Gemini Man and Sagittarius Woman Compatibility


Famous Gemini-Sagittarius Couples:  Paul Bettany and Jennifer Connelly

If a Gemini man is ever interested in a Sagittarius woman, it’s because secretly he’s ready to straighten up and fly right.  This pair of opposites attract.  Sagittarius is famous for good ethics.  Gemini, the Trickster, is famous for short-cuts and loopholes.  Gemini will monkey around with anything from taxes to 5-finger discounts, and Sagittarius is there to slap his hand.  The other thing that makes a Gemini man and a Sagittarius woman so happy is that one or the other is not there at least half the time.  Both these signs need a lot of space and have even been known to live in different houses and different countries very happily “together.”  Strictly speaking, the Sagittarius woman is the country bumpkin and the Gemini man is the city-slicker, so it makes sense that they would have two houses — one in town and one in the country.    Gemini and Sagittarius are bound to have a lot of other people involved in their relationship.  Relatives and siblings abound.  If they’re young enough, grandparents will play a big part, too, and it is not unusual for these two to marry from different cultural, religious, or economic backgrounds.  Especially to Sagittarius — “Different is Better.”

How to Attract a Gemini Man as a Sagittarius Woman:  If you’re a Sagittarius woman trying to attract a Gemini man, you might find out what classes he’s taking and sneak into one of them.  He’s bound to be learning something as his interests are always changing.  You might also pick up on some trendy news item to ask the Gemini man about.  Then keep your mouth shut — I know it’s hard because you really do know it all — but you will get farther with this guy by letting him talk until he figures out for himself and starts to ask you questions.  Also, please use your picture-perfect intuition as to when to place calls and send emails.  He loves to communicate.  You don’t.  And that should keep him on his toes.


How to Attract a Sagittarius Woman as a Gemini Man:  You’re going to have to be fast on your feet, which will thrill you right there.  If you’re a Gemini man trying to attract a Sagittarius woman, the hardest part may be throwing yourself across her path.  She’s even busier than you are!  Please be friendly, interesting, up-to-date, and casual.  Avoid bummers, such as troubles you’re having at work or in the bowling league.  This lady likes positive, positive, positive.  Check her out before you try and take her some place fancy.  She may have plenty of money, but she will almost always prefer something casual.  She may not own a dress.

Degree of Romance:   A Gemini may tend to be romantic if he thinks that’s what you want.  Generally, he thinks everyone wants it.  As soon as he figures out Ms. Sagittarius thinks it’s kind of corny, he’ll cut it out.

Degree of Passion:   The only passion that’s likely to go on here is the lady Sagittarius’ passion for life.  Gemini may show more excitement than he ever has before, because her high spirits are so contagious.

Degree of Friendship:  These two can be the greatest pals around.  They love going places, doing things, trying out the latest, and just hanging out. The Gemini man may prefer more sophisticated pursuits such as casinos, upscale shopping and fine dining, while the Sagittarius woman may prefer cultural pursuits such as opera or forays into nature such as hiking or horse-back riding.  Together they cover the gamut, and they should be able to find plenty of things in common.  When these two friends get together, the emphasis in on doing, seeing and being seen — everywhere and everything.

Degree of Marriage:  The Gemini man and Sagittarius woman can have a great marriage particularly if one travels and the other is only home half the time.  They understand each other’s needs for space and deep down inside each of them lives by this premise:  wherever I hang my hat is home.  They will agree on including all friends and relatives in their lives.  They will have a broad social network and spectrum of activities.  Gemi will keep it interesting, and Sag will keep it legal.  The only problem they may run into is that they can both be spendthrifts.  They may also be charming and rather casual parents, or chums to their friend’s kids rather than authority figures.  Truth to tell, neither one of them will be interested in their children until the children are able to talk.

Progression of Relationship:   This is a circular relationship because the Gemini man and Sagittarius woman are such equals.  It’s like a cat chasing its own tail — and a merry chase it will be!  Two more forgiving people will never be found.  It’s not so much that they are soulful, it’s that they could care less about society and expectations.  They will early-on agree that anything goes.  Both will be late many times, and each is likely to forget where the restaurant is or where the party’s being held.  They tend to be very comfortable with one another, being two of a kind.  In any case, a simple apology will do.


Sex:   Sagittarians are the great gift to the world where sex is concerned, because it is so natural to them.  They are here to remind us that we are animals who have evolved into being human beings.   The motto of the Sagittarian is, “Do it or don’t do it, but don’t do it and then feel guilty about it.”  Gemini brings variety and mental stimulation (the mind is the greatest sex organ) to the party.  With his ingenuity, the Gemini man will have the Sagittarius grow fond of suggestive texting and emailing at opportune moments which they will think is hilarious.  These two will be particularly caught up in gadgets and gear.

When It’s Over:  This can wind down pretty casually because neither one of them likes confrontation.  They may easily agree to just be friends, or it may just die from lack of interest.  No hard feelings — just one of those things!

