There’s some compatibility with Leo and Sagittarius because they are both fire signs, future oriented and enthusiastic about life but it’s not likely to be romantic enough for Leo in the long run. They may become best friends and running buddies instead which suits Sag but eventually will not work for Leo either. The virtues which are emphasized when these two team up are honesty, openness and good will. Each sign wears their heart on their sleeve and usually has nothing but the best of intentions towards others. Leo is a bit more formal and personal than Sag.
How to Attract a Sagittarius Woman as a Leo Man: Emphasize fun and enthusiasm. Have some special activity in mind like sailing or a concert that’s coming to town. Keep your conversation positive and tell her out loud how much you try to surround yourself with positive people. Compliment her friends and the people she hangs with. Treat the waitress the same as you do her. Share your aspirations for the future with her. Be upbeat and dress down. When you pick her up, say something like, “I feel like we’re off on a great adventure!” Smile and laugh a lot, especially at yourself. Don’t banish her from the kingdom for spilling mustard on your upholstery (yes, she will do that). Get to know her parents. They could be some of your best friends later on. (They are pretty much bound to be in your corner.)
How to Attract a Leo Man as a Sagittarius Woman: Be honest, open and positive. Give him sincere compliments and high maintenance attention. Try to take him seriously. Keep your feet on the floor and your hands on the table. Don’t scratch where it itches. Try to appreciate he wants to take you out on Saturday night even though it’s goofy to you. (You consider Saturday Amateur Night.
Degree
Degree of Passion: Leo may have passion for Sag but Sag has only passion for concepts such as “humanity” or “the future of endangered species”. This can become embarrassing and frustrating to Leo who is, after all in love with love not philosophy.
Degree of Friendship: Leo puts more heart and real effort into friendship than Sagittarius who is “just passing through”. Sag isn’t loyal whereas that is a core quality for Leo in finding friends,
Degree of Marriage: This can make a good marriage if Leo is wounded or hiding out and not wanting to risk his heart, in other words, a rebound second marriage.
Progression of Relationship: Leo will want to follow a traditional courtship pattern (Wednesday and Saturday nights, 3 months before sex, 6 month engagement.) Sag could care less. She’s busy with other things like her new YOGA class, a quick trip to Dubai, Save the Cheetah Foundation and her horse or musical instrument. She doesn’t want to dress up for Saturday night, finds his predictability prosaic and boring and would rather keep it ad hoc and casual. When Leo takes pride in something, she’ll accuse him of being pretentious.
Sex: Lots of fun but not intense enough for Leo who is looking for the Holy Grail of Mutual Orgasms. Leo tends to spiritualize everything including sex. Sag may find his love making melodramatic and contrived, i.e., not like they do it in the barnyard.
When It’s Over: Leo will be melodramatic and Sag will blow it all off. Why does Leo always have to take things so seriously? As soon ss they separate she’ll invite his single friends to shoot pool and go Scuba diving with her.
Our Rating: 5/10
#1 by Menna on November 12th, 2009
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Sooo true in a scary way!!!!!
Amazed!!!
#2 by nancy on November 13th, 2009
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Don’t be scared and come back again soon.
#3 by Eve on December 23rd, 2009
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Wow..its a bit true but as a sagittarius woman im different from what is described here..i am loyal and im not the care-less type of person..so i guess Leo will be perfect for me!
#4 by V on January 20th, 2010
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It was the other way around when I was (as Sag woman) with a Leo. I was the melodramatic one in the end too, in the end even waiting 3 years for him to call me, only to find out he in the mean time, started a family with someone else. auch
#5 by nancy on January 25th, 2010
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@#4V
OUCH!! Yes, it does sound like a role reversal.
#6 by Jay on January 26th, 2010
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Totally true! I don’t know why other places say this is a good combo–Leo guy and Sag girl. I gave it my all for almost six months….tried communicating, letting things be, etc. Maybe this Sag is a bit different though, I dunno.
#7 by Jamie on January 31st, 2010
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Im a sagittarius and my bf is a leo, we are awesome!!! I seem to bond more with leos than any other sign that’s amazing:) My leo guy is heaven sent!
#8 by nancy on February 2nd, 2010
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@jay This has been my understaniding so your’s is no exception!
