1. sausage party

    This should be a lesson for all Pisceans with really distinct moon signs (i.e., Fire, Air, Earth…):

    I’m a gay Pisces male, and I dated an older gay Pisces male (there was a thick age gap). I was from the East Coast, he was from the West Coast, but he also had a place on the East Coast. Two words: Terrible relationship. He was far too quiet for me. It was INCREDIBLY annoying. Quiet isn’t necessarily bad, but he would hardly communicate his feelings to me openly. We would also go without communication for a really long time. And, even if we did talk, he’d be really bad at communicating with me and would tell me that neither one of us was really good at communicating over the phone or online. So, he’d really only contact me when he was around. One time, I complained about the lack of communication, and he said, “Listen, I know you’re trying to be affectionate, but you haven’t developed that capacity yet.”

    The sex was mediocre, to be honest. I was bored with it, but he was clearly turned on. After sex, I would cuddle with him, but he would criticize me, saying things like, “I know you’re trying to be affectionate, but I need my sleep.”

    I would wanna go out, but he would wanna stay in. Whenever we went out, he was only openly affectionate in contexts where he felt comfortable.

    I spent seven hours standing out in the freezing cold on New Year’s Eve with him, waiting for the crystal ball in Times Square to drop. This was nearly seven months after we’d met, and, yet, he still considered me the guy he was still “kinda seeing”. A few days later, he shied away from me in bed and we didn’t cuddle or have sex; it was in that instant that I knew that something was wrong. I stupidly shrugged it off, but, about two weeks later, when I offered to fly out to see him, he said that he wasn’t ready to step up the relationship. He broke off things with me via IM. Completely rude and classless. I really should’ve been a lot more upfront with him, but I was certainly much more open about my feelings than he was.

    We had a stupid fight after we broke things off because I joked, saying, “Have fun with your new boy toy”, but he took it very personally and accused me of trying to find out whether he was seeing someone else. (I wasn’t, but okay…) I apologized to him later that night by leaving a card on his doorstep and tried to talk to him, but he said he never wanted to “talk”. I tried to reconcile things by telling him that I do care that he’s seeing someone else, but only to make sure that he’s happy. I even called him, apologizing for offending. I’m definitely not jealous, since he and I already broke everything off. I simply wanted to be friends with him, but he just didn’t wanna be friends anymore.

    I read into his Moon sign, and it turned out being in Pisces (aka double Pisces). I, on the other hand, have my Moon sign in Aries. This was probably part of the problem. Perhaps I was the more aggressive one, but I was showing myself honestly.

    But, still, there were some good moments in the “relationship”. For example, he drove up to visit me at school (I go to school 100+ miles away from home). He also was there for me when I had problems with my parents. When he was sweet, he was very sweet, and he was delicate. I miss him, sure, but after how he treated me, I feel I should definitely move on. Now, I’m kinda getting into a Leo man.

    MORAL OF MY STORY: Check your Moon sign carefully!

