Scorpio Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility
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It’s hard for an outsider to know what’s going on in this relationship because it’s one of the most self-contained, exclusionary combinations. What you have is two people with exceptionally strong wills who have agreed to compromise their wills — at least temporarily — for an ulterior purpose. These two god-like individuals do not ordinarily compromise. There is nothing warm, cute, or fuzzy about them. So whatever brings them together has to be very compelling. Perhaps it is just that they finally meet someone they consider an equal. It’s like two teenagers playing chicken in a car. Secretly each one can’t believe that they’ve met their match. No one in their right mind should mess with a Scorpio and it is gospel that it is utterly impossible to control an Aquarius. You can see immediately that this relationship will either function at a very high level or it will deteriorate rapidly into a war of control and wills.
How to Attract a Scorpio Man as an Aquarius Woman: Just the fact that you think you can handle him is enticement enough. He’s used to stalking, but not the kind of mental stalking that you’re capable of. You can easily out-think him and you might as well get in practice from the beginning because you will need every advantage you can conjure. If he’s interested in you, he’s interested in your power, not your “feminine aspects.” Scorpios like to mate with something that they want to incorporate into their arsenal. If this sounds like a laboratory experiment, it is, and you know it.
How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Scorpio Man: Well, to begin with, you might as well be as rude and crude as you are capable of being. No reason to hold back on the shock and awe. She loves to be shocked, and if you’re lucky, you might awe her. It’s your power she’s interested in. Show your self-mastery and by all means, keep yourself under control. You are playing with a mind that fascinates you but that you will never control. See if you can get on her radar screen and let the games begin.
Degree of Romance: Romance is hardly the question. Where is all the power? And what are we going to do with it?
Degree of Passion: For these two signs, passion is a waste of time. It is actually viewed as a weakness. To be passionate would be to render one’s self vulnerable.
Degree of Friendship: After the war-room games are settled, and one of them has attained a slight edge over the other (depends upon individuals and circumstances), these two can actually be great comrades-in-arms, which is as close to friendship as they will ever get. Each sign has a constant edge on it, calculating advantages and options for power moves. If they agree to ally against the world, they’ll make a formidable gridiron of defensive and offensive strategies. With an ally like this, who needs friends?
Degree of Marriage: These two play for keeps. They may be one of the few pairs that can ignore the realities and just live together under the sacred bond of trust. Not to overly idealize Scorpio and Aquarius, but the bond of trust is likely to be spelled out this way: “If you leave me, I will destroy you and everything you care about.” You see, these two speak the same language.
Progression of Relationship: Slam bam thank you ma’am? If these two find a match in one another, they will both drive relentlessly for closure, each one moving to forestall other possibilities, to close off other options, and seal the deal. It’s like making a contract with the Godfather.
Sex: The secret glue that coerces each one to give a little and compromise is their sexual connection, which is probably going to be impossible for others to understand. There is something thrilling about not being able to really ever possess the other person. Many issues are worked out in the bedroom through kinky games and real commando stand-offs. If you’re not an Aquarius or a Scorpio, don’t go there. But if you really must know, it’s the Aquarius who will win and dominate — and believe it or not, Scorpio will love it.
When It’s Over: This is one relationship that’s likely to end very badly. There will be no victor, and the spoils may be destroyed as well in a cold fury of retaliation. It might be best to realize this going into this relationship, so you lock down some assets and territory for your own private domain that the other person can’t ever get to. That you can do this and still have the degree of self it takes to make this relationship work is one of the paradoxes.
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gud luck with that …….. i also don’t believe in star signs
…….. when their is tru luv, stars doesn’t matters 
Helllo???????? Why are all the other 50 comments erased????
ow im sorry, i was too quick with my judgement…
i found them ……..
again, sorry
oh god i dont no what should i do with my aquarius wife she is not my mach dont do it i sower
i agree, why does the astrologer give a facetious rating 11/10, as someone said earlier, it is a pretty contemptuous attitude to people who are genuine readers here.
I don’t know who wrote this and I don’t know how you know???? But you’re 100 % right!!!! I’m and Aquarius Woman and I’ve been seeing a Scorpio Man for the past 17 years… and we’re BOTH 2 scared (or aware) of each other to leave each other alone… and MUCH to scared of each other to ever ‘really’ commit. But we BOTH want to know who will ultimate win… or lose!!!!
