Gemini Man and Sagittarius Woman Compatibility


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If a Gemini man is ever interested in a Sagittarius woman, it’s because secretly he’s ready to straighten up and fly right.  This pair of opposites attract.  Sagittarius is famous for good ethics.  Gemini, the Trickster, is famous for short-cuts and loopholes.  Gemini will monkey around with anything from taxes to 5-finger discounts, and Sagittarius is there to slap his hand.  The other thing that makes a Gemini man and a Sagittarius woman so happy is that one or the other is not there at least half the time.  Both these signs need a lot of space and have even been known to live in different houses and different countries very happily “together.”  Strictly speaking, the Sagittarius woman is the country bumpkin and the Gemini man is the city-slicker, so it makes sense that they would have two houses — one in town and one in the country.    Gemini and Sagittarius are bound to have a lot of other people involved in their relationship.  Relatives and siblings abound.  If they’re young enough, grandparents will play a big part, too, and it is not unusual for these two to marry from different cultural, religious, or economic backgrounds.  Especially to Sagittarius — “Different is Better.”

How to Attract a Gemini Man as a Sagittarius Woman:  If you’re a Sagittarius woman trying to attract a Gemini man, you might find out what classes he’s taking and sneak into one of them.  He’s bound to be learning something as his interests are always changing.  You might also pick up on some trendy news item to ask the Gemini man about.  Then keep your mouth shut — I know it’s hard because you really do know it all — but you will get farther with this guy by letting him talk until he figures out for himself and starts to ask you questions.  Also, please use your picture-perfect intuition as to when to place calls and send emails.  He loves to communicate.  You don’t.  And that should keep him on his toes.


How to Attract a Sagittarius Woman as a Gemini Man:  You’re going to have to be fast on your feet, which will thrill you right there.  If you’re a Gemini man trying to attract a Sagittarius woman, the hardest part may be throwing yourself across her path.  She’s even busier than you are!  Please be friendly, interesting, up-to-date, and casual.  Avoid bummers, such as troubles you’re having at work or in the bowling league.  This lady likes positive, positive, positive.  Check her out before you try and take her some place fancy.  She may have plenty of money, but she will almost always prefer something casual.  She may not own a dress.

Degree of Romance:   A Gemini may tend to be romantic if he thinks that’s what you want.  Generally, he thinks everyone wants it.  As soon as he figures out Ms. Sagittarius thinks it’s kind of corny, he’ll cut it out.

Degree of Passion:   The only passion that’s likely to go on here is the lady Sagittarius’ passion for life.  Gemini may show more excitement than he ever has before, because her high spirits are so contagious.

Degree of Friendship:  These two can be the greatest pals around.  They love going places, doing things, trying out the latest, and just hanging out. The Gemini man may prefer more sophisticated pursuits such as casinos, upscale shopping and fine dining, while the Sagittarius woman may prefer cultural pursuits such as opera or forays into nature such as hiking or horse-back riding.  Together they cover the gamut, and they should be able to find plenty of things in common.  When these two friends get together, the emphasis in on doing, seeing and being seen — everywhere and everything.

Degree of Marriage:  The Gemini man and Sagittarius woman can have a great marriage particularly if one travels and the other is only home half the time.  They understand each other’s needs for space and deep down inside each of them lives by this premise:  wherever I hang my hat is home.  They will agree on including all friends and relatives in their lives.  They will have a broad social network and spectrum of activities.  Gemi will keep it interesting, and Sag will keep it legal.  The only problem they may run into is that they can both be spendthrifts.  They may also be charming and rather casual parents, or chums to their friend’s kids rather than authority figures.  Truth to tell, neither one of them will be interested in their children until the children are able to talk.

Progression of Relationship:   This is a circular relationship because the Gemini man and Sagittarius woman are such equals.  It’s like a cat chasing its own tail — and a merry chase it will be!  Two more forgiving people will never be found.  It’s not so much that they are soulful, it’s that they could care less about society and expectations.  They will early-on agree that anything goes.  Both will be late many times, and each is likely to forget where the restaurant is or where the party’s being held.  They tend to be very comfortable with one another, being two of a kind.  In any case, a simple apology will do.


