This relationship can be a gender bender and it is always about success. Two hard working, goal oriented individuals who love to be on top have to find ways to cooperate with one another and share space. [Hint: She will wear the pants because she’s wiser.]
How to Attract an Aries Man as a Capricorn Woman: You are probably the most challenging woman he’ll ever meet because you’re not needy. Therefore you don’t swoon over his boyish charms. Stay just a little bit out of his reach and chances are he’ll chase you until you catch him.
How to Attract a Capricorn Woman as an Aries Man: You know what you want and she will sense that when you put the ball into play as only you can. Just don’t expect her to act Impressed by you’re audacity. She may seem shy and self effacing but underneath is a stoic dedicated man of action just like you so you’ll have to learn-as-you-go how to appeal to her. For starters you’ll have to be more of a man and at least as competent as she is about checking under the hood, getting a re-fi or laying a new driveway. No Wimps Need Apply. She’s not the pushover for your charms that most women are. She’s a good judge of character s you better have some. She doesn’t “’need” your attention and she can certainly live without you.
Degree of Romance: There’s a lot of unexpected tenderness here but It’s hardly romantic. The best she can do is show some vulnerability from time
Degree of Passion: These two can really get it on, shocking as that may seem to Cappie who may realize she actually has needs in the presence of the steamy ram. He will take full advantage and bring her to her knees begging for more.
Degree of Friendship: They may find it hard to be friends because their approach to goal setting and achievement is so different. Capricorn will feel likes he’s rash and impulsive. Aries will mistake her uber preparedness for procrastination and timidity.
Degree of Marriage: This can work. Both are quite dedicated to each other and secretly feel that the foundation of society is In successful marriages. Both will work hard at it --- if only they could each give a little ground and do it in tandem. It gets better when kids come along because then there are some Indians as well as chiefs.
Progression of Relationship: They may quietly fight for control from the beginning. She may ask for HIS phone number. She won’t hesitate to rearrange schedules and suggest better places to meet. You’ll feel like you’re booking a business meeting. She’ll probably prefer a prize fight or soccer playoffs to a quiet conversation in the new Bing Crosby’s Bar & Restaurant. Aries, be prepared to spend some money. She’ll offer to pay (for you, too) but it’s a test. Under no conditions take her up on it if you ever want to see her again.
Sex: They’re not called a goat and a ram for no reason.
When It’s Over: It’ll be wrapped up in a business like manner. Aries will be a little bit “loud” over it but by then Capricorn is a wrap-it-up machine. No second guesses, no doubts and don’t waste energy over what could have been.
Our Rating: 7 /10

#1 by Lucia on December 19th, 2009
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very true except for “When it’s Over”. It’s never over with us.
#2 by Candie on March 29th, 2010
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Almost everything has proven to be acurate, exceot for the part of Capricorns forgetting and not thinking about what could have been. Sometimes, I occasionally find myself thinking about it, and often regreting the relationship coming to an end.
#3 by camille on March 30th, 2010
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I’ve experienced the “when its over part” and its on target…I, the cap woman cut it off nice and clean….he yelled and screamed outside my house for nearly and hour. …if only he were as passionate about working as he were about me. I do miss him though.
#4 by nancy on March 30th, 2010
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Touche!
#5 by nancy on March 30th, 2010
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Sweet.
#6 by nancy on April 3rd, 2010
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#7 by C on June 4th, 2010
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“She’ll offer to pay (for you, too) but it’s a test. Under no conditions take her up on it if you ever want to see her again.”
Wow, I’ve totally done this. Fail the test and its over. (thought it was my own little secret)
#8 by Kimmie on August 7th, 2010
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I am a Capricorn who has started a new relationship with an Aries man. It has been almost everything that is stated here and then some! We have such a great connection! I just get confused by his behavior sometimes……he will be out of touch for a couple of days but then come right back to me. Why???