@ JZ
17 years with a scorpio man.. and still playing the game; cant live with or without eachother?
How do you do that? Im seeing this scorpio man for almost 6 months now.. He is sweet, attractive and everything. But we also too scared to really commit.. But we also cant leave eachother.. But damn, 17 years???? What do you really want from your scorpio man? Dont you want to be together as a couple? Or is it more exciting to never really posses eachother?
Bless up,
Well I am back again, I am still together with my scorpio man.. we have been dating over 9 months now…and it has been rocky to say the least. We do have this power dance, cat and mouse game going al the time so I guess that will never change. When I withdraw fromm him he comes chasing me back and then I get warm and comfortable he gets complacent then I get angry or fed up and try to detach and over and over.. it isnt a peaceful relationship but it is passionate and maybe a little obsessive. we had the commitment talk finally today, and believe it or not, we are on our way to taking the step towards having a committed relationship. I love him and he loves me, but to all my fellow aqua ladies, a piece of advice, scorpio men will take energy from you. Now if you have energy to spare I think it can be a great relationship. You will bring him peace, calm and rational thinking to counteract his drastic moods and tendency to beat himeself up from everything..(i.e. OMG I forgot to shake my co-workers hand at the meeting this morning how could I have been so stupid) a typical aquarian response would be.. bring in coffee and dounts for them tomorrow no biggie.. just be nice.. and your scorpio will calm down.. and know you are right… now your man will be able to ground you, little butterfly, we aquarians are not known for emotional stability or even mental stability..you know.. we jump from one stimulating activity or event to another.. this week s passion is siberian basketweaving art.. next week who knows.. your scorpio will encourage you to stick with things and to do your best (even when you get bored with it) and will teach you how to reach the depths of emotions that you could only dream about.. so good luck..be loyal and communicate dont let your pride get in the way, but dont let him think for a moment you are weak.. he will lose interest and also stay super sexual and super kinky to keep him interested… but never leave him in a situaiton where sexual temptation would occur because he just too weak where his sexuality is concerned.. and lust will be another area he will feel guilty about..ps also try try to keep secrets.. at least a few…
I used to be rivals with an Aquarius girl over an fictional Scorpio man lol we are both pretty stupid
OMG…don’t know what to think, which way to go. I am an Aquarius woman who has been intimate with a Scorpio man. He is very mysterious. He wants to know everything about me down to what I am wearing but when I ask him questions, his response is when I become his wife and give him a child, I can go ahead and ask him 50 million questions. More times than none he frustrates me. He seems to want to control every part of life. I do not agree with that one bit. It should be 50/50. He is moody more times than none and lets not even get into his sexual passions. Every time that we text eachother, 10 out of 10 times sex is a part of the conversation… As an Aquarian woman, I am determined to get into his head and heart.
I have been with a scorpio man for almost 4 years, and Im an aquarius woman. I hate him at the time. Him and I get into fights almost every day. I can’t stand his bad attitude! I hate how he thinks he can tell me what to do or how I THINK! yea, right! he can go somewhere with that mess. I guess what Im trying to say is I hate the whole idea that scorpio men have to be in control, its stupid to think you are going to control someone. It’s stupid to act so unrealistic about life or about women. I hate him right now and I am unsure about our future. I am getting sick and tired of his mess and Im way to busy to deal with this. Someone wrote how scorpio will take up your energy, its so true! when I am out with him I come home exhausted, and beat. So If you are an aquarius woman, a word of caution, stay away from these men..if you can’t, at least don’t get serious. They are way to hard to make and keep happy and at the end of the day, this guy is to selfish to try and make you happy. The world is too big to deal with this crap!
yay go Jenny!! trusay gurl…..ok me a Sicilian aquarian n i see 2 guys lmao…an Aries n a Scorpio….clearly I dont have a radar 4 trouble or indeed care to………both these guys remarkably similar personalities (n know i see sum1 else) claim to be happi single, but clearly lookin for sumthin….n tht seems 2 be ME! who cant truly be bothered with eitha of thier gamez an can psyche them unda th table…u gotta be on it from th get go wit scorpios ma Aquarian sistas…blind them wit ur brains, show them who rlly gonna be wearin th trousers and be fully prepared to leave at a moments notice if they gettin big for thier boots….end of. No comprimise on eitha of these 2 signs is th way forward i think….at least it works 4 me, if not quite 4 them hahaha xx
i have seen a lot of scorpio/aquarius arrangements.
