1. Feb 28th

    Where do I start…… Ok so I’m a Pisces woman dating (on and off) a Gemini man. I swear on my life I was not expecting to fall hard for him it just happened. We’ve been dating for 4 months and it feels like an eternity. When I first met him he definitely had this charm about him but I didn’t give in easy, I thought I could manipulate him……boy was I wrong. In our short 4 months we’ve been through it. Sometimes he can be the most heartless person I ever met but than he would say something to make me melt. He was the first person to say I love you because us Pisces women definitely not saying it first lol. He even said MARRAIGE in the next 4 years (I don’t believe it until I see it). He’s also going through his hoe phase (he’s 20 and I’m 21). I want us to work out so bad but he’s so wishy washy. Ik he love me because after I did some real crazy shit, he still stuck around. It’s just our communication off. Can a Gemini man please help me understand him before I kill this man lol.

  2. Kiesha

    Wow!! Where to start… Im pisces female been with a gemini man for almost 6yrs…. its been a hell of a rollercoaster ride… but the attraction and passion for each other is irresitible…. there is no escaping it. We have broken up more than I care to acknowledge… but the moment he realises his lost me oh my god! He will fight hard with all his charm to win me back…. and guess what?? I always take him back.. my experience is… it doesnt matter if your star signs are suited or not! Alot of it depends on how you where bought up what your morals and priorities are…. I could write a freaking novel on my relationship.. but I will try to shorten it. The reason my gemini and I struggled to make it work in the beggining is his family his father means well but his a drunk… my gemini is sometimes very impressionable by his family… his dad would tell him Im a slut and to trust no one…. it put alot of strain on our relationship… my gemini had to learn to trust that I loved only him and he had to learn not to smother me and let me have my time out and let me be me… and I had to allow him to be him…. there has to be ALOT of compromise and sacrifice on both sides…. his love and passion for me is admirable and its weird cause he writes me beautiful messages and poems…. so ladies dont think your gemini cant be romantic my gemini is one of the most romantic guys I have ever met… my gemini is so incredibly smart has never touched drugs… his a tattoest and a game designer… and is sooo smart I find that very attractive…. we have 2 kids together so we have fought hard for our relationship there has been many downs but just as many ups… its not the easiest relationship but if you can find that middle ground between water and land.. emotion and logic you will have a beautiful relationship… I definately see a forever fun and loving relationship with my gemini… and if you are in a relationship like this one please remember not all compatibilities are going to write your relationship. Alot of how it turns out is up to you and alot of understanding, respect, compromise and love… please feel free to ask me any questions I may be able to give you a different angle on how we made it through the challenges.. advice to the gemini man make your pisces woman the centre of your world and your priority make sure you actually not only use words but action to prove that you love her theres one thing I have said to my gemini man through out our entire relationship ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS…also your pisces likes self time to hide away in her bubble occassionally.. let her… or take her to the water or nature it will calm her and make her love you beyond control Because she will feel like you “get her”… advice pisces woman not all men are spiritual and deep like us and to be honest my man keeps me grounded and we need that so go easy on him. Allow him to have his man time too. Make sure that you show him love and understanding and you NEED to communicate how you are feeling to be able to compromise if you dont like something dont fly off the handle he is not a mind reader as wonderful as it would be to have someone who just knew us its just not realistic so talk to your lover calmly and always start the negative off with a positive eg. I Love you but this is hurting me… etc.. compromise and respect each other research not only the star sign but also the chinese horoscope and also their primal astrology sign (google it) its creepy accurate it will help you understand your gemini and the reason they are the way they are.. just before I finish I just want you to know me and my gemini lover are stronger than ever going on 6yrs and finally I have found that middle ground and it is a beautiful place and we are taking the next step and getting married because we feel we are ready love and light to all.

