Virgo Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility
This is one of the late-great combinations!! You read it first here. This pair is absolute magic following none of the usual newspaper Sun sign trivia. An enormous amount of respect and a common viewpoint is at the core of this relationship. It will be easy for these two to court, marry, and set up housekeeping. There is an almost seamless energy that makes it a pleasure being in each other’s company. You would almost call it love at first sight.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as an Aquarius Man: If you are attracted to a Virgo woman, you already respect her for the many fine qualities you have noticed. She, like you, is not a game player. She could care less what her friends are doing, what they think about her or about you for that matter. It’s amazing how much tension this releases from the mating process. You will feel a great sense of relief as she naturally gives you the space you need. She is hardly the type to bother you with texting during the day; she undoubtedly has business of her own to take care of, or is relaxing and enjoying her own company. You will find so much to respect in this woman. The Virgo woman’s calm, cool collectedness is genuine. This is much to your relief because you have been fooled so often before. This is a lady worth working for.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Virgo Woman: Use your innate persistence to put yourself in the path of the Aquarius man. You can see through him right away so you know that his busyness is a cover up for not having very many friends and no social life to speak of. His work is his whole world and knowing that, all you need do is stand outside and knock politely on the door. You’ll notice no one else is there, and this puts you at a tremendous advantage in attracting the Aquarius man.
Degree of Romance: If Aquarius is going to be romantic with anyone, it will be with dear gentle Virgo. She has a way of bringing it out in him because she is so uniquely patient and undemanding. He is likely to see what a prize she is and knock himself out to the best of his abilities to make her his own.
Degree of Passion: As with romance, the Virgo woman is likely to squeeze every ounce of passion out of the Aquarius man. This guy is not nearly as detached as he appears to be, but she knows that already. The fact that she assuages his loneliness makes him open up in a way that he never has before. This is a relationship where passion increases as the years go by and that is a very lovely thing. If you give fire a place to burn in, it can turn into a mighty conflagration.
Degree of Friendship: A Virgo woman and Aquarius man can be very fine friends indeed, and they are likely to be each other’s only true friend, as well. Both signs are interested in quality, not quantity and they both have very high standards and ideals which few other people can meet.
Degree of Marriage: This is one of the best marriage combinations there is. They can easily pull together as a team as their ability to communicate with each other is usually superb (they kind of speak each other’s language). They have quite similar values, and their lifestyle choices are probably similar, too. This relationship can be an all-consuming marriage where the couple binds together and shuts out the rest of the world in positive ways. They can become the closest of friends and confidants, contribute much to the community, be an asset wherever they find themselves in life, and create a delightful home conducive to raising healthy children. Virgo woman and Aquarius man can be pretty close to “a marriage made in heaven.”
Progression of Relationship: This guy doesn’t play games. If an Aquarius man is interested in, he will make it known, and he will take the time to cue in to his interest’s desires for the kind of relationship she wants and the speed at which his beloved wants want to travel. He will take the time to find out about her so that he can comply with her unstated as well as stated wishes. They are both known to be good communicators and the relationship will give evidence to the importance of that skill in relationship-building. They are likely to clear the air in a fair and justifiable way so that the union stays intact.
Sex: This is one relationship where sex is likely to come at the right time — after all the other chakras are aligned. Sex between these two becomes a precious form of communication, never emotionally exhausting or physically demanding. They may be relating in a way that we all will be one day, there is such fairness and consideration apparent in the negotiations. Both these signs are somewhat androgynous which adds to the intellectual pleasure of coupling — because there are four different ways to do it.
When It’s Over: This one is likely to last a lifetime, but if it must end, they will probably be on the same page — as always. It is simply time to turn to a new chapter, and that, dear friend, means laying the past gently to rest. No need for hard feelings. It just is what it is.
