Comments on: Cancer Man and Sagittarius Woman Compatibility

By: S.Hall

S.Hall — Tue, 17 Apr 2012 20:11:19 +0000

Well im a sag woman and my honey is a Cancer man and we are def a great match. I cant lie, we have our share of arguments because we are complete opposites when it comes to expressing ourselves, but the arguments never last long and usually end up in GREAT makeup sex. We’ve been ‘official’ for 3 yrs but we’ve been dealing with each other for about 4 and half years (took us awhile due to his trust issues) but its been amazing. We have a daughter together and we both have a child from a prev relationship so we have a total of 3 kids in the house. We both share the same amount of love and dedication for our family and are often on the same page when it comes to our “Family First” Motto. I think that is the biggest thing that keeps us together. I think we balance each other out. When my “I just wanna be free” attitude kicks in, he helps me calm down and focus. And when he starts to become stale, i can usually get him out that rut. I love our relationship, there are things we need to work on but what relationship is perfect?!

By: Bella gosling

Bella gosling — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 01:44:22 +0000

I too am deeply infatuated with a cancer man..we have the best time and amazing sex when we are together. It’s been a month since we first met and when we see each other we can’t keep our hands off each other. He’s definitely a touchy feely kinda man. Someone who loves giving me his full attention and hold my hand everywhere we go. Our situation is different because he is moving far away in a couple of months and Im trying hard not to get too attached. He knows this and he told me not to fall in love with him. I’m not sure how he can control his feelings. I’m baffled. Of course love takes time but I can’t help but fall deeply more infatuated. I could either stop seeing him or continue this madness but don’t want the heartache at the end. At the same time, I would rather keep seeing him even if for the brief moment because the times we had so far have been so amazing.

By: OntarioChampagne

OntarioChampagne — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 16:35:08 +0000

I’m a Sag and currently flirting with a Cancer workmate. He’s soo sweet (too sweet) and it’s definitely true about the ‘acts of kindness’!! We have a great sexual spark, and he wants to make things official between the two of us, but there’s no way I would date someone like him! He’s way too needy, he’s the type who wants to hold my hand all the time and send me texts for no good reason like ‘just got home, getting into the shower now’, ‘went to the shops to get bread but it was all stale’, ‘the dude at the teller’s is really slow and incompetent’, ‘just got my car washed’. I mean really? Am I supposed to reply to such? Go live your life, and do it quietly, dont text me all day long!! But I can’t keep my hands off him, that’s the problem. Everytime I’m near his body, I want to be against it. And he’s so keen to oblige . But I’m not comfortable with going further sexually while we’re in this unofficial casual status. Sigh. If only he were an Aquarius or something!!

By: Jules

Jules — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 05:30:18 +0000

Holy moly @AnnieD!!!! I just went through the EXACT same experience!!!!!! I am a total Sag…. and he is a definite Cancer… at first it was amazing! He treated me like a queen, amazing!!! I could say anything I wanted around him and he loved me being who I was!!! Then SNAP… out of the blue he started taking an offense to everything I said, even when I was complimenting him. He would always drown himself in his own sorrows, and as I am miss happy-go-lucky and super positive, I would try and bring him up…. but he always refused and INSISTED on being a grinch!! I have never met anyone who can do such a fast 180 degree flip in my life. I go through moments where I think of those good times, and wonder what happened… but everytime I come to the realization that he was all a facade in the beginning…. a negative nelly attracted to my positive personality. It would only be a matter of time before he took me down with him…. which he did!
so Sag woman… be CAREFUL!! never ever sacrifice yourself for someone else, never be in the position where you are afraid to speak out because you know he will take offense. We Sag’s are an amazing group of people, so driven, so positive, very energetic, and so outgoing! Be yourself, and the right man will come along and love up every part of you!!!!!
xoxox Jules

By: Sunny

Sunny — Thu, 01 Mar 2012 08:17:03 +0000

Honestly at first I wasn’t attracted to him… I thought he was being too nice months later I realized he was a good guy so we made it official .. Things were so nice in the beginning buy little by little it started to get a Lil boring and he isolated me and never encouraged me in anything. I was always making him feel good .. Wen were in eachothers presence it feels good and wen I’m not it doesn’t .. I felt like I was boring and I lost my spark especially not hanging out wit Friends- only him.. Everytime I would express my feelings he didn’t meet me on that same emotional deep level.. It’s like they want wat they can’t have but wen they have it they become comfortable .. He says he loves me however we just broke up and I poured my heart out to him but he hasn’t even responded to my txt messages so is that even love? He feels like we shud do separte ways n I wanted to fix it.. Idk I think cancers are very insecure and so they make their partner feel the same unintentionally.

