Virgo Woman and Capricorn Man Compatibility
Famous Virgo-Capricorn Couples: Lauren Bacall and Humphrey Bogart, Rachel Hunter and Rod Stewart
This is one of those divinely enduring and compatible matches we all dream of in our most frantic moments (but most would find stifling if they really had to contend with it). Being two earth signs, the Virgo woman and Capricorn man are able to commit and persevere, essentials of a long term union. Earth signs are conservative by nature, the “placeholders” of society, and what everyone is talking about when they refer to “married, with children.” Nothing too exciting here, just maturity, duty and security.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Capricorn Man: You’d probably gravitate toward each other in any gathering. Except that neither one of you is likely to be found “gathering”! The best way to run into this lady, therefore, is at work. She flirts a lot, but it’s absolutely meaningless. Just a way to keep the space around her inviolate yet not be rude. Approach her in a serious, mannerly fashion and you’re already miles ahead of the competition. She’ll find your shyness uber-exciting. Second, say what you mean. And for God’s sake mean what you say. This lady’s discriminating taste rises to contempt very easily. It’s best to start out with a workday lunch then escalate daringly to Saturday night. You can do it!
How to Attract a Capricorn Man as a Virgo Woman: This man is used to hiding his interest to minimize chances of rejection. He plays indifferent (stuffy and businesslike) when he really lusts after just about every one. He will probably be delighted if you flirt with him and will eat out of your hand if you touch him lightly on the arm while doing so. It’s sensuality he’s after — not sexuality — so know the difference. A few blushes with averted eyes and he’ll want to keep you forever. Please don’t lead this dear guy on. He takes flirting seriously and could really be hurt. He doesn’t deserve that. Save your outrageous dalliances for the beefy extraverts.
Degree of Romance: Romance is deeply ingrained in these two. Both are modest, self effacing, and inclined to put the other one up on a pedestal. Virgo, expect him to bring you a bouquet of violets or forget-me-nots rather than a flashy brassy dozen red roses. No, he’s not cheap, My Dear. It’s called class.
Degree of Passion: Expect two earth signs together to be, well, very “earthy”. Many a Virgo love goddess has graced the silver screen and a Virgo beloved can make her lover’s dreams come true. This is a woman the Capricorn man will absolutely cherish. She will be very patient with him. Just don’t expect to hear about her past (she has one), Cappie.
Degree of Friendship: These two are rather self sufficient but they can be good buddies to one another, especially if they share a common responsibility. Both have impeccable integrity.
Degree of Marriage: Excellent prospects for marriage after a “decent” courtship.
Progression of Relationship: Protocol will be followed meticulously except when Virgo periodically goes off the deep end. At those times Cappie will be both fatherly and captivated.
Sex: Would I be stretching it if I said earth signs marry to guarantee a steady supply of this commodity?
When It’s Over: If it must end it will be death by Virgo because Capricorn couldn’t stand the guilt or sense of failure. He will remain awash in remorse, moody and depressed, probably because he knows he can count on her to (1) do the right thing and (2) clean up the mess.
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Am a cappie 30 in luv wit a virgo 18. She claims she luvs me 2. We’ve only had 2 romantic dates within 3 months. We cant see often because she is tied to her parents apron strings. I cherish her more than my other girlfriends but they give me more attention, love & sex than her. She keeps apologising for hurting my feelings & professing her love for me & yet she keeps hurting me by not making out time to see me. What am i gonna do to make her crazy about me to the extent of sneaking away from home to see me whenever i want her to?
i dont know how to help u ned.. i’m also having my own problem. Im a virgo woman.. interested to know my office mate who is a cappie.. I really like him a lot.. but he seem to secretive n hard to approach..
I dont know whether he like me or just treating me as if im one of him other office mate.. most of our conversation is about work..
I am a Virgo and have known a Cappie for 7 years now. We are not a couple but I love him. I know he loves me, not by his words but by his actions. He is a very reserved person and has a very hard appearance. We’ve been through a lot and have put him through a lot but yet is still here for me after everything. We are in a very hard situation and have been ever since we’ve met each other. We are both single and only have been seeing each other exclusive just recently but cannot be a couple because of the situation we are in.
I rather have him like this than not have him in my life at all.
