Virgo Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility


This is one of the late-great combinations!!  You read it first here.  This pair is absolute magic following none of the usual newspaper Sun sign trivia.  An enormous amount of respect  and a common viewpoint is at the core of this relationship.  It will be easy for these two to court, marry, and set up housekeeping.  There is an almost seamless energy that makes it a pleasure being in each other’s company.  You would almost call it love at first sight.


How to Attract a Virgo Woman as an Aquarius Man:
 If you are attracted to a Virgo woman, you already respect her for the many fine qualities you have noticed.  She, like you, is not a game player.  She could care less what her friends are doing, what they think about her or about you for that matter.  It’s amazing how much tension this releases from the mating process.  You will feel a great sense of relief as she naturally gives you the space you need.  She is hardly the type to bother you with texting during the day; she undoubtedly has business of her own to take care of, or is relaxing and enjoying her own company.  You will find so much to respect in this woman.  The Virgo woman’s calm, cool collectedness is genuine.  This is much to your relief because you have been fooled so often before.  This is a lady worth working for.


How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Virgo Woman:  Use your innate persistence to put yourself in the path of the Aquarius man.  You can see through him right away so you know that his busyness is a cover up for not having very many friends and no social life to speak of.  His work is his whole world and knowing that, all you need do is stand outside and knock politely on the door.  You’ll notice no one else is there, and this puts you at a tremendous advantage in attracting the Aquarius man.

Degree of Romance:  If Aquarius is going to be romantic with anyone, it will be with dear gentle Virgo.  She has a way of bringing it out in him because she is so uniquely patient and undemanding.  He is likely to see what a prize she is and knock himself out to the best of his abilities to make her his own.

Degree of Passion:  As with romance, the Virgo woman is likely to squeeze every ounce of passion out of the Aquarius man.  This guy is not nearly as detached as he appears to be, but she knows that already.  The fact that she assuages his loneliness makes him open up in a way that he never has before.  This is a relationship where passion increases as the years go by and that is a very lovely thing.  If you give fire a place to burn in, it can turn into a mighty conflagration.

Degree of Friendship:  A Virgo woman and Aquarius man can be very fine friends indeed, and they are likely to be each other’s only true friend, as well.  Both signs are interested in quality, not quantity and they both have very high standards and ideals which few other people can meet.

Degree of Marriage:  This is one of the best marriage combinations there is.  They can easily pull together as a team as their ability to communicate with each other is usually superb (they kind of speak each other’s language).  They have quite similar values, and their lifestyle choices are probably similar, too.  This relationship can be an all-consuming marriage where the couple binds together and shuts out the rest of the world in positive ways.  They can become the closest of friends and confidants, contribute much to the community, be an asset wherever they find themselves in life, and create a delightful home conducive to raising healthy children.  Virgo woman and Aquarius man can be pretty close to “a marriage made in heaven.”

Progression of Relationship:   This guy doesn’t play games.  If an Aquarius man is interested in, he will make it known, and he will take the time to cue in to his interest’s desires for the kind of relationship she wants and the speed at which his beloved wants want to travel.  He will take the time to find out about her so that he can comply with her unstated as well as stated wishes.  They are both known to be good communicators and the relationship will give evidence to the importance of that skill in relationship-building.  They are likely to clear the air in a fair and justifiable way so that the union stays intact.


Sex:  This is one relationship where sex is likely to come at the right time — after all the other chakras are aligned.  Sex between these two becomes a precious form of communication, never emotionally exhausting or physically demanding.  They may be relating in a way that we all will be one day, there is such fairness and consideration apparent in the negotiations.  Both these signs are somewhat androgynous which adds to the intellectual pleasure of coupling — because there are four different ways to do it.

When It’s Over:  This one is likely to last a lifetime, but if it must end, they will probably be on the same page — as always.  It is simply time to turn to a new chapter, and that, dear friend, means laying the past gently to rest.  No need for hard feelings.  It just is what it is.

