Gemini Woman and Capricorn Man Compatibility
Famous Gemini-Capricorn Couples: Priscilla and Elvis Presley, Isabella Rossellini and David Lynch
Love between a well-balanced Capricorn and a well-balanced Gemini can be like the two dancers on the music box that plays “The Wedding Waltz” (oh, how we danced on the night we were wed). Gemini’s talkative good humor and superficial merriment seem to be just what the sometimes dour Capricorn needs to get engaged in life. It’s like all of a sudden he has a trained monkey! We give the union of these two a big blessing. The best of youth plays with the best of age. Gemini keeps Capricorn spry while Capricorn keeps Gemini grounded.
How to Attract a Gemini Woman as a Capricorn Man: Go over and make some bold, opinionated (impersonal) statement to get the conversation rolling. Say “X is a terrible mayor, isn’t he?” or “They should impeach our boss, shouldn’t thy?” Don’t worry. She won’t take it seriously, and it’ll give her a drop off point to talk from until you get your tongue back from the cat. You will love the sound of her voice. She’s likely to dazzle you with her mercurial ways till you are spellbound. Just think, someone charming who will do all the talking for both of you!!
How to Attract a Capricorn Man as a Gemini Woman: Don’t talk too fast. You’ll get “deer in the headlights”. Be prepared to love how boring and predictable he is because you are always spinning over the edge. Try to realize that unlike you he really means anything he says. Refrain from monkeying with the rules around him. Put a real dollar bill in the parking spot, give the waitress an honest 15% (or more), set your cell phone to “off” in the movie theater, and try to order something straight off the menu instead of asking for fried potatoes and an extra desert instead of a side salad.
Degree of Romance: The relationship of a Capricorn man and a Gemini woman is more mundane than romantic because somehow, when together, they always get more interested in what’s going on around them than making goo-goo eyes at one another, which is pretty darn healthy, really. Gemini gets to do a lot of flirting and especially teasing but is probably more straightforward than romantic. They are full of surprises. Capricorn can expect eyebrow-raising texts like “I forgot to wear my panties today” when she knows he’ll be in a business meeting. Har de Har. She’ll get a big laugh out of that.
Degree of Passion: Passion can run high because Capricorn men are so lusty and Gemini women are such teases. Gemini brings magic and entertainment into this format.
Degree of Friendship: Gemini can be a real pal to Capricorn, sort of a way to interface with the rest of the world, like a social translator Sherpa or guide dog for the small-talk impaired.
Degree of Marriage: Capricorn man and Gemini man can have a great marriage, especially if they are sort of the same age.
Progression of Relationship: He will have the drift. And this is on the first date!
Sex: Sex almost becomes a conversation between these two. This can be a real plus because it’s so difficult for so many couples to talk about their needs and desires, let alone their fantasies. Gemini has a way of digging out this information that releases the eroticism of the lusty goat. She’ll probably be able to talk him into anything and get him to relax his inhibitions by her chatty, non-conventional approach. Gemini sex is always pretty kinky and hooks into the “prurient” side of the Capricorn. Love making is especially hot if he’s older.
When It’s Over: It’s over when Capricorn has had enough. Well, actually, I take that back. It can be over in Gemini’s mind long before that. Geminis are bonobos. Capricorns are gorillas. She may be wildly promiscuous mentally and have one foot out the door long before he calls it. The best way to keep her is to control the money. She’ll squirm like a worm on a hook. She’s so bad about money herself it’s a real incentive.
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I have seen many Gem-Cap relationships, which is a quite common because of an extremely huge initial sparkle between these two different signs. Basically, when they meet each other, Gemini thinks she has found a very reliable and strong partner who is able to ground her chaotic life (because geminis deep inside know their life are shattered), and on the other hand, Geminis think that Cap man is going to be very faithful to her and as a husband is very useful. ALSO, on the other hand, Cap man thinks that this girl will change his extremely miserable and boring life as she is extremly lively, energetic and fun. NOW, they go to live together, almost 9 out of 10 of these relationships finishes at some point. The reason behind this which I found is: Gemini’s superficiality drives Cap man completely mad, (Cap men always complain about this), on the other hand, Cap’s serious nature is completely unbearable for Geminis (though Geminis are very adoptable but tolerating a Cap forever is an impossibility for Geminis). So, Geminis run out of this relationship very angrily and ususally forgive their marriege portion (such as shared money and etc. just to be relieved from this relationship quickly). Therefore, the end of this relationship is ususally inevitable unless the chart of these individuals is very compatible. By the way, I have a question Nancy, if you answer in detail please. I was wondering before the discovery of Uranus, how they distingush between Capricorns and Aquarians? I imagine that even before the discovery of Uranus, Aquarians had shocking, unpredictable behaviours and other unique traits which can not be ascribed to Saturn. How could they describe these behaviours of aquarians at those old times?