Our Rating: 7/10

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49 Responses to Gemini Man and Sagittarius Woman Compatibility

  • Pati Edwards says:

    It’s pretty accurate….
    Both signs can be critical….nit picky….especially when they are habitual with each other….I’m speaking as a sag….and honestly, there are times I want to escape…as he does silently (I blurt it)…..he needs hobbies, I need freedom as a hobby….Gemini’s are extremely loyal on the “light” side…on the dark side (as I know a few) they can be totally “loose” bandits of sex, challenges and bullshit. Sag…evens it out with “must have friendships, spending and casual sex….Geminis seem to WANT the challenge…Sag seem to say….ok, but I don’t care, you’ll lose anyway! Ohhh, is that cocky or what? Just an opinion after 22 years…but loyal….oh my God, extremely…
    So there Ms. Nancy, ya got a comment….
    Would I choose another Gemini? NO, the reason? This one is “unusual”….not your typical…doesn’t have the Jekyll and Hyde persona….which I have been exposed to from father (gemini) and from sales people who are geminis (do exceedingly well)….
    Not extremely poised for the bedroom although aim to please….Both have to have many creative outlets, goals and activity going or they will drive each other bonkers.
    How did I do?

  • deanglo Thomas says:

    i my self am i gemini man … what intrigues me the most about my gf is (who is a sag) was here mindset ..
    both of us are general on the same page on things and both have high levels of humor… so as friends we are great… as a couple there are times were i need some space from her but she tends to take more offensive than anything. i guess she feels somewhat neglected , but its just me wanting to indulge in other activities and have me time. ive noticed at times she becomes really clingy . aprt from that the sex is great … imean awesome lol .to summarize this long winded note i would recommend both side to try each other out at least once …

  • nancy says:

    i CAN ONLY IMAGINE!

  • aNGEL says:

    The page made me relief….am waiting the days to be together with him …. and have a good life ahead.. everything whatever is here ‘i guess…’WELL SAID’ …CHEERS =)

  • aldo4 says:

    A Gemini man here … just started dating my first Sagittarius woman, and what a delightful surprise! She is so affectionate, so positive, so passionate, everything about her is very sexy! First time I touched her shoulder made my heart race. I find her adventurous spirit very attractive. She’s already asked me to teach her Italian (which I’m learning for an upcoming trip) so the idea of “sharing his classes” is dead-on. It took me a couple weeks and constant vigilance to catch her free for a weekend date – she is indeed constantly busy. But what an enthusiastic date she is! Very confidence-building to have someone so obviously interested. She’s already exploring thoughts about our potential future, which is very different from other women/signs I have dated. I can already tell my sagittarius will keep my interest peaked for quite awhile! She’s like magic :-)

  • BrownSkinCutie says:

    I’m a Saggitarius and I’ve been talking/having great sex with this lovely Gemini man. I’ve never been with a Gemini b4 and it’s weird, yet erotic in a way. Our attraction is out of this world!!! B4 we even exchanged names our attraction pulled him to me and all i did was walk by him, lol. We had ONE disagreement thus far and OMG! I felt so challenged I have never been challenged like this b4 with someone that is just like me on so many levels, but I bit my tongue to make him happy and let him say what he had 2 say without interupting him. He thinks astrology is B.S. I noticed he moves fast like has nerve problems and smokes. After talking with him for weeks I couldn’t help but get him in the bed and WOW he’s like the best I ever had! I’m worried I will lose his attention, though I’m a fire sign and have other friends he’s the one that stands out the one I secretly crave all the time. I hope things work out, but I can sense already he’s secretive and gets annoyed when I’m quiet. He doesnt always answer my calls or texts which is new to me I’m not used to this. Though the sex is our strongest bond I hope I can win his heart sum day.

  • stranger says:

    BrownSkinCutie :

    I’m a Saggitarius and I’ve been talking/having great sex with this lovely Gemini man. I’ve never been with a Gemini b4 and it’s weird, yet erotic in a way. Our attraction is out of this world!!! B4 we even exchanged names our attraction pulled him to me and all i did was walk by him, lol. We had ONE disagreement thus far and OMG! I felt so challenged I have never been challenged like this b4 with someone that is just like me on so many levels, but I bit my tongue to make him happy and let him say what he had 2 say without interupting him. He thinks astrology is B.S. I noticed he moves fast like has nerve problems and smokes. After talking with him for weeks I couldn’t help but get him in the bed and WOW he’s like the best I ever had! I’m worried I will lose his attention, though I’m a fire sign and have other friends he’s the one that stands out the one I secretly crave all the time. I hope things work out, but I can sense already he’s secretive and gets annoyed when I’m quiet. He doesnt always answer my calls or texts which is new to me I’m not used to this. Though the sex is our strongest bond I hope I can win his heart sum day.

    Oh my God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the same is with me!!!!!! well said Miss BrownSkinCutie!!!!!!!!sex just WOW!!!!!!!!! and other things -u told so much true!!!

