Leo Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility


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It is hard to imagine a more perfect combination than Leo man and Virgo woman — if Virgo goes for it at all.  Virgos are the quintessential bachelorettes.   They always seem to have a bottle of purified water in one hand and a fly-free zone around their personal space.  Well, if anyone can make serious inroads into their virgin territory it’s the King of Beasts.   He’s irresistible and intrigued because she doesn’t fall over like a fainting goat when he roars.  Yet she doesn’t directly challenge him either.  Her apparent indifference is his call to action.  Her integrity is a plus, too.  Contrary to his reputation as a sucker for flattery, the Lion King knows a sycophant and will only turn tummy up and purr for a sincere compliment of a true and accurate virtue or quality.  He sees in this discriminating Princess a perfect subject for the Royal Kingdom.


How to Attract a Leo Man as a Virgo Woman:   You are the perfect man-trap for this jungle boy.  He will be fascinated by your understatement, intrigued by your fashion flare and up-to-date use of  language (hmmmmmm, you’ll make a nice trophy on his arm  — he wants someone to show off  but tastefully), and he finds your temperament as refreshing as the proverbial long cool drink on a hot summer day.  For the quintessentially wanton Virgo, think Kathleen Turner in Body Heat — the scenes in all white at the beginning when she baits the trap.

How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Leo Man:   You’ll have to roar pretty loud to get her attention off her grocery list or her mind out of the clouds. She’s always straightening something out in her lovely head which is surrounded by softly coiffed locks that smell like fresh lavender!   The Virgo woman is an outrageous flirt and though not the showiest flower in the garden she probably gets pollinated the most.  Stay away from hype.  Try to say what you mean and follow through.  If you slip up a few times,  a simple apology will suffice.  This rambling rose likes to K.I.S.S.

Degree of Romance:   These two — Virgo woman and Leo man — do the courtship dance to perfection until Virgo ties one on and gets all carried away.  Oh, mercy me.  How do you think she keeps all those bees buzzing around her lightly blushed petals?

Degree of Passion:  These two polarize like planets on an exponential trajectory.  Watch Body Heat a few times.  The cooler Virgo gets, on purpose of course, the hotter Leo comes on till it sizzles.

Degree of Friendship:   Out of the bedroom, these two pals are actually the workaholics of the zodiac.  They will understand that about each other which gives them a common basis for relating beyond sex and romance.  This special bond comes in especially handy if the relationship develops to the point of fellowship and marriage because they can enjoy a weekend together raking leaves, cleaning gutters, and repairing chipped paint and be happy as clams.  Honest.  Probably no one can de-fang the King of Beasts like a Virgo.

Degree of Marriage:  This is an excellent partnership for marriage.  Together they bring out the very best in one another.  They are hard-working, loyal, dutiful, responsible, respectable, and careful about each other’s feelings.  There is no reason why this partnership should not last a lifetime.


Progression of Relationship:  Leo will naturally take charge of the relationship and follow a traditional courtship pattern.  You can expect to go out on a date Wednesday night and Saturday night.   A 6-month engagement and a traditional wedding ceremony including both families will follow.  There will be no surprises.  He will be thorough and careful to touch all the bases before rounding home plate.

Sex: Virgos are good and patient teachers which is a plus because the big lion’s appetite sometimes outstrips his prowess.  Virgo, who has more experience than you ever want to know about, is always happy to train up an amateur.

When It’s Over:   When it’s over, Leo will unwind things in a courtly, majestic fashion.  He will be heartbroken, but he will do his duty, ensuring the affairs are handled fairly and with extreme courtesy.  Ms. Virgo, you will always be in good hands with this man.  If you ever need anything years later, he will be there with his coeur de lion heart, ready to serve your needs as the gentlemen he is.

Our Rating: 10/10

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134 Responses to Leo Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility

  • lil miss virgo says:

    Hello i really can use some help well i met this 19 yr old leo and iam 22 he proposed to me and we r now in a relationship but he is so demanding and so dominating that i get scared sometimes but i love him too at the same time he doesnt lemme hangout wid ma other guy frendz or lemme wear wat iam comfy in wearing plz tell me how do i control him and wat do i do?

