Cancer Man and Cancer Woman Compatibility

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Sometimes when two signs get together, it’s too much of a good thing.  In the case of Cancer and Cancer, however, there are some real advantages.  This it because the way a man uses Cancer energy is very different from the way a woman does.  In both cases nurturing is involved but the object is different.  The Cancer woman is among the most home-loving of creatures but, ironically, she tends to run her home like a business.  She is often found looking at her home like a profit-center.  She is the gal most likely to clip coupons and store them in a jar that she took with her when she left her mother’s home.  You can see that she combines tender qualities in her approach to marriage.  It’s the same with the Cancer man.  He will nurture as much as she does, but what he will nurture is his wife, their mutual investments, their retirement fund, and both sets of parents.  When two Cancers marry, there is a wide circle of caring created.  Of course children are included as well.

How to Attract a Cancer Man as a Cancer Woman:  Chances are your paths are crossing through one of the vast family connections that exist between the two of you if not from a direct introduction by a family member.  You can build on that opportunity.  Having the support of relatives is so beneficial in bringing people together.  It is best if — from the beginning — you treat his family like they were your own family.  You will tend to anyway, but in this relationship, it’s a real plus.  By all means refer to your great cooking, your homemaking skills, and elude heavily to how well you take care of your pets, children, friends, boss, employees, etc.  You can be very comfortable showing your feelings around this man.  It can draw him to you if he sees tears in your eyes over some sad story, or something that bruises your delicate heart.  Try not to ask him how much money he makes on the first date.

How to Attract a Cancer Woman as a Cancer Man:  Show your protectiveness right away.  Open the doors, walk on the outside of the sidewalk (ready to throw your cape on the mud puddles if necessary), carry the groceries into the house from the car, make sure the door is locked when you go to bed for the evening, and as soon as you can, make an allusion to your “plans for the future” and by that I mean exclusively the financial situation.  This woman, who looks so much like a little powder puff, is interested in marriage for one reason and one reason only — securing a financial future for herself and her children.  That is her very definition of love.

Degree of Romance:  This is more like a business meeting than a romance.  Each one is trying to ascertain the possibility of future security.

Degree of Passion:  None.  Unless you start talking about splitting the pot.  Then the greedy little Cancer monster – gimme, gimme, gimme, mine, mine, mine appears with a passionate vengeance.

Degree of Friendship:  The connection between these two is a little tight to call friendship.  These water signs will create a bond which precludes the detachment and disinterest so necessary to maintain an arm’s length relationship.  They will have transferred something between the two of them which has become non-negotiable.  You might say that friendship ends where need begins.

Degree of Marriage:  There is a strong enough bond to create a classic co-dependent relationship.  The transferences of needs is so great that they are likely to feel they cannot live without one another.  There will be many levels of exchanges — money, sex, comfort, security, belonging, “the future” — all of these things will have been bartered for ad nauseum as each tries to lock the other one into an incontrovertible arrangement that benefits him or herself individually.  You haven’t been squeezed until you’ve been squeezed by a Cancer.

Progression of Relationship:  The relationship will follow a secret agenda wherein each Cancer tries to secure a hold on the other before giving ground.  There is an unbelievably entangled negotiation going on behind the seemly harmless dating scene.  It runs something like this — If I tell you I love you will you marry me … if you marry me will you give me security … if you give me security will you promise never to take it away ….  And then there is the endless testing for unconditionality between these two insecure, sometimes neurotic, individuals.  They become like two little children trying to find out how “bad” they can be and still be loveable and adorable.  Therefore the way they date may be a mystery to all outsiders but it follows the revealed game plan.

Sex:   Sex can be more of a commodity than with many others.  It goes like this:  If I have sex with you will you (1) take care of me, (2) provide for me, (3) love me forever, (4) love me unconditionally, (5) take care of all my needs, (6) be nice to my mother — etc., etc.  The physical act of sex is far less important than the emotional things going on.  This is completely understood at some level by both parties, and with them — it is okay.  As a matter of fact, many Cancers are so oral they would rather eat or smoke than have sex — as far as satisfying basic needs.  Sometimes this relationships becomes sexless as it evolves into a mommy-daddy pattern of caring and gaining weight.

When It’s Over:  When it’s over there will two infantile “victims” trying to claim un-responsibility for the whole thing.  Each one will turn to his or her own mother for comfort and understanding and the mothers will probably demand a pound of flesh on their behalf.

Our Rating: 8/10

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  • Darshita singh says:

    My husband is somewhat like described here. But is there any way to make him feel that i am too like him and would never leave him…if just be a little kind to me.

  • Arthur Morris says:

    I’m a Cancer male with a quirky birth chart, a grid of fire and earth swirling around the water. And after a long time scuttling around, I can say with all the certainty I’ve ever known… I’m in love with a Cancer woman.

