Scorpio Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility

Famous Scorpio-Aquarius Couples:  Julia Roberts and Daniel Moder, Sally Field and Burt Reynolds, Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, Tatum O’Neal and John McEnroe, Rebecca Romijn and Jerry O’Connell

What happens when the Mad Scientist meets Dr. Frankenstein?  Both creators and destroyers of world, Aquarius and Scorpio play for some pretty high stakes.  But at least they understand this about each other.  They are two very powerful, strong-willed people who can do anything they agree upon.  An Aquarius man will not be fazed at all by a Scorpio woman’s “powers.”  The reputation she has as The Temptress does not concern him in the least because it is impossible for him to be pulled into her force field other than voluntarily, so strong is his will.  Contrary to what you might think, this is a relief to the Scorpio woman because it liberates her of the burden of always having to be the seducer.

How to Attract a Scorpio Woman as an Aquarius Man:  The biggest gift you can give a Scorpio woman who has caught your eye is to let her know in no uncertain terms that are you are not intimidated by her.  This would probably be such a relief to her that she will curl up in your lap and cover your face with kisses.  In fact you could throw in a wild card and treat her like a friend.  Believe me, no man has ever done that before.  This sets you apart and gets her to take a new look at you as a possible suitor.  If you really want to keep her enthralled, pretend you are indifferent to sex.

How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Scorpio Woman:  The Aquarius man is so cerebral that he has a blind side sexually.  That’s where you have your advantage.  All the time that he’s throwing friendship at your and spouting detached commentary about “saving the world,”  his favorite cause, and the latest U2 Concert, the more you should vibrate on a very yin sexual frequency to draw him out of his world and into your own.  Never try to compete with him intellectually.  Use your God-given strength to your own advantage.

Degree of Romance:   This can be an incredibly romantic relationship.  The Aquarius man will be very vulnerable to the Scorpio woman’s erotic skills and talents.  Likely she will take him places he has never gone before.  This will ultimately bring them very close together as they share intimately secrets that they keep from everyone else.  You can be sure that Aquarius has never felt these things before and that is a very precious thing to have between two people.

Degree of Passion:   Aquarius is also very vulnerable to the experience of passion when he is with a Scorpio woman.  He may, in fact, discover it for the first time.  Scorpio will be very tolerant of this fact.

Degree of Friendship:  This relationship can be cemented firmly in place with the glue of friendship.  Both signs are fixed and loyal.  Both signs have a do-or-die, all-or-nothing philosophy.  Neither would dream of betraying a confidence or letting a friend down, and they will consider each other the very best of friends.

Degree of Marriage:  The prospects for marriage are terrific.  Both partners value lasting commitments and are capable of offering that in return for a vow of fidelity.  These are the two least likely to cheat and they are, in my opinion, the two most likely signs to stay together “forever,” truly for better or for worse.  Somehow Aquarius takes the sting out of Scorpio, and Scorpio takes the loneliness out of being an Aquarian.  Why would they ever leave each other?

Progression of Relationship:   Here are two people who don’t play games.  The attraction is likely to be instantaneous.  Scorpios are famous for love at first sight because of their dead-eye perceptivity.  Many a Scorpio has said, “I knew he was the one the minute I laid eyes on him.”  Aquarians have an electrifying radar which sends a jolt of recognition through them when they are in the presence of their soul-mate.  When these two factors are present, these partners call it a lay down, and playing the cards out is just going through the motions.  This makes the courtship especially enjoyable, knowing that it will have a successful ending.

Sex:   If the friendship is strong, the special connection is over the top.  In order to keep my PG rating as an astrologer, I will not go into detail about what to expect other than to say that a veritable feast is in the offering.  Whatever fantasies their sexual appetite has conjured, they can expect them to be fulfilled beyond their wildest dreams.  They can make love the way it can only be done on a foundation of absolute trust.

When It’s Over:  This one is likely to last beyond the current lifetime.  It is quite possible that fate has brought these two together and will hold them together to complete a vow made in a former lifetime.  If the fates should decree that an ending is necessary, the Aquarius man and Scorpio woman will probably be unbelievably civil. Both parties will hide their pain — out of respect for one another and will do what is expected to unwind their affairs responsibly.  Years later, Scorpio will dream about her Aquarian man as she prepares for bed, and the Aquarian man will nurture a secret hope that they will meet again in a future lifetime.

Our Rating:  10/10

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149 Responses to Scorpio Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility

  • hmmmmm says:

    wow, rachael mcadams who is a scorpio woman is dating michael sheen who is feb. 5, aquarius:

    what the hell is going on with scorpio woman/aqua men connection? it must be really electrifying or something.

  • DragonLady says:

    To NeverAgain! – I read your statement and had no choice but to provide a response – I am a Scorpio female (currently enamored by an Aquarius man) – and I personally have dealt with many Aquarius people and they can seem to be difficult to deal with – but that’s if you don’t understand them. I really think it takes an evolved Scorpio to deal with them. There is something between these two signs that brings about revolution as well as evolution… both signs will need to appreciate each other’s differences – and that only comes with maturity and patience. What this astrologer has said is indeed true! I know of these couples – and the bond that they share is unbreakable and more genuine and loving than I have ever witnessed in my life (and most have ever dreamed of!)… there is great potential in this match… but it depends on the individual, especially the Aquarius counterpart – the last thing anyone needs is a scarred and damaged Aquarius – nothing harmonious can come from that – I am assuming that is the type of Aquarius you were referring to – they are VERY sensitive “souls” and if they are truly hurt (especially in their younger formative years) they may never recover and will evolve to be damaged callous adults. Try to be understanding – show compassion and most importantly: BE PATIENT!

