Scorpio Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility
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It’s hard for an outsider to know what’s going on in this relationship because it’s one of the most self-contained, exclusionary combinations. What you have is two people with exceptionally strong wills who have agreed to compromise their wills — at least temporarily — for an ulterior purpose. These two god-like individuals do not ordinarily compromise. There is nothing warm, cute, or fuzzy about them. So whatever brings them together has to be very compelling. Perhaps it is just that they finally meet someone they consider an equal. It’s like two teenagers playing chicken in a car. Secretly each one can’t believe that they’ve met their match. No one in their right mind should mess with a Scorpio and it is gospel that it is utterly impossible to control an Aquarius. You can see immediately that this relationship will either function at a very high level or it will deteriorate rapidly into a war of control and wills.
How to Attract a Scorpio Man as an Aquarius Woman: Just the fact that you think you can handle him is enticement enough. He’s used to stalking, but not the kind of mental stalking that you’re capable of. You can easily out-think him and you might as well get in practice from the beginning because you will need every advantage you can conjure. If he’s interested in you, he’s interested in your power, not your “feminine aspects.” Scorpios like to mate with something that they want to incorporate into their arsenal. If this sounds like a laboratory experiment, it is, and you know it.
How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Scorpio Man: Well, to begin with, you might as well be as rude and crude as you are capable of being. No reason to hold back on the shock and awe. She loves to be shocked, and if you’re lucky, you might awe her. It’s your power she’s interested in. Show your self-mastery and by all means, keep yourself under control. You are playing with a mind that fascinates you but that you will never control. See if you can get on her radar screen and let the games begin.
Degree of Romance: Romance is hardly the question. Where is all the power? And what are we going to do with it?
Degree of Passion: For these two signs, passion is a waste of time. It is actually viewed as a weakness. To be passionate would be to render one’s self vulnerable.
Degree of Friendship: After the war-room games are settled, and one of them has attained a slight edge over the other (depends upon individuals and circumstances), these two can actually be great comrades-in-arms, which is as close to friendship as they will ever get. Each sign has a constant edge on it, calculating advantages and options for power moves. If they agree to ally against the world, they’ll make a formidable gridiron of defensive and offensive strategies. With an ally like this, who needs friends?
Degree of Marriage: These two play for keeps. They may be one of the few pairs that can ignore the realities and just live together under the sacred bond of trust. Not to overly idealize Scorpio and Aquarius, but the bond of trust is likely to be spelled out this way: “If you leave me, I will destroy you and everything you care about.” You see, these two speak the same language.
Progression of Relationship: Slam bam thank you ma’am? If these two find a match in one another, they will both drive relentlessly for closure, each one moving to forestall other possibilities, to close off other options, and seal the deal. It’s like making a contract with the Godfather.
Sex: The secret glue that coerces each one to give a little and compromise is their sexual connection, which is probably going to be impossible for others to understand. There is something thrilling about not being able to really ever possess the other person. Many issues are worked out in the bedroom through kinky games and real commando stand-offs. If you’re not an Aquarius or a Scorpio, don’t go there. But if you really must know, it’s the Aquarius who will win and dominate — and believe it or not, Scorpio will love it.
When It’s Over: This is one relationship that’s likely to end very badly. There will be no victor, and the spoils may be destroyed as well in a cold fury of retaliation. It might be best to realize this going into this relationship, so you lock down some assets and territory for your own private domain that the other person can’t ever get to. That you can do this and still have the degree of self it takes to make this relationship work is one of the paradoxes.
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@Lightskiined
Your relationship sounds exactly like mine. We’ve been together for 8 months, and I mean it is identical to what you described.
Wow
I’ve been dating my boyfriend who’s a scorpio for almost two months now. Things are really interesting betwen us. 1-For one thing, everytime we meet up it’s like it’s the first time for me. It takes me a while to warm up to him to even be able to kiss him.
2-He’s more of the talker. In compairason I’m more boring if you will. But ya he wants to talk about everything. Oddly enough I usually find ways to make the situation less intimate.
3-He’s very sexual. I really cant keep up with him and he tries to guide me or encourage me and whatever but it’s no use.
4-I also find that even though so far our relationship is seriously PERFECT, I often find myself thinking about breaking up with him.
Help. Is any of this unusal or bad?
Im a total aqua gal and i started a FWB with a scorp for about 10months. We only hangout to have sex which is fine with me. but out of no where im catching feelings and this never happens with me. I dont want to tell him i really like him now cuz im scared he’ll run and neva come back. but wen we’re gettin it on he says stuff like “why wont you be my GF, tell ya other guy friends to get lost, i miss u”..not all at once..so does he like me? or he just sayin stuff like that to make me feel special to keep me around? I kno he’s a player thats why I dont want to like him….what to do what to do…i can be patient
Well I’m officially messed up….. I don’t know where to begin. My story is to complicated and detailed. If I were to list every detail my scorpio would know its me. I started reading up on this stuff a while back when things started getting shaky which I never did before..but I did it to try understand my sweat heart. I am so torn I think about him all the time I miss him so much. WHEN Ever I’m not with him it feels as though he is so near. WHEN We argue I want things and the problem to get better I don’t want to just have sex because the problem will still be there.