  3. gemini male

    Hey everyone, I’m talking to a Pisces woman, and me being a Gemini man I find her innocent yet submissive nature to be quiet alluring, meeting someone who can stop me in my tracks is a rare find and relieving at that, we geminis find ourselves feeling spiraling out of control and to meet someone so nurturing is amazing, the reason we act aloof and “heartless” is because we are scared to get hurt, we keep people at bay because the being intellectuals are weak point is emotions, I guess you could say she is my rock, I use to look at relationships and laugh histarically but when I look back on the path I walked with her I smile soflty, we are cursed, we don’t mean to hurt people, I most certainly never did, things just happen, I guess what I’m trying to say is to not give up on your gemini man, he doesn’t know it but he needs you, and I do apologize on our part if we cause any problems

  4. Deja

    I am all for transformation and progression, I am all for deep soul searching and be reveled in your own physique of understanding yourself and acknowledging your culpabilities, I am all for discovering new propositions and new measures needed to improve oneself, I am all for connecting with oneself and finding oneself deeply, I am all for assertion and expression – what I am not for is mind games.

    When someone can identity a problem in oneself, then that means they are not dumb or stupid or an idiot or passive, that means they are very well conscious and aware of their actions and behaviors and how it affects another and even especially themselves, that means they are deliberate in their doings of trying to not prove something to themselves ( that yes their are genuine people who actually does care)….what I do appreciate however is the fact that they know what they need to be doing differently to survive, however about why the choose to torture themselves is beyond me and only they know the answer to this, I can only assume in the assessment of the situation is that in their efforts they really mean no harm to which they unintentionally inflicts, but that they have a hard time finding themselves and are pretty much confused about their direction and purpose…..but all because of a past experience, that didn’t cost them their life then, they are determined in making it paralyze them for as long as they have breath left…daaang!!

    Acknowledgement of initiated errors means you know its not what you want to be doing but how to stop yourself is the biggest challenge, you are not your mistakes or your failures or your disappointments, however much required is for you to go back to the drawing board and resurface with a different strategy, you still do have the opportunity to relaunch and reinvigorate your dream, dig deep and challenge yourself and hold that vision, all the bad experiences can be used for a greater good and regardless of what is going on around you, refuse to play small or to give up, put your self in auto-pilot and choose the road less traveled and march towards your dream and stop overwhelming yourself with darkness. Let go and trust, reach for new goals and conquer new mountains.

    Yes your relationship of many years may have ended and you were disappointed, devastated, disturbed, shocked and probably even traumatized and confused, yes the pain was unbearable, you felt disillusioned and were filled with despair, but guess what, you are here now, you didn’t die, its time to let it go and move on…. ITS TIME TO MOVE ON, yes you have taken a hit, yes life may have knocked you down, but you for sure weren’t knocked out, yes your mind may have lost balance causing you to stagger and your heart felt as if it had been ripped out and handed back to you on a silver platter, but as hard as it will be, you have to shake it off and move on, and moving on means that there is no amount of anything that’s worth your sanity….you can start over again and believe in yourself that you have what it takes to make it right and maintain it staying right…..just focus yourself on things that really matter and don’t give in to the distractions! You have the power to change your circumstances and pull yourself together to love and be loved again….

  5. Theresa

    Wow that is a sloppy response posted above. I apologize for all the typos. I am doing this from my phone but I hope you can make out most of it I wish I could talk to somebody else who’s in the same situation..but even though this seems kind of spot on I don’t go by astrology I go by how it feels..I also feel at times that I wanted to leave him and I just couldnt work up the courage to do it.same on his behalf .we’ve been through a lot of trials and errors so you both have to be in to make it work .it took a lot of the talking and it felt like it fell on deaf ears and a lot of explaining to tried to make him understand my deep emotions.hes very faithful but i do feel like theres another side ti him and if so he hides it well…hes as innocent as he is nieve.. Thats a challenge in itself. But now where I am in the relationship I still have my doubts about us but we plan to get married and on my and I know that instead of trying to change him to accommodate me more I have to just except him for who he is and again that’s total sacrifice with thinking long-term and permanent.im willing to do that because I love him that much and if he loves you he’ll find a way to show you even if it’s not on the way you expect. After all hes a polar opposite.