  • Starkyjnr says:

    Ok scorpios I think its time for a true world shaper! I’m an aqua man and i’ve dated 2 scorpios in my time! Both I fell for and both destroyed me. The frist kept going back to her ex cheating on me and the last was to interested in her 3 jobs and uni work!!! I don’t understand what I could be doing wrong if scorpios are so intense I am yet to see it! What bugs me is that I only really feel the electric with a scopio but just can’t hold em. Dont get me wrong i like my space but wouldnt ignore a text or a phone call as a scorpio can do so well i think its just plain rude!!! You would be suprised how much emotion an aqua man can have its just we have the ability to shut it off if we are getting mistreated. Its funny someone said be careful of a damaged aqua but what happens when its a scorpio thats done the damage! Perhaps one day i will meet proper scorpio but until then who knows but there is no doubt in my mind that a scopian is my true yin to my yang and will be honored to have me as a soul mate!
    For all you scorpios out there hold on cause there are good aquarians out there waiting for the right one and when he finds you or you find him you will never get rid of him (unless you choose to)

  • Starr farias says:

    Soo true me (a Scorpio ) & my best friend (aquarius ) we tried sex once & we knew nothing was there we love each other to death but as friends .

  • Sol says:

    I’m a scorpion women was with a Aquarius man for 5yrs. We broke up the first time 5 months after we started dating because he was hot tempered and volatile. We got back together many times because he faught for our relationship. I returned to him because I am patient and know he has many great qualities, but he continued to be frustrated with my personality. He wanted me to change and I tried and could never meet his expectations. I always felt he belittled me with his criticism and condescending statements. I had to let him go for good when I kept waking up by stomach cramps in the middle of the night from the stress of his way with me.

  • niica says:

    7 years together (i am 26 and he will be 30 soon) …and to each other we have lied, cheated, stolen, betrayed, loved, laughed and lived…and here we are today, still loving to hate each othr …
    And i thru it all, i too ask myself “why would we ever leave other?”
    …smh my heart hurts everyday. But at least we’ll always have the it rite :/
    Hope the Lord Blesses us

  • belleprinchepa says:

    I’m a Scorpio women and I’m dating this Aquarius man. I’m gonna say all the good things about him first lol, he’s a good man, his intellectually stimulates my mind, and when he watches national geographic he turns me in the worst way, when we have sex is great so great that he makes my water flow so hard that when I’m not around him that’s all I can think of, we have been talking over three months going on four and already I’m beginning to feel my heart beat fast when I’m around, I call it love but its too soon I don’t wanna freak him out, our first date he took to its like a bridge and we was in the car for about an hour, he asked me what would I like to do I did not know what to say so I said let’s go to your place, and that’s when we had sex, ever since we’ve been at it bit not so often I’m a nurse he’s a cop, and his schedule is overwhelming at times, we go 3 weeks at a time not speaking to one another(here goes the bad part) last time I seen him was Thursday night I sent a pic of my dress then he was bold enough to ask me to come over, and so I did it was 12:00 a clock midnight we did what we did he dropped me off home. Friday night I txt him no response, I said good morning this morning no response! I understand I just seen him let the guy breath right, but he has me so open so open it turns me on, I don’t take rejection well, and I don’t think he necessarily rejected me he probably needs his space he seen me twice this week, but one thing I hate him not responding to my text mags right away,or the three week not speaking his job has a lot to do with that, but I’m not trying to make excuses for him I want it to work so bad, its hard to explain, he’s so sexy, and I’m losing weight but I’m a thick girl he’s fit I’m feeling insercure, but he don’t care, about my weight, and also Tuesday when I seen him we were getting into it and I spotted blood he was cool about it but I freaked out I cried, but I wipe my tears away as soon as he walked back in the room, what can a girl like me do I’m so into him any advise.

  • joenkori says:

    It’s wierd because I’m a Aquarius and my fiancee is Scorpio…

  • LovelyScorpio says:

    I am a scorpio woman dating an aquarius man. We’ve been dating for 5 month but we were friends for a year and been through so much as if it was 5 years. We been through lies cheating betrayal and many more but in the end I really love him I know that theres love there from both parties.

  • ToxicGrainne says:

    I’m very much a strong Scorpio woman with a very challenging Aquarius Man – I’ve been in a loving and powerful relationship with him for over a year now (happily engaged too). He’s been there for me constantly through my emotional traumas and turmoils and I’ve been there to draw him out of his little ‘box’ in which he shelters in along with his thoughts and feelings. He is a bit of a rebel with his own ideas and philosophy, he’s a deep thinker and artistic.

    We also believed we may have seen each other in our past lives – one reason being was that I recieved an instant deep connection to him when we first met online, very strong and powerful yet exciting vibes.

    I can’t imagine my life without my Aquarius – he means the universe to me. And this astrology is so accurate on how we are.

