What we have here, essentially, is two philosophers, perhaps Old Souls, getting together to compare notes with endless fascination and great insight for each other on the human condition. Somewhat detached idealists, they both tend to live vicariously, amused by the follies and foibles of others which they intend to avoid by keeping their distance from tricky emotions and wayward desires. They are both looking for a particular kind of completion/perfection in a partner and may very well be Soul Mates. If they get too idealistic about their relationship they can wind up drifting apart because they keep avoiding the “real” partner. Both abhor confrontation and are likely to compromise well as a way of creating a positive environment. Many things just get swept under the rug which works for them. They like to focus on what’s going well without being perfectionist.
How to Attract a Sagittarius Man as a Libra Woman: Sagittarians are such free spirits, how do you catch a will-o-the-wisp? There’s magic involved. You are both mind readers so you can use that to advantage. Think inviting thoughts about him and keep positive. He loves a positive person. Test my theory. Think about where you’d like to go on your first date and see if he doesn’t pop up with it as though it were his own idea. Avoid any kind of control or manipulation. He has a whiff of it and he’s out the door. No triangulating, such as bringing a third party into the picture. You might do it to make him jealous which would be a really stupid idea because Sagittarians don’t “believe in” jealousy. They just walk away to greener pastures. But you also might be tempted to get to know his friends with an ulterior motive of confiding in them to further your own cause. Don’t go there. Keep it simple. That’s what appeals to him. He will appreciate your ideals and ethics. It’s ok to talk about high standards and soul connections and things like that. He’ll be right there with you.
How to Attract a Libra Woman as a Sagittarius Man: Please be your best social self and, as always with Libra, brush up on your manners. There’s so much more to Libra than good manners but they are first drawn to people on the civility wave length. Later, you’ll help her lots by getting her to be more casual in this area. Meantime, she’s looking for a Prince Charming to take with her to Important Places. (She has a calendar marked many months in advance with special occasions and events.)
Degree of Romance: Sagittarius isn’t the best in the romantic department but Libra will be uncharacteristically forgiving because he offers so much genuineness instead. Chances are she’ s attracted to him because she just broke up with an uber-romantic "player" and is learning to be a better judge of character
Degree of Passion: Libra brings out a lot passion in Sagittarius. Not so much the other way around. She gets to act like that long, cool drink on a hot summer’s day.
Degree of Friendship: These two can be best friends … very best friends. They can share many happy moments together with so much in common as to the way they see the world. Somehow together the rose colored glasses get even rosier. Let the good times roll.
Degree of Marriage: Never overly emotional or darkly bonded, this pairing makes a good marriage because of the shared outlook on the world. A very significant feature is how important they both feel it is to maintain
Progression of Relationship: Libra will tend to take charge even in the dating process. She is naturally well organized and has excellent social skills. She probably already has some future events she’d like him to accompany her to. One of her top reasons for dating and marrying is to get the right escort. It helps if Sag doesn’t mind dressing up a bit from time to time. Both parties are sure to have full calendars, including Sag’s sports activities, so they will gradually have to create more time for each other. Both signs need space and can agree amicably on territorial and time issues. Most of the dating is casual except for Libra's social calendar.
Sex: Sex is a beautiful gift they generously give one another. This is one of the most game-free, obligation-free placements. As a result, their sex life is a continuing source of enhancement to the rest of the relationship. It is likely to be sportish, esthetically pleasing and courtly in a very special, fun way. Unique in the zodiac’s compatibility, it is their best means of communication.
When It’s Over: If it ends, they’ll probably be better friends than ever and help each other find new partners unless Libra has fallen off the wagon and triangulated. If that’s the case, Sag will maintain a benevolent sense of humor while wrapping things up post haste. (No hard feelings. No looking back.)
Our Rating: 10 /10

#1 by librachic on February 27th, 2010
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i’ve been dealing wit a sag man for the past 3 yrs and everything on this site is true…except lack of commitment on his part…mostly becuase a third party involved a LEO woman at that..he seems confused..which is the better for him?
