Cancer Man and Sagittarius Woman Compatibility


Famous Cancer-Sagittarius Couples: Mike Tyson and Robin Givens, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, Marcel cerdan and Edith Piaf, Billy Crudup and Jennifer Connellly

This smokin’ hot combination is based on crude physics.   People always want what they can’t have.  Cancer wants a sure thing and Sagittarius wants to keep her options open.  As witness Tom Cruise closing in on Katie Holmes, Cancer men are among the most possessive of the zodiac.     Unlike the other two possessive signs we know, Taurus and Scorpio, Cancer tries to bind the person to them with egregious acts of kindness.  Furthermore, Cancer men specialize in rescue operations – what better way to bind someone to you than to make them dependent?  If the crafty little sidler acts indifferent, he’s only buying time to make his next move.  He hides his feelings so as to avoid being rejected or humiliated.  Sagittarius, of course, will have none of any of this.  She’s looking for a good life, adventure, freedom, potential and likely, sooner or later, greener pastures.   Sooner if the crab gets really clingy.  She will ignore his crab-by ways if she gets enough money to keep the good times rolling (his or hers or theirs).  A long trip every now and then goes a long way towards keeping her on the domestic side, though it isn’t appealing to Cancer who wonders, “Why would anyone ever want to leave home?”  Cancer likes to sleep in his own bed every night while Sag wonders what it’s like to watch an eclipse from Mongolia or slurp real onion soup at 3 am at Les Halles.


How to Attract a Cancer Man as a Sagittarius Woman:  Ask him how he likes the food, if appropriate, or slip into the conversation the one line he’s been waiting his whole life to hear, “What’s your favorite restaurant?”  Let him cook for you even if it means actually sitting down somewhere for a meal.   Ask about his mother.

How to Attract a Sagittarius Woman as a Cancer Man:  You have to offer her something without seeming to take something else away.  This is tricky.  Let me give you an example … “I would love to be the father of your children [after we take that ‘round the world cruise][you’re in such great shape,  you’d be a size 10 again in no time][my mom will take care of them so we have plenty of time together].  You’ll probably meet because you look at her and think, “There’s an easy going, open, fun looking gal.”  You’ve noticed how she talks to “everyone”.  Imagine your surprise to find out she’s not easy, just friendly.  And she most certainly on closer scrutiny does talk to “everyone”.   Hmmm.   Now it seems she really might be available and that wasn’t in the original game plan. That’s just your subconscious way of tricking yourself past your fear of rejection.

Degree of Romance:  Neither sign is particularly interested in romance but they will go to great lengths to fuss over one another and nurture mutual well being.  They are equallyconcerned that each stays healthy in mind, body and spirit.

Degree of Passion:  There’s something about a Cancer man that totally personalizes Sagittarius’ passion.  If there is one partner who can direct her arrow of desire, it is Cancer.

Degree of Friendship:  These two share an innocence which makes them quite compatible below the obvious level of superficial differences.   These signs are quincunx one another, different in element, personality and modality [as different as two signs can get].   Both deal with psychic complexities and Jungian archetypes and both have a guileless urge to simply know or “get” the human, eternal truths behind the complexities.  Is this friendship?  I think it’s something even better.

Degree of Marriage:  There is a nice balance of energies that makes a compatible marriage.  Both partners like peace and serenity, good will and win-win nurturing situations.  They tend to bring out the very best in one another.


Progression of Relationship:  Cancer keeps trying to get close and intimate while Sag is going for “getting to know you” fun and adventure.  They quickly learn of each other’s good intentions and how to compromise gracefully.  They really love and take care of one another and any children.  Cancer makes sure they are safe and sound.  Sagittarius makes sure they grow in the light..

Sex:   Sexual passion is the secret glue to this bond.  It is absolutely awesome, very play-full and child like in its openness and light hearted sharing of absolutely everything.  Each time they come together is like the first time!

When It’s Over:  It doesn’t need to end but if it does, it’s likely to be orchestrated kindly without dwelling on mistakes or who’s to  blame.   They both tried their hardest and know the other one did too.  Some things just don’t work out.  The hope will be continued cherishing of what they created together with a win for everyone.  We vote this the couple most likely to stay in touch with their ex’s parents and family.

Our Rating: 10/10

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74 Replies to “Cancer Man and Sagittarius Woman Compatibility”

  1. I am utterly, completely, and undeniably attracted to a Cancerian man that runs a buisness that I go into sometimes.
    I was not drawn to him on looks, but something else that I can NOT put my finger on.
    Things have got odd between us now, we have kissed, acknowledged the attraction, but…. yeah, it has all gone very…difficult.
    When I am in his company, I can actually sense this “vibe” between us, and yet, he can appear pretty distant and almost off hand with me.
    I am a sag, 3rd of December, Pisces Moon.
    Enough is enough (Quote from Love actually).