It must be the two fixed sign thing that makes it work out well. They must understand eachother well.
I have to agree with what Jennie said, sometimes I wonder if all this effort is worth it. I am still together with my scorpio man after almost a year but OMG I wonder if I can take much more of this. He is extremely selfish! when he needs me I am there for him but I always must fit in to his schedule and he always determines if we see each other by his schedule and I must adjust my life for him. Now he is even commenting n the clothes I wear and my hair… but I am the girl he was attracted to a year ago why does he want to change me??? I dont know aqua sisters.. is the passion and connection (which is unlike any other I must admit) going to survive the day to day struggle?? I will keep you updated…and hope you do the same.
So I am an Aquarius woman ..every man I’ve ever been with was a Scorpio Idk how …most likely because I am a sucker for those sexy eyes. You would think I’d be a Scorpio expert by now not even close …I usually end up getting frustrated and jumping the gun trying to get them to commit and it all goes down hill from there. The Scorpio i am seeing now I am determined to take it slow and give him space..so far so good.. he’s a lot more open minded then the other ones so far ..god why are scorpios difficult
i’m also an aquarius woman….have dated scorpio men for most of my life….i guess when they r good they r the best, but when it goes bad they are insufferable!!!! they have the tendency to remember every single detail of every single thing they think u did wrong… and no matter what they say they will never ever forget anything that u did, ever! only advice i can give is when they get all obsessive and start to pick a fight don’t do them the favour… they’ll calm down eventually…
Ughhhh, really, they are great in bed, but in a relationship they suck. They tend to be so secretive. I push away he would stalk me, I would bring him close and he would run. They are not very good with communication. U literally have to beat them out of it. I like a challenge but this guy is just plainly to into his own world that he makes me let go. He is too jealous! and when drunk its even worse. Sex is good but he lacks the romantic part of it. Sorry, Scorpios one goos quality does not make up for the rest…
Scorpio men are Physco & have abusive tendencies….Lol…but scorpio women/Aquarius men is a very interesting couple that can work
You know this is the only thing on this site I totally agree with. This just described my one and only relationship with a Scorpio Man. We struggled and fought the whole time but loved it. And the make up sex was so good we wanted to fight again the next day.
#19 These comments are for opinions and for people to share their experience. I don’t feel anyone is being childish.
My last relationship was with a scorpio man and it didn’t end harsh but after meeting up again he was very ignorant. He was very fustrated at the fact that he didn’t have the same control he did when we were together. Needless to say he was not worth the problem.
I must say that one thing I don’t have in common with some of the other post is that my scorpio was not selfish at all, in fact he was extremly giving. I usually got everything I wanted when I wanted. The negative to that was he felt that gave him a pass to do what he wanted to do.
I’m currently in a new relationship with a scorpio man and I always seem to fish them in. I hope that things really work with him and I don’t see any of the negative signs that I did with my ex. The one thing I do remember is that they can ask whatever they want but you get the run around with a simple question like what did you do today.
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Am a scorpio male in a relationship with aquarian female she treats me as her equal or rather a friend.Am d only one that shows emotion but i know she loves me but she is very jealous almost more than me.
MASSIVE APPLAUSE for post by Scorpio Male on June 24th, 2011 .. brilliant read.. I hope you make her your wife. Good luck. Heres my situ. Im an Aqua female – yep crazy humanitarian, thinks out of the box, an always right know-it-all BUT help! Ive fallen for a scorpio male. I didnt relise my feelings until about 4 weeks later and BAM! Ive been stung by the scorpio lure! He doesnt know it though, how I feel, but he is available, single. as myself.
In casual past conversation he has mentioned tht he wud never get into a relationship again marriage wise (he must have been hurt) but i need to try my chances with this one!
