Aries Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility


Famous Aries-Aquarius Couples: Shannon Doherty and Rick Saloman, Liz Sheridan and James Dean

If you are a strong individual and looking for a mirror, this is your best bet in the zodiac. Courage, will, intention, and commitment are personified in this combination of energies. It works especially well if you are both community activists or targeted on some futuristic goal that will make the world a better place. The key words here are future and goal.

How to Attract an Aquarius Man as an Aries woman: If your target is that interesting Aquarius over there, you’d best be interesting yourself. And if you possibly can, dare to be different. Your Aquarius male will respect your individuality. He is likely to be gender neutral in his appreciation of your capabilities and willing to give you complete respect if you earn it. Plus, you will get extra points for being forthright and daring in your opinions.

How to Attract an Aries Woman as an Aquarius Man:  You have to challenge her in some way.  Show yourself to be uniquely desirable.  She loves to win the big prize.  Your detatchment will be thrilling to her at first and the fact that you don’t fawn all over her will be refreshing and stimulating.  However, she is not patient or subtle, so if you are interested, be sure to spell it out for her.  An afternoon at the ballgame is not everyone’s idea of romance, so she may be confused about your intentions.  She’ll love your intellectual qualities and large network of acquaintances since she has trouble getting along with anyone.  Do your best to treat her like a girl and not just one of the guys.  She needs to know she’s special to you.


Degree of Romance: This relationship does not exactly rock the boat romantically. The emphasis is likely to be on common causes or a shared world view. Aquarius, though loyal, tends to be cerebral. And Aquarius by its very nature prefers the equality of friendship over a relationship which elevates one woman above all others. She may indeed have his whole heart and undiluted loyalty, but he will be reluctant to admit that even to himself because of his egalitarian beliefs.

Degree of Passion: There is a possibility of great passion and devotion in this relationship; however, it will be to a common cause not to each other. If she wants to win his heart and keep it, she should get interested in the things that put stars in his eyes.   He’ll have to yield some of his goals to create shared activities, but its doubtful that he will.  You pretty much have to take an Aquarius as you find them.

Degree of Friendship: This relationship has a strong possibility of friendship. Aquarians pride themselves on their loyalty though not necessarily their constant physical presence. If she can give him the space he needs, she’ll probably be hearing him introduce her as his best friend. By that he means she has won the key to his heart.  She is a steadfast friend who always brings out the best in the other person.  An Aries comes into your life when you need confidence and courage.  He’ll appreciate the strength she gives him.

Degree of Marriage: This is an unlikely combination for a marriage. It could turn into a lifelong live in situation as neither sign particularly likes to be put on a leash.

Progression of Relationship: Aquarian men are noted for being busy or elsewhere. Even when he is with you physically his mind may be otherwise engaged.  So if you’re a lady ram who really wants someone to hold your hand in the moonlight, better count this guy out. The relationship will progress in fits and starts. Aquarians all seem to have an on/off switch, and as I have said before, he will have a plate full of activities and responsibilities that he takes just as seriously (but not more seriously) than her. Life with an Aquarian can be a three ring circus, and that’s a plus for an active, secure Aries gal.


Sex: Sex can be quite kinky with Aquarius which is just fine with an Aries who is a “ good sport.” When Aquarius hauls out the gear and low voltage electrical devices Aries’ passion goes over the top.

When It’s Over: She may be the last one to know when it’s over. He will just leave longer and longer intervals between contact. There is not an Aquarian in the world who wants to have it out or who feels the least bit down once his affections have turned elsewhere. His general outlook on life and love seems to be “take me or leave me, and if I leave you, oh well.”  Don’t underestimate her ego, jealousy, and impatience.  When she accuses you of flirting with the waitress in front of her and you tell her she’d be better off with someone else, be sure you mean it because this is one woman who will tire of your detatchment quickly.

Our Rating: 3 /10

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26 Responses to Aries Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility

  • Nadie says:

    Patricia Arquette and Thomas Jane

  • arian aqua soul says:

    aqua men are beautiful ppl , very charasmatic, charming and just simply magnetic !! i love my aqua ex and will always do as he was a gentleman ! bless him !!

  • tyler says:

    if ya want to chop it up with an aquaman you know what to do!

