This relationship is fraught with difficulties because basically each partner has an issue with narrowing down the playing field and then tries to blame it on the other. There wind up being so many other people present in the relationship, it’s like Grand Central Station. Sagittarius wanders off far afield and Pisces’ fur flies. He’s looking for a casual “let’s hang out together” kind of thing and she’s looking for a dream lover. There’s no focus. Over time both partners tend to dissipate energy aimlessly and pull each other down making it hard to create the kind of successes that pull people together through the years. The relationship tends to fall apart from a nonexistent or even imaginary center. The best time for it is two people in college together.
How to Attract a Sagittarius Man as a Pisces Woman: Attracting him is easy but keeping him isn’t. Make sure you know the difference between a fantastic fling and marriage material or better yet that you know your own heart in the matter. This relationship isn’t likely to get past the launching pad and that may be exactly why he caught your eye.
How to Attract a Pisces Woman as a Sagittarius Man: Show her some of that boyish charm of yours and try to cheer her up --- she’s often feeling a little droopy. Get sexy without being explicit. Distract her from the realities of her situation and draw her towards her own need to fantasize or escape.
Degree of Romance: Pisces longs for the romance of a lifetime and as good a guy as Sag is, he’ll never get a ticket on that bus!
Degree of Passion: Sagittarius’ passion is for loving life and living it large. Oh, and for his next trip around the world. Pisces rains on his parade with her “bummers” and “downers”
Degree of Friendship: These two couldn’t bag trash and take it to the curb together let alone coordinate the kinds of activities that nurture a friendship. They are much better -- and better off -- alone than paired up for longer than a few really sensational nights.
Degree of Marriage: Not every relationship is meant to last for ever. If you’re feeling the magic, enjoy it for what it is. Marriage is a challenge for the mutable signs even at their best (Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces). When they team up it can exacerbate issues such as focus, commitment, fidelity and stability. Sagittarius is inherently one of the ‘bachelor” signs while Pisces attaches indiscriminately to almost anyone of interest, like floating in an ocean of oneness including ritual sex or promiscuity, which is hard for a marriage partner to deal with.
Progression of Relationship: The relationship is likely to begin quite casually which is how it should stay. Often the two parties just happen to be at the same place at the same time with a glass of wine and some time to kill. It goes downhill from there.
Sex: It gets sexual fast which keeps other facets of the relationship from developing – not that anyone notices or cares. Sex is used as a nervous outlet, a sedative, rather than a bonding technique or merging device. Then it goes downhill from there.
When It’s Over: It will be a big relief unless they have kids in which case they will continue to irritate each other insanely through all eternity. In fact Julia Cameron wrote a screenplay about it with her and Scorsese called “God’s Will”. Between Sagittarius and Pisces, neither one knows about closure. Each wants to have the last word. Each attempt to compromise begets new reasons to separate. It goes downhill from there.
Our Rating: 3/10

#1 by thegirlfish on October 25th, 2009
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i suppose it could be as hard as you say it is,i dont know i havent ever dated one.But a lot of my friends are sagittarius.And the very fact that attracts me to them which is their ability to tell me the unvarnished truth is what irritates me the most as well. Sometimes they are so ridiculously blunt, you would think they are deserving of a tight slap across their face.This one time i was pouring my heart out to a sag friend about a relationship that went sour, after a few minutes (of what seemed like intent listening) he sat back and said,”i cant take this anymore..”. Teary eyed and puzzled,i motioned to him “what?”. And he’s like, “your breath….it just STINKS!!”. I whacked him on the head.He deserved it.
#2 by nancy on November 3rd, 2009
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That is really just hysterical!!! ROFLz
#3 by Grace on December 1st, 2009
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wow, umm to some extent i can see this, but i really feel like this is way over exaggerated. me, the pisces is the nomad, firstly…secondly, my boyfriend hardly even looks at other women, he proposed to me after w’d been together a month!
#4 by nancy on December 9th, 2009
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Write me in six months.
