This is one of those divinely enduring and compatible matches we all dream of in our most frantic moments (but most would find stifling if they really had to contend with it). Being two earth signs, the Virgo woman and Capricorn man are able to commit and persevere, essentials of a long term union. Earth signs are conservative by nature, the “placeholders” of society, and what everyone is talking about when they refer to “married, with children.” Nothing too exciting here, just maturity, duty and security.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Capricorn Man: You’d probably gravitate toward each other in any gathering. Except that neither one of you is likely to be found “gathering”! The best way to run into this lady, therefore, is at work. She flirts a lot, but it’s absolutely meaningless. Just a way to keep the space around her inviolate yet not be rude. Approach her in a serious, mannerly fashion and you’re already miles ahead of the competition. She’ll find your shyness uber-exciting. Second, say what you mean. And for God’s sake mean what you say. This lady’s discriminating taste rises to contempt very easily. It’s best to start out with a workday lunch then escalate daringly to Saturday night. You can do it!
How to Attract a Capricorn Man as a Virgo Woman: This man is used to hiding his interest to minimize chances of rejection. He plays indifferent (stuffy and businesslike) when he really lusts after just about every one. He will probably be delighted if you flirt with him and will
Degree of Romance: Romance is deeply ingrained in these two. Both are modest, self effacing, and inclined to put the other one up on a pedestal. Virgo, expect him to bring you a bouquet of violets or forget-me-nots rather than a flashy brassy dozen red roses. No, he’s not cheap, My Dear. It’s called class.
Degree of Passion: Expect two earth signs together to be, well, very “earthy”. Many a Virgo love goddess has graced the silver screen and a Virgo beloved can make her lover’s dreams come true. This is a woman the Capricorn man will absolutely cherish. She will be very patient with him. Just don’t expect to hear about her past (she has one), Cappie.
Degree of Friendship: These two are rather self sufficient but they can be good buddies to one another, especially if they share a common responsibility. Both have impeccable integrity.
Degree of Marriage: Excellent prospects for marriage after a “decent” courtship.
Progression of Relationship: Protocol will be followed meticulously except when Virgo periodically goes off the deep end. At those times Cappie will be both fatherly and captivated.
Sex: Would I be stretching it if I said earth signs marry to guarantee a steady supply of this commodity?
When It’s Over: If it must end it will be death by Virgo because Capricorn couldn’t stand the guilt or sense of failure. He will remain awash in remorse, moody and depressed, probably because he knows he can count on her to (1) do the right thing and (2) clean up the mess.
Our Rating: 10/10

#1 by Ned on January 2nd, 2010
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Am a cappie 30 in luv wit a virgo 18. She claims she luvs me 2. We’ve only had 2 romantic dates within 3 months. We cant see often because she is tied to her parents apron strings. I cherish her more than my other girlfriends but they give me more attention, love & sex than her. She keeps apologising for hurting my feelings & professing her love for me & yet she keeps hurting me by not making out time to see me. What am i gonna do to make her crazy about me to the extent of sneaking away from home to see me whenever i want her to?
#2 by onelin.. on January 29th, 2010
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i dont know how to help u ned.. i’m also having my own problem. Im a virgo woman.. interested to know my office mate who is a cappie.. I really like him a lot.. but he seem to secretive n hard to approach..
I dont know whether he like me or just treating me as if im one of him other office mate.. most of our conversation is about work..
#3 by Maria on February 24th, 2010
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I am a Virgo and have known a Cappie for 7 years now. We are not a couple but I love him. I know he loves me, not by his words but by his actions. He is a very reserved person and has a very hard appearance. We’ve been through a lot and have put him through a lot but yet is still here for me after everything. We are in a very hard situation and have been ever since we’ve met each other. We are both single and only have been seeing each other exclusive just recently but cannot be a couple because of the situation we are in.
I rather have him like this than not have him in my life at all.