  2. also he says being with me is like a dream. says he’s never felt this way with the other girls he’s been with. sometimes he tells me he misses me very badly but most of the time when i tell him i miss him, i do not get a proper reply , sometimes i dont even get a reply 🙁

  3. i’m a sag(18 dec) n i’m crazy about tis cancer guy(27th june). i’m jus not able to understand him. one day he’s all nice n sweet, he flirts n cuddles n another day he completely ignores me. sometimes he texts on his own but most of the time i send a 100 texts jus to get one or two replies 🙁 we kiss n make out but never say “i love u”. i’m dying to tell him i love him but unsure if he loves me too 🙁 i don’t want a rejection, not from him. i dont wanna ruin what we have now. he’s a virgin and he knows i’m not. will that be a reason for him to reject me? also he’s really good looking and a sexy dancer. i’m very average looking on the other hand.
    i keep texting him a million times a day even if there’s no reply. will he find me annoying? i really don’t wanna lose him, he’s too perfect for me 🙁 i’m willing to change myself for him too. he’s funny, great with kids and is really sweet. pls help

  4. My man is a July 21 Cancer with a Sag moon. I’m a December 9th Sag with a Cancer moon. He’s Virgo rising, I’m Capricorn rising. We delve in and out of all the difficulties you can imagine with this fire/water combo – I’m externally crude and rude. He’s INTERNALLY crude and rude. I told him as much and we laughed to tears. We’ve fought harder and loved harder for this love than any we’ve known & we’ve both been highway people in the past… It’s the same sort of challenge with each other that it’s always been with ourselves, I suppose. I only hope it’s as lovely and sustainable and healing as it seems… This is a good, home-loving and journey-loving match for us, methinks, though my Sag sun & his Sag moon would often effort at running. While his Cancer sun & my Cancer moon would become so offended as to run and hide out during the worst of the firestorms of honesty and angst. It’s surely a lesson in truth, grounding and trust. It’s an amazing and trying gift to be sure!

  5. It’s so true. I’m falling in love with a sag girl. Mine is July 21, she’s Dec. 2, she’s divorced with one kid. She’s 2 yrs older but looks so young.

    She’s talkative, playful, got sense of humor etc. just like the post here said. I’m not that too serious and not that homeboy. She flirted me first but at that time, I had no interest in her as I didn’t like the way she thought.

    But time passed by, we worked together at the same office, I’m rather her chief, and she had learned so many things from me.

    She thought that I already had girlfriend who also works at the same office (much older than me).

    So she sent me SMS one day that she appreciated all my helps but she’s already had boyfriend and the person I should have taken care is the other woman in our office.

    Before, I talked with her a lot, in good sense of humor, had fun, enjoyed talking. But after this happened, she kept distance between us, so did I.

    I solved the problem by slowing things down. Now she had better understanding about my relationship with the other lady. I talked to her by MSN, leaving her messages, she replied in good response. I even called her a couple times when she’s not shown up at the office as she had to take her daughter to the hospital.

    I just hope to take it slow and let the relationship grows slowly. But, the point is, she has someone, although he lives in other place but I don’t know how often they talk to each other.

    Should I be jealous? I think I should, but I shouldn’t express it. Any advice?

    I think my rising sign is Pisces, my moon is Leo, my Venus is Cancer and hers are also Pisces, Libra. , Scorp, respectively (but not so sure).

    Could this work out?

  6. It must be true then. I am a Sage/Scorp Cusp and 11 years ago I knew this Cancer for 3 months and he CHANGED my life. I met him when I was going through a tough time he was always there for me.I even believed that he had keys to me that I didn’t have. He could have done anything I was weak and fragmented but he always tried to teach me. I used to be just booksmart not too crazy about boys but he’s the one who set me on fire. All of a sudden we were both Gods we just had to claim our crowns LOL. Sometimes I am not sure if he was human or a God. A rebel and intuitive nurturing tumultuous spirit who was kind and protective. The one guy who didn’t let me down he kept me going in one of the worst times of my life he was my drug because I didn’t have real drugs. He is basically a Legend in my mind I wrote down everything he ever said he and I find supernatural aspects in his details. LOL he was the atheist I was trying to save who won me over. For him I was willing to give up my faith and basically follow him to what I believed at the time was Hell. Because I couldn’t imagine a life where he wasn’t there. LOL I was crazy and I was doing everything I could to hold back so as not to frighten him. Maybe it was best that he had to go then I was afraid of how much power he had over me when he wasn’t even trying. It was frightening I was always trying to make a case against him trying to convince myself hat he was bad and all along falling for him more and more because he was kind. Maybe he was a Magician. He’s my Muse. I never loved anybody that much and when I didn’t know what love was I used the pain to show him how I felt and he understood. From childhood I used to be afraid of dying without being understood an old nightmare but he took that fear away forever.

