Aries Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility

Famous Aries-Aquarius Couples:

Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston

Two very strong, unique, opinionated individuals find some reason to give a little ground to get some companionship or maybe just some sex in return but it’s a stretch.  For one thing, although Aries gets the bad rap for self absorption, he is really the guy most likely to want to give it all in a relationship, 24/7, and what Aquarian wouldn’t throw up and run away at the thought?  Aquarians make a vbd out of being in relationships but they are the biggest loners in the zodiac – it’s part of the price they pay for their highly evolved status.  Relationships require compromise and it’s’ not likely to happen here.  Picture a couple of gang bangers trying to divide up some heretofore unclaimed territory.

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How to Attract an Aries Man as an Aquarius Woman:

Challenge him right away on as many levels as you can while at the same time letting him romance you, open doors, carry in the groceries and throw you down on the bed.  He is actually less egotistical than you so he may forgive outright willfulness on your part but try to put it on a leash.   This is not a crusade.

How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as an Aries Man:

Let her be outrageous.  Applaud her for it.  Show that you appreciate that she has strong opinions (whether you agree with them or not).  Don’t act embarrassed if she takes someone on in a public place.  Stand by your woman!!!!!!  You prefer face time but let her text you instead.  In return maybe she’ll troubleshoot your new computer program for you.  I’m afraid there’s one other sine qua non:   she wears the pants.

Degree of Romance:

Dispensed with early on and mourned over everafter by Aries, who doesn’t realize how romantic that  is.  Neither sign is noted for knowing much about human nature.

Degree of Passion:

Smokin’ hot passion.  Probably the best Aries will ever have.   Ms. Aquarius is indifferent to passion which makes it all the more unbelievably exciting to the ram, who thinks each time he will finally take her over the top.

Degree of Friendship:

These are essentially two loners.  If they team up, it will, therefore, be quite meaningful.  They probably trust each other to an astonishing degree — and no one else.

Degree of Marriage:

Not that good.  It can be explosive, easily disrupted, hard to reconcile and somehow irrelevant as they each do better alone and being single fits their self image better.  Aquarians won’t stay in a marriage out of duty or obligation.  They hardly recognize the institution anyway so please check it out, Aries, before having kids with this gal or giving your heart away.  Really dig to find her beliefs about marriage.  This is not to diss Aquarian women or to say that they aren’t good wives and mothers.  It’s just that this is the gal we vote “least likely to put up with any s—“.  She’ll walk instead.

Progression of Relationship:

“Slam bam, thank you ma ‘am” and then again.  And again.    Each time is like the first time.  Vividly alive and absolutely thrilling.  No two dates or encounters are ever the same.


There’s a lot of fighting which greatly enhances the volcanic and explosive sexual tension.  They may fight constantly until they bed.  Sex becomes their way of resolving all issues and that can work for them.  It is unlike sex between any other couples in that there are no conventional rules — or privileges — including gender protected conventionalities.  It’s like going beyond the known universe to the last real frontier — honest sex.  Real to the bone.

When It’s Over:

There will be blood everywhere then absolute silence

Our Rating: 4 / 10

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  1. I am an Aquarius female from Florida who met this Aries man about 2 years ago. When I first met him I was freshly out of a relationship so I wasn’t ready for something serious. Which I very soon found out that’s what he wanted with me. The day I first met him… I mean this guy, tall, his cologne, the way he hugged me, it wasn’t a hug, he held me. I fell for him right away. Yet, i am a very independent aquarian who likes her freedom. I want to have my space but still come back to him. Which he didn’t seem to understand my way. Made him think I didn’t care about him. When I really did. I still do… we went our seperate ways, I would talk to guys, eventually he got inTo a relationship which he still in. I have not seen him for a year now and he just can’t seem to be able to loose contact with me. I’ve deleted him, and he still messages me. He adds me again. He tells me he misses me, he wants to see me. He wants us to go away for vacations for some days which is so shocking to me because he does have a girlfriend. His girlfriend knows about me and they always break up because of me, EVEN THOUGH I DONT SEE HIM!!. He tells me he still thinks of me after so long…. WHAT IS ITTT??? COULD HE HAVE FEELINGS FOR ME? IS IT A SEXUAL THING? OR DO WE JUST BOTH FEEL THE SAME WAYY??