  2. fishyfishy

    im a Pisces women been with a Pisces man for nearly a yr now. when we first met it was love at first sight! stuttering, red faces, hearts beating, non stop eye contact even when we weren’t saying anything. we are identical in everything possible, even our deepest darkest secrets are the same lol weird. the start of our relationship was breath taking, then sort of faded after a while…sometimes he’s a mature man but then BAM! immature boy…when we first met he had a girlfriend, few weeks later he left there 4 yr first love relationship for me! still non stop arguing, he had boundary issues, didn’t see the inappropriate actions he took! like making a friend from the club (female!!!) realizing they had so much in common and he just wanted a close friend so they went camping together and never told me until I found the photos of her ASSSSSS!!! on his camera! he said he took the photo to show her that she doesn’t have fat legs or bum. wtf! another argument followed. then he nev er saw her again coz ther weird sudden relationship hurt me to much. then he makes a group of girlfriends which he says is different coz its not a one on one friendship with the opposite sex its just a group of friends! so I shouldn’t put down him and his friends just because there female. then I find out later he had 2 girls sleep over his house, they stayed in the bedroom and he slept on the couch, even his mum said that was true. but still thers a line!!! even if you’re not cheating, but havn sleep overs at age 21 with girlfriend you meet weeks ago is f’d up! argument follows. after he dumps me 5 times coz he cant stand to hurt me all the time, last time we broke it off I was gone hours later he was begging me back he cant keep hurting me but he’s in love with me and doesn’t no if he should let me free, I said whatever if you want me you cant hurt me anymore and ul have to prove you’re love!… were still together in fact he left his hole life and new friends and moved to the other side of the country to be with me!. I look back and think maybe he did cheat maybe he didn’t, it kills me!! he is a very sweet and kind gentle man with passion in his heart but sometimes he just cant see were he went wrong, as he says there just friends just coz there girls and he’s a man doesn’t mean he wants to have sex with them (he has a point, but he’s still wrong!). he didn’t tell me before coz id flip out, so hed tell me when they hung out and what they did after. he wants marriage and kids with me, he tells me he loves me everyday and he does constant surprises, cooks me breakfast lunch dinner and does the dishes everyday and pays for everything. he has never been out of work, and when he got laid off he even went and worked for avon! lol were currently still together just going with it, and yes of course the SEX!!! OMG need I say more… so I have a little question is my boyfriend some master mind genius! and had cheated on me OR he’s just a gullible little lamb who’s just to dumb to notice wats right and wrong??????

  3. Chey

    I was in a Pisces 3/7 – Pisces 3/10 relationship. We dated for 5 years, married, have 2 amazing children, married for 15 years…..divorced for almost 19 years. We were best friends. When we see each other, we both can still feel the “pull” towards each other. Neither of us have ever remarried. Sad, both being alone; his pride would never allow us to come together again!!

  4. Phey

    I’m in a pisces-pisces relationship, we are the same age. We love each other with passion, and I think in our relationship I’m the one who makes sure that we get most things done. I really do hope it works out.

    He loves sex so much and he’s always willing to amaze me. So far I must I’m glad to be in a relationship with him

  5. hyun4

    Hello..I’ve been in Pisces-Pisces relationship for 3 years and 7 months now and reading that article and your comments made me think..I really don’t remember our relationship being as described.At first it was alright..we were happy and we loved each other but 1 year ago he started going out with his friends more than he used to and now they see each other every day 3 times per day while we don’t see each other that much.He constantly chooses his friends over me.I feel not loved,alone,useless and hurt all the times.I guess we’re an exception and we’re more different from each other than alike.

  6. Zuzeka Nomvalo

    I’m in a Pisces – Pisces relationship, everything feels magical. Haven’t even had our first kiss yet (long distance relationship) but he already rocks my world. I feel like a kid again, that first love kinda thing. He gets me and I feel that I’ve been with him forever. That moment when you meet someone who makes you understand why it never worked with anyone else… I’m so happy. The analysis above is so accurate 🙂

  7. Melisa

    I am a Pisces and dated a Pisces. Excellent relationship. I met a guy the other day and we both had a serious crush on each other.Hold and behold, he and I shared birthdays 5 days apart.

  8. Bella

    This combination is not good for a female. Pisces girl needs a man who is strong powerful and stable. Man that are water signs won’t fulfill you! They know how to manipulate people,they are not stable, arrogant. The reason you feel the bound with those signs it’s because they know how to read you and your needs, they are the best actors like a cancer or Scorpio,they will allure you speak the language of your interest and seduce you until you get tangle and lost in their lies. Pisces girls are very emotional but to the extend they are also strong like a man when they want to,they can smell liars from a mile but , once they get trapped by one of their kind ( who ate just as good as they are) they will suffer great deal of pain. Safe yourself a trip! You sexy thing , u better of grabbing Leo or Taurus ,.as they can prepare the fundament that no water sign man will ever do!!! never go for gemini or virgo girl , you will fail either way,they are cheaters and horrible in the bad ,so dont even bother ….no one seems to mention that fish can be like a chameleon ,she can be as sweet as a person can be but don’t be sure you know her bc the truth is no one will ever discover their kind ,this uniqueness is universal and irreplaceable that’s why the need someone who will appreciate those goods but at the same time shoe them the reality that they also have to focus on! This is very important, since fish tends to help others with ther problems and dreams they tend to put their own lives aside ,making sure they help others first. They are the one that others take advantage of, so they need honest partners and water guys won’t offer you that they love women in general and they are more attracted to fire and air sign girls so be careful,

