Gemini Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility

Famous Gemini-Virgo Couples:

Salman Rushdie and Padma Lakshmi, Ray Davies and Chrissie Hynd, Salma Hayek and Francois Henri Pinault

A Gemini man and a Virgo woman can be fascinating to one another.  They will never run out of things to talk about.  Their view points on life are amazingly similar in that they are both observers of human nature and they bring out the tolerance in one another. They are equally intelligent and can share insights about the world around them.  These are two people who process the world mentally with a certain detachment.  The Virgo woman tolerates the Gemini man’s gregariousness while the Gemini man’s constant activity gives the Virgo woman the space she needs.

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How to Attract a Gemini Man as a Virgo Woman:

If you’re a Virgo woman wanting to attract a Gemini man, try to convince him early on that you will be valuable to his career by keeping him organized and tying his loose ends.  If you like this Gemini man, you will be willing to do the things for him that he doesn’t like to do.  That’s your nature and it’s a big asset to him who can’t be bothered to do a lot of things.  The Gemini man is very sophisticated so you should act polished in public, keep your hands to yourself, and take out your best manners.  He’ll like witty repartee, so please provide this.  Feed him some sophisticated commentary on the world around you and people you encounter that evening, and don’t hold back.  He will be impressed by your astute observations and that you have the nerve to say some of the things you do.

How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Gemini Man:

If you’re a Gemini man trying to attract a Virgo woman, put your best intellectual foot forward.  Don’t waste her time with small talk.  Have something intelligent to say, about world events or current affairs, and make it original if possible.  Keep your hands to yourself and act like a gentleman.  If she wants more than that, she’ll provide the cues.  It is best to be conservative because she will not be very forgiving of mistakes in etiquette.

Degree of Romance:

Virgo is one of the sexiest signs in the zodiac while Gemini has all the smooth moves. The courtship is likely to have a very romantic veneer that is pleasing to the sensitivities of both the Virgo woman and the Gemini man.  The success of the early courtship may even turn on the right words at the right time as these are two superb communicators each of whom will appreciate finding someone of equal caliber to interact with.

Degree of Passion:

The Virgo woman has a way of letting loose when she decides to take her defenses down which can send a Gemini man’s head spinning.  When two cerebral signs connect with such chemistry, sparks are bound to fly — much to the surprise of both.  This surprise fuels the fire which builds higher and higher in spite of the cool collectedness for which the two signs are famous.

Degree of Friendship:

Gemini man and Virgo woman can make a very fine friendship.  Virgo brings out protectiveness in Gemini.  Gemini understands Virgo at a fundamental level and will give her the space and clarity she needs.  In return, Virgo lends Gemini a willing ear at every turn.  He has someone to talk to, and she has someone to listen to.  This is a friendship that can endure.

Degree of Marriage:

This relationship is a very good one that creates a space for two intellectuals to pursue their interests.  Children are a little bit hard to work into the formula, because basically people aren’t interesting to a Gemini or a Virgo until they reach the age of reason — about 8 years old.  As a couple, the Virgo-Gemini combination may go in one of two directions:  (1) They may be studious and introverted spending time in the library or reading before the fire; or (2) They may be just the opposite — gregarious and friendly to the extreme.  It works well as long as they are both on the same page.  If wires are crossed and a gregarious Gemini hooks up with a studious Virgo, or vice versa, there will be friction.

Progression of Relationship:

A flurry of texts and emails will follow soon after these two meet.  The object will be to communicate constantly with one another until they are face to face again.  It may be hard to meet again right away because their schedules are so busy, but sooner or later they will create a space for each other in their lives.  It will all be respectful and peaceful.  They have a wonderful ability to communicate about problems in a very feeling manner.  Neither sign has much ego and is less interested in being right than in being fair and cooperative.


Both signs have a reputation for being very good lovers.  Between the Gemini man and Virgo woman, there is a willingness to experiment, an ability to build friendly rapport, and a gift to be able to talk about sex comfortably with one another.  Virgo is a born flirt and tease, while Gemini knows all the moves to make.  They are especially good with their timing in the bedroom and of course there’s the famous Virgo attention to detail.