I’m a cap male. Was just with a Gemini female for two and a half years till bout a month ago… Thing is she still texts me to tell me she’s thinking about me and comes over to visit and hugs me tightly tells me she misses me and kisses my neck. She left me saying she didnt know what she wanted and felt she needed space and time to take care of herself and her kid. She’s confusing me more then anything really. I dont know it this is normal but I dont think I’m a normal Capricorn either.
Very enjoyable interpretation and spot on. I’m Gemini myself and have just met a Capricorn man, I’m fascinated by how different from me he is, the strong grounding factor is definitely there and to be frank the real turn on about him is that he is such a “manly” man, let’s see how it will go. Another thing though: I’ve browsed all the compatibilities of Gemini women and we only score up to 8/10 with any star sign, isn’t there a perfect match for us?
RTM13: funny you posted that on my birthday I’m a gemini woman with a kid and that sounds like something I would do. as a gemini, I always consider and reconsider things. I always wonder if I am paying enough attention to my little girl or if I give too much attention to my cap man. sometmes even though I love to PIECES sometiimes I miss the way my life was before when I had time to do things and get my business taken care of and just hang out with my daughter. I would not break up with him because I know it was break his heart and honestly I know I want to be with him and only him…I might tell him I needed some time away to get stuff done but I would still be his girl, still call, say i love you, etc. if she actually broke up with you, tell her to kick rocks. don’t let her mess with your emotions. honestly, that’s the only reason girls wanna be your friend after they break up with you…to make you suffer, we get a kick out of it. Esp. gemini women we know we can wrap men around our finger and just play with them while they fall in love with us, meanwhile we don’t even plan on being with them. honestly if you tell her to leave you alone if she doesn’t want to be with you, her interest will probably be engaged again lol. us indecisive people love decisiveness.
I’m a gemini woman and have been married to a capricorn man for 10 years, and together for 15 1/2 years. Honestly, there hasn’t been many bumps in the road so far. We get along pretty well. We get into our yearly fight, usually started by me
), which drives him crazy. He think everything is OK, and then I go insane like everything is horrible. However, the next day, its like nothing happen for me, but my husband is confused and dazed (I’m trying work on that). I love him because he keeps me grounded and he is very stable, which is very attractive to me. However I was never a wild child, I didn’t and don’t drink, party, or dress provocatively. This is one of the few positive comments I read about the gemini/capricorn pairing. I think you should love who you love and forget about the rest.
Wow well i totaly enjoyd reading that. im a gemini female and just started dating a cap male who i find so wonderful and perfect for me
we clicked emediatly and both love to be around eachother.. hes like a drug to me that i cant quit. i love that he is so serious about the things i cant be serious about. its like hes the other half of my brain that doesnt wana work. hes everything im not so doesnt that mean hes everything i need??:) im sooooo atracted to him to.. im all over him all the time. its like i cant sit by him without touching him or i start to get overly excited and cant control myself. By the way i laughed so hard wen i read about the “i forgot to wear my panties today” i did that to him yesterday and got the bigest kick out of watching him squirm haha. anyway wish me luck with him please. i think im fallin inlove 
Michelle, I wish you and your guy the best! I’m a Gemini female with a kid engaged to a Capricorn male. While he is very stable and practicle and keeps me grounded, this sometimes drives me crazy. I recently became very attracted to someone much less demanding and very interesting, and I even considered ending my relationship with my Capricorn altogether. I asked for space as well (which he was not willing to give as he is very much an all-or-nothing kind of guy). But when I thought about this further, my Capricorn in all his boring, practical and calculating ways, is probably the best thing for us. We’re great business partners and he’s loyal to the core. And for that, I love and will always appreciate him. I just have to work on myself in the process of (gasp) settling down.