#5 by felicia on February 3rd, 2010
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Ok so here it goes…I am a pisces women and I had a relationship-on and off- with a sag man for 5 yrs! EVERYTHING I mean EVERYTHING in this article is right. I being a fish wanted my dream lover. I wanted someone to connect with me on such a deep level and give me the romance I needed. My sag man on the other hand had no clue about romance. He was practical and I had to tell him what I needed all the time and he still couldn’t provide refuge for me. I became very promiscuous and would seek the emotional support I needed from other men. They would just be my freinds but they also fufilled me in some crazy way. I cared alot about my sag man but its true what you said above. We would drag eachother down sooo much. We took eachother for granted and almost got to the point where we resented eachother. Sex was amazing but I would get to the point were I didn’t want it cus he wanted it all the time and he was all physical and I was all mental. I never realized how much astrology was true about us until I looked into it more. I am the epitomy of a pisces girl all the way except I am more responsible and indepedant but maybe because I had to be cus he almost made me that way. Me a my sag were always “best-freinds” and I hated to loose the relationship for that reason but I knew it was best for both of us. I am now with a libra man and once again the article you wrote about a libra man-pisces women is also SO TRUE! we are idealistic and we can’t get enough of eachother. He is my prince charming
#6 by ADDjones on March 10th, 2010
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I am a pisces woman and EVERYTHING that you posted is true… weird, but so true…
#7 by nancy on March 15th, 2010
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Weird but true ..
#8 by Twin FISHES on March 15th, 2010
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This is so true! My SAG and I just Divorced with kids and we are fighting everything including the kids to the bitter end….it is all over him cheating and lying…GO FIGURE!!!!!
#9 by faytmorgan on April 19th, 2010
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I am a sag man, i am 24, i’ve never cheated, i don’t wonder. Currently i am starting to see this young woman- a pieces. I find her quite lovely in more than one manner. Initially it was looks i admit, but it is her personality that keeps me going. I love her energy and dreams and ideals etc. That is what makes me continue to speak with her.
One thing i have found as being a sag is my ability to read people correctly very fast. I can either use this for the good of a relationship or negatively as for example be controlling. Its a choice, its easier to be controlling for a short period of time, then it gets too complex. I think the problem of most sag males is themselves, we can control others but its more difficult to be aware of ourselves.
I choose to use this ability to read people to understand her, her thoughts, feelings, emotions, soul, etc. I respect her greatly.
I suppose I am very traditional, albeit i think that is my personal upbringing from childhood.
I find lying pointless, a mature sag is a truth seeker, so therefore loves the truth.
One thing i may add at last is this, one thing we sag NEED to have is utmost loyalty in a relationship, you give it you get it. If we feel that it is fleeting then our mind tends to wonder…. and hey look at those nice legs, and you get my point. Promiscuous people/women is the biggest turn off for us period. You cheat we will never talk with you or have anything remotely to do with you.
Intellect, energy, youth, beauty, health, truth. loyalty, trust, love, sex, romance and passion is what we seek. there is much more though i do not want to hog this blog.
fayt-
#10 by CJ127 on April 27th, 2010
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amen.
#11 by nancy on April 30th, 2010
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Sagittarius is a mutable sign and loves to communicate.
#12 by faytmorgan on May 2nd, 2010
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whats your point.
#13 by nancy on May 3rd, 2010
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@faytmorgan I thought your post was quite Sagittarian. Do you have a problem with that?
#14 by Eugenshir on May 9th, 2010
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I have been friends and lovers with my sagittarius friend for 16 years, and we are really close. I personally think that I am on the cusp of aries and he is definitely on the cusp of scorpio/sagittarius..which is great for us..sometiimes we have troubles communicating, but others we seem to know what the other thinks. He is really emotional for being a sagittarius, and He loves hard..he has a big heart much like I do. So some of this sagittarius stuff isn’t true..Our sex life is better than It was when we were teenagers..the longer we stay in each other lives..the better..he isnt as open with his feelings as much as I am, But He is very passionate..probably more than me..I am affectionate..He is passionate with his kisses. I love directly blunt People..I feel that If It hurt your feelings, then It must be true. I am direct. like I said I think that I am on the cusp! March 18, and He is November 23rd
#15 by Adam on May 9th, 2010
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This whole site is great! The way you write explicates these traits perfectly, “She has too many problems that he doesn’t want to help her with.”
