Aries Woman and Scorpio Man Compatibility


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Wow! Talk about an explosive possibility. Aries-Scorpio could be the power couple of the century.  Aries, before you enter that Scorpio force field, please make sure you have your act together.  Your Scorpio counterpart will make a display of not noticing anything, but believe me nothing escapes Scorpio scrutiny.  This is someone who is looking for a partner to advance the agenda for success.  And Scorpio, be warned, you may have met your match here.  So don’t screw around, either.

How to Attract a Scorpio Man as an Aries Woman: Let me say it once again: have your you-know-what together. Please read the previous sentence one more time. Be prepared to impress your Scorpio target with an ability to react to whatever comes your way with self-possession and, if possible, use it to your advantage. This shows him that you are a major player and can help him in his climb to success. Concentrate on acts, not words. Don’t let him know you are trying to figure him out. That will make him disgusted. He likes to think he is inscrutable, and really he is.


How to Attract an Aries Woman as a Scorpio Man: You’ll have to be a challenge for this gal, but we don’t mean increasing your mysterious and subtle demeanor. In fact, you should take off the cape and lower the mask a little bit so she can get an idea of what you’re worth, then you can begin to engage her with your animal magnetism and come hither stares. Simon Bolivar, the famous South American conqueror, said, “In courtship, there can be no mistakes.” This statement is especially true when Scorpio courts Aries. It is better to do nothing than to make a false move, which could cost you game/match.

Degree of Romance: There is a great deal of energy exchanged in this relationship, but it is more likely to flow along the lines of posturing, and demonstrating mastery of the world and social situations. Romance is not particularly of interest because it is relatively powerless, though pleasant.  A Scorpio will tend to bring out another side of Aries where romance takes a back seat. Don’t worry. You won’t miss it because other exciting things will be going on.

Degree of Passion: Extreme! Talk about gilding a lily. There is probably no more passionate combination in the zodiac. This is so hot it could be hard to handle. This relationship is so steamy and intense that the two of you will withdraw from your circle of friends, leaving them curious as to what is going on. While this is customary for Scorpio, it may seem strange to Aries.  How could you possibly put it into words?

Degree of Friendship: The loyalty between this pair can be sensational. You are both aiming for big goals in life, and the possibility of commitment is good, but so is the possibility of betrayal. This pair plays for keeps. There is little tolerance for mistakes. It’s more intense than the average friendship, but it is a tight partnership aimed toward common goals.

Degree of Marriage: There is a reasonable possibility of marriage with this combination, though it will tend to settle into a life-long partnership without the sanction of marriage. If you two bond, it is likely to last forever, and with that going on, it is not always necessary to get it on paper.


Progression of Relationship: This relationship gets off to a fast start and maintains a brisk pace until bonding occurs. Aries, expect to be tested. If you pass the trial, the Scorpio’s intentions will be clear.

Sex: Scorpio gets Aries to focus and Aries gets Scorpio to lose control. Think of the thrills. Both signs push the limits of everything, and sex is no exception.

When It’s Over: The end of this relationship can be absolutely devastating. Aries ends in a fiery Gotterdammerung; Scorpio ends in icy disdain. Neither will be interested in maintaining contact with the other if the bond is broken — it’s an all or nothing scenario.   Scorpio may test, but Aries had better not unless looking for nine innings of hardball. And no ultimatums, please.  Scorpio walks away when given an ultimatum.

Our Rating: 10/10

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50 Responses to Aries Woman and Scorpio Man Compatibility

  • Gen says:

    I fell in love with a scorpio man and its been great! I love that i cant figure him out, and he loves how he cant figure me out. We’re both mysterious, and we both want to be dominate but at the end we agree to share a degree of dominence, In the bedroom its a complete different story, it can last for hours and never get old, were both passionate and understand each others needs. I understand i cant control him, and he definetly cant control me. But together were a perfect couple.