#9 by Tallulah on February 4th, 2010
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I have to say I have a Leo ex and this doesn’t really describe how our relationship was. I think he held positive and negative traits in almost equal measure. I was much more romantic than he was and deeper thinking. He did think deeply, but he had to be in that mood and I rarely saw demonstrations of it. When I did though, it was genuine and it touched me. The idea that we don’t have passion for people is quite the opposite to the way that I am. I think Sags want that intensely even from a relative young age. Strong and genuine connections, but we get bruised so badly on the way through giving our trust too easily and wearing our heart on our sleeves and often looking for special bonds in the wrong places, where they will not be found.
I got so tired of having to worship him a lot of the time. He needed attention more than my two children needed my attention. He was never wrong, holier than thou and the worst listener I have ever come across. The sex between us was not that great and I had 100% more passion and staying power than he did. In fact he was rather a lazy lover, which is something I have never come across before. Not all Leos are that passionate. I went out with one before and it was a similar story in terms of sexual stamina.
He was not very generous and always wanted something in return if he did anything for you. I disliked this trait massively. However he was very protective, insanely jealous which I quite liked in a way Lol and kind hearted. He was always there when I needed him and I was the most important thing to him, even though he didn’t always show it the way I wanted. He did a lot for me and I would always help him out if ever he needed me 100%.
When we got along it was great, but so much of the time he would test my patience, ignore my need to be left in peace, he nagged and preached and lectured me more than I have ever known. When you get down to basics though, in essence he was a good person and totally and utterly faithful. I admired him greatly for this. He had great integrity in this department.
We are still friends. I think as friends this combination works very well.
#10 by jay on February 5th, 2010
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Thanks for the clarification nancy. From my experience, your assessment from this pair was spot-on, except maybe treating the waitress/waiter as I would her….she actually told me I was too nice with them?!?! lol She wants to stay good friends….is that strange? Or is that the leo melodrama you mention trying to fight that friendship?
#11 by nancy on February 6th, 2010
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@Talullah
Most of what you say is the same thing i said only different!
#12 by nancy on February 6th, 2010
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@jay
It would be odd if a Leo really remained friends with an exlover, so le t’s see if she really means it, especially after you pair off again.
#13 by J on February 7th, 2010
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@ Talullah
How long have you two been friends after the breakup? How long were you dating? I was wondering what you like better about being just friends.
@ Nancy
When you say, ‘let’s see if she really means it, especially after you pair off again,’ what did you mean exactly? Do you mean once the both of us start dating other people or no? This Leo recognizes that she only wants him around when it’s convenient for her and when she is alone. Like you said, loyalty is a core-quality that a Leo looks for in a friendship. It wasn’t seen during the relationship and it’s not being seen during the friendship.
#14 by jay on February 10th, 2010
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@jamie….got caught up with my own failed relationship. But i’m very happy for you two! Keep it up, just remember to keep communicating and never let a day go by as being special. =)
#15 by Sara on February 12th, 2010
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In my case, I’m the more intense one (Sag female) and he’s the one who’s “passing by” (leo male). Makes for a frustrating relationship at times, but I feel as if he’s testing me.
#16 by acsag on May 4th, 2010
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Tallulah..YOU are spot on with Sagittarius..this part really describes me to this day.. On the surface people think I am single because I choose to be..but this is why;The idea that we don’t have passion for people is quite the opposite to the way that I am. I think Sags want that intensely even from a relative young age. Strong and genuine connections, but we get bruised so badly on the way through giving our trust too easily and wearing our heart on our sleeves and often looking for special bonds in the wrong places, where they will not be found….WOW that is me! I’m 38 with 2 sons and never married. I googled this Blog because I’m interested in a younger single Leo..at first I thought he might be interested..but now I don’t think so..boo
#17 by Gayle on June 5th, 2010
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I’m a sagittarius and my leo husband is a pain in the a@@. He’s stubborn as hell and thinks he knows it all when he’s stupid as a rock.
I don’t get along with leo’s anyway. I think they’re all overrated. I had BFF who was a leo and boy was she vain. She wasn’t even all that but thought she was. I got sick of the B**** because I would always have to big her up. Truth is, I’m 100 times better looking. But she would always have to be the center of attraction.
