Virgo Woman and Capricorn Man Compatibility


Famous Virgo-Capricorn Couples:  Lauren Bacall and Humphrey Bogart, Rachel Hunter and Rod Stewart

This is one of those divinely enduring and compatible matches we all dream of in our most frantic moments (but most would find stifling if they really had to contend with it). Being two earth signs, the Virgo woman and Capricorn man are able to commit and persevere, essentials of a long term union.  Earth signs are conservative by nature, the “placeholders” of society, and what everyone is talking about when they refer to “married, with children.”   Nothing too exciting here, just maturity, duty and security.


How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Capricorn Man: You’d probably gravitate toward each other in any gathering.  Except that neither one of you is likely to be found “gathering”!  The best way to run into this lady, therefore, is at work.   She flirts a lot, but it’s absolutely meaningless.   Just a way to keep the space around her inviolate yet not be rude.  Approach her in a serious, mannerly fashion and you’re already miles ahead of the competition.  She’ll find your shyness uber-exciting.  Second, say what you mean. And for God’s sake mean what you say.  This lady’s discriminating taste rises to contempt very easily.  It’s best to start out with a workday lunch then escalate daringly to Saturday night.  You can do it!

How to Attract a Capricorn Man as a Virgo Woman:  This man is used to hiding his interest to minimize chances of rejection.  He plays indifferent (stuffy and businesslike) when he really lusts after just about every one.  He will probably be delighted if you flirt with him and will eat out of your hand if you touch him lightly on the arm while doing so.  It’s sensuality he’s after — not sexuality — so know the difference.  A few blushes with averted eyes and he’ll want to keep you forever.  Please don’t lead this dear guy on. He takes flirting seriously and could really be hurt.  He doesn’t deserve that.  Save your outrageous dalliances for the beefy extraverts.

Degree of Romance:  Romance is deeply ingrained in these two.  Both are modest, self effacing, and inclined to put the other one up on a pedestal.  Virgo, expect him to bring you a bouquet of violets or forget-me-nots rather than a flashy brassy dozen red roses. No, he’s not cheap, My Dear.  It’s called class.

Degree of Passion:  Expect two earth signs together to be, well, very “earthy”.  Many a Virgo love goddess has graced the silver screen and a Virgo beloved can make her lover’s dreams come true.   This is a woman the Capricorn man will absolutely cherish.  She will be very patient with him.  Just don’t expect to hear about her past (she has one), Cappie.


Degree of Friendship:  These two are rather self sufficient but they can be good buddies to one another, especially if they share a common responsibility.  Both have impeccable integrity.

Degree of Marriage:  Excellent prospects for marriage after a “decent” courtship.

Progression of Relationship:   Protocol will be followed meticulously except when Virgo periodically goes off the deep end.  At those times Cappie will be both fatherly and captivated.

Sex:   Would I be stretching it if I said earth signs marry to guarantee a steady supply of this commodity?

When It’s Over:  If it must end it will be death by Virgo because Capricorn couldn’t stand the guilt or sense of failure.  He will remain awash in remorse, moody and depressed, probably because he knows he can count on her to (1) do the right thing and (2) clean up the mess.

Our Rating:  10/10

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73 Responses to Virgo Woman and Capricorn Man Compatibility

  • precy says:

    Have capri step mom, she is a bad step mom and abusive..insecure and cheater.Her daughter is also capri, she is also abusive and very insecure.they well, my step mom did abused me when i was young.but i moved to my aunt my father’s twin.my step sister a. Capi, also insecure and she did physically abused the youngest siblings of her.I am virgo woman, these mother and daughter tried. To bring me down but i am a hardcore and hard to bet me that makes them more frustating lol..capri are the worst people i have been with in my life…i get. Along with my relatives and they are all fire and air sign.earth to earth supposed to be good together but i think depends where the persons up bringing.

  • x says:

    Percy, why are you even commenting? This essay reflects on cap men and Virgo woman compatibility….not Virgo woman and cap woman

  • Deb says:

    Hello name I concur with you as well, my mom works at a bank and I’m not saying working at a bank isn’t hard work but my dad worked at a delivery company at the time they were still together. My dad worked from 5 in the morning to 5 in the evening and its all physical labor. He would get home about 30min to hr earlier then my mom because he went to pick us up from daycare. Almost everyday they argued about who should make dinner. My mom always said my dad should since he gets home sooner and my dad would say she should since she’s not physically drained. I remember she always told him “50 50” meaning he should half the work and he do the half the work. She would also tell him that she’s wasn’t a slave like his mom (his mom does everything for his dad). Big Mistake!! He would get furious. The days my mom would cook she only made enough for the three of us, not for my dad. She wasn’t a good cook either; she would get mad at my brother and me if we didn’t eat our food. So she started buying us fast food for dinner. And of course my dad did not like that either. She loves to cut corners when it came to cooking and cleaning. She would leave the dishes piled high for days, weeks it would smell so bad. One day my mom got home before my father and she was watching TV. He came in didn’t say one thing, went straight to the kitchen to wash dishes, so she gets up and goes into the kitchen and tells him that she was going to do it…he just ignored her…he’s to tired to argue. That same night he vacuumed and she’s still watching TV and she wouldn’t raise her feet when he went by to vacuumed where she was at. A cap man loves tradition in one way or another; in our case it was a wife he wanted. And even though they were married…they really weren’t. My mom wasn’t a good wife to him at all, or a good mother to us.

  • Deb says:

    Now my dad happily married to an aqua woman who is everything he’s ever dreamed of. She’s a great cook , she’s clean, she funny, she’s nice, she’s friendly, she’s beautiful, she’s a great mother figure, my grandparents love her to death as well, really easy to get along with, down to earth, but most importantly she has a golden heart! It’s too bad I wasn’t raised by a woman like her….soon she will become a mother .and she will be a great mother she was to us well we were growing up. She has till this day never mistreated us.

  • patrish says:

    and you are the BAD CHILD of your own mother…

  • Deb says:

    And YOU patrish are the perfect example of all the negative triats a VIrgo possesses…..poor you!! cuz you have no idea what it was like growing up with a person like her.

  • shine says:

    well, i couldn’t stop laughing at some of the comments in here. you guys should stop taking astrology so serious, i mean am sorry for the bad things you been through but its weird to associate it all with astrology.

    as for Deb: am glad that new woman make it up for you. hope that lil baby comes with joy.

    anyways sorry to get away from the real subject here, about the cap man and virgo woman, i only had friendships with capricorn men and in general they are nice men, great listeners and talkers, they always know how to comfort you and assure you that you are never alone, they are warm hearted men with a strong personality. i like that they are never fake and always very true and honest.
    my respect to great Capricorns <3

  • Mark says:

    Jesus!!!

    Can anybody type or construct proper english sentences any more????

    Good god I need a degree in gibberish to understand the most of this!!!

  • sim says:

    hi there,
    i m first time here… but liked this website. the above description is so true about touching hand and You’d probably gravitate toward each other in any gathering. there lines are so true in my case. i m virgo he is cap. we work together… i know i love and i feel it he loves me too..but i m confused because there is another woman aqua works with us and i think he likes her too. he says bad things about her to me and he says he loves me ..i dont know if he is lying to me or what . i m trying to figure out but i get exhausted.. its like there are after each other and i dont know what is my role i know i love him. but i m not sure of his intentions……..any suggestions….?

  • Roca says:

    i am a CEO Capricorn involved here in Los Angeles with a successful and lovely Leo Actress who is a Virgo Moon, Venus and Mercury. I am truly blessed and my Moon in Scorpio, Mars in Aires and Venus in Sagittarius with Libra rising loves this woman more than anything in the entire world. Muah! good luck to you all.

  • anon says:

    I’m a Cap. Lovin’ this article, too. Whoever wrote it, pretty much nailed it.

    :)

  • 1meek1 says:

    anon :

    I’m a Cap. Lovin’ this article, too. Whoever wrote it, pretty much nailed it.

    I say ditto to that too! I have been with two cappies and I can say there were certain aspects that made them easy to get along with, being a virgo, everything was there except the physical attraction. Now I have found one that is like the perfect match for me and I must say, you hit the nail on the head. It is like we were literally born for each other, AMAZING! There are so many things that we have in common that it is ridiculous! We laugh and play together, we work together, I get my space when I need it… I can’t say enough about us! I literally want to cry, with joy, because i can’t believe I found this perfect man!

  • Virgo roommate says:

    i am taurus girl lived with a virgo girl for 4yrs. my roommate had boyfriend who was cappy for 5yrs and i knew both of them since they were kid. Everything was ok when they used to go out as a couple. However when they were married after 1yr of dating, moving in to our house, things began to turn as disaster….

