Scorpio Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility

Famous Scorpio-Aquarius Couple: Owen Wilson and Sheryl Crow

It’s hard for an outsider to know what’s going on in this relationship because it’s one of the most self-contained, exclusionary combinations.  What you have is two people with exceptionally strong wills who have agreed to compromise their wills — at least temporarily — for an ulterior purpose.  These two god-like individuals do not ordinarily compromise.  There is nothing warm, cute, or fuzzy about them.  So whatever brings them together has to be very compelling.  Perhaps it is just that they finally meet someone they consider an equal.  It’s like two teenagers playing chicken in a car.  Secretly each one can’t believe that they’ve met their match.  No one in their right mind should mess with a Scorpio and it is gospel that it is utterly impossible to control an Aquarius.  You can see immediately that this relationship will either function at a very high level or it will deteriorate rapidly into a war of control and wills.

How to Attract a Scorpio Man as an Aquarius Woman:  Just the fact that you think you can handle him is enticement enough.  He’s used to stalking, but not the kind of mental stalking that you’re capable of.  You can easily out-think him and you might as well get in practice from the beginning because you will need every advantage you can conjure.  If he’s interested in you, he’s interested in your power, not your “feminine aspects.”  Scorpios like to mate with something that they want to incorporate into their arsenal.  If this sounds like a laboratory experiment, it is, and you know it.

How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Scorpio Man:  Well, to begin with, you might as well be as rude and crude as you are capable of being.  No reason to hold back on the shock and awe.  She loves to be shocked, and if you’re lucky, you might awe her.  It’s your power she’s interested in.  Show your self-mastery and by all means, keep yourself under control.  You are playing with a mind that fascinates you but that you will never control.  See if you can get on her radar screen and let the games begin.

Degree of Romance:  Romance is hardly the question.  Where is all the power?  And what are we going to do with it?

Degree of Passion:  For these two signs, passion is a waste of time.  It is actually viewed as a weakness.  To be passionate would be to render one’s self vulnerable.

Degree of Friendship:  After the war-room games are settled, and one of them has attained a slight edge over the other (depends upon individuals and circumstances), these two can actually be great comrades-in-arms, which is as close to friendship as they will ever get.  Each sign has a constant edge on it, calculating advantages and options for power moves.  If they agree to ally against the world, they’ll make a formidable gridiron of defensive and offensive strategies.  With an ally like this, who needs friends?

Degree of Marriage:  These two play for keeps.  They may be one of the few pairs that can ignore the realities and just live together under the sacred bond of trust.  Not to overly idealize Scorpio and Aquarius, but the bond of trust is likely to be spelled out this way: “If you leave me, I will destroy you and everything you care about.”  You see, these two speak the same language.

Progression of Relationship:  Slam bam thank you ma’am?  If these two find a match in one another, they will both drive relentlessly for closure, each one moving to forestall other possibilities, to close off other options, and seal the deal.  It’s like making a contract with the Godfather.

Sex:  The secret glue that coerces each one to give a little and compromise is their sexual connection, which is probably going to be impossible for others to understand.  There is something thrilling about not being able to really ever possess the other person.  Many issues are worked out in the bedroom through kinky games and real commando stand-offs.  If you’re not an Aquarius or a Scorpio, don’t go there.  But if you really must know, it’s the Aquarius who will win and dominate — and believe it or not, Scorpio will love it.

When It’s Over: This is one relationship that’s likely to end very badly.  There will be no victor, and the spoils may be destroyed as well in a cold fury of retaliation.  It might be best to realize this going into this relationship, so you lock down some assets and territory for your own private domain that the other person can’t ever get to.  That you can do this and still have the degree of self it takes to make this relationship work is one of the paradoxes.

Our Rating:  11/10

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115 Responses to Scorpio Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility

  • lightskinned says:

    So am I the fire or the lighter fluid

  • Aquafemale says:


    Your relationship sounds exactly like mine. We’ve been together for 8 months, and I mean it is identical to what you described.


  • RiusLady says:

    I’ve been dating my boyfriend who’s a scorpio for almost two months now. Things are really interesting betwen us. 1-For one thing, everytime we meet up it’s like it’s the first time for me. It takes me a while to warm up to him to even be able to kiss him.
    2-He’s more of the talker. In compairason I’m more boring if you will. But ya he wants to talk about everything. Oddly enough I usually find ways to make the situation less intimate.
    3-He’s very sexual. I really cant keep up with him and he tries to guide me or encourage me and whatever but it’s no use.
    4-I also find that even though so far our relationship is seriously PERFECT, I often find myself thinking about breaking up with him.

    Help. Is any of this unusal or bad?

  • 80s BABY says:

    Im a total aqua gal and i started a FWB with a scorp for about 10months. We only hangout to have sex which is fine with me. but out of no where im catching feelings and this never happens with me. I dont want to tell him i really like him now cuz im scared he’ll run and neva come back. but wen we’re gettin it on he says stuff like “why wont you be my GF, tell ya other guy friends to get lost, i miss u”..not all at does he like me? or he just sayin stuff like that to make me feel special to keep me around? I kno he’s a player thats why I dont want to like him….what to do what to do…i can be patient

  • Ms. 5'2 shawty says:

    Well I’m officially messed up….. I don’t know where to begin. My story is to complicated and detailed. If I were to list every detail my scorpio would know its me. I started reading up on this stuff a while back when things started getting shaky which I never did before..but I did it to try understand my sweat heart. I am so torn I think about him all the time I miss him so much. WHEN Ever I’m not with him it feels as though he is so near. WHEN We argue I want things and the problem to get better I don’t want to just have sex because the problem will still be there.