When I met my scorpio he was like a statue starring me down. I will never forget that day because it was so weired like I knew him. IT was like love at first sight. HE made me feel so comfortable and we talked about everything. He had the most amazing soft lips and blew my mind. When I was around others friends and family they would talk to me and I would not even be listening because I was thinking about him and I could not contain myself I would be smiling for no reason and they would get jealous because my mind was gone far away from them at that moment. It has been so much back and forth sometimes I think he is not gonna be back in my life. I love him so much. I spend a lot of nights up thinking about him cannot sleep, heavy eyes and headaches. I MISS my sweat heart
Word of advice to the scorpio’s if you find yourself with an aquarius woman..trust me you are very lucky because we love hard and give all we have so you don’t have to be affraid or taken back and feel that we are up to something that is just how we are and word of advice for my Aquarius ladies…when you fight with your scorpio it may quickly spiral into the wrong thing because of our quick tempers. Don’t ever ever say something you don’t mean because a scorpio man will not always forgive your words because he takes it to heart and his heart is very tender and I know a lot of times we may feel it is okay to vanish for a while to get closer or try and hurt each other, well it doesn’t make the situation better try to stick it out and never ever give up on the relationship. Hope that can help. Because trust me you will sit back and analize every deal and everything that was done and said days or years later and just understand what the other person ment and feel deep regret.
τελικα δεν καταλαβα υδροχοος με σκορπιο ταιριαζει?
καμία αντιστοιχία αυτών των δύο σημείων. το ένα είναι του αέρα και το άλλο είναι το νερό
Αυτό μπορεί να είναι ακόμη και η καλύτερη σχέση, αλλά εξαρτάται από το άτομο
I am an aquarius girl and I had a scorpio man. At the time I didnt know he was but now a lot makes sense. We were automatically attracted to one another not on a physical level initially but we obviously thought the other was hot. It was everything we had in common that started the appeal (music, movies, and most everything else, haven’t had that with anyone else before). I have never met someone who was just as sarcastic as me, we could constantly try to shock the other (I think I won in that department ;p). It was wonderful. We would text all through the night till the next day (one of us would fall asleep wake up text and fall back asleep it was super cute). I’m so independent but I had never wanted to be anyone’s more than I wanted to be his. We would bicker, not argue, but when I would get out of hand he would rein me back in calm and cool he made it seem so easy. We shared so much with each other. My favorite part was that he wasn’t afraid to challenge me like most other guys, he was so strong and I LOVED that and I think he loved that about me too. We could literally read each other’s mind, I would always catch what he was going to say before he said it and vice versa. He got me with all his cute words and sweet sayings that I always found corny and lame but coming from him nothing else seemed so honest and true. I would say I’m a typical aqua girl with all the good and bad traits that go with it. He accepted it and fought for us when I thought things would just end. It seems so very natural to be his. He wasn’t possesive or any of that like it says most are more so concerned. At first it was weird but I came to adore his caring for me. I think aquas are so detached because they dont want to get hurt but my scorpio changed all the rules for me. I would have given him my all but circumstances have prevented that. I hope to see him again and find out what we could be. I think it will be an experience to last a lifetime.
i’m an aquarius gal, and i’m married to a scorpio man. let me just say that i’m very happy. when i see how the world and how other people try to control each other – due to fear of losing someone – and how marriages fail, end up in boredom, abuse, infidelity, i thank god everyday for him. i have many interests and so does he- and yet we trust eachother too much. the one thing that stands out in this article is the speaking the same language – that made me laugh – but so true.
hi, nancy, i would like to add, since i just recently found this:
http://vrajavala.hubpages.com/hub/Matthew-McConaughey–Camila-Alves-astrological-Compatibility
matthew mcconaughy a scorpio man, a long string of breaking hearts in the past has gotten with camila alves, who is an aquarius and married her. they have two children
I am an aquarius woman, falling deeper and deeper in Love with a Scorpio man (Libra/Scorpio cusp). He has expressed romantic interest in me, but does this back/forth thing in communication which is extremely confusing. He is very aware of my feelings and is disciplined with his words, but has said that it is his mind that is keeping him from making a step into “relationship” realm. He is afraid to hurt me with his words and darker dispositions. I am also slow to trust (Capricorn moon. His moon is in Gemini) and he says he can feel me holding back, which seems to bother him.
I feel like if he was more consistent and reliable in terms of communication, I would be more apt to open up and show my depths. I would be less afraid of having my heart broken if I knew that we had a strong foundation of communication. I am patient and respect his time to himself, but it is hard to know if someone is reliable in Love and relationship when he goes in and out of contact so often. Any advice??
I am a 29 years old Aquarius who was in a relationship with a Scorpio for 7 years. The relationship was challenging and rocky and I always wanted to break up with him every month. The relationship was too tiring. In the beginning he did everything right but stopped once he had me. I continued to do everything to satisfy him. I guess I loved him too much and he never seemed to appreciate it, which lead to me being resentful and exhausted. I am a very successful woman and know that I deserve so much better. It was a power struggle and I was always on top but I had to fight. He called me King. I didn’t feel like a woman at all. He lived with me, I provided for everything. He was selfish and never contributed. I had to be like a mother to him and demand him to do his chores. He never showed that he cared, left me to go out with his friends. It’s like I was always single. He basically brought the ugly side out of me. I was once, so loving that I will give the person I love everything I had. He took advantage of me. Our last year together we broke up for 6 months and he fought his way back into my life. He told me everything I wanted to hear. He said he changed, we went on vacation, he wanted a family and to get married. Well we tried for a month. I got pregnant and now he is nowhere to be found. Such a liar. I’m keeping the baby. Stay away from Scorpio men. They will suck the life out of you like a parasite. They run from their responsibilities and are better off alone. His first priority is his work for his own stability. Very manipulative too so don’t tell him everything. He will use everything you said or did against you even will withhold sex. With my pregnant self, I met a Capricorn who treats me like a woman and I fell head over heels for him. We can talk about everything and he is amazing in bed. I never once felt judged only respected by my Capricorn. He always manages to calm me down, a very old fashion hopeless romantic and he is younger then my Scorpio. He’s taking me to my prenatal checkups and I do not expect anything from him. He does it naturally. I’m falling in love my Capricorn because he is so caring and giving like me. As for my Scorpio Ex, I want to take him to the cleaners and make him suffer the rest of his life for turning me into a monster. We have a love hate relationship but I do not want to raise the baby in that type of environment. So I’m leaving the Scorpio alone. Amazing how people can change you. I’m sweet as can be with my Capricorn and evil to my Scorpio at the same time. It’s like an allergic reaction. Never thought I had an evil side in me until I met my Scorpio. The social experiments we did on each other were damaging. The tests were constant and challenging. We went through too much that settling down with each other wasn’t an option because we both became resentful towards each other. We both gave up in the end. Shouldn’t have wasted so much tears, time or energy with the Scorpio.