Trouble is, I am experienced in the scorpio mae dept.. My Dad is scorpio. He and my mum have been married 55 yrs, and man oh man, its been on off divorce every anniversary! (shes a cappy) Dad is extremely controlling, possesive, he chooses her clothes, or comments point blank if he doesnt like something he will say, and say it firmly. Like her hair or what she is wearing. The funny thing is though, everything he touches turns to gold! Hes damn right with everything. I could even take him to the store and get him to find me an outfit, and he would have the abiity to make me look like a hollywood superstar at the oscars. LOL He is amazing, an expert at everything, but still, a nasty sting.
So my situ… back to my scorpy-to-be.. We get on really well, (its a professional connection) we are definately attracted to one another (but he has dropped hints more than me) “oh Im going on a date” he replies “lucky man”
So I KNOW im his type.
What do I do? Truth be known I want him and I want him bad.. in a relationship sense this is so unlike this emotionally cool aqua girl. I normally am as romantic, & loving as a cold potato. But when I think of him, I become wild and untamed! HEEELLLPPPPPP How do I take this further? x x
P.s. What is sex like EXACTLY with a male scorpy is it:
A. Wild, Passionate with lots of romance
B. Wild, Passionate and softly Kinky (leather, soft hand-ties)
C. Hardcore kinky (anal sex, domination, whips)
or none of the above???
so i have been with this scorpio guy for a yr and a half now. at first before we started going out, he was the one who begged me everyday to become his. he would do everything for me. and finally couldnt help but fall in love with him. i was just sooooooo attracted to him and awed at his intense love for me. and now unfortunately I had to leave and now we have no other option but to be in a long distance relationship. we have been in it for a year now and its not like it was smooth. We have been fighting and having those li’l and sometimes big conflicts since we got together. But the only thing that keeps us together is that no matter what we just cant leave each other. we never broke up! we never use this word in our relationship. We still keep holding on. but since last month he has started flirting with some other girls (he calls it light and harmless flirting but to me its scary). I dont wana lose him like this after what all we have been through. Do you think he could cheat? but if i stop talking or if i fight , he thinks i dont understnad him and starts hurting himself. he shouts at me these days too. He never used to cuz he thought i would leave. But now i dont know whats wrong. Again had a fight with him today. Dunno what to do !
by the way m aquarian too*
Hi So Tired.. THe important thing to ask yourself about your guy is
1. Does he respect you?
2. Whats changed from the days “he would do everything for me” and why the change?
Dont be scared by his flirting. But then if you love him, and he you, you shouldn’t even be thinking of him cheating or something scary.
What do you mean “starts hurting himself”?? Does he have issues?
If he has issues no one can help him – but himself.
Well he does respect me n is nice but sometimes just blasts off his temper
Obviously I don’t wanna think he is cheating but what should I think when he flirts?? Is it harmless? How do I know its not a big deal?? Will he leave me?? He said he wouldn’t leave me ever n if he did it would be his last day of life. But what if he finds…he just co incidently meets someone.. What about then? I really wanna know are scorpios like really loyal loyal or what? Help plz rply. Would be appreciated
P.S- ur 2nd question about “what’s changed from the days he would do anything………………..”. , I have no answer for that. Cuz I don’t know why that happened. Well maybe its not a hugeeeeeee change but still some change then before, I have no idea why the change? Does he love me less?? And the main question is WOULD HE LEAVE ME? One thing I wana make sure you know is that he has sweared a 1000000 times that he ant imagine his life without me and would never leave me. Do u think he would still leave?? Because the changes I am seeing these days r unbelievable and heartbreaking. I just wanna know would he eventually leave me? Cheat on me?
@so tired ….how you doin? i’m a scorpio male and while i cant speak for everyone i can shed some light. hopfully it help you. just remember scorps mean what they say and say what they mean. or they dont say it. they dont flatter and say somethin major just to pacify you. but you may have misunderstood him anger. as for flirting hey hes just enjoying being the object of some sneaky glances but he doesnt waste his time or energy . all depends on wher his heart is. and he guards that fiercely. so watch what you do with that heart.