    I’ve spent so long being disappointed by other people. Communities that don’t stick together, men that destroy instead of protect, women that prey on others shamelessly. I’m surrounded by others, but I’ve felt completely alone in thought and spirit. Astrology or not, I know myself – I’m designed to stand strong shoulder to shoulder with others. Not only have I felt betrayed, I’ve felt like the ground I stand on has been taken away. What’s a patriot without a country? What’s a body without a soul? Just an empty husk.

    She changed my world. She showed me the thing I felt was missing from my entire life – something worth everything to protect. She showed me who she was, behind all the smokescreens and shells. She showed me how to build hope and courage instead of clinging to it as it fails.

    I look into her eyes and see something so familiar, but so different. For the first time, I don’t feel threatened and challenged by someone else looking at me. She’s nothing but soothing, down to the deepest parts of the self. Parts I didn’t even know about. And if there’s a smile curled underneath that gaze… I feel higher in the air than I have climbing any mountain, flying in any plane.

    I love her moods. When they’re high, she’s more fun and encouraging than anything. When they’re low, I can do what I was made for without fear – wrap her in my arms and wash away all doubt. I’ve never been able to control my own emotions as well as I can with her.

    I’m still young, idealistic and utterly foolish. Bitter men and women who’ve accepted the sad state of the world are peering down their noses at every word I write, just waiting for it to come crashing down. People who’ve failed at love or never experienced it will laugh in the face of the single most important thing I have to say, but I can say it from deeper inside than I’ve ever gone.

    I love you. Beyond your body, your mind, your soft giggle and your hard outer shell. I love you for the barest part of your soul, and I’d gladly give my life to keep you safe. You’ll probably never read these words, and even if you do, will you know who it’s from?… But it doesn’t matter. You’ll hear them from my lips soon enough.

    We can discuss Cancer + Cancer logically, rationally, intellectually here… but all of those words completely miss the point. All I know is that I’ve found something that motivates me to be a better man than I’ve ever dreamed, and it comes in the form of a Lunar maiden.

    Best wishes, fellow Crabs. 😉

  • Princess ciara says:

    Awww that’s so romantic ARTHUR MORRIS ima cancer and I want a cancer male other signs (libra leo scorp Pisces caps) used me, I loved them fully but got 20per cent back, I just want love 💗💖💕💟

  • Needles says:

    The proof is in the way it hurts….wish this would all just be over now.

  • Solar SS says:

    I’m laying here and I find it incredibly interesting how a person will put on a show like a clown after all the pain they put you through…talking about how sorry they are, but whats the use trying anymore though, espeically both knowing that love is already completely out the door, and then say things that makes us both sit and cry behind the closed door, but how does one cope even though its heart breaking, yes its something we have to do, but no, didn’t think it would ever hurt so bad at all….its true I don’t want to love nobody else and neither do I want anybody else loving you but I think the sandcastles have washed away…….my heart is broken, but time will heal it, I will be okay, my heart will get better with time….I will not make the same mistake, will not cause my heart that much misery again.

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  • crabbygabby says:

    I am a Cancer girl and I have known this Cancer boy for about 4 years with a 2-3 year gap of actually forgetting about him. At first, when we met each other I knew I would fall very hard for this guy, and I felt in his eyes that he felt the same way for me. I knew he liked me, but maybe I’ve been too pushy and he pulled away. I just overdid it. And I am sorry for that. I can talk for years about us. Several months ago we met again (suprisingly on a nearby mountain) and I saw the awkwardness in his eyes again (saying ‘Oh, I still like you, there’s still something , but I won’t show it, and will keep living my life as before’). I offered to him several weeks later to go together. We went, and my feelings awoke again. poor me 🙂 He’s really insecure and is still pulling away, alsthough I see him how sometimes he’s abandoning his ‘protective den’ and reaching cautiously towards me. So, as I said it’s been months (3-4) and things go painfully slowly. Last time I went to h is place and stayed there for several hours and when I left, he walked me to the door and the ‘goodbye’ look in his eyes was the most heart-warming and ice-metling I’ve ever seen for these 4 years I knew him. Then I knew – he’s hooked, but is too proud to admit it by showing actual interest. During these 4 months we met about 4 times, so it’s normal for things to be slow, but he rejects all my propositions. It’s weird, but he’s obviously very careful, yet interested in me. He was the first to call me in New Year’s Eve, when actually he calls/chats with me very very rarely. He cares… I know, But I have to have lots of patience. And I will have it, because I truly love him, understand him and he’s the sweetest person I’ve ever met. I saw him in one rare mood – calm, a little down, maybe even secretly sensitive (that last time I talked about), talking quietly… gosh, I wanted to hug him and stay like that for hours. He really evokes such feelings in me. I know it may be a lost cause (because I’ll be leaving the country in 8 months) and I may get even deeper in my (and his) feelings and both end up hurt, but I can’t admit defeat. I want to know I gave it a second chance (after the first time I made some mistakes). Maybe he would want to come with me 🙂

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