Aries Woman and Capricorn Man Compatibility

Famous Aries-Capricorn Couples:

Kate Hudson and Chris Robinson, Patricia Arquette and Nicolas Cage, Celene Dion and Rene Angelil, Jennifer Esposito and Bradley Cooper

This relationship is a challenge. It might work better in the boardroom than the bedroom.  This is a great business contact, but it is hard to see as a romantic pairing. The initial attraction is mutual respect so the best chance of sustaining it would be to focus on respectable goals such as raising healthy children or preparing for retirement. This is a no-nonsense pair.

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How to Attract a Capricorn Man as an Aries Woman:

Be ready to demonstrate your responsibility and capability on an ongoing basis. Your Capricorn target is interested in being a pillar of the community. He will be extremely conscious of how he appears in public, and you should conduct yourself accordingly. Dress conservatively. Keep displays of affection private. Be prepared to further his goals by your social conduct.

How to Attract an Aries Woman as a Capricorn Man:

Basically, you should give her enough rope to hang herself. Act like you enjoy being bossed around.  Let her make all the decisions that she wants to. You’ll have to be patient with her impulsive behavior and reckless driving, too.  Reserve a firm patient hand to correct with later.  Secretly she adores having a father, but she won’t admit it.  Give her the extra thrill of letting her pay for your date.  She likes to think she wears the pants.

Degree of Romance:

There is little romance in this combination, but durability can make up for that when you’re interested in building a serious future with someone. Capricorn men are generally shy about expressing their feelings. This stems from a secret fear of rejection, and an unwarranted lack of self esteem. If he does say anything romantic, Aries, put it on steroids.  Besides,  you’re used to carrying on a relationship, so being romantic enough for the both of you shouldn’t be an issue.

Degree of Passion:

Capricorn men tend to demonstrate their passion by proffering material benefits.   He will want to impress, and he will want her to impress his friends.  This can be mutually rewarding if not fiery passionate.

Degree of Friendship:

Capricorns, I’m afraid, do tend to use people rather than develop collegial relationships.  Aries are a little too simple to pull that off, but if the lady ram can accept the underlying honesty of his intentions and approach to life, then there will be a valid basis for a long term relationship. If she fails to meet his standards she will give her plenty of chances to make up for it, but she will be expected to perform.

Degree of Marriage:

This is a good combination for marriage, particularly if one or the other is a social climber. The emphasis is on material well-being, conservative goals such as three kids and two cars, and becoming impressive pillars of the community. This combination lends itself very well to a traditional marriage.

Progression of Relationship:

Capricorn men are sure-footed, and he is likely to court like the tortoise rather than the hare. He is a man of few words, but she can bank on whatever he says.  If a Capricorn man accepts you into his heart, there is really absolutely nothing you can do that will turn him against you, so Aries should feel free to make some moves. If he doesn’t like it, he’ll gently correct her and keep on plodding, but be warned: fighting for control will likely be an ongoing issue with these two cardinal signs.


Sex can take on a more predictable aspect with this placement than with any other for the Aries girl. Since she’s always looking for a new frontier, she may decide to explore new things.  Try playing “Who’s your daddy now?” and other naughty girl games. For those Aries females who like to be a lady in public and a harlot behind closed doors, this will be a good fit.

When It’s Over:

This is one relationship that is likely to endure. If you win a Capricorn’s heart, it’s usually forever. So she would be the one to break up, likely because she is just too bored. Aries loves a challenge. Capricorn likes to have everything set in stone and left that way.

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  1. Im an Aries woman who fell in love with Capricorn man but we always argue yes i am very impulsive but when he is mad he hurts me by his words. Aries is known for being stubborn but i gave all too much patience at him its okay if he is mad but hurtful words really pull me away from him like i have small brain and im stupid. I have fault too but i tried to talk to him and make up with him but if he’s mad he really saying many things,

  2. I am attracted to a capricorn man. He is attracted to me. I told him straight fwd that i just want to have sex with him. I dont want to have all these feelings and crao attached to it. I just want the lust part. He kisses me whenever he and i are alone and the last kiss we shared had him begging me for more the next night- i just want to know are capricorn men and aries woman compatible in bed or shld i jump ship before its too late??

