What happens when the Mad Scientist meets Dr. Frankenstein? Both creators and destroyers of world, Aquarius and Scorpio play for some pretty high stakes. But at least they understand this about each other. They are two very powerful, strong-willed people who can do anything they agree upon. An Aquarius man will not be fazed at all by a Scorpio woman's "powers." The reputation she has as The Temptress does not concern him in the least because it is impossible for him to be pulled into her force field other than voluntarily, so strong is his will. Contrary to what you might think, this is a relief to the Scorpio woman because it liberates her of the burden of always having to be the seducer.
How to Attract a Scorpio Woman as an Aquarius Man: The biggest gift you can give a Scorpio woman who has caught your eye is to let her know in no uncertain terms that are you are not intimidated by her. This would probably be such a relief to her that she will curl up in your lap and cover your face with kisses. In fact you could throw in a wild card and treat her like a friend. Believe me, no man has ever done that before. This sets you apart and gets her to take a new look at you as a possible suitor. If you really want to keep her enthralled, pretend you are indifferent to sex.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Scorpio Woman: The Aquarius man is so cerebral that he has a blind side sexually. That's where you have your advantage. All the time that he's throwing friendship at your and spouting detached commentary about "saving the world,” his favorite cause, and the latest U2 Concert, the more you should vibrate on a very yin sexual frequency to draw him out of his world and into your own. Never try to compete with him intellectually. Use your God-given strength to your own advantage.
Degree of Romance: This can be an incredibly romantic relationship. The Aquarius man will be very vulnerable to the Scorpio woman's erotic skills and talents. Likely she will take him places he has never gone before. This will ultimately bring them very close together as they share intimately secrets that they keep from everyone else. You can be sure that Aquarius has never felt these things before and that is a very precious thing to have between two people.
Degree of Passion: Aquarius is also very vulnerable to the experience of passion when he is with a Scorpio woman. He may, in fact, discover it for the first time. Scorpio will be very tolerant of this fact.
Degree of Friendship: This relationship can be cemented firmly in place with the glue of friendship. Both signs are fixed and loyal. Both signs have a do-or-die, all-or-nothing philosophy. Neither would dream of betraying a confidence or letting a friend down, and they will consider each other the very best of friends.
Degree of Marriage: The prospects for marriage are terrific. Both partners value lasting commitments and are capable of offering that in return for a vow of fidelity. These are the two least likely to cheat and they are, in my opinion, the two most likely signs
Progression of Relationship: Here are two people who don't play games. The attraction is likely to be instantaneous. Scorpios are famous for love at first sight because of their dead-eye perceptivity. Many a Scorpio has said, "I knew he was the one the minute I laid eyes on him." Aquarians have an electrifying radar which sends a jolt of recognition through them when they are in the presence of their soul-mate. When these two factors are present, these partners call it a lay down, and playing the cards out is just going through the motions. This makes the courtship especially enjoyable, knowing that it will have a successful ending.
Sex: If the friendship is strong, the special connection is over the top. In order to keep my PG rating as an astrologer, I will not go into detail about what to expect other than to say that a veritable feast is in the offering. Whatever fantasies their sexual appetite has conjured, they can expect them to be fulfilled beyond their wildest dreams. They can make love the way it can only be done on a foundation of absolute trust.
When It’s Over: This one is likely to last beyond the current lifetime. It is quite possible that fate has brought these two together and will hold them together to complete a vow made in a former lifetime. If the fates should decree that an ending is necessary, the Aquarius man and Scorpio woman will probably be unbelievably civil. Both parties will hide their pain -- out of respect for one another and will do what is expected to unwind their affairs responsibly. Years later, Scorpio will dream about her Aquarian man as she prepares for bed, and the Aquarian man will nurture a secret hope that they will meet again in a future lifetime.
Our Rating: 10/10

#1 by Connie on March 19th, 2010
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wow – very true – i am the scorp and my hubby aqua – we both are so into each other as we have been for 20 years – our son almost 9 is a cancer/leo – born on the 22nd of july. we all love each other dearly – can u give me an insite on how to sustain our great love for each other as our son gets older – he is sensitve and want the best for him.
