Gemini Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility


Famous Gemini-Aquarius Couples:  Jean Paul Sartre and Simone De Beauvoir, Johnny Depp and Kate Moss, Johnny Depp and Vanessa Paradis, Richard and Cosima von Bulow Wagner

This high-powered mental relationship involves the intelligence in both and a bit of the Space Cadet.  The Aquarius woman and Gemini man both may be air-heads and will understand that about each other.  Air-heads think that because they talked about it they actually did it.  Gemini and Aquarius are trine to one another.  They are the same element and have an easy, hospitable relationship.  Other people may not understand what they see in each other, but you can be very happy together.

How to Attract a Gemini Man as an Aquarius Woman:

You are used to approaching men as equals which works just fine because Gemini is so easy-going.  You should be able to strike up a conversation pretty easily.  With a Gemini man and Aquarius woman, you both might pretend that you are “just friends” for a while, which will intrigue him because he’s such a flirt.  You’ll have to be patient with the way he flits around from topic to topic, but if you can’t get him to start showing up on time, he may not stick around at all.  There will be a tendency for both of you to live in your own little world, Gemini and Aquarius, which gives you the space you like.


How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Gemini Man:   If you’re a Gemini man attracted to an Aquarius woman, show her that you are not intimidated by her intelligence even though she is smarter than you.  You are glib enough to keep up with her.  Tell her that you are not concerned about how opinionated she is because that’s a sore point with most of her boyfriends in the past.  You may also need to do some mental shape-shifting as you try to keep up with her expectations.  Any effort on this behalf will be appreciated.  Most guys can’t stand her.  Let her know you can take the heat.

Degree of Romance:   Gemini may try to introduce romance into the relationship which Ms. Aquarius will find laughable.  She is the most business-like woman on earth.  She expects him to get down to business, too.  Gemini could care less if there is romance or not; he’s just trying to wrap his mind around what will please her.  He’s a little slutty that way.

Degree of Passion: The degree of passion between an Aquarius woman and a Gemini man?  Absolutely zero.  You can’t even fake it.  No value.  Only people who can’t control their minds lose control that way.  Oh what fools, what fools.

Degree of Friendship:  These two can be great friends.  Aquarius is into brotherhood and equality  – even if it’s cross-gender — and Gemini is indiscriminate about socializing.  As long as they have a fairly compatible intelligence and range of interests, they will pursue this friendship with great relish.  After all, it’s hard to find someone to talk to.

Degree of Marriage:  A Gemini man and an Aquarius woman are trine in relationship to one another which means they are in harmony.  This is because they both have a detached outlook on the world and a cerebral viewpoint.  In other words they don’t get involved — even with each other!  Other people may not understand the ties that bind a Gemini man and an Aquarius woman, but these two can be as happy being friends as a fish in the ocean.  What a relief not to have to relate except on spatial terms.


Progression of Relationship:   This relationship will be straight-forward or it won’t get off the ground at all.  Beneath it all they are both business-like and don’t see any reason to waste time.  There may be a singular lack of imagination in their dating pattern.  Neither Gemini nor Aquarius cares very much about atmosphere or setting.  That doesn’t leave anyone to orchestrate the evening.  So in a way it’s pretty easy-going.  All they need is an excuse to get together.  No frills necessary.

Sex:  This combination can really get a hold of electronic equipment in a big way for the bedroom.  There is a gentle need to include objects in the repertoire probably because it objectifies the sexual act.  They may also get off on whacked-out texting and shocking one other with their inappropriate languages at inappropriate times.

When It’s Over:  When it’s over it will be a race to see who disappears faster.  Nobody wants to have anything out with anybody.  Nobody put a stake up anyway, so when it’s done, it’s done.  Wham, bam, thank you m’am.  NBD.

Our Rating:  8/10

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28 Responses to Gemini Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility

  • belinda says:

    Heather Mills is a Capricorn woman…..

  • nancy says:

    Good catch! Thanks.