#2 by ANYA on April 17th, 2010
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What advice do you have for a female virgo (third decan, henceforth co-ruled by Venus and also considered virgo /cusp Libra )who loves ever so much a Sagittarius male who once said he was so smitten by her that it was “like a sickness” (in a good way) but then after 8 months he decided to” run the other way” and always ignore and avoid her. When she questioned him about it his answer was always the same: “Stop asking me, stop pushing and let it be!”
. Please advise.
Needless to say, the Virgo/Libra woman is very heartbroken and equally as confused by his about-face behavior
#3 by Hazel on May 19th, 2010
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I love my Sag man but there are things about him that I cant stand. For one, he is very VERY selfish, stubborn, sometimes very immature, sometimes cold. He dont complete alot of things he starts. But there are times, that I cannot see myself with anyone else and that he compliments me perfectly. I just wish he wasnt so selfish… (I am a virgo/libra cusp). I think I would be able to trust him more if he was a little more thoughtful of me.
#4 by ferrol on May 20th, 2010
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well,, this is sag man,, hmmm well hazel,, u r absolutely rong abt ur man n am sure abt it……..:):):) trust me over that………
#5 by ferrol on May 20th, 2010
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@anya,, sag men need space…….. most important thing never ask such things to him directly,, bein a sag maybe even i would react same to ur questions….
:) there r ways to put up questions to a sag man,, trust me if put in a proper way,, witout u askin him anyth,, he’ll b tellin u everyth……..:):)
#6 by bryttany on June 10th, 2010
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i completely aqree with hazel, i went out with a saqq for about 4 months. He was really funny & we hadd qreat timeS, but he was very stubborn. & hard headed. He sometimes was down riqht rude & mean. I am a libra so i felt he was a little to much. But i liked it keeps me on my feet. But i don’t think saqq men are the best for me. =/
#7 by ashleigh on July 5th, 2010
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i have been dealing with a sag man for over a year. when i met him i had recently broken up with my significant other and was looking for a non committed relationship. He provided me with just that, he wasn’t pushy but he was inviting enough to keep me wanting more. We don’t argue but he does sometimes annoy me with his immaturity. I am a libra woman and can sometimes be very refined but he brings out a natural fun, uninhibited happiness in me. Recently i discovered he had a girlfriend. A sag woman at that.I thought he was the most brutally honest out of all the signs but i was surprised he kept this lie up for so long.The connection we have is strong so it’s hard for me to let him go.
#8 by rose on August 9th, 2010
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I’ve been with a sag man for 5years. On and off because were really flirty, end up fighting, breakup but we end up back together. Were engaged now, and I will admit he is very selfish (blames me for problems he has), immature (plays games), and he is at times rude, (short with me, says things and he says he is just “being honest”) but in all honestly to deal with a sag guy you have to be a bit passive. As alibra woman, I ignore his rudeness and selfishness and balance it out and give him a little taste of how it feels, but not too much. In the end though, I love my sag guy, he’s comitteed and like they say, once a sag guy is, he’s fallen completely in love. And he has.
#9 by snowflake on August 10th, 2010
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i am a libra and ive been with my sag for almost a year now and i love him alot we get along good but when we argue its not pretty and he has a bad temper thats sometimes hard to control. and he says things that he “dosent mean” but after the fight is over he tells me how sorry he is and he never ment to hurt me, it really confuses me
#10 by dee-ly-la on August 27th, 2010
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Everything is true… I am a libra woman and have a sag male and he is all that this website suggests. He is loving, caring, passionate, immature, but he provides me the opportunity to be myself(free hearted, truth seeker librian)
#11 by daddy on September 2nd, 2010
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this is all true im a sagi
#12 by Librainlove on September 5th, 2010
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I have fallen for a Sagi man in a BIG way. He is still with a cancerian tho. He says I brighten up his life, well he certainly does that to mine… what are the chances of a future there?