  • Bourne2shine says:

    I had the privilege of knowing and loving a GREAT Aquarius man…I am a Scorpio woman in all my glories and flaws and he was the ONLY one who I felt tamed me….I was instantly drawn into his profile on a online dating site, we courted for months and eventually started to date. though the love affair was short(my love left this world 11-3-11) he ignited passion in me I thought I would NEVER experience. It was a FairyTale love affair…one only the best poets and writers could TRY to recreate. I felt his love so strongly even when we were miles apart(we were in a long distance relationship), and when he left this world we were so ATTACHED, I felt the moment he left me….I only hope to find another Aquarius man to love me half as good as my Ernest loved me! He has made such a lasting mark on me, I am more thankful and happy for the opportunity than sad at the lost…he has given me a reason to not fear death because I know we will share our love again in another LIFETIME!…

  • Luvschmacked says:

    Well I absolutely NeVer leave comments or respond, but I felt a need to post my experience as it may benefit someone else (the same that I have benefited from reading everyone else’s). I am a Scorpio women completely in love with an Aquarius man. However, things are a bit estranged right now.

    I met him online and he pursued me hardcore. I was not interested in a relationship with him. I was just enjoying the conversation and having fun. We clicked through our numerous conversations. When I spoke to him on the phone I was immediately attracted to his voice. This went on for roughly a month. He kept begging me to meet him in person and I was reluctant, but I finally did. When I met him I felt an instantaneous pull or draw to him. We spent the entire evening kissing in the rain. It was awesome.

    We kept chatting through text and getting together. Every time I was with him it was wonderful. He kept pursuing me and wanting to be with me. I almost walked away many times because I felt as though maybe things weren’t working. I wanted more time and love making than he was offering. Being together with him physically is amazing and completely transcends any other relationship I have ever had. He truly is the best I have ever been with and it really does not have much to with the sex, it is the connection. It was at this time (an argument) that he told me for the first time and with tears in his eyes that he loved me and was “in” love with me. I was floored.

    He kept pushing to see if I felt the same way. As you know us Scorps are very guarded emotionally because it runs so deep and has the power to destroy us if used against us. He told me I was safe and that I should not deny what I was feeling for him. I started to give in to it and it was amazing and terrifying all at the same time. I felt at any moment I could be cut open and bleed out nothing but love all over the place. Things went great for about month. Everything seemed good. He was very protective, romantic, and attentive. Then he started to act moody and started distancing himself from me. Having seemingly “silly” reasons for keeping to himself. Well I didn’t take very well to this and his distance drove me crazy, made me angry, and I pushed to figure it out. I couldn’t understand how someone could say that they love but not really want to spend any time with you. I wish I would’ve known a little better because I would have just back off a lot sooner. Instead I spent the last three weeks trying to “figure things out” and pushing him away in the process.

    Well I don’t know about the rest of you Scorpions but I do NOT want anybody who doesn’t want me. I will never force anybody to love me or have feelings for me. I am just so confused because he pursued me so strong and he told me he was “in love” with me and mentioned kids and everything. The sudden change threw me for a loop and I will admit I responded poorly to the test. I didn’t really go overboard but it did cause tension and a riff.

    So last week when I realized my efforts were not helping I backed off… wayyyy off. He sent me text stating that he wished I would just tell him that I hated him and stuff like that and that it was better than ignoring him. I wasn’t ignoring him, he was ignoring me. He would respond to text messages I sent him very shortly and wasn’t really reaching out to me at all. I sent him pleasant texts stating that I was not mad at him and that I did not feel that way. The last I heard from him was Weds. night and it has been almost three whole days with no contact. It has been almost two weeks since we were last intimate and a week and a half since I last seen him. It is killing me, but I cannot chase him any longer. I have to have some dignity and he pulled away from me not the other way around. I have tried to entice him back but it has not worked so I guess that only thing I can do is let go. I miss him like crazy though.

    If he doesn’t come after me I don’t know how I will handle it but I am sure that I will not soon forget him or the connection we had.

  • sizenth says:

    it ws about 4 to 6 months we chated…i fel in luv vd hm bt nw v r aprt he dumpd meh…i dont think there is any sucesful relstnsip between scorpios and aquarious

  • Sweetheart says:

    I am a Scorpio woman and I met my Aquarian man in 1987, I was 21 years if age and he was 23 years if age. We met in a bad situation and we resided around the same area. We were confined and we would write each Bd rl each other that we we both came home that we would be together, but I came home first and fit caught up with another dude that was like a brother to the Borg of us, and we never pursued each other. Well for years I knew that gene was the one for me, I admired him so much, he was and still is my hero. I’m real popular in our neighborhood and so is he, we know a lot of the same people. We never got together, he was doing big things abs women were falling his feet, he was doing the picking and the choosing, but what I believed was that they only wanted him because he is a BIG WIG in our city and elsewhere and he I is financially stable, so I don’t think that any of them genuinely loved him for him.

    I loved him for him back in 1987, and have carried a torch for him through the years and even while I was in numerous relationships
    . I came across him in 2009 driving down the street and happened to turn my head and we caught each others eye, and I became so overwhelmed by seeing him that I did not know to do so I gave him the bird. I kept driving, he called my phone and asked me to pull over, I responded no and he said something very nasty to me in a sexual way and I loved it, I told him that he was disrespecting me, he then said something rude and I hung up.