  • Vero says:

    Vanessa Paradis is a Capricorn cusp (22-Dec), and Simone de Beauvoir was also a Capricorn – 9 Jan. (Sorry to bother you…but I’m Capricorn & love Gemini men) :-) )))

  • Kay says:

    I am Aqua gal involved with a Gemini Man which works differently to any previous Gem r’ship – this one sure is HARD WORK owing to a LOT of Mars & Venusian Taurean aspects in him also- IE never forget the signs of the relating planets between the genders too…

  • nancy says:

    @Kay I do a full comparison of the charts with midpoints and synastryof his on hers and hers on his (which is what you’re talking about) for $350. If interested in this “tell all” approach, write for more information to nancy@bemyguide.net

  • emg says:

    I don’t appreciate the comment that “most guys cant stand..” an aquarius woman. that is appalling and false.

  • Sam says:

    I’m an Aquarius woman and recently got out of a year and a half long relationship with a Gemini man. I’m not sure if it was wonderful or horrible really. Some days were perfect, others were awful.

    The way you said it ends is soooo true. The very day we broke up he changed his relationship status on facebook and deleted me off of it and I deleted his number. I’m basically hiding from him because if I see anything that reminds me of him it hurts. I hate that he isn’t in my life anymore because we were so incredibly close and he was always there when I needed him, but now all he does is hurt me.

    Romance doesn’t really thrill me unless its a big show. He’d want to have me fall asleep in his arms, I’d want to watch a movie together and actually WATCH the movie instead of being flirty. He wanted to be all lovey dovey in public and I didn’t. I loved him but wanted to be able to let go of the “all over eachother” mentality and just hang out.

    It was good while it lasted I guess. He really was always there for me. I just wanted a little more space. You can’t trap an Aquarius and I think it scared him.

    From experience, I wouldn’t recommend this match. As good as the good times were, the pain now that they are gone is so much worse.

  • beaumont says:

    That is true about a gemeni I date one for 3 yrs now. Its hard because of our different views, He doesnt talk very quiet, Iam shy myself so i find my self talking more than ever and he just sits and listen. We started being friends first for about a year and of course he had a woman so it was like a challenge on maybe both of our parts. Hes good but he’s not driven no accomplishments.

  • Sam says:

    @beaumont Its very true that Gemini’s aren’t driven. My ex was a Gem and I am an Aqua gal and I’m very goal oriented and ambitious. He never seemed to understand that part about me because he thought it was petty. If you can handle that part of them then Gem’s are good but if you are like me it will drive you crazy!

  • Sheri says:

    I gotta say, I was LMAO all the way through this description! It is mostly all true. I’m thinking my gemini boyfriend wouldn’t find it so funny though, as much as I would like to share it with him, I won’t. There is at least one error though . . . we have no electronics in our bedroom. Thanks for the smile!

  • Geo says:

    thx girls this was very funny and I have to say (me being a male gemini) most of the description above it very true.

  • mONEKI says:

    I’M AN AQUA GAL AND I’VE BEEN FRIENDS WITH A GEMINI MAN FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS AND SO FAR I CAN RELATE TO A LOT FROM THIS PASSAGE. SO TRUE!

  • Mini Aquarius says:

    I’m an Aquarius woman, and though I have yet to date a Gemini, I’m a little annoyed that we’re always depicted as cold and distant when it comes to love and relationships. I love romance, and I’m quite affectionate when I’m in a relationship! Hell, I could cuddle for days!
    So yeah..Basically, what I’m trying to say is that not all Aquarius women lack passion and are “business-like” when it comes to love. Not everyone matches their sign completely.

  • hooriya says:

    i m aquarin girl. n i got married with gimini man and i really dont analyse him. he is passionate but not always showing his love. so in this way i get confused that how handel him so give me some suggestions :P

  • mandy p says:

    Well, im an aquarius woman intrested in a gemini man. We played the whole friend thing for a while. Then outta the blue he kissed me. The sparks in our kiss were explosive. It was almost too good to be true. So i began to notice the coldness of the gemini.. And realized thats what they do when they are falling. Crazy as it sounds i can relate. When we r in a room together all i can see is him. And in the midst of a crowd is when i feel most connected to him. Its weird. He is very pda affectionate around people and that makes me smile. Although he flirts like a prostitute trying to make a dollar!!!i swear. And me being an aquarius….i do get jealous. Cause i dont like just anybody and if i choose you i expect better. Im not sure where we stand. For all i know he could be just trying to get in my pants….we aquarians take a while to give it up. Gemini boys love a challenge. …and their not use to a fight …they win so easy. Until then friends …..

