Capricorn Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility
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In ancient esoteric astrology, Saturn ruled the signs of both Capricorn and Aquarius. Thus the Capricorn man and Aquarius woman have a secret connection. Saturn is the most conservative planet, while Uranus, modern-ruler of Aquarius, is the most progressive, the most revolutionary. Sometimes you find them combined in an individual like Abraham Lincoln, who epitomizes the best qualities of both, but sometimes you find a rather conservative Aquarius, such as Ronald Reagan. So that’s what’s going on when these two get together in a relationship? The Capricorn man is looking for his more conservative element and the Aquarius woman is looking for some vision to test her practicality. This can be a great — albeit serious — match.
How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Capricorn Man: If you’re a Capricorn man trying to attract an Aquarius woman, you can be as serous as you are, Capricorn. If you’re attracted to this lady it’s because you want a visionary. You need to build your castles in the sky first, where they belong, and she is the one to help you, so get into a good conversation with her, let her into your mind and let her re-arrange the furniture there and put some potted plants around in colors you’ve never heard of. Pretty soon you’ll be thinking outside the box.
How to Attract a Capricorn Man as an Aquarius Woman: If you’re a Aquarius woman trying to attract a Capricorn man, it actually works okay to use craigslist, match.com or another site of your choice because the Internet is ruled by Aquarians. They were using special means for dating long before these sites became popular. Aquarians are able to reach out to people of like mind using the invisible plane of vibrations in a process akin to telepathy. It also works to picture clearly the person you have in mind in a process called creative visualization which was invented by an Aquarian. In other words distance is no problem. You can have what you want. Just use extra-sensory means.
Degree of Romance: If any sign would bring out romance in an Aquarius woman it would be a Capricorn guy. He is so old-fashioned as to be quaint. This touches her heart in an uncharacteristic moment of tenderness. They may also find it helpful to play beautiful music while courting. Aquarius men are highly sensitive to musical vibrations. It is really their favorite language and it can certainly be the language of love. If you want romance, play Chopin. If you want passion play Rachmaninoff.
Degree of Passion: Speaking of passion, this sensory oriented experience can be approximated by these two if accompanied by music. It lowers the high Aquarius vibration down into the lower chakras where energy is transmuted from mind to sex. Aquarius do a lot of transmutation of energy. If you’re a Capricorn you may not understand, but your Aquarius lady does. Capricorn is by nature quite romantic and lusty which brings out any ladylike qualities the Aquarius woman has hidden in there somewhere and despite her protestation that they’re just friends.
Degree of Friendship: Aquarius women talk endlessly about friendship and elevate it to an ideal over romantic love, and even agape but Capricorn is actually one sign that might be able to turn into a real friend. There is a puppy-like quality to a Capricorn in the presence of relaxed others. Like the little dog yapping at the heels of the Aquarius Fool of the Tarot deck, they can be great traveling companions. She reaches for the visionary limits while he trots along with four feet on the ground.
Degree of Marriage: This makes a good marriage, particularly in very young or very old couples, or those not planning on having children. The relationship has a studious, productive, practical quality to it that makes for a good partnership. Aquarius is the idealist. Capricorn is a realist. Together they can set the limits for what is really possible. Also as I mentioned both of these signs are basically conservative in nature and they do honor the collective advantage of legal marriage.
Progression of Relationship: This relationship between a Capricorn man and Aquarius woman will follow a predictable pattern of courtship. Capricorn is slow and cautious, conservative and sure to follow all the rules — also because he is shy and afraid of rejection. The Aquarius lady will not be particularly impressed by this because she’s spacing in and out all the time. Her mind is pretty much bound to always be elsewhere but she does appreciate his attentiveness when she stops to think about it and she also enjoys the fact that he does not pressure their friendship into more until she is good and ready.