    But Firstly, I must say….. virgo ladies are very sentitive but not sensitive when they act on their ideas. i was pretty upset with my decision to let his couple in my house, because this virgo girl kept making noises even late in night, make masses with dinner party with her friends at home, Drink lots of wine, got drunk and never cleans kitchen (Although herself hates dust and germs). She nailed the walls of the house to change interior without asking me before hand, brought dirty(not clean!) carpets, secondhand vintage furnitures, moved things in living room without my opinion… Now, i am taurus and understand virgo’s nature. They are active, witty, teaser, leadery figure and creative, but many times they get fixed with their ideas and ideal images and take actions without considering others. Sometimes their cause of action was so selfish and self-righteous, i found them in many fights(and they are never scared to fight which is very great from my point of view)..

    The capricon man, on my observation… was quite passive, responsible and rather be nurtured intellectually than emotionally. He thinks and acted, not much meow bow wow. HE loved the energy and praticality part of virgo girl. She was also a very good manager, me and her boyfriend was very proud to know her and of her achievements everytime. However, when he saw her problem he never tried to save her or solve her problem. i was angry when he left her alone, because i thought that’s so mean. But he told me that this was because he and her shares same problems and both of them do not know how to approach to the answers. i saw that quite cold hearted.

    Also, i have realised when the virgos fall in love they get blinded and do everything for their lover, but it actually makes their lover a little hard,… Cos they take action first and do everything, then fight the other side by not give anything back or not follow the way they want. Her Capricon man often came to me and complained about “What she does is great but it is to fulfil herself, but none of them are truely for me.”

    Anyway, back to the point, During the 4yrs of sharing a house with this married couple, i had to be their private cousellor or a house keeper while keeping my work going at the same time. They were both very busy and never have time for house works or proper communication. They kept guessing about how each other would think of themselves, building up unsatisfacted, unresolved problems and secretes.. i tried my best but…. you know i have notice that none of them want to ‘let go’ of self and ‘give in’, or open one to the other. They were ok until i was at home, cos i always delivered each other’s thoughts but when i was travelling for a year, they had a big big and long long fight about their own role in the house.

    As Cappy man can be a traditional father, He does not help alot with house work. He can do it, but he prefers the woman to take the role, but i Don’t think Virgos are material for house wife. They are more like women who are very talented in many ways, like to roar like gemini girls. She needs emotional maid, not a strong husband who wants to control her, so she can go out and accomplish in outside world. That’s what she was telling me too. She told me she liked the cappy man when he treated her EQUAL, not a house wife.

    Now they are divorced, both moved out, virgo girl got even busier than ever. i hope for their happiness.

  • Virgo roommate says:

    oh btw please do not get me worng. i do like both of them.

    i find virgo ladies very smart, mature and very accurate, cappy man as the same. Both of them as quite responsible about their works. But I was just sad to know that many virgo and cappy couples i met always ended the relationship quite badly…

    They have a great potential but when they always talked ’bout each other’s problems but never led to answers. One cappy man, who i intorduced my other virgo friend also broke up recently and told me, “One morning, i woke up next to her and just thought that i had to break up with her.” Geezz….. i just think cappy’s too cold

    Good luck ladies. sorry for my poor english…

  • ageofcapricorn says:

    I’m a Capricorn male and my first girlfriend was a Virgo. Our similarities made for instant chemistry, but that fizzled-out eventually since there was hardly any contrast. We are both submissive and shy so communication and problem-solving was a disaster! Our passion was only in the bedroom and our conversations never really went anywhere.

  • My Romeo took his life says:

    I am a Virgo woman and 3 years ago met a Capricorn man. We met at work on my second day and our attraction was instant. As we emailed each other, it was evident we were attracted to each other on many levels. We laughed a lot, and his charm and cheekiness won me over. We both used to talk of butterflies in our stomach and how nervous we made each other.

    As we got further into our relationship, the chemistry deepened. But so did the darkness. His moods could cut shapes in the room and he was so possessive and controlling.

    As an independent Virgo I used to leave his house to go back to my own for some me time and to catch up with friends. He would start rows with me and accuse me of seeing other men, so my free time would be spent arguing back. Everyday in our relationship he emailed me from start to finish of everyday, and texted me too. I never had time to do anything as he would get weird on me.

    After 18 months I fleed. Sneaked out my stuff as we had lived together for a while. I’ll never forget the hysterical cries of a child begging me to come home when my stuff wasnt there. He said he didnt want to live without me.

    You may wonder why I would stay but his charm and knowing how to push my buttons always won me back.
    The sex was amazing, we made love constantly and spent most of our relationship cocooned in our own world like John and Yoko!

    He cooked for me, ran baths for me, paid for everything, bought me whatever I needed, took days off work to take me to courses for my work….I’ve always known Capricorns to be generous. And he was. He would give anyone his last…

    We even lost a baby together… :-(

    After fleeing the relationship, he gave up after the continous letters, phonecalls and texts were being ignored…he even threatened suicide…but he moved on met someone else.