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im a virgo woman i work w. a guy thats a cap. we became friends first then started going to lunch together etc…….. here it is 2yrs later and we just crossed the lines of being more than friends i can not stop thinkn about this man. sex….. comp. is great the friendship is still there but i want to hear him say he thinks of me just as much as i do when im not with him……. ugh! somebody help im tryn not to come on too strong.
Ned it’s not love and the relationship you two have isn’t healthy in the slightest. The way you typed your message, you can’t be thirty. But if you are, find a girl your own age who can make time for you in her life.
Well, I’m a Capricorn guy… Twice cursed! Not only my birthsign, but my personality traits sign as well… It’s taken 29 years of serious thought and 3 years of flying solo.
maybe that will help capricorn guys understand why they mess up & learn that they’re not giving in… Instead of just wanting to giving their all.
If there is one thing about a capricorn, it’s what we can’t have that makes us *click* & go for it. If you’re within reach… odds are you’ve gotten too close. No doubt you’ve seen this all too often. At the point of closing it and can’t seal the deal. I’ve blown by 3 perfect… I mean “perfect” girls just for the what if’s that plagued me. Now, I realize I should have given in to their demands. You can’t be pushy though… He’ll become “busy” on you. For the love of god! Don’t give in until you absolutely know he’s in your hands! If you time it right… You could have your guy in a matter of weeks. Because he (if he honestly likes you) wants the same things you want whenever you want it. No bs allowed… You’ll get friend zoned & we will keep on looking. So, now ya know! Don’t bring the pressure, just pry a little more and feel him out. Then move in!
**guy that’s 30 if you’re still hung up on that girl… Realize this, you’ll hurt that girls feelings. Be honest with yourself, she needs to learn her lessons from guys in her own age group.**
I want to know how other male caps feel about dating virgo women….does this relationship really work? Or should I move on it sounds like we would have a boring life together!
I have been with Samantha for about a year now. She is
a wonderful caring woman. The sex is great and she is a great partner.
Samantha is very frugal and more of a saver that spender…I like that!
Sometimes she can appear to be over critical and fussy but since I know her traits, I have learned to deal with her in a manner that pleases us both.
@N
i was with a virgo for a long while,and i honestly have to say they are good women.havent met any attractive(single) one’s since.think about;would you rather have a dramatic rollercoaster w someone you possibly cant trust,or have the only thing to worry about be boredom
(which is entirely in your hands)
@Bill
You sound like a wonderful partner. I wish you and Samantha a lot of happiness.
Im a virgo woman 38, who is inlove with a cappy male 39. Its hard for us,cause what brought us together was definatly out of the norm, and caused a whole lot of drama. He has a girlfriend now but we still keep in contact and talk daily. We have confessed to each other of being soulmates(but his thoughts on that is sometimes sm dont end up with each other.) I see that as a cop out sort of speak. @N i say go for it belive me it wont be boring. We are not boring but than again im not the average Virgo woman either. Good luck on you quest for dating a Virgo.
I’m a virgo woman that’s been with a capricorn man for 5 years now…..I have patience the size of Jupiter, but I don’t see a future with him anymore. He’s too childish and I think he wants to stay that way, capps are stubborn as hell, right? Besides, I’m in love with a capricorn, AND a cancer at the same time. What am I to do…..I’ve known capps for years and have made history with him, but it’s all predictable and boring now. Cancer man……I’ve known him for a year, and he’s so different and exciting, and I’m so drawn to it. Help.
I was very surprised when reading this because it seems to be very accurate. I’m a virgo woman and I met a capricorn man at an amusement park actually. We both weren’t “found in the gathering” like said in the compatibility essay. We each were in line at the back of the roller coaster and we didn’t have riding partners. My group of friends were paired up as were his. We didn’t have to sit together on the ride, but I wanted to. I then asked him if he wanted to be riding buddies in a jokingly, flirty manner and he accepted. He was very shy when doing so. We then got to talking and he still kept in his business like mode and talked about his college he was attending and I was instantly attracted. I then touched him lightly on the arm, like said previously, and he blushed. At the end of the ride, he got my number and texted me that evening planning a follow up date. This essay is extremely accurate in my book!
I’m in love with my capricorn man, well we both are! We cherish eachothers ideas and dreams and help eachother with whatever! We have one of if not the the most wonderful relationships! I future together is strong and we both know we will be together for eternity!