#4 by suchavirgo on March 8th, 2010
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Type your comment here
im a virgo woman i work w. a guy thats a cap. we became friends first then started going to lunch together etc…….. here it is 2yrs later and we just crossed the lines of being more than friends i can not stop thinkn about this man. sex….. comp. is great the friendship is still there but i want to hear him say he thinks of me just as much as i do when im not with him……. ugh! somebody help im tryn not to come on too strong.
#5 by E on April 19th, 2010
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Ned it’s not love and the relationship you two have isn’t healthy in the slightest. The way you typed your message, you can’t be thirty. But if you are, find a girl your own age who can make time for you in her life.
#6 by your name here :) on May 29th, 2010
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Well, I’m a Capricorn guy… Twice cursed! Not only my birthsign, but my personality traits sign as well… It’s taken 29 years of serious thought and 3 years of flying solo.
maybe that will help capricorn guys understand why they mess up & learn that they’re not giving in… Instead of just wanting to giving their all.
If there is one thing about a capricorn, it’s what we can’t have that makes us *click* & go for it. If you’re within reach… odds are you’ve gotten too close. No doubt you’ve seen this all too often. At the point of closing it and can’t seal the deal. I’ve blown by 3 perfect… I mean “perfect” girls just for the what if’s that plagued me. Now, I realize I should have given in to their demands. You can’t be pushy though… He’ll become “busy” on you. For the love of god! Don’t give in until you absolutely know he’s in your hands! If you time it right… You could have your guy in a matter of weeks. Because he (if he honestly likes you) wants the same things you want whenever you want it. No bs allowed… You’ll get friend zoned & we will keep on looking. So, now ya know! Don’t bring the pressure, just pry a little more and feel him out. Then move in!
**guy that’s 30 if you’re still hung up on that girl… Realize this, you’ll hurt that girls feelings. Be honest with yourself, she needs to learn her lessons from guys in her own age group.**
#7 by N on June 4th, 2010
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I want to know how other male caps feel about dating virgo women….does this relationship really work? Or should I move on it sounds like we would have a boring life together!
#8 by Bill on June 4th, 2010
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I have been with Samantha for about a year now. She is
a wonderful caring woman. The sex is great and she is a great partner.
Samantha is very frugal and more of a saver that spender…I like that!
Sometimes she can appear to be over critical and fussy but since I know her traits, I have learned to deal with her in a manner that pleases us both.
#9 by k on June 6th, 2010
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@N
i was with a virgo for a long while,and i honestly have to say they are good women.havent met any attractive(single) one’s since.think about;would you rather have a dramatic rollercoaster w someone you possibly cant trust,or have the only thing to worry about be boredom
(which is entirely in your hands)
#10 by nancy on June 12th, 2010
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@Bill
You sound like a wonderful partner. I wish you and Samantha a lot of happiness.
#11 by kimmie on June 14th, 2010
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Im a virgo woman 38, who is inlove with a cappy male 39. Its hard for us,cause what brought us together was definatly out of the norm, and caused a whole lot of drama. He has a girlfriend now but we still keep in contact and talk daily. We have confessed to each other of being soulmates(but his thoughts on that is sometimes sm dont end up with each other.) I see that as a cop out sort of speak. @N i say go for it belive me it wont be boring. We are not boring but than again im not the average Virgo woman either. Good luck on you quest for dating a Virgo.
#12 by DJ on June 14th, 2010
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I’m a virgo woman that’s been with a capricorn man for 5 years now…..I have patience the size of Jupiter, but I don’t see a future with him anymore. He’s too childish and I think he wants to stay that way, capps are stubborn as hell, right? Besides, I’m in love with a capricorn, AND a cancer at the same time. What am I to do…..I’ve known capps for years and have made history with him, but it’s all predictable and boring now. Cancer man……I’ve known him for a year, and he’s so different and exciting, and I’m so drawn to it. Help.