What??! Hey! I am an Aquarius Girl, and I am deeply in love with my Scorpio man!! He is too! He’s very sweet, and yes, we both rely on TRUST. But the other negative parts?? I don’t think it’s happening to us right now.. He’s really sweet to me! And he always says he loves me and that he misses me! But well it’s quite true that sometimes he gets moody though!. ^^
I am an aquarian sign, and my first love is a scorpio. He is so sweet, caring and has a good heart. He does tend to hold back sometimes, and act secretive but I know his reasons why. As a aquarius we seek the truth and my scorpio is always honest with me. He is my only best friend and I feel he is my soulmate
Well i too am an aquarius female and am with a scorpio. We have had our ups and downs and the sex is mind blowing. He is so good in bed and that’s good, because I am too. Has sex ever been better? Nay. He is the best and really has me there. I crave it and the only reason I let up my power sometimes is because of that and because he is so strong and I feel so secure and I trust him…sometimes. He is so smart and underneath the areas he shows to other people, I see the real him and it’s gorgeous. I hate him sometimes too. His deep moodiness, whining about ridiculous things, his perfectionism, his incessant nagging about my messiness. It’s good though because he helps me grow in areas where I need growth and I help him see the world differently. He thinks I’m a basket case at times and it’s true, I am and he loves it and I am in love with him and his damn moods and feelings. I can get really aloof and he doesn’t like that in me but he’s got to deal with it anyway because it happens. Our personalities clash sometimes but who’s don’t? Nobody’s Purfect and all relationships take effort and we are both willing to put in the effort and it takes a lot of maturity to do this. It’s not for the weak willed or those who are unable to forgive or for couples who stay caught up in petty games of power and control. We know we have those issues but we just stop and realize we are great together, we become even better together and we help each other blossom. We kick ass! It’s a wonderful balance in our relationship and I cherish it, he is greater than my past Gemini and that is something to beat and only a Scorpio could do it. He told me the first time we had sex that he would take me to new sexual heights…he wasn’t lying and I asked him if he knew what he was getting himself into and he said yes…………………………..yeah, he lied.
This is so true. I met my scorp guy at a popular gym when i was 18 where i was going for antics aerobic classes. i knew each and everything ther was to know. he didnt believe it one day instrutur aksed me to take class for soemtime thenhe believed i knew everything and he didnt hav to worry bout my health. they teach everything at the gym and i learnt so i am expert why not. i know everything dont’ worry. we have great understand nd he always thunk bout my happyness.
As an Aquarius female, I can just plain and simple agree with EVERYTHING you just said. It made me take a step back and look at how I conduct myself in out Scorpio/Aquarius relations. Kudos. You really hit the nail on the head.
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I’ve been reading some of the post and I can fully relate to your feelings. I’m an Aquarius woman and my husband is a Scorpio. I’ve been with my husband over twenty something years and he zaps every bit of energy I have on a daily basis. I take my marriage vows very seriously otherwise I would have left him a long time ago. He’s very insecure and a constant struggle to keep him happy. As he gets older he exemplifies an increase in mood swings. If you’re not getting the attention you need from a Scorpio man from the beginning walk away he’s not gonna get better only harder to deal with.
ya tru, run away as far as possible
i’ve an aquarius girl…woman i guess im 20 lol anyway i’ve had this back and forth game with a scorpio guy for the past 3 years. we met in high school and i was immediately drawn to him, yet i didnt “like” him. i barely knew him and he definitely wasnt my type at all. he was kinda nerdy and not the cute skater type of guy i always went after. eventually through out high school we ended up talking as we started having more classes together, he fell for me instantly i suppose but i still didnt like him in that way. although, like i said before i was drawn to him and i didnt know why. he chased after me for months and wanted to be with me but never quite told me himself, i guess in a naive way he had his friend talk to me about it all the time. i rejected him because i wanted to get to know him first, he got tired of chasing me and being denied so much that he cut off contact. through out all that time i was developing feelings for him though, so only a few weeks after not talking i realized i didn’t want to lose him and initiated contact with him. ever since then it’s been a constant game with each other. he sends mixed signals and has had a couple other relationships, as have i but we always come back to each other. im the only girl he has kept speaking to after all we have been through. i know as a scorpio guy once he gets hurt and a girl is a b*tch to him he doesn’t want anything to do with them. im always the one he comes running to when things end with another girl. but its not like to hook up or rebound with because we’ve never had sex, i know if we did though it would be like….i dont even know! pretty amazing probably. he talks to me like im his girlfriend some days, just telling me things about his day or whatever then he’ll ignore me for a few days to weeks at a time…then he comes back and im always there for him. hes not always around for me though. when he first fell for me he was the the sweetest guy and told me all this stuff about his life and how at night he could barely sleep knowing i may never want him. those times are long gone i believe, and i don’t think this “game” will ever end. it’s a really low situation that seems to never stop.
