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  1. shaggin-a-virgin

    I’m a Sagittarius guy in a relationship with a charming Virgo for almost 3 months, I can’t explain how much I love her, I finally could find someone who can pull out all the love, sweetness, tenderness and horniness that I have inside and make me eager to create her much more.. There is a very big problem though, sometimes, she is so cold, detached and distant.. She never uttered that she loves me out loud.. she drives me CRAZY.. Sometimes, she is the sweetest girl on earth and some others I’m even afraid to talk to her.. Our relationship is suffering ups and downs in an extreme level… I still love her so much though, I always try to see things from her perspective which is true and more mature most of the time, but I see it humiliating that she hardly tries to see things from my perspective as I do with her.. She asked my to give her the time she needs to develop her feelings towards me, but I feel bad about it cause I thought that she were already in love with m e.. She needs a lot of space and distance which makes me feel like hell and even I feel as if I’m being rejected.. I hope that our relationship works for the best.. I do really love her and hope she might be considering it for real.. By the way, sex is stunning with her… Please, if there is any Virgo lady out there who is willing ‘to decode’ my Virgo’s behavior, I will be so so grateful and thankful.. Please be kind enough to put (To SAGY GUY), in the beginning of your comment so I can easily recognize your comment among the others.. Some other thing which I really have to point out since it truly bothers and even hurts me a lot, not all Sagittarius guys are disloyal and unfaithful as it looks like, I swear to God that I have never ever cheated on any girlfriend that I have had and I have no intention to cheat on any, not in the present not in the future.. So please do NOT generalize.. Thanks folks..

  2. isabelle

    It’s amazing how true zodiac signs are. While every case is different, every sign generally fits their description. My story is the same as every capricorn/sagg situation. We pick up where the other lacks (I’m a Capricorn woman, he’s a sagg man) and you’d think with a balance like that it’d be the perfect relationship right? Wrong! I’ve found that in the beginning of our relationship I loved the idea that we were total opposites and a complete balance of fun and seriousness, realness/optimism, caution and adventure, but as the honeymoon stage wore off I realize more and more just how much I actually DO need someone similar to me, rather than someone who has the traits I lack. Security is the most important thing to a Capricorn woman and the one thing a saggitarius can’t provide. They are restless people and constantly need to be on the move which doesn’t work with my need for stability. ‘stable’ is actually the antonym of Saggitarius lol. I’m currently deciding if I should move on or stay with my sagg. He’s fun, optimistic, adventurous, and easy going but at the same time a tad irresponsible, impressionable, bad with money, blindly optimistic, and extremely jealous/manipulative. They LOVE their freedom but once they’ve found a woman they love they turn into the complete opposite, totally clingy and almost child like. What to do what to do..

  3. Nasara'a

    I met my Sag at work…it was really slow at first cause I wasn’t even thinking about him. That all changed when he came to work one day to do some over time, but really he had come to read this book we had online at work. ❤
    Once we started getting to know each other I knew we were meant to be. Things are still moving kinda slow in my opinion, but one thing I have learned especially dealing with a Sag is…don’t rush the situation cause they will be over you as fast as they were into you.

  4. tacjt

    I read some negative comment on age differences earlier so wanted to add we are 14 years apart in age and he is the older, age hasn’t affected ANYTHING when it comes to how I feel about him I wouldn’t care how far apart we were. you see the person that gives you the jittery, heart beating out of your chest feeling that makes you forget the rest of the world, love can bring anyone together. it doesn’t descriminate. btw best sex I’ve ever had, it is such a whirlwind of emotions and feelings I’ve never felt, they are so strong and very breathtaking. he is very good at everything he does in the bedroom and he is always concerned with my needs first. Sagittarius are one of a kind, I’d deff recommend dating one at some point, try hard to resist the temptation and avoid letting them get you naked before you find out where these dates going, once you take it to the next step it’s a lot harder to move on. (learned the hard way) it’s like a euphoria and once you have gotten it and your out of your chest while your getting the most unbelievably pleasuring experience you’ve ever had. it will make it even harder to move on and get past the sag if things don’t end up working out.