@ k your right i was just curious! I really like my cap but sometimes I don’t think he feels the same but it is cool whatever happens happens…..I’m in! And to Bill we virgos can be fussy lol, but just let us have our moments we will be fine after that!
@k
This is personal but I was wondering way did you and the virgo separate?
Am a Capricorn .. and am suffering for the Virgo girl i love ….
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i did approximately everything to empress her .. and to fell in love with me ..
i know she loves me deep inside .. and am sure of that … but she’s not telling or acting like that .. how did i know .. by making her upset and she didnt want to lose me at any rate … but she didnt confess anything while she change the subject when i ask her …..
it’s hard .. totally hard not like building a house .. like building a tower !
waiting for my magical day ! “Wish That Badly
I am a Virgo woman. Met my first husband (Taurus) the same day I met my current husband (Capricorn) 15 years ago. First, Capricorn and I were just friends but we had always communicated well with each other and had an unspoken attraction. Was married to Taurus for 13 years and finally divorced. There was fault on both sides but Taurus will NEVER admit his part. Capricorn came back into my life and it was an instant fit! I must say after all these years I can’t help but think of all that wasted time. We are ABSOLUTELY perfect for each other in EVERY way!
If its anything Capricorns hate, it is to be criticized. And if its anything Virgos do, its criticize…This is a match made in hell, two thumbs down, boring, depressing and terminal. My brother is a Capricorn and he was with a Virgo woman for (I think) about three years. She was a HORRIBLE housekeeper. Her apt was filthy, packed with plastic containers and old clothes and papers. She made good money at her job but she was always complaining about being broke. They fought all the time. My brother looked like a slob when they were together and he lived pissed off, always enraged about something and horrible to be around.
He broke up with her and it was hell getting rid of her, even though they don’t have any kids and they fought all the time. He has a Pisces girlfriend now with ALOT of Aries in her chart (Merc, Mars and Venus). Its like he came back to life. She is absolutely gorgeous, slim and fun. He looks his age again and they are so good for each other. I absolutely love this girl for my brother, even though I was against her at first because of her tattoos. I don’t think Caps and Virgos go well together at all. Cap men need a spark and they go gaga for femininity and class and thats just not what Virgos are about.
Hi..,i’m a Capri of 34 and I’m currently dating wz a Virgo woman (a Pharmacist)of 32.For z first time i wz working in my New Shop, she always hd to come n watch me in a lost manner,as if she is in a problem which she wanted to relate. I ignored her most of z times.But to my suprise I started missing her a lot when I got another job elsewhere.
since then I had to go to his wrk to see her..as we were both strangers.But since I droped a Love/Appology card to her..,she was attracted to me .
Nowaadays..she trys to find time to talk n care for me.We even went to a lunch..n there afterwe became best freinds..we communicate to each other so much days n night..zt she did nt even eared her husband..
I want o hv sex wz her…bt she always thinks in this matter..welll sometimes she ask me if i hv a car to go out wz her..
@Kiran Huddya Do you have a car?
The most horrifyingly accurate part of this essay, is the break up.
Heed my warning fellow Cap men:
If you find a Virgo you think is “too good to be true”, she is true. Don’t let her go because Virgo will help you think through the toughest times. After she’s gone all you’ll feel is clouded thoughts, remorse and guilt exactly.
Learn from the experienced, or suffer your own misdoings.
This is the best match in all the zodiac. I was 15, he was 22, instant magical attraction like we were just meant to be with one another. Always together and married for five years ours home is bliss. Whoever looks at us considers us the “perfect couple” they had ever seen. And no we don’t do PDAs but still…just the way we look at us and talk etc. We have found magic for this lifetime.
P.S @ Sam, my other Virgo woman friends and relatives and I are among the classiest woman you’ll ever meet. Not snooty but ethereally beautiful and “real” classy.