My EX wife was pisces obviously im sag, she really intrigued me at first and we married very quick but couldn’t divorce fast enough. I’m a clever really happy go lucky guy but she just brought out the worst in me, to the point where i didn’t even want to look at her or listen to a thing she had to say, communication was pointless. I’m now with an amazing virgo (which you defined greatly as well) an we are both equally successful and happy! Thanks Nancy
#16 by faytmorgan on May 21st, 2010
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“@faytmorgan I thought your post was quite Sagittarian. Do you have a problem with that?”
How so?
#17 by Nell on May 24th, 2010
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It is so amazing how almost every site i have been on says basically the same thing about Sag/Pisc. I met my sag man in 1999, at first we were just good friends for about 6 months, then we started dating. He proposed to me a few months later, but then all the complications came into play. He was fooling around and i found out. After a few months i forgave him, then we decided to go thru with the wedding.
But wow! its been a long and roller coaster marriage, two kids later and now we have been seperated over a year and now i want a divorce. Since then by chance i happen to meet a wonderful man, it is so hard to believe that he is also a Sag. Well of course that depresses me and started to back away. He is so totally opposite from my ex now i’m confused on what to do.
Is there no way these to signs can live happily ever after? Can there be an exception to the rule?
#18 by BjornEffsteen on May 25th, 2010
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I’m a 41 y.o. Sag man married to a 38 y.o. Pisces lady. I thought she was my soul mate, and I loved her faithfully w/ all my heart. We’re about to get a divorce because I’m not her “dream lover” any more–and she sandbagged the fact she has felt this way for a long time but on subtly shared this with me. The part that is correct is that maybe I treated her too much like a friend. However, in my mind her fickleness/vagueness really sunk my marriage. I was in it for the long haul–she decided, “Nah, nevermind I guess…” Sag men: RUN from the Pisces woman. She will say and even think she loves you w/ all her heart then just change her mind in 10 years without warning. I know, it happened to me. Give your heart to somebody who will appreciate the rare gift of a Sagittarian man’s loyalty…
#19 by Bjorn Effsteen on May 25th, 2010
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Hmm–don’t see my original comment will try again. I’m a 41 y.o. married Sag to a Pisces woman (39 y.o.). We both regarded each other as soulmates. I guess I treated her too much like a friend and wasn’t the “dream lover” she actually needed. Now, she’s pretty much suddenly bailing out. I hope what you write about being relieved later is true because I’m hurting. I really loved her faithfully and with all my heart, which I feel she’s pretty much smashing for no particularly good reason–heed this Sag guys–you want a woman who has NO appreciation of the rare gift of a loyal Sagittarian, marry yourself a Pisces. There were signs that said “run” early on and I should have heeded those. Oh well
#20 by Brett on May 28th, 2010
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Sagittarius sun/moon MALE here… First long term relationship was with a Pisces and 3/10 is about right!
sure the sex is great but as far as a relationship goes, these girls are TOO needy! Sagittarius is likely to offend here as the Pisces will bring up marriage a year or less and the Sag is likely to be non-committal in this respect.
Sag’s quick tongue will hurt Pisces delicate ego- even accidentally and the doom and gloom attitude of Pisces will become over whelming. Great sex, nothing more.
#21 by j.a. on May 31st, 2010
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@Bjorn wow im sorry to hear that. it is discouraging because im focused on this sag we havnt hung out yet but he is coming to visit from europe our birthdays are close like the ones in the other comment above march 16 and november 25 i jus dont want to be like your pisces i will take it slow also. mayb you could ask what can you do to change her mind when are you guys birthdays
#22 by j.a. on May 31st, 2010
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by the way i met him in person he just lives in another country thats even harder somtimes i think to leave it alone because of distance. im thinkn should i listen to myself im mostly right but im gona try
#23 by faytmorgan on June 2nd, 2010
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i have had no signs of run- i read people like a book i have not been wrong about these things in 15 years…
#24 by faytmorgan on June 23rd, 2010
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there are way too many factors to make a basis of a relationship on these petty overly melodramatic- points, even saying such things well you sound like a sag. You have no evidence that i sound like a sag, not that i am not. Your point is well- pointless.
#25 by Bjorn Effsteen on July 1st, 2010
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Hers is 3/4, and mine is 12/20.