    Now fast forward, this is 2012 I reached out to him January, we both are married and we can hold beautiful conversations and we can talk about anything. What I love the most that we have been friends for 25 years. Aquarians want to be friends first, I’m good in that category, and we have so much respect for each others lives that we have been living up until this point. Now I said we are both married and I love him just as much as I love him, If not more. We are going to get together inspite of our marriages. I loved him for 25 years, timing is everything. You only live once. He tells me how he admires the strong side of me and my Scorpio traits. We will connect around May, just to get our affairs in order. He completes me and he very attentive to my feelings and my needs.

    He told me that back in 1987 we were suppose to have children, get married and grow old together and I thought so to but now is our time and also even though we are married , I feel like I am entitled to sleep with him and form a good healthy relationship. As king as there is proper communication we will be fine, who knows we may just leave our marriages and make one of our own. If its Gods will, because I’m in a marraige now my husband is not being faithful at all so I know that two wrongs don’t make a right but this has been 25 years in the makings and I believe that we can make it work if we want to. We haven’t talked much about his wife but I’ve heard things that don’t sound good, but I can only listen to what he says. I believe that we will be fine as long as there is proper communication and respect each others personalities. Im in live with him and have since the day I laid eyes on him.

  • Imisshersomuch says:

    Mmmmm, what can I say other then how true are your words on these two star signs, mid last year I meet a Scorpio lady, WOW we went into another world my love for her was like no other we just clicked from the start so many emails and texts leading up to us meeting and we we meet we just couldnt get enough of each other. Our feelings for each other got stronger and stonger I couldnt get enough of her and when ever I was not with her I wanted her we spent nigts texting and my life was her she made me feel loved and I loved her dearly, I miss her so much my heart pounds when I think about her not a day goes by that I want to chat to her even see her, I drive by her work hoping to see her just seeing her car makes me feel like she is there, I have never felt like this before and dont know if I can go on with out her, we really had a connection like no other, I still love her like no other and wish things could be different that we could be together I feel so empty every day I wake I hope waht you say is true and maybe one day our paths will cross again if she is out there know that my love for you is just as strong and I miss you dearly xxxxxx

  • Imissshersomuch says:

    Let the stars bring us together my love

  • Imissshersomuch says:

    My heart is burning to see my scorpio lady or just see her words or feel her breath, not a day goes by that I don’t have her in my thoughts,

  • popsleigh says:

    I hope this is truly accurate. I am a scorpio and my boyfriend is an aquarius. Our relationship is electrifying!

  • Imisshersomuch says:

    Another day goes by and my heart still cries for my Scorpio lover, every where I go I hope to see her I check my emails every 5 min’s to see if she messages me, I watch my chat all day in hope she says something, it is true about or bond I will never get over her for as long as I live she was the warmest lover I have ever had I felt real love when I was with her, we clicked from the first time we chatted and then when we meet or feelings for each other were so strong, I do miss you my lovely Lady you brought me so much life and happtness you gave me love like no other has and I would say no will ever will from this day on, I see your lovely smile from the times we shared and your warm naked body wrapped around me when we slept, I miss you lovely lady more then you will ever know feel me love and my feelings for you every day you wake,
    Just to hold you and kiss your soft lips would be so wonderful know my heart is by your side now and always we will one day hold each other and I will give you all my love then I want for you so much let the stars bring you to this site and start our paths crossing once more love you my lovely lady xxxxx

  • Imisshersomuch says:

    Oh god help me with this pain, I saw her for the first time for so long I dont know if she saw me, my herat nearly exploded wanting to hold her, I am so torn between the one I love and the one I wed, I am so lonely for the love I once had with my scorpio lady but dont know what to do I am sick with the thought of not holding her or having her in my life, I dont know how she feels but if it is anything like I feel for her I am sorry for the hurt I am causing her because it makes my heart bleed every day I hope the stars can lead me in the right direction or help me deal with this pain she is as beautiful as I remember I want so much to sit with her and feel her breath on my face and feeel her touch, I miss her more then anything in this world

  • Imisshersomuch says:

    I cannot breath when I think about her and not having her by my side

  • Spanish Aquarius who dated a scorpio girl 2 long years says:

    I am aquarius(21 years old) dated this scorpio girl (19 years old) for 2 years and she’s a mess to say the least, she thinks too high of herself when she’s really clueless. My relationship with her was a mess and I wonder if she was even aware of how clueless and weak she is. However I always had a feeling that I pity her and ready to forgive her for some reason until 4 months ago I had a perfect chance to take revenge from her and I did it, I felt the greatest pleasure ever when I saw her crying, only then I made sure she admits my strength and manliness. I’m so glad and I dated 2 scorp girls after her, they were the same selfish delusional person but I made sure to teach them a good lesson aswell. Now dating a beautiful taurus woman, I told her everything about my previous failed relationship and she was very thoughtful and helpful, if I told that to the scorpio girl she’d start making fun of it or giving me emotional pressure. I really love my taurus princess more than the scorpio little girl. I still miss the scorpio girl but I know it’s just a fake feeling because if I loved her I wouldn’t have treated her that way

  • Spanish Aquarius who dated a scorpio girl 2 long years says:

    Now that I think of her, I notice that she has all the traits that I can’t stand (distrusting, very secretive, irrational) and that I have all the traits that she appreciates according to her scorpio nature (very loyal, fixed in my ways, trustworthy, upfront, courageous, financially stable etc) but she took me for granted. I want to curse the past and the day I met her because she wasted my time and hers with great skill and persistence buts pointless now. My experience with scorpio girls is biased because they all tend to take me for granted and pretend to know everything about me without even knowing anything what makes me angry and abusive beyond imagination.
    My conclusion is to never give a scorpio girl the chance to step on you, be quick, be goal oriented, merciless, proud, hard to get and you will win her heart forever but then you will wonder if she’s what you really want because you cannot be your humble, thoughtful, fun loving self with her.