  • cria zaynan says:

    Haha okay im a sadge and i looked up my compatibility with wentworth miller cuz i think hes so interesting and gorg. it says we are complete opposites but that it can work out if we understand eachother and keep doing fun things. I ve always wanted to date a gemini i wonder how we would work

  • cria zaynan says:

    stranger :

    Omg im a sadge woman totally craving to date a gemini i nvr have! SOunds greeeat lol

    BrownSkinCutie :
    I’m a Saggitarius and I’ve been talking/having great sex with this lovely Gemini man. I’ve never been with a Gemini b4 and it’s weird, yet erotic in a way. Our attraction is out of this world!!! B4 we even exchanged names our attraction pulled him to me and all i did was walk by him, lol. We had ONE disagreement thus far and OMG! I felt so challenged I have never been challenged like this b4 with someone that is just like me on so many levels, but I bit my tongue to make him happy and let him say what he had 2 say without interupting him. He thinks astrology is B.S. I noticed he moves fast like has nerve problems and smokes. After talking with him for weeks I couldn’t help but get him in the bed and WOW he’s like the best I ever had! I’m worried I will lose his attention, though I’m a fire sign and have other friends he’s the one that stands out the one I secretly crave all the time. I hope things work out, but I can sense already he’s secretive and gets annoyed when I’m quiet. He doesnt always answer my calls or texts which is new to me I’m not used to this. Though the sex is our strongest bond I hope I can win his heart sum day.

    Oh my God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the same is with me!!!!!! well said Miss BrownSkinCutie!!!!!!!!sex just WOW!!!!!!!!! and other things -u told so much true!!!

    Type your comment here

  • cria zaynan says:

    deanglo Thomas :

    i my self am i gemini man … what intrigues me the most about my gf is (who is a sag) was here mindset ..
    both of us are general on the same page on things and both have high levels of humor… so as friends we are great… as a couple there are times were i need some space from her but she tends to take more offensive than anything. i guess she feels somewhat neglected , but its just me wanting to indulge in other activities and have me time. ive noticed at times she becomes really clingy . aprt from that the sex is great … imean awesome lol .to summarize this long winded note i would recommend both side to try each other out at least once …

    This is helpful thank you. I know that me myself as a sadge woman i do need a lot of affection and love, however when i get too much i am instantly turned off and run for the hills…its like how can i find my happy medium? Its usually in a guy who wont play games and also wont smother me

  • cria zaynan says:

    aldo4 :

    A Gemini man here … just started dating my first Sagittarius woman, and what a delightful surprise! She is so affectionate, so positive, so passionate, everything about her is very sexy! First time I touched her shoulder made my heart race. I find her adventurous spirit very attractive. She’s already asked me to teach her Italian (which I’m learning for an upcoming trip) so the idea of “sharing his classes” is dead-on. It took me a couple weeks and constant vigilance to catch her free for a weekend date – she is indeed constantly busy. But what an enthusiastic date she is! Very confidence-building to have someone so obviously interested. She’s already exploring thoughts about our potential future, which is very different from other women/signs I have dated. I can already tell my sagittarius will keep my interest peaked for quite awhile! She’s like magic

    Sadge woman here… i speak italian fluently as well as 3 different dialects of the country, seems we’d have a lot to talk about. I am everything you mentioned about that girl and more, lol i lived in italy for a while too im a performing artist & musician and 21. Just saying…lol nice to meet you

  • helllostranger says:

    I’m a sadge woman, finally dating my first and only gemini man! I’m amazed on how accurate this is, and he was surprised when I read it to him. We just can’t get enough of each other! He says he’s never been so in love before and I never thought that I’d find love that feels perfect! I definitely see a great future together (:

  • purple says:

    everything you said is true!
    i just had a huge argument with my gemi and i dont know what to do..he seems like he gave up on us already. my gemi is the best partner i have ever had and for us to end this casually really hurts..i have to get him back!help

  • lekyluv says:

    hum dats a bit true.speaking as a gem in luv wit a sag lady.she tends 2 careless about me.quarrels wit me all d time.she’s 2 secretive.her anger is like fire.she goes for 1 of those she claims 2 be her friend whenever we had any misunderstanding.i think she cheats on me.though she’s tough on bed.but she cant be pleased.what can i do 2 make her love me whole heartedly

  • jaunty says:

    @leky. Just try to create a chance and have sex with her…hard core ones…with all positions u can explore…lol..she’ll never forget u…!

  • SagEmini says:

    i am a SAG- datin a gemini man and like drake said he is the “BEST I EVER HAD” .. we go almost everywhere and do everything together. thats why i <3 him lol but yes most def. we are totally opposite . but at the same time we admire eachother for it =) best match for a sagg. the only sign i would not recommend is the Scorpios for a sagg. SCORPIOS ARE TOOO DAMM CLINGY JS

  • Sggynthabi says:

    Im a Sag woman and have meet a Gemini guy, whom i’d like to believe i like, he was giving me attention but i did crush his ego by saying that im not sure if we should have a relationship, then propose friendship first, since then he’s become a bit distant, and doesnt give me much attention sometimes. Then when we do talk its great and we challenge each other.

    My problem is i also have a Libra in the picture whom wanted to date me years ago but it didnt happen and i dumped him after two weeks, but during the years he carried on contacting me, soo last year i would think about him a lot,after a cancer broke my heart soo badly i remained single for 2 years.