  • Nicole says:

    My boyfriend is aqua and he is very detatched and emotionless… which confuses me since I show a lot of emotions.. which he enjoys. But he is hard to read but when love does shine through him its amazing.. He is on and off with emotions. Anyone out there with advice?? Lol

  • Jane says:

    Once engaged to an Aquarius. They are great friends. Keep them on the friendship level. As an Aries female, once in the commited stage, they just shut off. It’s like they work up until they know they have you. Once the ring was on, he became detached. I could never get an emotion out of him. It was like he did all the work he was suppose to do to get the relationship and then he stop because the work was completed. Aquarius men want family and commitment because they beleive that it is the right thing to do and the thing you should obtain in life because that is the way society should be. In my dealings with Aquarius men, its like looking at nature itself. You mate, procreate, and move on because instincts tell you this is the order of things. When I became a little emotional and wanted to talk about it, he would make sure he was unavailable. They dont do well with emotions and you will never know if you truly have their heart by their actions. It was hard to stay with an Aquarius since I desired passion. He was there physically and financially but not spiritually and emotionally. Mentally, an Aries can see his dreams but he cant see yours unless it alines with his. Passion is the key for an Aries. If you want commitment then Aquarius is it, but if you want passionate, say the words to me love then seek elsewhere. I was with an Aqua man but still felt alone. In the end, I let it go because I wanted more than just boredom. I wanted a spark of life in a relationship.

  • Roxy says:

    I’m an Aries woman and Iv’e been with an aqua man for almost 4 yrs, i would have to say it’s like an emotional roller coster. he and I both are very independant people, I detach from him more then he detaches frm me mainly b/c i work full time and I’m a full time college student I’m a very socail person so in my spare time i’m a very social person going out when i can, I’m sure he loves it but when he calls and wants to make plans to see me he usually see’s to it and they hardly ever change. he can be on the jealous side if im hanging out with another guy most my friends are guys but it doesnt mean that i’m doing anything with any of them he just doesnt seem to understand that for some reason. As for myself I found I would share my emotions with my friends rather then him and have intelligent convo’s w/ him and i have learned alot from him and i always let him win b/c i dont like to argue nor do i like fighting so when were having problems we talk them out and we make sure we tell the other if our voice is raised and apoligies are made and back to conversation. The only dual moments we have are we cant always agree on what is fun for the both of us to do, I have asked many times what do you want to do and he will reply what do you want to do and I would say go out to dinner, see a movie, go to a museum, the zoo, hang out with our mutual friends, go for a walk, go to the beach ect. and he just replys no that’s boring or no i dont want to do that anyone can do that and we end up staying home and listening to music while i cook dinner every time. Does anyone have any ideas for dates with an Aquarius Man I’m afraid were going to fall apart if we cant find something to do together that will stimulate his mind as well as my own.

  • Jose :) says:

    Hey Roxy, Well I could help you a little I myself am an Aquarius and I would say that those things you listed are fun at times especially if they are new things that We havent tried but if you really want to stimulate his mind. Do something like Hike in the night see the stars talk about what’s been on your mind tell him to give you an entire day away from both your social life and tell him to give you his phone and before you leave or go out turn them off. Just do something out of the ordinary. Another would be to try to teach him somethings like for example Chinese Dynasty’s or the Mayen calender go bike riding with him surprise him with quotes they are always intresting or make a book with photos of you guys :) Hope this helped.

  • Aqua guy says:

    Well this was a interesting read but I dont agree with
    alot of it. I know of three couples that have been married
    for eons and they are a aqua-aries combo. All still happy
    and very much in love with eachother.

    As an aqua guy I do have an on off switch but it dont stay off for long. Typically I may turn off more to
    just think things true than like dump my aries GF.

    I think if both the aries and aqua understand each
    others needs and want’s this combo can really work
    in a big way. The trick is balance and respect for
    each other.

    As a couple our emotions run very very deep with each other. When were together we are just electric. We have
    a wonderfull spiritual bond between us. People around
    us say we light up a room when we walk in lol.

    So best advice I can give, is if it feels right just follow
    your heart and dont read into the zodiac too much.

    AQ

  • mary says:

    This article is interesting because my parents are aries woman and aquarius man and they have been happily married for 20 years. Of course, they have their ups and down, but i would not rate this relationship as 3/10. Thats too low. I would say at least 6/10 or maybe even 7.

  • pallavi says:

    i had love aquaries man but v had a break up due to misunderstanding’s and now we are back friends but he say’s that he love someone eles , can i know whether we can get back to our relationship or not , as he still care for me as he was 1st but how to know whrther he loves me or not

  • Sabrina says:

    I am an Aries female and I have been with an Aquarius man for almost 6 months “officially” and unofficially for over a year. We met through his brother, whom I was casually dating a few years ago, and had immediate attraction to each other. Last January, I emailed him and we started hanging out. First, we agreed we’d have a NSA relationship… A few months into that, I was put off by him texting me, asking how my day was, how was work etc etc.. Felt to me like he was over stepping the NSA agreement. But, I really cared for him and with his pushing, I started to open up some. But then he again made it clear, we’d never be together(he felt guilty because I was with his brother, long story) so, I started seeing someone else too. I wasn’t going to emotionally invest in someone I couldn’t have you know? Then he became jealous and we had a bit of a blow out. But that blow out brought us together more so than ever. He was ready to cast aside that I was his brother’s ex and be with me. I am so much in love with him. I don’t ever see him as being detached or emotionless at all. He’s very loving, attentive and always wanting to know my thoughts and feelings and becomes very frustrated and hurt if I don’t tell him. He always wants me to come to him to confide in when I’m depressed or angry. He and my daughter get along amazingly. We have so much in common and compliment each other very well. He and I both feel the same about marriage, not for us, but I can still see a future with him. He doesn’t want kids and I don’t want anymore, so that works. This has got to be the best relationship I have ever been in! Worst compatibility is Cancer. I will never be with one again.

