Comments on: Gemini Man and Scorpio Woman Compatibility

By: Danielle

Danielle — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 21:42:36 +0000

I just want to say thank you Sol and the other Gemini men who have commented on this. As a Scorpio woman I know I have my fair share of issues, specifically being irrationally jealous of my Gemini’s past, but you shedding light on how they “sample” for the one has really calmed my nerves and helped me to let go, so that I can trust him when he tells me he loves me and thinks I’m special and yadda yadda.

It’s funny though, my Gemini boy and I are currently broken up, but we still talk multiple times a day for hours at a time, exchanging “I love you”‘s and such. Despite of our current state, a huge part of me thinks he’s one. He inspires me in so many ways and makes me so excited for life and the future. We are so open and honest, and at times we may not completely agree, but we agree on our differences and carry on.

Here’s my question though- So we are broken up (mainly his idea) because we leave a couple states apart, I’m younger, and still need to organize my life and future career. This is definitely something that I need. But if we keep talking and my love still remains, I won’t be able to explore other people and I will find myself subconsciously pointing my future in his direction. We already promised not to see each other, but what should I do? I don’t want to lose him.

By: Diane Shirley

Diane Shirley — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 21:42:31 +0000

I am a Scorpio, and not an appropriate partner for a Gemini………….which I found out the hard way. For any serious, truly loving, deep woman who values commitment, STAY WAY FROM GEMINI. The more social, lighthearted signs can tolerate his shallowness and wandering eye, so go for it, you ladies of that ilk, as he is after all very handsome, charming and entertaining. My hats off to you for being able to manage this Puck.

For the rest of us, he’s shallow, too easily distracted and immature. Good to have in the male friend dept, but only that. Sadder but wiser now.

By: Brown eyes

Brown eyes — Sun, 08 Apr 2012 22:03:47 +0000

I’m a Scorpio woman and once “dated” a Gemini man. As it turns out, he is one of the greats. Sure, we had our fair share of issues, mainly because he wanted total exclusivity from me, but refused to reciprocate. No sale. The sex was always great. He became one of my best friends and still is to this day, although we are now platonic. He didn’t like that at all at first, but he had no choice. I’m now getting to know another Gemini man who caught my attention and has held it thus far. We talk for hours at a time and sometimes find that the sun is rising before our conversations come to an end. He’s a self-proclaimed ***hole to most people, but I find his candor refreshing and I love that I don’t have to censor myself or water down what I’m going to say. I’m getting to know a few other men right now as well, but he has the potential to become one of my favorites. I’m single until I get married and though I’m open to a commitment, there’s no rush. With the current Gemini, we share a lot of personal and dark experiences from our pasts, and are open with each other. He (so far) keeps his word, which is of major importance to me. We laugh a lot. He listens and he talks….a lot. I don’t mind at all. It seems that he’s falling. He asked what I was looking for. I told him we should take it one day at a time and if we identify a need for changes, we’ll communicate and maybe implement. So, all that to say…relax a little and just enjoy the ride.

By: YOUNNA

YOUNNA — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 03:25:48 +0000

Hell no, JUST HELL NO DO NOT EVEN BOTHER LOOKING FOR A GEMINI AT ALL big mistake ever!!!! dont even make it to your first Valentine’s day with each other if u wanna get your heart broken…noo marriage needed this couple is just with friends with benefits just one doo hicky THAT’S ALL-Scorpio

By: YOUNNA

YOUNNA — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 03:25:09 +0000

By: Thomas

Thomas — Wed, 14 Mar 2012 05:26:18 +0000

Hi. I am a male Gemini (53) divorced for 2 yrs from my Scorpio ex-wife (38). The first 2 years of our blissful marriage were made in heaven, if there was such a thing, the rest after that slipped slowly but relentlessly into depression. It all fell apart when I, after suffering her pathologic jealousy without any reason ever for 7 years, discovered her lovely exchange with her ex, revealing issues that she had always denied to me we had. The break-up was the most gut-wrenching tyrade of put-downs and insults one can imagine and I have only recently crawled out of the big dark hole I fell. Would I make the same ‘mistake’ under similar circumstances? Why not? No two people are truely alike and you can’t judge or punish x for y’s sins.