I think that this is very interesting. Never really believed in all this stuff , but I am an Aquarian dating a Scorpio man for over a month now and I see all these traits mentioned. He is very regimented, he has a schedule he lives by, no spontaneity whatsoever, barely looks me in the eyes, doesn’t like to talk much, his wants, needs, and desires come first always! I think the fact that he is an only child has a lot to do with the selfish “me come first” thing. He has never had to fight for territory or attention in his life. I am a middle child. He is 47 no kids and only married once in his life over 25 years ago for only 2 years. I don’t think he knows what he wants and I don’t think he has the ability to live any woman other than his mother. I don’t feel like I come first in his life and this is the early stages of our relationship. It should be the best right now right?????
Male scropio date a watergirl. She is the best and I love her but she can at time make me want to leave. She don’t tell me she loves me as much as ih do her but she did tell be she will fight for me. That just made me feel like the king. Yup we fight and make up. She the only one who can touch me like she do. I got her back. And she got mine and it fun. Wish me luch.
i am a libra girl ilove this scorpio guy he is awsome sweet funny ilove him sex is amazing scorpio guys awsome at sex get u one
I am a stinger and I have a water girl. When we first met she was coming in a bar to use the restroom. Me being drunk I thought she was beautiful. Now I think I just felt my other half walk into the room. My first mood swing wasnt my last. But if they come now its cause of her only. She doesnt get loud or cuss at me, and its the greatest sight in the world. The softness of her heart is so amazing to me. Ive never seen before. I couldnt sting her I wanted. Im already drowning. I sit and I think that she was here all this time. I wasted so much pain and love. Just to be bitter when I meet her. Then I realize that if there is no man better than a stinger, there will never be a woman better than a water girl. So if she is lucky Im even more lucky to have her. p.s. She is 37 im 25. With no fear or hesitation in my heart. There is no power struggle, I submit.
Another Aqua female/Scorpio male combo! Man what is it about them and us together!! My Scorpio is just miles beyond any other sun sign I’ve been involved with..
He meets me on the mental, emotional and spiritual level. We used to have our power struggles, our tiffs and battles, but we’ve learned to sit down and discuss them (a lot of times, I force him to talk it out..lol). I’m more the level-headed one, he’s all fire if we get into it. But I’ve learned how to coax him down from the ledge (it takes a minute because he’s so black and white in his responses), you’re either with me or against me. I know he’s that way, so if I’m that way too, we would never get anywhere and our relationship will go up in embers..and it has before. Only for him to comeback and beg me not to leave him, to understand him, that he loves me more than Air…and I dove back in..AGAIN! Just can’t seem to help myself…lol! He’s just deliciously sexy, sweet, charming, loving, romantic, protective and I can’t see myself without him. So I compromise in order to get him to compromise…it’s a back door way to calm him down (only way I can explain it). He’s worth it, as is our relationship. When I don’t feel I can compromise or need to calm down first, I have to avoid him because it will get ugly…and fast!
Now, being an Aqua woman I have my short comings too..I’m messy (drives him crazy), I’m scattered, one day I’m writing the next great novel, the next out chasing butterflies..lol..this too drives him crazy because he can be so focused (He finally told me, he watched me from afar for almost two years, before he made a move, he wanted to see how I acted with other men, coworkers, etc.) that just wows! me..no way I could stay focused on someone that long..lol! It seems with them there’s all these little tests you have to pass in the beginning before they let you inside. Anyway, I’m horrible with finances, I like to spend and he’s frugal and tight-fisted (which is what I need). We really do balance each other out well.. I keep him on his toes mentally and full of spontaneity while he’s taught me to feel emotions and passion, I never thought I could…the freedom I get with him is just mind blowing!! I always feel safe and secure and so very protected, that I totally unfurl without hesitation. Yes, he can be a bit moody here and there, but I can be aloof and cold, so I give him his space, though it’s more difficult for him to deal with my aloofness than I with his moods… I can preoccupy myself with other things and mentally escape..its more difficult because he operates more from an emotional stand point.