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i have been married to my aquarius man for 15yrs and might i say that this depiction of the relationship is bang on!! my marriage is very sound and we are best fiends, respect each other and make great parents. i am independent and he gives me that, but when i need him, he’s right there to catch me and is 110% devoted to me and our family. you are right about a lot of aquaintances, but very few if no close friends. Our daughter is a virgo also and she and daddy get along harmoniously!!! Daddy and daughter are like the cat’s meow. Our son is a cancer and as they do butt heads sometimes, my cancer son holds the upmost respect for dad and is totally dedicated to me (mom) . We are pretty darn lucky and i feel like we can accomplish great things and our children are extremely smart to boot!! we totally match our individual personal traits as well; myself, hubby, and kids. THANKS FOR THE REASSURANCE
how does a virgo woman “stand outside and knock politely on the door” for an aquarian man to notice her?
@veronica By showing your intelligence as soon as there is an opportunity. In other words, be yourself!
ok…I have been trying to create opportunities out there while acting myself and he does respond and it been great. I want to really get to know him as a friend. I think he’s a nice guy and I admire all the hard work he does. I think that’s why he intrigues me. I want to know him more. It’s just now harder to create opportunities to meet. I think he’s worth the time I’m putting to get to know him but I need to know he’s going to meet me half way. Does he want to get to know me? It is rare that I go to someone I’m just starting a friendship and be honest about how I feel about it but I want to approach him about my wishes on wanting to get to know him and become good friends. Is this wrong? Something inside of me is telling me to do so because I think the friendship we could have will be worth the effort. I can be patient. I’m not asking for anything but friendship. I’m prepared for him to say no, not interested in developing a friendship. I’ll at least know where we are going? I’ve done this only one other time in my life…with a Virgo man…
I am a virgo and I lost contact w/ my aquarian high school sweetheart, now that we are reunited it is a match made in heaven. I have a man who loves and respects me and doesn’t play games and far as being detached – that’s a myth. We bring out the freak in each other.
I’m a virgo 22 and the guy I like is an aquarius 20. We met online and clicked right off the bat. We been online and phone buddies for the last 2 years and had just recently met in person this last saturday. We share an undeniable attraction. The only thing I don’t really know where we stand with each other. How can I tell which way he is interested and or how I can pick his mind apart? Thank you! =)
Iam a virgo woman who has been with this virgo man for years. Our sex life is out of this world and before we got together we were great friends in college. He chased me for a year and I loved every minute of it. That is my best friend… they say aquarius and virgos are not compatible but I know first hand its not true!
U an a single mom and have not dated in over 10 years. I started dating again about 4 years ago. I dated almost every sign. I am currently in a relationship with an aquarius and I have found my other half. I have never been so comfortable, relaxed and serene with anyone. Sex is phenominal. I found my soul mate.
i am a virgo woman who likes a aquarius man and he likes me too but the only thing is that iam in a relationship with an scoripo man and that is a hrd combination cause iam having problems with my scoripo man but i only know a little bit about this aquarius man but i like his vibe and he likes mine i need advice if any body can help contact me at amysims86@yahoo.com or just leave a comment
I have been dating a aqua man for alomst a year now. I must say, he was a big challenge but it was all worth it. I am so in love with this fella as he is me. As time progresses, everything in our relationship gets better. I truley appreciate all that he is and love everything about him. I find him very intriguing and have never met anyone like him. We havent been together for a long time but already we have accomplished great things together. He is my love, my best friend…..My prayers have been answered…
I have met my Match
Thanks for providing such accurate information about virgo woman and aqua man.