When It’s Over:

When it’s time for the party to be over, Virgo will quietly put her foot down.  Gemini will affably take the hint and hit the road. And because she’s a Virgo, he’ll hit the high road.  These two are likely to unwind their relationship with finesse and integrity.

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  1. Wow sounds like we were all dating the same Gemini man or shall i say boy!?

  2. Oh boy, we have different styles with problem solving and confrontation. I am honest and talk openly but I have whined for attention a few times and he snapped into another person. I would catch my words that I’m being a brat then I would stop myself and apologise and he would act like everything was ok but he would secretly be plotting for retaliation and when he did that he went for the throat. Gemini is like a snake. When they bite they kill. No discussion nothing. That was our one problem. Other than that we were a perfect match but his relation turned into betrayal and he deceived me pretending to be a good guy and then I found out any little issue he would set out to hurt me with another girl. No Sex but he persued them and then try to make me jelous…So childish and immature. When he promised he would never do that to me. We broke up after 14 months in a bad way. We started out as friends then progressed into a relationship and we had so much fun together I loved being with my Gemini man but he was wishy washy. He loved me one minute and told me then the next he’s confused. It became hard for a Virgo woman to deal with. It got ugly in the end. Gemini was a good bullshitter when he got mad something I couldn’t deal with. As I began to get anxiety and started freaking out when he wouldn’t protect me or my heart. I believed in him but he was just as immature as I was with solving conflict. I still love him but he has moved on.

  3. ‘”Neither sign has much ego and is less interested in being right than in being fair and cooperative. ” – so true

  4. I think my Gemini man is nothing like any description Ive ever read, instead he’s shy, likes his own presence, hates alcohol and clubs (people for that matter), never leaves the house unless you tell him to or he needs to. This is the reason why I do not believe in horoscopes that much. If anything the dynamic described above works well if I were a Gemini and he was Virgo. He needs space and I need friends. “This relationship is a very good one that creates a space for two intellectuals to pursue their interests” – this statement however is v well describes what we have. For me, I never check this compatibility cause for some reason Gem and Vir are a bad match, but this is BY FAR the best relationship I have ever had and we are a very strong team. Theres no control, jealousy, abuse. Relationship is purely fuelled on mutual respect, commitment and acceptance. Also we are 100% honest and we think out loud in front of each other even if it can hurt. This is why our relationship is based on complete trust. All of our friends say we have a very unconventional couple as we are kinda independently get on with our own lives and arent needy. He is not my second half cause Im a whole. He isnt my soulmate, he is my life partner by choice. So for all Virgo + Gemini couples out there who are discouraged by astrological compatibility readings….dont be down, it works if you want it to.

  5. Really? , that pathetic?…..”he can cheat as long as he comes home to you” , is there no self worth and are you not afraid of immune viruses, disease and infections.

    Some of these comments trigger the weirdest concepts in me, I swear.

    I have a question for whomever wants to give a feedback, do you think its rude suggesting a status check together before leveling up romantically with someone, especially if this is someone you want to get real down naughty and dirty with, but not only that but plan to start a family with, settle down with and so on.

  6. I am liking a Gemini man (and luckily he likes me too), and this article made me realize some important points I have to remember before we level-up romantically. I know what I am as a Virgo, and I am proud of my pride. But this man will be my very first – I still don’t know what will happen once he starts flirting with other girls! What all I know is that, he can cheat, as long as at the end of the day, he’ll come home to me.

  7. I’ve been dating this gemini guy for almost 2 months but I’ve only seen him twice. We chat everyday until late in the early hours. He’s fun to talk with. Butt the thing is he can’t make time. He’s always busy with his work.

  8. Very true I’ve the virgo women n I’ve been away from my Gemini man n were back together n very much in love with each other still thank u

  9. This article is quite true, I was with a gemini for a few years before meeting my wonderful capricorn. Although my gemini always interested and excited me, he just couldn’t stop cheating and thats a massive no-go for me as I value loyalty. The bit in the article that states “when it’s time for the party to be over, virgo will quietly put her foot down” is exactly how our situation ended. I eventually got sick of his cheating, however we definately unwound our relationship with integrity.

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