  5. tacjt

    I am a cap women, the first night I met my sag man I thought my heart would jump out of my chest, I had to get a stiff drink to settle my nerves, we sat in his truck on his land and talked till the sun came up. I knew I loved him then, we both had some bad struggles back then but still saw each other some.. about a year after I decided I wasn’t gonna waste my time waiting (he was doing his own thing to) I dated the other guy for a year but never could get the sag off my mind, we started talking more and seeing each other in town, I knew it was him. no matter where or who I was with he was the one thing always on my mind. I left the other guy and just stayed with my girlfriends, oneday out of the blue I got a text from the sag saying he had gotten a new job and had wanted to tell me but he had messed up and didn’t think I’d care, I left and went to see him cause i couldn’t stop myself (it had been killing me not to see him and talk to him so little) when I got to his house I asked him how he had been and told him how happy I was for him. he grabbed me held me tight and told me had was sorry he had messed up and that he loved me. we still have small disagreements sometimes but we never go to bed mad. he is the most amazing man I’ve ever met and he is so strong, i love him more and more everyday and we have now been together nearly 5 1/2 years, he tells me daily how in love he is with me and we do everything together. he makes me feel so proud to be standing by his side in this crazy life, I think a lot of the things listed above can be true but I also feel like if you wake up and thank God daily for all your blessings he will guide you to the right path, we do have diff opinions on some stuff but we sit down and talk it out calm where he can understand my points and I can see his. I hoped we would make it here but never dreamed after all the struggles we had for the first year 2 years of on and off that he would just keeping me at a distance and turn into Prince Charming. my point is everything that’s worth something will cost you, i was hurt when I took him back and I wasn’t sure how it would end up but here we are, he is my best friend and lover. people will always doubt you but love concours all and when you give you 100% in whatever you do you’ll never really fail. I have read sags and caps, can work, can’t work, I’ve seen it could be amazing or don’t even go there. I’m very thankful I listened to my heart, he had been hurt bad in the past and just needed someone to show him he was with someone that didn’t realize what they had gotten rid of and that he was worth the time and effort. I try to show him everyday he is the best thing that’s ever been mine and how much I love him, he tells me the same things when I least expect it. we both realized the past of others that had hurt us wasn’t even the love we thought it was, it was just insecurities from the way we had been treated (by our past partners), physically or mentally had made us think or ourselves and our value low instead of considering the sources. I hope I didn’t ramble to long and I hope it all works out good for each or you. I am a Capricorn women, I’m strong, determined, stubborn, and a lot of other thing including at times misunderstood but my Sagittarius man is my rock, bestfriend, soulmate, and everything good that I have and he has helped me grow into a better person and loved me even with all my faults, I will work through anything with him because he is priceless to me and I’d be completely lost if he wasn’t right beside me for every little curveball and all the crazy adventures that come our way.

  6. Angel

    I agree with this. I am Cap and was married to a Sagg for 18 years. Now on a second relationship with another Sagg. We have been friends for almost 5 years and have just began to get it together. It’s going really well and I totally understand about giving Sagg room to breath and play. It works perfectly because I also love my own space. The thing I love most is Sagg’s almost naive honesty and also the sense of fun.

    Reading these posts, it seems most cappies are friends with their Sagg man before romance blossoms, maybe thats the perfect way to really get to know eachother and bond before dating can begin.

    Caps and sagg do tend to stay friends if things come to an end and that is a blessing.

  7. Gina

    I’m very familar with Sags. I think that’s all I attract for some reason. I have a child by a Sag and eventhough we’re not together anymore. We still have a great friendship as though we’d never been a couple.

    I can honestly say that I’ve had a relationship with 3 sags in my lifetime and I still have a good friendship with all of them to this day.