    • I’m a bit suspicious of two cardinal signs having a relationship that doesn’t go anywhere, but the sexual compatibility would depend on the Mars placements.

  3. EmpressMineaJune 1, 2016 at 4:00 am

    My Dearest,

    All Aries except those birthdays are April 17 & 18 are soulmates to all Capricorns except those birthdays are January 7 -10. Miscommunication, misunderstanding, & other external factors are the root causes of Aries-Capricorn break-ups.

    Don’t be sad. There’s a secret way for Aries & Capricorn to be more established as stable couple……. But I won’t tell you. Sorry!!! I am a living proof that Aries & Capricorns are soulmates.

  4. Virgo womanMarch 12, 2016 at 6:32 pm

    I´m a virgo and it´s the 3rd time in my life that I have fallen for a Capricorn, yet today I went to him and said it is over. Because he only uses me. I have a broken heart, but I will not be fooled again. He makes me the bad one, and him to be the victim of me. He doesn´t see what he´s doing, but people hate me because they think I am a bad whore. He wants to destroy me. The previous and the next previous did the same thing. They just use me. I never want a cap in my life anymore. Taurus men did the same to me. Only made me look like a bad bitch and told others that I am a whore, while I never cheated or anything like that. This BF that I had to this day, he was always interested in women around me, flirting with my sister and not showing any respect for me. I am waiting in fear what is going happen next. Because he will tell everybody that I am a whore, and I don´t trust him, and he will destroy my life. So be it. If that´s what he wants.

  5. AriesunderworldFebruary 22, 2016 at 8:19 pm

    I’ve met my cap on a night out with my friends. He approached me and I gave him my number. He wanted to hang out that night and I refused and he chased for two days. I finally gave in.. He’s handsome tall and I sensed his dominance. We had sex and it was great. I didn’t text back until a week later and he told me he was coming to visit. He came and we had sex again. He’s ambitious so am I we talked and I feel inlove with his mindset and I became impulsive I wanted more besides sex I could see being a power couple but he pulled away and it confused me because we had the same goals and values. It’s been a month since we’ve last spoke I don’t chase someone I really like because I want them to show how much they want me and as an Aries woman we can have any man we want but I want him I long for him . Being a strong attractive man I took it as he had a woman or other options but he was my first Capricorn and as a Aries woman I find them worthy of comprising with hopefully I meet another and he won’t pull away.

  6. Yes im an Aries wom inlove with my prince Capricorn man. Since high school. We lost each other and found each other again . 20 years later ! I’ve always told our fairytale love story to my friends, about how i met my prince charming and , we cried for two months after we first met up again and decided to get back together again, everytime i talk about him i share tears , his such a wonderful man for me. Yes we do make mistakes, i don’t expect him to be perfect ,but when i give him the chance to explain things , he does things for me, and that breaks my heart , I’m a much calmer person because of him,lol if your an Aries woman you will know what i mean..i am a much better person whem im with him . He understands me , he listens to me and assures me everything is going to be okay and speaks wisdom. I love him i love his clever. I’ve noticed that his plans are always well thought and genuine. His well mannered, handsome as hell ( his got a mystery look, and plays hard to get ) so that makes me want him more . Hahaha
    I beleive in true love , I have found it.

  7. I am an Arian woman that is falling deeply for a cap in the bedroom I get butterflies all over when I’m with him I never want to leave. My problem is he’s coming out of a bad break almost a year now and so he consistently reminds me that we are just friends. Might I ad that it took him a month to get my number and 2 months to get me in his bedroom.I know he has a little feeling for me but what am I doing wrong? ?? I’ve been hurt also and coming out of a bad relationship too but what can I do not to loose grip of this Capricorn man