  • in bliss says:

    I am currently dealing with a Scorpio male and it has been amazing. It is different for me that he is so dominate but I like it. Its a change for me but even more of a turn on for him when i resist. The relationship is great over he is a lot of fun and very in to me. He is mysterious in some ways but so am I. The relationship is full of Spontaneous moment which works alright for us.

  • ArianWoman Desires Scorpio Male says:

    I have dated a Scorpio man and it has ended badly…I think he is still wanting to take revenge on me. I wish I knew all these things before we fell apart. Because I still love him but I dont think and he totally ignores me.
    Now I am dating another scorpio male who isnt at all the same as the first. No breath being taken away, no intense passion on my part, sex is so-so. What to do?

  • Aries woman says:

    I have dated two scorpios in my life. One I have two children with and I left him because he cheated. The other one was the love of my life as a child. We always remain close and I never had any issues in which other people experience. It does not always goes by your sign but by the individual that you are involved with.

  • jane says:

    I have been in a relationship with a scorpio man for 2 years now, all i can say is it is perfect. when it is good it is really good but when we had fights it can be very nasty.

  • Lady J says:

    I’m an aries currently in a relationship with a scorpio man. We have been dating on and off for 6 years. And it is awesome he is definately the male version me once we made the agreement to make the relationship exclusive it has been awesome he does not hide how he feels about me and it’s nice to have my gaurd down for a change. cross your fingers for me. XOXOXOXO

  • kiki says:

    Aries in love with a Scorpion who cheated on me with his ex and ex-girlfriend cheated on him with other men,,Help?

  • Alan says:

    Some of this is completely true while i will have to disagree with the part about trying to figure out a scorpio it just depends on how they are rasied

  • BB says:

    I am now involved with a scorpio man and it is great. I have never felt this degree of passion before with another. He is a great person with a great heart whom I love very very much.

  • Claudia says:

    Involved with a scorpio for four years, most of that time in icy distance but the emotional bond is overpowering for us both. this is an emotional bond no one can break. it is a matter of time, but once we both understand the bond is so strong, we will start to come toward each other and not fight each other. but this initial hurdle is very difficult to overcome. damn him!!! :-)

  • Monique says:

    Lady J :
    I’m an aries currently in a relationship with a scorpio man. We have been dating on and off for 6 years. And it is awesome he is definately the male version me once we made the agreement to make the relationship exclusive it has been awesome he does not hide how he feels about me and it’s nice to have my gaurd down for a change. cross your fingers for me. XOXOXOXO

    Type your comment here Best wishes!

  • Monique says:

    Best wishes!

  • Monique says:

    I am a Aries female who just started to date a Scorpi. He is intelligent, considerate, and understanding. I hope it work out. We seem to have a lot of chemistry!

  • AriesChica says:

    Monique…BEWARE of the CONTROL!!!!
    I have dated 4 Scorpios (don’t know why we attract so much). I am with one now and I see a constant trend…control, moody, acts like he wants you to be all over him then when you do he acts like he doesn’t want you to be, plays a lot of mind games. In the beginning you felt you met your knight and being an Aries we are pretty tough…once they got you they take advantage. They are very Angels and yet the Devil in desquise at the same time (almost bi-polar). Scorpios like to end a relationship when they want to and start it back up when they want to. Mind you I said start it back up because they rarely are totally GONE! Being an Aries they love we thrive off of success and are natural Go Getters and they want to be a part of that. When they leave and come back and see we are not unscathed they say Damn she can survive without me?? (not knowing we cried a million times are were VERY hurt about the break up regardless if we NEEDED to break up for good reasons). Well when they notice we still look good and are doing great they try to start again. The key is to always stand your ground..dont be so harsh..let them know you know ALL games that are being played (if any)..ALWAYS LOOK GOOD for them. Damn it I could barely wear jogging pants they always want you to be the center of attention when you step out. But all in all I can go on but before I leave…all of the Scorpios I have met were liars and manipulators yet I love them so!