Sex: Having sex together is a way of staying grounded. It is an important day-to-day bond between these two that adds flesh to the vision, so to speak. Their world is full of possibilities. They are chasing rainbows and building castles in the air. The real event of sex that takes place between the two real people is probably as real as they’ll ever get together. Capricorn is an ardent and lustful lover while Aquarius provides the imagination and playfulness that keeps it lively.
Our Rating: 9/10.
















wow. we are like opposites, but still the understanding is out of this world.. we can talk for hours and the sex is the best i have ever HAD. It started of slow and not that exciting but really quickly became WOW after 6 months im the happiest women on earth. Real potential here… love my cappy man
i think the key is giving the cap man his space and showing your affections to him… that is when they open up. so worth it
my best friends, partner in life and lover.
Thanks for the great feedback, Daniela! I”m glad you’re so happy.
Explosive is all I can say without getting in trouble. We met online, and after two months of talking we met each other. The connection was unbelievable, like wild fire.
So happy for you, Tom. It’s a great combination so enjoy! I also love how “Online” is working for my clients. What did we ever do before match.com ?
mhh..what can i say. He was crazy about me when he first laid his eyes on me and I didn’t even want him next to me! ha! He found my numbers, pursued me untill I gave in. The sex …too mind blowing. he’s much older but sweet and kind. Somehow I think we’ll never trully connect ..dunno. I find him being too serious and I’m not sure if I can be tied down. mhh. not sure not sure. He calls sometimes, the he doesn’t ..I call. It’s a mess but when in bed, it’s a totally different story.
I met him on myspace!! lol.. It started out just “okay”, but now it’s awesome. We’ve been in a serious relationship for 7 months, and it really has only gotten better with time. The only minor flaws that affect our relationship are his overly serious manner and me being too playful and affectionate for him. We’re always pretty good at working through our problems though.
im an aqua girl and i LOVE my cappy man too!! we started out as friends but that didnt last long lol.. the chemistry between us was too powerful to deny. we’ve been together almost a year and i can truly say i have found the love of my life.. i want nothing more than to spend my life with him. its an intense relationship to say the least– he tries to dominate me and be like a father figure which drives me crazy, and i REBEL fiercely (im aquarius, what can I say) but we have an incredible bond, mutual respect and BIG, big dreams and with him for the first time my dreams seem possible.
I’ve known this Aquarius girl for over six years now. I want to get to know her on a more intimate level, but it’s a long-distance friendship at the moment. She’s in my life one moment, then gone for months at a time, yet I know she’ll be back to tell me all about how things are going with her. Just absolutely fascinating how it’s like we don’t even skip a beat.
Any way I can find a way into her life as more than just that friend from afar?
This is bogus.
It could be because you’re a LEO and you have a fascination for Aquarius (polar opposites).
Aquarius women are BAD mothers. Well, the majority that is. Capricorn men are the fathers of the zodiac. There is no way this match is 9/10. More like 6/10.
You already know this, you mentioned that marriage would be great for a Capricorn man and Aquarius woman if there are no kids involved.
Be real. Capricorn men WANT children. They would never marry a Aquarius woman.
If he does, it’s because Aquarius knows that the she is unfit for the Capricorn. What do Aquarius women do when they are UNFIT..they fake it.
Capricorn men will noticed that Aquarius women are fake.
Unfortunately for you, Nancy, being a Leo…Aquarius have you wrapped around their finger.
Get real.
im an aquarius and i adore my little girl and i devote all my time to my daughter, bad mothers, bad attitude to have u should see the best in every body xx
One of the best articles I have seen on capricorn men with aquarius women.
I know more than you – the capricorn I like loves kids but does not want children of his own. He needs lots of attention and therefore would get jealous as a lot of men do when their wives are very dedicated to their children.
Also, I have very high standards about how kids should be raised and what makes a good mother. I guess I got it off my Aquarian (sun&moon) mother who is selfless and made my Leo (sun&moon) father and myself her world!