dear Aquarius Soap -
I’m a Capricorn woman in love with an Aquarius…thanx 4 sharing your experience (and your positive review of the Capricorn lover
)) I’ve seen that happen several times…Aquarius involved with Scorpio, suffers a lot (hospitalized in some cases) and then moves on to happiness with a Capricorn. (e.g. Nicolas Sarkozy – married to Scorp, had nervous brkdwn, moved on to Cap Carla Bruni, now happy)
Wish you two all the best! and hope you will be able to let go of the pain…
belle cap
Aquarius Soap,
Good choice! Yes, Capricorn is a way better match for us Aquarians.. even Cancers, too
I’ve never dated a Scorpio, but I’ve been into astrology for like 3-4 years now (because of a pisces ex lol), but something I’ve picked up from all Scorpio men who have been interested in me is that they have this diluted sense of chase with me. I only want to be their friends. I told one guy I would end up hurting his feelings and that I would crash him down if he ever got heated with me. Another Scorpio…. who might need a restraining order.. did want to show me off. Actually, both of them did. They both wanted to whisk me away for traveling and sex. I told the second man that he will NEVER get to have me and he can chase all he wants. Sometime denial is stronger than the truth. Truth is – I am repulsed by his manipulative ways, fake stories, and women that he sleeps with who “know” he sleeps around – he picks the broken women to have carefree sex with. I think he is persistent because no, I will never sleep with him, and also because I call him out on his game! I don’t think Aquarius should EVER be with a Scorpio. We’re too smart lol
I never knew in a million years that I would fall for a scorpio being that I’m an aquarius. My first experince was bad we always argued but the sex was great. I found one who satisfy all my want’s needs and desires. I married my compatiable match which is a sagitarius and we ended badley. My point is it dosen’t matter the sign at all if you take the time out to understand the person your willing to be with that’s when things will become easier.
Am aqua woman,being dating a scorp for five years n he’s been most caring always been there for me. Strangely all i want is to end things maybe cos he’s gotten to act(not in a bad way) like he owns me, like he’s doesnt have to try too hard or get jealous over me and i dont like it. I met n fell in love an aqua a couple of months ago,he says its mutual but we cant be together cos he doesnt know wat he wants. So i’ve been concentrating on tryin to return the scorp’s feelings for me so far dats bin hard even though he’s a good man. Is it just me or do aquas always look in all the wrong places for love?
you dont really need astrology or the stars to handle your love life. a persons’character shows through his actions.
and words dont mean much in this world, without action to back it up. a person can easily persuade and manipulate any human being into love, but the most obvious is to look at their actions and character. also, look to yourself too, if you’re even worth it.
so true… heheheh!
Is a sorp and Aquo score really 11 out of 10.
this would make them the best match for each other?
I am an aquarius woman and Ive dated two different scorpios , the first one was very much a follower and had no ambition and the other was very strong , assertive and a leader type . the second scorpio was more of a match for this aquarius woman because i like a strong man , i like someone i can be submissive with . with most of my relationships i was always the one in control and for a change i get to sit back and enjoy . Like most aquarian women im very intelligent and independant . and so is he . I believe we are a great match together . the only issue is we both hide our deep love for one another in fear of being hurt or giving up the control in the relationship . however i feel we both are teaching eachother how to navigate thru this and are both slowly revealing our true feelings for one another .All i know is i have a great love and respect for my scorpio and i will always adore him .he is a very special man indeed .
If there is anyone who is an aquarius woman , married to a scorpio man for several years pls say what the secret is that keeps you together….feedback pls….or what sealed the deal for him … I NEED HIM TO PUT A RING ON IT !!!!!!
I ve read a lot of comments abt the matching some good /some bad . some seem to have the same experience as i , some not . I see a lot of responses from mostly aquarian women not to much from the scorpio men .I want to know do they agree with this or do they have some feedback ..
@jbrown…i am a scorp man …lol …..the reason cud be due to shyness and not knowing how to navigate such depht of emotion in the reel world. bewilderment. almost like being in a china shop and not wanting to b a bull. but the chick has to break out of d shell eventually.
@neal . thanks for the comment , but im a little confused. are u saying the scorpio or the aquarius should come out the shell.you said the chick which should be me the aquarius, has to break out of the shell . however , im not shy at all . he has been made aware of everything pretty much and the response has been slow going . I get positive reaction abt it but no action. I think there are other issues at play here and mr. scorpio isnt sure . they do say you scorpios do take a longtime when it comes to love and trusting someone .the funny thing is im as loyal and trustworthy as they come ,i dont cheat , im honest , sometimes to honest .I think he is just scared of commitment and he’s more than likely been hurt before.But i think he should go with his own feeling . you know what i mean no pressure … but ,in the process im growing weary …whats up with that???
i need more input from scorpio males out there who are dating aquarius women and whats your spin on the match are we compatible ? or are we not ?