  7. as a sag female i’ve known a cancer guy for a yr and a half. he was a knight in shining armor at first or so it seemed. then he became something else. there were some inhibitions, mistakes on my part…. which he knew about. it ended with a great loss. traumatizing at first. i regenerated and gave it another shot. but something was not quite right. there had been a lot of control, anger.
    and it’s been like treading water in recent times
    in a vast ocean of magic
    take off those soft chains
    there’s a noose with every wave
    i need to breathe
    i’m shaking it all out of my hair
    and coming out.
    walking on land is exhilarating
    leaving that beautiful skin behind, those blue and white scales
    with their myriad rainbows glittering in the sun,
    floating gently
    look…
    how quickly it dissolves!
    those rays are pure
    were those promises real
    was that fool’s gold in my hand
    was i a challenge
    i’m walking away…in peace….
    free, my heart at rest
    at last my soul
    in tranquility
    pulsating with life
    throbbing in yearning
    yet again looking
    peering
    through the darkness
    waiting
    hoping
    to be drenched
    in love.

    Be happy all -may it always be a 10/10 for you!

  8. dear nancy am a cancer male (JUNE 26) and am dating a sag girl(NOV 28) i really really love her but there only one problem she loves me to but doesnt tell she talks abut me with all a friends saying that she loves me alot am her man she wants me for her husband an stuff but one of her friends is my best friend but she doesnt knw and he tells me everything she says but when am wit her its like she scared to talk to me wat do u think i should do i really need ur help plzzzzzzz

  9. Im a sag and I love my carcer boy more than he loves me 🙂 xoxox imnothingfancy ur my one true love i’m your forever and a day baby 🙂

  10. Out of all of the fire signs, I am the most fond of Sagittarius and I always get along nicely with Sag women. Aside from my Cancer sun, I have >3 planets in Sag, so I can relate in some aspects, mainly the need for adventure. Should I ever get the chance to give this combo a try, the cancer in me would prevail in regards to jealousy. But I would definitely be open to a fun, adventurous and outgoing Sag in my life.

    This was a nice read. Usually most astrology sites do all they can to steer Cancer away from this combination.

  11. cindybobindy :

    im a sag girl dating a cancer man, and i dont know if anyone else has felt this either but its extremely to the point of annoyance or loving/ i dont want to leave him yet sometimes i feel ike he doesnt give me the attention i deserve. he doesnt text or call unless i do. he rarely even talks to me but alwasy assures me hes loyal and faithful and doesnt want to break up. its up its down, its a freaking one man show. the thing is i really like him but its to a point where the clinginess and severe love a cancer male is supposed to show doesnt seem to show at all. i wonder if its because his venus is in gemini and hes sort of a player too. who plays the ” im a sweet guy” card. a lot. whats a sag to do?

    ms.vee :

    I am a sag woman dating a cancer guy and ! am truly lost in his world. I am on a norm strong independent woman but when i am with him i lose my self!!!!! he’s younger than me but he caters to my every needs!!!!! one of our biggest gripes is he’s very family oriented and so am i but i feel sometime they take advantage of his kindness…..but i’m madly in love with him and sometime i get scared because i never let my self go for a guy like this before!!!!! oh my god he’s such a protective and i feel so safe with him it’s scary

    Sooo starnge that you say that the same thing hapened to me. N it was the same feelings for me he was a great family man which was a turn on but i never saw myself with a cancer. Idkhe seemed kind of reserved for me in the end

  12. Im a sadge the cancer guy i dated was a blast prolly the funniest guy i ever met he was a italian bronx one, But got angry when i didnt stroke his ego like all the other girls he had dated in the past. In the end he was not as free as i am so it didnt wrk out, he was a homebody which bored me and too serious. ive read that cancers arent compatible with sadges for reasons like that. I did get bored with him bc other than his humor he was very simple and not super motivated or stimulating. I just met another cancer who is super quiet, he shy but social when you speak to him and we hooked up. Hes very into me but idk if hes too layed back for me or not. i dont wana hurt him so ill see where it goes.. he is very sweet caring and smart tho, which is a big turn on

  13. I admit I’m young. But so was my sagittarius ex girlfriend. She gave up on a five year relationship/friendship, just because I don’t have a job and was at a stand still. I won’t be that way forever. I’m aware enough to realize that it’s all a process. We all reach the same points in life at our own pace. spiritually, mentally and physically. Dumping me for that is selling me short and overestimating yourself. Your going to dump someone???. Whatever. Just see what happens. Hope you learn.