    Sags and Caps are like HOT/COLD making everything WARM which makes a great pair.

  8. Taija

    Im a capricorn woman and my boyfriend is a sag. We’ve been the best of friends for 10 years and been dating for almost a year. We’ve had our problems but all in all, He’s my rock. he makes me laugh and helps me to lighten up and see life at another angle. I luv him.

  9. ZenanZeus

    Not so sure about this. Sag men are alright as friends. But ladies if you think they’re gonna shine better than that get ready to dust the magic lamp for a loong time! You’ll hear a lot of fancy protestations n v little done. (It might even be a case of the lady doth protest too much , methinks! 😉 ) You’ll be left wondering where’s the kindness, just a li’l bit of f…… kindness, ever heard of it? Getting an xtra chair from a stack when there’s no seating in a packed room. Coming up with a defense soln. when there’s a problem looming. Bringing something when it’s difficult to get myself. Acts of kindness. They don’t always cost money. They show you care. Is it so f…… difficult? They’re small, simple and and the easiest way in which you begin to prove your grand intentions n ideas.

    Giving this bs 2 more months (he’s currently defending his thesis and expecting his Ph.D.) and after that its going to be ‘put on autopilot and eject’ at anytime for me! It’s only fair. When someone’s constantly unkind it’s not realistic to expect them to change into kindly ol’ beings later. You’re just going to end up with an unkind dude saying I love you n doing you forever more. And whether there’s any alt or not, this Cap woman sure as heck doesn’t want that!

  10. tweety

    you said it right. sag man is really and i mean really absent-minded but he’s good with planning and stuff. so it’s ok most of the time. yeah…he doesn’t like small talk and i find it heard to always have something ‘heavy’ and serious to talk. why does it always have to be serious?! my idea of serious and heavy talk is more in the neighbourhood of answering beauty contest-like questions 🙂 all in all i manage to keep things on an even keel though i don’t get everything he says. anyways … he’s planning to repair the sunroom before summer so i am happy.

  11. Alexandra

    haha. my closest friend is a Sag. he’s so funny, naive, cute. I just have so much fun when i’m with him. Together our personalities mesh and it all ends with me laughing myself to tears over w/e he suddenly and randomly did. (I’m laughing now, thinking about the things he did) He really did teach me to laugh at myself and be more open. I don’t know what I taught him….maybe to be a little more focused and realistic (nah!). Nonetheless, I love him to death!

  12. eric

    Well I’m a SAG man / Scorpio rising
    she is a CAP / Aries rising
    We’ve known each other for 20 years but only in the last year have we started talking serious. My work kept on the move, while we had toyed with the idea of getting serious 12-15 years ago i didn’t want to shock her system with all my travels. No i have returned to the area and took a nontraveling job currently. Our future travels will be for pleasure.
    As for advice well love him hard fast and free. Share the silly and KNOW he will bruise you from time to time. consider this: you want to build a place in his heart, a sweet loving fun crazy shelter from the storm kind of place. NOT a mansion, condo, highrise apartment or anything else.

    if he is the outdoors type then encourage the notion that he is all the animals of creation and that you are mother nature with both of you having the sweet and cute and the other stuff too

  13. enelia

    I’m head over heels for a sag man and things are moving so slowly! actually it might have moved way too fast and that sparked kind of flickered out. He’s a Sag Man/ Scorpio moon and I’m a Cap Woman/Sag moon…could it be that our moons are what caused this? I mean it was so intense the moment I met him that I could feel his eyes on me the moment I walked into a room- and when we talked all I could feel was this selfishness overwhelm me like I couldn’t share him with the world. The following day I saw him for the second time and we locked eyes like it was nobody’s business and I freaked out and had to run away it was so unnerving…
    I’m afraid he might have found a Scorp woman/Acquarius moon though…any thoughts/advice?
    The moment we locked eyes I knew that I was gonn take him home to meet mom one day… don’t know how…but going to!

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