  2. Big Ram Rod Tha TruthFebruary 12, 2017 at 4:11 am

    I just wanna wish all the beautiful Aquarius Queens a Happy Happy Bday for the entire year…I just love aquarius woman mostly all are my friends are either aquarius female and family members are male…My current lady is a aquarius and i love her very much….I wish the planet had nothing but Aries and aquarius women man i wouldnt never wana go nowhere lol i love yall more than any other zodiac sign cause we the best and the brightest thats why we get along so well and see eye2eye..By the way watch out for scorpios leos virgos taurus pisces cancers etc they aint no good for yall especially the ones i named and a some other clown signs….And another thing virgos get on my last nerves and they be down low gay ass hell especially the males and they big ass liars and manipulaters but they cant manipulate us period lol…And the females like beyonce ugly and cant sing and i cant seee what jayz see in her period i bet he be wanting to kill her i dont blame him but better him than me lol i dont like scorpios or virgos period hell they kinda stupid to me and to most aquarius i know lol i just dont trust them orr like them period…They think they smarter or slicker than aries an aquarius and they are most definitely notttt smh…Aquarius i love yall even though we both something serious i still let you have your way….Cant no body handle either of our signs like we can each other thats why we the best Zodiac signs hell we the FIRST even though they hating lol who cares i know plenty of aries and aquarius couples and they been together happily 20 an 40plus years….And alot of them rich…Remember God n Family over everything and everybody else…Peace love happiness…

  3. I’m and Aquarius woman going with a Aries man I been going with mine for 7mo and we haven’t even meet so all this shit said about Aries is false mine is cyllibouis for 1yr21days are we going to have sex are meet and mine said I stress him when I tell him I get into with ppl and I’m going to push him away and he said he loves me and he told me I’m his girlfriend so what is he wait in on by meeting and have in sex I told him I’m not like the other girls he went with

  4. Who cares what you non Aquarian people think of us. Aquarius, we are all love. Life without love for the Aquarian is like life with no water no air no heat. We need love to live. It’s the dominating controlling person that we have a problem with because we are free spirits. Like the movie legend with Tom Cruise. That movie should represent the Aquarian.

  5. Hmmm!!! M so #Wowed an Shocked at the same time… (touched) M an Aries guy who has jst falled inlove wit d aqua gal, is abt a year for now We jst meet occasionally because of the distance between us, an we already hvng agurments sometimes, m so scared 2 loose her. So i think the solution 2 keep her is to sacrifies alwals an stick 2 satisfyng her accrdng 2 to aqua gals needs…. Hmm! Can any1 help wit tips 2 keep her as my wife 4ever??? 🙁

  6. Thanks 34 years. Aries man. Aqua woman. Trust is incredible he has been away at war more then 12 years of the marriage! Explosive battles at home , awesome sex, I see fireworks most times! Finally I am the one that wears the pants and he grants my every wish. I’m glad I stuck to him he is my true mate! 8 separations 1 devorce chance. Adultry on his side and mine. We’re still together! Rollercoaster

  7. I’m a skeptic when it comes to this stuff..well I used to be anyway. I fit my aquarius sign to SUCH AN EXACT DEGREE …I can deny it no longer…and my Aries man fits his to the same degree. I found this particular take on at least this Aquarius female’s relationship with her Aries man …disturbingly accurate..about some things anyway. I’m a warm loving mother..but I didn’t see that she said otherwise about us as mother’s….As far as my relationship with this Aries man…it’s my first time with one…and my last. I say this with no malice whatsoever … a bit of sadness .. yes.. maybe it’s just this particular Aries that I have such a difficult time not losing my religion with and bashing over the head with a blunt instrument , on a daily basis …. idk… but his complete self involvement is truly … what it appears to be.. I have fought and conquered my aloof ..sometimes cold appearing tenancies … he however has remained steadfastly self serving …isn’t interested in anything if it isn’t about him..will find a way to bring it back around to him…and has no interest nor does he even see the problem with never again.

