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  1. Brigette

    When my Gemini honey and I just started getting to know each other months ago, there came a period when there was this HUGE slit between us and I figured he was going through some personal stuff that he wasn’t ready to speak to me about and so I respected that and gave him his space to figure himself out ( though neither of us were really looking to get into a relationship then, for personal reasons)…….and to be very honest deep down I knew this gap between us was just going to be temporary ( didn’t really think it was over between us, because I felt that spark in his hug when our bodies embraced that night – the energy our bodies exchanged was phenomenal – I couldn’t help myself, felt like I needed to hug him that night before we went our separate ways and I never usually hug people especially strangers 😉 ), but I always felt a strong connection with him and I knew it was real, something he indirectly confirmed when I had ask him a particular question based on a particular statement he had made prior, but no the attraction was just natural….. so then now while his conduct prompted an alarm for serious questioning overtime because he just went from super cool to totally unresponsive for no particular reason, I didn’t trip it much and its never usually my thing to get dramatic either, but one day I just decided to tell him what was on my mind by sending him a sms message and told him he didn’t need to reply and left it at that, but then because I found myself listening to this particular song alot during those times, (thats how much I missed him) it kinda kept me calm and so still wasn’t worried….. sometimes our guts tells us things and if we just take the time to listen, often times we cant go wrong 🙂

    And that’s why I tell people all the time, to just stay positive, adapt a mantra for positivity – the pure kind, because it does work when you remain calm, cool and collective, something I’ve learnt years ago and since then….. oh yeah, love did lead him back 😀 – i love you baby, always have – always will!


  2. Arissa

    My ex was a Gemini who had a history of cheating. Yet somehow we got together. Things ended three years later when I encouraged him to go overseas to work in the last ten months. Naturally, we grew apart.
    During the last months, I thought I had lost my feelings for him and treated him as a friend.
    Yet, I don’t know why I can’t control my tears when other people ask me about this guy, when I thought I had lost my feelings for him. I’m still baffled till today.

    I just met another Gemini man that I’m attracted to, the courtship does seem skirmish. He can be super affectionate when he’s with me, the next moment radio silence for days. He does seem impossible to tame down, but yet I am still attracted to him when I know he spells trouble. I know we will get on really well, but also know there’ll be a lot of fights.
    I need to know I have 100% attention from him as a Leo lady, but yet I know he won’t be giving it to me. Potential disaster ahead.

  3. Arissa

    Why didn’t anyone ask this:
    What do you mean by Gemini man has sticky fingers in the article???

  4. Suad

    Well I know you may think that it’s not necessary that he marry as proof of finding the one but knowing him I’m 100% sure that engagement would have been the first step and he never did. We are Arab Muslims and usually when a guy wants a girl he asks for her hand to prove it. That’s what he did when he met me and felt the connection. He asked for my permission first, then my hand in marriage. Plus if he had been in any relationship that was at all meaningful, would he say that he had only truly loved once after all these years? I know one thing about Gemini men and how they think and the way it works for them is ” out of sight, out of mind” I guess the fact that I wasn’t close to him made him forget me but I have this feeling that if he saw me just once, he will feel it again.

  5. Suad

    I honestly think he tried but I have been told that this is what he said. I even heard that he searched for someone through his mom like many Arab men do and still nothing…….maybe because Gemini men can be picky about finding ” the one”. I also believe that true love isn’t something that comes easily. I think he doesn’t want to settle like I did, hoping it will come after marriage.

  6. Suad

    Hi Adie0206. Im also a leo and i read your story and I just wanted to get your opinion on mine as a Gemini man (if you don’t mind.) My first love was a gemeni and after 8 years and 4 relationships (only 2 serious, one of them lasting a year and the current one 4 years), I have never felt the same way about another man EVER. He was the only one that made me feel like I was 100% sure of my love for him. He disappeared on me when he decided to break it off with no notice and being the leo i am, my pride forced me to forget him and move on. Throughout the years i thought i had gotten over him until months ago i heard that he backed away for specific reasons. After that i heard he asked about me and that he felt the same way i do. He hasnt married yet because he has never found soneone that made him feel the same way he felt about me, yet he never tried once to contact me again. Im so confused about why that is and Do you think my nkt being able to forget him is because he’s my first love or because I didn’t get closure when we broke up? I’ve always until now pictured the moment that we would some day meet again and never have because we live in different countries.

  7. Adie0206

    Reading the info about myself, a Male Gemini, and my partner, a Female Leo had me stunned, literally. I was always sceptical and didnt really believe in this that what i call “Bull S*#t” but i can honestly say you have changed my views completely as everything in regards to how we are as a couple was absolutely spot-on, spot-on in every single bit. Thanks for brightening up my mood, i feel bewildered lol.

  8. Trena

    @Sol it’s funny you say that because I told him I think he needed sometime to himself without any phone calls from anyone he said he would but I don’t think he can so I’m gonna back off and not answer his calls for a while I was off 3 days this week and I was with him most of them also when we first broke up he spent alot of time in Lakeland (with the one he left me for) but for the past 3 weeks he hasn’t been over there and apparently they are having some problems they argu alot but they both are Gems so go figure and I just wanted to add that it’s been a pleassure speaking with you SOL on this matter you have really giving me some clairity on my situation and I wanted to say THANK YOU

  9. Sol

    If possible, you and the other girl should leave him alone for a month or two. Let him breathe.
    I think Gems have to miss you, MISS you to really know they love you and only you.
    If the world ended tomorrow, in the very last minute–who does he want to be holding? Who does he want to be kissing–the last thing he sees in the last second of life?

  10. Trena

    @Sol today he told me he thinks he’s in love with 2 ppl and i let him read your story he said it sounds like our situation do you think I should step back so he can see what he wants do you think I’m making it harder for him by being around

  11. Sol

    Ask him this and I think Geminis understand this point well:

    “Do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who you feel you can just “work it out with” or spend it with someone who you’re “crazy about and INSPIRES” you? You get only ONE life- don’t rob yourself of true happiness and settle for the “just..Okay” when you can have the best. For once listen to your heart.”

  12. Trena

    @ Sol I wanted to say thanks so much for sharing your story with me and I’m going to share it with him as well and your story reminds me of my story maybe it won’t take him long to see the truth the hardest thing for me will be when he moves with her in Jan he will be 2 hrs away and it’s crazy because now we still talk on a daily basis we don’t spen the time together like we use to and I miss him sooo much

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