By: echvv

echvv — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 02:28:26 +0000

Yes

By: Armygirl

Armygirl — Sat, 29 Oct 2011 19:06:26 +0000

Im so in love with my cancer man. He is 3 yrs younger then me yet he completes me in so many ways. My man is my soul mate. When we are thousands of miles apart we still feel each others thoughts and know when something is going great or wrong. We are so spiritaully connected. When we are together everyone compliments us on happy we look together. Every since the day i meant him i have been glowing yes i love my cancer man

By: ampi

ampi — Thu, 20 Oct 2011 09:01:22 +0000

hehehehe……u alll r really ………..!!!!! fuuunnyyyy!!!!! dont wory so much ……:) ^_^

By: AnneD

AnneD — Fri, 14 Oct 2011 18:05:57 +0000

I seriously do not think a Cancer man & Sag woman make a good combination. I dated one & let me tell you, never again. He is a true cancer who does “acts of kindness” and supposedly doesn’t ask for anything in return… However, whenever an argument comes up (which was very frequent), he would list the things he’s done for me or the gifts he’s bought. I never asked him to do or buy any of those things! As a Sag, I’m extremely independent & love my freedom. Some Cancer men would rather you be alienated from your friends & does not encourage mending fences; all because he wants you all to himself. Fellow Sag ladies, take heed.. these men will make like he is what you were looking for: someone who can stimulate you intellectually, be adventurous, and accept you for you… Although, he can offer you the stability that we sometimes need (in contrast to our freelance spirit), it ALL comes with a price. I’m sure not all Cancer men are the same but let’s just say this is one mistake I don’t plan on making twice.. even if the sex was great.. the drama, fighting, and “crabbiness” (pun intended) just isn’t worth it..

By: Marcell

Marcell — Fri, 08 Jul 2011 11:05:25 +0000

I cheated on my girlfriend and i feel awful and worse my girlfriend is pregnant i want to tell her but im scared of what she because the last boyfriend she had that cheated on her she attacked him :O

By: colleen

colleen — Thu, 07 Apr 2011 17:08:23 +0000

I am a Sag woman who was married to a Cancer man. He was moody, and very secretive (he was having an affair). Marriage started out great, but slowly fell apart, and ended in disaster.

Cancer men have no desire to communicate, while us Sags have no problem expressing ourselves.

By: Haythi

Haythi — Fri, 04 Feb 2011 21:26:32 +0000

My boyfriend is awesome he loves me we kiss like muh muh

Ahhhhhhhhhh…….

By: Adreanna

Adreanna — Mon, 24 Jan 2011 02:44:19 +0000

yo maria up there is deep dude i wish u could help me but ur not a taurus and ur not dating a pisces but still deep stuff

By: Maria

Maria — Sun, 23 Jan 2011 06:01:47 +0000

@ Rosetta – hi there.. this question really irritates… d right answer is TALK, n d best answer is action.

By: Maria

Maria — Sun, 23 Jan 2011 05:59:15 +0000

@?Melinda….. hi friend u r giving too much importance to him. U kn ow wat??? just avoid him for sometime. If he get back to u curiously he is urs. n if not n still behaves like a friend then just b a frnd… n one most important thing don’t stretch this issue, coz if u will do so then U r gonna b d looser- u will loose those beautiful days n nights, tht positve aura around u. n most imp. wid tht stress u wont b able to concentrate on any of ur imp work coz of which u may loose ur other frnds n close ones.

Instead i wud suggest tht once he reverts back after ur avoidance, simply ask him whether he lovs u or not??

REMEMBER: sympathy is not d answer n m sure u r not even looking for it. Even GOD does’nt help u unless U HELP URSELF. And only u can help urself NOBODY ELSE.

N if his answer is “NO”. then forget him. i know is not easy but its not too hard. u r just 18. u have loooooong life to live.

N m sure god must have thought of a better partner for U.

I’m not a philosopher, but all d above written is a personal experience, trust me it really worked for me. n m really enjoying my life.