  • VirgoGirl says:

    I would say to get out of that relationship. This has nothing to do with Virgo and Leo compatability. If he is trying to control what you can and cannot do, that’s no life to live in. If you’ve tried talking to him about it and he isn’t listening or even considering what your saying, then I don’t think he’s ever gonna change ways. Don’t stay in a relationship just because you love him. You even said it yourself that sometimes you love him so why stay. You can find love and happiness with someone else. Your still young. You’ll eventually find someone who is meant for you. Him scaring you is probably what’s keeping you from leaving him. Women usually don’t leave men that scare them because they’re scared of what that man will do. If he’s ever been violent then that’s a shoe-in to leave him. I never said that your guy is violent but if he someday does, leave. He will not be worth it if he ever makes you feel insignificant.

  • Tia says:

    yes thats not compatibility, he is stifling who you ARE, which is a bad sign. i mean you can’t wear what you want, go what you want? are you a prisoner, not to mention you are still quite young, both of you. id say cut your losses while you can, in the long run you’ll be happy you did

  • Nancy says:

    I must say to Lil Miss Virgo, I hope you decided to get out of that relationship. I have been there, done that, had the worse experience in my life and if I can help ANYONE not follow my foot steps, I will speak up now. My soon to be ex husband was the same way. He ended up being abusive, and we are going through a crazy divorce because of his actions. I was young just like you, I thought I was in love also. Please take my advice and bail while you can. You will find better I promise you that because I am living such a better life for leaving him, and it’s worth it trust me on that one.

  • PopcornVirgo says:

    OMG! i miss my JK!!!

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  • Edouard says:

    Wow, I have to say I think they got this one dead wrong. 10/10? I’ve known lots of people who were in a Leo Virgo relationship (myself included). Virgo’s penchant for perfection (which sounds alot like criticism to the sensitive Leo) is just poison. Avoid this pairing if you possibly can. If you are in a tiny village on a remote island and only a Leo and Virgo remain to carry on the race, you would do better to just write the memoirs of the civilization and call it a day. Not a good match,,, at all.

  • RamblingRose says:

    What a sweet summary of the Leo-Virgo compatability! A little TOO sweet and sappy in my opinion, but it’s refreshing to actually hear some POSITIVE attributes of it since we are apparently SO astrologically incompatible. After looking around, have to say, I adore this site. I wish all romantic astrology would concentrate on the dynamics of all relationships instead of shrugging so many of them off as simply incompatible and unworkable.
    I am a 20 year old Virgo female, fully in love with my Leo male. We were childhood sweethearts who lost our connection for awhile while we both went down our own rough roads and sowed some particularly wild oats. Glad we weren’t together in that part of our lives because we would have hurt each other very deeply. At every age and juncture in our life, he has always treated me with the upmost respect. He is truly one of a kind. I can’t say our relationship will last a lifetime, or that I would never love again if we were to part ways, but I can say he is THE great love of my life without a doubt.
    Our dynamic is really something special. I went through a really painful relationship and it toughened my exterior quite a bit. I decided to quit sacrificing for men on the off-chance they might change. He came into my life again and I put him through the gauntlet. It took me awhile before I accepted that he was in this relationship truly and completely. The way I feel for him scares me, but he also makes me courageous. I’m willing to take chances with him, I feel safe, and I feel that he is worth hurting for should the leaps I take for our life together make me fall.
    Everything I’ve read about Leo males just makes me laugh. It is true in some regards, but I really believe underneath all the ego and arrogance is true valiant man, a noble savage. I’ve glimpsed parts of him that are hidden to the rest of the world, and I know how deep his feeling and his love runs. I trust him implicitly. He’s the best man I know, in our relationship and out of it. He’s my one and only; I can’t even imagine love without him anymore.
    I disagree with all of the assumptions that this is a bad relationship. Virgo gets a bad rap, but I love my sign. I don’t find myself nagging or nitpicky and neither does anyone else in my life. I crave perfection, sure, but I also crave love more- and my loyalty surpasses all those things. I am submissive to him yet I won’t let him disrespect me, and he knows not to overstep those lines. I’ve learned that love means putting your trust in someone, and with that, I find no need to be judgemental of his actions.
    My grandfather and grandmother were a Virgo female/Leo male relationship. They were together since they were 20 and stayed married up until the day my grandma died. My grandfather remarried twice after her death, but when he passed, he still requested to be buried next to her. She was his One and Only. Their relationship was a bit of a legend in our family. It was hot and spicy, ebbed and flowed, but no one could ever see them giving their hearts to another.
    I’ve had relationships with pisces and aquarius, but my leo male fits me like a glove.
    -VirgoLady