  6. Theresa

    Wow i really enjoyed all these responses. I have been with my gemeni for almost eight years and im sure i would blow your mind with all the relevance i could share but id be here all day. Me and my gemeni were like a moth to a flame at first sight. We shared a passionate 4 hr kiss. The very next day he asked me to be his. I agreed on a whim doubting it but had nothing to loose. We were kids 16/17.. We spent the. Ext year with unteresting conversagion and becoming bestfriend! I truley believe to this day that it was that time and waiting over a gull year to be intimate with my gemeni led us to have the solid foundation we have now. Now dont get me wrong this is bu far not an easy relationship we lack in many areas. Its funny i read a comment were some woman wrote she feels she loves him more then he loves her! I feel this wag too! Alot! And it sucks. But i convincemy self that he lives me with all that he xapable of and even thoughits not the same love i share for him.. Its the only way he can! He lacks with emotional connection hands down! This hasmade ourrelationship very self sacrificail on my end! I gave uo alot of things for him but be careful here becuse it causes much resentment.we are a lost ship at see and against all odds but something keeps me tied to this cery specail nieve intellectual misundersttood man. From what i understand of gemenis he dosbt futthe bill. While he ahares some qualities hes very reserved and quite and communication has always been an issue.sex is a toss of a coin it depends how much he’s willing to out in.. One minute ill feel as though our souls are intwined and the next he d rather die then be with me.theres so much more to say but i can tell you this… For a pisces woman im sure that there is an easier more satisfiyng relationship out there that would cater lightyears better to our emotional side.. But anything great is worth fighting for.. Our tender moments that wedo share.. Though far and inbetween is what i live for. I can imagine a world with out my complicated at times closed off and can seem cold hearted gemeni hes anything but. I think what I’ve come to learn is that a Pisces in a Gemini both lack in what seems like the same areas and because of this you know in a relationship you’re supposed to better each other but you hold hold each other back because your week in the same areas where you need them to man out they don’t and it seems like a pie seasons of taking control of the relationship and we become dominant which isnt in our nature for us were more of the submissive type but you know these things aren’t final saythink what I’ve come to learn that a Pisces in a Gemini both lack in
    the same areas and because of this you know in a relationship you’re supposed to better each other but you will hold each other back because your week in the same areas where you need them to man out they don’t and it seems like a pie seasons of taking control of the relationship and we become dominant which is in nature for us were more of the submissive type but as the years go on i see a clarer picture.. And that is despite all i live my gemeni so much so it takes away from me..hope some of u can understand what im trying to say.. Much love

  7. PiscesFeb26

    I am a pisces guy, born February 26, ya one of those Feb nerds.But um, I’m in a relationship with this Gemini girl, we met four years ago and still going strong. In my opinion especially taking from people’s perspectives, us pisces people should realm lighten up and ease off on all the mushy stuff ya know? Keep it to an extent, and chill the beans man, and your pisces β™“ Gemini β™Š relationship should stay strong.

  8. arle

    I really like what i read few minutes ago. That made me more understand about him. πŸ˜‰ Actually i also had a church frpm other church. I really like him a lot. Until we became friends, close friends and that made me more silently love him. But it ended up that im just his bestfriend. I always dream about him haha! It was just really one-sided-love. I dont even think if his intp me too. It kinda hurt me but its ok, as long as im his bestfriend πŸ˜€



  10. Prices gal

    I’m a Pisces woman married to my Gemini man for a little more than a year, together for a year and I couldn’t imagine my life without him. It’s true that I know he could never go as deep into spiritual things or even have deep conversations but I’m okay with that and I actually love the fact that he doesn’t let me get too deep into my emotions because as a Pisces I can get very self destructive and self pitying. But with his lightness he pulls me out of that and helps me remember the positives. I love him so so much. He’s amazing.

  11. Love my beautiful pisces

    I was a cheating bastard before I met her,but now I feel that I’m changing and when we are together it’s some kind of magic comes through me….It is true that physically she is totally my type and this makes me ”k.o.” and probably this is my weak side,but I love that and I admire her personality too…Wish you good luck in this relationship guys!