I am an aquarius woman who have been dating a scorpio man for 3 yrs..When we first met we hit it off good cause he is very intelligent as myself he is a verrrry STRONG person he’s caring ,understanding, and he has the best sex drive ever! That’s some of the good traits but after awhile of dating he became very jealous ,possessive, and controlling he always keep a time schedule of everything I do and I hate that. I am older than him but he is really mature to be his age. He wants a baby and i want to give him one but under these conditions I don’t think I can tolerate his a$$ long enough for a child. I love him and I’m in love with him but I cant just have a baby to say I have a baby I need to Know if the scorpio man is worth fighting to keep a relationship with to even raise a child together if someone have any advise on how to handle these crazy creatures can you please give me some advise lol
U couldn’t have said it better “if you are smart women and men says”…..
im attracted to a scorp & when he is with me i feel like he cares for me.When he is gone i just do not understand.
Ive been in love with a scorpio 15 years. We dont talk everyday, which sometimes hurts my feelings. (yes aquariuns have feelings.) But wh we n we do, its like we never missed a beat. No, we are not in a relationship bt we sure act like it. Out of this whole time, we’ve only had one argument. Yes it was horrible. I didnt speak to him for 12 of those 15 years. I finally called him, dealt with the tongue lashing, now we are back to where we were. Im doing all this studying of the scorpio male because I never want to lose him again. Oneday I will tell him how I feel. Something inside me says thats what hes waiting for. I am eager for his pissessiveness. Been a free bird too damn long.
I am an aquarius 2/3 had a fight with my scorpio man 11/12 last night. He isnt responding to my calls and messages. We have had so many ugly fights in our 1 year relationship. And i have loved him unconditionally through all this.I have researched a lot on ” scorpio man aquarius woman” compatibility and think astrologers dont find possibilities of happiness in our combination.I have had a terrible and horrible experience with my ex who was also a scorpio 11/3.He crushed my self esteem and made me hate myself at that point. He blamed me for every mistake in our relationship.He was helluva abusive man and flirtatious.He made me believe that i was a bad person.He had affair with more than 6 women.And like it has been mentioned before by many other aquarian women that scorpio men will suck the energy out of you.He was a grey scorpio or a lizard.They keep you on your toes.My ex knocked me up and gave up on me saying that i dont “deserve” a future with him.He was more cold than an ice.I used to have nervous breakdowns and felt like a pathetic loser.Been an aquarian i know others here will understand how much we love our freedom and self respect.That was the limit and i showed him the door got an abortion and tried hard to gain back my self esteem and confidence. I never heard from him again.I was single for 2 years and then i met this amazing evolved eagle scorpio 5 years my junior (my current bf). There was so much connection and he was so attentive.I used to pour out my heart to him.He used to understand better than all the friends from my age group.Then the texting began and we used to text all night long.He never tried to flirt or get naughty.I fell for him eventually and once i called him at night all vulnerable and weak and asked for a hug.He was comforting me and i felt so close to him and out of no where i uttered “can i kiss u on the lips?” .He immediately asked back ” alisha,do you love me?” My heart skipped a beat.I replied ” yes” with my cheeks all red. He said ” i love yo too “. And thus began our journey of love. We discovered some good and some not so good qualities about eachother. We started having fights after just 2 months of our relationship but i can say even today that not once have i felt less loved by him.He is extremely possessive and has helluva temper.No abuses but.We might have broken up 1000 times but we always come back to each other. I am absent minded and often forget important dates ( and many more little things which i am sure nancy will agree to) but he remembers each and every date including our first conversation.And he hates that i dont remember them
.We always let each other know that how much we love after an ugly fight.He is sexy,smart,loyal,intelligent,strong willed,sugar voice n omg sex is dynamic.He is everything i lack and i am everything he lacks.We complete each other. I hurt him very much last night with my stubborn attitude and ego when actually he did something very sweet for me. I hope he comes back to me I just love him too much.
i am back with my scorpio
even though it was a crazy fight. I thought he gave up on me but he loves me a lot and he proved it. He cant let go of me thats what he said and it melted my heart.Well i hope we are good for now but cant predict about future and i can say we are going to fight again very soon 
but its just crazy how we cant stay away too long.Its mutual and feels so great.I just love him to death.I am so glad to see so many aqua women getting together n expressing themselves.Generally i dont come across many aqua women so that we can have a heart to heart about how people specially astrologers keep insisting that we are freedom lovers,our mind travels in the space and how we hate being tied down and we dont pay attention during discussions and fights like our mind is million miles away.And how we believe in live and let live and dont ever get possessive or jealous.I am not in complete denial that we are all of those but its like judging the book by its cover.We are much more complex and it might seem that there is no explanation to our behavior but there is.People dont understand why we suddenly become quite during a fight and why we leave( specially when u have a scorpio partner he/she would drive u crazy n insist u argue back). We cant stand someone screaming at us and sometimes giving explanation and expressing becomes hard when the other person is trying to penetrate your mind. We aquarians guard our innermost feelings with walls bigger than the great wall of china.We hardly let anybody in not even close family members.We have friends,family,husband,wife,children but rest assured we will never share 100%. As for being a lover,wife and gf i think we aqua girls are very much capable of loving with burning intensity and passion.We pay attention to what our lover says and does.We are capable of sacrificing our love for freedom for the man we find worthy of it.That is why we do so many experiments and stay aloof while “reading a man” and finding his potentialities of being Mr.Right for whom we will happily play a doting housewife and mother of his kids.We can be extremely jealous and possessive.We need a man whom we can respect intellectually because we get bored sooooo easily.I have had brief affairs with all the sunsigns when i was in experimental age.I can tell you that the only signs who have been able to stay friends with me through all these years are scorpios,taurus,virgo,leo and libra.I could never find a challenging and interesting man.I used to lose interest very easily.Then came along scorpio man.He is every bit of a challenge and walking talking puzzle.We aquas love puzzles.Its so difficult to read their minds and predict their actions(initially) but we aqua can reach to the depth where he knows nobody ever went.He knows i understand his tantrums,his excuses,his mind games.I know that if ever i get stranded on an island( the blue lagoon is one of my fantasies) i want my scorpio man to give me company because i know all other signs will bore me to death.I think aqua-scorpio relationship can be great if they both honestly give it a chance instead of being judgmental and fussy.Both parties are very egoistic,stubborn and bad tempered which creates half of the problem.Dont try to boss eachother or hurt with silence treatment.Keep your ego and temper in control and be genuine around him.These men have great sense n they will know when you are pretending or acting around them.We aqua are givers so show him that u care( and we really do) and that u never want to let go and trust me he will come around. Scorpios never forget an act of kindness,loyalty and love.Love him unconditionally and overlook his little flaws and you’ll experience the kind of love which cant be described in words.Its just heavenly! 