To prove my point: I have just started dating a 46yr old Scorpio lady that lives close by. The last few weeks have been the ride of my life, emotionally and mind-blowingly sexually. Her honesty, sensuality and openness just blow me away and she’s smart too and seemingly really into me. She has a deep soul, is very feminine and gentle, and she makes me feel like the teenage quarterback dating the pram queen. I couldn’t be more sure that she’s the one. Who gives a flying monkey what happens tomorrow? In the worst-case scenario I still have today’s bliss as tomorrow’s memories.

Horoscopes can provide guidance on some spiritual levels and may provide some answers where common science fails. But how potentially good or bad a relationship is or can be will depend on the debth of love (gemini) and commitment (Scorpio) both bring into it. I belive that if both give both (love AND commitment) this can be one of the most rewarding and satisfying connections ever made.

By: Sol

Sol — Tue, 28 Feb 2012 19:30:09 +0000

1 VERY Important differentiating factor between Scorpio-Gem relationship to be aware of

Scorpio= Commitment (they approach the world looking for a Commitment 1st–then find someone they like to
fulfill that role of “Commitment”. In other words, they are looking for a Type and a person willing to
commit to a relationship w/ them.

Gemini= Idealist/ Looking for “The ONE”. We approach the world looking for the “One”–not a Commitment
per se. We search and sample and search for the special someone who can MAKE us say, “Oh, I want
commit and be in a relationship.” I could be dating the hottest girl and I’ve said, “Yes, on a checklist
she’s perfect. Looks, brain, etc etc.” by she is not the ‘ONE’ that makes me fall stupid in love. Everyone except a Gemini would say, “What’s wrong with her??” Well I (Gem) would say, “Nothing, she’s just not THE One that makes my heart beat fast and my blood race even though on the checklist she’s perfect.”
***Lol, most people other than Gems don’t understand that. Because to Gemini’s it’s about a Person–specifically. ‘Abby’, ‘Britney’, ‘Carla’ etc. —not by characteristic–Good Looks, Smart, Kind, Sweet etc.
That’s the “Je ne sais quoi” Factor of a specific person that do what they do to you. The Spark.

By: CuspGirl

CuspGirl — Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:51:11 +0000

I was born on the 22nd of November. Some magazines say I’m a Scorpio, some Sagittarius. Had no idea what to classify myself as until my friends unanimously decided that I’m a Scorpio. I have a lot of Scorpio attributes but I dont really hold grudges.

Anyway, my point is I am hopelessly and completely inlove with a 25-year-old Gemini man, (I’m 20). We’ve had a brief but dramatic history from August last year. I never know what to expect from him. I fell for him 1st time but there was always something that doesnt add up about him. I fell pregnant with his child and instantly I decided to terminate it, he didnt believe me at first, came up with ridiculous excuses as to why its not his (a vasectomy being one of them – really? at 25?). So eventually he financed the termination, he is an attorney by profession. I am a law student so you can imagine the arguments between us. In all the emotional turmoil that came with the termination, I decided that I want nothing to do with him. I also found out from the grape vine that he in actual fact has a girlfriend with which he stays. I was devastated but I told myself I’ll move on.

This year, he came over unexpectedly, he gave me a soppy story of how inlove he is with me and how he wants to start a life with me. I told him that I hate him but somehow we ended up at some cocktail restaurant closeby. We had a crazy weekend together and 2 weeks later (this past weekend) same thing.

He admitted that the rumours are true but he and his girlfriend have broken up, as of the 1st of March I’ll even get to see his new place, he said he’ll even give me the spare key so I can come over whenever it suits me. He said that he’d like to be my man if thats fine with me. I dont know what to say? It all sounds too good to be true and we all know how Gemini men are good at making empty promises. I love him so much though, what to do????? Please help.