    Sorry hard to explain ;0)

    Best of luck!

  • Heartbroken Aries says:

    One month ago my relationship with my Scorpio man ended. The day before our 1 year anniversary I had to break up with him. We were in a long distance relationship and so much was going on in our lives. I thought being that I was there for him in his time of need he’ll be there for me. Wrong.

    He drastically changed & honestly I believe he lost interest in the LDR or basically grown tired of it. Instead of saying so he started ignoring me and when we did talk he was so insensitive. The more fiery I became the colder he became. The ending was a disaster & if you ask what happen to why we ended both our answers are “I don’t know”. But I don’t know why he changed and he just don’t know the reason I left cause I just called him on the phone one day & simply said “Its nothing between us”/

    Haven’t spoken to him since. I only tried to call him twice (emergency reason) and he ignored my phone calls. I had to contact his mother in order to get through. But it goes to show that they can be heartless when hurt. I don’t want to date another Scorpio. The passion was there & all, the relationship was imperfectly perfect. But that sting at the end. . .I don’t want to ever have to go through this again. . . .I may be saying this because I’m still obviously hurt.

    I just can’t believe how it seems as if they don’t care & love you once they feel they don’t want the relationship anymore.

  • Kristen says:

    Wow. These comments and I can relate to. I have been in an on again off again relationship with a Scorpio and they can get very cold and ignore you. The more an aries gets fiery the more icy they become is so true!!!! I love my scorpio though and cant get enough of him.

  • nikita says:

    i love dating my scorpio man..its so intense and never boring…ya its true when we clash..we clash..but the rest of it is pure bliss for me…me and him laughed when we read this because it is totally how we are to each other

  • jack says:

    Hello there people… Ok here we go lol I am a Scorpio male and my “friend” is an Aries female the 1st time i met her i said to myself “she the one” we get on so well together she live about 3 hours away from me and any time she is in my town where together, But the thing is my feelings for her is getting deep. I am very romantic to her which she say she don’t like but i have the funny feeling she does but just don’t let on. She has even said you know me to well and loves the fact i’m always there! Also she has said why am i the ONLY guy she let to get away with my cheesy lines and romance without getting a slap (haha) i respect her alot and have never tried it on (jump on her or kissed her)which is a 1st for me lol. But i really want this girl but she say she not looking for a boyfriend right now! She a busy proactive girl which i support 101% but i want to do this as her MAN!! HELPPPPPP should i just tell her how i feel and risk losing her or should i just hate her and turn my back like us Scorpion can do??

  • shaher yar says:

    hi..i m scorpio male and i m in love with aries woman …i m trying to make her fall in love with me but she is ignoring me from last two years ..but i m still waiting for her …every time i msg her or call she ignore me so plz kindly tell me what i should do to make her fall in love with me

  • Katrina says:

    Type your comment here

    jack :

    I am an aries girl and I think I fell in love with a Scorpio at first sight. Problem is, we live in different states, and communication is not getting off to a great start because neither one of us want to admit that we want to get it started because we are both so darn stubborn!

    Here’s what you do- just sit her down and be all manly and tell her that you want her as your woman and will stop at nothing to get her, whether she likes it or not. Be confident and dominant about it but with a smile on your face and not creepy or domestic violence or anything like that. Seriously, sounds extreme but that’s how you have to do it with Aries girls. In my experience I am always the “tough” one in the relationship and very rarely are any men more masculine than me. So when I meet my match who bosses me around and takes charge, I fall head over heels.

