As we got further into our relationship, the chemistry deepened. But so did the darkness. His moods could cut shapes in the room and he was so possessive and controlling.

As an independent Virgo I used to leave his house to go back to my own for some me time and to catch up with friends. He would start rows with me and accuse me of seeing other men, so my free time would be spent arguing back. Everyday in our relationship he emailed me from start to finish of everyday, and texted me too. I never had time to do anything as he would get weird on me.

After 18 months I fleed. Sneaked out my stuff as we had lived together for a while. I’ll never forget the hysterical cries of a child begging me to come home when my stuff wasnt there. He said he didnt want to live without me.

You may wonder why I would stay but his charm and knowing how to push my buttons always won me back.
The sex was amazing, we made love constantly and spent most of our relationship cocooned in our own world like John and Yoko!

He cooked for me, ran baths for me, paid for everything, bought me whatever I needed, took days off work to take me to courses for my work….I’ve always known Capricorns to be generous. And he was. He would give anyone his last…

We even lost a baby together…

After fleeing the relationship, he gave up after the continous letters, phonecalls and texts were being ignored…he even threatened suicide…but he moved on met someone else.

They lost a baby together too at the same stage we did.

Against my better judgement my heart went out to him. From MArch till May we emailed each other nice friendly lighthearted and humourus emails.

I declined invites to meet him as I knew he would win me back. I could never resist him and his touch.

What I didnt know is that his life was a mess financially, he had two timed his girlfriend numerous times and his dark moods had persisted.

On May 26th he was found hanging from his loft…

We had only spoken the week before. Everyone was surprised he did it – even his family.

I wasn’t. Guess I just knew. No matter what he put me through (and I was no angel either) – I truly loved that man and always will.

I’m sad I cant just contact him, but happy he’s at peace.

i find virgo ladies very smart, mature and very accurate, cappy man as the same. Both of them as quite responsible about their works. But I was just sad to know that many virgo and cappy couples i met always ended the relationship quite badly…

They have a great potential but when they always talked ’bout each other’s problems but never led to answers. One cappy man, who i intorduced my other virgo friend also broke up recently and told me, “One morning, i woke up next to her and just thought that i had to break up with her.” Geezz….. i just think cappy’s too cold

Good luck ladies. sorry for my poor english…

But Firstly, I must say….. virgo ladies are very sentitive but not sensitive when they act on their ideas. i was pretty upset with my decision to let his couple in my house, because this virgo girl kept making noises even late in night, make masses with dinner party with her friends at home, Drink lots of wine, got drunk and never cleans kitchen (Although herself hates dust and germs). She nailed the walls of the house to change interior without asking me before hand, brought dirty(not clean!) carpets, secondhand vintage furnitures, moved things in living room without my opinion… Now, i am taurus and understand virgo’s nature. They are active, witty, teaser, leadery figure and creative, but many times they get fixed with their ideas and ideal images and take actions without considering others. Sometimes their cause of action was so selfish and self-righteous, i found them in many fights(and they are never scared to fight which is very great from my point of view)..

The capricon man, on my observation… was quite passive, responsible and rather be nurtured intellectually than emotionally. He thinks and acted, not much meow bow wow. HE loved the energy and praticality part of virgo girl. She was also a very good manager, me and her boyfriend was very proud to know her and of her achievements everytime. However, when he saw her problem he never tried to save her or solve her problem. i was angry when he left her alone, because i thought that’s so mean. But he told me that this was because he and her shares same problems and both of them do not know how to approach to the answers. i saw that quite cold hearted.

Also, i have realised when the virgos fall in love they get blinded and do everything for their lover, but it actually makes their lover a little hard,… Cos they take action first and do everything, then fight the other side by not give anything back or not follow the way they want. Her Capricon man often came to me and complained about “What she does is great but it is to fulfil herself, but none of them are truely for me.”

Anyway, back to the point, During the 4yrs of sharing a house with this married couple, i had to be their private cousellor or a house keeper while keeping my work going at the same time. They were both very busy and never have time for house works or proper communication. They kept guessing about how each other would think of themselves, building up unsatisfacted, unresolved problems and secretes.. i tried my best but…. you know i have notice that none of them want to ‘let go’ of self and ‘give in’, or open one to the other. They were ok until i was at home, cos i always delivered each other’s thoughts but when i was travelling for a year, they had a big big and long long fight about their own role in the house.

As Cappy man can be a traditional father, He does not help alot with house work. He can do it, but he prefers the woman to take the role, but i Don’t think Virgos are material for house wife. They are more like women who are very talented in many ways, like to roar like gemini girls. She needs emotional maid, not a strong husband who wants to control her, so she can go out and accomplish in outside world. That’s what she was telling me too. She told me she liked the cappy man when he treated her EQUAL, not a house wife.

Now they are divorced, both moved out, virgo girl got even busier than ever. i hope for their happiness.

anon :

I’m a Cap. Lovin’ this article, too. Whoever wrote it, pretty much nailed it.

I say ditto to that too! I have been with two cappies and I can say there were certain aspects that made them easy to get along with, being a virgo, everything was there except the physical attraction. Now I have found one that is like the perfect match for me and I must say, you hit the nail on the head. It is like we were literally born for each other, AMAZING! There are so many things that we have in common that it is ridiculous! We laugh and play together, we work together, I get my space when I need it… I can’t say enough about us! I literally want to cry, with joy, because i can’t believe I found this perfect man!

Can anybody type or construct proper english sentences any more????

Good god I need a degree in gibberish to understand the most of this!!!

as for Deb: am glad that new woman make it up for you. hope that lil baby comes with joy.

anyways sorry to get away from the real subject here, about the cap man and virgo woman, i only had friendships with capricorn men and in general they are nice men, great listeners and talkers, they always know how to comfort you and assure you that you are never alone, they are warm hearted men with a strong personality. i like that they are never fake and always very true and honest.
my respect to great Capricorns <3