Sex:   Sagittarians are the great gift to the world where sex is concerned, because it is so natural to them.  They are here to remind us that we are animals who have evolved into being human beings.   The motto of the Sagittarian is, “Do it or don’t do it, but don’t do it and then feel guilty about it.”  Gemini brings variety and mental stimulation (the mind is the greatest sex organ) to the party.  With his ingenuity, the Gemini man will have the Sagittarius grow fond of suggestive texting and emailing at opportune moments which they will think is hilarious.  These two will be particularly caught up in gadgets and gear.

When It’s Over:  This can wind down pretty casually because neither one of them likes confrontation.  They may easily agree to just be friends, or it may just die from lack of interest.  No hard feelings — just one of those things!

Our Rating: 7/10

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56 Responses to Gemini Man and Sagittarius Woman Compatibility

  • cazluvs says:

    OK, the only Gemini male I have ever ‘dealt’ with was on friend and lover level – he’s a Gem male (but he is also on the Taurus/Gem cusp) and I’m a Sag female (but I’m also a Scorpio/Sag cusp).

    First things first. I am married to a wonderful Capricorn male with a Juno in Aquarius for about 12 years now and I would NEVER ever give him up, ever.

    The Gem male I speak of, has a lady and she has two kids so he’s a step dad. There will never be any dating relationship between the Gem male and I.

    It happened once. We were freshman in college and my roommate at that time knew the Gem male from high school. He fell in love with me according to my roommate – he pursued ME. I was in a relationship at that time with an Aquarius and the relationship with the Gem male – took off. The Aquarius and I broke up, and the Gem male and I who started off as friends – began dating quickly. The world’s biggest mistake ever. I lost my Gem male as a friend the day I started to fall in love with him too. We were 19 when this all went down. We were charming, appreciative of each other and the it went down hill…before we broke up and he went back out with me – only to break up with me again. He was totally confused about what to do with me when he had me! Figure THAT one out….

    I nursed a 13 year grudge against my Gem male. I was very hurt. I felt betrayed, victimized, I built up so much trust in him and he abandoned me and let me down. I spent years hating my Gem male’s guts. I moved as far away as possible from my Gem male when we did break up – from one dorm to another dorm across campus. My Gem male years later married my now ex-best friend from college (she was a mutual friend) and that marriage blew up on my Gem male. I knew it would because my Gem male’s not the marrying kind. He places high expectations on marriage as well. He can be the give you orders lay down the law type and I am a rebel. I rebel against being told what to do. I don’t do compromise very well and neither does he….

    Back in 2008, when I was on these social sites, I found my group of college friends and he was included in the group. I made steps to let go of my hate, my anger, and my distrust of my Gem male so we could hang out with mutual friends down the road and get along without any awkward tension – I messaged him a first and then we spoke over the phone and cleared the air.

    My Gem male wasn’t dating anyone and I was and still am married so we began to talk over the phone and patch things up. He was okay at first, but then he met his woman with her two kids and he feared he would screw up his chances with her by speaking or being friends with me. It was an early stage relationship. I told my Gem male he needs to focus on his woman with her two kids (his step kids) and don’t worry about meeting up with me at time soon. I also informed my Gem male that I am very married with three kids of my own and we’re just friends – my Gem male and I.

    We (my Gem male and I) both took some space. I kinda removed myself from his life so he could not worry about upsetting me or his woman. Now that he’s living with his woman and her kids and I drive by his work every month I go to pay my mortgage – that I thought I would write him a letter and deliver it to his work. More of a what’s up and how are you correspondence since we’re both busy with lives. I also wanted to be sure there wasn’t any awkwardness between us after out last exchange of messages when he was first dating his woman and her kids.

    The main thing is I’m taking this rebuilding of friendship with my Gem male very slowly. I don’t want to screw up being friends with him since we’re 35 and adults now.

    The bottom line, Nancy is so right about the Gem and Sag relationship being a merry cat chasing its tail. At least from my experience anyway with my Gem male. lol

    Caz

  • sag-girl says:

    @ enjoy the moment:

    Bravo Bitch. That’s what im saying. I agree with you 100%. This Gemini man pursued me; for 9 months; hard. I cut him down time and time again. He was persistant and won over my trust. We became friends. Very close. Then I started to feel really safe with him. Like my big brother or Warm Comfy Blanket. He always made me feel safe and protected. My sun sign is sagittarius my Moon is Aquarius and everything else is Scorpio. I believe he had mostly cancer and aries in his so somehow my response to him was to nurture and heal him. I took care of his heart.

