Loni was the absolute worst of the three, from my perspective. Whitney had that habit long before she met Bobby. Loni is vain, excessive, and obnoxious. The traits people expect to see in Leos. She simply put just wasn’t a good person to Burt.

    Thankfully, I use these comparisons for Venus, Moon, and Mercury; so I don’t think much of the imbalances. It helps to have an idea of the Sun-based examples because having a Cap Sun at 360th Harmonic allows there to be more color than just the description written above. My Aquarius Moon is strong with my Juno conjunct it, keeping my Leo Venus much more stable and balanced so I don’t become a Loni.. ..her character disgusts me more than the poofy blonde hair and barely-there career. Burt never stopped working as an Actor. He needs much more respect and credit for his contributions to society, as well as that marriage. Too bad he couldn’t refuse to pay the alimony. That bitch needed a lesson in humility, BIG TIME.

  2. I’ve been with my Leo for 20 years and were still in love with eachother.
    I love my queen.

  3. Leo female aquarius man.

    He knows how to love me and by far the only person to let my guards down, he hasn’t give up on me and he loves me so much, for the first time someone actually loves me more than I love them lol.

    It’s a good match but takes a lot of work and understanding… Aquarians are really sensitive
    We all have our negatives about us but you gotta go through bad times to appreciate the good, it can’t always be great and rosey. I hope he never cheats on me I’d be devastated but so far so good.

  4. Aquarius man falling hard for a Leo woman. Sorry for the nightmares I read about Aquarius men. I’m gonna give this woman my all. She is so romantic and I enjoy every second of it. She wants to upgrade my entire wardrobe, and I’m no bum but she wants me to dress more mature. as long as she doesn’t turn me into a Carlton Banks, or some pointdexter looking dude. Naturally I’m like no, but honestly I’m willing to do whatever it takes to make her happy. I think regardless of a sign, two people have to be tolerant of each other’s needs and wants. Bottom line.

  5. I am a Aquarius man currently courting a leo woman and let me tell ya, she turns me on. Theres such a strong attraction between us that i believe we both feel. She’s actually dated other Aquarius men in the past, and her best friend is and Aquarius. After reading several post from leo women on here Im starting to notice something. Yes, we Aquarius carry similar qualities but we are all individuals…..thats what we’re all about. Each man, sign, and person evolves differently. I’ve put my pride aside and shown her the real me, I pride myself on it. All relationships MUST be built on solid ground, not sand. Meaning that you MUST start out as friends first, you both must take time to learn each other…no matter the sign. Even tho theres passion, theres no need to rush into things. Leo and Aquarians have a bad habit of rushing into things…not me. Even tho Id love to stuff my face in between her legs ever morning I know that time will come. Aquarius, take your time brother, she’ll feel you soon enough. Communication is the KEY to ANY relationship. Keep exploring each others mind and tapping into the other person to develop and strong union. My last gf was a gemini and we all know how much they adore attention without needing it. If you truly love someone you’ll do whatever it takes to keep the partnership. All men and even some women fall into routine, and trust me, a real woman will let you know when she’s bored….no woman likes to be with a boring man. The zodiacs gives us a broad overview but only you can determine the outcome based on your actions……a little effort can go a long way. PEACE and LOVE

  6. LODDYDODDIELEOLADYNovember 8, 2016 at 5:28 pm

    P.S. whatever you do, prior to the relationship? Don’t have sex with him……for a long time…..

  7. LODDYDODDIELEOLADYNovember 8, 2016 at 5:21 pm

    Hello fellow Leo ladies….Think Harley Quinn and the Joker, when you think of this crazy-insane-passionate-sex induced love match of conquest between wills…Nothing more.