  9. ohyouknow

    I totally agree. I’ve been in a bunch of relationships, some good, some not so good. However, then I entered a Pisces-Pisces relationship and it’s just been incomparable! It’s the best relationship, by far. Everything is perfectly in place as if we’re following some sort of step-by-step guide, or like we’ve been together for decades, even though it’s only been a few years. None of my exes ever had quite the effect, and the unspoken, emotional connection, that my Pisces boyfriend and I have.

  10. whoyahwith

    I must agree the physical body can only produce lust, as a piscean.. the spiritual is so much stronger.. physical love doesnt last..
    The true virgin is male and female..and this spirit is ELOHIM.
    THE TRUE Virgin..
    Im a pisces male.. ive dated cancer, and various signs..didnt work..ive found most of the other sign brought their representitives 2 the meetings, and change down the line.. ive never dated a pisces woman.. im meetin one today.. i hope we bond.. searching 4 that true Queen..

  11. Abramore

    Add to all that
    I found many Pisceans
    Not any Pisces
    Check this out
    They have the same birth date
    16 March 3, 1984
    But they were bodies without souls
    worship money
    Spiritual and mental blindness
    I want a Pisces girl intact spiritually and mentally
    Do you help me accomplish this project.
    Historic race
    In the end, the first centers in competition between a male and female
    But not every male and female can win
    Correct me if I was wrong, Ms.Nancy Fenn
    love you Ms.Nancy Fenn

  12. ws

    Poeticpisces. You are an eloquent writer. And I agree with you about the Scorpio and the mistrust of Pisces men. I have also recently started being attracted to Pisces men but they are not as sturdy as a scorpio. That is true.

    Just get to know the Pisces guy without putting too many preconceived ideas on him. It’s not his fault what came before him. Who knows if you might misread something because there seemed to be a callback to what your dad did.

    I have that with Capricorn men too because my Dad was a capricorn and had me out of wedlock while he was married also. I always think they will do the same thing. But I’m trying not to look at things like that.

  13. poeticpisces

    You guys are scaring me! I’m a Pisces (march 5th) and my dad is a Pisces (march 10th). He cheated on my mom when I was younger.. they were married 8 years and rather than calling quits he cheated.. and then was caught. Although with time I was able to manifest a relationship with him again (which is now off again) he is ridiculously stubborn. The truth is I am too which makes our bond amazing when we’re talking (on good terms) and like magnetic poles pushing each other away (on bad terms). For this reason, I said I would never date a Pisces man, and haven’t. In addition, while he’s also been very understanding (I feel like at times he just gets my feelings and how to communicate to them) he’s very much so the dreamer. He dreams big and works small (sad to say). As a father he has done enough to put food on the table and make sure his rent is paid, but I find it incredibly unfortunate that all of his work and big dreams haven’t come through yet. (Also another turn off while looking for a mate… since I’m a dreamer myself).

    Recently though.. a friend of mine has “hooked me up” with a friend of his and his birthday is two days after mine. I love talking to him and he makes me feel safe to retreat from the world. (Its true, you can’t see tears while under water). The last time I felt this way in a relationship was while dating a Scorpio man. The intimacy (spiritual & emotional) was amazing but he was often too insensitive to my feelings or mood swings. But he did posses an incredible amount of emotional strength to tolerate through the mood swings and dreaminess that other signs lacked (Leos, Taurus, Gemini). I am very excited about where this new relationship could blossom with this Pisces man but I’m very hesitant knowing the ways of my father… who has given me a life long lesson about Pisces men.

    Any suggestions?

  14. Hoepfulin Astroland

    yeah unebklievable but true. this is my bff and her boyfriend. it does work.