I’m a gemini women with a son too and I most recently started getting to know a Cap man. We met earlier this year at an event and now we’re chatting via phone and email. He moves so slow. We’re both very driven with our careers and super busy then out of the blue he asked to visit him in the next coming months due to our distance. It took him forever to finally show some interest and now he’s prolong our date. I’m very intriguied by him but….Doesn’t he know I’ll be over him by then??!? I’m thinking I shouldn’t even bother after most of the posts I’ve read. Any thoughts?
@Lelah The timing will probably always be off between the two of you and, no, he doesn’t have a clue.
Im a gemini woman who has been with my capy for bout three years now. We are so different , but i love how much of a manly earthy person he is. He is without a doubt the most intelligenmt man I’ve ever met. Traditional to the core and loves his family. He can definitely take care of me, but the fact that I know he wont allow the freedom I need prvents me from living seriously one day living together. He has always been partient and reliable, maybe he will wait another 10 years and then I’ll come bak and let you know we are married….lol. Guess it would help if we were the same age, but he is 10 years older than me(36 to 46). Nancy, you are right on on how lusty and kinky he is …he knows exactly what to do and when and is eager with no inhibitions. Love my cappy!
I’m a Gemini woman who was in a relationship with a Capricorn man. Wasted two years of my life. The Capricorn man (and woman) are notorious for being manipulative USERS. How to attract them? Have something they want and need. It took me a while to catch on but I did and promptly left him. I’m now in a loving relationship with a Libra. Gemini ladies…FIND A LIBRA! LOL!
@Dorothy looser.
I am a Capricorn man married to a Gemini woman for the past 13 yrs. She recently separated from me and found a relationship online with a married Aquarius man.
A lot of the things said here I can relate to. I was told by my wife that she was unhappy for a few years but held on because she knew how hard I was trying to keep our family together. She says she still thinks that I am the most wonderful person she knows, we still talk almost everyday and seem to find it difficult not to communicate with each other daily.
I thought that i would go crazy when she left, because I truly could not understand what I was not providing. In our quiet moments I would often ask her what she wants and how could I help to get her to that point. Unlike what is said by many, I was often the one to try to get her out of the house, walking along the beach…doing impulsive things – I’ve always felt that she deserved more and needed to be free, but never really got clear communication on how.
I do understand her need for space (we are both artists), but what is hard to get is why the fear of getting back together. I recently decided to try to break away completely from my end even though it hurts like hell, but after I told her that I’ve decided to allow her to be free and to find her needs she send mixed messages like “you shouldn’t fear your future with/without me.
I really love her, she has been the most inspirational influence in my life…a complex but sweet soul. But I am now really scared and confused. What do you think?
@ Teddy P. I’m a gem woman don’t know what my rising is or my moon. Every situation is unique. We all have a little voice inside us, some call it conscience. Very often people don’t trust themselves and that little voice inside them, to do the right thing. Excessive analysis and rationalization overwhelms our first instincts. Listen to your instincts and trust them. Whatever your decision may be it will be in the best interests of both of you. Be firm and stick to it. This is easier said than done. But as life unfolds you will see it was the right way to go!
Teddy P. Do you know why she became unhappy? If you don’t know you should ask her she won’t tell you unless you ask/press her we are often shy and conscious not to hurt the people we love
if she is sending you mixed signals it probably means she wants to work it out but is afraid for some reason talk to her
if you ever do anything else with her other than walking on the beach find out if there are dance classes and take up salsa or a language class together hell karaoke go to a bar or challenge her to some sort of comp. where the loser has to go skinny dipping even though she probably wouldn’t it’s the idea and the thrill
I can relate to Lelah. I am a Gemini woman who started talking to a Capricorn man and things are prolonging so slowly that I am totally frustrated. I am only interested in him sexually and he is stalling saying that he is so busy at work. Granted he travels a lot for his job but I can’t tell if he is seriously interested or not. It’s just sex. It’s not like I want to have a relationship. If that was the case, I would be the one stalling. Part of me just wants to not be bothered with him any more but the other part of me wants him so bad that I am trying to be patient. The man has me chasing him — I think the only reason I am holding on is because I am so curious because he claims to be such a great lover. Once I have him, I don’t think I will care anymore.
