This is one of the most romantic, etheric and delightful combinations imaginable. Gemini women are among the most sought after and Cancer men are prized as "good husband material". When flirtatious, gregarious Gemini meets sweet, comforting Cancer, the violins start to play. These two create a busy, happy personal world with friends and interests centered around the home. No world dominion required for fulfillment, thank you very much. Parents and siblings may be especially important for socializing. Likely they love each other’s company while the sound of each other’s voice is this side of heaven. Gemini keeps things interesting while Cancer provides a serene anchor in a busy whirl of interests and activities. Thanks to Gemini, there are always other people around which warms Cancers heart.
How to Attract a Cancer Man as a Gemini Woman: It’s ok to be as flirtatious as you like. It brings out his warmth and sweetness. His conversation is not likely to be as witty or clever as you would like but give him a chance. His compliments are genuinely caring and he has a high degree of integrity. Most importantly, laugh at his cutesy little jokes. Even though you’ve definitely heard better, his humor is whimsical and a big part of his social skill set. It's a clue to his inner world. This is the guy most likely to be asked (believe it or not), "Heard any good jokes lately?"
How to Attract a Gemini Woman as a Cancer Man: She loves to talk and she’s curious about everything so start with some questions. Show what a good listener you are. Try some variety in dating -- dinner, a movie, an art exhibit, a nice chat at Starbucks. Ask her about current events and celebrities, the latest films or political gaffes (nothing too heavy).
Degree of Romance: These two dance to the same music. Their relationship is bound to include great romance. Gemini is famous for keeping things interesting and it’s no different in the romance department. With Cancer a willing play partner, she is full of surprises. Gemini is a great flirt and tease while Cancer responds with just the right appreciation and encouragement.
Degree of Passion: This relationship tends to stay at a more superficial level than passion. Neither sign bring out jealousy or possessiveness in the other and their emotions are delightfully straightforward.
Degree of Friendship: These two make close personal friends. They can share day to day interests, small talk and routine activities til the cows come home! Likely they have a merry band of followers, other friends who keep up with them through tweeting, facebook, IM and texting. They wouldn’t want to be a moment alone during the day so the door is always open to communicate.
Degree of Marriage: A great
Progression of Relationship: Cancer is very protective and careful about building a relationship. He makes sure she feels comfortable and secure every step of the way. Although she hardly needs it, he reassures her she is #1 and special by words and deeds. Cancers don’t play games, being security oriented and nurturing, and Gemini, though a wicked game player under some circumstances, is not encouraged to be that way by a Cancer. He gives her so much steady and sincere attention, it takes her restlessness away,
Sex: Sex between a Cancer man and a Gemini woman is like a beautiful piece of music. The melody is introduced and then embellished to infinite delight. Familiarity is combined with flourishes and bouquets. There is a special kind of subtlety that is introduced the more the get to know each other's tastes and talents.
When It’s Over: Gemini and Cancer need to have patience with one another a good deal of the time. Air (Gemini) and water (Cancer) need to extend each other courtesies lest she run roughshod over his insecurities and he appear to cling so close as to bind her butterfly wings. If worse comes to worse Gemini will have to code it. The unwinding will be messy and plant seeds for endless future contention because Cancer will have to handle all the responsibilities and he doesn’t want to end it. Always in the back of his mind is the hope of “neverending love” and reconciliation even as she flips her petticoats on the way out the door to get a breath of fresh air. He whispers after her, “I know you’ll be back” while she flips over her shoulder, “Get a life!”
Our Rating: 8/10

#1 by Gemini83 on December 14th, 2009
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So true. I love this site!
#2 by AS85 on March 1st, 2010
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How much does it matter if the cancer man is on the cancer side of the cusp and the Gemini woman is on the Gemini side of the cusp?
#3 by K on June 2nd, 2010
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I really like geminis but not THAT much. I find our connection to be a superficial one. We laugh together and flirt a lot, but…I need something more than that. I never have felt emotionally connected to geminis, and I’ve dated several, casually.