    Im now very confused because the Libra is back and the Gemini wants to know me, but i dont know whom to take a chance on because the Libra would mean a distance relationship and the Gemini is closer, but even when he’s closer i feel that he’s not really chasing after me like a man would do if he’s interested in a woman.

    I need some guidance,am very confused,am ready to date and i want to be part of something i will enjoy and not regret.

  • sexy-sag says:

    well- you know everytime we do not listen to our heart-whispering something, we regret. as a sag, I always have emotional uptake of all the people and situations but I TRY to follow my mind, and it invariably is not good.

    if you think the gem is not giving you attention – HE IS NOT GIVING YOU ATTENTION- period- plz trust what you know from the gut (you may be wrong in detecting the cause for it, e.g. if there is another woman or if it was never so spicy for him) but the knowledge is always right.

    the Libra, hmm- they are like this, a libra is good for smoothing you and in the process he might smoother you too much into dullness and that is away too.

    as a friend I would say- you need to have fun and please let go of over-excercised morality/ ethical values, we do it too often, esp the Honesty-Policy. :-)

    go out and have fun, keep contact with the Libra in a fun romantic way- nothing is concrete and nothing is committed at the moment, so just be and enjoy the attention of long distance and some near ones too.

    at this point, there is not enough reason to pick and choose and shut out your options, if one man clearly wins in every department, later at some point- ONLY then you need to let go of other options. for now, just enjoy plz.

    do not compromise and take ‘good enough’, we sags pay dearly when we settle for good enough.
    all the best

  • chipmunk says:

    you’d never know looking at him. gem man is such a gem! fit, macho aggressive, designer clothes, strutting around. took me some time to figure he was just monkeying around. their charm is so slick theyre promising great things r going to happen and this is just a starter. they get what they want and once they’re doen they’re done.cold. they got lotta other fires burnin. good actors though. loyalty, commitment, stamina they mean hard work and pain whcih gem man is not ready for. he struts around and is easygoing. does he even like you? lacking in essence n the peacock doesn’t even know it. of course one gem man does not mean all r the same. its just that they’re time and enrgy wasters! so boring. nice while it lasted though. here now, gone the next back again. who knew disappearing acts could be so lovely n entertaining? just not enough for a lifetime with a sag woman!

  • Paul says:

    Gemini man here. My story is so unreal.
    I was surfing the net, posting my photos on a social networking site with a page dedicated for Philippine beaches when I saw this really beautiful beach and just commented. “Wow, I would like to visit this place someday.” Sure enough, it was this sag’s girl’s photo. She then answered my comment. “I live there… I’m in Europe right now but will be coming home soon. Come visit our place.”
    I said, “sure.” After 2 years, we met and yeah we travelled to her place…we did island hopping, snorkeling, trekking, talk, laugh…sex. Yes, the sex was phenomenal! When the trip ended, very casual – fist bump.

  • sugarbite says:

    i alwez had something against gemini’s as i thot them hypocrites.i am a typical sag gal, intellectual yet vulnerable.. and an aries broke my heart and i grew doubtful of myself.till i met him-my Gem!!!very possessive, and passionate he knew me for just a month before he proposed marriage and i am sure he is The One!!he is so Male- macho and strong and his one look and i melt like butter..love him so much!!getting married in a cupl of months.my Gem rocks!!

  • analucia says:

    im a sag, and im in a long distance relationship with a gem man but i dont know how to keep him holding on
    what does a gem man really seeks for?

  • Kim says:

    This is sooo weird…I’m actually a “cancer” but my chart shows the moon & 4 planets in Sag which makes me more sag than cancer! Anyway, I dated & lived with my Gen guy 30 yrs ago & we recently got together & the sparks fly!! So, he’s in NJ and I’m in Fl. From experience I can tell you that he REALLY swings into action with UNPREDICTABILITY (MINE) and a KEEN and CONSISTENT SENSE OF HUMOR. This fits perfectly with zany & fun-loving, me. If I keep things light & him on his toes (wondering) he’s all over me. If I get whiny, he’s outta there.. OH! He has promised to move me up there, made plans to meet me but then he’s too busy, made all kinds of plans. Forgive & forget or let him go…. :( (if he really loves you, you may find him on your doorstep one night..) Hope this is helpful?

  • helllostranger says:

    @ analucia: it’s been a rocky road in this long distant relationship that i have with my amazing gemini man. he’s been unhappy and frustrated because i’m not by his side. idk what he wants from me, no matter what i do, he get’s upset. the problem is that he expects too much from me. expectations are bad because you may always be disappointed. they should stop focusing on the negative and look at the positives of the relationship. if there aren’t any positive then make them! i’m a sag woman, and i’m always thinking positive and i try to encourage my gemi lover to look at the bright side. what a gemini man really seeks for is attention and affection so that they feel secure with the relationship. i hope that helps you!

