Comments on: Cancer Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility

By: GlambertVirgo4ever

GlambertVirgo4ever — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 00:26:06 +0000

I’m a Virgo woman and I was dating a cancer man. We dated for 7 months. We had an AMAZING relationship. We had that relationship everyone dreams of. On new years eve we layed on a blanket in his backyard and looked at the stars until the fireworks started going off. I could literally tell him everything. We were best friends and lovers at the same time. I could be a total goofball around him. Now it’s been 5 months sense we broke up and we haven’t talked in almost 4 months. I miss him. I try to tell myself that I don’t need him and I can find someone better but there’s a part of me that won’t let him go.

By: Darth

Darth — Sat, 05 Nov 2011 22:37:30 +0000

This is my second post, my other one is on the previous page. Posted a year ago.

Sadly, my home town is under siege and I can’t hope to see my family or the girl I miss until the government over there is toppled and things settle down.

FeelsReal: Thanks for the tip. I know she does. Sometimes, I suppose, we Cancers need a bit of a push like that. I know she’s still thinking about me… heck, loves me to bits. I started talking over skype with her and her family this year, and she’s always shown that same enthusiasm and keen affection she refuses to hide from me.

Maybe it’s about time I returned the favour! I promise, I’m getting engaged to that girl. If only fate would allow.

By: Davide Rohansa

Davide Rohansa — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 01:17:34 +0000

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By: FeelsReal

FeelsReal — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 14:31:46 +0000

…trying to end it with him still. I know these guys need time to sort out their feelings but…someone needs to say it (and I know you investigative Cancer guys are reading this…take heed!)..IF YOU LOVE US, TELL US! I guarantee you, we love you too. You had us at hello. If we didnt love you, and it wasnt “safe”, we wouldnt have waited around for so long while you were busily imagining our future together.

By: FeelsReal

FeelsReal — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 14:17:06 +0000

Hi bb. I’m in the exact same thing with my Cancer man and I’ve reached a place where I need to let go of him before my heart completely disintegrates altogether from mere lack of attention. My Cancer guy and I met 5 months ago…before summer began. We saw each other often in the beginning and I was in Heaven during each and every moment with him. I am so comforrable with him though he was initially very shy with me. Things are progressing at a snail’s pace. Everytime we make love We both are so completely in love and happy and then he finds ways (or makes excuses) not to see me for 2 or 3 weeks. I finally told him the other day that I feel taken for granted as I’m always the one doing everything to keep us going. He was hurt and I was hurt after saying it too and I ended up apologizing! I’m in deep with this crab and I love him so much I’m afraid I wobt be able to breathe withiut him in my life. The problem is..he’s never taken me out, I’ve not met any of his friends, and he has never invited me to his house. How long is this disappearing and not committing thing going to go on for? Would be great to get some feedback from some Cancer gentlemen out there.

My heart is getting weak now and I’m trying to

By: bb

bb — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 21:13:53 +0000

I am a Virgo woman and I am with a Cancer man for about 4 month. I feel a very deep connection to him that I never felt before. I met him and after 5 min talking to him I new I wanted him.And I made the first move.I don’t normally trust man that quick.But he is pulling away from me often and I don’t know how he feels about me. I text him and he won’t text back only when I ask him when he got time for me he text me back.he never ask me to see me.Sometimes he is cold and when he has a drink he is not. I can’t place him. But last week he was very upset (been to a funeral) and he came to me for support and cried. He is often away with his mates and I have never been to his house. He got a few problems with his ex.She comes to his house causing trouble.He said that he needs to get to know me better before he let me in his house.He is very careful and not very trustworthy.I just can’t get him to open up and get close to me.But when we sleep together he opens up and is just concern about me.Can someone give me some advice.

By: virgogirl

virgogirl — Fri, 29 Jul 2011 03:57:42 +0000

This relationship takes time. It has been very difficult communicating with my cancer man, and we have been very luck to have a mutual friend to pulverize most of those barriers. If it wasn’t for her this relationship would not have taken off because we both trust her and confide in her, and she was pretty much the translator. That saved a lot of time. Both of us have a thick wall up and are very critical. We both have this push and pull thing going on. The most important thing, like the article says, is trust. If there is no trust, there is no-go. And it must be remembered that both of us, no matter how we say what we say, our intentions are always genuine. Once those barriers were crushed, there was this connection that neither of us have ever had in our lives, only dreamed of. Again, I stress, trust was/is the biggest factor. There is no hurry. Anxious feelings, yes. But no hurry. And I hope and dream of the day, whenever that day may come, when both of us can just fall into each others’ arms. I will forever love this man unconditionally.

By: jaylo

jaylo — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 23:20:45 +0000

i am a virgo woman with a cancer man things are kool and the relationship is great we have our pros and cons he’s 52 and i’m 38 maybe its the age but the only dispute we have is he has other female friends that call that is his past but he says its nothing cause im who he chose is it insecurity or what cause he’s such a great man he spols me and wines and dines me and we live together and have been since day 4 of the relationship ……am i tripping or what???