By: summer jones

summer jones — Fri, 24 Feb 2012 21:11:13 +0000

im a woman scorpio dating a gemini man. its been great but exstremly difficult, the good out ways the bad and if you didnt have any bad how would you kno what the good looks like? wev been dating for 6 yrs we have 2 sons and are contemplating marriage hes an incredible indiviual and appricates the ground i walk on, and the only time i ever see his twin is in the sack summerjones19nov21.1192

By: Sol

Sol — Mon, 20 Feb 2012 09:58:11 +0000

The one thing Scorpios must understand—Gemini look for “the ONE”. Much of our actions are labeled (as Papiya put it) “treacherous”/cheating/etc etc”, truth of the matter is, we are just bouncing around like kids to find the person who we love the most—mind, body, and soul.
This Gemini ‘sampling’ doesn’t not usually mesh with Scorpio’s approach–it’s quite the opposite. Unfortunately, that’s where Scorpio might feel ‘betrayed/cheated’ and pulls out the Stinger-perhaps rightfully so. But know that it is not that Geminis do it to hurt people purposely, but rather to be solid in who to love and ultimately be with.
As a Gemini, I firmly believe that Gems don’t realize/want make that decision to commit that First time around. We have to realize we are madly in love with someone by taking a 2nd look and going back to them.
Example: How do you know what you like in the Ice Cream Shop? You SAMPLE. Taste a few flavors then GO BACK and decide twhat you want. That would make the best solid choice.

By: SoonAfter

SoonAfter — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 16:02:37 +0000

I am also a Scorpio in relations with a Gemini man and it happens to be the BEST! He and I share mutual love and respect for one another and we fight here and there but ultimately it’s marvelous to be with him and he feels the same. Some Scorpio/Gemini couplings won’t work out, others will. But I strongly recommend to my fellow Scorpion ladies to give it a swing go….it’s worth it!

By: Me

Me — Sun, 12 Feb 2012 16:54:45 +0000

Run away if it’s a gemini man-Gemini women can be faithful more than a Gemini male. They will lie, and they’re darn good at it to make you feel like you’re at fault. I feel bad for others who have fallen for this shady of a man, but I will never date another Gemini male… EVER!! LOL! He’s lucky I didn’t key his car.

By: Me

Me — Sun, 12 Feb 2012 16:51:47 +0000

This is sooooooooo true! I’m a Scorpio and dated A Gemini and the worst did happen!

By: Papiya Singh

Papiya Singh — Sat, 11 Feb 2012 07:14:22 +0000

Being a Sagittarius woman, i will recommend that Scorpios shouldn’t marry treacherous Gemini..Scorpion
s life will be completely ruined & no one on this earth can make them again recovered from such pain.. I have felt it, experienced it..Its true..

By: smarty

smarty — Mon, 06 Feb 2012 10:13:52 +0000

hahhaa,, after reading this comments i feel like laughing… m a scorpion women and rite now m dating a guy who is gemini..i like him but i dont love him and i really dont trust him either.. he is dual personality and very boring.. he is also doing timepass wid me,, but he acts like is serious for me.. m dating him because i want to forgot my x bf who was Aquarius with whom i shared 7 years long relationship but we brokup bcos of family issues.. i dont think i will ever get serious wid this gemini guy cos he is very opposite to me and he is very flirtatious.. but i think he should never forget that m a scorpion and i can sting him very badly..

By: danielle

danielle — Thu, 26 Jan 2012 06:15:29 +0000

Im a scorpio and have been talking to a Gemini we met 4 years ago and hit it off we stopped talking a year after we met. He all of a sudden hits me back up 3 years later and I hung out with him. I was in love with him when we quit talking and told him. After I hung out I’m still in love with him and don’t know what to do HELP