  • Jessie says:

    Hello, Sag here and I’ve been dating this Gemini for two years now. In the beginning it was great. He was just like you said, but now I feel like anything I do is wrong. We are still deeply in love with each other but it feels like we are giving ourselves so much greif that I’m afraid we might just end it one day. There is also a Virgo man in the picture, I know not to try anything with him but he’s so exciting like a puzzle that I’m trying to unlock. (I’m a puzzle freak excuse me) but I’m just afraid that we are going to part sooner than we want to. What can I do? We argue so much now! I’ve even told myself to just keep the Virgo as a friend and to never do anything that would hurt my lovely Gemini but I just want to punch him sometimes and we hate arguing. I’ve gone to so many other places and talked about this and this was on my list. Please someone help us! :(

  • helllostranger says:

    I wish I had the solution to the same problem! All I can say is follow your heart, if you feel that your relationship can work out with your gemini then don’t give up! I know deep down inside that my gemini is the one for me and i realize that i got to make a slight sacrifice/change of myself just to make him happy and save our relationship. Now, with the Virgo i know they can be so mysterious that you just love trying to figure them out. My first heartbreak was from a Virgo i dated, the issue was that we saw each other every day which made things boring. I had another Virgo that I was very interested in, and it’s like you say, they’re like a puzzle you want to unlock. We were only friends and we got along very well and had great intellectuality. He was leading me on unintentionally and then i he completely stops communicating with me. Not a great feeling. I think he was feeling unsure about himself and needed his time. So i didn’t try to force anything with him. Anyway, Jessie, I wouldn’t get too involved with virgo since you’re still with gemini. What is it that you need to fix in your relationship? Is there still hope?

  • confusedsag says:

    Yeah, virgos will tend to cut you off. & the sex with gem is amazing & a lil on the kinky side! but I found him to also be a litte insecure (asked self assuring questions midbooty or would sometimes talk & then say “you don’t care”). The problem I am having with my Gemini friend is that he just kind of disappeared from me. For months he would call and text me constantly. Then he went thru some alc & drug stuff and I was like the only person he called and I was there taking care of him. Last time I talked to him he was saying he was going to rehab. I thought he went to rehab but turns out that wasn’t the case (mutual friend told me). Now he just doesn’t call anymore. whats up with that?

  • happy&clumsy says:

    Sag girl here about to marry my Gemini man – neither of us ever thought we were the marrying kind. One thing’s for sure, there is a clear & tangible magnetism that pulled us to each other. I find this write-up very accurate, both signs are highly intelligent, stubborn, fun-loving and socially charismatic. Both see each other as a best friend and great sexual partner. What I especially identify with is the need to have our own separate interests and fun times with friends, and yet home really is where you hang your hat every day. It’s absolutely true that I tend to have a biting wit & sarcasm, my weapon of choice and he is much more sensitive than he would ever admit to. To make it work I’ve learned to curb my tongue/pride, to let him have the last word sometimes, to be careful of his ego and let him be ‘the man’ most of the time. In turn he’s rewarded me with incomparable loyalty and lifting me up to feel supported and more confident than I ever thought I could be. There will always be bumps in the road but it’s much more exciting that way ;-)

  • CHARLES says:

    So I met a Gem female I am a Sag….I am just so fascinated by her, we both love & like many & different things. We have a passion for a lot of the same stuff, Art, Fashion, Intelligence, Knowledge, when we hang out its like were in love. But she confuses me, she admitted to been liking me for awhile (she was drunk) lol & idk sometime she doesn’t text back, stays quite on the phone (plays games on iphone) & it pisses me off but being optomistic I try to swallow my pride. Never felt like this for any girl yeah I admit, I do have my cuddy buddys but I would drop em for domething serious. Sex is awesome but to me the passion you have for some you care about is more rewarding, I do admit I am sensitive GRRRRRRR! We are youngins she is 18 & I am 19…..single life gets boring, she loves video games as do I. Tomorrow ima go to her place to work out with her (I love staying & shape. & I do strive myself too have a Brad Pitt Club Fight Body) she is so beautiful, she’s a thick like Kim K, she’s mature. She’s also going to show me a scrap book she mad, she wants to be a photographer & a fashion designer which is a TURN ON!
    HELP MEEEEEEEEE!

  • SweetieJay says:

    Hey Charles..
    It seems like you two lack communication.. You need to step up, and confront her, or else, things will end badly.
    Sit her down, and tell her the things she does that tick you off.
    We Sagittarius, are honest, blunt, and tell it how it is..
    You need to let those attributes flow my dear! You are holding them back!!!
    I mean, I’m not telling you, to tell her off by any means..
    Just let her know what bothers you.. Don’t expect
    her to change so quickly though, cause Gemini’s can
    be quite stubborn at first.. but she’ll gradually settle
    in with the new rules.. But that’s only IF you matter that much to her.
    It is just fascinating how opposites truly attract!
    My first love was actually a Gemini.. I am a Sag! and boy were
    we just two peas in a pod.

    Good luck!

  • Jeanylicious says:

    Pls bear with me as this is going to be a bit too long, I’m a Sag girl & I’m divorcing my Gemini partner of 12 years, I think I was inlove with the Gem character in him and not necessarily attracted to him even though the sex was not boring, he had his moments when he would treat me good but when it was bad it was really bad, and when it ended it was really ugly to a point of hating and vindictiveness from his side cause I wouldn’t take him back, this man cheated on me through out our marriage life with 3 diff women on every given year for 12 years plus he was emotionally abusive and would stalk me most times and I finally got the courage to leave him a year ago.