  12. Pisces that indeed is what I am and Proud of it

    I’ve been talking to this gemini dude for over 7months now. We first started out as just friends and we would hang out. Then one time I went over to his apartment and he could not keep his hands to himself. I told him that I have class and don’t do one night stands. And I told him I am not interested in a friends with benefits fling either. We made out that day at his apartment then again he couldn’t control his self so I left. The next day he gone text me saying sorry I apologize and expressed that he missed me. He told me he enjoyed my company. Being the pisces I am I forgave him hoping that the next time I saw him he would keep his word and control his self. Once i got there we talked again but this time we went out he treated me to a movie and dinner. I thanked him and he basically wanted sex. In which we didnt have until I felt comfortable with him. Once we did he fleed. I didn’t see or hear from him for 3 months. I expressed to him that I didnt like his fleeing act that he pulled and that I only see him as a friend. Being the gemini that he is he tries to play the mind game by coming up with all sorts of excuses as to why he couldn’t answer his phone when I called or why he never called. I stopped talking to him for a month after the conversation. Then school starts and come to find out we have the same class. He has missed class and calls me asking what he missed. He then goes on to say he wants sex and misses me. We spend over an hour on the phone and he kept apologizing but I told him I no longer trust his word. I no longer trust him as a person either. He claims he will make it up to me. I might be able to use him for a stress reliever every now and then. But right now I know hes not my husband,nor is he my boyfriend. I am stubborn and I am talking to other people. Geminis…. very interesting but detached and very heartless, distant people, never knows how to be still, very friendly but not mature enough for a committment.

  13. bopeep

    im very close to a Gemini male, im pisces female, weve been friends from afar for 18months,, and for the last 6 very close,and what feels like love
    its so hard to tell when he backs off,,, one minute he says amazing things, and is closer than anyone ive ever felt so in love with before, then he will say something stupid or go in a strop,and ignore me for a few days, I agree, i get scared,and upset, and angry at myself at times,, for feeling this way over him,., and its ve3ry complicated, so we cant “be together yet”,….but just when i wana throw the towel in,,, he will bring out the big guns (words to make me swoon,and feel all loved up” i am scared for the future, and cud so easily try and slip away, ive ignored him for several days, to a week one time,,, he contacted me saying is ur fone broken ?!?! (joke) WORDS OF HOPE PLEASE xx

  14. Lydia

    I love my Gemini. He’s thick at times, to my suffering but when I can never ever stop loving him. I would never give him up. I LOVE HIM, so πŸ™‚
    Oh and i think i disagree about the lack of passion bit. My Gemini and me are a ball of raging fire. Its torture to keep our hands to ourselves. πŸ˜‰

  15. LoveMine

    I’m dating a Gemini man at the present moment… Upon reading this, I definitely see the detachment he holds, & as some of you have commented, I worry about him getting bored with me or losing interest in moving on all the time.
    We met a year and a half ago. He would do something stupid (he was very flakey), so I’d refuse to talk to him. Being the stubborn pisces that I am, though, I’d end up talking to him when he’d try to reconnect with me however many weeks later after I’d calmed down.
    This actually happened quite a few times with us, but I swear to you, we had such a great connection, it was hard to deny him. He’s the only man I’ve ever forgiven this much without holding a grudge of any kind. I’d say the greatest benefit of this relationship is both the lack of jealousy & the mental connection. I can honestly say we trust eachother, and that feels so amazing. And as far as the mental connection goes, when he tells me I’m his best friend & it’s a nice change from his other relationships he’s been in, it makes me feel like a million bucks. I like knowing he feels like he can tell me anything & trusts me to know everything.
    And sometimes I do feel like I love him more than he loves me, or that there isnt enough of an emotional connection to make it last. But then he does something so sweet for me, or when he tries to take care of me, or make sure I know he loves me… thats when I know I never want to give him up.
    For those of you piscean females out there thinking about dating a gemini, try it out. you may end up regretting it but you may not. & life is definitely a learning experience. πŸ™‚

