Aries Man and Libra Woman Compatibility

Famous Aries-Libra Couples:

Marlon Brando and Johanna O’Callaghan, Mark Consuelos and Kelly Ripa, Clyde Barrow and Bonnie Parker, Heath Ledger and Naomi Watts

Tarzan meets Jane.  When these two come together there are almost stereotypical expectations as to looks and behavior. The dating process can be like a casting call.  This is the couple most likely to be attracted to one another on the basis of “looking the part”.  It works for them!  Chances are you’ll hear them say, “I always wanted to be with a [man][woman] like ___.  The other place you’ll find this combination is in a trophy situation, i.e., “Finally, I got what I deserve.”  There is more than a little competitiveness evident as each thinks they have finally advanced to the semi finals of love and partnership.

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How to Attract an Aries Man as a Libra Woman:

Be prepared to make your most worthwhile moves.  Finally, an audience to play to the hilt for.  Make him open the doors, pull the car around for you, carry the umbrella and by all means, pick up the tab.  Even though you could run a football team, act like a lady.  Try not to confuse passive with weakness or passive-aggression (I don’t it’s a tough area for you).

How to Attract a Libra Woman as an Aries Man:

Brush up on your favorite role as the romantic lead.  Watch a few Ben Affleck movies!  Try to develop a sequential plan for the relationship – more than how to get her from into bed.  She’s a thinking creature, an intelligent life form, and will not be impressed by too much spontaneity (impulse) on your part.  Chances are you know The Rules and they can give your lust f illed maneuvering some badly needed struture at this point.

Degree of Romance:

No two people will ever enjoy the Game of Romance more than these  two .  Aries is the most romantic sign in the zodiac and Libra loves to be on the receiving end of gifts and gratuities. It’s almost like holding court!  Libra will expect strict observance of all major holidays with special emphasis on Valentine’s Day and her birthday.  She will prefer a PUBLIC display  of your affections in strict romantic code,  even a little more lavish than you should, such as a dozen red roses sent to her office, not her home, so all her friends know you fawn over her, I mean, care.

Degree of Passion:

Passion can be contrived and it probably should be to fit on the casting couch but it is not real.  You are both calculating and playing for effect.

Degree of Friendship:

They may be better friends at activities than conversation or closeness.  In other words, s/he’s the friend I [watch classic films with] [go to arts festivals with][go to sports events with].

Degree of Marriage:

There is a good chance for a lasting relationship here.  Chances are by the time these two find each other, they’ve dated everybody else and know what they are looking for.  They will usually develop a close group of mutual and married friends which can be of great support as the years go by.

Progression of Relationship:

We vote these two most likely to follow The Rules.  They each have standardized expectations such as, “He should ask me out Wednesday for Saturday night” and “I won’t introduce him to my friends until he’s introduced me to his.”  This is because although they are both leaders by nature, they like to follow protocols.  In order to be attracted to one another, they are in to gender role playing in a very big way.


Sex is the meat and potatoes of this relationship.  They both have expectations of how often and in what way(s) they should have sex and they will be quite diligent in performing their duties. This is the couple most likely to have a pet nickname for a certain part of his anatomy.

When It’s Over:

When It’s over, they won’t realize it because they’ll tend to keep on playing their parts.   Therefore, the way this one “really” ends is by the entrance of a third party on the scene.  Actually, whereas you’d think that would do it, there’s mo re.  The likelihood is that the wronged partner will now also go out and create a love triangle so by this time there are four parties involved.  Everyone is seething with resentment while trying not to step on anyone else’s toes, for reasons known only to the parties involved.

Our Rating: 6/10

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  1. Hi everyone,
    I am also having the same situation wherein I am falling in love to a aries man. As a libra woman, i’m also being so sure that we are compatible in everything. I don’t believe in horoscopes’ love compatibility. I was so shocked when he asked me about my horoscope, i really don’t have any idea that he would ask me about that. That was very unexpected to say FROM a guy. Haha! I find it attractive tho. It has been 1 month and 2wks since he approached me. We both are TOTAL strangers. He asked my fb account, i gave it without hesitation. We have 2 mutual friends (my college clasmate – his common friend, my workmate – his school mate). I haven’t say this yet but I am now 23 years old and I belong to a NBSB (No Boyfriend Since Birth) group. It would be my first (if ever i said yes to him), but I don’t really know what to do because I am scared. I know it’s still new since we’ve known each other but we already had 4 dates. It’s fun, sweet amd made my heart flutters but I am holding back. We hugged and hold hands inside the car on our 3rd date (after month). It made me feel so weird, it’s so cliche but I think it is what they called “butterfliies in your stomach” hahaha! I just don’t know how to control myself and tell him that i am not ready YET. Btw, it feels like i’ve known him long time ago and whenever we see each other, it feels like hours became minutes (it’s so fast that we need to go home early because we both have far home.), days feels like a year when we separated and say our goodbyes after date.