gud…… keep it up……..but i think things are not slow maybe they never goona occur…..:)
I feel I have to say something. I am a Capricorn woman who is crazy about a Gemini man. But first I have to defend Capricorns, the only truth so far in here is that yes, if you got something we want, then you have already hooked us, but that has nothing to do with material possessions. For me what hooks me is the guys mind, the communication, the witt, the humour, in fact a sense of homour is a must have for me, contrary to what they say about cappys, that we are routine, stiff, etc… that is so far from the truth. I am very funny, and I have more fun than any of my friends, I am extremely sociable. All that being said, my Gemini man has almost all the same traits and qualities that I do. We both love traveling, we both hate feeling confined and tied down, we both are charming and big flirts, we both are young at heart, we are both great communicators and always in the know, and on the go, the sexual attraction between us is intense and irresistible, etc… there is a whole slew of things in common to keep us happy. You could be married to anybody and statistics will show that a lot of marriages sour anywhere from 3 years and on, its nothing to do with your sign compatibility. Having things in common bonds you, and differences should learn to be appreciated as you bring different strengths to the relationship.
As a Gemini woman who has been married to a Capricorn man almost 5 years now, I must say that the above description is on key – at least I can say as for my experience so far. We both came together (under very odd circumstances – the Army) and honestly, it was the sex that reeled both of us together. I was debating about continuing the relationship due to another factor – another man (Aquarius) who was also a target for me. Because both my Cappy husband and I seemed to have a connection that I had always dreamt of, we married. Mind you, with my impatience and rediculous thought that if I didn’t snag him now, he’d drift off to someone else, didn’t help things later. In the present tense, things aren’t grand in our marriage, however, knowing the differences between both Capricorn and Gemini that I’ve read and now fully see, I can make a full assessment that a long-term relationship (marriage) must take work from both parties.
As far as my husband goes, he tends to sit, bored, if there’s nothing physically demanding to be done. I, on the other hand, can sit and be filled with so much work in my head that by bedtime, I’m exhausted – he doesn’t understand this. As for my undecisiveness, he doesn’t understand nor accepts it, and this is something I’m willing to negotiate by trying to fix. Being called “lazy” is rather demeaning to a Gemini – even when we sit idle, we are still at work organizing and planning. Though we aren’t physical in comparison to Capricorns, we are just as active in the mind. I personally feel that religion and spirituality is something that can meld both these signs, despite the other factors; it would allow Capricorn to SEE that Gemini is taking an effort to be physical (going to church, volunteering for good causes, etc etc.) while Gemini would LISTEN and COMMUNICATE on religious and philosophical views on this catagory.
As for the sex department . . . though both may bring and equal amount of fun into the bedroom, one thing that I’ve noticed (after having a kiddo) is that things in life tend to exhaust the mind and then the body . . . so it therefore effects sex. I’ve heard that Gemini’s are widely active – regardless of what’s going on around them – however, personally, if the mind is compromised with stress and worry and so on, sex isn’t going to happen. Hahaha.
Now, as for Gemini’s “falling out” first . . . TRUE to the core. A Gemini will fall out of a love relationship way before it is ever brought up later of Capricorn’s disgruntled opinion of the relationship.
I know I’m jumping around everywhere, haha, but I did want to point something out on both Gemini and Capricorn that some may think differently about. I’m not sure if this ties to Gemini’s undecisiveness or not: choosing a career. From what I know, Gemini’s are big talkers. Heck, we can give out so much information on big ideas that seem lucritive to perfection, but what about the action it takes to get the ball rolling? Are we hesitant due to factors of having to finish a project? Are we scared that we may fail? Are we afraid that we may make Capricorn regret their decision on being with us when we do suceed? I’m not saying that both signs are in competition with one another (I’ll save that for Aries and Leo’s personally), but I don’t understand the factor that Capricorn WANTS Gemini to be just as ambitious as them and have the will power to “keep on going” – even when we are so mentally exhausted. Hehe.
On another note, I did enjoy reading everyone else’s points of ideas and experiences. I do feel that I’m not alone in trying to figure out Capricorn’s “cold and distan” side. I suppose my Gemini mind isn’t working properly hahaha, but that will be work for me to do.
Nancy
I noticed that the gemini woman doesnt get a 10/10 rating with any other sign. Why is this? Isnt there at least one great sign out there for a gemini woman?