Sagittarius have waaaaay more confidence than leo’s. They don’t have to try to be the center of attraction because that comes natural for them.
Because I have a strong Aquarius moon, and my mars in Scorpio, I do NOT have the patience for these idiots. The only reason why I have remained with my leo husband is because we have a beautiful son together. Other than that , we have absolutely NOTHING else in common.
#18 by Gayle on June 7th, 2010
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This reason why you took my comment off about Leo’s is because everything I said about them are TRUE!!!
#19 by sexysag on June 8th, 2010
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lol, Nancy, this is like a leo’s perspective on sag, the write up..
I m biased too being a sag, but I had much more stamina/ staying power, integrity, loyalty and honesty than any leo I had. Leo are not Deep enough for deep diving though they want it more than most, but they are not equipped enough to strip-their-ego-cloak and go underneath the surface being all vulnerable.
sags tend to treat people as WE find them .. I never thought and felt Leo can capture or even absorb the intensity I carry, so I probably held that off from him.
one last point,, I adore LEO women, my best friend is leo and is by-gaud, she is totally the only person to scorn me like she loves to do. love leo ladies, they are Great.
#20 by nancy on June 12th, 2010
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@Gayle
IT is not such a hot match!
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#22 by nancy on June 12th, 2010
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@Gayle
I didn’t take it off. I don’t post but every 5-10 days,
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#24 by Jess on July 5th, 2010
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Everything said about a leo is true. I’m talking to a leo man and i soo see all the things said of leo’s to be true. However i’m a more calmer sag. than most and just go with the flo cuz life has delt me some bad cards in life…lived and learned. I’m very interested in him. His ex left him 4 months ago and he is very heart broken and never wants to speak to her again. He seems interested in me but i’m getting mixed signals. He takes me out…then he don’t call nor text for a few days. I don’t know if i should just text or call him myself. How can i know he likes me and wants to get to know me better?
#25 by "Disneyland Mommy" on July 9th, 2010
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In my past, during my high school years, I had a crush on a Leo boy – he was the year ahead of me in school. I was very reserved and aloof – quite shy around boys when I liked my Leo boy crush. Now, we’re adults and we’ve become good friends through a random encounter on face book which brought us back into our lives and I’m allowing him to get to know me better and I’m getting to know him better. We’ve gone the slightly sensual route but in our best interests we remain friends (we’re raising kids, he on his own and me with a partner, and doing our thing – I’m very much into my own life and he’s into his if that makes sense). I find his artsy side of his personality very alluring and truly inspiring – it’s a complete breath of fresh air. I’m a creative spirit too so it’s refreshing to have him as a friend in my life – even if it’s only for a short time.
We both love writing which is something I crave when I need to escape from the intensity of life.
I’m a Sag sun – I’m only 5 degrees into Sagittarius with a Scorpio North Node Ascendant – lol – I’m actually a cusp baby so I have that mesh of Sag/Scorp traits and my Juno is in Scorpio so I come off as a Scorpio wife. My Ascendant is either Libra/ Scorpio – still trying to pin point it.
My Venus is in Capricorn, my Moon is in Aquarius and my Mars is in Sagittarius.
His Venus is in Virgo, his Moon is in Sagittarius and his Mars is in Gemini.
So it could be a strong love situation but we need to learn more about each other for it to work. The Mars opposition is something good for goal oriented couples – you get a common goal and you work on it together.
He’s a strong Leo sun with Scorpio North Node Ascendant too – some Scorpio flair in there as well.
He has a Cancer/ Leo Ascendant – still working out those degrees too but his Juno is in Cancer so he comes off as a Cancerian husband.
We do have a connection but neither one of us want to ruin it or hurt each other. So we’re going with the flow – except when I go all emotionally intense on him – lol! I prefer to channel it into art, maybe with him.
Jess – you need to take the initiative and call him. I noticed Leo men like to be called, talked to, asked for advice, direct attention, praise and pampering, but you have to lead a life in order to keep them interested and entertained – and really be positive. Sounds like he’s very down on himself if his ex left him so just be yourself around him. Give him some space – if he likes you he’ll come around.