  2. I am a aries boy and I love my libra girl but after 1 yr we got break up but still I think about her so after recharching this horoscopic believs I realize that again we will get in contack at near future with my libra x gf so its upon destiny so lets see whats happens thanks for the beautiful judgement from all of you…

  3. big_black_deckAugust 20, 2016 at 4:27 pm

    Aries and libras are excellent couples, don’t listen to this. I am a aries with my libra man, everything is exciting, with have lots in common, I have led him to adventure; that is true, he has tought me style lol, but sex.. It’s rough, and great!

  4. HeLovesThisLibraAugust 6, 2015 at 7:14 am

    I’m a Libra and I Love Love Looove my Aries Man I read 100 sites and they pretty much said we won’t work.. But I couldn’t believe that what I feel could not work.. My Aries is all about logic and Im all about emotions we live on two different sides of the world, He gets to me and Hurts my feelings so easily But after a year We learned to compromise its not easy.. But honestly I got good at “knowing Him” He still surprise me and He’s so passionate about what he believes, took me a while to learn how to put THIS aries in his place and make him open up ( Girlllllll ) he dont like it lmfao I dont know what it is I get these feeling I can’t explain I can’t believe I’m in love like this but I won’t make it seem like its all good because we Rocked more than we rolled not to long ago

    We broke up April and the way this site says it happens it really happened like that… We were so used to playing these roles that when we broke up we still fell into these routine until he met a girl (That surprisingly caught his attention) So I met a guy just to get back at him and it was done in front of one another so there was resentment and with US its either love each other or hate each other No in between (sigh) but when push came to shove :-/ the Aries wanted the Libra I dont know why I drive this man crazy Lol
    So we’re back at it 1 year and a few months I can say even after all we been through its like he has this Torch that keeps me lit

    P.S Relationships Start with you too not with your signs have to want to work for it to work..

  5. KatherineJuly 19, 2015 at 3:44 pm

    @ Salma, He is just playing games with you. I don’t know much about Aries- nor have that much contact with them, but the few I have met.. it’s a love/hate relationship.
    Seriously speaking, this guy has a girlfriend, was told he liked you but did not act upon it. He stares at you but doesn’t do anything… Sweetie, don’t waste your time and heart on this unstable/unserious person and find yourself someone who actually has the guts to speak to you. And if you like him so much, go up to him and tell him, if he doesn’t say or do anything right after you’ve told him, then you got your cue… MOVE on and stop wasting your time.

    He is just playing.

  6. Hey I really need help …this thing has been going on for more than 6 month !! I really need advice … well I am in love with an Aries guy, so this is my story. my friend went and told him tht I liked him and he didn’t say tht he doesn’t like me .. all he said was ” I am an ass whn it comes to these kind of things and I am unstable at the moment and anyways I thought she is dating another guy but I guess she isn’t” so my friend tried convincing him to come up and talk to me but he wouldn’t he said he will confront me or something … but anyways the reason why my friend told him tht I liked him is because he always used to stare and look at me whnever I am around and tries to grab my attention ….Anyways after he knew …in university he starts staring and looking and acting way more than he did before and he knows tht I like him and he literally he stares and looks and whn he is sitting with his friends every sec he looks at me… and the sad part now is tht he Is dating someone BUT there are rumors tht he is just dating her for her body and shit like tht ….and the thing is even whn he is dating her he looks at me and he stares and he still acts as if he wants my attention and the funny thing Is tht he is one of those guys who would love to reject a girl but with me he didn’t he didn’t even talk to me about it or say at least to my friend he doesn’t like me…and now he is leaving soon and I really like … and I keep saying I am not gonna go up to him cuz I dnt wanna sound desperate and anyways he knws tht I like him why doesn’t he come up to me !!!! ooh yea and his GF sits next to me class and she is soo nice and sweet and im sure I dnt wanna hurt her … but the thing I just wanna knw if there is something between me and him or wht he thinks of me or at least tell me whts going on!!! 6 MONTH ALREADY ….I cnt take this anymore