#9 by mimi on August 17th, 2010
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im also a cap woman. i have dealt with a few aires men and yes they r so confusing! i think its because, even though we have alot in common, we have such a different approach to life. i agree with what was written above about letting him chase u. if its one thing i know for a fact is aires men dote on novelty and challenge, so i say dont call him out on his behavior, thats just how he is. aries have big-ass egos and think they can win u over n then pay u no mind..ignore HIM for a little while, see how he likes it. i hate playing games like that, but i feel like with aires u have to. this is only in the beginning though, because when an aries gets into a relationship, hes serious about it and its for the long run. aires r so much fun, so if i were u i wouldnt give up easily
#10 by rupert on August 18th, 2010
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Kimmie: Im an aries male (with strong aries orientation: mother and father are both aries as well – mum and I were born on the same day so go figure), and I’ll tell you why we do it. We have a very bad habit of disappearing, we don’t do it with the intent of disappearing, its just something that seems to happen because we tend to get caught up in the moment with our daily errands and life and then we’re gone with the wind. Its not that we chose to ignore you on purpose but we will slip away from time to time. Its also not something we do all the time, but it does happen with us a fair bit, that said we’ll always come back – you cant get rid of us that easily if you’ve caught our attention.
Building up from there, when we are in a serious relationship you will have us around a great deal, because we enjoy every minute of it, and any challenge to blow you away and sweep you off your feet we’ll make the most of. It’s kind of like when we’re here its like you got hit by a tornado, and then we’re gone and it’ll all be calm and then we’ll come back and you’ll get hit by a tornado again. That is just how we are, its about acting on impulse, and improvising for almost everything and while doing both those things making everything work to make sure you’re needs are catered to. We’re nature’s providers, we enjoy giving and tending to your needs, well so long as you show us you appreciate us doing it for you even if it is in a very subtle way.
Now moving onto my issue.. I’ve recently come across this amazing cap woman, who’s caught my attention out of nowhere (she flew in under the radar and I think I’m smitten). So far I’ve been how we all know a typical aries is, but now you folks have me worried.. I’d love to make this work.. what do I do??!
#11 by mimi on August 18th, 2010
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honestly all capricorns want is to be appreciated, i think as long as ur in the picture, instead of disappearing all the time, shell b convinced. i think as long as u prove (not talk about) that shes special 2 u, it will work..at least it would work for me and im a cap woman. dont talk about it, be about it. then shell know that you’re for real…….
#12 by rupert on August 20th, 2010
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mimi be my guide!! we talk for hours everyday, and its about nothing!! its usually just me joking around with her and we’ll joke about who has the upper hand over the other one!! ive only known her about a week, but she just seems to be all i think about, i dont want this to be infatuation and flaky for me, but at the same time i dont want her to think im not interested, but its crazy because i see that nothing works!! its as if she knows i want her but wont let me have her!! though i doubt she knows that i like her.. this is nuts, lol i need therapy!
#13 by Ava on August 25th, 2010
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Awww Rupert just keep showing her you are interested and she will respond to your advances, we as capricorn woman love being chased anyways!
#14 by niya on August 25th, 2010
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I’m a Taurus ..and getting to know a Aries and yes …the disappearing thing is very annoying…n he’s the one that pursued me….I was feeling him a lot at one point but ….feelings are changing …not really interested…any more ….
#15 by mimi on August 26th, 2010
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yea us capricorn women r so guarded its disgusting lol it takes a whiiile for us 2 trust someone but it doesnt mean we dont like u..we take caution with everything to make sure we make the right move..thats y, we put up so many walls..we just wanna see whos willing 2 climb over them..and we all need therapy, rupert lol..but honestly, this girl sounds like a winner 2 me. she seems smart from the way u describe her, i hope it works out, keep me posted! lolol.. ok i really need therapy……..
#16 by Alexandra on August 26th, 2010
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Wow this was true, lol. For me, It doesn’t matter if the guy is the sexiest man on earth, if he’s not direct/honest, hardworking, and a good person, he’ll just be a guy who has a terrible personality, but is incredibly sexy. LOL. I would never pursue a relationship with someone who has a terrible personality/attidude, makes excuses, or does things half-assed.
I don’t like feeling lost in a relationship-friend, family, or lover. If a guy is going to vanish for a little, I just want to know what’s going on or if he’s okay, so I don’t think he lost interest or ran off with another or got kidnapped lol. I’m not clingy, I’ll give you your space (“me” time, guy time, or w/e-you-want-time), but don’t leave me in the dark if you disappear w/o a trace for a while then suddenly appear.
I also laughed when it said that we test guys by offering to pay because I do it all the time and other things to test their character.