    I some how found myself back in the arms of an ex Gem bf I dated 13 years ago b4 I got married to the Gem I’m divorcing and we sort of picked up where we left off 13 years ago, we have been dating again now for 7 months. This man happens to be another Gem who swept me off my feet and we are so madly inlove and he says all the right things and does all the right things and the sex out of this world its like being with a diff guy every time, the week after we spend the weekend together he just all of a sudden stopped calling and would not take my calls or respond to my txt msgs, I got pissed off so I dumped him especially having lived with a Gem for 12 years I was not prepared to take more crap from another Gem guy, he doesn’t understand why I ended the relationship and so he is mad at me, Its been 2 weeks since i broke it off and now I am miserable without him, he’s lyk my best friend and now he won’t talk to me or take my calls and I don’t know how to move forward without him, normally it would be easy for me to move on to the next guy but not this time not when he’s still has my heart.

    Some1 pls tell me if he will ever want to come back to me let alone take my calls or is it his ego that’s stopping him? I need to know this so as to know if I should find a way of moving on with my life without him in it. I feel like I’m about to lose my mind cause I think I’m obsessed with this guy and don’t think I can ever date again cause I will always be comparing others with my lost lover. Some1 pls respond. Ta

  • Kryptonite says:

    Hello Ladies & Gents,

    Sag here and i’ve been dating a Gemini man for over the past 2 years. We don’t live together and in the beginning it was great, fun and exciting, and then both of our lives became extremely hectic, opposite schedules and so forth, and then things started to get crazy. Alot of arguing and fighting over stuff that we didn’t have no control over. I have to say that this being my first Gemini man or Gemi that I’ve been in a serious relationship with, I must admit completely and totaly in love head over heals. But I have to admit that I do not like the secrecy, and I do not like the no txting and no calling, allthough I’ve gotten used to it. Don’t like it! It is true though when it’s good, ITS GOOD and when its bad its down right nasty. I don’t know how many times we’ve broken up for a day, a week, a month and then start talking again, say i’m sorry and move on and the it happens again. But man oh man do i love the fool.. I am a sucker for love. They do seem like tricksters, and they’ld better watch out for sagi’s sharp treak, b/c it does exist under this positive attitude! But for sag woman, observe your gemi, pay attention to what he likes and what he’s interested in as they love to talk about themselves, what their doing and wheir their going. Now Gemi man please try not to talk so much aboout yourself all the time, make you Sagi happy and ask her how her day is going, make notes about the things that she likes to do, ask her about her future, dreams, goals, philosophical stuff. Saggi’s are thinkers, and talkers. As if you couldn’t tell from this blog! LOL. Gemi man, be more attentitive if you truly care for your lady. Show her how much u care, if its there don’t hide it, their’s a way to tell her how much you care without scaring her away. Most sagi’s have a open heart and an open ear. This is how you can keep your Sagi woman. Now for the one’s that are dealing with the TWIN Gemi; you know one day their nice, next day their mean, just be firm and don’t chase. A call or two if they don’t return, give them space. if they really love you and care for you they will communicate to you.

  • AaronZ says:

    I’m a Gemini dude and have attracted an amazing sag, she is everything I have ever been looking for in every aspect, we have been dating a short while but I find myself becoming attracted more to libras for some reason although I try to shake it off it’s not what I want and I am new to the whole zodiac thing… Any suggestions? Advice?

  • Mika says:

    Hello,
    Im a sag woman….one thing ive notice about sag’s is our capacity to remain optomistic no matter wat type of experiences we’ve had. I met an amazing gemi just under 2 years ago. Wen Im aroun this man nothing seems to phase me. Its really almost the true definition of finding my prince. Hes so sexy, smart, funny, outgoing, genuine, and down right hard working. Its seems, however; he has a way of pushing me away wenever it seems we are getting closer. Its like taking 25 steps forward and 150 steps back. I get sooo frustrated wen I call/txt n get no reply. I cant understand sometimes why I even care….Im a beautiful woman from the inside out….However nothing is more frustrating than being able to get any man I want n bein ignored by the only man I want. Our sex life is amazing n I know it will only get better with time, but we go so long in between that alot of times I want to find him some help!!!! I just cant stand the ideal of hurting him even tho sometimes I wonder does he care to start with.
    It is so amazingly hard to love someone this much and be alone most of the time….I love my space too, but too much of anything isnt good. Im not one who wants to argue with him cuz if we can learn to use our energy in the positive sense instead of the negative we can conquer the world!!! Together….United we stand divided I fall!!!

  • Sol says:

    @ Aaron: I’m a Gemini and just like you I have many attractions- esp. to Aquarius and Leo women. However, it turns out that the TWO people I can honestly say I’ve ever been “In Love with”–Truly and Madly–are..Sagittarius. And BOTH times I’ve took them for granted and then realized much later on, (it hits like a ton of bricks) “Wow I am truly, honestly, Deeply IN LOVE with her. I would do anything to keep her safe” I think the problem is this: Sags come after US. (Gemini) Full on, hard core. For me, I had trouble ‘processing’ it. Subconsciously, maybe b/c it seemed ‘too easy’ like ‘I got her I didn’t even try’, we get bored. One day, you may just realize the Sag is the Love of your life, and no one else can compare. It hit me pretty hard both times, and it could take awhile for us Gems to realize it.