You sound very bitter but should realise that no two aquarians are the same. So please don’t tar us all with the same brush.
aquarius women ARE bad mothers.
get over it.
I agree with I know more than you. My mother and her husband are Aquarius & Capricorn. They stayed together to defy even their own children, who BEGGED them to divorce. My Aquarius mom did whatever the hell she wanted, without rhyme or reason. She took horrible care of us but was always socializing and being the life of the party and the belle of the ball. In public they acted like they were wealthy and carefree but at home they fought like cats and dogs. Their own children begged them to divorce…
Hi I am a Aquarian female with a Capricorn guy and three children. 19, 10 and 23 months
It relly dose depend on what your prioroties are as a Aquarian, some of us like to be the life and sole always out and socialising, then you have Aquarians like myself
My family comes first. Nothing before my family.-
I think you guys are being ignorant and narrow minded about aquariuses being bad mothers. I have a friend who has 6 children, who respect her and love her. Though, some could argue that she needs to be more strict. And me on the other hand, have wanted children since I was a little girl. Like Mel said, to some of us family comes first. You might as well say there’s no hope for love because a guy or two has been rude to you. Don’t take your experiences and blame the whole group for it.
My mom is an aquarius and she wasnt a very good mom to us growing up. She fed us and kept a roof over our heads but thats about it. Now that im older its easy to see that all this time she was waiting for us to show her love so that she could learn to show us love. She never understood that she had to show us first. I am an aquarius woman as well but i have learned from my moms mistakes. I have always wanted children and i know from the bottom of my heart that i will be a good mother that adores her child(ren).
also about capricorn male and aquarius female…i think this is dead on. I am in a relationship with a capricorn and this article is the most dead on in my opinion. My capi and i understand each other to the core. I know work is important to him he knows my fantasy world is where i am confortable…we love each others differences and similarities alike!
We actually knew immediately that we had found our ideal partner to have children with. I can see him being an amazing father and he can see the same in me.
My mother’s an Aquarius and is an extremely devoted, giving, affectionate mother…also a great friend. maybe it’s her Taurus moon? (btw I’m a Capricorn- maybe we just mesh well…) best of luck Aqua mom’s
I’ve been married to a capricorn man for 6 years and we have a son together. Were fine until he has a bipolar emotional breakdown at least three or four times a year. Then he’s normal again. When he’s normal he’s amazing to be around. Then all over again he goes in his bipolar phase and takes it out on everybody. I have noticed this in almost all aquarius and capricorn relationships. Im an aquarian woman with a capricorn rising. I live for my family and I’m a good mother.
Aquarius women are BADDDD mothers. It is sooo true!
well well well!! Whaddaya know! just when you think mommy’s little angel is studying hard she just aint. The bitch is bitchin about you.You just wait till you get ur bitch ass home missy!! I’ll stick my foot up #@$!#@$#@.. Dad should’ve wasted you in the toilet two decades ago..
Help meee I ‘ve been raising satan all along.Whatta biatch!
Aquarius women care more about their friends than they do about their family. I know an Aqua biatch who LEFT her daughter’s 3rd birthday JUST to go cater to her friend who was having some kind of crises. I feel so bad for kids with Aqua moms.. they are horrible!!!
this is the most beautiful combination..word cannot describe how it felt.i just love capricorn men!! (im an aquarius born on a aqua/cappy cusp). even though my relationship was casual,aloof and had more “friendly” vibe to it than romantic,it is still the most enjoyable relationship ive been in..i wish hed come back but i know he wont
lets just hope i find someone as divine
I’m an Aquarius and I’m currently not in a relationship with a Capricorn man but they seem like they would be the ideal match for me. I’m not a social butterfly type of Aquarius and I prefer the comfort of a small group of people to a crowd. The thing that I like about them is that they seem mysterious, honest, caring, the way they extend themselves for the one’s they love, intelligence and kindness. I also really sense that they have big hearts which I love. I hope I can find a man like that
To say that Aquarians are bad mothers is insulting to Aquarius women all around. Perhaps you’ve had a bad experience with an Aquarius mother and that sucks for you but it doesn’t make them all the same. I had a HORRIBLE relationship with a Taurus and it doesn’t mean all Taurus men are bad boyfriends. It just means that PERSON had something wrong with them. Calm down, where zodiac is true to a sense, people can deviate from their sign based upon how they were raised and things they’ve been through. In the end people are people, don’t assume.