Our Rating:  10/10

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147 Responses to Virgo Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility

  • JoAnne Sutton says:

    As a virgo woman who’s had two long-term relationships with aquarian men (I’m now married to an aquarius), I’d say this is right on — extremely accurate and (as you know) very different from what is typically written about virgo/aquarius matches. The only phrases that did not ring true for my aquarian men were “his work is his whole world” — in my men’s cases, it’s more that there is something (fill in the blank) — for one of mine it was music/theatre, for the other it’s family/golf — that is their passion, that is their whole world, though for my aquarians it hasn’t actually been their work. To the contrary, especially compared to me, they have a very healthy, distant relationship to work, enjoying it for what it is while they’re there, yet seeing it clearly for what it is — a way to make money, not an aspect of their “sense of self” or even a major part of their worlds. Also, “his busyness is a coverup for not having many friends and no social life to speak of” — both aquarians I’ve been involved with were the two most social people I have ever encountered, with very active social lives, yet once I got to know them I realized that they had an abundance of aquaintances with whom they spend a lot of time in their “passions” but few, if any, close friends… until I came along, of course. ; ) Thank you for this updated version of the virgo/aquarian couple!

  • nancy says:

    YEs, it’s a better waya to put it … his “thing”, “cause”, “avocation”, etc. will always be greater! Thanks for the first hand confirmation on the rest of the information, Jo Anne.

  • Jim says:

    This IS encouraging to say the least. I have begun a courtship with Virgo women and so far what I have read appears to be accurate about me as 49 year old aquarius man. I am not into sports but like to have projects to work on that I am good at.

  • nancy says:

    Makes sense! I think you’re on the right track.

  • Veronica says:

    I am a Virgo and started dating an AQUARIUS man but even though I liked him so much and there was passion he was a bit cold for me and a workoholic. I decided to end that relationship. Now he wants to be friends.

    Later on, I found my perfect match in a LEO Man. I am so much happier!! Everything I want in a man.

  • Aqua man says:

    This is REALLY spot on and accurate. I have dated women from all 12 signs of zodiac. this relationship is the best for both aqua and virgo.I also add that Aqua-Virgo couple are a winner on anything they engage in because: aquarians have saturn on their back which give them practicality and earthy strength, coupled with virgo’s practicality. on the other hand both signs have a sharp mind, virgo having mercury gives them reall intelect combined with aqua uranus. it is so wrong that aquarian get along with gemini, because as opposed to virgos, geminis are not practical and jump from one thing to another. However, Aquarians are practical and deep, therefore view geminis as SHALLOW people, yet view virgos as proficient and competent individuals. These two signs also develop spiritually together. I do not still know why but virgoes are really alike aquarians even though aquarians have reincarnated in the previous 10 signs and virgos only have reincarnated in the previous 5 signs.

  • nancy says:

    Excellent feedback but please check your astrology paaradigm. Some Aries have completed the wheel and have come back to serve whereas some Pisces are completing their first round. It is possible to meet some exalted Aries, Taurus and Gemini, etc. and some fallen Caps Aquamen and fish. Please try Linda Goodmans’s “Sun SIgns” for more info on this wheel matter.

  • Aqua man says:

    NHS is National Health Service in UK. I work there as I am doing my doctorate in clinical psychology. So, when I see any patient either in a relationship department or other mental health problems, I quickly look at their date of birth and then their family background and their upbringing. This is why I have seen and talked to hundreds of people from different signs and analyse them deeply as they tell about all aspects of their life to their therapist.
    You mention I should check my astrology paradigm, i am very busy with my work and cant read Goldman’s book, but am very curious to know about mine briefly if you could tell me please Im born on 28 Jan 1981.
    How can you relate this astrology wheel that you said to other aspects of chart which are the main features to say how old a soul is? For instance, my south moon node
    is in Aquarius and my moon is Scorpio. How can combine with my sun sign to say how old, evolved is my spirit?