  8. Cap men would lie to hide that you are the other woman….like ive never seen a lier in all my life.
    Any views?

  9. I also tend to speak of humans properties and emotions like love gentleness humbleness insight knowledge and on the flip about anger resenment demonical shit and witches not because I sit and glow of it all day. its a way to show stupid people theres more than one emotion.. on the contrary as a cap which is sorta not zodiac personality to believe in zodiacs I have the most open mind and spontaneous and u dont get boring or repetitive which is to be confused with strong and noncareless in being the ADULT I am. so I weigh people down with gifts of the holy spirit and fruits of a good person so they can learn to be knowlegable of diffeernt emotions and ideas of good bad ying yang and all sorts of ideas which are just ideas and shit like pizza vs hamburger people who go by the type of food they like and I do this to let them know when they put their OWN two cents in unwarranted and I dont care for these people who started out assholes I preach to them and now all sudden there not assholes and im some religious guy.. its sad stupid people stuck in their arrpgance learn to open their horizons and dream and let loose and be yourself and then jealous enough to mingle in my love towards this aries they notice how ignorant or stupid they were now need to save face.. so in retrospect why bother with your two cents if you are not willing to get someone elses two cents.. it was magical time for us but jealous people want to be jealous and they now want to put a rating on capricorns and aries and etc. zodiacs are not stupid. zodiacs are one option or opinion. as a capricorn by birth I have mamy environmental factors that play into how I am. so now im supposedly boring and contrite and lonely and seeking of riches and status. which I cant agree with. or with what aries neccesarily says of her. so now question still remains.. why was it good then and godawful now and whats there to do? not that I think its godawful. Im the same and feel the same about her and now yes im texting her constantly like I love sick puppy but now its too much but then sometimes its not enough. so am I a blind fool? or lovesick? or its an aries cap compatability issue here.. let me know guys. or did people ruin it and I couldnt let them anymore so I helped them ruin it and now theyre well taught and behaved assholes im attempting to salvage it..

  10. im a cap man and shes an aries wom and I was into her snd I think pretty surr the same for her. I had a lot to show and still do but now everyone in the way ruined the thing I had for her and now shes been done wrong by me while I teach them fhat chances for love like that between us cant be spoiled. and hard headed as capricorns are shes suffering from how I changed because people like to think they know shit. now its a race to see who will lose who first. I still want to show her the stars and ghe moon but careless people like to show you toilets and urinals which are piss and shit filthy. Im not too sure about zodiac signs but everything I have seen between us doesnt fit this or it did not back then because it was something we both looked forward to eachother but now from the perspective of urinals its impossible not to go by this zodiac sign thing and not believe it. I feel I read the traits and it has constricted us to be measured by its boundaries and words. im waiting to see when stupid people will begin to realize why their opinion doesnt matter. and whether she wants me or not the fact remains im sorry for treating her like she wasnt why I cared to show her a lot of things. but now its pretty dull so im left with these matchmaker experts who dont want to be careless anymore but dont realize probably its maybe too late for me or us to be the same. but anyways were differentworlds apart and stupid people make it even more difficult. any advice on whats there to do now?

  11. My Capricorn and I have been in love for 27 years. We were together from the time I was thirteen till I was nineteen. We parted ways but never had a real break up. We have been back and forth at least three or four times in 27 years. A marraige a piece and five children later, (two for me three for him) we are together for the long haul and both realize that we will never love anyone else the way we love each other. He has two daughters. The oldest one has my middle name the baby girl has my first name. His son has my brothers name. All the kids are thrilled that we are back together as is anyone who knew us way back when. One day you will see our story on the big screen. Don’t ever give up on TRUE love. You will know it when it comes.

  12. Its soo true I met my cap man when I was at school we have been together ever since that’s 7 years

  13. i’m an Aries women and i’m falling over a Capricorn guy. ive been desperatly trying to get his attention. but he seems only half interested. it says that “He will be extremely conscious of how he appears in public, and you should conduct yourself accordingly. Dress conservatively. Keep displays of affection private.” but that doesn’t really apply to him. you see hes in a metal band and hes a bit more “out there” than a normal Capricorn sounds. should i adjust the way i act and look to fit his rowdy lifestyle or should i stay on the quieter side of the rock scene?