Also I want to add, other comments imply about Sag sharp tongue and her neediness. As it happens I believe she REPRESSED that I was hurting her w/ sharp tongue, and REPRESSING her neediness. which made it worse, cuz then it all just blew up on me and I had no chance to repair the damage. I tried w/ all my heart to get her to change her mind. It was too late. She already filed.
#26 by Bjorn Effsteen on July 1st, 2010
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j.a., my soon to be ex wife say she had “instincts” about me to leave and that she did not listen to those. If you have doubts or concerns, either address them or at least tell the man. Please don’t “hope” things will be OK, then watch the man fall short, only for him to love you, then to have you tell him he’s not right. Please don’t do that. I don’t think women understand the level of emotional impact they can have on a man’s heart. thanks for reading.
#27 by march06playmate on July 6th, 2010
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This whole pisces being emotional and needy business don’t mean all
Pisceans behave as their star sign expects them too considering
I as a piscean literally am nothing like how they have been
Described! And me and my sag moments have our ups and
Like any other relationship but have managed to deal with
Eachother respectfully for the last 9 years! So don’t base your
Realationship on what you read in star signs just work at it if
You want to be in it! Yeh at 1st we both treated eachother
And are now more intense as lovers! But I believe its easier
Treat your other half as if they were your friend anyway because
That is how you become closer and grow together in you relationship!
Work on it based on how u feel and know eacother to be not
How others define your relationship and how it should be cause
That’s what your doing!!!
#28 by nancy on July 15th, 2010
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@march06playmate As you suggest, it is really better to get a full chart interpretation of both people.
#29 by ardeth on July 20th, 2010
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so there is no hope to me, a sag man, to have a good relationship with a pisces woman?
my mother is a pisces woman if it helps to judge anythink…
most of the women i feel attracted are pisces, i love their mistic and feeling, would be sad if i could not…but thats it, do you think it could work someway?
#30 by annii on July 22nd, 2010
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em a picsces gurl n em in love with a sagi man n in just five months i got realy closed with him n now cant leave him for ths reason of stars.. i just dun knw what to do …does da relation wil continue in future or will break .. ?
#31 by Vernita on July 26th, 2010
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“Pisces rains on his parade with her “bummers” and “downers”and more than occasional talk about suicide.”
Lady you’ve got to be kidding!!! I’m so tired of people writing this type of Shit about Pisces!!!
#32 by Vernita on July 26th, 2010
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Let me tell you something about pisces. They will love you, be patient with you, take of you and leave you without a reason. Don’t be fooled by this clingy shit people always claim about pisces because one day you will wish you had one around. These people can be so sweet but here’s the thing,they always have a timer on from the time they meet you. They treat you like royalty and if you do not respond to accordingly there gone just like that. There’s no talking them out of it and its hard as hell to gain that trust back. So if your not mature to handle something like this don’t even bother because it hurts to bad.
#33 by LIS on August 19th, 2010
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SO TRUE =( DATED A SAGG 4 AND A HALF YRS IMA PISCES SOOO SAD YET KINDA RELIEFD =/
#34 by Jess on August 24th, 2010
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I am a Pisces woman, 3/14, and I am waiting for a Sag make 12/19.
I have known him for 5 months now and still adore him so. I’ve been hurt a lot in my life and have been diagnoses with a borderline personality. I have been doing really well with it, though and haven’t showed many of the signs as of late. I am highly understanding and patient for those I truely care about. My dear Sag has also been hurt by women prior who have cheated on him repeatedly, so he requested a 6 month period where we just get to know each other. I feel magic when we’re together, and the sex is somewhat holy. I have had a guy who I intended to make my dream guy, but I realized that dealing with the disloyalty wasn’t worth having that deep connection. I am highly loyal, and still waiting for my Sag. I like to try to pay for everything we try to do, I’m a bit of a daredevil, I’m cute, silly, fun, energetic, and so frikkin’ lovable. I want a loving partner and someone I can play with, not that ‘true magical love’ thing.
I honestly don’t care what my horoscope says about our compatability because I really care about this Sag. But out of curiosity, take in my factors and tell me, how likely do you think my relationship is to last long term?
I’m completely willing to make changes for ‘us’, but I won’t lie to myself or him. I want a man, and he’s the real deal. He’s family oriented, good with people, loyal, smart, flirty(with only me), playful, energetic, and silly. We have soooo much in common personality-wise it’s not even funny.