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    Sarah :

    So I was going out with this guy and I really liked him, he was a cancer. But he was being kind of closed off and odd around me, unlike before when we were just friends. It turns out he still had feelings for my friend. I’m a sagittarius and we’re still really good friends and we get flirty alot, but I don’t know if were better as friends or not because it seems like I’m the only one trying.

    well whatever you do don’t be too wreckless with your choices. If he’s already odd and closed off then you might be on the bubble. The wrong move will make him just want to never see you again. I’m speaking out of hurt, but still, hehe. It’s a most unfortunate possibility.

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    miss l :

    I have dated cancer men and I am a Sagittarius woman. They are all phony and players. I wouldn’t give these guys a chance anymore. They love drama and are into playing mind games with you.

    I bet you have your own set of games as well. We all do. And no one likes to lose, I think. Life may seem like a game, but it’s not. Ever since my sag ex left me I’ve been almost alone. No replacements in love, just yet, I feel. Thanks for letting me rant. hehe

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    cindybobindy :

    im a sag girl dating a cancer man, and i dont know if anyone else has felt this either but its extremely to the point of annoyance or loving/ i dont want to leave him yet sometimes i feel ike he doesnt give me the attention i deserve. he doesnt text or call unless i do. he rarely even talks to me but alwasy assures me hes loyal and faithful and doesnt want to break up. its up its down, its a freaking one man show. the thing is i really like him but its to a point where the clinginess and severe love a cancer male is supposed to show doesnt seem to show at all. i wonder if its because his venus is in gemini and hes sort of a player too. who plays the ” im a sweet guy” card. a lot. whats a sag to do?

    Sounds like your losing sight of things and letting your ego decide that you are annoyed. I’m a cancer that was basically in those shoes. Maybe you two have problems with your selves. Why don’t you just dump him. hehe. just kidding. speaking out of hurt. 🙂

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    I LOVE HIM! :

    Im in love with a Cancer guy (im a Sagittarius December 17 and proud) and he is absolutely gorgeous.i know he loves me back but the weird thing is we have never met.i love him so much and i cant show it, i know its hurting him and i dont mean to.Ive never felt this strongly about anyone in whole entire life! hes just so amazing. I think he thinks i hate him when i dont.I never do/will.but now i think hes giving up on me, i mean ill never stop loving him, but my friend has a crush on him and she gets all excited everytime hes around and she always runs to me and tells me if he smiled at her and stuff (because she has no idea about me and him by the way)and when she tells me these things i dont get jelous, i just get real mad at him? and im still her friend yeah shes algood.anyway when he feels guilty of like flirting or going out with other girls he gets real depressed about it? and he’ll do something to try not loose me..completely.. and because im mad at him ill just hurt even more.I wont even look at him, and i know he hates it when i dont notice him.i hate doing this, i hate hurting him, but its not as if hes never hurt me.sometimes i think i dont want to do this anymore,i feel like i should just forget it.but then i dont.I cant.and yeah im waayy too stuborn to meet him first and i guess hes just the same.I know we will meet someday.so maybe i shouldnt forget him? and i think the longer it takes for us to meet the more in love we become.? maybe? i hope? im sure? lol. but can we be in love even more then now.? because seriously I LOVE HIM SOOOO MUCH!!!!! ……. lol..by the way this “thing” has been going on for like THREE YEARS, and still we havnt met haha.i love him so much.lol <3
    Do you know what i love even more hehe.that fact that we are like both maori/tongan.<3 just perfect hahaha..WOW i dont know how i know hes Cancer actually hahahahah but its like i know him back to front, like he was my best friend.hes definatley a Cancerian. but i hate it how hes so attrative.!! cause all the girls like him and he flirts with them =(. i just feel so rejected sometimes.i guess thats how he gets back at me though.But i will always love him no matter what..=)
    when i think of all the things hes done just to see me or just to be by me it makes me love him even more! but then…. i feel like crying because i never do anything to show how much i really do love him.because i know im ruining him, hurting him.and everytime he does something eg try and talk to me! ill just end ignoring him.I get so annoyed at myself, and i feel so sorry for him.but when we meet that is actually going to be like the best day of my life.! I imagine us together, and we are like perfect for eachother but then i dont want to think that just incase it doesnt end up happening, but i do anyway haha.I think hes gonna be very possesive of me and he gonna spoil me so much! love him. He gets so annoyed when i talk to or even make contact to other guys and thats funny because my best mates a boy and we hang out like twenty four seven.lol.i cant wait to meet him.
    I love all this Zodiac sign/whatever its called stuff because its so true.guess what i think the guy that im in love with, i think his mother is dead? which is even worse right? and one day i looked at him and he was looking at me so deeply (it was amazing <3) and for a second he looked like a little kid to me, and i felt like his mother???? i know its freaky.??? he must of seen his mother in me? or something because that was one thing ill never forget.When he stares at me its like he wants me so bad! and i love it! I LOVE HIM!
    But do you know whats sad.everytime i ignore him or dont look at him i dont see him for like two weeks straight, i am not joking.and i hate it when he does that because….. i miss him so much….sometimes i wish he would just run up to me, grab me and just kiss me or something!!! holy moly i love him. by the way im only young.hopefully he doesnt break my heart, well actually he has a couple of times but somehow it always gets fixed?? i guess its like he hurts me, i hurt him we love eachother even more?? lol.
    i could just talk about him forever.<3…….i dont know what im tryna ask??? say??? i guess i just wanna tell someone.tell everyone that i love him. =)
    man i can talk. haha

