These two can be as happy as can be together, like two stars in a universe of galaxies. The worlds they inhabit -- mentally and psychically -- are so vast and cosmic it actually becomes self-defeating to talk about them. They both understand the necessity of focusing on other aspects of reality in a don't-go-there sort of way. They will appreciate a small world that they build together because it is safe and reliable and mundane in the very best sense of the word. Think of the relief of the galactic traveler when he finally finds a place to hang his hat and call it home. They do not deny the existence of other realities; they just appreciate not having to deal with it when they are together. The problem is that Aquarius is cerebral and Pisces is soulful. This works in a young couple for a first marriage. It becomes more problematical later in life. It can push both of them in to a new center of unified integrity, but that is rare. They just are doomed to worship at separate altars.
How to Attract a Pisces Woman as a Aquarius Man: Throw stars in her eyes -- you're famous for that (Rhett Butler was played by Aquarian Clark Gable). An Aquarian can appear to be the most romantic man on earth. It's just an act, but then the world is a stage, so who's complaining?
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Pisces Woman: Pisces, you have universal appeal -- you contain all 12 signs in one. You can call on any sign or combination of signs to conjure a lover. In this case, it will help to fantasize about the man you're interested in because he will pick that up on a vibrational plane and respond by drawing closer to you in reality. You are, in other words, fishing in the subconscious. You are choosing the bait and the hook. Aquarian bait is cerebral, expansive, shocking, cosmic, liberating or evolutionary. Dangle some of that in front of him. Wear silver earrings and something electrifing blue.
Degree of Romance: This can be one of the most unbelievably romantic relationships in the zodiac. It is like spreading a net of stars across the dark night sky. Everything is silvery and shiny, alluring and seductive, full of visionary promise and delight. It is like the maidens in Arabic paradise, or like a cool drink of water on a hot day. What is promised is soul fulfillment and visionary expanse of consciousness all at the same time. It is truly an out-of-body experience that will put you in a state of altered consciousness, begging for more.
Degree of Passion: This combination is a little too elusive to be called "passionate." Each one is slipping out of range of the other, in a beautiful astral dance. When they never collide, there
Degree of Friendship: They are a little amorphous to be friendly but there is a certain altruistic detachment that could be characterized as such.
Degree of Marriage: This can really work as a marriage. Two astral travelers lost in time and space with the rhythm of the ocean between them like a gi-normous heartbeat.
Progression of Relationship: This relationship is a bit like herding cats. No telling what's going to happen next, but there's one big Okay Zone.
Sex: Sex is going to take on some extraordinary dimensions in this relationship. For one thing it will become the primary means of communication, even more than music or math. It's almost like the invention of a different species -- hard to describe, but on the evolutionary edge for the two people participating.
When It's Over: It's like the vector in chaos theory. Pisces keeps sucking Aquarius back in, him crying desperately the whole time, "Please release me, let me go." It really never ends. It's like a star that's been dying out there for 20 billion years. God help you both.
Our Rating: A mathematical fractal
"Derived from the Latin fractus meaning "broken" or "fractured." A mathematical fractal is based on an equation that undergoes iteration, a form of feedback based on recursion.
A fractal often has the following features:
• It has a fine structure at arbitrarily small scales.
• It is too irregular to be easily described in traditional Euclidean geometric language.
• It is self-similar (at least approximately or stochastically).
• It has a Hausdorff dimension which is greater than its topological dimension (although this requirement is not met by space-filling curves such as the Hilbert curve).
• It has a simple and recursive definition.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fractal

#1 by Carey on October 2nd, 2009
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So true! My ex-husband and I were the epitome of this . . . we are still friends . . . and yes, it never really ends. We will always be friends. And the older we got, the less our marriage worked. . . but the sex -not so much – he was so cerebral.
#2 by nancy on October 3rd, 2009
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I can only imagine how beautiful it was. How blessed you were! Thank you for your feedback.
#3 by Sasha on December 13th, 2009
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My parents have been like this for 20 years. of course, there is conflict, but they love each other so much that they are capable of getting over it.
to this day my dad gives my mom different colours of roses every month… i dont think that passion that they had 20 years ago ever died down.
#4 by Naomi on December 14th, 2009
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This is me and my husband…our life is like scenes from a movie…either magical and surreal, or miserable….really no middle ground. We are obsessed with eachother, but sometimes just can’t stand eachother…keeps things interesting…there’s no lack of excitement, and the make-up sex is out of this world. I recommend an aquarius-pisces relationship…just be prepared for extremes. It works for us, cuz we hate being bored more than anything!
#5 by Erol on December 24th, 2009
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Hi!! This is Erol and me in moon signs. Ditto that last comment. Things are never dull and we’re best friends. What fun we have!
thanks for your continuing insights!
#6 by nancy on December 28th, 2009
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You are truly blessed.
#7 by Richard on March 1st, 2010
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I’ve been seeing a swimmer girl (ironic) since this summer, and all of this fits ina scary fashon since I’m the epitome of Aquarian male, and she by far is rediculously picean weather or not she realizes it. It worries me mildly for the future, HOWEVER, everything has been worth it, and if she gets the chance and we have the time, we will last as long as possible, once these outisde issues are out of the way, I think that this “dying star” will be more like a supermassive black hole where we hate eachother, or a supernova where we outshine the rest of the stars around us!
#8 by A.Man on March 7th, 2010
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I LOVED my Pisces woman..she was wise and deep..as was I..
But she just became to MUCH.