  • nancy says:

    I’ve trained with the BOTA (Builders of the Adytum) Mystery School, Madame Blavatsky, Order of the Golden Dawn and other hermetic groups. I can tell you are a very old soul, come back to help. You are “off the wheel” and now vounteering to reincarnate. It may not be that way at all with another AquaMan. One way to tell is how you use that Scorpio Moon. A younger soul would use it to get revenge, etc. You are going to be a fabulous astrologer knowing as much as you do so young but then you have mastered it in past lives.

    Here’s your nodal description:

    North Node in Leo/South Node in Aquarius
    The traditional interpretation of Dragon’s Head in Leo is the ability to realize one’s desires. It also connotes good taste and a liking for the finer things in life. The Dragon’s Tail in Aquarius indicates someone who is easily lied to and has trouble discriminating. It may foretell infidelity on the part of the individual or his/her partner.

    You incarnated in this lifetime to learn the value of creating a life for yourself. Once you set sail for a certain course, little can stop you. You are determined and are capable of great fortitude. Begin your journey and others may follow you, for you have strong leadership ability. It is not uncommon for someone with this nodal position to live a rags to riches story, such as those in the novels of Horatio Alger who shares this nodal placement. Lee Iacocca, Arthur Ashe, Ingrid Betancourt, and M.C. Hammer are all real life examples of natives with North Node in Leo who embody this energy.

    In the past, you had many friends, but friendship will only weaken you in this lifetime. When you need them most, none will be found, for you are here to learn to be an individual and independent. Avoid any tendency to feel sorry for yourself when others “abandon” you. Some famous Leo North Noders who found themselves abandon or outcast by peers are Janis Joplin, Bobby Fischer, Malcolm X, and Lenny Bruce, all of whom went on to considerable accomplishment. Your path is life is to become goal-oriented, and the universe will support you in developing inner strength.

    Deep down inside you need to see life moving along a certain path with an intended destination. When others don’t fall into lockstep with your march, you find them difficult to tolerate. You will no doubt spend much time alone. You may even be a hermit at one or more points in your life.

    You will find happiness by dedicating yourself to higher principles. Your soul craves dignity, which service to humanity can bring. Once you put yourself to work helping the brotherhood of man, you will more easily resolve the familiar conflicts that made your early adulthood difficult. While you spent too much time achieving things for others in the past, you are here to create for yourself in this lifetime, yet you must still serve the world in some way.

    Confidence is another key concept for you. In previous incarnations you dissipated your energies on social engagements and utopian causes, you should now dedicate yourself to using all your creative energy to achieving some great goal for the good of mankind. This means living in a time continuum of past, present, future. Resist the temptation to daydream of what could be. Dare to be bold and individualistic today and you will surely “win.” Shyness is not for you.

    If you spend your time involved in other people’s messes, are egotistical or ruthless, spiteful of other’s successes, or tend to shock people without real cause, you have yet to balance your energy. While you are here to be an individual, you are not here to be a rebel or a dictator. You will bring out the best in yourself by meditating on what your values are, then determining how best to channel your considerable talents towards furthering them. Finally, you must achieve these within the context of society. While you are an individual, you are not here to turn your back on others. You may even believe strongly in equality and egalitarian principles in the abstract. You will find as you age, however, that Orwell was right: some are more equal than others.
    Your birth right is to claim credit for your considerable achievements. Be flamboyant in accomplishing tasks. Cultivate your individual personality. Others will notice your magnetic presence. Take leadership positions when they are offered to you. Do not be afraid to organize the world around you, for you are here to create a stable life yourself and others, and to be recognized for your efforts.

  • GIRL says:

    Hi Nancy, I am very glad to come across a positive page about Aquarius and Virgos together.. And it’s very right on :)

    Hope to hear more ab out it or find some positive websites on it

  • nancy says:

    Hey GIRL, thanks for stopping by the site. Aquarius and Virgo is a wonderful combination. Enjoy!

