He travels an awful lot for his work abroad and at first I wasn’t sure if he wanted to be with me because he cancelled two dates in a row. Then we dated and had fun and he went away for about 6 weeks and when he got in touch after that it was ‘he’d lost his phone whilst abroad’. I didn’t question him, was a bit abrupt but because I like him I let him be back in touch and we met up again and dated. We did have a dodgy date where it was hard to pin him down (I seem to ask him on dates or suggest them) – but he says he likes me and talks about the future with me. and is very considerate and when we talk thinks of our future together.

He was then away recently for a week and got some meetings cancelled so was away 2 more days and then he lost his SIM and only got his cell phone charged after a few days. Call me mad, impatient or something but I ditched him but we talked again and he seemed to forgive me. Then he emails me telling me the excuses and we text again and I say if we have a future we have to talk. So he’s texting me again and then the other day no contact for almost 2 days (this was from a guy who at one point would text me constantly, every day etc). So I ditched him again and now apologised but I’m wondering, what do I do now? Bother again or not? I don’t know if I’m flogging a dead horse again or not. I don’t know if our characters are different or if he doesn’t open up much. We never got the chance to talk things over properly. I feel extremely confused.

And yes, the sex is great and when it’s good – the texts etc it is so good, clever conversations and nice times etc.

Someone advise me about this please!!

I am virgo who is dating a Sagi for four months now. Things have been great. We talk/text daily, he always initiates the conversation. He constantly wants to hear from me. Does things like calls me while he is shopping and has me approve outfits for him, I think it is adorable. We hang out quite often and I have met a couple of his friends.
About a month back we had a conversation as to where we stand and what we are looking for. Although he said he likes me a lot and wants to continue to get to know me better, he sort of made it clear that he was not ready for a serious relationship with me at that moment, but that he is open to it later, as we continue to get to know each other better.
My concern is that he will never be ready. I have noticed that Sagi don’t like responsibilities and commitments. I am afraid that he is just keeping me around until I get tired of waiting.
He does tell me that he really likes me and wants to continue seeing me. I am just a bit confused as to what his true intentions are with me.
Any advice?
Thanks

@ Keitra. I had the same problem with my man, although we are not married and had no kids. We started out as friends like you and without knowing we hooked up and ended up being together for 1yr. and 4 months. The begining was great, he was extrimely caring doing everything for me, just like your husband. Then by the end of that forth month he started verbaly abusing me, basically treating me like shit. I am a very independent Virgo, I make my own money, i buy my own things and do not rely on anybody. All of a sudden things started getting for the worst, after one day when he treated me like trash, humiliating me in front of the D.D. staff, I was hurt a lot and decided I had enough. I slowly started to back off, and eventually told him that our relationship was getting unhealthy and that we needed to split ways. He was crying, could not understand what heppened, begging me to give him another chance. I was hurt and I needed some time to think about our relationship and if there was a posibility we could ever be together again. I took 13 day off without seeing him or talking to him. He was going crazy, he was texting me multiple times, calling me, leaving voice mails on my phone, sobing. He appologized a million times, told me that his life without me means nothing, that he would change. Finally on the 13th day I decided to talk to him and explained to him that maybe being friends was better than being romantically envloved. He said that it would not be the same for him, that he was emotionally attached to me and that he needed me in his life. So I decided to give him a second chance. We met up and he really showed me that he missed me so much. He said that he loved me so much that he was ready to do anything to have me back. He took me out to eat, then we went to the park, and finally ended up having sex. Our sex life was and still remains out of this world. We both get bored of the same thing so we try out new things and it is always so much fun.

My personal experince with my man is that they get bored very easily so try to do different things. If that does not work then maybe backing off from him for some time might be a good thing. It is easier said than done, but believe me you will know if he really loves you, and at the same time you will teach him a lesson he will never forget, to always love you and appreciate you.

I hope this helps. Hugs

This guy was my second Sag, I was a engaged to the first. That’s saying a lot for me because my relationships rarely last longer than a few months.

Despite my relationships with Sags not working out, I believe with all certainty that this is the sign that I’m the most compatible and have the best chemistry. Those two Sag relationships are the most meaningful of all the relationships I’ve had and I look forward to my next Sag.

And then I came here and read that Capricorn woman and Sagittarius man is a 9/10? Wow! Everyone is unique and different, but communication is key to any friendship and relationship. Good luck!!

I would simply say Sags and Virgos can work but a Virgo female must have extreme patience and I mean extreme… They also need to know that not all Sags are passionate creatures. Many of them would rather spend time alone and are oblivious to the emotions of people around them or simply choose to ignore them. Virgos must work hard and expect to not always and sometimes never get back what you put into a relationship with Sag.