  7. I am a Libra lady who has been captivated by my Aries man for 3 months now. He has kept me on my toes from the start with his smooth comments and gestures, but he turns it all off with the flick of a switch. He recently told me he wants this to be serious and that he loves me. He even specified he is “In Love with me”. He has been more attentive since this conversation. 🙂 I want to know if Aries men are naturally hot and cold, can he be someone to depend on? Are these things part of his nature or scares from the past? He seems like a loving family man, the above article does not mention family at all. I have fallen for this guy hard, he in intelligent, social, and tries to be controlling but I shut that down quick and he just smiles at me or laughs or say’s good answer. LOL! When we are together we can complete each others sentences however when apart he can be very distant. Sometimes I am a bit confused because when I want something I go get it and when I love someone I love them in fully! I jump feet first and go full steam ahead because I have thought and analysed the situation. What to do, what to do?
    This is such a change from my last relationship of 6 years with the Pisces that would not commit. He suffered from spurts of depression I had to pull him out of time and time again. I was so tired of carrying him threw life!

  8. Hello all,
    I AM A 27 YR OLD LIBRA DOWN TO THE CORE. I have been fascinated with aquarian people since I started dealing with astrology roughly ten yrs ago. I fell in love with an aquarius 10 yrs ago, but we remained frineds until i was 23 and thats when we finally hooked up. 4 yrs of an emotional rollercoaster, but i still love him with all of my heart. We broke up in June and everything has remained the same between us up until a couple of weeks ago, when i read on this site that he was being the best to me because he would never want to be in a reltionship again. I was so hurt because I felt like all the romance and sweet talk meant we were going to hook back up. After reading this I did some soul searching and realized the horoscope was right and he was being sweet so he didnt have to be with me anymore. Since then I have started talking to an old acquaintence from highschool who I’ve talked to on and off over the yrs. He of course is an Aries. This passage said something about by the time we hook up we will probably know what we want out of a mate. I have my fingers crossed that this is it, we already have a host of mutual friends who are married and are both looking to settle down and buy a house. I am moving fast in my own mind, but i have made my mind up on what I want and just hope that my aries is my last!!!

  9. I am a Libra woman and “was” talking to an Aries Man. I am 33 years of age and the guy I liked was 63. GO FIGURE!!! I started liking this dude and I thought he was 50. That’s how GOOD he looks. His appearance spoke, strong, dominant, loving, suave, attentive, all about business and more. I emailed him my information and he contacted me the next day. We went on dates, we talked over the phone, we texted every chance we got. Life was good…for three weeks! LOL! He had to go out of town for a week during the fourth of July. Ok…I called, no answer…I called …thinking something was wrong, but he would text that he was out with friends…ok. He stop calling like he used to, his long text became one word text, he would text several hours later, he would call maybe on the fourth day after you asked him to call you…he changed…dramatically…he just stopped…everything. My heart was hurt because the things we did were amazing, I enjoyed his conversation, and the fact that he was an older guy…I guess their right “age is nothing, but a number.” I texted him after calling him twice to let him know that I enjoyed everything and have a god life. I haven’t spoken to him since. My point to say all of this is that Aries man is what their sign is…stubborn, mean, and loving. Yes, I still think about him, but I know over time he will be a figment of my imagination…and it needs to hurry up! But never give up on love, no matter what his sign maybe God has a way of bringing that special one to you even if you have doubts of not dating that sign that broke your heart…!

  10. I’m a Libra girl currently dating a Aries man. We have just really been talking/dating for about 3 months. We have already bumped heads because of some of the things he have said really hurt my feelings and he was acting as if he expected us to move on from that as if nothing happened. Due to that issue everytime I spoke with him I was kind of distant and had an attitude because the issues before had not been talked about or resolved so yes I was acting a little funny. He told me he loved me within the first 2 months of us dating. Instead of me giving up like I have with guys in the past, I decided to try something else with him because I really do like him and can see we could have a future together. I felt everytime I would try to bring up the issue that hurt my feelings we would just start arguing over petting things. I decided to write him a letter telling him exactly how I felt and to see what we were doing because if we were going to continue to fight we just needed to move on. Too my surprise he actually listened to what I was saying and we were able to have a heart to heart. After the talk I have noticed little things he have already tried to change and we are now back happier than ever and have agreed that we need to start talking everything out. What can I say I love my Aries man and hope he will one day be my husband. I believe that as long as there is a understanding between the two things will balance out.