  8. BabsieBabyMarch 7, 2015 at 1:29 am

    Some of this is very true! I’m an Aqua woman who was seeing an Aries man in college. When we were good, it was great. When things got bad, it got ugly.

  9. lalala youwillneverknowDecember 21, 2011 at 7:00 pm

    so true! i love my aries man! everything i have read is so true. Iv been with my aries ex/bf (really don’t know whats going on) for about 2 years now and we’ve been on and off and break up over any argument, currently not together but act like we are :S and don’t mind having our sex :$

    hes really supportive and can be quite childish but treats me like a queen! and i really miss him i wish i never broke up with him. 🙁

  10. This shit sucks! I feel like fighting again with my Aries man so we can have some smokin’ sex! WTF!

  11. Got screwed over by a superficial ariesguy. buy are they great when ther in fron to f you. but out of sight is out of mind. and the tantrums…constant …from a grown man! can you beliewnve it. i woudl give this a 2.

  12. wow i’m surprised this got a low score. The aries man usually is inlove with the aqua woman from my experience. The problem is, is that the aqua and aries must remember not to be too independent but the aries man will worship her.

  13. ahhhh danny dont be sad…or be worried afta readin an online astro thingy….its all bout u n her not wht these ppl say or think ( also methinks whoeva wrote this mite hv hadda relationship wit an aquarian gurl n come out on th wrong side of bloody n silent…cos they sure gotta downa on us aquarian laydees!!) its all about how yu n her make each othr feel…ur opposites r wht attracted u both in th 1st place.Lemme tell u yh…dont try ‘get her in th mood’ ..back off, do yo thang, ur work whteva, take her out dancin or whteva will surprise an entertain her an go home a sleep…..if things dont go down how they usually do itsa sure way 2 make ur curious gurl wonder y………….she’ll cum afta u then 2 see whts up.let her be free an dont be jealous, if she’s wit u an wants to be she wont run away, n if she does then u know at least x

  14. im an aries and in love with an aquarian for almost 6 years.
    I love her, shes different from anybody else. shes the most beautiful girl ive ever seen. its so hard to get her in the mood, but when she gives, its amazing.
    we fight all the time and almost broke up but dont really sex it out, we just get tired of fighting then stop.
    shes the slowest person in the universe, and im the most impatient! which is one of the main problems, but i still love her. we bring out the child inside us, which is good and bad at the same time. over all, i think shes better at being a friend than a lover. shes my best friend and my only love and I think i want to be with her forever, but after reading this, im worried.

  15. this site is total bogos!!! Me and my aires man never fight! He doesnt have a temper either, most calm man Ive ever known!

  16. Giuliana "giulz" Accardi-BartolomeoApril 14, 2011 at 8:12 am

    me n aries …hmmm yh we get on okay..he kl..we live a distance which is kinda nice cos he aint in ma face..but th sex is jst fckin phenomenal!! (i’ll leave th detail lol)…its enuf..he rlly lkes me..i rlly lk him.. altho he bout as far away from ma ‘type’ as u cn git haha…whts not 2 lk…y’all need 2 remember tht astrological readings are just a rough guide to about a zillion other aquarius’ gurlz n boyz all ova th world…y’all prob had a very different upbringing, family,friends an mentors than i did , so ur unlikely 2 be totally th same in situations as each otha…aquarians y’all shud already no this!!…also some aquarians born at different times and dates would be cooler or more passionate….depending on th where and when AND lol we all got different signs risin…so use this as the entertaining rough guide it is..and go tread ur own path…life love peace and passion to y’all 😀 xx

  17. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!! Everything but the fighting… we never fight… just sex.

  18. I am Aqua-Leo, and i was in relation with Aries-Gemini, that was relation full of adventure and passion, and my silly boy run to the other city. He was tooo much possesive, but he also had other woman in other city’s:-))

  19. oh boy,this is too true its kindof funny LOL

  20. As an aries man who knew an aquarius woman for about five yrs i found repeatedly aqua is more in love with the concept of love and doesnt really love anyone. not able to dont want to. thats where their insecurity come from. and the lack of confidence performance issues baiting luring. these things would not be needed, no doubt theyre fun, if there was genuine love. lacking in integrity all the way. to self-ruination and some easy mutually destructive relationship. they know one thing lets try our damndest to get love cous thats the way to live tra la la la! emotional sponges weaving airy tales living brittle lives. happiness takes hard work. on all levels. theres no results otherwise. welcome to the real world. goodbye nothing.