I am a woman virgo in love with a cappricorn man. We are like best friends talk about everything when we have time to set apart for just us, we both work well lets just say ALOT we are very loyal to one another, respect and honor each other. We just have past yuck we are still fininshing up, from mistakes we made in previous relationships so we don’t seem to have a real life just yet. When we do get our time it is so much fun with or with out kids they add spice to our life when we are all together. Just gonna take time to get life straightened up again before we can consider next level. I know I love his sweet kind heart, and that he is a very tall, dark and sexy man just makes this virgo woman want him even more. I love to be pretty and sexy but he makes me want to take that to a whole upper level, and I am cuz it is so comfortable for us no “weirdness” here in this relationship, Hummmmmmmmm
I am a Virgo women totally in love with a Capricorn man. He is a work collegue and we flirt a lot. The thing I find really attractive about him, is being so ambitous and shy and perfect. I am so attracted to him that I feek so lonely and my heart is aching when he is not around, I know we can be great together, but there is one problem, he is with a Sagitarius girl for almost 10 years. I don’t want to be the one to split them up and I know I should stay away, but I can’t help feeling the way I do. His girl doesn’t want to settle down with him, which after reading a few Capricorn traits is a must. I don’t know, just thinking about him now, makes my heart beat dead fast. It could be because I have split up with a Pisces, marriage after 4 years, because he was unfaithful. I love the chemistry between Virgos and Capricorns.
i am a Virgo Woman, Soooo much in love with my Cappi man.But we broke up 3 months ago. Still, i cant get him out of my mind.I broke up with him because of his attitude “COME & GO” i got tired of it. so i decide to cut my relationship with him…Sometimes in life we need to sacrifice something even tho its deadly painful to lose someone you love but we have to rather than suffering or wasting your time with someone you cant even sure how long it will be…..to all virgo girls gud luck with your cappi.hope you will work it out your relationship for a long term…..
Sam, why are you such a douche? my analytical powers just pointed out to me how you are coming on here trying to diss Virgo women based on YOUR BROTHER’S relationship. why don’t you get your own woman and talk about that, instead of trying to act like you know the ins and outs of your brother’s relationships? maybe it’s your brother who wasn’t the catch, ever think about that? it wouldn’t be too surprising considering that he’s related to you… what’s your sign? it MUST be Asshole.
HAHAHA…NICE STRIKE GOLDEN…GET HIM!!!
Hello! I too am a Virgo woman in love with a Capricorn man. He’s 42 and I am 39. Never have I ever had a deeper connection with any man, as compared to my Simon. We are compatible with so many things, and even the sex is INCREDIBLE! Personally, I will put here that I am multi-orgasmic. I swear this is a curse, to be so highly arousable and sexual. I have been with men that have misunderstood this, and felt insecure because I am so into sex. However Simon has NEVER made me feel low or been insecure because of this fact. He is even more attracted to me because he TOO is multi-orgasmic. This is HIGHLY rare I have found out.
But it isn’t just the sex. We are best friends too, and we share everything together. I am a single mom with a severly autistic 8 yr old boy, and Simon has done wonders with connecting with my son. Simon is my soul mate and its interesting because I NEVER thought that I would meet and fall in love with a man like him.
Hello everyone. I am a capricorn man (cap. rising and cap. sun with a taurus moon) and I have just recently seperated from my virgo partner of four years. We have a beautiful 2 year old son together. We both fell madly in love with each other immediately when we met and moved in together within weeks. We had the best sex with each other that either of us have ever had. I had dated three other virgos before her but none of them were as special to me as she was. She became my best friend. I thought we were soulmates.
I lost my job and went back to school about a year ago and although I was getting paid well on unemployment, that made her the main provider of the household. This is where the problems started. I didn’t realize the selfishness she had untill this happened. And, before I lost my job, I was working around 70 hours a week as a kitchen manager (typical capricorn) and she only worked 24 hours a week and NEVER cleaned anything. She is the most selfish and untidy person I have ever been with.
Our seperation is exactly how it is described in the “when it’s over” part. She is the one who decided the terms of our seperation and how we would handle visiting our son with no compromise for what I needed in the seperation (I didn’t even get any furniture!). I can’t argue with her because everytime that I point out a fault of hers or something that is legitamately wrong, she retaliates with five of mine and then SOMEHOW this negates the fact that she ever did anything wrong! And I have tried in every way possible, but she genuinely does not understand that she is at fault for much of our situation. What I would do for her, she would not do for me. What I would do for my family and best friend, she felt that she didn’t need to do.