alisha,ur 101% right!plz ladies just tell ur scorps dat how much u luv him n i guerantee u dat he’l luv u more dan u do.the scorps r most compatible with the aquas bt only if an element of compromise is there at frst…later everything will b heavenly!!m a scorp n luv an aqua gal so beleive me n try my wordz!!
Thank you alisha, I thought i was the only aquarius who thought that we get a bad rep . I also disagree with some astrologers i believe that we are one of the most faithful /loyal signs there is . I personally have never cheated on any person ive dated. Im not one who plays around .Im actually not as much a social butterfly as they say . I dont hang out very often. we have a lot of friends due to we have a friendly disposition.I think people confuse having a lot of friends of the opposite sex means you are romantically involved .Dont get me wrong I have a lot of admirers who are friends but i have no interest in them on a romantic level. I agree with you we are definatelly lovers and not fighters . we love very hard just like a scorpio does .and we personally try not to hurt the ones we love. because our words can be very lethal.we know how to hit below the belt. like they say we are very intelligent and we know you get more bees with honey not vinegar.scorpios want us to be strong and stand up to them but they dont like scenes/ curse words/ slang / loud screaming. etc . but they want to see that you do have a backbone and that you will stand up for something you believe in . I agree with everything you stated about us aquarian women.people have us so wrong . we are complex individuals just like scorpios . I think thats why we work so well together .I KEEP HEARING FOR THAT OUR MATCH TO WORK WE HAVE TO COMMUNICATE OUR FEELINGS VERY OFTEN.I want to thank you again for that information you provided i think is great advice .but in all honesty love is too weak a word to define just what he means to me .I hope and wish you the best with your scorpio if it is as great as mines i know you are in absolute heaven .Wish both of you the best
hi, i am 27 years old aqua woman and very much interested in scorpios.Nancy i have questions for you.Why did u rate scorpio man-aquarius woman 11/10? i mean on what basis? And also please throw some light on the love triangle of late lady diana ( cancer),prince charles(scorpio) and camilla parker(cancer).It really confuses me that why he cheated on his lovely cancerian wife and drove her to do crazy things to be with another cancerian woman with whom he had long time affair. Then there is film director Martin Scorsese ( scorpio) married 5 times and there is commitment phobic film actor Leonardo DiCaprio( scorpio, yummmmm if he’s not gay
) who is 37 and still not married and keeps on changing women which i have lost track of after his break up with blake lively. And there is bollywood actor Shah Rukh Khan ( u mentioned him in scorpio-scorpio compatibility) who is married to same woman from past 20 years.I dont get these men! what makes them tick? some are damn flirtatious some are into long term commitment. How to know you are with the right scorpio ? damn they are all so charming…
i need help.i m an aquarian girl infatuated with a scorpion guy for as long as 3 years…i love d way he looks.those eyes.they r magnetic..v dnt talk bt yet once i found him staring deep into my eyes as if he was readin me..the stare was pretty intense..can anybody tell me why n whn do scorpions stare so deeply…?
you have been infatuated to him since last 3 years !! girl u need to step up and say hello and y u both never talked??? 3 years is a long time.His stare cud mean a lot of things like ” woman u r being too loud ” or he is fascinated by ur beauty or he just lusts for u.They stare hard coz they r trying to read u inside out..trying to reach ur very soul n penetrate ur mind.Or may be he gets the same vibe from u n gets confused y u rnt doing anything abt it.If he stares at u stare him back ( not in a scary way) like to show that u hv noticed n u r interested too.Personally i can never wait 3 long years playing peak a boo with a guy.Have u thought that he might be married or has a gf??U said ” once u found him staring at u ” means he never looked at u in those 3 yrs?? Girl this is depressing!! we aqua women r so confident,sexy n charming then y this apprehension?? First thing first find out his relationship status.If he is single then go forth n flirt a bit with him ( not in a gross way n no provocative clothing plss) .Dont sound too needy n pls oh pls dont act like a smitten cat infront of him.Become frndz with him still maintaining the mystery.Dont lay down ur cards all at once.Dress in ur best n be at ur best ladylike behavior n then see whr it goes frm there..even if he isnt romantically interested in u atleast u’ll make friends with him which is so much better than the staring games.Or else u start playing the staring game too..we aquas r also good at staring..sometimes its just a far away look like we r lost in space but no harm in trying( but not in a dorky way..be sexy about it)…enjoy flirting
Title says it all, story goes im intoxicated and HOOKED. Im female, AQUA with cancer moon, so a little more emotional than your usual cool aqua customer. This guy is scorpio and man ohh man what a guy. Love/lust/ at first sight for me..and since that day 18 months ago, Ive been on an obsessive journey, which is sooo un-aqua and more scorpio-like! He is single, so am I. hes playing it cool, so ‘friends’ ….so am i. Hes met his match. And boy we know it. We are Currently in chess check-mate.
