This is the quintessential gender stereotypically correct combination, a manly man with a girlie girl. Eeeewwwww. Each is bound to have lots of suitors so the courtship is an important period, not only of getting to know one another but of establishing the high quality partner that is being presented. Usually male relatives get involved as proponents on both sides. Aries is so strong with Steve Harvey’s Three Ps (if – and it’s a big if – he’s interested): Providing, Protecting and Professing. Learn more here.
Cancer is the quintessential maiden in distress, lady in waiting and potential storybook PrincessBride all wrapped up in one. How can they resist one another? As the years go by, they have to guard against getting lost in their roles of HeMan and Dependee but at first it is just divine.
How to Attract an Aries Man as a Cancer Woman: Go ahead and play helpless. Ask him to carry the groceries. Wait for him to open doors. Cry on his big shoulders. Get him to open the pickle jar and swoon over how strong he is. Most of all, sob at sad movies and fuss over every baby you see. Talk about how important it is for someone to find their perfect partner.
How to Attract a Cancer Woman as an Aries Man: She’s going to find you hard to resist. You can pretty much sweep her off her feet with attention and appreciation. She is the girlie-girl of the zodiac who needs and welcomes your attention so please go ahead and be the old fashioned hero you want to be. THIS gal will appreciate it!
Degree of Romance: Aries has a very special brand of romanticism – it comes naturally to him -- which is well received by the moonlight lady. Indeed,
Degree of Passion: Nor is anyone more passionate than an Aries in love! The natural receptivity of the Cancer lady (read Dion Fortune’s “The Sea Priestess”) brings out every bit of what he’s got.
Degree of Friendship: They fall too completely into gender roles to be friends.
Degree of Marriage: A perfect marriage, given the right Aries and the right Cancer! Double that if they are both under 25 or she is ten years younger than him.
Progression of Relationship: Aries loves the courtship ritual. If he’s serious about you, he’ll show it right away by his attention and desire to impress you. He’ll brag about you to his many male friends. He will do the most incredible things for you to prove his love, like hassling the DMV for days about where is your license renewal or finding someone reasonable to fix your automatic sprinklers – all voluntary. He just can’t stand to see you helpless against the world. Aries is a born closer so expect some real momentum as he touch all the bases on his way over to home.
Sex: Sex between these two is like the way it was taught in hygiene or sex education class. Aries and Cancer consider it so amazing they are even doing it, they don’t need all the bells and whistles. The Church Lady would approve. There’s a lot of demureness to Cancer and Aries doesn’t mind waiting to win the prize. [The longer she holds out, the greater he thinks the prize is.] This is the combo we vote Most Likely to Wait for Their Wedding Night and to Use the Missionary Position Ever After.
When It’s Over: If it ends, he’ll still be protective of her, handling the court process, making sure she has her own cc and car insurance, even her own lawyer (!) and he will be available to take the kids to their dental checkups if she can’t handle it with her new job. He is voted the Best Divorced Dad in the Zodiac.
Our Rating: 10/10

#1 by moonlight whateva on January 30th, 2010
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i dont think the cancerian woman is a damsel in distress.. i being one am not a distressed person.. im an independent person..!!
#2 by nancy on February 2nd, 2010
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I’d like to hear from the gentlemen. Is this true … are Cancer women independent?
#3 by Naniko on February 17th, 2010
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i agree with this xD Yet–i am a gemini cancer cusp.
no matter how much i would like to try to fool myself i am a damsel in distress.
i am always trying to do everything on my own because i dont want to be a burden–and at first look at myself i think’ “im indapendant” but when it comes to like, buying things im not to good with math so if i have the wrong money i will be loosing. and i hate to go talk to food people to tell them what i want and ussually depend on my friends to order for me. xD
so i will say i am somewhat a damsel in distress but i am somewhat independant
I think cancers naturally are indapendant thought–but when it comes to emotional needs–we are damsel indistress ^^
#4 by Daniel on March 13th, 2010
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i dont like this one
i find there is an awkwardness and misunderstanding between aries and cancer
cancers need someone emotionally mature to depend on or at least to be able to trust with their wells of emotion & sensitivity
#5 by LilyTheFrilly on March 19th, 2010
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Although I am in this current situation (female Cancerian being involved with a male Arian), this sounds almost too good to be true, but in the end, fans of astrology must realize that one cannot base everything through sun signs…astrologically-wise, there is a need to go over the individual’s/couple’s chart, and to be practical, it all depends on how the couple work out the relationship – and this goes to all types of relationships. I personally quite like this little reading; it’s just too cute, albeit unrealistic xD
#6 by nancy on March 22nd, 2010
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“Just too cute” Really? REALLY?