  • Aqua man says:

    Many thanks dear Nancy, You are completely right about me being a hermit at some point of my life, however, thats what my soul craves (being a hermit permanetly) and therefore i find it difficult to help others as most people fall into lockstep with my march and consequently i cannot tolerate them. This is becoming more as i age and i am worried about this.

    I have many accidents and health issuses in my chart (donot know why i have chosen that much health-related problems if i am an old soul out of the wheel ??)

    Anyhow Nancy, Im going to have a major heart surgery sometimes around March or April, however I need your opinion about the time of my surgery ; Is Pisces a good period for a heart surgery OR Aries? I know Leo is not a good period as it governs the heart. Also my surgeon is a Pisces.

  • mEME says:

    Hey, i’m glad you wrote this, i am a virgo and i am fairly typical of my sign, although alot more fun ( I like to think!!) and i have been drawn to aquarians all my life. I have 2 best friends who are both aquarians and i have been out with a fair few too. Each and everyone of them it has been an instant attraction, as soon as i started talking to them. They are the only people whoever “got me” straight away. I think personally this is a great combination, a meeting of the minds like no other, but what i will say is be careful of stubborness, i think this is the downfall of both virgo and aquarius.
    x x

  • nancy says:

    Yes, absolutely! It’s one of the magic combinations.

  • beny says:

    Hi Nancy,
    I like astrology a lot and i always interested to know more about it. I really would like to know about my soul like how old is it and other thing ? my Birthday is 24/08/1982. my moon is Scorpio , my Ascendant is Virgo and South node is Capricorn.
    Thank you.

  • Daive says:

    Dear Nancy, This is encouraging to say the least. I have begun a courtship with Virgo women and so far what I have read appears to be accurate about me as 31 year old aquarius man.I believe this two signs are the most compatible star signs.

  • Sue says:

    i think AQUA man are the most jealous man in the world.they are so selfish and strange people. im not agree with what you say. i met few Aqua man and all of them were the same.!!!! very controlling. they make me feel sick,Seriously.

  • Sue says:

    Im not agree with what you say. I think they are most jealous man in the world. very selfish,controlling and strange people. I met few Aqua men and they all werer the same. they really make me feel sick,seriously.

  • Jessica says:

    I just wanna say thank you bc it seems like everything I read they always say this love match is not gonna happen or won’t work, just very negative. I’m a virgo female and Ive been attracted to aquarius’ all my life…this just gives me a little more hope in making the relationship work. I kno that horoscopes arent everything but its nice when they can give you good motivation for a relationship.

  • John says:

    Hi Nancy,
    Im a 53 year old ,aqua man..I was a maths lecturer for 20 years but retired my self 2 years ago after i lost my wife. she was virgo and was the most lovable,faithful,kindest and spiritual person that i ever met. since she died my life completely changed and I feel like i lost half of my brain and heart.any way, i have a question for my son,he is 28 year old,Aqua and he met a Cancer girl recently. she seems nice and quite girl but Id like to ask you what do you think about them?are they compatible for each other?
    look forward to hearing from you

  • Bob(NY) says:

    Hellon Nancy,
    Im 53 year old aqua men.was a maths lecture for 20 years.retired my self 2 years ago after i lost my wife. she was a Virgo and was the most lovable,faithful, spiritual and kindest person that i ever met.since she died my life completely changed.is like i lost half of my sprit and heart.
    any way, i have a 27 aqua son and he met a cancer girl few months ago.she seems nice and a bit quite.I’d like to ask you what do you think about this two signs? and are they compatible for each other?
    many thanks
    Bob

  • Albert says:

    this is so true about this two sign; I had a short relationship with a Gemini girl years ago.In the beginning, it was a bit fun. but after 2 months I realized she has not got a strong mind, very poor personality. We’re both super jealous types–because we both had so many friends, it seemed like we never had time for each other. my lovely wife now is a Virgo and I can say surly she is definitely was the one foe me as a aqua men.she is my other half. we’ve been married 5 years and we have a happy&successful life tegether.perfect communication, great friendship and our sex life is just wonderful..never emotionally exhausting.
    thanks for this updated version of the virgo/aquarian couple!