  8. leo girls

    why aquarians? i mean, when you can get a scorpio guy, nothing is better than a scorpio guy, nothing in this world,
    aquarians are smart, so what about it?, i don t care

  9. dear leo girls

    why aquarius ? when you can get a scorpio guy, nothing in this world compares to a scorpio, is the best everything, i dont care about aquarians, i dont care , ja ja

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  11. PapilionoideaSeptember 12, 2016 at 7:09 pm

    Going through my leads of interested registered prospective clients and whose name pop up on the second page in blue ink, mark you; everyone else wrote their information with the black ink pen I provided next to the clipboard, I dont even remember meeting this person or saw when they wrote and where did they get a blue pen from, why they wanted their name to stand out on my sheet to have written it in a different color ink……oh boy I just love this….keep it up whoever is doing this… Luv luv luv it!!

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  12. Little LionessaSeptember 9, 2016 at 1:40 pm

    I met my Aquarius man at a Renaissance Faire. We immediately had a connection. He’s like a magnet to me, I can’t stay away even if I tried. He’s so amazing, I can’t imagine living without him. We haven’t even fought at all, which I’m grateful for. He’s like me in so many ways. We think alike, act alike. We finish each others sentences, we know what the other person is thinking. It’s like we’ve known each other for years, instead of days. He’s my Aquarius and I love him dearly, I would never give him up for anything or anyone. I hope to stay with him for long-term, no matter what. :^)

    Like I said, immediately, we were like magnets to each other. We always want to be with each other, at all times. It’s almost like he lives in my house already! :^)

    Amazing man, sexy as hell (mentally and physically), and quite the social butterfly. 🙂 I love him with all my heart.

  13. Now how can I not fall in love with him, honestly, how do I convince myself otherwise, he is such a sweetheart, he makes me feel so appreciated and wanted and just everything….just everything. He sent me the most heartwarming email today reassuring me that he does care and that he does see a possibly of us been more than what we are now…he feels like the friend I truly never had – we can talk about anything, laugh about everything and get crazy in our little world and then laugh about it some more, He keeps me so grounded, he makes me feel like everything will be okay, makes me feel like nothing will ever ruin this fantasy….and I believe in him.

    I may not know whats the perfect gift to get him for his birthday (LOL), I may not know if he likes to sleep with his socks on, I may not know if he snores when he sleeps – heck I may not even know for sure if he even sleeps at all (LOL), but I want to know, I want to know all these things, I want to know about his childhood, I want to know what keeps him up at nights, I want to know how much certain little things means to him and what makes him angry…..discovering each other a bit at a time.

    Is it real? Yes. Is it rare? Yes. Will it last? No way to tell, but if we remain loyal to each other, and co-conspire against outside forces! Yes. What does it feel like? Like the most exciting, scariest, exhilarating, nerviest, frightening, happiest moment of your life all rolled into one. Please, please don’t let it end…

  14. Lionnes>> Libra woman (Scorpio Rising Sun) is never submissive, she is unlike lioness real queen. She’s just not arrogant like a lioness: D

  15. Aquarius always runs away from a lioness.

  16. I am a leo women i felt in love last summer with a aquarius man leo rising .First time in my life i have expirience so pure conection .He first was atracted by me .Passion was imidiate from both sides,but he hide from me that he had broken up with his aquarian girl one night before,i didnt mind i folow us a leo queen i didnt felt frighten i go straight to the challnged ,,i folow the bliss called Love.then the summer comes in the end 3 month allmost in heaven it was then the time for both of us to reorganize the practical things for a stable realitionsheep,he suggest to rent o home together and he would come to leave in my town.I went first and start to arrange the things such apartment etc..he never came he never took the callnge.After one winter alone trying to forget him i coudnt this summer i return in the place he live to see that i didnt looze him.He show me a called face ,a supper ego coverstation like he is the best in Town,he had a great winter. In the full moon we make love it was unreststale.for both then after that emidiatly he told me he is going to his girl.he was again made uo with the aquarian ex girlfriend..I let the islind ..i let my dignity Aquarian man ..hmm a challlnge for leo women shure but i dont think they deserve our brave soul.I am still healling my soul and trying to let go..

