Aries Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility


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This relationship works like Good King Wenceslas and his page, Colonel Blake and Radar O’Reilly Frank Costello and Frenchy or a shepherd and his sheep dog.  The strong Aries male needs a good and trusted right hand and someone to cover his a— while he’s out on campaign — especially someone who isn’t secretly plotting behind his back to overthrow the regime.   These things Virgo is more than willing to do in exchange for protection and shelter.  Good service (a very high calling) is what she’s into.  She is even wiling to extend certain privileges in return.  She’s knows how good she is at what she does.  It’s an art.  She quickly becomes indispensible in his world.  She is no weak sister and certainly no doormat (leave that to Pisces and Libra).  Rather, she is fully aware of her personal worth and commands his respect and appreciation on a daily basis because of her integrity.  She is capable of unparalleled calling and devotion to duty.  Many a politician and his wife have this arrangement.  Of the two, she can live without him not vice versa.

How to Attract an Aries Man as a Virgo Woman:  You are the pickiest and most desirable in the zodiac.  He loves a challenge.  It’s off to a great start.  Keep your advantage (you always do).  He needs you far more than you need him.  You’re a great flirt.  Try flirting with his best friend.  He’ll notice you!  The other thing you have to do if you want the relationship to progress is to get behind his dream, goal or ambition.  He is an Emperor looking for someone to rule by his side, someone he can trust explicitly to be 100% faithful, a social asset (cleaning up after him) and someone who actually wants to pay  second fiddle.


How to Attract a VIrgo Woman as an Aries Man:  First of all, you’ve got to get over your bad self because she gets more attention than you can possibly imagine.  You thought you were the only one?  You thought she was shy and demure and that she’d be flattered by your attention?  Better think again.  Somehow her demure ways and a certain Je ne sais quoi” aloofness about her draws men to her like a moth to a flame.  She’s probably got a past you’ll never hear about.  But she’s uber-picky.   THAT’S why she’s available.  Get it?

So you’re going to have to go all out to impress her without being excessive.  She hates excess.   Be sincere or don’t bother.  This lady can spot a player a mile away.  Trust me, despite appearances, she’s had plenty of experience with men.

Degree of Romance:   This relationship is so romantic.  She gets petulant.   He wins her back.  She puts on a pretty pout.  He makes her laugh out loud.  She fusses and frets.  He says, “Why don’t you let me take care of that?”  A Virgo woman very prettily brings out the best in an Aries man who is a righteous protector and avenger.  He’s her attack dog and that’s precisely why she wants him.  She never intends to dirty her pretty little hands again and she does intend to live out her ambitions through him.

Degree of Passion:   Virgo really brings out the passion in Aries.  “The Virgin” never completely gives herself to any man and that keeps him on the razor ‘s edge of desire.  Her discriminating nature always makes him feel like he’s privileged to even touch the hem of her Lucy or Bella’s

Degree of Friendship:  They can be marvelous friends and traveling companions.  If Virgo serves Aries, they are perfect for one another.  He sets the big goals and does the outer courageous stuff. She handles the details, takes care of things behind the scenes and watches his back, like no other.

Degree of Marriage:  If Virgo wants to serve Aries, this makes a fantastic combination for marriage.  In exchange for his protection she gives him a beautifully organized life, taking care of all the details so he can focus on momentum and the Big Picture.

Progression of Relationship:  He will make his intentions clear from the outset.  He is a  man of action so the plot will move forward without delay.  No one can impress like an Aries-on-the-move and no one is so impervious to hustling as a Virgo.  She’s looking inside his heart to make sure it is “all or nothing at all” pure.

Sex:  This is one combination where the sexual interest is likely to be lifelong.  It has to do with the chemistry.  Aries wants it all. Virgo always reserves something for her moonlight self alone.  It creates a never ending desire and a sweet yearning on Aries’ part while Virgo plays indifferent, knowing she is enflaming his passion.  When these two have sex he will occasionally be permitted to have certain “favors” or “treats”.   This is according to an intricate erotic map she has of his psyche whereby the slave controls the master.  It is intended to keep him begging for more.  Anne Boleyn’s Big Tease of Henry VIII as portrayed on “The Tudors” is a fairly good example of the dynamif only Virgo does it by nature.


When It’s Over:   It’s not likely to end as long as Aries does a good job at protecting and providing.  Being a perfectionist above reproach herself, Virgo doesn’t suffer weakness or dereliction of duty well in a man.  If he proves incapable of the task, she will terminate the contract one fine morning and give him a list of Things He Must Do to Wind Down Perfectly, I mean Properly.  The little princess brings out the strong man’s last best energy before moving on.  He may try to stay a hero in her eyes forever, selling the home,  hassling creditors, getting her her own credit card, figuring out why their kids are acting out, waching them while she vacations with her new admirer.  And so it goes.