  • virgo girl says:

    Wow! This was right on! Im a virgo woman and I am currently in a relationship with an aquarius man. Things between us couldn’t be better! Im glad to have found this. All other compatibilty charts say otherwise when it comes to virgos and aquarius’s.

  • nancy says:

    Yes, this is a great combinatiton. Tanks for stopping by the site and please tell a f riend.

  • Grant says:

    I just commented to my new friend that an old Virgo-Aquarian relationship I was in was one where we could make the rest of the world disappear for a time. I have never experienced that with any other sign and I think you made that connection in your analysis. I am an Aquarian male and my new friend is a Virgo woman…:-)

  • Aquarius man says:

    Wow finally some good things about this combination… Everywhere I go here all the negative and how it won’t work but this really gives me hope… I am interested in this Virgo girl and she is super shy and seems like shes playing hard to get but I’m really trying to be as patient as possible. I’m planning on getting her a bouquet of roses for V-day:)

  • nancy says:

    @Grant

    So t rue!

  • nancy says:

    @Aquarius man

    It’s true …… it’s ok … just enjoy! Tell me how VDay goes.

  • Aquarius man says:

    Whoa I just looked up my Moon sign and its Virgo the same as her sun sign so is that good?

  • rl says:

    Virgo’s don’t date a leo

  • nancy says:

    LOL but you don’t say why!!!!

  • nancy says:

    That’s excellent.

  • nancy says:

    @Aquarius Man
    Yes, when the Sun of one is the Moon of the other, it is very beneficial. Also check out my section on this website about MON SIGNS.

  • ava says:

    hi–
    I am in love with a man who is capricorn-acquarius cusp. i am capricorn-sagittarius cusp. can you tell me about this match??
    thanks so much
    ava

  • aria says:

    I am in love with a man who is capricorn-acquarius cusp. i am capricorn-sagittarius cusp. can you tell me about this match??
    thanks so much

  • Shashi says:

    hi nancy, i’m an aquarian guy with a loving virgo girlfriend.. its indeed encouraging to know how many couples are of the signs of aquarius and virgos around here.. its indeed one of the best couple.. and i love my girlfriend to bits.. thanks for sharing these valuable information to the world :D

  • Stacey says:

    I’m a Sun Virgo, Moon Aries and Ascendant Aquarius.
    He’s a Sun Aquarius, Moon Gemini and Ascendant Capricorn.
    I had a crush on him for months but I pretended and hid it. We were really open with each other and would tell our problems/secrets, we’re like best friends. About two weeks ago, he told me that he loves me and that he was hiding it. I was surprised and I told him I was doing the same too. It’s been less than 2 weeks but he’s talking about future, marriage, kids, family and everything.
    I was just dreaming about it before and he says he was doing that too. It’s all happening really fast and to be honest, I am so happy.
    But, I’m still wondering if this could really work or if it’s just all “talk”. I know his birthday, time. Is there some way I can figure it out?

  • Jamire says:

    Hi, I’m an aquarian and i’ve been with a virgo girl for 5+ years now. we are somewhat the best of friends. this is so true. aquarians and virgoans are a great pair.

    for the long term we’ve been together, we’ve developed great partnership. i’ve learnt a lot from her (about anything in life) and same with her. most of the time we have different point of views but it doesnt grow us apart. communication makes us closer and closer.

    yep, virgo’s can be very critical and mean with words. they dont use emotions in an argument. in my experience, my virgo doesnt mean what she said most of the time (but most of the things she said is true), she doesnt want to hurt me but she wants me to feel in her shoes. if we have an argument. ;)

    i so love my virgo! :)

  • Starfishinred says:

    Hey there,
    I am a virgo woman who has been attracted to many aqua men so far… I do believe that all what is written up there is SO TRUE… virgo/ aqua combination is awesome… and i always felt bad about what is written in astro book n sites about this combination… i have always felt the spark between me and the aqua man… and things didn’t work for reasons that have nothing to do with us… and after breaking up we became close friends…
    and now i have met an aqua man too… he is just sooooooooooo into me… i really hope things work this time coz i really like him…
    So thank u for stating that these two signs are positively into each other.