I recently reconnected with my very first love, a cappy. I was 12, he 14 when we met. He was the first boy I ever kissed! I loved him then and I love him even more now, for the man that he has become. We are different in some aspects, but we connect in a real way…mentally, emotionally and physically. Never a more ardent, passionate, loving man! I’m crazy about him!
I am an Aquarian woman and I am deeply in love with a Cappy! We have known each other since we were toddlers. I never wanted to cross the line and mess up our friendship but I gave in recently and I am not sorry that I did! I feel that he is the one for me and I have felt this way for years. I feel so comfortable around him. We are not together just friends with benefits, as they say. But I do want more than anything to be with him, I am just scared to pursue it because I don’t want to push him away! I have never loved a man as much as I love him! Any ideas? I am so open to suggestions?!?!
BTW I am an Aquarian mom and I love my two children to death. Nothing or no one comes before them ever! Everyone is entitled to their opinions as long as you know that they are just that…OPINIONS! Funny thing about opinions is they really don’t mean a thing to no one except that person!
I am also an Aquarian mother who is insulted by the rude comments. I have three children who I love to death an would do anything for. I also am not the typical socialite aquarian. I am quiet and shy and would rather hang out with my kids than friends any day! I also have a relationship with a Capricorn man and I wouldn’t trade it in for the world! He is wonderful… loving, thoughtful, helpful to everyone. He has his moments but I know when he needs space. We also have this undeniable bond that keeps us connected like two magnets flipped over pulling towards
eachother. For us this article is right on down to the music. I think it just depends on the Aquarius and Capricorn
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Wow. This is just like it is for me.
I’ve known my Cappy man for a year and a half.. and he tried really hard to get me to notice him.. hehe, which I did not. He just wasn’t good enough for me. But, that was BEFORE we started talking to one another. Once we started.. we found it hard to stop! In three days, before we knew it we were in a relationship.
However, it is an on-off relationship and I’ve been dating a Leo guy for over three months now. The best part about my Cappy man is that we always know we’re going to come back to each other.. No matter what. =)
We have arguments about all the crazy things.. and it’s safe to say that he is the only constant in my life. I love you! <3
I’m no mother. But I highly doubt I would make a bad mother. The way I treat my younger siblings and cousins you would think they were my children. And how can Aquarius women be bad mothers when we’re the most loving and giving zodiac. We put others before us.
i totally agree with (aquarius goddes) how can others say we are/will be bad mothers when were the most loving and giving zodiac.? i am of course an aquarius and i can say when i have children i will raise them to the best of my ability and put them first and since my prioritys are straight my children will be staying in a childs place and wont be talking back unless they wanna get beat lol im’a also show love and respect them and give them room to grow….so I KNOW! ima be a damn good mother so f** wat anybody else thinks…
awhh this gives me hope
my relationship with my cappy guy is starting off kind of sketchy. but he shows me he is super sweet and devoted, so thats enough to keep me patient. he can make me laugh too!, so thats sort of the glue that keeps our chemestry in place. i hope it’ll get even better. i love how he goes out of his way to walk me to every class
so sweet! does anyone know if a aqua/cappy relationship normally starts off as “okay” and gets better with time?? if so, let me know! i have high hopes!
hey BB!