  16. PiscesLoveDeep

    I’ve been with my Gemini man for almost two yrs. I’m a Pisces girl and I fell for him first online, we chatted fr 6 months straight thru email then on the phone every single day. What a blast we had! Then we met and ended up moving in together. It was great at first. All new and happy, tons of laughs and lots of conversations. But he was recently divorced and even though he had made me tons of promises of true love and marriage which got me to meet him in the first place, he never went through with any of it. I heard from a mutual friend that he told them he was just bored one night while surfing the internet and found me. He needed someone to chat with because he was lonely. He wasn’t really looking for love at all so he just led me on for whatever sick reason he had in his head. I still don’t know why. I gave up my whole life to be with him too. So stupid. He had no intention of us ever really getting together even though we were both really attracted to each other. He just liked that I could hod a good conversation with him. So now, here we are still living together but in separate rooms, both dating other people and hardly ever saying a single word to each other. It’s really terrible. I keep trying to remind him about how great of a “friendship” we had prior to moving in together and that we should work on that friendship again without the romance added, but he seems to be of in his own little world these days. I dunno cause one day he seems to be totally in love with me and very jealous if I chat with any other men on the phone and the next day he acts like he hates me and wants me out of his life. He was so wonderful before we moved in together so I suspect the whole “chase” thing with Gemini males is true. Once they catch you, the chase from them is over and they leave “mentally” at least in my case for someone new. Learned my lesson the hard way. No more Gemini’s for me-ever again!

  17. Pisces to The Core

    i am a pisces woman who fell in love with a gemini man. we have been together for 2 years and i have to admit i have found my best friend and soul mate. but we didnt start out as friends first. we met online, had a few dates, than we became official. i have never met anyone who understands me so much emotionally, and mentally on such a deep level.

    I will admit that there are times that i question my feelings for him because gemini men arent as emotionally attached as we, both men and women pisces, are. but after reading a little bit about the gemini man, my understanding for his behavior at times has grown. of course, i find it to be quite irritating at times but that is just who he is. and i accept him for that just as he accepts me for who i am.

    in fact, i find him even more appealing and attractive now because i have such a deep understanding of him.

    besides, a little research on someones personality never hurt : )

  18. Piscean Virgo Rising

    crazy about my gemini :
    wow.. that was so so accurate.. i love my gemini.. we startd out as friends.. initially, i didnt really think much of him.. but when i got to know him, i just loved him for his candidness.. he lets his guard down and lets me in.. and being the piscean that i am, i enjoy it very much.. the only trouble is, he’s with someone else.. but we’re stil such best friends!! and i’m torn between telling him and shutting up about it.. i mean, should i ignore the wonderful connection we have? but there is also that piscean trait.. i’m fickle! i dont trust me!! i kno i do love him.. i really really do..

    I am a Pisces female, who fell for her Gemini friend..we even lived together for a month… we are so compatible as friends, but it did not work out as a living arrangement. The reason was a long distance third party.. he was unwillling to let her go. We did remain friends, and lovers, but he now has left the country to meet up with her. I am filled with mixed emotions.. and wise enough to know, it is now over. It was an overly passionate relationship, and I guess we lost our minds temporarily. I would not recommend dating an old friend to anyone.

  19. Vanniii

    I JUST started talking to a Gemini man, we havent ,et before but last ngiht we were talking on the phone and didnt wanna go! haha.

    I’m really concerned though, we have a lot of similar traits but I dont know if he’s gonna end up getting bored.

    Blah, its confusing but I’m giving it a shot.

  20. Gem-in-eye

    I met a beautiful piscean woman the other night…I was hooked line and sinker by her eyes and smile. We hit it off the bat! Tonight, we’ll have our first ‘real’ date…she makes my heart flutter! I don’t take all this to heart but as advice or caution in the wind. She is smart and a great kisser! I’d never been with a pisces before…Here goes!!!!