#13 by Kristina on June 16th, 2010
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I was very surprised when reading this because it seems to be very accurate. I’m a virgo woman and I met a capricorn man at an amusement park actually. We both weren’t “found in the gathering” like said in the compatibility essay. We each were in line at the back of the roller coaster and we didn’t have riding partners. My group of friends were paired up as were his. We didn’t have to sit together on the ride, but I wanted to. I then asked him if he wanted to be riding buddies in a jokingly, flirty manner and he accepted. He was very shy when doing so. We then got to talking and he still kept in his business like mode and talked about his college he was attending and I was instantly attracted. I then touched him lightly on the arm, like said previously, and he blushed. At the end of the ride, he got my number and texted me that evening planning a follow up date. This essay is extremely accurate in my book!
#14 by Connie C. LOVES Mauricio M. on June 24th, 2010
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I’m in love with my capricorn man, well we both are! We cherish eachothers ideas and dreams and help eachother with whatever! We have one of if not the the most wonderful relationships! I future together is strong and we both know we will be together for eternity!
#15 by N on July 1st, 2010
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@ k your right i was just curious! I really like my cap but sometimes I don’t think he feels the same but it is cool whatever happens happens…..I’m in! And to Bill we virgos can be fussy lol, but just let us have our moments we will be fine after that!
#16 by N on July 1st, 2010
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@k
This is personal but I was wondering way did you and the virgo separate?
#17 by Sammy on July 9th, 2010
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Am a Capricorn .. and am suffering for the Virgo girl i love ….
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i did approximately everything to empress her .. and to fell in love with me ..
i know she loves me deep inside .. and am sure of that … but she’s not telling or acting like that .. how did i know .. by making her upset and she didnt want to lose me at any rate … but she didnt confess anything while she change the subject when i ask her …..
it’s hard .. totally hard not like building a house .. like building a tower !
waiting for my magical day ! “Wish That Badly
#18 by Kat on July 23rd, 2010
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I am a Virgo woman. Met my first husband (Taurus) the same day I met my current husband (Capricorn) 15 years ago. First, Capricorn and I were just friends but we had always communicated well with each other and had an unspoken attraction. Was married to Taurus for 13 years and finally divorced. There was fault on both sides but Taurus will NEVER admit his part. Capricorn came back into my life and it was an instant fit! I must say after all these years I can’t help but think of all that wasted time. We are ABSOLUTELY perfect for each other in EVERY way!
#19 by Sam on August 20th, 2010
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If its anything Capricorns hate, it is to be criticized. And if its anything Virgos do, its criticize…This is a match made in hell, two thumbs down, boring, depressing and terminal. My brother is a Capricorn and he was with a Virgo woman for (I think) about three years. She was a HORRIBLE housekeeper. Her apt was filthy, packed with plastic containers and old clothes and papers. She made good money at her job but she was always complaining about being broke. They fought all the time. My brother looked like a slob when they were together and he lived pissed off, always enraged about something and horrible to be around.
He broke up with her and it was hell getting rid of her, even though they don’t have any kids and they fought all the time. He has a Pisces girlfriend now with ALOT of Aries in her chart (Merc, Mars and Venus). Its like he came back to life. She is absolutely gorgeous, slim and fun. He looks his age again and they are so good for each other. I absolutely love this girl for my brother, even though I was against her at first because of her tattoos. I don’t think Caps and Virgos go well together at all. Cap men need a spark and they go gaga for femininity and class and thats just not what Virgos are about.
#20 by Kiran Huddya Purmeshwar on September 10th, 2010
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Hi..,i’m a Capri of 34 and I’m currently dating wz a Virgo woman (a Pharmacist)of 32.For z first time i wz working in my New Shop, she always hd to come n watch me in a lost manner,as if she is in a problem which she wanted to relate. I ignored her most of z times.But to my suprise I started missing her a lot when I got another job elsewhere.
since then I had to go to his wrk to see her..as we were both strangers.But since I droped a Love/Appology card to her..,she was attracted to me .
Nowaadays..she trys to find time to talk n care for me.We even went to a lunch..n there afterwe became best freinds..we communicate to each other so much days n night..zt she did nt even eared her husband..
I want o hv sex wz her…bt she always thinks in this matter..welll sometimes she ask me if i hv a car to go out wz her..