By: Rosetta

Rosetta — Sun, 23 Jan 2011 04:48:26 +0000

Will we ever get married

By: melinda

melinda — Sat, 22 Jan 2011 20:55:21 +0000

well said thank u
but still i don’t get why last week he asked me to start dressing up. asked me to try n look sexy. makes me feel like looks are wat matters

By: anonymous

anonymous — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 15:44:32 +0000

hmmmmm……i think when there is tru luv nothing comes in between……

By: melinda

melinda — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 14:11:00 +0000

well from where i come from, ppl make a big deal of it. losing virginity is taboo and good looks a requirement. sad.

By: anonymous

anonymous — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 12:20:06 +0000

@ melinda…… hey girl being not virgin or gud looking thing is no reasons for he being giving no replies …. maybe something else going on with him /:) Don’t worry every thing will be fine hey just one thing i can’t digest….. boy n virgin hahahaha

By: Makeda

Makeda — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 03:37:29 +0000

Um, I meant my Venus is Capricorn, and my Mars is Virgo.

By: Makeda

Makeda — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 03:36:32 +0000

I should also add, that I am incredibly choosy where men are concerned, I have made a few mistakes, but in general, I am petty picky, my venus is Capricorn and my Venus is Virgo, not too sure if this has a major impact or not.
I am not a bunny boiler, have no issue attracting guys, and yet…. this slightly geeky guy who I was not attracted to from the off start has got under my skin and I wish I could just reverse it really.
I am going away for a few days to the coast to unwind, nurture my soul(I love the sea) and put things in perspective away from the city noise.
God knows what has occured, I class it as a “subconscious attraction”, a lot harder to move on from I feel.

By: Makeda

Makeda — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 03:27:58 +0000

I am utterly, completely, and undeniably attracted to a Cancerian man that runs a buisness that I go into sometimes.
I was not drawn to him on looks, but something else that I can NOT put my finger on.
Things have got odd between us now, we have kissed, acknowledged the attraction, but…. yeah, it has all gone very…difficult.
When I am in his company, I can actually sense this “vibe” between us, and yet, he can appear pretty distant and almost off hand with me.
I am a sag, 3rd of December, Pisces Moon.
Enough is enough (Quote from Love actually).

By: melinda

melinda — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 00:27:19 +0000

also he says being with me is like a dream. says he’s never felt this way with the other girls he’s been with. sometimes he tells me he misses me very badly but most of the time when i tell him i miss him, i do not get a proper reply , sometimes i dont even get a reply

By: melinda

melinda — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 00:05:18 +0000

i’m a sag(18 dec) n i’m crazy about tis cancer guy(27th june). i’m jus not able to understand him. one day he’s all nice n sweet, he flirts n cuddles n another day he completely ignores me. sometimes he texts on his own but most of the time i send a 100 texts jus to get one or two replies we kiss n make out but never say “i love u”. i’m dying to tell him i love him but unsure if he loves me too i don’t want a rejection, not from him. i dont wanna ruin what we have now. he’s a virgin and he knows i’m not. will that be a reason for him to reject me? also he’s really good looking and a sexy dancer. i’m very average looking on the other hand.
i keep texting him a million times a day even if there’s no reply. will he find me annoying? i really don’t wanna lose him, he’s too perfect for me i’m willing to change myself for him too. he’s funny, great with kids and is really sweet. pls help

By: DCpegasus

DCpegasus — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 08:07:34 +0000

My man is a July 21 Cancer with a Sag moon. I’m a December 9th Sag with a Cancer moon. He’s Virgo rising, I’m Capricorn rising. We delve in and out of all the difficulties you can imagine with this fire/water combo – I’m externally crude and rude. He’s INTERNALLY crude and rude. I told him as much and we laughed to tears. We’ve fought harder and loved harder for this love than any we’ve known & we’ve both been highway people in the past… It’s the same sort of challenge with each other that it’s always been with ourselves, I suppose. I only hope it’s as lovely and sustainable and healing as it seems… This is a good, home-loving and journey-loving match for us, methinks, though my Sag sun & his Sag moon would often effort at running. While his Cancer sun & my Cancer moon would become so offended as to run and hide out during the worst of the firestorms of honesty and angst. It’s surely a lesson in truth, grounding and trust. It’s an amazing and trying gift to be sure!