The hardest part is knowing how close we were (she was my best friend), and now we don’t say more than we have to to each when we pass off our child.
Im a virgo nice as they come.. dated a cap for a year. he came on sooo strong in thebeginning. fancy dates, returants, expensive jewelry.. then he ditched me on new years. then he became himself. distant cold stoic, heartless.. nothing i said was right. he criticized me. sex was robotic. he had a hot body but used it as if it was just sex not love. he was indifferent. mean almost. boring as HELL. never talked. I would ask him ques and he would give one word answers,, wouldnt see me as often..
he had told me he loved me after a month of dating. told me i was the one.. always talked about buying a house, a big ring for me.. I met his whole family.. then the whole thing just went stale. And it was his fault. I tried seeing him more talking… ect he was just a wall. I never felt true love with him. I felt like i was dating the devil. I feel he was also cheating.. he was on numerous porn sites, even escort sites,,, i never brought it up. THEN he has th nerve to tell me im the boring one.
meanwhile everyone thinks im sweet funny and fun to be around.
we broke up and im dating a gemini now… we talk constantly.
im not sure i believe in the pairings of astrology. I dating 3 taurus and it was a boring disaster and 1 cappy… all earth signs. all supposed to be compatible.
I dated 1 gemini yrs ago it was great i was just too young.. and now another gemini so far it seems good.
So maybe it depends on the person???? their upbringing? he was a problem child.. did drugs ect..
so who really knows. u just see if u get along. who cares what sign they are.
Hi everyone, this is the first time I’ve been on one of these sites.
I am a virgo (just turned the big 50), I am soooo in love with with capricorn man (53). We met on line on a dateing site. We hit it off straight away. We have only known each other for 3 & half months but in that time I have come alive again. We get on so well. We laugh and talk the whole time we are together. We want the same things in life. Only thing is he sees me as his best friend. We are best friends. We have been intimate a few times and it was wonderful. He is from a German background and is often saying sexy things to me in German, then translateing them back to me in English which I find so nice. We flirt with each other all the time. We are just so compatible, but I can;’t understand why when things are so good and we are so great together he doesn’t want to go for a relationship. I have 5 children, 28, 25, 22, 16 & 14. He gets on so well with all of them, my 14yr old lives with me and they have such a strong connection. I have met 1 of his 3 children and we got on really well. Are Capricorns scared of commitment? I sometimes think that because I love him so much, that I need to let go and stop seeing him, as each time we are together I fall more in love with him. The only problem being is that I can’t bring myself to stop contact. I couldn’t imagine my life without him.
Anyone got any suggestions for me, please??
Hello,
I am a 36 year old Virgo and have been dating a Capricorn for 13 months; I have been unemployed since we met, but have also worked part time, so he has supported me financially and I know Cps have a miserly/begrudging quality. I have asked when e would move forward to marriage, and he said we would once I have a job, which I am about to land. Now he says he isn’t ready, says he is afraid of my financial drain (buying organic items, not being able to cook..which I am learning). I am realistic about money, and despite my dream of a lush life, I know it’s better to be with a wonderful, ambitious man who cares about me. He does criticize, and exhibit some dark traits but I am a person who can teach him to think and act otherwise, and we do have a good relationship. I thought we were soulmates, and now that he says he isn’t ready to be married, that he fears about my money spending and because he sin’t where he wants to be financially, I told him maybe he needs to see if there is someone out there who will spend less and cook more. I feel foolish to abide by his timeline, as I will be 37 in September. Any thoughts?
hi . iam a cappie 24 with 26 virgo from 5 years. in start we are perfect for each other but now we alone but i kwn she love me too much. and god kwn i still love her extermily. i dnt kown why we are still alone n connected from thre months…….pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee do tell me any idea to get her back forever….love you my dear come back… i am waiting for you till i m alive..as your ego is not premitring you contact me as my ego….god help me…..
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Not yetbu, will have it in 2 months time..
I met a Cappy male (24 yrs old) @ work. Im a cashier, he works @ a vineyard… Anyway.. He is extremely shy.. ANyone have TIPS on how to BREAK the ICE or should I be patient and let him do all the work?
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PS. As a Virgette, I have found the entire description of our initial relations as 100% true true true!