#7 by Jazz on April 1st, 2010
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I believe many of these things can be true. I was in a relationship with an aries once and he was very passionate, also very protective. But that ended being he was still in love with his ex(gemini). Who is now my best friend in the entire world. Weird right? I know but I love her to death. I also believe Cancer woman are independent. At least I am. I’m a cancer with an aries ascendant and I am very independent when it comes to life matters such as money and so on. But I believe I’m not so independent emotionally. I feel like I could physically live on my own. Physically, I don’t need anyone. Emotionally, I do. My mother before anyone. She helps me throughout a lot. But a cancer woman can really be independent.
#8 by nancy on April 3rd, 2010
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#9 by MoonGirl on April 20th, 2010
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I love your comment re: “physically I dont need anyone, but emotionally I do.” That is has been on the tip of my tongue for years, thank you for helping me find the words to describe a Cancer Sun, Aqua. Moon, with Leo rising. I am VERY independent…physically, but I’d really appreciate a man to compliment my life. I had a great Aries guy once…and I messed that up. I am VERY attracted to them…all manly on the outside and silly boy on the inside.
#10 by rare1forher on April 23rd, 2010
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I am a Aries male, married to a Cancer woman, to whom I would do anything in the world, sometimes to much. She is very independent, and I sometimes get in the way of that because i want so mmuch for her. I want to be that rock that she can count on. However when I do this it sometimes cause’s turmoil as she is a very strong woman (wich I love) but she thinks I am trying to take that away from her. which I am not I just want to make that difference to where she has no issues and doesnt feel like I am trying to change her because I dont want to change her. The key i have now learned is when she needs time, I need to make sure and back off and give it too her. She is the love of my life, I would do anything for her. I want to share lifes greatest moments with her.
#11 by nancy on April 29th, 2010
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@MoonGirl ,,, so true!!!
#12 by nancy on April 29th, 2010
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@rare1forher Good luck. IT sounds like you’re on the right track! He’s a lucky woman.
#13 by Macy on May 6th, 2010
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@rare1forher! I love your comment. I am a cancer woman with an aries man. He is wonderful he loves, protects, supports, provides, and sexes me down! BUT sometimes I need some space. He is sooo offended when I want space! Time to take a nap, drive alone, etc. Financially I am superb but he is silly (money-wise) but getting better… Everything else we are great. He is sooo sexy and strong… I be like OMG look at my sexy husband.
#14 by rockstar1009 on May 16th, 2010
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Wow, I would just like to say how grateful I am to all those people saying Aries/Cancer relationships can work. It gets so hard sometimes being with an Arian guy, but there is just something about him I can’t seem to let go of! Thanks for not dooming our relationship
#15 by Catui on May 22nd, 2010
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I suspect cancer girls, more than anything, WANT to be independent – it seems to be a major value for them. Maybe because thay reason that if they don´t depend on anyone they will be safer… But it´s good to remember that Cancer girls usually display an image of themselves to the world that´s very different from what they really are and feel on the inside. I´m an Aries guy that has been dating a younger Cancer girl for a few months now, and I have to say, she´s surprised me so many times… I´m still figuring out who she really is, but I think I´m getting closer! lol! And Macy, understand, I think nothing hurts/offends an Aries guy more than to have his enthusiasm quenched… I´m having a hard time with this girl – I´m totally into her but things are developing sooooo slow!!! I need sooo much patience!! ARGH!
#16 by Lauren on June 10th, 2010
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OMG all this is soooo true. I am a cancer my boyfriend is an aries and he does the most romantic things in the world for me and just wants to share his amazing life with me. He loves taking me out and he’s artistic and loves the finer things in life and doesn’t mind paying for it either. And incredible in bed he’s always about pleasing me but he wants it everyday which is hard when I’m not in the mood. But I think even though aries are physically and emotionally demanding, they are so worth it. They will give you the world and hold the strongest morals. He is also very trustworthy I don’t know if that’s an aries trait or just him. I love being his damsel in distress it’s like a fairytale
#17 by nancy on June 12th, 2010
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@Lauren
It sounds like heaven!! Enjoy.