  17. HI,I am an aquarius man and to be frank,i have a leo friend whom i have fallen for already. she is practically the best thing that has happened to me. some aquarius may be users,but trust me not all of us are. i have asked her out and though she pretends not to care,she really gets jealous when she sees me with female friends. I am not very expressive,trust me, but i do that a lot lately. Guess its the power of Leo woman.

    To all Aquarius Leo couple out there,hold on and love one another cus its so nice loving a leo woman.

  18. I am a leo woman In a relationship with an aquarius man for 3 years. At the beginning it was wild and full of passion. Now it is dull and we just feel like friends. My need for attention and affection annoys him, and his detachedness from emotion and cold manipulative ways drive me crazy. I wish I wasnt this way because I love him very much and I have not changed. I feel at this point I am just a burden to him. I wish he would show we how much he cares. :*(

  19. Aqua men are users they have no concept of love. The ex bf kept me around for 7 years on and off. Wasted my life on this man. When they use u up they will cheat but will still keep u around for their fun and LIE about everything. i like my fire signs like aries which is the best match or even the sag who is also a playful jerk but at least honest or other leo man

  20. LEO RISINGAugust 8, 2015 at 7:18 pm

    The comments on this blog post have me ROLLING. I am laughing so hard right now…

    I’m a Libra, Leo Rising woman. I’m in a situation with a man who exudes Aquarius-ness, and it’s just not my business. Moving on. Need someone to recognize a Queen and show her the respect she deserves! Am I right ya’ll or am I right!

  21. I jus love using leos as my stepping stool k so sorry u lions but the truth does hurt so deal with it.And yes im still married to a leo tht i hate use abuse every chance i get to n i luv it..shes not even my type fat n pretty but not pretty to me n she nows it but gullible azz niecey dont care, i never would take her anywhere but she still want n after all i put her through i wouldnt b with me man..God y me lol..Grow up n stop suckn up its 2015 dumbass who do tht..plus i look like seal gross i hate me so i hate u more for liking me

  22. Hello :9 my Gullible lions..We tend to jus use leos since they find us most fascinating, i really dont now y but they do, hold up 1 minute let me think yeah i c y they lov Us so much cause there to 2 nieve lol to cee through 2 the truth…I rathr b with a sag or aries libra n gem lol least they stand there dame ground lolmfafo n dont suckfocate us all tha dame time, well im bout to catch a flight with my 4th wife whom i dont luv.Now i ce y Bobby Brown cheated an used tht whitney houston bytch im glad thats over..By the way sorry im drunk its my bros bday so my spelling is off.well im bout to fly off again with my new wife whom i wont b wit long since im still married to a leo good luck u stupid leos, plus im gay n attrctiv wit aids but they dont care she dont know it yet lol..they take us anywayz

  23. Run for your life Leo sisters! The Aquarius man is a cruel & insecure jerkoff and he will never make you feel like #1!!! Only Libra women can put up with their shit because they are more submissive than a self-sufficient Lioness. We (Leo) women need men that can appreciate our hearts and that believe in love. Most Aquarians don’t even believe in the notion of Love because they are incapable of loving! I have attracted and been attracted to lots of Aquarians and they all have ruined my (love) life! I even put my pride aside and bent over backwards for these unpleasant & selfish jerks. I had the patience, I gave them freedom & space, even tried open relationships, never attached any damn strings, never spoke about my feelings (to not scare them away), yet they’ve managed to hurt me!! They are also huge liars and master manipulators and they aren’t “that” smart either!!!! I know some of you must be reading this and saying that it will not happen to them, but trust me, i use to think the same until it happened over and over again!!!
    For over 6 years, I went to various forums and praised the Aquarius man and how they were supposed to be Leo’s best match. I was so god damn WRONG! I feel so stupid for wasting that much time & energy on these bastards! I was totally insane for thinking so highly of Aquarius men.