So accurate
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Virgo n Capri’s r very gud match
if u wanna break his brick of silence try best to develop TRUST, once he develops that automatically he will be open to u
But remember these guys r very hard, if they c mistrust they will never look back
Well.. Weve never really spoken lol. Hes super reserved and Im suuuper shy so makin eye contact is hard for me because he’s so hot!! Lol. He makes me nervous even , so Im workin on bein a bit more approachable.. SInce we see each other only at my work neither one of us knows what to say or how to initiate a more personal convo.. :/ Help! Lol.
Im gunna go bananas if someone doesnt cut the bashful stage out
. Maybe I should startout by takin a chill pill..
All of the Virgo women I’ve met and know have been the most critical, shit talking, always negative, never satisfied, boring, picky and annoying people…no wonder none of you bitches can’t keep your man!
All you fake bitches act like you’re ultra conservative ladies when in reality you’re the most scandalous!!!
Uh… for the Virgo hater, you must be hurt by rejections bad… not that judgmental i am… virgos are probably the most loving
for the virgo hater….i’m sure she is a woman who is extremely insecure towards virgo woman…or her man left he and live with virgo woman ..muaahahahahaha….
Maybe her Capricorn man leave her and be with virgo woman!!!…..
Whoa there. Virgo hater had a falling out with ONE Virgo and now he’s generalizin and hating ALL Virgos? The hell outta here with that.
Maybe if you’d stop being so stubborn and showed a little compassion and understandin things could have worked out differently.
And we are not scandalous at all. We’re very shy, humble, and reserved. And very lovable, loyal, and DEVOTED towards trustworthy people.
Get that sty out your eye boy
i had a capi man before and he is verrryyy flirty guy, he seems like he is dating all the woman around….but he kept coming back to me and hurt my feelings until i give up, then he is begging me to get back together…oohh boy, never again…now he is losing his face and dignity….verryy stubborn and selfish, soo cold and greedy…
HELP!!!!
How do I talk to a Cappy guy? Idk what to say or how to go about approaching him!
My dad is a Cap and my mom is Virgo. I wish their relationship was as good as it reads above, but its not. I know my parents are far from perfect even though they would both like to be. Growing up I seen my parents fight a whole lot and it was mainly my mom instigating, she was a difficult woman. I see that now. She had us at a young age so I always justify her action because of that. She was never home, she never cooked for us, she never cleaned, and she didn’t like to bath us. I remember one time my dad intentionally didn’t bath my little brother (he was 1yrs old) to see how long it would take for her to take the initiative to bath him, and it took longer then a week. When she finally did the tread from my brothers socks had wrapped so tight around his big toe and cut off his circulation! She didn’t have any practice with any of us and there for she treated us like shit…..most of the time. I do have some good memories of my mom. Aside from my mom having a lot of tattoos she always had to look her best, she liked the finer things in life, expensive purses, and designer glasses luxury cars on so on. She also cared so much about what people thought…I hated that!! After my parents spilt my mom started dating multiple guys at the same time. She would buy food and her company would eat it all. She always complained to my aunts and my grandmother that she never had money, but because she was too proud to except any from my dad. My dad would deposit money in her acct anyway. Then she would go out and spend it. When she did buy my brother and me clothes she would buy us nothing but designer brands (what a waste). She constantly criticized others for what ever reason, especially ones closest to her. When I was old enough to read and know about astrology I started to realize that my mom was not the only Virgo this way. My aunt, a Virgo, would lie about her age, birthday and cosmetic surgery, and she even lied about a younger man she was going out with because she cared to much about what people would say. Her son, my cousin, also a Virgo, is a handy man, always ditched us when we needed favors. His friends were his first priority, because he cared what they thought if him more. And when my parents split he did not waste time to pass judgments. My cousins husband, also a Virgo, he’s a father of two beautiful children but he’s also lazy, unemployed, liar, and cheater. And he also ditches my cousin to go hang out with his friends. I had a boyfriend, who was also is a Virgo, and not only did he cheat on me but he lied about having a son! As you all can read I’ve grown to have really bad perceptions on how Virgos are. I’m so sorry.
I’m also married to a virgo and i one or two things i see n your letter, ill definetaly concur, they’ll cheat on you and be very deceptive about it. i also notice if i’m not being careful my wife would have me do all the chores around the house and claims that she’s very tired.