#18 by nancy on June 13th, 2010
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#19 by Jaz on June 22nd, 2010
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I know as a cancer woman I am very independent. I go by the saying “if u want it done right then do it yourself”. but then again I like for a man to do manly chores around the house like throwing the trash or carrying heavy things for me. So its almost like i’m both rolled into one. I’ve dated Aries men & I must say that there is a whole lot of passion in those relationships. Every Aries man I know can walk around lookin like a million dollars & not have $5 in his pocket. Crazy!! Anyway, i think perfect match as friends but not so much for marriage. But all in all it really depends on the people in the relationship
#20 by Scott on June 26th, 2010
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Cancer and Aries show up on another site as being the summer relationship this year. This Aries has been all in since birth and finds your article delicious. This type of positivity needs to be turned up! Thank you
S
#21 by Lisa on June 28th, 2010
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I am a cancerian girl in love with aries guy. I feel so good going thru all the good things between the cancerian n aries. Whenever i hv a fight with him i tend to look for all the compatibilites n all betw us. Ha ha. Silly me.
#22 by choice on July 17th, 2010
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I’m an aries man with a cancer g/f, and I have to say it sucks. I’m amazingly infatuated with her, near the point of obsession. I just dont get her, and worst not only do I not understand her but I dont understand why im so irrationaly attracted to her.
We have been dating about 18 months, and i’d say the biggest problem’s (yes its plural) would be: that we totally dont get each other, and when concessions are made by either of us they aren’t seen as such, even when surrendering the battle it feels more like a final shot, rather then a white flag.
Trust,,, i feel she dosent respect my trust for her.. even though we are committed and monogamous something constantly arrises to show me how misplaced my faith in her is.
Her introverted nature,, mabey its due to the fact my previous relationship was with a leo,, ( yes theres no 1 like her) but even though i know shes tryng to express her love and affection i just dont feel it,, it seems shallow, or empty,, like instead of sayng sumthing from inside she’ll quote sum tired hallmark card… omg its really worst then it sounds,
that coupled with her inability to communicate her thoughts (80 % of the time no matter the topic) has led to alot of talking on my part,( to much for even the aries i am) which is causing this over extension of my emotions + add in the dis trust…. and there you have it , possibly the worst relationship ever,,,,
I have figured out atleast partly what my attraction is caused by #15 catui, i’m still figuring out who she is, and i keep thinking im getting closer and that then it will all make sence..
My advice if they dont share a similiar background there will be no middle ground.
#23 by leigh on July 17th, 2010
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I am a cancer woman who tangled with an Aries man…the earth moved when we met. He was a fanastic date. Big spender, great planner, the most romantic guy in the most creative ways. Dated the guy for a year, it was blissful. Not friends but definitely had the love thing going on. Married, HUGE mistake. The guy I dated morphed into a complete stranger, controlling, weird, nothing I did was right kind of person, yet while we dated it was so compatible or so he led me to believe. And don’t even talk about intimacy…Needed it ALL the time, but it wasn’t about love it was about performance for him. He thought he was god’s gift, nope, that was something exchange worthy and quick. We had spent a whole year getting to know each other, and then I found out it wasn’t him. It was this big game, and he called me a great opponent. Totally sick. I divorced him in 6 mths-I should of annulled it in 2 wks, ugh, and swore NEVER date, or associate with their kind again. He was born on 4/1…. a fool and a liar. And later girlfriends and I compared their Aries experiences, and they said, date them, enjoy that, but forget anything more, they aren’t worth the effort…players only…I’ll stick with Pieces, Libras or Virgos, they are sweeter…
#24 by RG on July 22nd, 2010
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I am a cancer woman who has been in a relationship with an aries man for over 7 years now. He is so the knight in shining armour, always makins sure I have what I need at all times. He is so strong and his masculinity pours out of him. I get emotional, jealous and moody at times as a typical cancer girl, but he has always tried to assure me that he is very much in love with me and I have helped him become more emotionally expressive. I think this relationship can be the strongest yet because cancer girl and aries man make one heck of a strong team when working together!
#25 by Babe on August 20th, 2010
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Well, the Aries man that I know, already proposed me, what to do? I don’t love him. But if he does not stop being so cute, I might fall in love with him?
Source:
I’m a gemini cusp cancer now dating an aries man.
#26 by Babe on August 25th, 2010
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ok to let you know, i told him just now i love him too… hard to resist…
hehe i’m in love…