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I myself am a gemini woman and I have found that I am much more compatible with people that are on the cusp of two signs. I dated a man who’s birthday was March 21, so he would be considered an Aries-Pisces. I definitely felt an INTENSE connection, something I have NEVER felt before. I’m not sure how to explain the feelings I had for him, for me it was something even greater than love. We had this unexplainable understanding of each other. I think we were both too young though and we both needed to experience a lot more things, but I always think of him and we have remained friends.
I am a cap man who knew a wonderful gem woman yrs ago. Used to keep meeting her at concerts and plays at the playhouse. Gems are quite popular n intelligent, creative, musical and fun for everyone around and a great organizer. They truly like people and get along easily. So this gemmina was eying me and at the time i was coming out of a relationship. So I was tired and treading carefully we were just friends. Besides i heard she had a father in Michigan who had alzheimer’s and there was no one to look after. There was a big house and no siblings either. He needed to move into a facility and the house, etc. to be taken care of. She had a lot on her hands and was going back and forth. now i’m a staunch family person so when she told me she was going to Michigan i felt she had to do whats right for her family first and five or six months down the line if she was all by herself i’d def buy her a cup of coffee. This was a great woman i had always thought was hooked up and to think i had a chance to explore life with her! Well she did get freed up after settling her dad the house and all, met a hunky aries guy in Michigan and rode off into the sunset. Sigh. I admired the way she did things so grounded I wouldnt have it any other way. A few heartful sighs later I picked myself up and have been daintily stepping from one stone to another bright-eyed and curly-horned as the randy mountain goat is wont to do!
I m a Gem & in relation with a Cap guy. Everything is fine despite I think he is delaying the marriage. We r together for 1& 1/2 years but he is telling me only that we r going to get married. Nobody in my family knows it. He is saying that his family members are also talking about marriage but i m not sure. He is a bit of manipulative. Other things r fine. He is caring, loving, possesive n lusty tooo. I have never met his family nor visited his place.
Is that guy cheating?
who knows?
My relationship with my ex who was a capricorn was actually ok. I mean we drifted apart but we knew we loved each other. He was a joker and so was I and yeh I did send him weird messages while he busy somewhere. Yeh we were perfect but my Gemini traits got the best of me and so did his Capricorn traits. He was forever putting himself down and I was forever trying to make him happy. I needed him to see I loved him but I didn’t know how. I soon got tired and left and I remember we both were crying-we never argued-I just packed my things and left. Now I have an Aquaruis boyfriend and I love him and I feel more ‘in tune’ with him. I miss my ex but I wish him the best and I always will. Good Luck Capricorn-you’re gonna need it
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gemini women are nice when they want to be nice but not for long in the loyalty dept. they know how to look out for themselves and boy did this woman (supposedly wiht my cap buddy) have a wandering eye and partook of various affections offered to her. she then got started one day with me to at a friends party but didnt get far. really a person who cant be loyal to one guy is she going to be loyal to you? they moved to the midwest when he got a better job and theyre still togethre but as for me loyalty is a major factor and hard to overlook!
how awsome there are other gemini women out there too. usually i get told im a bitch and that i have two different sides of me. the only one who never calls me a bitch is my capricorn we have been together for six months now and are still going strong. I think and hope we will be together for a long time i have never met anyone like him. Hes perfect and the human part about him that makes him imperfect seems to make him even more perfect. It makes me see that even the most perfect people mess up sometimes too. since im a gemini i often get stressed over nothing sometimes and i hate it. He seems to make all that stress go away. He really balances out my life. Thanks for writting the article nancy it really made my day.
I am a Capricorn dating a Gemini Male and i swear we arue like everyday. I agree He is a tease and i do lust, but out converstion is alway about sex it never about anything else. I would try to stear the conversation and i guess he come in talking about his fantasy of sex. I am not gone lie the sex is hot and steamy like always but when it dosnt have any sex involve he expect me to be very lovy dovy and i am not like that at all because I some times like to talk about more serious stuff and maintain and hard ground like always. he hates that and we argue like tina n turner.