    When I met my scorpio he was like a statue starring me down. I will never forget that day because it was so weired like I knew him. IT was like love at first sight. HE made me feel so comfortable and we talked about everything. He had the most amazing soft lips and blew my mind. When I was around others friends and family they would talk to me and I would not even be listening because I was thinking about him and I could not contain myself I would be smiling for no reason and they would get jealous because my mind was gone far away from them at that moment. It has been so much back and forth sometimes I think he is not gonna be back in my life. I love him so much. I spend a lot of nights up thinking about him cannot sleep, heavy eyes and headaches. I MISS my sweat heart

  • Ms. 5'2 shawty says:

    Word of advice to the scorpio’s if you find yourself with an aquarius me you are very lucky because we love hard and give all we have so you don’t have to be affraid or taken back and feel that we are up to something that is just how we are and word of advice for my Aquarius ladies…when you fight with your scorpio it may quickly spiral into the wrong thing because of our quick tempers. Don’t ever ever say something you don’t mean because a scorpio man will not always forgive your words because he takes it to heart and his heart is very tender and I know a lot of times we may feel it is okay to vanish for a while to get closer or try and hurt each other, well it doesn’t make the situation better try to stick it out and never ever give up on the relationship. Hope that can help. Because trust me you will sit back and analize every deal and everything that was done and said days or years later and just understand what the other person ment and feel deep regret. ;)

  • joanna says:

    τελικα δεν καταλαβα υδροχοος με σκορπιο ταιριαζει?

  • χλωρίδα says:

    καμία αντιστοιχία αυτών των δύο σημείων. το ένα είναι του αέρα και το άλλο είναι το νερό

  • τριαντάφυλλο says:

    Αυτό μπορεί να είναι ακόμη και η καλύτερη σχέση, αλλά εξαρτάται από το άτομο

  • cass94 says:

    I am an aquarius girl and I had a scorpio man. At the time I didnt know he was but now a lot makes sense. We were automatically attracted to one another not on a physical level initially but we obviously thought the other was hot. It was everything we had in common that started the appeal (music, movies, and most everything else, haven’t had that with anyone else before). I have never met someone who was just as sarcastic as me, we could constantly try to shock the other (I think I won in that department ;p). It was wonderful. We would text all through the night till the next day (one of us would fall asleep wake up text and fall back asleep it was super cute). I’m so independent but I had never wanted to be anyone’s more than I wanted to be his. We would bicker, not argue, but when I would get out of hand he would rein me back in calm and cool he made it seem so easy. We shared so much with each other. My favorite part was that he wasn’t afraid to challenge me like most other guys, he was so strong and I LOVED that and I think he loved that about me too. We could literally read each other’s mind, I would always catch what he was going to say before he said it and vice versa. He got me with all his cute words and sweet sayings that I always found corny and lame but coming from him nothing else seemed so honest and true. I would say I’m a typical aqua girl with all the good and bad traits that go with it. He accepted it and fought for us when I thought things would just end. It seems so very natural to be his. He wasn’t possesive or any of that like it says most are more so concerned. At first it was weird but I came to adore his caring for me. I think aquas are so detached because they dont want to get hurt but my scorpio changed all the rules for me. I would have given him my all but circumstances have prevented that. I hope to see him again and find out what we could be. I think it will be an experience to last a lifetime. :)

  • valerie says:

    i’m an aquarius gal, and i’m married to a scorpio man. let me just say that i’m very happy. when i see how the world and how other people try to control each other – due to fear of losing someone – and how marriages fail, end up in boredom, abuse, infidelity, i thank god everyday for him. i have many interests and so does he- and yet we trust eachother too much. the one thing that stands out in this article is the speaking the same language – that made me laugh – but so true.

  • bascnagirl says:

    I was married to a scorpio man Once. Obviously, that didn’t work out but now I’m involved with another scorpio man. I feel like I’m in heaven. His kisses, his touch just floor me. We’ve only been involved for about 3 months so there hasn’t been any significant conflict between us. I’m very concerned about what that’s gonna look like when it happens and how we’ll get through it. I am the talkative 1 between the 2 of us and he is very conservative by comparison. I get concerned that he wants to keep quiet about our relationship and I want to tell the world. So far we disagree about the content of social media but I have to remember that I don’t know how to be reserveD and I look forward to him teaching me this.

  • zorpoids says:

    Neither do eye

  • aquarius woman/scorpio man says:

    i found more successful aquarius woman/Scorpio man relationships that are together happily.

    Tony Abbott (Austrialian prime minister) with his Aquarius wife long term marriage.

    Deborah Ann Woll and her boyfriend, (she is an actress from True Blood and Daredevil)

    i know a couple in real life, that aren’t celebrities but i have to give proof of celebrities as i can’t show the ones i know in real life who are successful.

  • aquarius woman/scorpio man says:

    i notice it just depends on the aspects and mars to venus and house systems.

    and if the aquarius woman is PLUTONIAN and the Scorpio man has Aquarius placements/Uranian.

    this is why it works.

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