  11. Interesting…
    Well I was curious about all of this, I’m a Libra woman and currently talking to an Aries man. Still getting to know each other and taking things slow but still a bit concerned or worried. Due to my past experiences haven’t really been able to trust, realized that being with someone of the same sign can be both great and miserable. When we were both happy everything went smooth but once we were both in a bad mood it was all downhill and seemed to have no ending. Really hoping to have a great start and great outcome with this Aries man, but only time will tell. This whole astrology info really does help!

  12. Amy :

    hello . im a libran woman ,
    been in a relathionship with a piscis man for nearly 10 years , everything is going sort of ok, but our love life is going bad and im frustated …. recently i meet an aries man which i have only seen a few times havent spoke much with him , but before i knew what star sign he was i already fell charm by him…
    i dont know what to do ..
    what do u think about the compatibility between libra and piscis and libra and aries .
    also what do aries men look in a libra woman .
    thanks x

    Would you like to make efforts to revive your relationship of 10 years?


    Would you abandon it when its still ‘sort of ok’ for someone you met recently?

    Direct questions but they may bring out what you really want. Would be interesting to know. Please do share with us.

  13. hello . im a libran woman ,
    been in a relathionship with a piscis man for nearly 10 years , everything is going sort of ok, but our love life is going bad and im frustated …. recently i meet an aries man which i have only seen a few times havent spoke much with him , but before i knew what star sign he was i already fell charm by him…
    i dont know what to do ..
    what do u think about the compatibility between libra and piscis and libra and aries .
    also what do aries men look in a libra woman .
    thanks x

  14. I’m a libra female and recently had a falling out with an Aries male whom I like very much. He’s four years younger than me and one thing about me is that I tend to hold in a lot of frustration and it builds up. We’d been talking not dating for a little over a month this is the phase where you’re learning about one another. We’ve met each other friends and all of that. But I’ve been highly stressed because this is my senior year in college, one week I was PMSing something serious. So a conversation began by me asking “what are we doing?” instead of the answer I was looking for I.e. “you’re going to be mine soon” I got what I have ALWAYS heard “I don’t know what I want to do” mind you I was PMSing so I went off on him and started crying. After that weekend things weren’t the same. That Sunday we talked he told me that he needed at least 2 or 3 days. I gave him that time only for him to tell me “I’m sorry things can’t go back to the way they were” only to figure out he chose someone else over me. I really want to be with him, but we don’t talk or anything although there are three ways we can contact one another he told me that I was the only thing he regretted happening to his life. Now I’m trying hard to move on but I think about him A LOT! what’s a girl to do????

  15. i would have to say that im amazed at how accurate this site is..especially when they talk about the relationship bein over…and it got to a point where we called it quits(on valentines day, keep in mind), and two days later, we decided to “just be friends” but physically and emotionally nothing has really changed. we still act the same towards eachother, but a lot less fighting. and surprisingly…me being the libra woman, i was the fight starter! but now, im moving to vegas, because when he decided to break up with me, it broke my heart so bad, i just wanted to run as far away as i could. since i did make that decision, i have sorta regretted it because the aries man truely is the man of my dreams, and i wish there wasnt a day that went by without him in my life! and i truely wish i couldve spent the rest of my life with him..hes the only one who has captured my heart and my soul. not something was ex husband was ever able to do! lol!

  16. JackinBoxMarch 5, 2011 at 8:19 pm

    All sadi and done Aries man esentially does good. Libra gal does not intentinly to flirt….so confusion. Kindness is unpleasing …sigh. Libra is good at balancing out what’s needed. We are the scales good at it always!

  17. Have the chance to meet an aries man. Please let this be less drama then the leo man who dumped me :s

  18. Hi Autumn, I will have to say go with the astrology and avoid a relationship with a Cancer man at all costs! I am an older Libra woman who had a 7 YEAR “nightmare”, “on again-off again” relationship with a Cancer man that ended horribly. Our “destructive relationship” was once described by his father as a “hurricane” before we finally went our separate ways. Everyone else could see that, but we couldn’t. Now I am in a relationship with an Aries man and this astrology reading is hitting the nail slam on the head, and I DID pre-read about Libra woman and Aries man ( and the possible negative outcome between them), and still dove in head first way fast, and am now scared I am going to live to regret doing it! A lot of Aries men are very stubborn and never doubt they are wrong about anything (esp when in a argument) and can’t say “their sorry” when they need to. The “role-playing” thing is ridiculously true and exhausting! Me, being older now, (& hopefully a little wiser), I am going to have to go with the astrology pre-read 1st! :o) Good luck in love to ya! 🙂