@Aleen thanks for writing about us geminis being called bitches all the time and how your Cap sees you for who you really are. Speaking for myself my Cap is the same way he always compliments my happy flirty nature and knows I’m completely loyal reagrdless of how I may flirt. He admires my busy nature eventhough i’m almost always running late lol. He loves how I dress approriately for every occasion and can actually notice and appreciate the extra time I take to look my best always.He sees how kind I am and how I listen to his everyday complaint and give him my opinion on it even if I disagree. The sex well he is by far the most attentive innovative and best lover I’;ve ever had. I’m completely attracted to and admire his manly nature which is he takes care of business always to ensure im taken care of and comfortable. We are soulmates and I’m sure I can write a book on the many qualities I admire in him and the best part is that I fell he admires the same in me which I know he lacks and even doesnt understand. I love that he says “i’m mysterious”. Which I never even thought that about myself , but I’m assuming he knows deep down I dont want to get hurt by let him in completely so I still keep part of myself hidden. I think people think I’m a bitch because I’ll call you out if Iknow you are wrong I dont care what it is. Aaand We aint putting up with no b.s either or pretend or imagine someone loves us when we know they don’t when I know some women do…I have yet to tell any of my Gemini girlfriends “really, wake up and smell the roses!” We are way to intellectual to take less 100 % of what we deserve or wait and see…if someone changes. Anyway back to my Cap, I do hurt him in some ways by not doing wht i say when i tell him i will….i have to work on that he expects follow through and i lack in that department sometimes….i can go on and on like anastasia so ill end this now lol….hahaha…and get back to my cappy for alas I need to work on myself to make this relationship the best.
I’m a Gemini teen. I’m 16 years old. I dated a Capricorn guy for about 6 and a half months (Thats a long time for me lol!) but, then i started thinking he was with another girl, and he was ignoring me over the break-he didn’t call, he didn’t get me a x mas present, and his b day passed, i was just scared, it was typical of me. i always seem to find a reason with every relationship I’ve been in to get out of it. well its been 4 months and i still cant get over him which isn’t like me. We got in a weird kind of fight on last Friday, and at the end he said he will always love me, nothing can change that ever period good night Cassidy. Then he stop talking on the phone. i have finally decided i want him back but then my friend said he said that he didn;t want me back because i broke his heart. i made me so sad. i want him back but i don’t know what to do. HELP ME!!!! :’(
I’m a gemini and my ex is a capricorn, and i think we were starcrossed from the beginning. When i wanted to be with him he wasnt interested, when he wanted to be with me i was indecisive about taking him back because of him not wanting to be with me the last time. He was the all or nothing type so we always hit a brick wall. As for the time we were together it was incredible, i loved his manly nature and what he loved about me was my bubbly side. We had tons in common, we always thought we were soulmates, i loved him very much.. Overtime though it just wasn’t the same, so i moved on.
i am a gemini.. and im dating an cap we mellow together.. i think to love a cap man isnt that easy because they are such a complicated kind.. and they r very jealous ,and possesive,, but very loving ,, dnt forget they r straightforward..
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@ Cassidy
As a gemini myself, I think your problem is you can’t decide and are instead flitting around in your relationship, which confuses him. Take a breath and slow down. If you really want to be with him then you have to decide to be at his pace and be committed. It is hard to get people to open up sometimes and if he already has hurt feelings toward you then pressuring him doesn’t help. But all hope isn’t lost. First thing you need to do with him is talk over what happened that ended your relationship before, even if you approach him just as friends, sort of like testing the water. Also if the problem isn’t resolved then you don’t have a good base to build a relationship on. That includes being honest about your emotions with him during these events, as scary as that is. (Plus you had doubt for a reason, so if you find out your instincts were correct and he is just decieving you now, you’ll feel stupid for wanting him back, so sort out what happened before deciding.) If everything works out with talking then you two should be able to decide where to go from there. A relationship can be hard no matter what sign people have or how much in love they are because you are two different people with two different lives and oppinions and views of the world. You both have to be on the same page and investing equal ammounts of interest into the relationship to make it work (not everything in the relationship has to be equal but the interest of both parties has to or one/both is not getting what they need out of the relationship.) Also, you’re young and don’t need to be in a hurry to jump into anything.
I myself have a problem with understanding my own emotions because everyone expects me to be happy all the time so if I’m feeling anything else they think something is seriously wrong. Therefore I over think it and confuse myself, which confuses other people. I’ve found though that if I bounce my concerns off my boyfriend (who happens to be a capricorn), he is able to clearly sort it out for me, which still is a happy surprise every time and I’m getting used to being able to rely on him for this. So instead of going through other people (like asking your friend to ask him how he feel, etc), you really need to talk to him yourself. Plus this shows you trust him by talking to him directly instead of using your trust in your friends to talk to him, which actually makes it look like you’re afraid to talk to him (even if you really are). Hopefully all of these things will let him feel comfortable enough to lower his guard enough to talk seriously and not hold out on acting ellusive. Good luck! =P
It says in your post that the sex between an older Capricorn and younger gemini is better. What about an older female gemini and a younger male capricorn.. how does that work out is the attraction still intense?