  • Sabrina says:

    Oh, and I thought the comment about how sex life will be kinky with an Aquarius man haha. SO so very true and we have the best sex life! Very loving and emotionally full filling.

  • Una says:

    I’ve recently broken up with one Aqua.. It was a long-distance relationship which lasted for a long time. Even though I’ve gone through many reasonable conclusions why it’d be better without him, I still miss those rare days I spent with him.
    It’s funny though…we managed to stay friends, good ones =)

  • zekiolajuan says:

    aquarius and aries are magic..stimulating and she knows what she wants and needs.she is heck of responsible and super down to earth and very emotional as a lady should be. i appreciate her whom ever is an aries lady.

  • Zita Lopes says:

    i agree with Jane No5 comment..same experience here..cheers

  • KidGenius says:

    …out of all the relationships I’ve ever had (im an aqua male so there has been many), Aries women are the only women I have instantaneously and without a doubt, DEEPLY fallen in love with at first sight and then compounds over time. It really sucks, 99.9% of the time, they are engaged to an acquaintance and I just don’t want to be that guy that swoops in a takes what I want, even though I know I can.

    As a matter of fact, the only serious relationship I’ve ever had that I actually said I love you and really meant it was with an Aries. Unfortunately it didnt work out because she wanted something so permanent, when we were both so young (18 y/o) that i eventually left cause I needed to figure out how to take care of myself…

    But there’s something about them that I’m magnetically attracted to…maybe cause my rising sign is a Leo and they just strike the right cords with me or maybe its other things like their emanating sense of responsibility and confidence that I find so frigging sexy. Really the only gripe i ever had with my ex was that she wouldnt immediately speak her mind when she had a gripe about the relationship or mostly a gripe something I did to piss her off lolol I’d have to coax it out of her through pointing out the obvious

    with that said 3/10 unless 1 being the highest is way off…3/10 should be reserved for the aqua/cancer…pisces, scorpio types…ETC…sorry just way too much emotional work for those signs with very little payoff IMO

    Aries and a few other signs like Gemini and Libra seem to get me right from the start, which makes it easier for an aqua type like me to get involved…but ultimately of all the women I’ve ever fell for, it has always been and probably always will be an Aries

  • KidGenius says:

    I just remembered one more thing, now I’m not sure if this is an Aries thing, but if we were both at a party having a good time but noticed there was a girl that was getting a little too flirtatious with me that she didnt like, she would wait until I left the room or moved onto a new group of people (which i do frequently lol) and walked up to the girl and let her know who’s boss, essentially marking her territory lol…I’m not sure what she said or how she said it, but I’d hear from a random peep a few days later that “my girl” pretty much laid down the law, then went back to partying LOL…I’d dont know about yall but that is about the sexiest thing a girl can do in my world…like a alpha female…calm, collected yet will thoroughly kick your ass if pissed on

    i’ve had other girls try to mark their territory but it just gets messy, with yelling and hair pulling and I dont like my great mood and buzz to be spent breaking up fights when its supposed to be a happy time

    anyways, another point for Aries + 1 billion

  • AriesLadee says:

    I was with my Aqua Ex for a year. It was magical, but it was also hellish because he wasn’t ready let go of his emotional dependence on his ex wife who was also an Aqua. We ended but, he wants to come back. I told him to stay and work it out with his ex (they have a kid together), but he says he doesn’t want her back. Is there an Aqua male whom can shed light on this?

  • Addie says:

    One of my guyfriends in an Aquarius and there is the unexplainable comfort level i have with him… I don’t know if he has it with me but before i got into a year long relationship with a leo that aqua man was in fact my bestfriend – like the first person that came to mind when i wanted to chill with friends. I’d talk to him everyday and he was the guy i called when i was in need of assistance. I’m hanging out with him and all of my other friends again since i am newly single and even though i haven’t had any romantic thoughts about him ( like those leading to sex lol ) i have this draw to him, I mean I just love him as a person. But i’ve been so used to sleeping next to a warm man for so long that i am having a hard time getting to sleep and about a week ago i had a party at my house and the Aqua man stayed over and I just casually asked him if he would mind me sleeping next to him and cuddling or whatever since it was a particularly hard night for me and i couldn’t go see my leo without opening up that can of worms.. again. So we’re laying there cuddling and it was really nice – not the same body that i’m used to having spoon me but exciting.. Not entirely new to me though. When we were like bestfriends more than a year ago he stayed over with me one night and we cuddled then, and again when we went to a music festival. I found out through our mutual friends that he indeed did have a crush on me at that time, which made sense when it was pointed out but i had been totally oblivious to it – even when he kissed the back of my neck that one night he stayed over it still just didn’t click (I’m the last one to realize that i’m getting checked out or hit on or anything like that lol). But cuddling with him is just a nice comfortable feeling and i really want to ask him to stay over again just to experience that comfort! Except it is all screwy because he kind of dated my sister for a week a year and a half ago but she dumped him for her current boyfriend and i know the Aqua man still has feelings for her which is why i think i don’t have the romantic or sexual feelings for him. So is it unrealistic to have an amazing friendship where cuddling is great and comfort is plentiful without the Aqua man wanting to bring it to a whole new level? Oh and if you read my post in the Aries woman Sagittarius man thing then you’ll find this hilarious – the Aqua man and the Sag man are like best friends! Sooooo what should i do?

  • Steph says:

    This is all wrong Aries (fire) and aqua (air) are 9 out of 10 be fuels her fire! I have been married to my aqua man for 2 years and he adores me! Not the most romantic but I don’t think he knows how to be. He is always thinking about projects and things but I am always his number 1! He is a introvert kinda shy guy but around me he is extroverted funny and goofy. Aries and aqua are avoid match especially as friends! It all depends on attraction and admiration!

  • Steph says:

    They are an excellent match sorry I can’t type! Aquarius and Aries one of the best matches! And sex forget about it even better

  • aries scar says:

    i have an aqua friend and we went to elementary school together, he was my boyfriend lol and once graduated from there we fell off. we just started talking again a few weeks ago and i swear it feels like i’ve known him forever, i feel like he’s my bestfriend, like i can trust in him. which is kind of awkward for me b/c i’ve never felt like this before about a guy especially so fast. he has this certain light around him and it draws me more and more to him. we talk everyday and all night and its never a dull moment, he’s very sweet and i love being around him. i feel this will be a prosperous relationship, whether friend, or boyfriend

  • Sati_so says:

    Thats true. Theres a great deal of devotion and care from the aries woman. But the aries woman is not a person who is aggressive attacking another. You can count on it its a retaliation. And she can go for it once shes made up her mind theres nothing to lose: all is lost anyway. Dont harass her to that point. The aries woman is simplae and transparent way of interations makes it very obvious when she likes or objects to something. Pay attention. Try to make up for transgressions. She will forget and forgive and does not, like most other signs, remind you every chance she gets for the next twenty years. Its like a lion or tiger that has caught its prey and is mauling it and dragging it around, playing and then dragging it a little more. Then tearing it some more. You dont really have to ask the prey – do you like this or not? Only an aquarius moron keeps going at it and then tires of it. Thats when the elephant stands up. And then things begin to happen, enough to make the tiger remember its mamma. When you dont like someone stay away from them or get rid of them. Nicely. If you are keeping them then treat them properly. They did not harm you in any way just did the best they could. Dont misuse or abuse people because you can. Aquas men and women tend to get drunk on power very easily and forget that. They need to deal with limitations and inadequacies just as everyone else. Situations have limitations. Deal with it. Others are. no matter how strong their feelings might have been. The ends are not always the only thing, means are just as important. Thats how its been so far for this ariees woman And she has been happier for it.
    Life is not a bed of roses for everyone though it may seem to be so. People are dealing with the harsh realities of their life: “a good and safe childhood with stable upbringing” and learnign to be happy. And the most important thing to remember is that the biggest instrument of effect was not ever deployed. It could have been and if it had been, things would have been ‘different’ , far more respectful. There’s trauma all around needless to say. Having said that the aries woman learns here lessons very quickly-once is enough. The traum and suffering she went through was lesson learnt. she does not need another lesson to be taught to her and therein lies the sad part. aquas for all theirprotestations are quite judgemental indeed in fact judge, prosecutor and jury all rolled in one. lol. buyer beware.

  • AriesK says:

    Nope. The higher bar is best-friend.
    Never work. My sis is aqua, my best-on and off-friend are aqua.
    I did try once or twice to build a romantic interest towards aqua. Zero. Too weird for me. Didn’t like it. Didn’t hate it also.

  • The thing with me and my Aquarius guy is that it’s quite transcendental really – very spiritual. It’s like we belong together, so we stay together, but the passion is lacking a bit at times. It’s quite weird, but almost addictive. If you’re into astrological compatibility though, you’ll love this fabulous site I found – it matches you with your best zodiac dating partner and tells you on each profile whether you’ll be a good match or not.

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