    Also, you only see Leos going after Aquarians and not the other way around. Just look how many posts here starts with “I’m a Leo woman…” — how many Aquarians have been posting, here lately, hu? Compare it to the other forums, you will see that Aquarians are interested in any other sign, BUT leo. It’s sounds one-sided most of the time. That is because the AQUARIUS MAN DOES NOT CARE FOR LEO WOMAN, ONLY THE LEO WOMAN CARES FOR THE AQUARIUS MAN! We don’t match, that’s the tough true and we need to wake up and smell the coffee. A relationship / attraction should be equal on both sides. This is just painful!

    Honestly, go for a Capricorn, at least they praise Leo women and they are strong, stoic and faithful, they are the better version of Aquarius. Add all the good traits of Aquarius coming from Saturn MINUS the perverted & filthy traits from Uranus and there you go, you got yourself a sexy & handsome Capricorn man! That’s why Capricorn man > Aquarius man

    Stay Away from Aquarius men! Stay away!

  24. I’ve just started dating an Aquarius n He is The sweetest man I’ve been with in a long time we talk we laugh and our connection is out of this world. We spend all our free time with each other n when He leaves He really wants to sty n I want him to sty. he’s a really good man n I’m falling for him

  25. I’ve just recently starting “talking” I guess you could say? Maybe “courting?” an Aquarius man, and I’m a Leo woman. We’re not an official couple yet, but we’ve known each other for years and always considered the other a friend. This just happened out of nowhere, just as I’ve read most everyone else say lol I think it’s crazy. But I also believe there’s a real connection. We both like our space sometimes, and to be together other times. The odd thing is that I’ve read everyone saying that Leo is jealous and possessive and Aquarius always has one foot out of the relationship, looking to run, and doesn’t share his feelings. That’s not entirely the case with us. I’m a Leo, and I’ll admit that I can get jealous, I usually don’t show nor mention it. He’s an Aquarius, and although I’ve noticed he doesn’t blow up my phone or annoy me with constantly needing me there, he shares his feelings pretty well for a guy recently. He’s been telling me that thinks we might have a real connection and we talk about things. We’re really getting to know each other on a deeper level, and it’s incredible. We do spend a lot of time together though. But if the other has plans or needs space, all is well. There was once where he wanted space and I kept buggin him to come out anyway, and I felt bad for doing so, but he eventually did on his own time, and thanked me for making him.
    We’re already learning from each other and we’re not even a couple yet. But I’m pretty sure it’s inevitable at this point. But we’re both cautious, and strangely enough, I’m the one mainly putting it off, and I’M the Leo. But only because there’s extenuating circumstances preventing it at the moment. (And we’re both single, so neither is cheating.)
    Reading these things has actually been helpful. I was kinda just reading them as a joke to show him later, but they’re so true and relavent.
    My point for writing this: it all makes sense, and seems legit, but there are exceptions sometimes. If you’re looking into your relationship reading this, think of your partner. Just because someone on the Internet said they might be a cheater or looking for a way out, doesn’t mean it’s the case in your situation. Talk it out. This is the happiest I’ve ever been around a guy, and we’re not even dating yet! So, thank you for this post and the comments. Super helpful and eye-opening. (:
    Sorry for writing a book lol

  26. I am a leo woman my husband a Aquarius male. I have never met someone I have been so crazy about in my life. I feel like our worlds revolve around. Each other and I can’t stand being without him. Sometimes though we argue about the most petty things and it drives us nuts. I finally just started to realize it is not worth it to do that to each other. I believe he his more than just my best friend he is my soul mate. I know he needs his space but sometimes I give it at the wrong time. He wants to be close when I think he is trying to rest and I go do something else and it drives him nuts. I have grown to understand him I thnk a lot better, but there is still so much to work on. I have never truly enjoyed any of relationships before this one. We have been together for 4 years married for 2. I never want anyone else and have no desires to meet anyone else because of our connection. I truly believe every one of our disputes can worked out with a disscussion even though I can be his hot tempered wife that gets on his nerves we can take a break and rehash the conversation with civility is what I noticed. If u have the fight once, take some time think about it then come back with a clear mind and a softer heart.