I had to end it,but it was worth wile..
and YES,we are friends..from a DISTANCE..:)
#9 by Lucy on March 12th, 2010
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I have been perusing your site, it’s very interesting indeed. I have been thinking about this person (Aquarius man) for some time. Interestingly enough, the note on how to attract the Aqua guy pretty sums it up for me. I tend to have recurring dreams in where he appears. We have a deep connection in many ways, we have had amorous liaisons. However, he is across the pond. I would love to rekindle again. but when I have dreams he tends to make contact via e-mail or in some form another. Any other tips on how to lure the Aquarius man in??
#10 by Celia on March 30th, 2010
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@ A.Man….if you loved her so much and it was so worthwhile why did you have to end it? And, why friends from a distance? Interested to know…
#11 by Jasmine on March 30th, 2010
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OMG..what Lucy said is very similar for me…if i dream about him, i run into him or he contacts me..and it freaks me out at times..so i dont know if it my crazy intuition picking up on him or if im calling him(as the article says we can)..lmao..idk…we are soooo stuck in a cycle..its frustrating.
#12 by nancy on April 3rd, 2010
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#13 by aguaprofunda on April 16th, 2010
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I learned so much from my Aquarian! Namely, detachment! Which for a Pisces, is a really good thing to learn! Now that the relationship is over, I am happy. It was many many years of struggle and pain, mostly for me. He could easily ignore problems and ignore me…and I would go flip-flopping after him, waiting patiently for the right time to bring something up, which was…never. LOL. Anyway, sex was awesome but there was NO emotional intimacy here (may be due to factors other than his aquarian-ness). Sex was also made extra hot because it was always me trying to “win” him, “reach” him, in some way puncture that shell which is really just a cool aquarian mist, nothing to be pierced, just insubstantial, ephemeral mist to be waved away…there was nothing solid there.
We were friends at first, and the friendship and depth at which I came to know him were part of the reason we broke up and re-united, but ultimately, I was too much for him, he was not enough for me, and we were just too different.
I would have liked to have remained friends, but he did the Aquarian “you never existed” dance and never calls, writes, or seems to think about me (or I would know it). This is a very cold and detached Aquarius male I was dealing with (but oh was he handsome and responsible…honey for the out-there Pisces in me who loves and admires structure) and it ended up hurting me a lot. But in the end, I am so much better for it. I integrated many of the lessons from Aquarius…my emotions are so much the better balanced for having loved passionately at the feet of a god who was completely uninterested in my devotional acts…
#14 by Stacey on May 10th, 2010
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I just got out of a year long relationship with an Aquarian….We fell deeply in love and had more fun the last year than with anyone else. We got along very well, never fought the entire time about anything. However, even though we had so much fun together, and were good friends, we never told eachother about our past, about our dreams or secrets. I got the feeling he really didn’t care. It was hot and wonderful for most of the year, but after that, I realized we weren’t soul mates, we both lead two separate lives and never really connected our dreams or future together. After an entire year, he still doesn’t know anything about my first marriage, my childrens birth or younger years, my high school days, my family, etc., and it’s not like I don’t like talking…just always got the feeling after I started talking, he didn’t want to hear about anything. He at first seemed very romantic and very giving, but after a while, I could see he was selfish and very bottled up. He never told me about himself, even if I asked, things like dreams or fears or secrets…just basic things. Sex was wonderful, the best ever. But it was mostly just that – sex, not really love making. And, no it still doesn’t seem over…he keeps calling, texting and trying, and because he’s so nice, it’s difficult for me to tell him to get lost. I can’t seem to put my finger on any one specific thing he did wrong, just never seemed to spiritually connect. He was an only child and lived with his parents at the age of 30 as well, so this contributed to his selfishness too. I don’t regret the relationship, it’s what I needed at the time, but it was going nowhere.
#15 by marjolane on May 18th, 2010
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Wow….I have never read such an accurate description of our relationship. Truly amazing. I will re read this over and over to help me get through our break up, which is occurring just exactly as described. Thank you.
#16 by nancy on June 13th, 2010
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@marjolane
Thanks for the feedback. Please tell a friend.
#17 by nancy on June 13th, 2010
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#18 by Ila on June 29th, 2010
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That whole thing was right on point. I didn’t realize how special she was until it was over. I still feel her fish or rather dance with me with her subconscious. We experienced the highest of highs and somehow ere able to keep evolving that. She is in me and I’m in her, like we had a semi-rebirth with part of each others essences.
you wrote,
“It’s like the vector in chaos theory. Pisces keeps sucking Aquarius back in, him crying desperately the whole time, “Please release me, let me go.” It really never ends. It’s like a star that’s been dying out there for 20 billion years. God help you both.”
She is now married with a kid, this pregnancy happened 2 months after we broke up. What am I supposed to do, I mean really? This is ridiculous, madeness, I don’t want this, but I miss her every single day. She predicted what will happen later in life, now I’m even more confused.
#19 by Ila on June 29th, 2010
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I read a few others (descriptions) and this is the most accurate, the others didn’t fit.
this is ironically hilarious,
#20 by cinder on July 23rd, 2010
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Wow! This is really freaking me out! I got out of a 4 year relationship with a Taurus and i’m now happily married to an aquarian man and we have a beautiful daughter together. We are young newlyweds and this kind of feedback is not something I wanted to find out, but i’m really supersticious and now im scared I love him sooo much though im jut going to give it my best and fight for it to last till the end! hopefully i’m one of the spared few who can last =/
#21 by Aanemone on August 27th, 2010
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After being in bad marriage w/virgo for over 10 yrs– I was jarred awake by this amazing brilliant aquarian man. He doesnt even know my name, but he has changed my life. I woke up and stood up and Im making the right chnges. Since the 1st time I saw him, I cant stop thinking about him- & whenI think how I want to see him…he’s there at every turn, on the elevator, or we pass thru doors at same time. Crazy. I dont think I’ll ever say anything but Ill aways send love/luck thru universe for him.