  • nancy says:

    Yes, absolutely the greatest~Starfish! Go for it!

  • JJ says:

    LOL, Nancy, loved this. I am in a new relationship with a 7x Aq (1962 Stellium – go figure) and me with stellium in Virgo 4th (Sun, merc, pluto, etc)- go figure. Could we be any more archetypal? All the charts, sites speak doom and gloom yet so far it has been absolutley effortless and loving, kind, etc. No games at all. Thank you for putting my mind at ease….

  • LovelyVirgo82 says:

    It is such a pleasure to read this positive and so on point post. I am a Virgo woman who is extremly intigued and infatuated with and Aqua male. Our chemistry is off the charts and we a very healthy spiritual connection. The only disappointment I find is our uncontrollable distance from each other. We are both in different states. sometimes I wonder if I’m wasting my time due to the whole distance thing but then at other times I feel content & give him his space while I enjoy mine. I don’t know if things will ever be more and although I do yearn for more at times I am happy to have met such a wonderful, unique, and intriguing gentelman.

  • nancy says:

    I’m so happy for you Follow your heart!

  • nancy says:

    I do a fully personalized astrological analysis of both parties for $250. Email me at nancy@bemyguide.net

  • yassmi says:

    this is so true and correct.i’m vigor and my fiance is aquarius.he’s the best thing that has ever happened to me.we love and understand each other.i love this

  • Pops says:

    I’m Virgo and Waw, Finally I found hope I’m Crazy about an Aquarius Men. We dated exactly one year a ago an abruptly he didn’t wanted to be with me after 5 dates. And now is around again. I love him I have waited for this moment but I’m so scared of being hurt again.

  • Pops says:

    I’m Virgo and Waw, Finally I found hope I’m Crazy about an Aquarius Men. We dated exactly one year a ago an abruptly he didn’t wanted to be with me after 5 dates. And now is around again. I love him I have waited for this moment but I’m so scared of being hurt again.
    What should I do?

  • sairam says:

    Thank very much nancy, reading this gave me a lot of confidence, am an acquire n attracted to a Virgo and want to build long term relationship.

  • Kim says:

    As a Virgo woman with an Aquarian man for the past 13 years, I found this article truly refreshing, since many others I’ve read paint a grim picture. I especially find that we balance each other in several areas… such as I keep him grounded yet he keeps me from taking things too seriously. We also definitely have that whole “marriage made in Heaven” thing down pat, and we have only grown closer as the years have passed. And I totally believe he decided I was the one when he realized that I could “see through his busyness.” We also have pretty well “shut out the rest of the world” in good ways, as your article states, since we have turned out to be best friends who rarely spend more than 10 hours apart and feel like the other is really all either of us needs to be happy and complete. Thanks for the encouragement!

  • Sally says:

    Virgo woman and Aquarian man – compatible – this is a joke yeah I am Virgo and have been married to an aquarian for 11 years. In no way do we see eye to eye. If you like conflict then yes marry an Aquarian but they DO NOT get on with Virgos and it is not a match made in heaven. We have a child who is a VIrgo. Guess what the Aquarian irritates the Virgochild no end, Virgos are very patient people but Aquarians drives them to despair, there is no communication whatsoever.
    I have been married in the past to a Taurus and a Libran both of these were fine, I have been on dates with Gemini and Virgo – absolutely fine, but Aquarian forget it.

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