  14. Im an aries and ive known this cap guy since I was twelv we flirted here and there but nothing heavy well im 26now and hes just telling me hes liked me for a wile and that he has alot of respect for me and loves how I carrey myself. He also says he thinks that im a reall woman,then he tells me that he has other female friends but they are just a joke and that they are nothing to worry about. My question is if hes playing around like that how do I no I can trust that im not a joke aswell. Some one help

  15. Capricorn man and Aries Woman can have a successful, loving and commited relationship if they work hard to build up and maintain there love and loyalty towards one another.

    Capricorn man and Aries Woman can have a long and lasting relationship, if they make it there priority to stick together, stay together, and work together.

    A Capricorn man is patient and the Aries woman is very resilient individuals.

    A Capricorn man will make sacrafice (if worth it) for true love and the Aries woman will always compromise for true love.

    A Capricorn man is calulating and concise while an Aries woman enjoy taking chances and is very impulsive…………. I can go on and on but if you are these signs you should already know the common grounds in A cap. and Aries relationship.

  16. One thing I’ve learned about cappy guys is that if they love and care for a woman in there life they will never leave her side under no circumstances, and if really leave loves you and you hold that key to his heart…….He will not move on with his life without……..And once his mind is made up about where you stand material wise………if he see you as his wife……he will cherish and respect you for a lifetime.

  17. I am an aries woman who uses to be in love with a capricorn man. However, he still has my heart and will always have my heart no matter what, but i just feel that him and I are incapable of a long and commited relationship.

  18. i am an aries woman like to know what will br the perfect match for me , if so i love a person he should be of which zodiac

  19. I am an aries women dating a capricorn man , We have been dating for two years now , i recently moved away , so we are trying a long distance relationship which is been very hard, I love him but I questioned everything he does he is a work alcholic not sure where we stand anymore

  20. I am a capricorn..she is an arian….i love her more than anyone else….but she refuses to do…she even broke off the 5 year long friendship when i again and again pressurized her to b mine…….plzz help me, i want her back badlY!!

  21. i am an aries girl in my 20s and my capricorn man is just perfect fr me, and we r in love since 6 yrs, i am very happy i have him in my life, i don’t get it y ppl say aries and capricorn do not go well, because i think we r perfect as a couple and made fr each othr, i love the way he makes me laugh, i just love him the way he is, he might be possessive sumtimes but i m oky wit tht, he loves me after all.
    i think it is the way how you feel, know and understnd ur partner and this crapy thing like zodiac compatibility is not true. 🙂

  22. I’m an Aries woman in love with a Capricorn man.

    We have had a “thing” for around 4 years now. Unfortunately he never wants to take me seriously however I do believe he has some hidden deep feelings for me as out of all the men in my life he has always been there. He’s dating a Sagittarius, and has been for awhile, however occasionally he will still send me mixed messages and tells me he misses me. I think he has always admired my strength and will and admires my determination to the work side of my life, he often says he is proud of me.

    I’m crazy for him and would do anything for him, unfortunately for some reason he can get distant and awkward at times. Its hard to say but i believe i fell for him the first time I laid eyes on him, and even though he has lead me on and off through out all these times i still find myself intrigued and in love with him.

  23. I am an Aries woman and have been with a Capricorn man for awhile now. He is, without a doubt, my soulmate (if you believe in that thing)… I definitely can say our relationship is not at all what the article has described as typical, but of course every one is different! I would say my Capricorn is just as the comments have explained- I have no doubt that I have won his heart forever! 🙂

    And to that first idiot that posted (yes, I realize it was a year ago): Maybe the fact that you were pregnant with someone else’s child and are clearly a bitch/unpleasant person could be the reason he had no interest in being with you. How old are you honey, 17?

  24. “…..Fearlessness, purity of heart, steadfastness in …wisdom, alms-giving, control of the senses (self-restraint), sacrifice, …., austerity, straightforwardness, non-injury, abscence of anger, renunciation, peacefulness, abscence of crookedness, compassion to living beings, uncovetousness, gentleness, modesty, abscence of fickleness, vigour, forgiveness, fortitude, purity, abscence of hatred, abscence of pride-these belong to one who is born with the divine properties…

    Hypocrisy, arrogance, self-conceit, anger, harshness and ignorance , belong to one who is born… with demoniacal properties.