    I LOVE HIM! :

    Im in love with a Cancer guy (im a Sagittarius December 17 and proud) and he is absolutely gorgeous.i know he loves me back but the weird thing is we have never met.i love him so much and i cant show it, i know its hurting him and i dont mean to.Ive never felt this strongly about anyone in whole entire life! hes just so amazing. I think he thinks i hate him when i dont.I never do/will.but now i think hes giving up on me, i mean ill never stop loving him, but my friend has a crush on him and she gets all excited everytime hes around and she always runs to me and tells me if he smiled at her and stuff (because she has no idea about me and him by the way)and when she tells me these things i dont get jelous, i just get real mad at him? and im still her friend yeah shes algood.anyway when he feels guilty of like flirting or going out with other girls he gets real depressed about it? and he’ll do something to try not loose me..completely.. and because im mad at him ill just hurt even more.I wont even look at him, and i know he hates it when i dont notice him.i hate doing this, i hate hurting him, but its not as if hes never hurt me.sometimes i think i dont want to do this anymore,i feel like i should just forget it.but then i dont.I cant.and yeah im waayy too stuborn to meet him first and i guess hes just the same.I know we will meet someday.so maybe i shouldnt forget him? and i think the longer it takes for us to meet the more in love we become.? maybe? i hope? im sure? lol. but can we be in love even more then now.? because seriously I LOVE HIM SOOOO MUCH!!!!! ……. lol..by the way this “thing” has been going on for like THREE YEARS, and still we havnt met haha.i love him so much.lol <3
    Do you know what i love even more hehe.that fact that we are like both maori/tongan.<3 just perfect hahaha..WOW i dont know how i know hes Cancer actually hahahahah but its like i know him back to front, like he was my best friend.hes definatley a Cancerian. but i hate it how hes so attrative.!! cause all the girls like him and he flirts with them =(. i just feel so rejected sometimes.i guess thats how he gets back at me though.But i will always love him no matter what..=)
    when i think of all the things hes done just to see me or just to be by me it makes me love him even more! but then…. i feel like crying because i never do anything to show how much i really do love him.because i know im ruining him, hurting him.and everytime he does something eg try and talk to me! ill just end ignoring him.I get so annoyed at myself, and i feel so sorry for him.but when we meet that is actually going to be like the best day of my life.! I imagine us together, and we are like perfect for eachother but then i dont want to think that just incase it doesnt end up happening, but i do anyway haha.I think hes gonna be very possesive of me and he gonna spoil me so much! love him. He gets so annoyed when i talk to or even make contact to other guys and thats funny because my best mates a boy and we hang out like twenty four seven.lol.i cant wait to meet him.
    I love all this Zodiac sign/whatever its called stuff because its so true.guess what i think the guy that im in love with, i think his mother is dead? which is even worse right? and one day i looked at him and he was looking at me so deeply (it was amazing <3) and for a second he looked like a little kid to me, and i felt like his mother???? i know its freaky.??? he must of seen his mother in me? or something because that was one thing ill never forget.When he stares at me its like he wants me so bad! and i love it! I LOVE HIM!
    But do you know whats sad.everytime i ignore him or dont look at him i dont see him for like two weeks straight, i am not joking.and i hate it when he does that because….. i miss him so much….sometimes i wish he would just run up to me, grab me and just kiss me or something!!! holy moly i love him. by the way im only young.hopefully he doesnt break my heart, well actually he has a couple of times but somehow it always gets fixed?? i guess its like he hurts me, i hurt him we love eachother even more?? lol.
    i could just talk about him forever.<3…….i dont know what im tryna ask??? say??? i guess i just wanna tell someone.tell everyone that i love him. =)
    man i can talk. haha

    I wish my sagittarius would feel like you do. She dumped me for who knows what, but we were together for almost six years. We were really close, and I’ll always have exactly what you describe in your post. I wish she felt the same way. I think she dumped me to get me off the couch, and so she can indulge and lose control of herself. But now I refuse to make contact with her. I would never judge her on her situation. Only on whats in her heart. And her actions. They confuse me, five years of perfect love, then a need for more. More than What I had or have. Oh well. I still feel for her a lot.