#2 by sc0rpiongirl on March 22nd, 2010
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hmmm this is the one that I am totally in disagreement with. I had dated a few (3/4 I think?) Aquarius men in the past, all short-live from several months to on-and-off a year + a little, and all of them were one way or the other painful experiences for me. Aqua guys just seem to have problem with Scorp’s intense passion, they got scared, they retreat when I show my passion and loving nature, so I had to pretend and act and hide my true feelings as well as the intensity in order to co-exist with him in a seem-compatible way but of course it won’t last long as how can it be a happy life when one has to pretend and press oneself on a regular basis?? He likes freedom, a lot! He had many friends and seemed to want to please every friend even more than please me. Although the bedroom part was great but emotionally I can never get the kind of attention, passion and pamper a Scorp craves for, which ultimately put me in depression constantly. But the “stupid” part is, when I broke up with him, he would almost always come back and be extremely sweet and passionate for, like, a few days, then everything is back to the bad normal. LOL. It took some time to finally “get rid of” the Aqu I was with. But really I found it being the hardest to work out with. The intensity and passion a Scorp wants and wants to share with the man she’s with is something that an Aqua guy can not take, it would seem! For those who could work it out, I suspect the rising sun and moom sign must have something to help…
#3 by Tara on April 7th, 2010
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My first love is an aqua man, after seven years of romance, we lost each other for almost 18 years.
Year and half ago we found each other back, and romancing again like teenager.
but he is still married, I am getting my divorce.
I hope we will be together.
He is my soulmate.
#4 by natt on April 8th, 2010
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Yeap. My moon sign describes me the best. I’m a sun scorpio and moon taurus. So in other way i am quite egoistic, and aquarius tend to be quite boastful about their ‘perfect looks’ so i don’t need that you know. But as friendship it’s quite true cause i remain friends with my ex aquarian eventhough he cheated on me. I don’t know why but aquarian ring a bell that they’re not right for me – cause i’m independent, strong willed and powerful than him so i don’t really need anymore support on that criteria. Just need someone different! perhaps leo or cancer!
#5 by Sally on July 3rd, 2010
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im a taurus with a scorpio moon girl inlove with anquarian,i feel like he doesnt give a shit about my emotions in fact he plays stupid games with my emotions only to hurt me.its like he loves doing it.im very straight out & hate mind games.plus its always all about them.and what they want.they r selfish
#6 by starryeyedscorpion on July 8th, 2010
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i must say i’m totally for this post! i’ve been involved with my aquarian for about 15 years now. since high school
he and i fit our signs to the T. we compliment eachother very well, even though we drive eachother completely mad. we always seem to reach a compromise. i keep him grounded, he keeps me relaxed. when we argue, its not for long. and we end up talking maturely rather than scream and yell. we broke up after about 3 months of dating, but we stayed very close. its safe to say that we are friends first and foremost. that, i believe, is the reason we have lasted so long. through heartbreaks and divorce, we always found our way back to eachother. we are both very stubborn individuals, but we love to compromise to make it work. i have found that he tends to be distant at times, but he more than makes up for it when he comes around. our relationship hasnt been easy. but we totally just “get” eachother. somehow we find the perfect balance… maybe its just luck. regardless, he an i are so meant to be
he’s intellectual, i’m sensual. of all the men i’ve dated, he’s the only one who has ever allowed me to feel like it was ok to be myself. same goes for him. he’d rather be brutally honest rather than lie to me. and i respect him so much more for that. don’t know if our signs have anything to do with it, but hey, i’m a believer
good luck to all of you!
#7 by cathy L. on August 11th, 2010
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This post made me so happy! Every where i read it says that we should not be together that we are in-compatable. I dont think we are in compatible in any way. We usually get along great, we have a few mis understandings, but nothing we dont get over right away. I never been this happy with someone before and never actually looked forward to seeing someone every day or waiting for a hug when ever i get the chance! We have been dating for just about 2yrs and i still wake up with him on my mind!
#8 by heartbroken & confused on August 20th, 2010
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I have a guy friend who is an Aquarius and I’m a Scorpio and we are “best friends”. You’re right about how I can totally feel myself with him and not feel judged. He’s a good listener and gives real advice. All we do is laugh and cut up when we are together. At one point he wanted more but I didn’t think we were a good match. Maybe I should rethink the possibilities.