    My natural instincts are to be very professional and distant until im sure. I initially will be a smarty pants to see where someone mind is but then i’ll be really funny and detached until I can see it’s okay to open up. Even when im hurt, i will put on a smile. Once the smile goes. I follow behind it. Im not going to let someone see they got the best of me.

    It will be a year since we’ve known each other this end of march. We are broken up now not due to freedom or cheating; but because I feel disrespected. We have been “seeing” each other since October and it has been really sweet, beautiful and loving. THen out of the blue, he pulls a disappearing act (2 weeks), became critical, and think Im going to kiss his ass. No way. I love him till the end of time and willing to work at anything. But once a guy goes away and then comes back like aint nothing happend, im going to shut down. Im gonna follow your lead. So have your space, Do what you want with no pressure from me. But I will back off too. Your ass will start over from scratch and you will not be getting none of this until im sure your being true. So if and when a person starts acting flaky and become distant, so do I. So this is where we are right now. He has called but I wont answer because im hurting and a little confused. I need to see some effort from him first. I also need to gain my composure before i present myself to him again. I’ve been working out and will have a new me if and when I decide to emerge to give him a piece of my mind for closure.

    Usually I would compromise but if you come back after being gone for two weeks and still think im going to treat you the same without any compromise or understanding of my feelings, then back to square one for you.

    A part of me wants go find him and rip his limbs off for playing games with me. Another part wants to just walk away and have him seeing me look so freakin fabulous this Spring/Summer without a word.

    I’ve been in pain for the last month but I refuse to show it.

  • Sol says:

    @Sag-girl :
    Whoa you’re going a bit crazy there- that will definitely send a Gem running for the hills. The ‘rip his limbs off’ bit. Surely you jest, but to a Gemini that fierce degree of explosiveness rattles us–it’s almost sadistic Scorpio like.

    Believe it or not, Gemini would not even see it as “disrespect”. We can’t fathom the concept b/c from our perspective our ‘disappearing act’ to You—is just ‘ME Time’ to a Gemini. It’s got NOTHING to do with disrespecting you—absolutely nothing. There’s also a bit of Gem insecurity b/c we feel like we can’t sustain being fun and entertaining/interesting to you consistently, therefore we need a little space to recharge our batteries and “ME Time”
    What is perceived to be ‘inconsistency’ and ULTIMATE ‘I wanna rib your limbs off’ “Disrespect” to You—is just us recharging our batteries. If you can’t understand and take such gross offense, then you should NOT be with him. Seriously. I fear for him. You are not the One.

  • Sol says:

    ***P.S.**

    To add to above, the funny thing is—You might wanna ‘rip his limbs’ off for “disrespecting” You by pulling a disappearing act–when in fact it could be BECAUSE Gemini likes you so much and doesn’t want to seem smothering to you by always being in contact. In other words he doesn’t want you to think he’s smothering you or it’ll chase you Ms. freedom loving Sag away. Get it?

  • Butter Pecan says:

    Hmmm…see with us sagittarius women we love consistency! I think for us with maturity we are more understanding. I have had a few Gemini boyfriends, love them to death, something about me they like to! The problem between us is that we want you Gemini men to dig deep in our hearts and minds, you know…under the surface!? We sagittarius women are different we are ok with just being friends and/or your lover, but we need you to be straight up with us! We respect honesty 100%! For me no matter how painful it is! Anywho…I’m glad the inconsistency was explained. I think we would respond more in a positive way if that OS explained up front! Dig deeper Gemini! It’s OK!

  • Sol says:

    @Butter Pecan:
    Gemini won’t know there was a problem to begin with. We won’t know we needed to ‘Dig’. As for digging deeper, Gemini won’t dig a concentrated point, we go for breadth and vast variety in subjects and people. So if Sagittarius expects Gem to dig deeper into Sag’s emotions like the Mariana Trench, sorry most likely, you’ll get—Voila! The Grand Canyon!

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