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    thecancerboy :

    this is so true. my first love was a cancer (and i’m a sag) and we ended on good terms. neither blaming the other. we were just young and couldn’t make it work. but we are still friends and both still keep in contact with each other’s families. he’s a good boy..

    I’m a cancer and went through a really rough breakup with a sagittarius. She cheated in order to break my heart and get off scott free. We were together for five years and then we outgrew each other I guess. I didn’t want it to end, but she thought I wasn’t bringing anything to the table, and not worth it. I’m trying to forget but it’s not easy. Last time we spoke she was desperate for advice and my company. I just want that special togetherness we use to share. It was so raw and innocent. I don’t know. I was younger then, maybe it was nothing special.

  19. I’m a Sag girl that has been with a Cancer guy for 2 and half years but have known each other since 2006. We lived together and had a ball. I moved to a bigger place and we signed the lease because he has two kids every weekend. As soon as we move, he leaves me in the house for 4 weeks which is about the time we spent there and came back on the weekends with the kids, what happened. Luckily, I just moved back home and my heart is crushed. I loved him and I’m not sure if he’s ever coming back to me. We have things connected, cars, phones, bills. What happened.

  20. Im in love with a Cancer guy (im a Sagittarius December 17 and proud) and he is absolutely gorgeous.i know he loves me back but the weird thing is we have never met.i love him so much and i cant show it, i know its hurting him and i dont mean to.Ive never felt this strongly about anyone in whole entire life! hes just so amazing. I think he thinks i hate him when i dont.I never do/will.but now i think hes giving up on me, i mean ill never stop loving him, but my friend has a crush on him and she gets all excited everytime hes around and she always runs to me and tells me if he smiled at her and stuff (because she has no idea about me and him by the way)and when she tells me these things i dont get jelous, i just get real mad at him? and im still her friend yeah shes algood.anyway when he feels guilty of like flirting or going out with other girls he gets real depressed about it? and he’ll do something to try not loose me..completely.. and because im mad at him ill just hurt even more.I wont even look at him, and i know he hates it when i dont notice him.i hate doing this, i hate hurting him, but its not as if hes never hurt me.sometimes i think i dont want to do this anymore,i feel like i should just forget it.but then i dont.I cant.and yeah im waayy too stuborn to meet him first and i guess hes just the same.I know we will meet someday.so maybe i shouldnt forget him? and i think the longer it takes for us to meet the more in love we become.? maybe? i hope? im sure? lol. but can we be in love even more then now.? because seriously I LOVE HIM SOOOO MUCH!!!!! ……. lol..by the way this “thing” has been going on for like THREE YEARS, and still we havnt met haha.i love him so much.lol <3

    Do you know what i love even more hehe.that fact that we are like both maori/tongan.<3 just perfect hahaha..WOW i dont know how i know hes Cancer actually hahahahah but its like i know him back to front, like he was my best friend.hes definatley a Cancerian. but i hate it how hes so attrative.!! cause all the girls like him and he flirts with them =(. i just feel so rejected sometimes.i guess thats how he gets back at me though.But i will always love him no matter what..=)

    when i think of all the things hes done just to see me or just to be by me it makes me love him even more! but then…. i feel like crying because i never do anything to show how much i really do love him.because i know im ruining him, hurting him.and everytime he does something eg try and talk to me! ill just end ignoring him.I get so annoyed at myself, and i feel so sorry for him.but when we meet that is actually going to be like the best day of my life.! I imagine us together, and we are like perfect for eachother but then i dont want to think that just incase it doesnt end up happening, but i do anyway haha.I think hes gonna be very possesive of me and he gonna spoil me so much! love him. He gets so annoyed when i talk to or even make contact to other guys and thats funny because my best mates a boy and we hang out like twenty four seven.lol.i cant wait to meet him.

    I love all this Zodiac sign/whatever its called stuff because its so true.guess what i think the guy that im in love with, i think his mother is dead? which is even worse right? and one day i looked at him and he was looking at me so deeply (it was amazing <3) and for a second he looked like a little kid to me, and i felt like his mother???? i know its freaky.??? he must of seen his mother in me? or something because that was one thing ill never forget.When he stares at me its like he wants me so bad! and i love it! I LOVE HIM!