  15. Tonia

    I was with a pisces and he cheated on me and then i cheated back on him and then poof.. it was over.. we lasted for 6yrs thou

  16. Lewis

    I lost my relationship after 20 months. pisces – pisces. best relationship in the world, a shame it came to an end. soulmates.

  17. HappyFish

    Meet a guy we clicked, Clicked so much so its scary!!! Low and behold he was a fish!!! Its like we have been knowing each other our whole lives. He is truly a girl version of me.lol Its crazy, Im hoping that the above blog is true….

  18. Liddy

    LOL… Giggles… Chuckles… Read Souls is right, Arielle!!! I don’t know about anyone else, but I have been accused of speaking thoughts even before the other can verbalize what they’d like 2 say.

    I have even been able to speak of what is to become sometimes, months, even years before they come to fruition. I get mixed reviews from others. Some become fascinated with my so called gift and keep coming back for more. While others get frightened and stay clear of me. (Shrugs shoulders).

    So don’t feel bad, Arielle. Been there, done that. When someone ask me to tell them what is in store for their future, I decline and just let them know I really don’t know them.

    I guess, it is quite wearying to be constantly asked how I know what I know. And I have come up with a great explanation, if you can even call it that:

    Just because I know the secrets of the Universe, does not necessarily mean I will reveal all!!! =)

    Some people accuse me of knowing or not knowing all of the secrets of the Universe. Therefore my response is, I never said I know All of the Secrets of the Universe!!! Giggles…

    So take heart, young lady. It is difficult to shelter oneself from absorbing so many other people’s feelings & infirmities, as they will absorb your energies & leave you feeling very exhausted and depleted. Then it takes about 1-3 days to recuperate from such experiences, that way, you don’t get sick in the process. Many times, that has happened to me.

    More power to you, and hope you figure out how to shelter yourself from others. They are not meaning to deplete your energies, but just the same watch out for your self, if any. As I have not really figured out how to protect myself yet.

    However, I know this much: I finally figured out to keep myself surrounded by Beautiful Positive Individuals (those who are optimistic & see the glass as being half full). Versus those who have an “Eeyore ~~~ Whoa Is Me” syndrome, who forever has this proverbial rain cloud over their heads (Winnie The Pooh, anyone?). I simply refer to those individuals as Negative Toxic Individuals.

    As they will constantly drag you down into the dumpsters with them, no matter how much you try to uplift their spirits. Therefore, stay away from such individuals. Clearly, they need a simple about face attitude adjustment!!! LOL…

    And keep smiling!!! Makes other people wonder what you’ve been up to!!! :~)

  19. Arielle

    Hi I am a 21st of February Pisces and I want to marry Justin Bieber who is also a Pisces and I also want to be a singer like him in the near future. I strongly believe I have the power within me to manifest this possibility into reality. I’m only 17 years old by the way and I can already read peoples souls and even minds to an extent.

  20. Nicole

    I am a Pisces Mar7 and I had a crush like beyond crush on a Pisces man (friend) Mar16 and now he has had a crush on me for a long time too and we know we want each other ,when ever we are drunk we are all over each other and the above makes so much sense its retarded! WE just have an understanding with each other we are connected in some weird way. I wonder if we will ever get into a relationship?? I believe Pisces /Pisces is the best match!

  21. Jaded Fish

    I dont get it… i was with a pisces feb 28 for 8 months and he dumped me for a libra Oct 12 girl and im a pisces… i guess it doesnt always work out :/

  22. Jennifer

    LOL This was all very true! I got out of a pisces-pisces engagement almost a year ago. We were best friends but when it was time to call it off, we both knew it and are still good friends.

  23. Catherine

    I am in a Pisces-Pisces relationship and after reading the above text, I felt like it has been written for my husband and I. It is so true! Unbelievable! Even the fireplace part matches exactly our daily routine. Pisces rock! 😉

  24. Jennifer

    I’m not too sure about this combination. I know a Pisces-Pisces combination and they have been married for awhile, but they both cheated on each other early in their relationship and neither is too into fidelity. I think both need a more stable person.

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