By: Danny

Danny — Wed, 25 May 2011 20:40:03 +0000

Im a cancer man trying to win the heart of a virgo woman she likes me but she dosent trust because she thinks im a liar i admit i do lie alot but i had never lied to her i keep asking her do she trust me and she says no because she thinks im messing around with two other women i had never messed around with no other two women there just my friend if they like i cant help it and yes i can be a little flirtatous but really my only focus is her because i really trust her

By: Anthony

Anthony — Wed, 11 May 2011 23:12:55 +0000

Anthony : I’m a Cancer man currently with a young Virgo woman ( by young I mean she’s 21) but I am only 24 so I guess i’m young as well. My point is a relationship is what u make it 2 be, both me and her know how to push each others buttons with our words and according to this passage that is a natural thing. At the same time we hav both learned already that being too critical of the other almost always does nothing but irritate one of us. I am completely happy with her and I do honestly believe she is my soulmate and the one person in this world I was meant to love this way. I have never even dreamed of being with another person after her, and she tells me that she feels the same. We have found that our bond not just as male and female that love each other is special but our bond as Cancer and Virgo is something to be proud of and cherished because we understand each other so well. She is my queen and I her king and I would fight all the world just to keep her safe, happy, and by my side til death do us part…

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By: Anthony

Anthony — Wed, 11 May 2011 23:11:10 +0000

I’m a Cancer man currently with a young Virgo woman ( by young I mean she’s 21) but I am only 24 so I guess i’m young as well. My point is a relationship is what u make it 2 be, both me and her know how to push each others buttons with our words and according to this passage that is a natural thing. At the same time we hav both learned already that being too critical of the other almost always does nothing but irritate one of us. I am completely happy with her and I do honestly believe she is my soulmate and the one person in this world I was meant to love this way. I have never even dreamed of being with another person after her, and she tells me that she feels the same. We have found that our bond not just as male and female that love each other is special but our bond as Cancer and Virgo is something to be proud of and cherished because we understand each other so well. She is my queen and I her king and I would fight all the world just to keep her safe, happy, and by my side til death do us part…

By: Danny

Danny — Thu, 14 Apr 2011 21:45:50 +0000

I think i like this virgo girl but idk what to say to her she just got out of a terrible relationship and i know how that feels i wanna tell her one of my stories about my ex but idk what to expect cuz i heard virgos are hard to get

By: Enigma

Enigma — Sat, 19 Mar 2011 14:49:45 +0000

Hi Nancy, just spotted a typo error in the first paragraph.

“Both the Virgo man and Cancer woman…”

It’s Virgo woman and Cancer man.

By: Nicky

Nicky — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 23:37:06 +0000

Virgo woman here with a cancer man. this is so not working out. have this cap guy keeps calling me mebe will give it a shot. done with crabs!

By: pan

pan — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 08:59:51 +0000

everytime i’ve been around a virgo woman -it is as if i somehow ‘know’ it, as if somehow ‘know’ her (too relaxed- &fun), as if there is some sort of connection, interestingly enough, after beginning to know her i found out she’s a virgo, unfortunately it never really works -plus my first and only real love was a virgo and i have to admit 2things: my best and my worst experiences ever in life-come from that very same person,

indeed i think that this is totally a wrong match (-i suppose that ‘astrologically’ speaking, since i have a virgo ascendant and some houses on capricorn i guess that make me a bit down to earth and critical as well -and that could be a bit of a problem too? (?))

anyway i really believe what i said above: not a good match

By: M

Fri, 04 Mar 2011 00:58:58 +0000

Virgo woman here with a Cancer man! We are very happy! Took some time for us to fully commit to each other because we were both hurt in our previous relationships. But it was worth the wait. I see forever with him.

By: Marguerite

Marguerite — Wed, 09 Feb 2011 15:24:05 +0000

We had a love after long distance talk over the phone. he has so much respect on me as I have very strong view on both political and social issues. later on….he made a move by bringing emotional issues, my heart melted as I can be the one who can save him.

Like any other cancerian, he is so emotional and changing mood so fast. It was fascinating to follow his mood and somehow it really turned me on. The sex life: woh, unimaginable…..

watch out: very manipulative guy, but I dominate everything and he accepts. so we are in peace.

By: jane

jane — Tue, 08 Feb 2011 03:53:45 +0000

A friend of mine introduced me to her best friend and he’s a Cancer. When we first got to talking, he was really sweet and funny. Then as we got closer, he became cute and mushy and supportive and now its gotten to the point where everything he says and does is a turn on. There’s so much passion that it really overwhelms me. I’m not sure if its “love” yet, but I can totally see myself with him for a long time. I’m a Virgo woman by the way.