  • ayu says:

    I am sag and been married to gem guy for nearly 7 years after 5 years of relationship. All written here is so true, I am happily married with 2 kids now. Life is so good and I am grateful to have gem husband whose can always be my friend, boyfriend and husband. We can share anything as the understanding between us is really high-respect each other’s feeling and space. The most important thing is, we love to be together, anytime, anywhere and sex is really great!!! At the moment, I am in the UK and husband in Malaysia-separated for 3 months for work, can’t wait to see him again!!! Love and miss him sooo much!

  • Master says:

    @sol I am a sag woman and I am this is exactly how I was with my gemini. I came after him and I think that turned him off because he felt he got me and the challenge was over. I have never felt this way about a man and I am so in love with him I couldn’t hide my feelings no matter how hard I tried. I really want to work at it now that im reading and learning more about gemini men. I totally he is worth it. Do u think its possible for him to be interested again if I make some minor adjustments? I really do feel like he is my soul mate.

    @mika I swear we must be dating the same guy because this is my relationship with my gemini to a T. So uncanny!!!!

  • Msstarr says:

    Sol :

    @ Aaron: I’m a Gemini and just like you I have many attractions- esp. to Aquarius and Leo women. However, it turns out that the TWO people I can honestly say I’ve ever been “In Love with”–Truly and Madly–are..Sagittarius. And BOTH times I’ve took them for granted and then realized much later on, (it hits like a ton of bricks) “Wow I am truly, honestly, Deeply IN LOVE with her. I would do anything to keep her safe” I think the problem is this: Sags come after US. (Gemini) Full on, hard core. For me, I had trouble ‘processing’ it. Subconsciously, maybe b/c it seemed ‘too easy’ like ‘I got her I didn’t even try’, we get bored. One day, you may just realize the Sag is the Love of your life, and no one else can compare. It hit me pretty hard both times, and it could take awhile for us Gems to realize it.

    @sol I am a sag woman and I am this is exactly how I was with my gemini. I came after him and I think that turned him off because he felt he got me and the challenge was over. I have never felt this way about a man and I am so in love with him I couldn’t hide my feelings no matter how hard I tried. I really want to work at it now that im reading and learning more about gemini men. I totally he is worth it. Do u think its possible for him to be interested again if I make some minor adjustments? I really do feel like he is my soul mate.

  • anonymous says:

    hahahahaha…….such a wild guess master!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Msstarr says:

    Mika :

    Hello,
    Im a sag woman….one thing ive notice about sag’s is our capacity to remain optomistic no matter wat type of experiences we’ve had. I met an amazing gemi just under 2 years ago. Wen Im aroun this man nothing seems to phase me. Its really almost the true definition of finding my prince. Hes so sexy, smart, funny, outgoing, genuine, and down right hard working. Its seems, however; he has a way of pushing me away wenever it seems we are getting closer. Its like taking 25 steps forward and 150 steps back. I get sooo frustrated wen I call/txt n get no reply. I cant understand sometimes why I even care….Im a beautiful woman from the inside out….However nothing is more frustrating than being able to get any man I want n bein ignored by the only man I want. Our sex life is amazing n I know it will only get better with time, but we go so long in between that alot of times I want to find him some help!!!! I just cant stand the ideal of hurting him even tho sometimes I wonder does he care to start with.
    It is so amazingly hard to love someone this much and be alone most of the time….I love my space too, but too much of anything isnt good. Im not one who wants to argue with him cuz if we can learn to use our energy in the positive sense instead of the negative we can conquer the world!!! Together….United we stand divided I fall!!!

    Mika I swear we must be dating the same guy your situation is me and my Gemini to the T it’s so uncanny. I care for him so deeply that I can’t and don’t want to let go. I feel he is worth it. But I do not like when he doesn’t answer my calms or text and comes to see me when he feels like it. A whole week will pass by without seeing each other and he’s ok with that. That just simply doesn’t work for me. I need more consistency than that and I don’t think he’s capable of it. But when we are together it’s incredible. And the sex OMG the sex is amazing nothing like I’ve ever experienced. He just drives me insane just looking at him. I’m not ready to lose this yet even though Im ready for a relationship he is not.

  • anonymous says:

    have you ever thought that why he is not ready for a relationship…..hmmmmm maybe he is already in a relationship lol

  • Msstarr says:

    He may or may not be. Or maybe he just isn’t ready to be in relationship. But thanks for your input.

  • Sol says:

    Gemini 101—We are never ‘ready to be in a relationship’. Lol! It’s like putting the cart before the horse. It does not logically make sense to us.
    Women are so focused on being ‘in a Relationship’= CART (in horse/cart analogy). While most Gemini, who are pretty idealistic in nature think, “I’m gonna find the PERSON =(horse) I’m craaazy about THEN get in a ‘relationship’.
    It makes no sense to us to be ‘in a relationship’ for the sake of being ‘in a relationship’. Why spend time with someone (‘in a relationship’) HOPING to be craaazy in love LATER? Doesn’t it make more sense to sample, date and find the person who really, REALLY REALLY “sparks” you and THEN be ‘in a relationship’?? LOL. See Geminis aren’t crazy or commitment phobic, it’s just the rest of the world that’s CRAZY. LOL and people wonder why the divorce rate is so high??