  • TK says:

    Alright – here’s my story.

    I’m a Scorpio woman dating an Aquarius man. I met him online 6 years ago (on World of Warcraft – don’t laugh! Forget the stereotype about fat old men playing these games. I’m a rather petite girl >:C) when I was 13 and he was 15. We started talking and this moved on to Skype, where we developed a closer relationship. It all started with mental stimulation. There was no physical aspect to our relationship.

    At that age, I had already gone through a lot to have a closely guarded heart and emotions, but through talking to this Aquarius, I began to see a happier side of life. He showed me the world through a very different perspective and was willing to talk to me on a wide, wide range of subjects and.. this is intrigued me. This boy was a complete mystery to me and I just had this insatiable curiosity – I NEEDED to know more about him and more about what was going on in his mind.

    This went on for a few years and, eventually, I made my move. Since we were across the country from each other, there was no physical aspect. So I created one. I would then send racy pictures to him via text messaging (shame shame! ;P) and, well, the reaction was not only intriguing to me, but exciting. I liked that I could get someone’s heart racing and I liked that only I could get that kind of reaction out of him.

    While he controls the realm of the mind, I – as a Scorpio – dominate the realm of body and soul. I feel that we complete each other. It might be considered silly that I’m still with him now and haven’t gone out of my way to date other people, but we knew from the beginning that we were meant to be together. I have no desire to date other people. I meet attractive people with attractive personalities who try to win me over quite often, but they’ll never make my heart skip a beat like my Aquarius does.

    Long story short – we started as the absolute best of friends who can talk to each other about ANYTHING (and still can!) and he has this quirky sense of humor that always makes me laugh and there’s ALWAYS something new about him, so I can NEVER get bored when he’s around.
    It also helps that we are both very mature individuals. Immature Scorpios are EXTREMELY destructive individuals to themselves and others around them! They’re very dangerous to be around! I would know, being one myself and having gone through that stage at a young age (like I said – I’ve been through quite a bit). So, Aquarian men, beware. Be absolutely sure to be FRIENDS with these women before you try ANYTHING else. Scorpio woman rather do enjoy the hunt and having that trust from a friendship can be a very sexy thing. (:

  • Reader says:

    Hi, I’ve read your other stuff on Aquarius, you’re really spot on with 90% of them (which is awesome), especially the Pisces, Capricorn, Libra, and Virgo, the others are great too. But this one is a little off. Of course I can only go with my experience, as an aqua man, but having been engaged to a scorpio at a young age, and then dated quite a few other signs after that, I can say I am so happy I did not marry that woman. She has some incredible qualities, but it was miserable overall and negative/critical while also being real accepting and tolerant at the same time which is not healthy. Even the Scorpio girls I’ve dated since (for some reason they always come into my life, relieved to find me and we have incredible moments) just are not so open-minded or too stubborn even for the aquarius which leads to being overly sensitive in a volcanic waiting to erupt several times or sting type of way, which is ok, and can melt gently, but it just gets tedious and really unnecessary as a pattern. Also Aquarius men, some of them, do not intellectually trust the scorpio, yes they are confident, but the results are not the most dependable. The highs are incredible, and it is very passionate, but such highs can be achieved with a more sweet kind wise and sensitive pisces or a more incredible to make love to capricorn, where soul connection can be more important than how it feels, where you no longer are 2 bodies and the way you hold eachother naked is fulfilling enough. I’d give this match an 8/10, because it can keep going, and the idea of breaking up can be too unbearable, I had to move to Australia for 5 months just to get over it, but since I did, I am so happy about it because I learned that love and passion and desire are not enough, you really need to be compatible also. She used to say love conquers all, she’s right, love for being happy and finding a true soulmate does conquer being in love with a scorpio.

  • Tropic of Cap says:

    @ Reader –

    wow – thanks for commenting – enjoyed reading your perspective.

  • Nataleen777 says:

    Scorpio men have always had a crush on me…since I was 8! but those guys are really turned on anyway, I’m an aquarius girl and I
    love scorpios affection…there dickheads so it surprises me when they insist…I’m very easy to a scorpio they never think I’m weird cus of my attitude problem. I’m with another scorpio again, he calls me princess, hes very jealous, possesive, secretive and dark or crabby. Scorpios are adorable…they think I’m pretty too, and they like me anyway, my bitchfits never break us up but they do tell me I’m cold…well I dont wanna be cold or stereo typed as a darkov
    what about them, there annoyed and work a lot :( My moons in saggitarius and my venus is in pisces and my
    ascendent is in Gemini and in indian astrology my verdict is scorpio…help I dont wanna be a goth girl…

  • Wish we were together says:

    I miss my scorpio partner so much my life has no meaning without her in my life, my love will be for her only I hope she can feel my hurt as I feel hers where ever you are my lovely lady just know I do love you more then life its self and I feel so lost without you being part of it, our time was the most beautiful time in my life and all I think about is you are everything I have ever wanted. I hope you are ok and happy where ever you are, I love you so much scorpio lady

  • Angel says:

    We met on the fricken internet a little more than a month ago and we already assume marrage. Even though im a scorpio woman who loves solid commitment, im also scared to death of it. Being a realist, i fear something will change; however, with my guy, i fear nothing. I love him and he is my evverything.