  • Ceiro says:

    nice essay. your trophy is on the way. keep your doors open.

  • Ceiro says:

    Either some who can give the perfect definition for a “BITCH”

  • Ceiro says:

    actually i am writing a book on “bitch”. will run in the market soon. grab a copy. worth it!

  • @ceiro says:

    @ceiro …..yes a point comes when the virgo woman needs to stop being afraid, be confident and put her trust in someone. thats what love is. to put old fearzs aside and walk together because this is a fresh start for both. nothing and nobody can come in the way or between the two. it’s a team. let’s do it!

  • ceiro says:

    sure. letz walk together. i shall be waiting for you tomorrow morning. letz see how far we can walk. i am dying for the moment to come. someone help me keep breathing until i finally go for the walk.

  • @ciero says:

    keep breathing……see you there!

  • @ceiro says:

    @ceiro sorry. keep breathing…see you there.

  • cork it says:

    sure the virgo woman can get a exasperated and hurt when her wonderfullly unique suggestions meet a cold reception but that doesnot mean she throws up her hands forever. virgo woman will observe and provide support in whichever wayit is wanted and as long as that gets results and things are on track she will be fine with it. she is very attached and stands by family though it may not appear to be so.

  • Samanthaisclear says:

    Virgo woman always has respect for what a person is in one’s life. And will not do anything to disrespect that. That has been how I felt even when I met my bf years ago in high school. he had a gf at the time and I stayed away though I was interested and felt he needs to do what he thought was best for them. i did not know much about her but had complete respect for her and her role in his life. it guided all my personal actions and i sleep all the better for that. i am single, and looks like now in the beginning stages of a promising friendship with someone who has a lot of similarities in background, community, personality etc. i hope to graduate from college, come clear and will tie the knot at that point. good luck and happiness to all.my friends tell me i am quite brave to be like this but i say theres no other way to be. sometimes truth is the only defense and the staff that one holds and strides through life. it is the golden wire that weaves here and there -one has to find it and hold on because it is the ropeway that gets us over the crevasse called life. where it leads will be good and fruitful for all if one has faith in it’s power.

  • Mislady says:

    I hope this is true. I started a second job in April & there is this guy there that I am really into. I have never had a crush like this, he is a Leo & I am the Virgo . Wish me luck ppl! I’m going for the gold!

  • Coco coco says:

    Leo is generous and warm hearted… but not enough for virgo woman… I am virgo i yearn for stability and be grounded..mental stimulation is also important with virgo…

  • Michiko says:

    One of these days the leo man will successfully bring down the virgo woman completely. And it will be too late to raise her up.

  • Sammy says:

    Yay, there are even more similarities between me and my Leo man. we just discovered that our fathers both went to the same college. I was amazed. They are so thrilled and my family is shocked too. It’s all going to finally come together. I am quite sure of that.

  • Camryn says:

    omg Tia those are my thoughts too. and littlestiniestbabygirl also. I think too much control is not good too. sometimes I think I see a pattern in his behaviousr and think wow hes improving. but shoot! no such luck. my childhood friend bff is also coming out of a divorce so were thinking of getting together and just exhaling. thatts the only thing to do. shrug off the jerks and get a life! were thinking maybe Vegas for a few days.

  • Trisha says:

    Michiko – that’s scary. What’s that mean. I always thought Leo man is warm and generous.

  • Trisha says:

    Michiko , do you mean where all the friends discuss and communicate?