Btw nancy wat star sign are you?
Hi,
Been with my married cappy for 5 1/2 years. He told me to “move on” 2 weeks ago but still sent me a text on my birthday “Happy Birthday x x x “. We did not have sex. Lots of affection, love and talking about our future. He is planning leaving his marriage but it’s taking time. Has other obligations at the same time like his parents are elderly and it’s time to help them out of their house. Was he serious? It was pressure he was feeling. Why wouldn’t he make love to me and he had a hard time coming to send time with me in my condo the past few months?
P.S. This cappy is a married man. I met him when I was still married but have since left my hubby and bought my own condo.
I am a gemini female(22). I’ve been talking to my cappy(28) for two months. I’m so attracted to him because he is different but these are thhe same things that make me want to say nevermind. Ill text him and hell text back 2 or 3 hours later! Everytime I’m ready to say forget him he goes and show me that he’s “maybe” interested. He’s so hard to read! Its almost scary because I’m chatty and I don’t want to say the wrong thing and make him put extra walls up!lol. Then I worry that my childlike behavior will turn him off. Its so confusing right now. The only thing that’s not confusing is the sex! TMI but we have tried things I never thought of and I am very experienced lol. How long is a girl suppose to wait for him to open up?
Hi Limzn,
Reading your story has made me interested… you say that he is hard to read and gives on and off signals as to whether he wants a definate relationship with you..what was it that attracted both of you to each other? Capricorn men are very serious and stable characters and one of the things they are very serious about is love, when they fall in love they fall hard so therefore before they go into anything serious they really cross examine and think twice about what they are doing. You said that you have had sex… who instigated it.. was it on your behalf or his? And he wont be turned off by your child like behaviour they do tend to find it endearing at times but do not over do it.
Hi Limzn,
Reading your story has made me interested… you say that he is hard to read and gives on and off signals as to whether he wants a definate relationship with you..what was it that attracted both of you to each other? Capricorn men are very serious and stable characters and one of the things they are very serious about is love, when they fall in love they fall hard so therefore before they go into anything serious they really cross examine and think twice about what they are doing. You said that you have had sex… who instigated it.. was it on your behalf or his? And he wont be turned off by your child like behaviour they do tend to find it endearing at times but do not over do it.
Hope this helped
Reading all of you guys comments and experiences has really got my mind twisted. Im considering being with a Cap man(I am a gemini woman), and i think im in love. I guess to say I wannaa be in love with him.. I dnt knw, I guess I can say if we really want it to work then we both will have to be able to put our differences aside, keep our communication skills open at all times in order to knw if we are happy or not.. I really want this to work now im scared…..
I am a capricorn male 28 ,music producer , have a very intersting life which appears to sexy for a gemini girl! i met her in russian facebook im from lebanon she is from ukrain ,there is much intersting stuff thta she felt in love with me , we didnt see each other only on net! we talk mostly about sex! she wants me to meet her! i asked her to come to lebanon i will pay8 her tickets and open her visa! she told me she is affriad of my mood and me! so i dont know , i lost trust in her ! how i will go to her and i dont know her? its been 1month to our relationship! what do you guys recoomend!?
Hi,
I am a Gemini woman and just in the last few days became involved with a Capricorn. I always look through this compatability stuff just for fun. This is the first time I ever dated a Capricorn.
I have always been scared of commitment and from the first time I spent with this man; I had this wierd feeling he might be the one.
I love reading this stuff; because one of my best friends says when I am ready to settle down I should find a man I am bored with. If he is boring; he is reliable and stable. Fun men are usually neither.