    But do you know whats sad.everytime i ignore him or dont look at him i dont see him for like two weeks straight, i am not joking.and i hate it when he does that because….. i miss him so much….sometimes i wish he would just run up to me, grab me and just kiss me or something!!! holy moly i love him. by the way im only young.hopefully he doesnt break my heart, well actually he has a couple of times but somehow it always gets fixed?? i guess its like he hurts me, i hurt him we love eachother even more?? lol.
    i could just talk about him forever.<3…….i dont know what im tryna ask??? say??? i guess i just wanna tell someone.tell everyone that i love him. =)

    man i can talk. haha

  21. I am a sag woman dating a cancer guy and ! am truly lost in his world. I am on a norm strong independent woman but when i am with him i lose my self!!!!! he’s younger than me but he caters to my every needs!!!!! one of our biggest gripes is he’s very family oriented and so am i but i feel sometime they take advantage of his kindness…..but i’m madly in love with him and sometime i get scared because i never let my self go for a guy like this before!!!!! oh my god he’s such a protective and i feel so safe with him it’s scary

  22. this is so true…… my guy is a cancerian m a saggi we broke up a month back cause i was going thru a bad time and cudnt keep him happy so he left saying he is not happy with me. but we zre still in touch and he is still very jealous of all the guy attention m getting. he has been the best bf ever and i want him back in my life. Nowdays m insecured he will start liking someone else. he is still very sexually attracted to me. he still cares and calls whenever he can. he is very confused and sayd i love u but dont see us together in future. I want him back in my life no one has ever made me happy like he has. wat do u think abt it? and wat shud i do?

  23. I have dated cancer men and I am a Sagittarius woman. They are all phony and players. I wouldn’t give these guys a chance anymore. They love drama and are into playing mind games with you.

  24. im a sag girl dating a cancer man, and i dont know if anyone else has felt this either but its extremely to the point of annoyance or loving/ i dont want to leave him yet sometimes i feel ike he doesnt give me the attention i deserve. he doesnt text or call unless i do. he rarely even talks to me but alwasy assures me hes loyal and faithful and doesnt want to break up. its up its down, its a freaking one man show. the thing is i really like him but its to a point where the clinginess and severe love a cancer male is supposed to show doesnt seem to show at all. i wonder if its because his venus is in gemini and hes sort of a player too. who plays the ” im a sweet guy” card. a lot. whats a sag to do?

  25. So I was going out with this guy and I really liked him, he was a cancer. But he was being kind of closed off and odd around me, unlike before when we were just friends. It turns out he still had feelings for my friend. I’m a sagittarius and we’re still really good friends and we get flirty alot, but I don’t know if were better as friends or not because it seems like I’m the only one trying.

  26. I’m a Cancer man in love with a Sag. I have to say that I have never been more in love and more confused. This woman is so crude, shallow and insensitive. At the same time I find her so endearing for some reason. The more I get to know her the more I love her. She angers me to the point of me wanting to explode, but somehow makes me feel like the luckiest guy on earth. She drives me nuts, always talking about needing breast implants, tummy tucks & so many other things I can’t even remember. She is drop dead gorgeous, that’s the funny part. I don’t get it. She has a masculine side to her and is a total foul mouthed tomboy. She has guys chasing after her right and left. I have never been more insecure about myself in my life. I tried leaving her a few times and it ended up in threats of suicide and or in tears. Most days I think she hates me, when we get along I’m on cloud 9. The sex is seriously the best ever, I have never been more turned on by a woman. Deep down I know she has been through hell with men, all I want to do is giver hr a stable loving person that she can count on always. I have no interest in any other women. The only problem I have is trust. My last 2 cheated on me, I can’t help but worry that she will do it to me to. Something keeps telling me she won’t, but heart won’t listen. Also, we’re engaged.. You guys must think we’re nuts.

  27. Im a Sag girl (Nov 25) and my guy is a Cancer (June 28). I am really feeling his love lately and its made me so happy. I recently went for a visit to my folks and the whole entire time I was there he barely texted me. He didn’t call me once. Maybe its just me…IDK! I really want us to work out cause I am so tired of being used and abused. What’s with Cancers? Will he ever really want me?

  28. I am a sag girl who became attracted to a cancer man and absolutely fell head over heels. I have never opened up to anyone the way I did. He’s fun, charming, and flirtatious. What I loved the most is that he seemed protective of me. When I finally confessed my interest in him…he REJECTED me! I have never opened up to anyone before and never will again!

