This unlikely combination works out well. Two interesting, responsible adults face the world together with a good combination of skill sets. He supplies the optimism and expanded consciousness. She grounds his intellectual and adventuresome goals into realistic fruition. Together they tend to take life seriously but go for their full quota of enjoyment, the so-called “Good Life”. There is a tendency for this combination to be different in a plus way – different ages, cultures, backgrounds ….
How to Attract a Sagittarius Man as a Capricorn Woman: Be as mature and intellectual as possible. Show an interest in the world around you both politically and philosophically, not just “people I know (and use)”, but conversation in a context of world events, history, community action, etc., some larger generalized context. Avoid small talk if possible. When asked, “What would you like to do tonight?” have something interesting in mind. Understand the significance of the things he does. Help him remember where he parked the car, left his umbrella and forgot to put his credit card back in his wallet. Help him track down the cleaners he took his clothes to last time. Do these things with a smile. If this puppy grows on you, you’re just getting warmed up to Life with a Sag!
How to Attract a Capricorn Woman as a Sagittarius Man: Make her smile. Help her relax and not take things so seriously. Teach her how to run and play. She never got to as a kid! Teach her about vacations and Gone Fishin’ Days. Show appreciation for how responsible she is and try to get places on time at least while you’re courting. Get your car detailed (for God’s sake!!). Dress up or down a little – get more appropriate in general. You’re dating
Degree of Romance: Really, they have more important things to do. Capricorn may try to structure some “romantic time together” but it doesn’t work that way. Sag loves you the way it is and thinks romance is a big fat jokeroo.
Degree of Passion: Sagittarius can get almost anyone close to the fire since they never have anything to lose but Cappie is still gonna balk at jumping on the funeral pyre of decorum and self-control.
Degree of Friendship: These two can be quite marvelous friends especially if they take on a project together like planning a trip. Their skills fit together like a hand and a glove. These two win my vote as most likely to actually survive even something like designing a house together,
Degree of Marriage: Excellent, provided Cap gives Sag enough playtime and an around the world cruise every now and then.
Progression of Relationship: It has a nice pace, a realistic basis and a high probability of succeeding. They both know right from the start where it’s going.
Sex: Sag looks at Capricorn’s inhibitions as a fun and interesting challenge His sense of humor helps them learn new things together. (Lots of things are “new” to a Capricorn.) Saga is a born teacher. He teaches with enthusiasm and abandon. Her shyness, which is genuine, fans the flames of his desire. She demonstrates to him that sex can be useful as a means of building continuity and rapport.
When It’s Over: No denouement will ever be more efficient or humane. If the relationship didn’t already, the unwinding will earn each the other’s undying respect. If they need to cooperate in the future over children, they have the maturity and spiritual wellness to make it a win-won for everyone.
Our Rating: 9/10
#1 by enelia on April 27th, 2010
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I’m head over heels for a sag man and things are moving so slowly! actually it might have moved way too fast and that sparked kind of flickered out. He’s a Sag Man/ Scorpio moon and I’m a Cap Woman/Sag moon…could it be that our moons are what caused this? I mean it was so intense the moment I met him that I could feel his eyes on me the moment I walked into a room- and when we talked all I could feel was this selfishness overwhelm me like I couldn’t share him with the world. The following day I saw him for the second time and we locked eyes like it was nobody’s business and I freaked out and had to run away it was so unnerving…
I’m afraid he might have found a Scorp woman/Acquarius moon though…any thoughts/advice?
The moment we locked eyes I knew that I was gonn take him home to meet mom one day… don’t know how…but going to!
#2 by eric on May 3rd, 2010
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Well I’m a SAG man / Scorpio rising
she is a CAP / Aries rising
We’ve known each other for 20 years but only in the last year have we started talking serious. My work kept on the move, while we had toyed with the idea of getting serious 12-15 years ago i didn’t want to shock her system with all my travels. No i have returned to the area and took a nontraveling job currently. Our future travels will be for pleasure.
As for advice well love him hard fast and free. Share the silly and KNOW he will bruise you from time to time. consider this: you want to build a place in his heart, a sweet loving fun crazy shelter from the storm kind of place. NOT a mansion, condo, highrise apartment or anything else.
if he is the outdoors type then encourage the notion that he is all the animals of creation and that you are mother nature with both of you having the sweet and cute and the other stuff too
#3 by Alexandra on August 26th, 2010
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haha. my closest friend is a Sag. he’s so funny, naive, cute. I just have so much fun when i’m with him. Together our personalities mesh and it all ends with me laughing myself to tears over w/e he suddenly and randomly did. (I’m laughing now, thinking about the things he did) He really did teach me to laugh at myself and be more open. I don’t know what I taught him….maybe to be a little more focused and realistic (nah!). Nonetheless, I love him to death!