Our Rating: 7/10

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  • L says:

    I’m involved with an Aries guy but my situation may be a bit different..
    I’m probably what he calls a friend with benefit tho he did ask for more before.. I turned it down but We still see each other ..
    This has been going on for about 3.5 years.. He had a few on and off gf’s since then but I remain in his life.. Same question all the time from him tho..”can you stay a little longer..?”

    I have a cancerian Bf but thinking of being with my Arian boy seriously.. Love his subtle but attentive gestures..yes.. He’s subtle despite the fact that ppl say Aries loves showing off :)
    Hes very conservative, private, and pays a lot of attention on what I like and dislike in terms of personal hygiene.. :p

    He was moving house once but refused my help tho I offered.. He asked me to come over only after he’s finished cleaning and organizing it..maybe he didn’t want the hassle of me being there while he’s tidying up but he did ask if I like what he’s done with the place …;p and was so proud when I said that I really appreciate his effort

    He also asked me when I’m planning to settle down and he said the length of tons that I estimated id be ready to settle down matched his, or it’s more like I won’t settle down till you do first ..

    He did propose to his teenage love last year put of the blue but he was rejected….even then I was the one who offered to back down if he’s engaged

    I might ask him for an honest opinion If there could be more between us.. Not now.. Maybe in a few years time..
    I believe our rendezvous would not stop till one of us decided to pull the plug

    Am I just imagining things or does he actually want more as well..?
    Wish me luck !!! :-)

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  • Rimonna says:

    Virgo woman can go over the top sometimes. i should know im a virgo female and 35 and my bf is aries man 42 yrs. a virgoan can not only make a point but depending on her overall level of frustration she can get nasty too. the nastiness is an indicator of the temperature of the relationship because as a rule she can be very objective and constructive in her complaints. gratuitous negative behaviour when complaining is seen as a waste of time and energ,unnecessary, hurtful and of no use in the scheme of things. she would want a similar approach to be taken for her too. sometimes a negative aspect to a complaint can be deliberate in order to provide a loophole for the person not to fix what is being complained about. I dont know if hes able to see things the way i do and understands my frustration and the struggles i go through trying to understand him. i dont know how long i can really hold on without losing interest because sometimes i feel that i am not the right person for him. a more assertive person who can get hime to be more voluble and communicative is probable the way to go. i amnot that person. so its like treading water and now my legs are so tired. does anyone else have this kind of experienc wiht and aries man? what doe you think? please advise.

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  • Emily says:

    @Ramonna, I know exactly what you mean. I’m a Virgo who dated a 43 year old Arian man. His previous spouse was an Aries female and they were married for 9 years. I noticed throughout the courtship that he seemed to be really attracted to strong, aggressive, assertive female type. Even to the point, where they were almost masculine like. Tatoos and all. I was far from that type. I’m more of a housewife type, cute and sexy. Even in bed, he wanted aggressive sexual behavior every time and it was exhausting. Don’t get me wrong the sex was amazing but he was very demanding and hard to please in bed. I always felt insecure that maybe his ex wife, also an Aries, must have pleased him better than me. He eventually got bored and left. We only dated for 7 months. I gave him everything he wanted, affectionate, supported his goals/dreams, cooked for him, listened/compliemented him, we laughed a lot together. He was very warm and affectionate but I think that was more his Cancer Rising and not his Aries Sun. We broke up last month and I’m still hurting a lot. When Aries say they’re done with you, they really are. They never second guess themselves. Before he says it over, he has already thought it over briefly before he made his decision. A lot depends on the Rising Sign which can soften a strong Aries sign or make it worse. I just don’t see how Virgo/Aries can work unless the Aries can love Virgo as she is and not try to change her. I still miss my Aries guy so much : (

  • laura says:

    well? dont think it works aries with virgo,im a gemini and this virgo tried to snatch my aries guy from me,really she would get wasted with him,tried to flirt and text him, cuzz its something she had to do to loosen her uptight ass,thats the only reason he hung out with her,also cuzz i dont drink…..anyways didnt work!!!so sad he said she was needy and worst of all she was nitpicky and always complaining,and very judgemental of everyone……he said she needed to stay drunk in order for him not to deal with her horrible atributes.but he works with this virgo female and 5 other ones all females he says they all behave the same.

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