But in the end, we work it out because we’ve reached a different level. But it wasn’t always this way..and we still hit bumps in the road. Been together for 5 years and we get each other..never a dull minute, never bored, never tired.. He does need reassurance..from time to time (who doesnt), and he needs ME to show him how much I love him..which I don’t mind because he always shows me how much he loves me.
It can be a difficult beginning with the pairing of Aqua woman and Scorp man but if you can weather the storm and learn to talk to each other…to TRUST each other (very important for them to trust you), it will be the stuff fantasies and dreams are made of…
I kid you not!
“by kay on June 28th, 2010
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This Aquarian woman, 1/24, has been with a scorpio male, 10-31, for 26 years, married for 18 years. cons: controlling, angers easily, goes from 1 – 10 on the anger scale if upset and he is a loud talker, is always on his crackberry phone, or listening to the radio really loud. Pros: Tall, handsome, great passion, amazing love partner, splurges on me, anything I would like, he wants me to have, funny, actually hysterical, gives me the space I need to travel and just take off when I fell like it, fun to go out with, great provider & amazing father!!!! The Pros outweigh the cons. hope this helps Good Luck”
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Definitely loud! Music always blasting..lol what is that about and the phone too…but he’s so mellow otherwise.
My Scorpio man is hysterical too…he has me in stitches..and its difficult for anyone to make me laugh as hard as he does…he can be so goofy! Ditto on the spluging too..he actually spoils me…says there’s a different betwen splurging and SPENDING..LOL! I spend. I wish I had the will power he had when it came to finances. Thankfully I have him…
I’m an Aquarius woman & do NOT like to have a man who is out right rude & disrespectful! Double NO NO, that is a quick way to get the hell away!
Great. I’m the aquarius woman. I can’t wait to dominate! I’m not into the rudeness for shock factor, only to make me blush or seem adventurous. He has to stimulate my mind and keep me guessing.
@Aquablue, you described my relationship with my scorpio man dead on. Going on 4 years, the stuff dreams are made of… : )
I’m an Aquarius and fell for a Scorpio. I had started to date another Scorpio in the past and got scared and ran form that relationship but my new Scorpio stung me harder than Stupid Cupid. I had my fair share of failed relationships when I finally gave in to my Scorpio. I’m genuinly in love for the 1st time ever. Even with our moodiness, things are great. He spoils me with gifts fit for a queen and I try my best to show him how much I appreciate him. Sex really is fun and wild! Havent experienced the power struggle yet like many have mentioned, but we’re talking about moving in together in a few months so I guess that will be a real test of our love and friendship.
I am a scorpio male with an aquarius female. We have been together for six months. Honestly I’m scared as hell of her. I’ve completely met my match and I’ve have never been more attracted to someone in my life. When I argue I go for the throat. But with her I give in. The mind games leave us at a frustrating stalemate. The sex is a little slow for my taste but I know I have to be subtle and patient. Everything I’m used to is being tested now. I cant even disappear for afew days. We talk about everything and I do mean everything. Its hard to keep secrets from her. She knows exactly what I was thinking when I did something. I know what she is gonna do before she does it. She thinks Im sneaky, I think she flirts to much. But in my twisted scorpio mind I actually trust her. She is more of a giver than me. So I feel bad about my attitude “sometimes”. I even apologize here and there. I wish she could come on here to tell her side. But I love my aquarius to death. I HOPE I DONT MESS UP!!!!!!
I am an aquarius woman w/a scorpio man. At first he was definitely not my cup of tea, I mean I wanted to get to know him but the more I did the more I was drawn to him and taken back all at the same time. See this is not the ideal situation for all kinds of reasons but I love him w/o a doubt and I don’t really know what to do. The sex is great although he has an insatiable appetitite and I am very undemonstrative. We can talk for hours upon hours(and we do talk about EVERYTHING). But he doesn’t completely trust me and I can’t convince myself to submit 100%. I know in my heart that we are asking for trouble but it feels soooo right when we’re together, it’s like he knows me inside and out and sees through my walls and my inhibitions. Although what we have is as shaky as a 400 pd man sitting on a 2 leg chair we continue to offer our selves to one another w/o restraint or 2nd thought. I hate not being trusted he hates my past…it’s fire and lighter fluid! Oh God I’m in over my head!!!