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  • nouseforaname says:

    This is the hottest couple, as long as they are equally mature. Nothing worse than people that think the world revolves around them, and when these two are still that immature they’re their own worst enemy.

  • anon says:

    I’m an aquarius man who is ridiculously in love with a scorpio woman. The attraction was mutual, instant and instense! She is ridiculously fine! She’s the most amazing person ive ever met! she turns me on in every way! I long to be possessed by her. Everything written on this compatibility profile is true (quite incredible really). The thing is that no matter who you are, if you value someone you’ll compromise, you’ll adapt to make them feel comfortable. We met about 2 years ago. I don’t believe in love at first signt but that’s what happened. She doesn’t play around and thats what I love about her, relationships have to be serious. Although I’m an aquarius, and very affable etc..etc.., I have very few friends and I’ve always longed to be committed to the right person, so finding my scorp has been a dream come true for me! However there is a tragic side to this story as circumstances don’t permit us to be together. She is the woman of my dreams; her long black brown curly hair, her sparkly passionate brown eyes (which I once saw dilate as I made her laugh in the sun), her incredible face and figure (it’s impossible to work out where she’s from by her beautiful facial features, in fact I thought that she was foreign when I first saw her, becuase of her unusual poise. She has a wonderful expressive face on which you can read every emotion. I was quite scared of her when I first saw her, but after meeting her I realised that she is unbelievebleyaffactionate, sweet as well as powerful. It’s the little things (and I pride myself on appreciating the little things), the way she walks, the simple yet stylish way she dresses (for example, she is quite short but harly ever wears heels. When she does, they are only one or two inches, and she looks incredible), the sound of her voice authoratitve yet sweet, the way she says everything without talking. When she first looked into my eyes, I felt naked in front of her, as if she was saying ‘I now all about you!! Most of the time, when I look into the eyes of someone, I see only wonder or a vaguse interest. I’m used to not being figured out, but she put me in my place and kept me guessing! Completely turned the tables on me! D’you know what? I love it love it love it! OMG! What a beautiful magical person! She’s got me! As far as I’m concerned every other woman doesn’t even exist!!! I don’t think I’m anything special, but I notice women clocking me quite often, I think it’s the classic aquarian independent aloofness that makes us stand out from the crowd. I mostly pay no attention to them. I’ve learned to read people quite well and I decide if a person is worth knowing within a few minutes. Plus I’m religious and don’t like flirting etc.. but with her everything changed. She caught my eye straight away, even from afar. At first I was just intrigued, I knew she was different. Her poise is what I noticed first, the very deep rooted self confidence (which I also have). Eventually I fell hard for her (even tho I didn’t want to). You always read about scorpios being intense and magnetic, well she is exactly that! I think that she’s the most beautiful person , both inside and out that I’ve ever seen, and I constantly have to pinch myself that a) she actually exists and b) she is remotely interested in me! We often don’t talk, and just look at each other. I’ve caught a glimpse of her jealousy and anger, but I’m afraid that doesn’t put me off at all, I find that level of intensity very attractive! I made all the first moves (althoguh she made it very obvious that she was interested me and so took away the risk-I just had to read the signals), I walked up to her, asked her name. Eventually I told her how I felt, and she resonded positively. She is soooooo fine! Damn!

  • anon says:

    So heres an update. Quite recently I was informed by my scorpio girl that I had been mistaken and that, yes you’ve guessed it, she only saw me as a ‘friend’. There were extenuating circumstances which made it impossible for us to be ‘together’, but instead of alluding to these, (she was aware of them) she simply made out like the whole thing was in my head, and she did it quite a long time after I had bascially told her how I felt (via message, messagaes which I know she read). I think that this is the guarded nature of the scorp that I’ve read about, she didn’t want to verbalise how she felt, but she showed it in other ways that I picked up on. Anyways, I’m now basically told that it was all in my head and what can you say to that as a guy?

    I apologised for coming on so strong and she told me not to be silly and was really sweet. She even said that I could keep in contact with her if I liked. So I did. Big mistake because I’m convinced that there was something between us, whilst even if there was, she clearly wanted to erase that history.

    So there have been a lot of friendly messages between us, during the course of which she lets slip that she’s just attended the cinema with a guy ‘friend’ (amazing the power of the word ‘he’). OK so now there’s no room for doubt. Even if there was something, there now isn’t. She’s moved on. I’m heartbroken, confused, humiliated, confidence and faith in the opposite sex shattered etc..etc..

    I was so careful initially with the connection, to check whether there was really anything there. I was clear that she really liked me, or liked the attention I was giving her…I don’t know. I even compared us to Romeo and Juliet, partly just to be honest and partly as a test as if she really didn’t feel ‘like that’ that statement would have sent her for the hills. After I said that however (in a message) she just responded even more positively. So go figure

    The life of a hermit (or maybe Bruce Wayne’s life of riley in the latest Batman film -haha!) seems attractive to me now.