Spot on
nancy i have a question for you iam dating a scoripo man but i like this aquarius man i am a virgo woman so how does this work waht can i do he likes me as well but they are both tempermental i need your help please
Hi Nancy, I’ve commented here before but thought I might send an update: my Virgo Lady and I got married last month! All is so good too. This relationship gets better as it ages as we both gain understanding into each other and ourselves. New realms are being reached together as neither one of us has been to before with others. I wanted to add that my Lady has been in relationships with other Aquarians in the past but that held no depth. Can you comment on the “evolved Aquarius” and “evolved Virgo” as opposed to the unevolved equivalents? I have known what I think of as “unevolved Virgo’s” who exhibit many of the negatives of the sign and I know many Aq’s who exhibit few of the good qualities of the sign. I would suggest that your analysis of the Aq-Virgo match is based on the evolved versions of these two signs, as the match is not so good with the “young ones”. Do you agree or have I got it wrong in your opinion? Perhaps this can explain the prevailing attitude that these two dont typically match…
So im dating an Aquarius man, I really dont know where we stand, My story is different from all you ladies, Me and him bump heads ALOT! I dunno if its insecurity, trust issue? maybe i feel this way cause when we first started dating i caught him texing other girls.. He swears he loves me and only me but how can i believe him after what hes done to me.. I NEED ADVICE PLEASE.
funny story about my opinion on all this…i always read that aquarius and virgo’s weren’t made for one another. My X was an aquarius and it was constant fighting and everythin ended up really bad. My new and current bf is also an aquarius but hes the complete opposite of my X and this entire article seems to express it perfectly! i couldn’t be happier! as for my fellow friend Bridget…that was my X leave it! my X cried to me how much he loved me and he wouldn’t do anythin to hurt me…all LIES
I met my Aqua guy 3 months ago, instant click. i think we are yes the evolved sort and know how to appreciate eachother. I am a fussy virgo but he can bring out the best in me. He’s already asked me to marry him and I am even considering it, but i also think it is a case of opposites attract. Good luck all you out there and ask any questions as i like to help.
I too am in a relationship with an aquarious man and it is a match made perfectly! We talk about everything! The sex is mindboggling! He shares with me and protects me, I have never felt so. So so complete!
Hello Nancy,
Just been wondering why there’s no celebrity couple mentioned for this combination. Being a curious kitten I found one. If you approve of them, please would you add them to the page?
Crown Prince Felipe of Spain and Princess Letizia.
Also, allow me to say, “Your work is awesomely, amazingly refreshing than the saaaame-old-usual-boring-routine-repeated stuff we keep on reading.”
I’ve read nearly all your articles. Don’t even know people with most of the combinations! Apart from little interest in astrology, just coz your writing style is engaging.
My best wishes always. Thanks for breaking the astral mold. How daring!
Dear Nancy,
Need your help. I am an Aquarius man. Few days ago i met a Virgo girl. She has already said yes to my marriage proposal and even her parents are ok. it was love at first sight and have never experienced anything like this. am going to marry her. pls advise if every thing will be fine for us. My date of birth is 17 February 1986 and hers is 03 September 1985.
Thank you for all the support! take care.
LOL Avinaash
Hi,
i m virgo of 26 aug 1982,i got married 1 year before with aquarus man of 25 jan 1982.I really feel it ideal relationship.We both loved each other very much n feel pleasure with one another.But due to bad intentions of my father in law towards me,now i want divorce.we have a little child.We both r too sad but no other way.what u will say
This gave me so much hope , I’m a virgo TEEN with an aquarius boyfriend, it feels like our relationship couldn’t be any more challenging , but we grow as the years go by, I don’t want to turn a new page either , we both put a lot of work and this , we love each other , I’m wise enough to realise when a man is good enough to be my husband in the future , I love him =)
(: Its true.
I am a August Virgo Woman, and my Boyfriend is an Aqua man. We’ve been dating for about a year and a half & we swear it was love at first sight. Its like some kinda instant connection that happens. I’ve never felt it before. We both think outside of the box, have the weirdest humor, and like our space. Basically if you can both respect each other when they need their space (both signs relitevely do their own thing from time to time) it’ll work out. Both of us are thinkers (he more dreamy, I more practical) so when we take our ‘me’ time it works out and when we come back after a day its FIRE all over again. i love it. I believe he’s my other half, we just melt together. When we love, we love. When were apart, were apart. It just works. At first, we had a bumpy start because we had to learn that were similar and cant be treated like past relationships and to just respect. But once we realized it.. everything else seemed soo much more effortless. He’s my best friend.. & whats better than being able to love your best friend?!