I am really curious to see what comes out of this relationship; he is an awesome man inside and out <~~~ sexy and sweet what a combo!\
Thanks to everyone else for their story
Hi, It’s me again,Cassidy the gemini. Um, by the time i read your advise it was to late. um, i sent that in april, i read it last week, and its september. I told you about the capricorn that i broke up with and how i missed him like crazy and ya…… Well, in the summer i finally told him i missed him and all this stuff, and he sent me a song called Hate. where it goes ” hate is a strong word, but i really really really dont like you” i kept saying i was sorry, and he said i sounded like a broken record. sigh, now school started again, and i still cant get over him witch is very very very unusual for me, all i know is i think about him non stop 24/7 and ya….. um, finally like a week ago he started texting me, and like 3 days ago he said i make him awkward bcuz i dont talk to him anymore, my dad said he might be trying to real me in so he can hurt me agian, and i dont know what to do, he told me and everyone that he has a new girlfriend and her name was joyce, but i dont think she exists bcuz so far everyone at school hasnt met her, but i saw her and a bunch of pic of facebook so, but they havent talked about dating at all online, um i talk to him now and he asked to be friends on facebook now he talks to me alot now, and when we dated he never texted me first and if he called it was like snow in the middle of july in texas, he’s texted me on his on 6 different times, and i’ve seen him looking at me from across the pe area alot , now i dont know if that means he likes me again, or if im just paranoid, so i really just need help bcaz i know im never gonna get over this guy, he has flaws that i loose time thinking about.
hii im a gemini woman and going out wit a capricorn man .. we be in a relationship for about almost 10 months even if its young relationship i knew him abt 2yrs in a half i feel we have a good conversation n communcation .. he very reliable and a strong person we do bump heads at times and i mean sometimes he make me feel like i hate him than love him idk which one i be feeling cause this my first time going out wit a capricorn and it feels wierd honestly gemini woman n capricorn guys doesnt matter what sign ur wit it matters how u feel and what your going or been thru with each other..
Hi, i am a 22 year old capricorn man and has been with my gemini girlfriend for just over a year now. She recently went to college and has jump started her life in every aspect, but i have a problem i need advice for. Since shes been attending college we communicate less, and i understand her not having time because of the drastic change and class, but that isn’t the reason for me having Rising Concern. I would call her at times i know that shes free, but she doesn’t answer most of the time. her reason is always “Chilling with the friend” and it almost becomes believable because when she do answer, i always hear a few girls in the background. But the thing that concerns me the most is how she has been acting so nice to me lately, saying “i love u” more and expressing herself when in the pass this has been a minor problem for her. I want to trust her so bad, but i wonder everyday if shes doing something that will compromise our relationship.
plz give advice
Correction lol
“Chilling with the friends” not friend…..i would have flipped out..lol
I am a Gemini female 19 in a relationship with a Virgo but in love with a Capricorn 17 also. I started talking to the cappy when I was in eleventh grade he was just a freshman. We have had a rocky situation he is now a senior in hs but we have never been in a relationship. He is a very attractive basketball player and was always very popular and had alot of girls. The word love has been exchanged between us but only after my relstionship with my virgo. I got with my boyfriend close to the end of my senior year but it’s seems like the cappy got stronger feelings when I got in a relationship (which was never my thing) but I love my boyfriend! The cappy has tried to get me to break up to be in a relationship with him but that’s not my style to leave one for another. But its like i can never really leave the cappy alone its like hes such a challenge and so interesting. I’ve watched him (in hs) on our off times talk to other females but its like we always end up trying again. To make a very long and complicated story short I just recently told him that I love him but we need to let the situation go for now because I want him to be out of high school first along with other things but this is the first time I was honest and straightforward leading to us not talking but his response made it worse because he said love you too which I don’t here alot I hear caps don’t say it excessively but when they say it they mean it but ever since this I can’t stop thinking about him
I would really like advice or an opinion on my situation
-Thanks
@Gemini10 Well u shud stay with virgo right now…coz just imagine if u go with the capricorn and then one day this capricorn likes another girl n say “i love u” to her(another girl) then how would u feel? U will feel the same way like the way virgo would feel when he finds all abt what u said to capricorn. So u shudn’t be saying something like that to someone when u r already in a relationship with another coz this wouldn’t be fair to the person who u r with right now. U shud be loyal to ure virgo and if u really dont want to be with him then simply tell that to ure virgo and move on to ure capricorn guy. Atleast this way ure virgo wouldn’t feel that bad n will also move on with life and be happy with another girl coz obviously he wouldn’t remain single all his life after u will leave her.
*wouldn’t remain single all his life after u will leave him.