I am a Cap girl involved with Aqua guy. I’d say sometimes it works well (Ted Danson-Mary Steenburgen, Barbara Hershey-I forget his name), and sometimes it doesn’t. Depends on maturity level, rest of chart, etc. He will need to work on his need to direct you (Saturn), and you would probs need to be less crazy/chatty (Uranus), if that makes sense. plenty of space might help…and not thinking of each difference as a deal-breaker. I’ve heard of Cap-Aqua relationships that are great & long-lasting! Caps understand Aqua’s need for space.
hope it works out really well, keep us posted (and happy birthday, whenever yours happens 2 be!
Hey Tropic of Cap!! haha thanks
mine was the 3rd. and actually today it got much better
he made me laugh and it seemed like he was less nervous too, so that made it more fun. and yeah i can see what you mean by me being to chatty! haha, i’m pretty loud at times, but he looked passed that today. i think it may work out haha. i’m excited to find out what will happen (: are Caps usually kind of shy or tend to be nervous at first??
I’m an aqua mom and im not offended by the anti-aqua comments. I know my kids adore me and I need no one to tell me otherwise. As for my Cappy man.. what can I say? I was madly in love with him 11 years ago when we first met… Cap men are controlling, aqua women’s key is their freedom! Quoting what you said about Cap man “Have you ever felt rejected for not being good enough? That’s a taste of bitter Capricorn male energy. High standards are upheld at the expense of hurt feelings and damaged egos”–> Exactly how I felt for 11 whole years! Now ask him what he’s done? He did nothing but be perfect all the time. Right! Well, be careful aqua women, ’cause love blinded me at first and made me patient (Yeah, he made me laugh all the time for the first few months, and the passion was just amazing). But remember, aqua women are rebels and now it’s probably the end.. I’m not saying everyone’s the same, but just there’s great potential for fallout on the long run.
I am also wondering how acquarians are said to be unemotional all over the internet.. I have a lot of acquarian friends, men and women and we all agree on being the hopeless romantics of the Planet. Please explain this Nancy if possible. I mean Valentine’s day falls in our Zodiac too!!!
Happy Birthday Acquarians
@ BB – Great to hear it’s going well, Happy Birthday! I have a lot of Aqua’s in my life (I’m Capricorn), and I’m always like, ‘will you pls lower your voice?’ and they’re always like ‘why r u whispering?’ If y’all can both seem the humor in those differing perspectives, it just might work! But it really depends on the rest of your charts & how badly y’all want to work at it, I guess.
In answer to your question: most Capricorns (incl myself) are shy/nervous, because a) we really do care what people think of us but try stoically to hide it, and b) if we like you, any little thing you say/do will be analyzed & over-analyzed. And sometimes Aqua’s are a little careless with those verbal barbs…LOL
A thought – if he’s ever losing you, give him plenty of warning. We Caps are sometimes slow to see & react to change.
Hope I helped, BB!
@ Tropic of Cap, i can totally understand what you mean by us Aquas being to loud. haha, i get told that all the time. but i don’t really care. i do it naturally and i can’t help being gregarious haha. anyway! as for your answer- yes, you did help a lot
thank you! and i feel better about things now haha. thanks so much for your insight and just over all help
I’m in love with a male Cappi, who I’ve been with for a year. There is not one day that goes by that he does not tell me he loves me or tells me how beautiful I am, or that he missed me at work today, ect……..he truly is like no other cap man I’ve been with before ( and I’ve been with two other caps in the past). With in a month of meeting each other he asked me to move in with him and our relationship has only gotten stronger and better. I’ve read in many texts that male caps don’t express their feelings much and they don’t rush into things unless they are sure, so I’m assuming it’s a good sign he’s this way with me?? He is hardworking, patient and really goofy (we can laugh about anything and everything). On the other hand though, he is jealous, extremely protective, and a bit standoffish. He’s told me that he was never jealous in his previous relationship (he’s only had one before me and it was with a Virgo. He left his wife a week before we met. She was extremely jealous). So he’s trying to work on his jealously – because I can’t stand to be asked 21 questions!