  • rosicoola says:

    been dating a gemini for the past 7 months and at first he was very charming…cool and easygoing….we clicked like on the third date…i was attracted to himm so much…i didnt even know why…the physical chemistry was even harder to fight..its amazing…i hav no explanation…we are still on but at tims i wonder its it will last…i feel i am more the caring and thoughtful one..and i dont get that in return…..it bothers me…

  • AMB Aquarius says:

    I agree that an Aquarius and Gemini relationship is one of the best. The key to both of their hearts is through the mind. I am a female Aquarius in love with a Gemini male. He has been my friend for years! He had been in a long-term relationship for 4 years with a Scorpio and they recently broke up. He called me sometimes during the months afterwards and wanted to come over late at night. He slept over a couple times though nothing happened. Then, I decided I was going to go abroad for a year. The last night we hung out, our friendly evening turned romantic after a bottle of wine. He asked for a massage and one thing led to another… Suffice to say, there was a lot of physical chemistry there. I haven’t told him that I have serious feelings for him, but I think I should. I think he just wants to be friends, but his actions before I left make me think otherwise!

  • calito says:

    I been with an aquarius woman for eight months and we split up recently i am a gemini for the whole eight months we never been apart we had alot of rough patches because of ex’s interfering with our happiness on both sides we she broke up with me basically over a petty argument and she doesent think I love her but I do its just hard for a gemini to express emotion I feel like i am so soul tied to her I feel her when she is away from me and I am so loyal to her I dont crowd her space because i enjoy my space also I want her to call or something i am going crazy this is the hardest relation ship to let go for me but some times i get alot of private blocked calls and I know its her but shes afraid that i will reject her I dont know what to do help

  • shay says:

    I’m a aquarius female and I have a male.friend who is a
    Gemini. He is really a sweet Guy he know what to say to make
    Me smile or laugh. I feel if your a true aquarius female.
    There should not be any kind of problem in the bed room if u know
    What I mean. We never had sex yet but I am curious because I have a lot to
    bring to the table I just hope He can hang

  • sunshine says:

    I am an Aquarius women who has had many relationships with Aries men , and although they have always said and continue to say I was the love of they’re lives. I always felt Aries men stressed me out and tried to eventually control me .they always ended … For the first time , I am attracted to a Gemini man who has a girlfriend and although I try to resist him , when he texts me all the time , I respond . I know he is attracted to me But he is a flirt and has a player reputation ..How do I resist ?? we had sex once and it was passionate and really good , I need to stay away for my own peace of mind and I can’t !!!!!!

  • Just Listen says:

    Gemini guys haha think of their mind being like an ocean.(I am a Gemini whom has not been in a relationship with women which weren’t a fling, its not that I don’t take relationships seriously but they weren’t real ones; that is my relationship experience so pretty much 0) Just forget those parts. Overall his(Gemini man) thinking regularly of the big picture , that picture being the ocean. Their mind is an ocean. There are many inside components and some that just won’t be able to be figured out. For example we as researchers know more about the moon than the ocean and we cannot fully explore the ocean due to technology not begin capable of doing so yet. Inside the ocean is the more diverse type of ecosystem. Such as the fickleness of a Gemini. Dating a gemini guy could be like dating four different guys in one body. Those guys in most cases will be Charming(being the epitome of all you want him to be), funny, philosophical/smart,moody. Those aren’t the typical type but they most certainly apply to me at least how my twin sister puts it. It is impossible to understand the ocean it its entirety but maybe thats a good thing that you cannot for what if something you did not need to know is included. The ocean is vast and Gemini’s like to keep certain personal interests to themselves entirely, most likely these aren’t interests that could be harming your relationship if you knew what they were but the time he puts toward them is the true damage dealer if anything. While some Gemini’s can seem like your knight in shining armor one day ,the next day he may not include yourself in it at all or even for many days in a row or on and off. Its not at all because theres a problem in your relationship and you must understand that truly and sincerely. When they return they’ll probably come back as prince charming or romance king as he misses his beloved partner. This could very well be a bad example ,but if he stops contact with you without notice for days/weeks and doesn’t contact you during those days it’s not because he finds something wrong with anything with the relationship, that’s just him. He still loves you as much as he did the night of your passionate sex the day before he goes. The example is just think of him as recharging his freedom batteries a bit so he can enjoy his personal interests. Most likely he’s not chatting with other women in flirtatious ways or anything such disloyal, but rather just doing what he likes to do. Also never ever take a Gemini’s conversation topic to heart unless its about emotional feelings and such between you. If he tells you something thats even slightly insulting or that boosts his ego he doesn’t mean it from the bottom of his heart no matter how serious his facial expression is. If your Gemini hasn’t suggested it yet, the next time your preparing for a passionate love making pull out a whipped cream spray can and I couldn’t tell you just how much he will appreciate that, I don’t joke when I say that. Also don’t take his flirtatious nature to heart, if he’s flirting with other women he probably hasn’t even noticed because he’s just like to leave good impressions to ensure you as a couple look best in all ways. I have things to do but a lot of people seem to get the wrong impression of Gemini guys so I took a large portion of my leisure time to thoughtfully construct this and write it down but I need to go now. I won’t be checking this again so if you still have questions concerning Gemini’s(male or female, I can put in my 2 cents for female gemini because I am a Gemini and I have a twin sister thus she’s a Gemini as well) you can contact me through my email: 321Imheretostay@gmail.com
    Btw tell me you saw me from this site or such,etc
    -I did not check over this post more than once so my grammar, pronunciation, spelling whatever it may be could be very horrible also to add english is not my native language.
    -Also I am human therefore I will have mistakes here and there but what I told you I believe but its always possible I worded it in a way you may not interpret the same.

  • aquagirl says:

    on the other hand theres some thats not so tranquil not so happy not that confident. when does the aqua woman become liekt that. my gem ex its been 3 yrs since i last saw hime but he left such an impact theres so much life to live so much fun i cant believe i have not much confidence left now. did he drain it all away? when i left i thought he dint want to look at me and so left wo sayin goodbye though i wanted to. theres an all pervasive sadness now. cant wait to get away and when you do all thahts left is sadness. these gems can make you like that. nancy is so right.

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  • sarah beth says:

    ahem “most men cant stand her” oh really. im the loveliest person you’ll ever meet! fuck you guys lol

  • Lacking imagination says:

    Wow, definitely interesting read. Both of these signs lack imagination?

    It would have to depend on their “placements” but I agree, authoress. Sun sign alone and dominant air alone, yes.

    Danny Elfman is a Gemini, don’t see him as lacking imagination though.

    Imagination is usually in the realm of the water sign.

    Btw, Author, Johnny Depp/Kate Moss, that is Capricorn woman/Gemini man. Although Kate Moss has 4 planets in Aquarius, her sun sign is Capricorn.

  • Johnny Depp/Vanessa Paradis - Capricorn woman/Gemini says:

    just wanted to comment that i just checked too, and that while Kate moss/Depp is Cap/Gemini pairing…

    Vanessa Paradis (capricorn woman with cancer moon) is not an aquarius:

    http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Vanessa_Paradis
    she’s a December Capricorn woman.

  • MahaliamamodelRay says:

    aqua woman sometimes does things a little differently. not because she wants to be different-that the furtherst thing from mind. But there is a way out to something shes facing and no one can solve. its not a problem but the anticipated problem she seeks to prevent. in a holistic way. face and embrace the unknown – that is also an aspect of the higher one.

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