One word :BS!

We didn’t fight at all, which was good. One stage we became intimate and i really enjoyed the moments of him touching him and vice versa. The moment we touched, i wanted to stay in the moment…so right..

Wish we would communicate more of our thoughts / feelings with each other frequently…i’ll still have occasional thoughts of him, but try to keep it hidden deep inside..

Now i am dating a libra and it doesn’t feel the same….

as far as our personalities go we both come from stable families. in my youth i had absolutely no patience and got angry over the smallest things. as i matured i became a much more patient person although my patience is not unlimited. i’ve always been a stubborn person and still am very much so. i’d like to think that i have a very strong grip on my moodiness and when i get to the point where i’m about to let my emotions take control, i withdraw and let my self cool down. in arguments i always stay cool and collected.

my fiance was a very moody person in her youth from what she told me. being a female she is more susceptible to her emotions but has been doing a good job of keeping them under control for the most part. she is also stubborn but nowhere nearly as much as i am. she is a very caring and generous person and would do anything to help her friends, family and even people she barely knows.

degrees of romance:
i’m not a romantic person by nature yet i like to do what i can to keep my fiance happy and have that warm fuzzy feeling when i’m with her. my fiance is extremely romantic and gets mushy frequently. i’m also very analytical person so for me the “business” side is partially true for me. not so for my fiance. she trusts me to take care of the logistics.

degrees of passion:
we’ve always been very passionate with each other since we became a couple. we’re generous with each other in the bedroom as well.

degrees of friendship:
we have a deep friendship and almost a psychic connection. we know what the other person is thinking most of the time can easily complete each other’s sentences.

degree of marriage:
we’re not there yet.

progression of relationships:
we had our fair share of ups and downs. overall the relationship has always been on stable footing and has been able to sail through the worst of the storms. i can honestly say that i don’t have any secret agenda. i deeply care for my fiance and want her to be happy. there have never been any bartering games. i have given her an unconditional promise of love, care and security.

she has always been trying to test my commitment and my other qualities. i can almost always see through the tests and just find them amusing. for me actions speak louder than words so there is no need for me to do any tests. there has never been any “trying to find out how bad they can be”. we trust each other completely.

sex:
i’m not going to add too much detail here. all i can say is things couldn’t be any better. we’re both very generous in bed and don’t ask for anything in return. the physical act is just as important as the emotional things going on. preferring “eating or smoking” to having sex is just plain silly.

good luck to all the other cancercancer couples

So, David, tough luck man, please accept my few words of reconciliation on behalf of your ex’s current partner as I closely identify with his cancerian mindset.

1. First, don’t think the cancer male is happy about cuckolding you. More likely, he’s feeling guilty about it. We cancerians may be selfish but usually don’t want what is not rightfully ours, unless it’s our only last available option. He has tons of sympathy for your situation, only to be exceeded by the love he has for your -ex.

Believe me, if she were any other zodiac sign, this cancer male would have walked out of her life because he wouldn’t want to hurt YOU. But, with cancer females, the whole complexion changes because these are two creatures so intertwined in mutual empathy that they just don’t want to let go of each other. You’re standing in the way between him and his true love which he finally found after all these years in his life, so better brace for a fight. I don’t really care how close you were to your -ex, right now I’m in love with her and won’t let her go.

- unless she wants to go back to you! In that case, I will gladly accept her decision, although with a heavy heart but even after that, we’ll always remain good friends and you have to accept the close bond forged between me and your -ex. It cannot be eliminated.

2. You complain that cancer women are manipulative, have unreasonable demands and it can be tiresome to pamper their emotional side 100% of the time. Yes, they lie, betray and cheat. The only reason I get along so well with my current cancer lady we both have NO DEMANDS and NO EXPECTATIONS of each other. And, I never get tired of her whinging, complaining and manipulative tears – au contraire, I enjoy every bit of it because that’s just the mirror reflection of my own person, fills me with amusement and delight to be with a person who understands me so intuitively.

Also, we rarely fight or argue and at the end of the day, simply end up cuddling with each other. Everytime she likes to talk about her -ex (she still misses him), I just ask her not to bore me more than I can tolerate on that subject. She can endlessly go on and on and on, but drops mention of her -ex after spotting my insecurity and sensitivity.

Also, two cancers together can be thick as thieves and have this childish mischievous streak governing our passions.

3. Whoever said sex between two cancers is vapid and dull must get a reality check. Our sex is simply divine, we just don’t want to let go of each other!!!

She had a really tough exterior, she would never cry in front of me and always acted like she could do everything on her own, She had this I dont need your help attitude. But the funny thing is come to find out really it was the total opposite, she needed me but was to stubborn to be real and show her true feelings until it was to late . I always tried to accommodate and submit to what she wanted, and it only made things worse because once I started to stand up for what I thought was right she was not use to that, she was use to always having things her way and she would do it subtle and passively.

Now that I no longer want to be with her she is finally opening up and trying to change, but it is to late because I tried forever to make things work and once I come to the conclusion its cant I am done and keep it moving.

To anyone reading this I would say dont date cancer if you are a cancer if that cancer did not have a solid foundation as a child, find out first! Because if they didnt they cant control their feelings its like an emotional Tsunami ! And you being a cancer also makes it worse, you will take things more deeply that they do and like a hurt cancer you snap back at them and its not a good thing

If anybody want to know my side:
1. She did not tell her family about our marriage for 3 years – that drove me first.
2. I heard only negative things about her work; she was a flirt with her coworkers!
3. She did not call me for 10 days on a trip – in spite of four months of my time I spent on making that trip possible.
4. She would not let me eat breakfast at 11.30am

Be careful with Cancerians (both men and women)… double the dose is bad. I am a Cancer by both sun and moon sign — so that makes my shell much more harder….

LOL – Have fun! Happy New Year Wishes for 2011…

I somewhat agree with this. All of my lady crab friends are extremely easy to talk to, it’s almost as if I’m talking to a female version of myself. Always on the same wavelength. I can talk to them about a whole lot of nothing and they would be entertained, and vice versa.

Mentally, we get each other. However, trying to escalate this to the “next level” is where things begin to get complicated. Even though we’re both passionate/loving water signs, nothing seems to ever get off the ground, even though there’s something there. When it comes to romance/passion/sexual attraction I feel much more of this with Scorpio and, to a lesser extent, Pieces.

If anything, I find this fascinating. I don’t avoid cancer women when pursuing love interests and I definitely wouldn’t mind meeting one who could render my experience null.