#26 by Salam=Peace on July 13th, 2010
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@Jess & ALL OF MY SAG Sista’s.
As a Sagi, when you know
“YOU JUS KNOW”
An we know we don’t have no business being inna serious relationship wit NO leo’s (not for long anyways, as sagi women WE GONNA TRY’em out its only natural) lol!! Be friendly with’em, Sh*t, LEARN SOMETHINGS from them. Open up a business or 2 wit’em but do NOT,, I repeat DO NOT DO THIS 2URSELFz (not for long its just so unhealthy)!!
Salam^_^.
#27 by Leo MAn on July 27th, 2010
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Hi, its me mjfm again, been posting in other areas of this website… helping other people out…
so.. yup i remember having a relationship with a SAG girl…. she had broken up from a previous relationship and so had i, and we hooked up, our relationship lasted for 2 years…
As mentioning in my other posts, the case is the same here… Leo men are unpredictable in nature when it comes to relationship, but they love attention…it just goes to their head.. they love to command, be in power..lead… like a lion…and for that they show their I DON’t CARE policy…
for example …. @ Jess …in her case, he could be heart broken and when a lion is heart broken he tries to stay in his den…rather then coming out… but he does try to move on, and looks for his previous girl who broke his heart in the girl present aswell…if he succeeds, good, if not, there u go…then he wont for quite some time… as told in another post… do not lay down the red carpet infront of a leo, keep ur self respect in tact…they start taking u for granted, i think i did too on my turn and the moment she went away, she said one thing that “She cant remember any good times”
and it was soo true if realizing it…Leo’s would have sex with u one moment and go off the very next..leaving you there…not knowing what to do now..as ur left alone… Leo’s have this big sex appetite, they upon their own satisfaction they would want to leave u right away and go to work or what so ever…its a part of their stubborn nature…while a sag or any other girl would want to cuddle up after making love….but then again, they do stick on to it, because they want to show themselves as to be kings, until ur satisfied…Leo’s are very shallow in terms of appearance… but then where they can love a horsey..they can love pony or a level slightly less and bearable but not a donkey…never…leo’s feel lonliness very fast, and hate being unwanted, so let them feel ur absence for some time and then they will come running for you…once that happens..you have to be firm in ur goals and steps and direct him in ur way…but dont fall again infront of him..atleast dont show it..or else ull lose grip and it will go like before again..its just like keeping the chair and whip in ur hand…always….if u wanna keep him tamed.
#28 by Leah on July 31st, 2010
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Well I am not dating a Leo, but my best friend is a Leo. Me being a clumsy sag when I hung out with her for the first time, I broke both of her arms. She was surprisingly fine with it but I felt so bad that I offered to carry her things and open her locker and such.
Now I’m a Sag with Libra rising and Taurus moon. She’s a Leo with Pisces rising and Libra moon. I’m not sure how that works friendship wise but someone here might.
What I like about her is that like it says on other websites, she pushes me to “go for the gold” which really helps when I feel like giving up. Her sense of humor is great, very positive like most Leos I think but she’s always able to make me laugh and best of all for a Sag like me, SHE’S NEVER BORING.
What I hate about her is her criticizing. I would compare her to virgos but all the virgos I met aren’t NEARLY as bad as her. She NEVER apologizes for anything, y’know since she’s “too good for that” and she’s to much of a show off. I can understand if she’s happy with the way one of her art’s ‘n crafty things turned out or something she worked hard on, I’m proud of her for those. But does she really think I care whenever someone gives her a compliment? She will literally email me when someone online she doesn’t even know is hitting on her. Yes that’s nice for you…..but I don’t care.
#29 by jamilla on August 3rd, 2010
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i met a leo few days ago, he was the most gorgeous guy i have seen in my life, we clicked and he seems so serious about me. we are both foreigners in a country. he is 35 and i am 39, almost 5 years dif. i am not as good looking as he is, i cannot believe how strong his feelings are towards me, so strong i want to run away as i am scared of the commitment. what is said above about me as a sag is 100% no doubt, i am still getting to know my leo hunk but i just dont know how to handle him coming on so strong and if i can believe it or not and if running away is the best thing for me to do, help?