  21. JoA yup we Aries wil be childish till the end…
    Cuz we r the lonely wolf…3:P)
    N We always lyk 2 have fun n adventure…:XD
    But some tym we may fall 4 Aquarius …
    Cuz Their character r smiler 2 us aries….
    & we r very Good friendz 2 each others….
    Glad she told the truth ….

  22. I think this really hits the nail on the head. I never was attracted to Aries. Knew to stay away from such a hothead. I was one time told by an astrololger Aries does not age well. too childish.

  23. Holy crud; this seems so freaking accurate. I have an Aires friend (if you could call it that) and we’re ALWAYS ARGUING. We do whatever we can to one-up each other, and if that means a little bloodshed, well, that’s how it’ll have to be. He asked me if I’d go out with him, once, and I declined, so he got pretty pissy and bothersome, but that’s what makes the banter fun. Yeah, I’m a teensy bit attracted to him, but not enough to deal with him all the time. I’m sure it’d be explosive at first, but end in a fist fight.

  24. Aquarius GirlOctober 2, 2010 at 3:56 am

    “sine qua non” – my Aries ex used this phrase a few times when we were together. I think my ex loved my body more than my soul, which made me really sad because I had deep feelings for him. He thought sex with me was the best he’s ever had. Eventually our relationship became a vicious cycle of fights and obsessions. I got tired of the make up sex (even thought it was great) because problems never get solved. Plus I was miserable because he was trying to change me into a doormat. The breakup wasn’t pretty. I stayed calm and tried to be kind, but he got really upset and turned abusive. I ran away. Fast.

  25. I am an Aquarious woman who has been on and off with an Aries man for 8 years now. It is a total roller coaster! We get along well and have great times together, but when we disagree on something we can’t work it out, it ends up being a fight. I think the most accurate part of this article is “There’s a lot of fighting which greatly enhances the volcanic and explosive sexual tension. They may fight constantly until they bed. Sex becomes their way of resolving all issues and that can work for them.” I think the only reason we have stayed together so long is because of the sex. We might be fighting and really mad one minute; then we will get in bed and have the most amazing sex ever! It is how we “solve” our problems..meaning they never get solved!!! This article is so right!!

  26. Aquarius woman who was engaged to an Aries man…this hit the nail on the head…I almost sounds like I wrote it. We fought the whole time we were together but we were childhood friends so I trusted him more than anyone I knew. We split up after 3 years and haven’t spoken since.

  27. This website is extremely extremely negative. I am an aquarius woman and all my best male friends are all Aries and I am involved with an Aries man that I care for deeply and he’s deeply deeply into me so this website is retard. Aries and Aquarians rule

  28. im an aries man thinkin of getting with this aquarius woman.. and i think this is the only site i found with somethin negative like that about the 2 signs lol.

  29. SimlapenoMay 25, 2010 at 6:23 am

    Hey.. I am an aquarius woman and I have been with an aries boy for 5 years now the last of which has been a long distance relationship. We started out as friends and even though there was a lot of bloodshed right at the start, for some reason we stuck through and have been happy since. We have a very comfortable and honest relationship. However, your post sort of worries me. Normally I would’ve ignored it since relationships depend on two individuals, the circumstances and how far they are really ready to go to make it work, but I read your post on Aries man and Scorpio woman and it sort of seemed to fit bang on with what I have seen of RDJ and Susan. So this post sort of freaked me out. Sure astrology would give you the rough idea but it really depends on individuals to work it out right? Otherwise Russell Crowe and Meg Ryan would still be together right? I just want to ensure that if there is another blood bath, its not him who is all bruised.

  30. yup definetly have to agree with Yvette, it was really negative towards us aquariuses but something about it seems pretty accurate to me. Id probably have to say that relationship wise it kinda is.

  31. Have to admit: this was one of the only negative compatibilities I’ve read and quite hysterical. I almost felt attacked reading it.. But with all that blood shed, who dies?

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