  • Sol says:

    ATTN: ALL SAG WOMEN

    Read my post above also. I have read many Sag viewpoints and will attempt to Demystify the whole Gem/Sag situation and Saggie complaints.

    1st and Foremost—GEMINIS NEVER TRULY KNOW they’re in Love until we MISS the person, almost in an unbearable way.

    Typical Gem/Sag scenario: (this is with my 2nd Sag Love)
    Both have the “Hots” for each other, Sag usually initiates.
    Usually starts off something like this..

    Gem (me): “whoa! hot girl, she can have anyone she wants”

    Sag girl: “Ooo..let me seduce this one…”

    Gem: “Omg. Now I’m a bit scared/turned on. SCARED. but she’s so hot–yum. Intrigued, scared. She’s so fiesty!”

    Sag girl: “I’m sooo into you!”

    Gem: “WTH?? How the HECK could she be THAT into me? Is she for real? I just don’t get it. DON”T get it. Is she confusing LUST for me for LOVE? WTF?”
    (Yes, I’m pretty good-looking. 2 family members are models) Still, as a Gemini, I can’t logically fathom how someone could be SO crazy into someone That QUICKLY. It was the case with both my Sag loves.

    Gem: “HOW can you ‘Love’ me/be SO into me so much-that quickly? Nah, she’s just in LUST with me. Fake Fake. Just infatuated w/me that’s all.”

    As a Gem, it’s like, yes I know I’m good-looking (not boastful, but a fact that alot of girls have a thing for me)
    but we DISLIKE it if we feel the girl only likes us for our face or body and not truly who we are on the inside.
    With Sags, I could never be certain (b/c they’re all over me so quickly)
    “Do you like ME for ME or do you just like my Face? Is it TRUE feelings you have or LUST?”
    “I don’t like playing Ken to your Barbie.”

    2) Saggie complaint–Gems don’t respond to calls/text

    Gem doesn’t want to seem “too available”. It’s a pride thing and we need “freedom”. Freedom to not be at your ‘beck and call’ whenever you text/call. Pride and Childishness a bit I know. But we like Control. Don’t wanna seem too “Easy”.
    = MIND Games

  • LeMeow says:

    Sag girl here… I’ve been dating a gemini man for about a year… I’ve read so many compatibility charts ect., and all so accurate! It’s crazy. Our sex is actually incredible. It’s like our bodies an out minds are just one. From the first time we ever touched, there was just electricity. However, the complications of our relationships are heavy. We’ve been on and off and on… And off for this whole time. Tempers? Check. Sarcasm? Check. Need for space? … Well, he gives me more than I need, so I’m the needy one. I read this other compatibility reading which said that sag women give 100 percent of their love. Understatement. It’s so annoying how he just doesn’t get the concept of compromise!!!! I live for my space to roam around and be free, but I still need someone to come home to! Why are Gemini men do complicated?! The funny thing is, we always come back to each other… I really hope that we get to that long-term level without the “off” season… I love my Gemini. I’ve been with aquarius men in the past, and I’m so happy I met this Gemini man.

  • Sol says:

    @LeMeow and all other Sag Ladies Answer me this:

    You say you give “100% of your Love”. Gems are thinking, “Ok if she’s dated 7 different people, loved Each and Every One of them “100%” as you ladies claim:

    “How am I, (the Gemini) any different than the other 6 people she dated and claimed to love 100% EACH time?!”
    Therefore, we conclude:
    “Sag lady is probably “in Love” with being “IN Love”–and not so much as ME, the Gemini.”
    Hence, 1) Trust issues 2) Gemini’s giving space, b/c we feel Sag’s affections is being clingy and we’re not even 100% sure if you really REALLY love us or just so full of Love for Every person you’re with

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  • Sag girl now engaged 2 Gemini says:

    I totally agree with #28, I’m also engaged to a Gemini man and your comment was spot on!!! I love my Gemini man and I am excited to go on this journey of life together. But we will be interested in our children before they can talk lol.

  • Anna says:

    yeah hese two can be frieds even special friends and that’s it. the reason they lack communication…….rather why gemi man does nog want to communicate with sag woman is cause he thins shes like im. a lying mfsonabitch. he listens to what ohrs tell him bout me. when we met first six years back tol me he pretended was ingle and has one son from a prevous actually he had two and hid all pitures wouldn’t show anything. what kinf a parent isthat? he tells a lot of tales and whiles the time. as a sagie woman I know hes very gullible n believes everthing that shown to him and he nos it. hes gotten fooles and manipulated so many times by women he thinks loved him. why is it soo easyto tell a man what he wants ot hear…that’s what sh…y women do get what they want and get the hell out. know this guy for what he is ….and dint expect more where you aint gonna get it.

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