  27. Dear xxx, your guy is a liar and cheater, he is holding on because he likes the sex. That is it. It’s a new adventure for him, a little rendezvous for him so when he leaves his girl that he is actually committed too for a weekend, he will come be with you. It’s not a real relationship it a fantasy for you and him. That’s it. Wake up and get out. He will not ever be with just you or any one person. His is a liar and a cheater. Pray on it. GOD will show you what you were trying Not to see. His kind is beneath you Leo women let that peasant man go. Leo women are Queens and should be treated as such,if they don’t see the royalty and loyalty of your character, dont let the mud miss up your $1,200 shoes. Many blessing to you. And all women that may read this that are not Leo’s you are a Queen too and we have to be treated as such or we will never get the respect we desever.

  28. Hi xxx

    I feel for you and know what you are going through. I was with an Aquarius man for 6 years and he was the exact same. Very detached and never fully committed to me. I felt very deeply for him that i couldn’t break up with him either. Like you said – strong attraction and sexual drive. I’m very jealous and possessive and this was what used to drive us apart and cause a lot of arguments. He was not good at sharing his feelings and kept his emotions hidden. I have a fiery temper and in the end he broke up with me. I lost the best thing that ever happened to me. My advice to you is to not put yourself down as a burden to him, your far from it. I’m sure he feels the exact same for you, but like Aquarian men, they don’t show their feelings much. I would hold out until you both are reunited again and things will be so much better. You both have a future to look forward to. Wish you the best. 🙂

  29. I also think that what the article says is true. I have been with my Aquarius for over four years now, constantly unsure if he cares for me or not. Sometimes he gets so detached, always one foot out of the relationship, that I am almost sure that it is over for us, but then, very unexpectedly, he says or does something, which proves that he does care for me. Now we are both on Erasmus programme, thousands of kilometers away without a way to even visit each other and it is driving me crazy. In an ideal case I would like to hear that he loves me and cares for me and will not leave me several times a day, but as typical Aquarius, he will not do that and it is kind of frustrating being so far away from each other and being unsure of what he feels. The worst part is that I am a very jealous and possessive Leo and with 50 days apart already and 50 more to go, I am constantly afraid he will cheat on me, because sex is an important part of our relationship, one that keep us together in the hardest moments (there is a Leo woman on his dormitory and if the thing about constant attraction and sexual drive towards each other is true, I have really nothing to fight her off with from this distance) Some horoscopes say that Aquarius men are very faithful and almost never cheat, but many of you said their Aquarius cheated on you, so I really don´t know what to think and expect. Sometimes I almost feel like he wishes I would just break up with him so that he can go and explore the new, interesting girls around him, but as I feel deeply for him, I can´t really do that…we promised we will try our best not to break up because of this time apart, but sometimes I feel that I am just a burden to him…

  30. I am a Leo in a 6 months relationship with an Aqaurius man, i cannot believe the connection we have compared to all my other relationships i have had in the past.

    Its strange to see on all the websites i have came across about leos and aqaurius’s because it usually says they start off as friends, me and my man did and I never even saw it coming!! when it happens, it happens.

    i have learnt so much from him and we both feel there is a connection within each other, like in a way like a brotherly sisterly relationship but obviously as partners, i cant really describe it too well.

  31. waterboy, i want to hear more about your situation! If you see this please tell us what happened with you and your wife? I’m hoping for a happy ending to this.

  32. Your opposite sign is the one that will teach you the most. Some can learn, but most will be irritated. I’m a Leo/Virgo and Aquarius men have been very influential in my life. They drive me crazy, but I’m drawn to them.

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