    They lost a baby together too :-( at the same stage we did.

    Against my better judgement my heart went out to him. From MArch till May we emailed each other nice friendly lighthearted and humourus emails.

    I declined invites to meet him as I knew he would win me back. I could never resist him and his touch.

    What I didnt know is that his life was a mess financially, he had two timed his girlfriend numerous times and his dark moods had persisted.

    On May 26th he was found hanging from his loft…

    We had only spoken the week before. Everyone was surprised he did it – even his family.

    I wasn’t. Guess I just knew. No matter what he put me through (and I was no angel either) – I truly loved that man and always will.

    I’m sad I cant just contact him, but happy he’s at peace.

  • Virgo-Gal says:

    I am a virgo and have been with a capricorn guy for five years now. I think the above article does hit the nail on the head, although I did have a laugh when I read the bit about romance lol and the capricorn male being “classy” bahaha couldn’t be further from the truth in my situation, mine took me to freakin Mc Donalds for my birthday and we went through the drive-through and ate the food in the car lol lucky we are both earth signs that understand each other or I really would have had to open up a can of whoop-ass on him. He is also very moody and stubborn. The moods are very bad and I imagine if he was with someone from any other star-sign he could be violent. I somehow know how to calm his mood, even if he’s real fired up to the point of wanting to hit somebody/something I can calm him within seconds. Another point is that when one of us is angry the other knows exactly why without a word having been said. After five years we are both sometimes bored however its the first relatinship i’ve been in where there actually is 100% trust, loyalty, understanding, perserverence and acceptance of different values and ideology. Oh and lastly I must add that we almost never fight, the only thing that really grinds my gears about my capricorn is if I don’t cook, we don’t eat! So frustrating! Im studying so im often up late writting essays etc. and some nights I will go to a study group, well the other night I got home at midnight and my capricorn had joed out in bed with our 2 year old son (whos also a capricorn born the day after his fathers bday). My son hadn’t been fed tea!! it’s not often im not there to cook my son and partner tea but cum’on ya cant not feed a 2 year old tea at night. I know my capricorn can cook too because he used to when we first met! Other than that small fact I love my cappie he works so hard, is a great dad and not to mention a stubborn a*shole, he’s that stubborn and grumpy that it constantly amuses my virgo mind lol

  • Juliet says:

    Met Capricorn man on line ( I am Virgo female ) He told me to search compatibility of Capricorn man and Virgo lady, and this come out, We haven’t meet yet, because I am married still to a boring Leo guy (lol I know it wont last since I joined dating site) but we tex a lot at the moment, its just he made my day exciting will see what happen next :-)

  • Cap loved a Virgo =( says:

    Men, i wished this was true, i fell in love with this virgo women in college and EVERYTHING you said about meeting was right on the mark, we met in class and it felt like a perfect match since we met at gathering 3 times, men was i shy, she was kinda too but shes very talkative so yea. Well we started talking etc etc… and the first date i was so tired from planning it all out, drove 2 hours to pick up my sister car and to drive it back -.-….. then she tells me lets go somewhere close…..but it fine at least were together. Times goes on and i cant stop liking her, she wants to hang out etc etc and lotal as i am, im always there, which i regret not playing hard to get. After a year i had tried to tell her i liked her but i guess i got into the friend zone and that pissed me off. told her i liked her and she tells shell give me an answer later since she has dinner plans with some people, pissed me off after seeing her with a dude……..right now i hate virgo’s but what can you do? billions of other people out there, you cant base it off of ONE event right? Well this really helped me out alot reading everyones comments. I was really hurt for about 6 months but Thanks to you guys in fine i hope lol. And yes capricorn are pratical i am really pratical and an extreme social alcoholic.

  • anonymous says:

    gud u r back in action :)

  • Pydosh says:

    I agree there is this unspoken understanding, chemistry between the two. I’m a Virgo gal and met this Cap guy, it was lie i have known him for years and he tells me stuff about himself his past,hes very open and i’m the opposite i dont like talkin about myself and not open. I really like him alot and so is he. The problem is he wants us to have relationship yet he is with someone and has a child. It doesn’t sit well with me knowing he will be cheating on his galfriend with me. I see him everyday and there is something mutually developing between us. We kissed once just a light kiss on the lips nothing hectic. Please give me advice on what to do. Should i not see him anymore until he has made a decision on who he wants in his life or go with the flow?

  • Mick says:

    Gotta find one of these virgo girls lol

  • Rose says:

    This is me and my man to a T!!! Amazing!!!

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