I’m a Virgo woman and like many of you I’ve read that virgo and aquarius aren’t a great match. However, a friend that I’ve know for years (who happens to be an aquarius) just became the best thing that’s ever happened to me. It was love at first sight and I could never see myself without him. So, kudos to this.
This is so true
i first met my Aquarius Man in 2008 & it was just an instant connection . we had lost contact with each other for awhile but always kept coming back . but now we been goin out for a year & i’m at my happiest
This is so true i first met my Aquarius Man in 2008 & it was just an instant connection . we had lost contact with each other for awhile but always kept coming back . but now we been goin out for a year & i’m at my happiest
I am a Virgo and my man is an Aquarius. Everything this article said is word for word the relationship we have. He completes me in every way possible, he is dedicated and I have never felt so loved by anyone else as my Aquarius. The sex is phenomenal, we both can’t get enough of it or each other for that fact. We have spend every day together since we have been together and I still feel like there is not enough time in the day that I can be with him. He is amazing, he’s my beat friend and is always there for me. Our love and friendship grows stronger every day.I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with him!
Truly this is a match made in heaven and love at first sight for sure, he is my soul mate… I virgo, He Aquarius = the sparks flying. However we do have plenty of life challenges, but we deal with them headon and it has made our union stronger forshure. I love this man till death do us part. in which we will tie the knot on feb 4t his birthday after 1 year of knowing one another thank you !!!
Wow, this is what I needed to hear. I am an Aqua man and I am held over heels for a Virgo woman. She hasn’t come around yet, completely…She at times seems like she likes me and at other times is resistant, inhibited, why is that? I love this woman so much and would do anything for her.
Oh my. Thanks for all the comments. I really feel relived. I’m a virgo woman and began dating an aqua man for I guess 7 months. I didn’t see it coming. We knew each other through mutual interests but one day we just kind of gelled and became intrigued and with no fuss at all, we were just friends and it just keeps growing that it’s mind boggling. Comfortable like an house robe but crazy exciting and scary all at the same time. I have no idea how this will progress but I refuse to let go because there something about this combo that’s magic. Who knew….
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@SeanLeo. Virgo women play hard to get, even when they are taken. It’s a shy thing. They get too excited to be around you they feel they need to calm down. When they are the most detached, that’s when they are truly feeling you. Virgo woman.
@Jzzybme So true. I am a virgo and I act the same way. It is def a shy thing. I am usually the shyest around guys I really like. My boyfriend use to ask me all of the time why I never run and hug him when he arrives at my house. It always takes me about an hour to warm up to him. It’s like he is new or something. It is def a shy thing.
@Seanleo she likes you. We love hard so sometimes our thoughts take over and we feel “needy” or too “sensitive. So our brain tells us to calm down and think rationally. This usually results in no phone calls, visits, etc. It comes in cycles but if you just keep showing her that you are here to stay..she will stop with the internal emotional battle and give in to you. It is just her way of protecting herself. As Virgos, we feel like no one can love us as much as we love ourselves. You are not up against other men… you are up against her! We take very good care of ourselves. Those standards are sometimes seen as unrealistic. But those are our standards…and we are willing to be single for as long as it takes to find someone to match our love for ourselves or better. The best thing you can do is keep loving her. You will see a change I promise.
Thanks for the feedback. I hope what you guys are saying is true. I want to believe it and it does confirm what I feel in my heart. I just want her to know that as an aquarius male and who I am as a person I truly want to be everything she wants & needs. I want to give her a better life and all the love she can needs. My love for this woman is so strong, there isn’t any other woman that compares to her. Our situation is tough because she has kids and is older than me but this doesn’t affect the way I feel, not at all. I understand what you are saying about her protecting herself, I get it. But, I’ve been hurt too, by a younger virgo…crushed. That’s why I don’t open up to this new woman in my life about my feelings, I’m afraid she’ll close up and close me off like it happened before. She knows that I have a “thing” for her but she doesn’t know that I am in love with her. You Virgos are tough women to fall for but I know it can and will be well worth it.
aqua men are so complex in a lovely way! *smiles*
I had read that Aquarius and Virgo was not the best combination, so I was concerned when I met my Aquarius man almost a year ago but my instincts told me I had met my soul mate and I’ve never been happier. The description of this relationship is right on.