    The divine properties are deemed to make for liberation, the demoniacal for bondage. Grieve not, thou art born with divine properties….”

  25. From the eyes of a True Arian woman! I dated and was engaged to a capricorn man for over 17 years off and on! Yikes! And I agree once you are in his heart it is forever. We are no longer together but have a great working relationship for the sake of our two girls. I didn’t date for 4 years after the break up and recently was united with a high school friend and you guessed it…..he is a flipping CAPRICORN. The updside is I kinda know what to expect. The down side is I KINDA KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT! But his smile makes my heart melt! When will I learn! HAHA!

  26. im a aries girl and i have been in loveand with my capricorn man for 5yrs. but i just found out that two months before we moved together that he cheated on me. he has been honest or so i thought unto now so when he said tha he wouldnt do it again do i trust him?

  27. I’m an Aries girl married to a Capricorn man now for 9 years and he tells me that as the years go by that he loves me more and more everyday, we have two kids and are happily married. And actually he is the one to ask for sex more! Up to 2 or 3 times a DAY! That’s because I make it fun for him like playing strip tease games and believe it or not he likes when I slap him around when were having sex, LOL! Anyways we love each other, one thing about my Capricorn guy is that he is extremely jealous and possessive! He doesn’t even let a guy get near me before he looses control! I really love my Capricorn man!!!! My baby Daddy, he’s my Daddy now! Good luck to everyone!

  28. i’m an aries and currently dating a cap man for few months and we’re acquainted almost a year. i could say our relationship is very difficult. aside from trials we don’t have so much in common. he’s too slow, dominant, lazy, jealous, possessive and bossy, so totally opposite from but i still love him. i have put so much effort to stay calm, control my temper, eat my pride and being humble just to make the relationship going. And so i could say that we’re doing great, we’re both equal. he’s so serious and so sure about me, whatever he says he do. if we have fights, we make sure we will settle the conflict within 24 hours. i love him, he really change me. and i love it..

  29. Aries girls like to show no feelings up front because they are always scared of getting hurt because they are super sensitive yet super strong, it’s hard to explain. If you want an Aries female you must be aggressive. Unless she’s the aggressive type then you wouldn’t be having this problem after all. But if she seems unsure you must be aggressive.

  30. am a capricornSeptember 5, 2010 at 8:32 pm

    I am seeing a aries girl from last 3 years.
    Initially she never gave me a chance to talk to her.After my long struglle she allowed me to talk with her.We spoke to each other for 6months.Later all of sudden she stoped talking to me.Just saying always busy.
    I kept on calleing her and she turned to be very srious on me.Can someone tell me how to make her think about me and feel love for me ?

  31. florence_capriJuly 18, 2010 at 6:05 pm

    ya tru asdfasdf, if anyone wins a Capricorn’s heart, it’s usually forever……Capricorn’s are famous for their loyalty streak but same time they are very cautious and not easy while giving their heart……..:)

  32. sparkle> for lukey… i really don’t have the right to make a comment bc i have been in a relationship for 3 months and my heart hasn’t let go of a capricorn for the past 6 yrs. i feel that if you have spoken your mind and nothing has changed do not give up. remian her friend. you two may have that bond that you just cant break. i would rather still have that person in my life than not at all. so just take whatever you can get. 🙂

  33. OMG! all of ya’ll comments are so true! i agree with asdfasdf when he said If you win a Capricorn’s heart, it’s usually forever.” the cap that i’ve been talking to it seems like no matter how long its been since we spoke we always pick up where we left off! no matter how long its been since we seen eachother it feels like we were just with eachother the day before. i have a boyfriend now and the cap i like does not know. i decided that the cap and i were not going anywhere so i wanted to move on and not put my life on hold anymore. however, me and him still talk to this day. everyday we talk. but only mutual convos’ nothing to where i can get in trouble with. lol i dont want to tell him bc i feel that he will go away and leave me alone. i care about him too much. im so confused….any advise?