    Experience has shown me that in matters of the heart you need to be open and honest because you risk losing everything if you’re not. Problem is you risk getting hurt. And this is defintely the worst I’ve been ever hurt because it’s the stringest I’ve ever felt for someone, with the clearest signs of reciprocation.

    I was very close to sending some text saying that I wasn’t gonna be in contact anymore and that I got the message etc..etc.. but quickly decided that this would be too pathetic. So now I’m just going to carry on with my life and try to forget ‘that connection’.

    I thought I knew the girl but she remains a mystery. During the time I knew her there were incredible emotional highs and now this crushing low, kinda what other websites have said.

    Anyway, I don’t hold any grudge because I’m as much to blame to be honest. If I was led on , I did as much leading as she. She was very sweet to me and she has damaged me and hurt me, but not on purpose (she probably thought that staying friends was better than telling me to get lost).

    If I ever feel as strongly for a person again, I’ll do the same, I’ll let her know quickly and decisively. The older you get, the less time you have to ‘play games’, but I’ll often think back to this puzzle of a ‘relationship’ and wonder how close I came to realising ‘the dream’.

  • Anon says:

    Ok, so here’s an update.
    I started writing another comment on another blog in response to a story a guy had written which seemed just like mine. As I finished the story, I began to realise that I may have misjudged ‘my’ scorpette. The fact is that she would put herself at great risk by opening up to me and telling me that she does feel strongly for me. Long story she short, she risks being ‘the other woman’, which (I agree) is beneath any ones status let alone hers. My current relationship is deeply unfulfilling and was before I met her, but there are kids so I can’t simply ‘cut and run’ with her (even so, I’m considering ending the relationship things have gotten so bad, regardless of whether or not she’ll be there for me). She knows all this do she has more than good reason to behave the way she has and keep her feelings inside. As I recounted the story on the other blog I realised that she had told me everything about how she felt without ‘telling’ me. I love her (even as a friend), because she is warm and noble. I saw nobility in her eyes, something you don’t see everyday, something I’m attuned to recognise. She (as the Scorpio description suggests) is a person of great depth, she would never behave beneath that. I saw her recently and was reminded how she really is. So I confused the Scorpio secrecy for dishonesty. I was wrong to do so, regardless of how she really feels. I tried to cut her out of my life but I realised that i need to honour what we have, even if it is only friendship. Her warmth and love are important to me, even if we are ‘just friends’. But I can see how Scorpio and aqua would misunderstand each other.

  • sheen and mcadams says:

    there’s Rachel McAdams (scorpio woman) and Michael Sheen (aqua man) couple.
    Rachel broke up with her scorpio ex Ryan Gosling years ago, then she dated someone else for like, a few months or something like that, which is like the shortest relationship in history, next to a few out there. And she’s been with Michael Sheen since 2010.

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  • Alisha says:

    Aishwariya Rai Bachchan ( 1st November) and Abhishek Bachchan ( 5th February). I am Indian so I suggested this scorpio -aquarius couple. They both had a daughter last year on November 16th so she’s also a scorpio. :)

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  • Navaura says:

    Well, I have only been seeing this Aquarius guy for 1 week now and I must say I am thoroughly impressed, in ways I never thought I would be.

    1. He’s a black man that I find seriously, intensely attractive. Why is that important? Well, I’m a black woman who’s never really found black men all that attractive beyond their physical structure. It’s weird but I’ve only been able to look at them from afar and find them attractive, never too attractive to me up close.

    2. What I finds so alluring about him is that he’s smart. He’s got class and I love it and he seems to feel just as close to me as I feel to him. How do I know? He told me so… :) Ironically enough, I believe him. But I do have little nagging doubts that make me terrified it won’t work out because if it does work out to last for longer than two years, it will be something incredible for me. I’m not one to play around, nor do I stay in relationships that do bull crap, you know? So, I’ve never had a relationship that lasted long enough to get to the marital phase.

    3. He’s sweet and kind and he also radiates warmth but have an aloofness about him that left me feeling awkward the other night. It eventually receded by morning.

    4. I’m not sure yet what this says about his personality, maybe that he is the type to make the decisions because he’s used to making them, but the other night he ordered nachos and two drinks while we were at the bowling alley. He didn’t ask what I want, just got it for me. Why’s that significant? I’m not sure, I just liked it.

    5. He smells good, really really good and I often find myself burying my head in his chest or in his shoulders just to get a smell of his scent. Yummy…ha, ha.

    I’m a Scorpio gal, who’s learned a lot of lessons along the way.

    1. Curb your need to possess and conquer. Why? Because you make grave mistakes that way and your head often time mislead your heart when you do.

    2. As a Scorpio girl, follow your heart, not your head, because you know what’s right and wrong deep down inside. When you ignore your heart you hurt yourself. Other people may be able to use their heads to make best decisions but for you girl, your heart and spirit are so in tuned and connected that you feel and see energy which allows you to understand danger or safety between you. It’s how you learn what type of man you are dealing with. Your gut is nothing more than your spirit telling you the truth, please listen to it and save your self much pain later on.