If he was tobacco I would smoke him.
I imagine him in bed. I KNOW he will be my best ever …. and he knows it I know we will not be able to stop. … and he knows it. BUT it hasn’t even begun. But boy when it does — it will be eternal
These two signs are obsessed with each other.Ask me,I’ve dated like 8 scorpios,some for fun and some for feelings.I’m going steady with a new scorpio for 5 months and god we are all over each other.No matter how much i try to control it all fails the moment he calls me,touches me and looks at me.And sex is amazing, its like he wants to explore each and every corner of my body just like he does with my mind.And nothing about his touch and kisses can be plain.Its simply out of the world experience.He is wild and you better save up all your energy because he would want to go all night long one session after another and i’m not complaining
and during the session he says things like..”i want to die f***ing you,” i will f**k you till u cant walk”, looking straight into my eyes and it so turns me on.He likes to sleep naked with me and man i’m intoxicated too.These men are as fatal as cocaine or heroine and once you have tasted them you’ll get addicted.And aquarian ladies we may be weak in the department of attachment but we are so powerful in the bed and take it from me as i have been with scorpios they say that i top their list of best sex.They couldn’t get enough of me and kept craving for more.I even had a nasty fight with one scorpio where i ended up calling him names.I hate doing that but the situation got out of control.He has huge EGO so i thought now he’s never going to see my face again.But he started chasing me after a month dropping texts,emails saying that no girl could match up to me and he is willing to forget everything because we cant throw away such good sex.He stalked me for about 4 months everyday but i was scared it was all to get back at me for hurting him so i never bothered to reply but man he was nuts about me.So girls they may be sex gods but trust me we can so make them to secretly worship us in bed. Secret..we never say no to his kinky games.We are equally powerful 
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great read water bearer!! And sooo true about us aqua girls! Private in public -public in private, and may I say ever so slightly ‘kinky’
This has made me slightly more impatient as I lust him soo fricking much. But you know what, I can wait light years, and I believe it will happen to me like ‘BAM’ I don’t expect it to be smooth, he’s a firm, confident fixed ‘im always right ‘ scorpio.. and hey guess what… I mirror this. Fixed, confident. right. but aqua LOL omph …boy this is gonna be F.U.N.
But this flower bends in the wind. I can take the tornadoes. My only scary anticipation is the honesty might get under my skin as im very sensitive to critisism – and I know scorps speak their mind “oh yer your arse is big in that dress” statement from a scorpio isnt hurt to them — its honesty. Aqua mite translate this as devastating.
hey ho… this is gonna be a discovery Never had a scorpio man, ever. But had experience of Leo (self-centered attention seekers) and Gemini (moody-b*strds) a bit of virgo (stop-frickin-cleaning-will-you!!!!!!) so scorp will, I hope be perfect
So you find yourself here – maybe trying to learn about your scorpio man to be, or wondering if your current match is healthy. Im a gorgeus (wink) Aqua female, welcome to my FB
You’re prob aware of the scorpy sting right? Yep, its true what they say… they do have a sting and a big one at that. I have not known a scorpio male without one, some might use it weekly, some, maybe once a year. But what is universal is their ‘bitchiness’ you think women can be bitchy? O.M.G, scorpio males are fantastic at being one of the girls… they love a good bitchfest – about what people said/wore/did/ because scorpio KNOW they can and DO know better. Scorpio men can pull anything off like a pro.. ask them style advice, you would swear you had met an Oscar stylist, ask them relationship advice, you’d swear you were sitting with Dr Phil DAMN! they dont get anything WRONG!
They turn up at a function like a bad-ass rock star. Knowing they are the best there even before turning up — they will have an air of authority, confidence, and look like they sleep with 200 women a week. but DONT BE FOOLED! Lets unpeel this fellow shall we?
All this confidence is a theatrical mask, because underneath you will discover a rather secretive, shy man. The reality is they very rarely enjoy casual sex, (lets say they might, but prefer sex with love) Some even are happy being celebate for a long long while.
They get re-born a number of times. By that I mean they will spring back from a major illness (caused by their lack of healthy lifestyle) and they can re-invent themselves successfully
So, stick them with an aqua female and what do you get?
DA BOMB!!!!
Yes thats right, Y’see there is soo much out there that aqua/scorp are bad, they are actually wrong. What they mean is that its SOOOOO BAD its fking GOOD. Together we are like Sherlock Holmes and Dr Watson, Bonnie & Clyde.. ONLY AQUAS caan undrstnd scorp because we are cut from the same cloth.