  34. I’m a 20yr old capricon male who needs some advice on this aries girl whose been chasing me for the past 6 months!! She’s a full blown aries with a boyfriend and she totalllyy blows my mindd! and I know theres a really big part of her really likes me too! but I can’t tell if she’s pursuing me because she likes me or because she’s addicted to the spotlight/challenge, she shows signs of both. I mean were very attracted to each other in all the right ways and i feel like we could truely learn alot from each other and become something great! but how do i tell if she’d even want that? should i just stop dragging this out and trying to win her over and just take whatever i can get?

  35. VindabellaMay 27, 2010 at 6:33 pm

    I’m an Aries and he’s a Cap and yes even though circumstances prevent us from a happy union the situation is the connection is still here. As it was from the first day indeed.

  36. I’m a Cap and she’s an Aries and I know exactly what you are talking about Nichelle. There is something so intense and deep about my feelings for her. I have never felt so strong about these feelings. And yes as if I can reach out and she is infront of me? Sometimes I wonder if I’m going crazy all by myself or is there a connection between us? We haven’t spoken for over a month but my feelings for her are just as strong as it was from the first day. As much as I try to rid and block the connection, it hasn’t worked?

  37. I met my Cap back in 2006. and the whole thing is just really intense and deep unlike anything i’ve tried to duplicate. i tried to stop contact b/c everytime we were each other it was a lil too intense for me. He’s dated other girls and during this he’s always tried contacting me. We’re just connected to each other like we can’t get away. I swear I can literally feel his prescence, its has happened too many times to count. I never told him I loved him, but i think he knows I do truly..maybe thats why he always comes back…Once you have his heart i really think you can’t remove yourself from it its 2010 now, he’s still after me…idk

  38. @Leo
    SOmething’s wrong with her. When you’re ready ,just ask her directly.

  39. I am a capricorn man and I am totally taken by an aries woman. She is beautiful and she always calls me handsome. We both have not been in any relationships in at least 5 years. We spend holidays together such as christmas, valentines day, etc. And we always exchange gifts, but she will not respond when I ask her out. When we spend time together, it’s always at her house. I have bought extravagant gifts for her that she cries because she’s so happy, and even tells me no one has treated her this well since her ex. Everyone tells us that we attract attention when they see us together at church, because we attend the same church, but no dates. What am I doing wrong as a capricorn?

  40. @ asdfasdf I’m so sorry it didn’t work out.

  41. It is so true when it says,”If you win a Capricorn’s heart, it’s usually forever.” My Aries and I just broke up, and I can’t seem to get her off my mind, and I still love her, my first love after all ._.

  42. I have been talking to a Capricorn since high school. My opinion….we are better off as friend and friends only. We talked about getting together but it never happens. I just gave up and started doing me. 🙂 And we are still good friends but I don’t see a relationship.

  43. Some advise from an Aries girl…just make a steady and sure move. You have to be strong and in control but if she is showing interest and jeolousy she is probably unsure of her feelings and afraid to ruin a friendship..but curious. Good luck.

  44. Try to be mo re of a challenge. Switch places and you play hard to get.

  45. Ima capricorn in love with an aries woman, ive been trying to get with her for some time now, she shows interest at times and also gets jealous of other women showing me attention, she knows how I feel about her but wont go out with me at least not yet lol WTF can I do to win her over?

  46. Sorry to say this but you better kick him to the curb. If he loved you then you having a baby would not be an issue. He’d be there helping you pick out baby clothes and stuff. He’s just playing around and trying to be in control. Just focus on you and the baby and forget guys until a good one comes along.

  47. Maybe he really means it, he doesn’t want to date someone pregnant? It’s a little hard to understand why he’d say something and not mean it.

  48. im an aries and ive been talking to this capricorn for a few months but he doesnt want to date me because i am pregnant he texts me and says he loves me but in person he says “i like you” blah blah blah IDK WHAT TO DO hes driving me NUTS i asked him if he thought i was conservative he said no>=/ i dont do anything wrong so WTF!!!!! email me back yo!!!!

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