    3. Pick what matters most to you when dealing with a partner. Honestly, for me character is utmost important, followed by goals and finances. Character is important because you are on the search for the perfect mate. Learn the good and the bad about him and then decide whether you want to put your eggs in that basket.

    4. Learn to see others differences and decide whether you want to put up with them. No sign are alike, maybe except Cancer and Scorpio. Those could be twins in the sense they offer each other the best ever support. As friends. Cancer broke my heart and honestly, have never dated another one.

    5. When you see other differences, respect them for what makes them different, even if you don’t understand it, it may come in handy one day.

    6. Learn to forgive so that you can heal and emotionally mature. You hold everything in, you’ll become a walking puss ball and you’ll never find love that way. You will scare off anyone if you can’t get past your past hurts. When you get to that place of forgiving, then you will become restless with people who hurt others because they’ve been hurt. Learn to not retaliate all the time. Use your head.

    7. I’m interested to know what is there to learn about an Aquarius man?

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  • Inlovewithchristmas says:

    I’m an aqua man who’s been in love with a scorpio woman for about 3 years. For me it was love at first sight and I observed her for a long time before I accepted that I was actually in love with her. She’s ten years younger than me, but is probably the most powerful magnetic person I know, and as far as I’m concerned is the most gorgeous thing walking the earth. She is the woman of my dreams, no, she’s better than that even. She’s knows how I feel and I’m sure that she feels something for me too. However we can’t be together. I hope for the future and I’m trying and praying for it to happen but I’m petrified that it won’t. If it doesn’t happen I don’t know what I will do. I think about being with her ALL the time. I’d rather be alone than be with someone else. She totally owns my heart. All I can see is her, her, her!!!! She’s simply astounding, an immense is train stone statue of a beauty. God alone knows the kind of burning love and desire I have for her. When she smiles at me…’s like the sun appearing from behind a cloud. In so in love with her. It’s the stuff of fairytales. I miss her ALL the time. It’s sweet torture. But now she says that we shouldn’t be in contact so much, I know she’s fond of me, so I’m not totally heartbroken, I have hope but it is fading. To wake up and see that smile every day. OMG I want to have kids with this woman. I wouldn’t even notice another woman if I had her, even now I compare every woman to her. May God bring us together.

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  • xmasnever ends says:

    It’s been ages since I’ve bumped into, seen or spoken to her. In the mean time I met another girl, exactly the same age, in the same profession as me. Usually I can’t stand people in my profession. She’s pretty, shes’ smart (really smart), shes funny and very talented…and shes kick ass, I mean she doesnt take any shit (and I really like my women to be like that). I’ve thought about it, being with her and I can see that she’s thought about it too. It would be fun. She likes to do all the same things as me (it’s really incredible). But after my scorp, no-one can measure up. I mean it wouldn’t be fair on her because even if me and the new girl did get together I’d be like ‘I know my scorp is out there….somewhere’, whereas I know that as soon as I saw my scorp, I’d forget that girl in a flash. I like the new girl as a friend, a lot, so I couldn’t do that to her, keep part of myself hidden and reserved for ‘The Scorp’. Like I told my scorp….she does something to me…something deep inside. Now I KNOW, that ONLY she can make me feel like that. Shes the best! I’ve been down, really-really down recently, but just writing about her like this, imagining that the comment above might be from her. Make me feel so good. All the clouds just melt away…

  • @xmasneverends says:

    i’m not a girl & i don’t know who you are but the comment above was accidently posted in this thread whereas i was supposed to post it in the reversed chapter of this combination. but i like your idea about plan B. easy switching – back and forth huh? i guess it gives a lot of room for happiness & fun. by the way can you give me a bit more information about what made you opt for plan B. did you saw any danger coming in the way? never mind, i am just asking because danger is so real but fear is a choice. feel free to reply as your reply isn’t going to influence as i make my decisions based only on what i see and feel, i mean whatever is real and logical (but doesn’t mean i am always on the right track). may be i think in a bit different way i.e. there is no room for plan B in my life, not at all in this department. i will stick to plan A whatever it is. should i really change plan, i will replace the principal component within the plan. but A will always remain A. merry xmas in advance.

  • @@xmasneverends says:

    Oh….ok. No not at all. It’s not my way. It’s just that Plan A has always been impossible so it’s never even got off the ground. Plan B in some ways seems more possible, but to be honest Plan A is aware of the Plan and Plan B is just an idea in my head. PlanA is kinda long gone too but PlanB is right here every day. There are compatibility problems potentially with Plan A but there are none really with Plan B. Having said all that, Plan A is the ‘real’ Plan A. Its really that or no plan. It’s Plan B that made me realise that.

    You must understand that the physical contact with either plan has been non-existent. With Plan B, just some quite amazing coincidences of interest and profession that are very strange and made me think, but no real feeling at all. Plan A..nothing really in common but feelings…very powerful ones. But it’s all academic. I don’t believe in messing around with this stuff. I believe in all the mushy corny shit I’m afraid that why I’m here now feeling like shit.

    Today I’m feeling really quite crap anyway. Now I feel crapper.

  • @xmasneverends says:

    i understood your dilemma now. you are confused which way to go. new 1 or the old 1 isn’t it? too many options to choose from huh? but i must say you a honest guy.

  • @xmasneverends says:

    by the way why did you ditch the old one?

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