I’ve been with my share of scorpio men.I am friends with 4 of them and engaged to 1 right now since 1 year.I have been with other zodiac signs aswell.First of all be with an evolved scorpio, an eagle who has practiced and learnt to control his flaws over the years and wont sting you to death(cussing,beating,throwing things,stalking and seeking revenge).And also his upbringing matters A LOT believe me it helps.It will still be there underneath but toned down.He will have better ways to handle his anger and way of seeking revenge will be less hurtful.I have met foul mouth,over confident,doing drugs and drowning themselves in alcohol,devil may care scorpios aswell.All of them who never learnt anything at home.Their parents had no control over them.Who dominated their parents( by emotional blackmailing and threats).Now my big advice is run away immediately before they give you the worst experience of your life unless you like danger and playing with explosives.They are grey lizards and they will make your life hell.If you are smart enough and learn to separate evolved one from an unevolved one then great.Evolved eagles are much easier to get along.They are sensitive,caring,super intelligent,suave,best dressed,mild mannered.Now they have all that scorpio traits too but they know how to handle them better than grey lizards.He’s shy yes,he’s secretive yes,he’s sensitive yes.I believe i have met scorpio men who are much much more emotional and loyal than scorpio women.I find scorpio women wandering for attention more than male scorpio.I will only talk about evolved scorpios and not ones who beat,cuss and are behind bars.I dont believe that scorpio men hurt deliberately.They never go on inviting troubles.Be soft spoken and display charm,affection and be a lady.Dont talk straight out of your a$$ and behave like you know it all.Although they like strong and confident woman they dont like ones who are trying to hog the limelight and pushing everyone else aside.Career is important yes but so is he.I know sometimes we are bilnded by love.If he likes you girl he will express it and display it and you better embrace it and return it with same intensity.On the other hand if he has withdrawn in his shell,shuts down,withholds sex and emotions means either you have hurt him a lot or he is suffering and struggling inside trying to find a way to let you go.He might stray that time in trying to find a window.But believe me no matter how many women he has bed he will never ever forget the girl he loved most and who broke his heart.Dont think you can say anything to him in fit of anger and get away with it.He will hold it against you..painfully.
The man in question I am SURE is an evolved scorpio, not a grey lizard. I do have experience of a lizard – my father. He is absolutely a very bad example of male scorpio. Not about an abusive lifestyle (booze etc) BUT being incredibly controlling, massive temper, vindictive, anger, controlled his parents, etc etc etc, but at the same time has a huge caring heart. The man I want is a very late scorpio baby 18th Nov, his personality does not reflect my fathers but I DO noticE some tiny (good) similarities – confident, successful, popular, v v verrrry good looking, with wicked wicked eyes that kill u with one stare. I cannot even imagine him losing it like my father does – he seems far more relaxed and nonchalant about everything. But then scorpio has a ‘behind closed doors’ personality – their public persona can be sooooo different to the public face UNLESS they decide to lose the plot in public which does happen with my father. Not caring who might look or hear his temper tantrum
Yes,they are famous for holding grudges.Remedy? Have patient and a lot of it!! If he really means that much to you then be ready to prove it to him that you are on his side no matter what.Show him he will never find you gone even when there is tornado,tsunami,earthquake.He will see through you so be honest it.Being with a scorpio is a lot of work and of course you have to be cautious as he is damn sensitive.He wont like a big mouth,greedy,lazy and disorganized female.If he has shut down be patient and dont force him to talk.Let your actions speak for you.Let him observe you and your silent dedication.Do little things for him and be gentle,suck up to him,write him little notes,compliment him.Please dont be clingy and stand on his head for answers.It will not help.And if you must know then be prepared with a first aid box to nurse your wound because he will be brutally frank about it and it doesnt matter to him if its rude or bruises you.Women with quick temper and less patience please note SCORPIO is not meant for you.If he has hurt you probably because you have hurt him first.If he isnt talking think what you have said or done to deserve it.Nagging and crying wont help if he doesnt want to be with you.If the man wants to marry you he will say it,if he loves you he will say it,if he wants to f@#k you yes baby he’ll say that too.If he isnt its probably because he doesnt want to.Dont be in any delusion.He will declare his love,propose,show you around,introduce you to family and friends If he is serious otherwise you may get cunningly manipulated into becoming an affair or mistress so learn to take a hint.He gives and he gives a lot when he is in love and he takes it all away painfully when he finds you are not worth it.In that case best thing to do is to move on because you wont be able to handle his cold behavior.
sorry,i meant patience in the first line,typing mistake
Hey Mrs Scorpio soon 2b, you are sooo right on so many points I am so unusually warm and close/affectionate/cuddly/loving for a typical aqua female. I just want him to damn well, get on with it give me a heavy hint, ask me to dinner, etc.. , but hes holding back. He has been hurt, it seems, whilst joking about marriage in a general group conversation, he said “omg, no way, NEVER again” .. so by that reply, some ex has let him down. I want to tell him so bad “Ill never hurt you”!!! I feel I am already loving him. Yes, you are right especially on the point re: sensitivity, and us aqua females are sensitive & fragile too. I am prepared for his silent gaps, even though I am a little impatient, I can deal with my finger tapping & clockwatching, I can wait, i will wait
I think he is such deep thinker, he knows how I feel. He maybe enjoys making me hang on maybe?? Maybe he enjoys being adored/fancied He is def single, without a doubt, and is at work A LOT (almost always weekend too) so there really is no room for a girl ‘at home’ waiting for him — of course as im at work too, there is no risk of us being apart lots
Anyway I dont want to flood the thread with my personal mission. I will check back here when some progress has been made, or indeed if I have CAPTURED HIM!!!!! — (taking the advice above) wouldnt it be amazing to finally get that first kiss?? I think so! LET THE LOVE STORY COMMENCE xxx
Funny you mention tornadoes. I reached out to my scorpio on fb, since we were n the line of sum major weather. I tol him I luvd him…n shit didnt look too good fo us. I got a text from him sayn remove the post wit no explanation. Havent heard from him since. I blocked him n everybodt we know together. I gives no damn, dont deny me, or act like u ashamed of me. N since us Aquarius are known for shakin the scene quick when we feel some off shit….i can ppretty sure say im done.
READ THIS ON ANOTHER WEBSITE ABOUT SCORPIO MEN BY A SCORPIO LADY AND I AGREE WITH HER ON MANY POINTS SO I HOPE ALL THOSE AQUARIAN LADIES TRYING TO CAPTURE THE ATTENTION AND HEART OF A MALE SCORPIO WILL FIND IT USEFUL. I GOT ONE FOR MYSELF AND FOR KEEPS
HOPE YOU GET YOURS TOO
Okay…I’m a Scorpio Woman who has also happened to date more than a few Scorpio men and the reason so many of you posting here are SO frustrated is because you are looking at his behavior in what YOUR perception is of his behavior.