  29. Oh … this sounds beautiful !! just like how i feel now with the cancer guy i met .. we’re not together and there’s no bonds (yet) but hopefully i’d love to go for it to the end. He takes my breath away with his charm and kindness. My only concern is that he’s a very handsome model and he’s got lots of girls around… I dunno what’s the one trait that would appeal to him and makes him focus on one woman …

  30. ok my guy its like i do everything i can to make him happy and trust me n we both care about eachother dearly but i feel like im not geting enough attition from him like he never wants to talk he just wants to sit ther e and like cudle all the time oncewe were cudling on the couch and i was telling him this story and about my day and you kno asking him about his day and he told me to stop tlking and wat i have to say isnt important tto just enjoy our time together in peace…and then a few months later he told me he loved me n i told him i didnt feel the same and so he like closed up and start being a herk and closing me out of his emotions.. and we had all these problems were now doing better…but i guess i just need to kno how to get him to open up to me like truley open up too me and how to teach him or iguess get him to treat me like i want likegive me the attintion i want tlk sweet to me have you know stuff like that..this realy helped with sum things but yea i dnt kno wat to do

  31. Wow
    I am a cancerian, My girl is sagi. (Nov-22), I always put my heart open in front of her and she will respond in return so lightly that I feel she doesnt love me.
    I have tried to end relation so often but she weeps and I have no option other than to agree on whatever she has to offer.
    What should I do???

  32. I fell in love with Sag girl. I will definitely keep all the cons in mind.

    Will try to not to control her. This my new feelings really helped to forget one pisces girl, I couldn’t forget for couple of months :))

    and WOW the rating is 10 out of 10.

    Sag girl attracts me physically, her energy, voice..everything 🙂
    She encouraging me to be more active and even perform feats.
    I don’t like to spend my energy on “unnecessary things” but for her I’m ready to spend all my energy.

    I read a lot about our sign compatibilities..mostly I read that we are not compatible (I was reading russian horoscopes portals) but I found out that western astrologies give much much more chance to us.

    Actually I don’t believe much on horoscopes. But it’s so cool to know that we are compatible too :))

    Thank you!

  33. Thank you for this article, I am into the first 2 days of conversation with a sag. This article gives me insight and hope I can move forward in a more relaxed mannor. After the first day I wanted to tell her off, lol, but I get it. Thanks

  34. I am a sag woman 12/16 and I always attract cancer males…I experience that they all are jealous of my male friends and my friendly outgoing spirit! I love that they nuture me and cater 2 me..but I get broken hearted when the cancer males strays away from home and cheats with other women, then come back home and treats me like nothing ever happened!?!? Are cancers men nature cheaters? I am very loyal and I sometimes feel betrayed by cancer males hooking me into their trap just to keep on living unfaithful….Why do I love them so much? Sex is awesome and I seem to open up in a way I’ve never been with any other male/sign. I’m a sag addicted 2 cancers-Urrrrg!

  35. everything is so true!…i m interested in a guy who is cancer…but he is afraid of comittment coz he is still not able to get over his past relationship…but he doesnt want to lose me too…wat do i do??

  36. Nancy, I laughed so hard cause of this article. It is so true! I am a Sag and my husband is a Cancer. Thank you very much, it was truly fun to read. I love the clingy and crabby side about my cancerian man and tease him with it, calling him mister Crab hee hee

  37. i find this to be pretty true im a sag and my boyfriend is a cancer and aside from his trust issues we do okay well he is alot more lovey dovey than im use to but we’ve been together almost 3 years and i dont think anyone will be leaving anytime soon

  38. I agree with this analysis. My closest friend is a male cancer, and I a sag girl. We bonded pretty well. we share the same ideas, our conversations never get boring, and we make a great team when it comes to completing projects. I call him my humble side-kick. But sometimes I also find it difficult to know what he is really thinking about.
    We are not pursuing any kind of relationships beyond our friendship, maybe because we fear that if things don’t work out, all this great moments together will be in vain.
    Cancers can be loyal, and humble guys to a sag girl, if they don’t become to pushy in the end. 🙂

  39. I’m a Sag girl and my Fiance is a Cancer, and he gives me no freedom or trust because he is totally envious of any guy i speak to or speak about. I try telling him that he can trust me, but he doesn;t want to listen. How can a relationship survive without trust?

  40. I find absolute truth in your analogy,because im a cancer guy dating a sag lady. We hope to get married someday, all things being equal. The only problem we experience is my strong jealousy over her male friends. I think it is because i love her so much and does not want to share her love for me with any other.

  41. this is so true. my first love was a cancer (and i’m a sag) and we ended on good terms. neither blaming the other. we were just young and couldn’t make it work. but we are still friends and both still keep in contact with each other’s families. he’s a good boy..

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