  • leo says:

    I am a Leo n my girl is a virgo… we have been in long d relationship for almost 6 yrs now. At first we met online n I was only looking for friendship as I was already in a relationship..but want working out. I found virgos are cold but this is wat drives us leos crazy wth intrigue!

    we laughed n joked endlessly. its true they r ice queens n after we decided to b exclusuve..it took me over a yr to two to get into her mind. The trick is to comfort then n ensure watever she tells u is strictly confidentially. it also helps to make a fool out of urself so she can feel more laid back. nowadays I am so shocked wat comes out her mouth! days she will endlessly voice out her love n emotions n other days she will b joking like a leo! e r both childish but yet can flip on the serious switch anytime. She does not criticize but wen I find wat she wears is inappropriate I put it in a positive spin telling her it Durant suit her n I dun want others to look down on her if she wore this attire out. it makes a huge difference how u communicate.

    I find we r very compatible…n for leos who want a serious relationship b very persistant. if u leos just want a sex romp fling…dun go hurting these virgos pls! They do deserve alot n we serious leos can give it to them.

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  • Bevlearns says:

    I’m a Virgo. I have been doing online dating for 4 years now and a Leo is the first guy to ever be so open and free with me. I met him online recently and he just went and dived into the issue without beating about the bush. He just said what he liked about me, what he wanted from me and what he would give me. At first I thought he was just being too fast and open and a showoff. Being me I of course just brushed his talk aside as a desperate guy being all clumsy about getting me into his bed like most guys I’ve talked to online. But he is different. He so far has said nothing disrespectful in that regard and the more he talks the more I realise he is very sincere in his intentions. He wastes no time putting the cards on the table. He says how he wants to spoil me and us to build a sustainable successful life together and live wherever I want to be. He is already a susccessful well established man and seems to have everything he needs. I find myself trying to analyse this situation but cant coz everything is right out thre. He hides nothing and answers me whatever I ask without hesitation and honesty. To be honest I’m not used to such openess in men and I find myself feeling insecure and unsure but at the same time comfortable and willing to take the leap. He has a certain high energy but gentleness about him. We are dating long distance. We have written, talked, skyped and now we are preparing to meet. This man has been nothing but a gentleman and says he wants to “bring me the moon” and for some reason, annoyingly unclear to me, I believe him.

  • Greta says:

    So Leo guy n I met online in sep 2013. From the get go he was aggressively flirtatious. He made it clear he wanted a sexual relationship. As a Virgo, I’m not into flings so I didn’t take his advances seriously. Added to that is the almost 10yr age gap. At one point I stopped responding to his messages, having never met each other in person. Anyway a few months ago I got another message from him and we set up a first catch up in person. It was nice. We’ve met couple of times since … and each time in our communications he makes it clear he wants a sexual relationship. I play it cool and enjoy our laughter. He is always very respectful to me in person.

    I’m not sure how far I want to take this with him. Whilst at this time I don’t care if he’s seeing other women and satisfying his sexual appetite, I’ve made a point of him understanding that I will not operate in those shallow waters.

    my question to everyone and I’ve put it to him is that I think he chases me because I’m a challenge and I humour him.

    So perhaps I’m a pet project conquest and maybe I should call it quits before I let him kiss me.

    Problem is, I’m starting to like him. The real him who talks to me about his career and other persobal things.

    We’re coming up to a year since we started this friendship.

    What should I do next?

  • Marliana says:

    He is quite charming without even having to sweep me off my feet. His touch is amazing, just pretend to be friends and no romance has taken place but he will just initiate a relationship such as marriage. That could be part of his seduction tactic but that’s very cute anyway.

    It’s not an issue if he likes compliments which we could be generous about without them asking or if they show their dominion side. We have our dominion side without us realizing too or else how come the guy listens to our suggestion for food, movies etc or even follow our hobbies, give us a massage cuz we complaint of injured legs etc.

    The positive side which we should appreciate abt leo man – if u want someone romantic – most girls do I bet, someone to chase u, someone who knows ‘e softer side of life, ‘e finer side of life to enjoy with, someone who is damn passionate about romance without u having to hint – I guess it’s pretty obvious He is the answer to all of these more amazing things which we have yet to discover.