  19. Take the chance. As far as relationships, there are many other aspects that come into play like ascending signs, moon signs, etc. You can’t deny a good feeling 🙂

  20. It definitely is scary when reading astrology and hit the nail right on the head. I recently dated an Aries man. At first sight for us both, it was a go. It was like playing a roll, for sure. He would shower me with roses, places to venture, and seemingly a lot of love. As time went by, he would continue to try, but if there was an argument or misunderstanding, the stubbornness in both of us would come out. Us Libra ladies want to forgive and forget, the Aries man, tends to hold a grudge and if he says he has forgiven, well you may become fooled. High tempered the Aries man, the Libra woman, stands her ground. He wants to be controlling, she likes to be cared for, but you cannot control her. The love life was great,,even up until the night before the next morning I would leave him in TX all the way back to GA. He was mean, and the love became very clear to be fake. Real perhaps at times, but fake. The thing is, I read his horoscope and mine as a match before we dated, It was identical and I wished I would have listened to my heart. Now I have an interest in a Cancer man, and too these two signs together claim a disaster. Do I go with the astrology or do I take the chance? My heart tells me both. I don’t really understand the Cancer and Libra not making it good, I mean really good it would seem, as the Cancer man is a lover like the Libra…. Confused. Take the chance or pass it up?

  21. Another Libra and Aries Couple (My Fave), Kelly Rippa and Mark Consuelos

  22. To Anthony: I am a Libra woman and I used to think there was something wrong with me. Then, I figured out that I am who I am. There is a certain type of man we need: one that recognizes that our own betterment is not a reflection on which they are. Meaning, if I want to go back to school, it’s not because I don’t want to spend time with you. Also, when we are going through tough “processes” we look at EVERY POSSIBLE outcome and it can become quite consuming. I fall into am almost depression-like state if I am stressed or an unable to solve a problem. Our feelings are also hurt very easily by the strangest little thing. We can drink beer, cuss, and watch football, but you tell us our hair looks “different today” and we will be heartbroken. I just recently met an Aries man and fell HARD. Now, I am basically avoiding him because he’s not giving me what I need and I feel like he will just end up hurting me. Your Libra feels an obligation to this other man (“he has all of these good qualities, so there must be something wrong with ME”). Her man will have to end it, she won’t and she won’t end it for you – that makes us feel bad. Sending her the little love notes, although seemingly not effective, will eventually payoff. We are strong willed creatures, but do cave eventually because we really just want to feel loved – and we want to be VERY certain we are loved. Once she feels “certain” she will come around.

  23. Question for all of you Libra women – I am an Aries Man who has fallen for a Libra, but, surprise surprise, I messed up and now need some keen advice. My Libra woman was in the process of getting a divorce and I was her first choice of who to be with. Now this was before I knew anything about Libra’s (I had never dated one before) and all I could think about was being in the “rebound” position … usually certain death. So, I played it as cool as possible and ended up not giving my Libra woman what she really needed … and to top it off her ex cheated on her. So after a six months of courtship (we became very very good friends talked a least an hour each day) and six months of dating she started pulling away and she went silent. Five weeks later she contacted me via text, then another month and so on until we saw each other “as friends” but did not really do anything … I told her I thought she was seeing someone else, she admitted that she was and then I asked so why are you talking to me … she said “I don’t know” She did say she was conflicted. I told her I think you love me and I now know that I love you. She didn’t deny this, but she did say I cannot give you what you want right now. She told me that she’s had more fun since high school with this guy but there are a lot of things she does not like about him. Even though she said she can’t give me what I want right now, I know she was very much considering moving back to my town and in with me to eventually get married. I KNOW deep down inside my soul this Libra woman loves me … they went on a weekend trip together and now she’s cut off communication again so I guess he’s cleaned up his act. I started sending her a note every day (email) letting her know one thought of why I love her … after four days I haven’t received a response … though I did receive a text from her while she was on her trip. I frankly at at a loss of what to do. I told her I was committed and was not going to walk away this time…but I don’t want to risk pushing her away or if I should continue to send her daily emails, poems, etc. If she needs time, I’m willing to give it to her because my ultimate intention is that we are eventually together.

  24. OMG so i just read the one on Libra woman n Aries man as well as Libra woman and Capricorn man and i must say that is EXACTLY what my relationship was like with both those guys…. it was like reading a biography on the relationship characteristics i had with those men…. too crazy…. FYI i’m currently trying to get into a relationship with an Aquarius and that one sounds a bit more promising and thus far sounds exactly the way things have been going – to be blunt it’s kinda creepy how accurate this is.

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