A Scorpio man OR woman is going to have a “secretive” side that you will never touch. This isn’t because they don’t trust you nor because they’re lying. It’s just part of who they are. A safe zone in their minds to retreat to. This is important for Scorps to have to NOT become moodier, darker, or retract within their defenses.
Although I’m sure there are Scorpio men who cheat…don’t mistake their sexual interest/ passion/ almost obsession with sex as an an indicator of whether he’ll cheat or not.
He’s much like a woman in terms of sex. He may act like sex is most important to him (and it is) but it’s not for the reasons any other man behaves that way. He has natural problems feeling intimacy and has difficulty expressing his emotions/feelings toward you in words or actions OTHER than sex. A Scorpio man feels GREAT intimacy in sex and his interest/obsession with the sexual aspects of the relationship are not because he is a player or doesn’t want emotional intimacy. That’s how he achieves it and shows it to you most easily (at least that is what he thinks he’s doing and is intending).
Scorpios in general are very physical and very sexual. Never mistake their sexual nature for being disloyal, not wanting commitment, or being a shallow player. You’ll be worrying yourself over nothing because he’s MUCH too selective to be a manwhore.
If he’s selected YOU…. it’s because he already knows there is both a sexual AND emotional connection. He’s more perceptive than the average man which is both good and bad. Your regular feminine wiles won’t work on him. He’ll know which are sincere and which are not.
Arguments, psychology, and logic won’t budge him an inch (I know this because those things don’t budge ME an inch even as a Scorp woman).
But what is really at the heart of all that is that they are MORE emotional and MORE likely to fall in love than others. And more quickly, too. So they are terrified of sharing feelings or losing control in the traditional way and essentially “clam up”.
A Scorpio isn’t moved by tears or ultimatums. You’ll lose even if they love you with all your heart. BUT….
They respect a person who stands up from themselves and who states clearly what they do and do not want.
State clearly what you want and need and DON’T point out his shortcomings. Just state your needs, let it drop, and give them a couple of days to ponder what you said.
A Scorp who loves you doesn’t want to lose you…. they just don’t want to be “bullied” into changing for you. But if you make it clear that you’re unhappy about X and let it drop….their secret fear of you leaving them will override their pride/inability to share feelings/inability to “lose” and they will suddenly change their behavior (in your favor) out of the blue to make sure to keep you. And they won’t forget or screw that particular thing up again.
This works the same for a male OR female Scorpio.
1. Never try to make a Scorp jealous. They’re already jealous by nature and this will drive them away and make them not trust you in general.
2. Never insult their intelligence with trickery, reverse psychology, or insincere flattery/flirting. They’ll have immediate disdain for you.
3. Never try to be “coy” when asking them something or trying to get them to share feelings.
What you SHOULD do:
1. Make it obvious you have your own mind…but don’t push your opinions on them. Be someone they can respect because that’s a HUGE part of their romantic interest in you.
2. Be sexy and passionate in mind and body (meaning you don’t have to super-attractive, just confident and have an open/healthy attitude about sex)
3. Do NOT flirt unless you MEAN IT! If you insult their intelligence with fake flattery or meaningless flirts, they will remember it in the future if you try to pursue them for romance later down the road or become genuinely interested. Do point out their strong points in simple, honest ways. IE: “You are clearly really well-suited for the field you work in” (no fancy nonsense)
4. Big “DO” that people forget because Scorpio seems so moody and serious: A SENSE OF HUMOR!! Scorpio appreciates dry/sarcastic humor more than you can imagine and especially in a woman they like. Even though you’d think this would backfire…it WON’T. They equate humor with intelligence and Scorpio men LOVE intelligence in a woman
5. Hug them to show affection, but don’t lavish them with words, surprises, or too many gifts. They appreciate a “from the heart” gesture much more than the rest and big displays of affection embarrass them and make them uncomfortable.
6. You may think they’re arrogant…they’re not. Do NOT point out their flaws unless you MUST because Scorps are well aware of their flaws and already punish themselves for them. They just hide it with bravado and their secrecy/confident demeanor.
7. Dress sexy, not skanky….wear musky/exotic essential oils instead of perfume…. know a lot about the esoteric and even mythology… have a love for “how things work” and discuss it regularly. Scorpios love mystery and they’ll be intrigued that you understand the importance of solving a good mystery (or at least having interest in it).
8. When they act jealous (which is often) don’t be defensive…. just assure them by telling them there’s no one who compares to them to take their interest away. It will soothe them quickly and lay their suspicious to rest most often.
9. When a Scorp man does the famous “interrogation” to find out all about you/your past/your interests just stare him straight in the eye and answer honestly with no signs of remorse. Meaning…your honesty and a clear answer to his questions is what he cares about most… not the reasons you did things/like things or your level of “guilt”. He’ll respect your resolve and honesty and think you’re a “good woman” for it.
The comments about Scorpio men that are disparaging are mostly built on people truly NOT understanding him and THINKING that they do.
These men are HIGHLY sensitive, HIGHLY sexual, and very perceptive even when you think they aren’t listening. They know when you’re lying and although they’re honest… yes, they WILL be vindictive. You tell one lie…he’ll tell two. You manipulate him into something… he’ll manipulate you twice.
Playing normal “girl games” with this man will not work.
Confidence, resolve, and engaging his mind/body both intellectually and sexually will be what makes him swoon for you.
If you haven’t done those things…that’s why you’re failing to catch him or keep him interested/ loyal.
fox, I don’t think it’s 11 out of 10. I think it’s supposed to be read as 1 1/10th lol! Get that jealousy and possessiveness away from me!