#4 by STACEY on June 17th, 2010
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So true!! OMG I am a gemini woman and was with a cancer man and only because he clung to me like a wet blanket and begged until he woreme down so whinny sometimes I could deal with it but most times my evil twin would come out; he reminded me of a woman…LOL, he was too sensative and needy….uuuuuughhhh I do not ever want to date another Cancer but Gemini men are a different story
#5 by STACEY on June 17th, 2010
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So true!! OMG I am a gemini woman and was with a cancer man and only because he clung to me like a wet blanket and begged until he wore me down so whinny sometimes I could deal with it….. but most times my evil twin would come out; he reminded me of a woman…LOL, he was too sensative and needy….uuuuuughhhh I do not ever want to date another Cancer but Gemini men are a different story
#6 by mekah on June 28th, 2010
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Well i can honestly say that everything i read about cancer and gemini was right on the mark. Ima 34 yrs old gemini woman and usually attract Leos,Aquarius and Taurus. Being a strong willed,intellectual woman i need a dominant sociable man i can match witts with. So it amazed me that tho Cancer and Geminis are opposites we can get along if our differances are respected. I honestly feel with my cancer fiance that ive met my soul mate. When hes down im cheery so i pick his down moods up and im also fun and spontanious which is good change of pace for the shy stay around familiar surroundings. What he offers me is True Love and Emotional security which i never found in any other man or sighn. This guy plays for keeps and it makes me feel secure. They say geminis arent the settle down type well thats not true at all,we want to settle down we are just very intelligent and are very intuitive soif a guy we like or want to get to know pretends to be serious about a relationship but isnt or if he is a player which most men are we see rig through it. We like tohave fun anyway so if a guy we like tries to play heart games with us we dont get mad. We enjoy the experiece and let it go until we meet Mr.Right. There are two things tho thatcould ruin my relationship with my cancer fiance? Being that im independant band he needs to be needed all the time i make him feel insecure and when a cancer feels insecure they look for security and security to a cancer man is a woman. So i naturally make them feel insecure and when they feel that way they will go behind your back and CHEAT. Which is a deal breaker for us geminis cause trust means every thing to me. 2ndly cancers are irrational when upset,they are emotional and blow small mole hills into mountains. Geminis hate dramatic public scenes or an irrational person. I think a person should always be able to talk rationally even when upset and water sighns cant. Besides those two issues we are compatable. If gemini can make cancer feel secure and if cancer learned that self confidence comes from with in and stops clinging to people to feel important then it would work. Me and my fiance are currently haveing these issues and its make it or break time for us so wish us luck. Thanks
#7 by J9 on August 6th, 2010
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i am a Gemini woman…in love with a cancer man…he drives me nuts!!! We start5ed off dating and quickly moved into a relatonship that quickly ended within weeks because he cheated on me. I was angry then said to him we have far too much fun together so lets be friends. When i made the gesture it was true & geniun. We started hangn out…he called frequently..he’s very spontanious so we take long drives on the weekends. One of the main reasons we broke is because i felt he was still stuckon his dhgtrs mom. He hated me constantly accusing him of that….so he ventured on. ok so back to now…we had been hanging out, my feeling began to grow again…i started to feel like this was love…what more could u want a friendship to turn to love! So this past weekend we went out as we made plans to do this for a while….it didnt turn out that well not due to us, but the event was a bust. He aqsked my while we together how i would define our relationship and i advised him that i liked him alot….i felt him deeply and wanted to touch on him ALL the time. He said he felt the same way…then when i asked if he could see himself with me he took a long time to answer but sad yes however we have “fundemental differences” which we like the same things, goin to the same places, love family…all that…we ust veiw things differently whereas he wants me to be a lil less playful and silly and more deep…he’s cranky & uptight about small stuff….so there are our “fundemental differences”. I asked him what he thought our differences were & he didnt want to talk about it….he asked me to call when i got home…i did…he didnt answer…i text’d the next day twelling him i hope i didnt complicate things…he hasnt answered me…i havent heard from him in 4 days! im going crazy…i miss him….feel like i did sumthing wrong..confused…i refuse to reach out…i want to be done…but i want him in my life. HELP ME…Iv fallen & i’m having a hard time gertrting p from this!!! What to do???
#8 by J9 on August 6th, 2010
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sorry for the horrible typing…my keyboard is messed up!
#9 by J9 on August 6th, 2010
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i am a Gemini woman…in love with a cancer man…he drives me nuts!!! We started off dating and quickly moved into a relatonship that quickly ended within weeks because he cheated on me. I was angry then said to him we have far too much fun together so lets be friends. When i made the gesture it was true & geniun. We started hangn out…he called frequently..he’s very spontanious so we take long drives on the weekends. One of the main reasons we broke is because i felt he was still stuck on his dghtrs mom. He hated me constantly accusing him of that….so he ventured on. ok so back to now…we had been hanging out, my feeling began to grow again…i started to feel like this was love…what more could u want a friendship to turn to love! So this past weekend we went out as we made plans to do this for a while….it didnt turn out that well not due to us, but the event was a bust. He asked me while we together how i would define our relationship and i advised him that i liked him alot….i felt him deeply and wanted to touch on him ALL the time but i dont want to do more & mess up our frienship. He said he felt the same way…then when i asked if he could see himself with me he took a long time to answer but said yes however we have “fundemental differences” which we like the same things, goin to the same places, love family…all that…we just veiw things differently whereas he wants me to be a lil less playful and silly and more deep…he’s cranky & uptight about small stuff….so there are our “fundemental differences”. I asked him what he thought our differences were & he didnt want to talk about it….he asked me to call when i got home…i did…he didnt answer…i text’d the next day telling him i hope i didnt complicate things…he hasnt answered me…i havent heard from him in 4 days! im going crazy…i miss him….feel like i did sumthing wrong..confused…i refuse to reach out…i want to be done…but i want him in my life. HELP ME…Iv fallen & i’m having a hard time getting up from this!!! What to do???
#10 by Jay on August 13th, 2010
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you are right there! i am dating a cncer man too and i feel so loved……good luck to both of ya and best wishes
#11 by Jay on August 13th, 2010
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that was for meka..sorry..
#12 by Dawn on September 7th, 2010
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I am a gemini woman and currently talkiing to a cancer guy. He is starting to bore me already and its only been 3 days. I do like him on an intelectual level but i feel like i have to put too much effort into our conversations just to keep him saying something. Im not sure if he would make a great boyfriend but I think he would be a true friend and always there for me when I need him.