  21. Gabriel

    I dated a piscies women for about 5 years. She was 16 and i was 17 when we met. We started as intimate friends then it led to a real relationship. I can say it was magic. We were like two young kids extremly happy all along. Sex was amazing for both of us. We were living like we were married. When we were alone, the world was ours but when someone else stepped in…. it was a nightmare… she was a different person. After three years on a christmas eve, she decided to end our relationship. She followed her parents advice, because she was going to the university and she was going to become a lawyer and i was working on my way to become a cop. I presumed she lost her interest in me. So she started to date another guy that was going to university ofcoarse but she wasn’t happy with him. She was still thinking of me(we had a mutual friend). Three months later i got accepted at the University (i did it because i wanted to show her i am capable too…even tough this wasn’t my life plan..) and she camed back to me. I didn’t expected her to come back but because i loved her, i decided to give her another chance. We got back; everything was ok but it wasn’t like before… we were both different. She wanted me to be the way i was before and i wanted her the way she was before but neither of us did nothing, we both had a big ego. After a year, we got in a fight and she left me without telling me nothing and then i found out a week later that she started dating a rich guy… As far as i can remember she wasn’t like this and she wasn’t materialistic when i met her… People changed her, mostly her parents & best friends. My advice in this relationship is that “piscies women” don’t realy seem to know what they want…and they are very easly influenced emotionally. I ended up broken hearted and i got my life experience πŸ™‚ we both had reason in our fights…we were both right and wrong… we both learned a lot form each other and i thank her for everything. After all this… i still love her very much and i will probably love her for the rest of my life. I am blinded by her love. However, will not make the same mistake twice.

    Wish u all the best and remember that love is the second best thing after life… πŸ˜‰ so… “Laugh as much as you breathe, love as long as you live…” – Unknown Author

  22. iloveyouTee

    im in love with this gemini boy and im a pisces. sometimes i do feel like he’s not into me and then he’ll be affectionate and make me feel good. it aggravates me but i love him too much to to stay mad. anyway this helped me understand why he acts likes this sometimes…

  23. lovinmygeminiman

    I really enjoyed reading this assessment of a gemini man and a piscean woman. I do; however, have to disagree with the passion section. I am a female pisces and dated a gemini male, we had a very passionate relationship.

    We also had a very deep emotional connection. I think it’s because he was able to really relax and let his guard down with me.

    We were great friends and lovers. The thing that broke us up was his unrealiability. He would disappear for days without a word and then show up as if he were supposed to be my one and only. I didn’t like that, so I started dating other people.

    I have dated other gemini males and they are not made equal, and that’s for sure. I have never found anyone else I could connect to on such a deep level; mind, body, and soul. I miss my old gemini mate.

  24. crazy about my gemini

    wow.. that was so so accurate.. i love my gemini.. we startd out as friends.. initially, i didnt really think much of him.. but when i got to know him, i just loved him for his candidness.. he lets his guard down and lets me in.. and being the piscean that i am, i enjoy it very much.. the only trouble is, he’s with someone else.. but we’re stil such best friends!! and i’m torn between telling him and shutting up about it.. i mean, should i ignore the wonderful connection we have? but there is also that piscean trait.. i’m fickle! i dont trust me!! i kno i do love him.. i really really do..

  25. aguaprofunda

    Oh, I love your assessment about Gemini (rather talk than do) and Pisces (would rather pretend it’s not happening so let’s talk about something else). This is so spot on! My Gemini BF and I started as friends and this is really what made me fall deeper for him. I could tell he had my best interest at heart and really was a good guy. We also had lots of fun, going to bookshops, the beach, walking around talking, LOTS and LOTS of talking because yes, both signs are mutable and naturally curious.

    But, like you have painted in this portrait, the emotional chemistry is lacking. We are great friends but there isn’t much passion. For me, the Pisces, this is especially difficult because that part of me longs to be expressed, especially in an intimate relationship. You know, sex for a Pisces is just sex without the other merging of souls and meeting of the spirits stuff involved.

    So I continue with my Gemini but I’m not sure how good the long term prospects are, mostly because I think I will eventually be like a fish out of water (no emotional stimulation) and I will begin to separate emotionally, which means I won’t be as talkative, which means to my Gemini, he will think I am no longer interested in him. It’s not that, it’s just that I won’t have as much to relate to him because I know we don’t meet each other at the same plane…

    But in the meantime, I hold on to my dear Gemini, my dear friend Gemini.

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