How did you determine that this match works so perfectly when most say it is not very favorable?
I meet a Aquarius man last summer out of the blue, I was in a bar and he kept looking I wasn’t instantly attrated at first but we got talking and meet up on a couple of occassions as friends, but then on our third meeting something just clicked i carn’t explain it, just so at ease with him like no-one before, i’m 35 and he is 40 so i guess we are evolved, he lives in another country..unfortunately but travels extensively it’s the nature of his job a musician, we keep in touch and we will be meeting up very soon again i don’t know if this can go anywhere but after reading all the comments regarding virgo and aquarius pairing i think I will be missing out on a amazing thing if i don’t see how things go. I have read other sites about this pairing all negative but my intuition tells me different, I have never dated an aquariaus before but think it could be beautiful thing. Good luck to all you people out there that have truely found the one, it is true about virgos we do look for what is real and wont settle for anything less, no bullshit keep it real.
I meet a Aquarius man last summer out of the blue, I was in a bar and he kept looking I wasn’t instantly attrated at first but we got talking and meet up on a couple of occassions as friends, but then on our third meeting something just clicked i carn’t explain it, just so at ease with him like no-one before, i’m 35 and he is 40 so i guess we are evolved, he lives in another country..unfortunately but travels extensively it’s the nature of his job a musician, we keep in touch and we will be meeting up very soon again i don’t know if this can go anywhere but after reading all the comments regarding virgo and aquarius pairing i think I will be missing out on a amazing thing if i don’t see how things go. I have read other sites about this pairing all negative but my intuition tells me different, I have never dated an aquariaus before but think it could be beautiful thing. Good luck to all you people out there that have truly found the one, it is true about virgos we do look for what is real and wont settle for anything less, no bullshit keep it real.
Is it true, that you need to be practically perfect to win over the virgo woman?
In one word honest Virgo answer – No.
Please keep the faith. Even as a stranger reading your post I could feel how deeply you love this Virgo lady of yours. You both deserve many, many smiles & grins together. Please keep us updated. Wish everything work out for you.
Wishing you happiness, with her.
wow this is so dead on. i’m a virgo and dated an aquarius for two and a half years. we broke up almost two years ago but we are still very close friends and have a lot of sexual/flirty tension. we have both been in serious relationships since our break up, but both admit we have never had the amazing connection with those people as we did with each other. we brought out the best in each other, along with the worst. he was very possessive and jealous and he would get so frustrated with my aloof attitude. when we fought i always kept my cool like a true virgo and that drove him crazy because he so badly wanted a reaction out of me. the relationship we have still confuses me to this day. i can’t get enough of him but he still dives me nuts at the same time and i know he feels the same way about me. we know each other through and through and still have an immense love and respect for each other. who knows, the way we keep finding our way back to each other after two years, we’ll probably end up married.
Wow I’m a virgo and have an aqua boyfriend..hmm our relationship is great, but we have no sexual connection:(.
Another Aqua-Virgo power couple (Happen to be another Royal Couple too!)
King Abdullah II of Jordan and Queen Rania
I’m a Virgo women dated an aqua male….the sexual connection was great….the sex was the best I ever had….but when I broke it off he was a sycophantic omg.
So, I’ve been coming back this forum periodically, reading posts about the Aqua Virgo relationship and posting about my own woman I am interested in. I am an Aquarius male and am in love with with an older Virgo woman. I can only imagine how amazing it would be to actually be in a relationship and spend all my time with this gentle, beautiful woman.