….but other then that I love him to death and I never get tired of telling him or showing him either! He is the only man that’s ever made me feel genuinely loved, secure and safe. I’m 28 yrs young and I can say that I was the typical Aquarian girl before him. I pretty much did what I wanted, and I absolutely needed my space (a lot of space). The previous relationship I was in (5yrs and also a Capricorn) it was not a huge issue me having my own space. For lack of better way to put it, I guess you can say I trained him because he rarely made a big deal when ever I went out with out him or did things with out him. He even asked me to marry him!………..we did get married. Our relationship was perfect on a friendship level; he was fun to be around! He always joked around, he was social, friendly, caring, and had a golden heart the size of Texas. That’s what I love about him. We lacked intimacy. Neither him or I were affectionate towards each other, rarely displayed PDA, he rarely ever made me feel beautiful or tell me he loved me (he would only tell me when he had been drinking) and sex seemed more like a chore……….but I miss the bond we shared and the freedom I had when I was with him! I never had an affair but as you all can probably imagine, I left my husband to be with my new cap man. Nothing I’m proud of, because I hurt a lot of people. I’m the worst person in the world to a lot of people now. But the way I see it is….I had the balls to be honest with him and tell him the TRUTH and it was one of the hardest thing I’d ever done in my life. My husband and I are still friends, although I know in my heart he still resents me (and probably always will, but he denies it). We keep in touch because we own a home together which he still lives in (I moved out and left him everything and he’s keeping the house once our divorce is finalized). Once our divorce is finalized and all other ties with him are done, out of respect for my new cap man I need cut contact with him, so I’ll probably never see or talk to him again….I’m going to miss him deeply.
Before I met my new cap man I would have said the saying “love at first sight” was a corny cliché….but I really did fall in love the fist time I laid my eyes on him. REALLY!
I’m interested in a cap guy but I wanna see how this pairing ends the relationship.
Aqua-Cap breakup, I understand what you’re saying about people thinking Aquarians are unemotional… and that we really are romantics….BUT we are also idealists. That plays a big part into everything.
Wow, I’m 15 and an Aquarians and I feel super insulted right now. My mom’s also an Aqua and she’s a great mom! And I love kids and can’t wait to be a mom. Not everyone’s the same people! Ignorant people anger me so much. Try to br open-minded for once, realize that the zodiac is true about people to a point. Differnt enviroment’s, people, influences, make different people! So stop talking shit about us Aqua’s!
Why do people make such generalisations that aquas make bad mothers. I feel so sorry for them! They micht hav e seen/had one bad experience but one swallow does not a summer make people!
capppy men r crappy men they cheat more than any other sign i.e steve harvey muhammad ali my ex jim carrey elvis presley the list goes on terrible men just terrible dont date them and please dont marry them ewwwwwwwww!
I love my Capricorn. Even when we’re not together, I have faith and know from the bottom of my heart that we will come back to each other.
I love you.
I amCapricorn boy 27i am in love with Aquaries girl who is just 22, we are in a relationship from past nearly four years but only by phone(Not yet seen her), we usualy talks every day minimum for 2 hours.
Now we are planning to meet first time and planning to move forword(Marriage). Suggestion required
Aquarians can be great mothers. My mom was an Aquarius and was a loving and caring parent. More so than my father, a Scorpio. I’m also starting to a relationship with an Aquarian (I’m a Cap) and I agree with some of the other comments, it has taken off really quickly after we started talking.
If you think aquarian women are bad mothers, why dont you create the whole goddamn world population yourself? this stereotyping is so immature, grow up!
im a cap and just met an aquarian on line in the same town and have very simular interest however just broke up with a leo few months ago who took kindness as a sign of weekness and moved on just being a normal cap i guess but i hope me and the new aquarian hit if off when wedo finally meet thanks
am aquarius woman capp man i love him but think he is cheating only get the love i want when he drunk
he want me to shut up and let him do dum shit even tho i no he dum and every other day he off gone but he does drugs i still love him