By: denise

denise — Wed, 02 Feb 2011 04:29:23 +0000

im a virgo wonman and ive been wit a cancer man… and it did work out he want me and everyother women…… but we still keep in touch hell we got to have a son together…. at first it was wonderful then it just turned for the worst but like my mommy say a man is a man

By: Marta

Marta — Mon, 24 Jan 2011 05:55:45 +0000

Hi. My cancer man is so much as you described, but he can be so aloof when talking about future. He and I (Virgo female) are both 38 years old. I am dying to make us a family and have a child with him. He seems to love family and appreciate children. However, he says that “I could maybe have 1 kid” and then talks about his concern for having a child “this late in the game”. He’s had longterm relationships but never married. I’m trying to determine if this attitude towards having children is the reason why. He is very much the typical cancer as far as being sensitive and cacooning himself with his “crab-like” cancer exterior. I”ve been with him for 4 months and I know that I’m sickningly in love with this man, but he is so cautious that I don”t know if he”s ever going to open up enough to me to make a lifelong commitment with me. I need a sign of how long to wait. I don’t want to waste precious time. I have had loss in my life and place a huge value on time now, not to mention the fact that I’m not going to be child bearing forever.

By: mery

mery — Tue, 11 Jan 2011 21:30:04 +0000

holas, soy mujer virgo, conoci un cancer hace 9 meses el se mostraba muy alegre y dulce conmigo y con el resto de personas, me miraba y me ponia muy nerviosa hasta q me llego a gustar mucho hace tres mese me pidio salir con el, escuchamos musica tomamos nos besamos y yo me senti un poco mal le dije q no queria verlo me daba nervios y el me dijo q actuara como si nada huvier pasado que no me ponga nerviosa y q el actuaria tambien asi , nos vimos igual en el trabajo salimos por segunta ves tomamos tubimos intimidada y me dijo que queria estar comigo le dije q no(me moria por el pero queria que me insista para estar segura de lo q el decia)nos seguiasmos viendo en el trabajo y el se dio cuenta que me gustaba mucho, salimos por tercera ves, volvimos a tener intimidad y le pregunte que eramos y me dijo pareja le mire lo bese y el me dijo ¿estas alegre verdad? y yo le espondi ” NO no es eso, estoy de frio y necesito estar en tus brazos”, nso despedimos y el en ese dia no me llamo al dia siguente tampoco al tercer dia nos encontramos me saludo si ninguna paricularidad me trata como trata al ressto de personas .
no se q hacer a momentos me ahogo en lagrimas por q estoy enamora de el , y al parecer el esta interesado en otra chica del trabajo, aveces ni me mira me lastima tantooo
me lleva por 12 años tengo 28 años el es soltero .
por favor necesito consejossss

By: sf

sf — Sat, 20 Nov 2010 16:13:08 +0000

By: SM

SM — Sat, 20 Nov 2010 05:40:00 +0000

WOW…This is so truexD
My boyfriend is a cancer and we LOVE EACH OTHER SOSOSOSO MUCH!!!
He liked me before liked him and he asked me out i said yes…duh but then i kind of got back together wid my X i know GAAAAY!!!
So,he cried over me and he got HELL pissed,i felt so bad!!!! Then he said on facebook he was in a relationship with someone eles??? well, i knew he was trying 2 mess with me amd it worked… but now were back together and EVERYONE says we look great together and i really love him! <#

By: sha

sha — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 19:45:53 +0000

never got along with cancer signs

By: sf

sf — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 19:02:27 +0000

i met this cancer guy 3 yrs ago and felt like he was what i was looking for all my life. and i was looking long and hard. there was great chemistry n all kinds of compatibility but itwas still a struggle. cancer guys won’t do the right thing…they know it but they wont. i dont know why. a crab will get all whiny and excuse-y, take the easy way out n muddle their way thru life. i am a virgo woman. i hate a messy life. he use to say iam 2 detailed but i say its focus. u need that togive yourself a chance to expperience life really n depth. it was hard at first but he gets it now. remember what goes around comes around…that’s karma and u only want the good kind.

By: Andreas

Andreas — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 00:22:22 +0000

Hi Nancy- im a cancer man who was engaged to a virgo woman. i had some personal issues when we were together and also faced some extenuating circumstances that put me into a depression. She and I lost faith in each other and I left her 5 months prior to the wedding. I was very angry and confused at the time, and not thinking clearly. We were together 9 years and I regret leaving her with all my heart. I still feel that she is my soulmate. She is a very proud, strong woman and she is seeing a new man now. I want to get her back and keep hope that we will be reunited one day, but she feels that I humiliated her and so she’ll never see me the same way again (even though in the past year and a half since we broke up, i’ve grown tremendously and am bettering myself every day). I don’t know what to do because if I continue to hold onto my love for her and she never gives me another chance, then I will have wasted time and opportunities to be happy. Please tell me what you think, as I really liked your description of the cancer man/virgo woman relationship. It was very close to what our relationship was like.