    Let’s be more sincere to take risk (just do what feels right for u even if u made a mistake of losing him). If u luv a person or at least like him, it’s worth the learning journey to fail or succeed or else just forget about it as in don’t reciprocate if u r not into this Leo guy which I doubt so lol! ;)

    -Marliana

  • Leine says:

    Hi ladies, as a Virgo I love compartmentalizing personality attributes, so I recommend for you all to put your birthday into an “astro chart calculator” because THERE ARE SO MANY MORE INDICATORS FOR ROMANCE THAN SUN SIGN. You don’t need your exact birth time, if you know if you were morning/afternoon/night etc approximate.

    My man, whom I adore, is a Leo.

    Here is my attributes list:
    Sun: Virgo
    Rising: Scorpio (first impression)
    Moon: Libra (inner heart)
    Mercury: Libra (thought process, communication style)
    VENUS: LEO (type of lover, and type to whom you’re attracted. It is very common that Virgos have Venus in Leo!)
    Mars: Libra (sexual energy and style)

    My man is either one of two, since I don’t know his time of birth
    Sun: Leo
    Rising: Cancer (or Libra)
    Moon: Virgo (or Libra)
    Mercury: Leo
    VENUS: Leo
    Mars: Gemini

    In more ways than Sun we are compatible, and where we aren’t so much, other parts make up for it.

    All this aside…
    If you are the kind of Virgo that worries about your partner for their best interest and constantly try to tell them what’s best, with Leo it’s best to pose it as a suggestion that will better their situation, while not at all pointing out the situation is negative currently. And occasionally, when you realizing you’re overstepping, give a small apology. He will rush to verbalize his appreciation. Leo likes the attention and concern; get a nice guy who happens to be a Leo and respects your mind and he will put up with your “nagging”. Just every once in a while let him know you just want the best for him!

    LEO MEN ARE EXCELLENT HEALERS. If you have suffered a traumatic relationship or situation previously and are insecure/hard-shelled/anxious, let a Leo man love you; he will praise and spoil you just the right amount, and take the time to practically guide you to better things in life. I think @RamblingRose above articulated this.

    10/10 ^_^ Like every relationship it takes effort!

  • Leine says:

    Never forget there are bitches and assholes and CRUEL PEOPLE UNDER EACH AND EVERY STAR SIGN.

  • ally says:

    im a female virgo in a long distance relationship with a leo guy …this has been my worst relationship thus far. he tells me what to wear calls me ten times a day, not to hear my voice but just to check up if i am home or not. when we have convos its always about him and if he doesnt like what im speakin about he ends it , hes is sooooo unromantic and when i take my concerns and needs to him of what i want from this relationship he disapears .when im with him i never have his full attention. if i say no to sex and i just wana lie with him he will get angry and not speak to me..
    he never once told me he loved me with passion in his eyes ..whenever he said it i felt like he was speakin to a pupy …there is no passion when he kisses me and i really dont know what to do cos when i speak to him he says im talkin crap or turns it into a fite so i cant speak to jim about it … i had a handful of friends and he made me get rid of them …i just feel like im in prison… if he says something sweet to me it is always followed by a laugh like he doesnt really mean it … but my experience with a leo is nothing like what is stated above….. he is arrogant takes offense for everythin feels entitled and has a huge ego… unromantic , selfish, my best experience was with a taurus… they make u feel loved, they are passionate, so easy to speak to , make u feel safe, …thats definately a 10/10 match . leo and virgo is like swollowing a table spoon of cinamon

  • tina says:

    Hey little girl. Leave him. When man is a real man he treats woman with gentle care and respect. This guy is abusive and ge is not healthy to be arround. I know a lot about this, trust me, get rid of him before he distroys your life.
    Open your eyes and find a gentle guy who will listen what you have to say.
    You already know he is not good.
    Hurry up before he destroys your confidence.
    This is when normal woman turns to victim and becomes addicted to abuser.
    He might beg you to come back.
    Be firm, dont trust him. Bullies dont change.

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