By: Ms. J

Ms. J — Sat, 07 Jan 2012 00:29:59 +0000

Im A Scorpio woman Nov. 9th and I was dating a Gemini man June 17th and after only 2 months of seeing each other I knew I was in love with him but refuse to say it. One day he randomly professed his love for me and I shyly replied I Love You too. On the inside I was jumping for joy but I couldn’t let him see that. We could talk for hours on the phone in deep meanigful conversations. He would come to my job and treat my girlfriend and I out to lunch. Around my friends he was the perfect date. He was so down to earth and sociable. He looked at life in a way no other man could relate to me in such a fashion. He was very street savy as well as an intellectual which is a must dealing with a female like myself. Around him I always felt safe and blissfully happy. What a shame my “Knight In Shining Armour: was a Fraud. He had a girlfriend of 7 years whom at the time was in a rocky relationship with but when we met he told me they had just broken up. To my surprise they were together the whole time and he never told her anything about me of course. Once I found out I felt betrayed and normally I would been the Scorpion that I am and used my “stinger” but I didn’t. I took it like a champ chalked it up as a lesson learned. But I know one thing for sure he was wearing a mask the whole time. Had my whole family and I fooled. I will try another Gemini out but this time I will be investigating so much he will probably think Im with CSI and go running for the hills. Hey better safe than sorry. Oh and the Sex was Good but I Had WAYYYYYY BETTTERRRR lol Thats the downfall of being a Scorpio so much experience leaves little room for tricks I havent seen yet. lol

By: Javier

Javier — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 05:28:59 +0000

In The beginning u might think shes the 1 for you and u might even think “hey” im gonna marry this girl but once ur together for to long and have spent alot of time with each other it hardly works out. Good word of advice take ur time getting to knoe the scorpio women dont rush it cus it could backfire and next thing u know uve just entered ur worst nightmare

By: Javier

Javier — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 05:24:50 +0000

Well Im a Gemini , and i really fell in love with my x girlfriend a scorpio girl but its too much she fucked up the relationship by cheating then thats when i said f it and cheated on her 5 times as much. Sex is fun theres always alot of sex between the 2 especialy the gemini man we horny as hell lol. but scorpio women like to be in charge and that doesnt work with a gemini these 2 together can be really scary especially when the scorpio women brings out the evil twin of the gemini man .

By: rene

rene — Tue, 22 Nov 2011 04:49:00 +0000

I am a true scorpio in and out of love with gemini since I was 19 and he was 26 ….I am 36 and his 44.. we are compatiable but that damn twin surfaces all the time with another agenda…I honestly luv him and always will but I love me more…he can be selfish, arrogant, underminding, flirtatous, chauvanistic…these are traits that all gemini men possess..so if u can’t deal run away, especially when he states he loves u

By: SammR

SammR — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 04:11:38 +0000

I notice a lot of negative feed back on these relationships, and it seems to scare a lot of people. I’m a scorpio woman in a GREAT relationship with my gemini man. any man can be a cheater, not just a gemini, mine, clearly only has eyes for me. he’s not very open about feelings, but a lot of men aren’t. i have STRONG scorpio traits, and he has some, Gemini traits (he’s loud, and can be quite fun, and obnoxious lol) but all in all we have a wonderful relationship, 3 years strong, with nothing but honesty.

By: Mel

Mel — Sun, 02 Oct 2011 21:10:18 +0000

I’m a scorp and he is a gem we have been off n on going on 4 years this month n I must say that it has been a deep long testful 4 years but I must say we love each other deeply n no each other well n have a over all strong connect of love, partners, n friendship which is worth the trails n tribulations…… so hang in there if your heart n mind says it’s worth it.

By: Belle

Belle — Sat, 01 Oct 2011 01:25:38 +0000

why does it say 50/50? lmao… and also gemini and libra are the best! not scorpio! libra and gemini are match made in heaven

By: Amy

Amy — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 18:34:29 +0000

OMG im a cancer and he is a Gemini and it was soooooooooooooooooo BAD.I have never felt more bad about myself than I did with him.

By: Ashbash

Ashbash — Tue, 20 Sep 2011 21:30:23 +0000

So I am a Scorpio Woman, who dated but never loved the Gemini guy. He was there for my entertainment and my need to conquer. I did kind of like him but my heart is with another man. Anywho, I found him in bed with another girl and we broke up, he was so EVIL when it happened. Then a week later I found out I was pregnant by him and now he has disappeared. I saw his car parked outside of a black angus and badly wanted to slash his tires.

By: IM

IM — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 16:25:25 +0000

Jus met my Gemini…i am sceptical. But everytime I see him, I feel easy going. He makes me so comfortable and wanted. Dont know where its heading, but I will put forth effort and try. Complications and all. He makes me feel hopeful, like I have something to look forward to.