You would think that this combo would be tied at the hip. People think Libras want to share everything, but, in fact, it is just the opposite. Two Libras together need twice the space. They may even wind up in separate bedrooms or separate wings of the house, but at least they understand that about one another. These are two cardinal signs trying to get along with one another which means there is a question about who‘s going to lead on the dance floor. Hopefully two heads really are better than one and they combine resources to come up with the winning strategy. If not, it will degenerate into a cold shoulder detante. So there they are, lying together on the bed, each one facing outward with a big space in between. There may be a lot of leadership between the two of them, but not always the motivation to put it into action.
How to Attract a Libra Woman as a Libra Man: You're going to have to decide which one of you is willing to be the risk-taker. You can't both be calculators. One of you has to be willing to test your theories in action. It depends on your individual personalities (on the other parts of your chart and your personal life experiences. Libras can lead. They can partner up. But they are never really comfortable "following." So you'll have to reach an accord with each other as to how you will dance in tandem. This will probably be interesting to you both because you like to talk things out. You are both able to be exceptionally fair and detached in your judgment so that you may acually be able to arrive at a logical solution. By that i mean that you will cordially agree which one of you is dominant and which one of you will be receptive.
How to Attract a Libra Man as a Libra Woman: You're going to have to decide which one of you is willing to be the risk-taker. You can't both be calculators. One of you has to put a match to the flame. It depends on your individual personalities (on the other parts of your chart and your personal life experiences). Libras can lead. They can partner up. But they are never really comfortable "following." So you'll have to reach an accord with each other as to how you will dance in tandem. This will probably be interesting to you both because you like to talk things out. You are both able to be exceptionally fair and detached in your judgment so that you may actually be able to arrive at a logical solution. By that I mean that you will cordially agree which one of you is dominant and which one of you will be receptive.
Degree of Romance: These two both value romance highly and are willing to invest time and energy in faithfully fulfilling its function. They have a mutual agreement to elevate each other above all others. The calendar of required events such as birthdays, Valentine's Day, and major religious holidays will be observed faithfully. An appropriate gift, beautifully wrapped, with an unusual designer gift card to accompany it is never too much trouble for this pair. Appearances are very important as they are both heavily invested in the superficial aspects of a relationship which have a deeper meaning for Libras than for the rest of us.
Degree of Passion: Oddly enough, passion may erupt unexpectedly between these two cool cucumbers. After a steamy rendezvous each will act shocked, exclaiming "Oh my goodness I don't know what came over me!" But it‘s just an act. That's the whole point.
Degree of Friendship: These two intend to be
Degree of Marriage: This can actually make a very fine marriage. Each Libra is guaranteed a good mirror and sounding board. This pair will pride themselves on their astute judgment, taking comfort in their ability to cooperate on planning and strategy.
Progression of Relationship: This relationship progresses like a game of chess. Each Libra is trying to force the other one to make a move so it can be assessed and then responded to in anticipation of the next move. It's a pleasing little game for these two thinkers, made more pleasant for each by the quality of the “opponent“ (they‘re actually collaborators).
Sex: Sex between two Libras is a carefully orchestrated dance like the Viennese waltz. Everything signifies something and yet means nothing. Sometimes they get lost in the form, thinking that something can be done correctly or incorrectly. While this may be hilarious to other signs, it can be a genuine quandary to a Libra. It's nice that they understand each other.
When It’s Over: Do you remember the Spy v. Spy cartoons? That's what it's like to wind down a Libra-Libra relationship. The denouement will be just as complicated, calculated, and comprehensive as the commencement. Everything will have to be dismantled, boxed up, labeled, and stored before either party is willing to leave the room. This is one relationship where it might be said that it will take as long to get out of it as it took to get into it. Librans are famous for after-thoughts. Years later your ex-Libra partner may call you up and say, "I still don't feel right that you got the painting we bought together in Amsterdam. Can we figure out a way to make this work for both of us?" YIKES!
Our Rating: 6/10
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#1 by Sasha on December 13th, 2009
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sounds boring… and it eventually became exactly that. too pragmatic, too organized, too bland.
#2 by TB on March 18th, 2010
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a lot of this sounds familiar with my online relationship/friendship. We’re calculating our next moves. Neither of us will just get on the airplane & fly across the globe. I call it overthinking,but thats who we are. It’s funny to know pretty much why he’s doing somethings a certain way. Sadly there’s a pisces that has caught my eye…I hope this is not a dilema in the making.
#3 by nancy on March 22nd, 2010
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@TB
Like chess players … give that PIsces a try.
#4 by kira on April 21st, 2010
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i dont agree with this, at allll. in my relationship we push eachother with arguements to see if we love eachother more.
we pick fights and discuss things over and over but ive never felt more compassion twards a person, the fights are annoying but the love is more magical then anything ive ever had
#5 by kasey on May 30th, 2010
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i agree, my libra man..god..i loved him like no other. unfortauntly he had a bad drug problem..we spent more time trying to make our relationship work than actaully being togethe. we had many outside forces(parents, jail) keeping us apart and i cried and cried for him and he did for me. ive never ever loved a man like i do him, and i feel a part (maybe even a big part) of me will always love him. he can be twisted-but so can i. libra’s can be sweet and peaceful, but we hold back very much, wich can make the other one cold. yet, one of us always came back to say sorry and make up. this man changed my life. and honestly, if i could make things right i probaly would..but i would need him to actaully be here for me. i know he loved me..he tatooed my name on his arm..but his addiction was stronger. it is very true when said it will take as long as you were together to get over each other. becauuse im not completely over him. if he called me right now my hear would leap and i may even cry with emotion. it was a very magical relationship in a twisted, harmonic way.
#6 by bryttany on June 10th, 2010
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i’m a libra myself & i went out with a libra man. It was qreat ! He was so much like me is was crazy. We talk’d everythinq out & we would fiqht but just forqet bout it & tell each other we loved each other. Everthinq was pretty…we match’d up prefectly. Still qot love for that niqqa. the only reason we broke up was cause he said he didnt like skinny qurls ? what kinda gurl he like then shit….lol.
#7 by claudia on June 29th, 2010
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i found da true love of my life when i say we are jus alike im mean jus alike . so much to wre if he’s sick im sick if he haqs a tooth ache i have one and nither one will know i know he loves me too but he has baby mama drama in his life an wanna do da right thing by da kids but dam im tryin to let him go to c if he’s gonna come back grand ma always said “if u set someone free and he loves u truly love u he will b back”