I haven’t gone into details but I actually met this woman through a program I am in and she could lose her job if we dated or were intimate. On the one hand, she has kids so putting her job in jeopardy would be uncool on my end. On the other hand, my heart is with her. She has walls up with me but I somewhat think that it to protect her job. I know she truly cares about me but we’re in this situation where there is a lot of gray area. My heart wants nothing more in life than to be her knight in shining armor but it’s not our time, I guess. Loving her, even just inside of me, felt so right and natural I almost don’t even want to give up this attachment, these feelings. But unfortunately our scenario isn’t pro-us. I know in my heart there is a deep connection there almost like we were together in a past life.
I’m at the point now where I have to start protecting myself from getting hurt and sadly enough, as much as I love her, let her go.
I’m a Virgo young lady and I’m starting to fall for an Aquarius guy. I’m 24, he’s 25 and so mature for his age. We have been friends for about a year now, and in that time we didn’t talk that frequently. It wasn’t until earlier this year that we started to talk more and more, and I began liking him more and more. He’s the sweetest, kindest, sexiest guy I’ve ever known, but I never really know what’s going on in his head. We talk/text for hours about everything and nothing at all. The other night we were texting each other and he actually flirted with me and I flirted back, but felt like maybe I was too forward, so I retreated. He assured me that it wasn’t a big deal, but I just hope I didn’t scare him off with my shameless flirting. We’ve always just been friends with one another, and even though I do like him and would like to see where things could go, I don’t want to be too aggressive with him and push him away. Its just impossible to know if he likes me the way I like him.
This is my parent’s combination. But it is not exactly what you would call “a match made in heaven.” Mom is always concentrated on the smaller picture & isn’t very open-minded as much as dad- she gets very jealous, too.. He, on the other hand, is very supportive of her, is an optimist, & loves to look at the bigger picture in life.. it’s like a game to him- mentally (a true aquarian lol)! Their personalities sort of clash a lot this way, which drive each other crazy! However, despite this, they do somehow manage to get along, nonetheless.. just minus the romance factor. From what I’ve observed from my parents, this isn’t really the best match at all. But then again, this is only one couple. From what I’ve read from everyone else’s comments, this is an excellent match.. just not for my parents… lol
I am a virgo f w/ an aqua m/ we’ve been together for 5 years (living together for 1) I’ve never gotten along better w/ anyone in my life. we hardly ever disagree. only complaint: he’s not the most passionate guy, not very romantic. this can sometimes make me feel a little bored…BUT I always feel at peace and safe when we are together, like if i have a stressful day and see him i know everything will be okay
I am a virgo woman born 8-30-70 and I am in love with an aquarius man born 1-25-71.We have been doing this thing with each other since 10-08 going on three years now and I cant imagine my life without him.I know he is my best friend and I am his and with lots of love and patience well we are just fine. I am truly happy and him being in my life has a lot to do with it.I wouldn’t change one thing about him and the way he is honestly even if I could.I love his quirky ways and by us respecting our differences we really work and remain just fine in spite of life’s challenges and trials and tribulations.I have to keep things new for him but yet at the same time keep things the same and he is happy and he has to keep things the same for me but at the same time new and I am happy .Sounds crazy but that’s just us and it works.I think its the challenge of doing just that,that keeps us coming back and staying in each other lives. Good luck to whoever else is in this virgo-aquarius thing because to me that reading above is on the money and I have never read and astrological compatibility report so accurate and true it sounds like they know us.LOLl! anyway thanks for writing it.I needed to read that today!
This is crazy, never done anything like this but here goes, I am a aqua guy, 24, head over heels over a 25 yr old Virgo girl. I just want to know how special she is and would love to get to know her, I have no idea how to proceed though, don wanna act too cocky at the same time I don’t know how to impress her. I want to tell her how I feel but I am afraid it might come off as creepy as just knows me but not well enough.
How do you get to know an Virgo girl better? What would I have to do…I am stuck at small talk