    It won’t scare her, guarantee it will turn her on. If she still isn’t into it, she never will be, and it’s best to leave her be. Best of luck my dear and PLEASE tell me what to do with this scoprio boy ;)

    Hello there people… Ok here we go lol I am a Scorpio male and my “friend” is an Aries female the 1st time i met her i said to myself “she the one” we get on so well together she live about 3 hours away from me and any time she is in my town where together, But the thing is my feelings for her is getting deep. I am very romantic to her which she say she don’t like but i have the funny feeling she does but just don’t let on. She has even said you know me to well and loves the fact i’m always there! Also she has said why am i the ONLY guy she let to get away with my cheesy lines and romance without getting a slap (haha) i respect her alot and have never tried it on (jump on her or kissed her)which is a 1st for me lol. But i really want this girl but she say she not looking for a boyfriend right now! She a busy proactive girl which i support 101% but i want to do this as her MAN!! HELPPPPPP should i just tell her how i feel and risk losing her or should i just hate her and turn my back like us Scorpion can do??

  • jeeeesi says:

    This is wicked! I am an aries woman and full on believer of signs of
    . Oi have many scorpios in my life, family. And friends
    and lovers. But not many of those lovers had I f
    elt so intensely about as I do for the guy I’m seeing now
    But they all have one thing in common. That amazing
    Fire between. This man now tho he just takes over and
    Takes charge. I’ve always been in relationships with
    Men who new how to control a situation. Dominates
    The circumstances and oh my I just turn to jelly with
    My guy. This is all very new and hope everything work
    Out…. Cause when I fall I fall hard and will stop at
    Nothing till I get what I want :)

  • Katrina says:

    ahhh I don’t know what to do! This Scorpio I literally fell in love at first sight and I started talking but then communication just stopped. I’m an aries girl, and I know he’s a hurt scorpio, but the chemistry was so explosive I KNOW he felt it too. My initial reaction to his lack of communication is full forward pursuit? Is he “testing” me to see if I really care for him? Did he have too strong of feelings that freaked him out? Or I’ve also heard scorpio men like to string adoring women along, and I certainly don’t want him to be entertained by my vulnerability. AH! What to do what to do…

  • Ariesfemme says:

    @Katrina. I know exactly how you feel. The same thing happened to me. Everything was perfect (or so I thought) then communication just stopped. It has been over a month for me. I was really hurt at first but I mustered up my Aries courage and I detoxified myself from him. Every now and then I think about him but I dare NOT call or initiate any contact. His loss! You will find another.

  • Jaineyy says:

    I’m an Aries born March 25th and I had a Scorpio guy stalking me. I don’t like Scorpio guys and they always seem to like me, same with Pisces. I don’t know why I attract those two signs so much.
    All I want to say is that I love Virgo men!!!
    Virgo men are beautiful and look like supermodels. Their goal is to make you happy not stalk and plan your misery lol

    us Aries love being happy, social and fun and Virgos are stable and laid back plus they know how to make money and are very generous with it haha

    trust me go for the Virgos

  • Arian says:

    @jaineyy I despise. Virgos female and males. I was in a relationship with a virgo my brother is a virgo and some of my friends were virgod. Virgos are manipulative, very selfish highly self centered and the only thing their generous with is their ways of talking themselves out of a situation or playing victim and making Every situation about them. Virgo are very personable which makes people fall for them but female and males a like they are a$$holes.

  • Lui Feng says:

    I am a Scorpio Man, with a Aries lady since the last 3 years; recently, we have been fighting too much……she has betrayed me on 2 three ocassions & it has really hurt me. I can never forgive her…………today, after about 10 hours, we are going to end it. We agreed on it last evening…………………….BUT, I really want the best in the world to happen to her. She should go to be the happiest lady on earth. Please pray for my inner strength to survive the split. Yes, I really love her.

  • lissa moon says:

    im in love with a man hes all that iv wished for and more i love him im and aries woman and hes a scorpio and we just fell into step with one another <3

  • LA says:

    im an aries women born march 22, 1988 my scorpio man just passed away hes been my other half since age 14. he was so funny then so serious i dont know how to explain our connection, our love for eachother was so strong many times he would cry in my arms and i wouldnt know why…about 4 yeas ago he became very sick ,i begged him to get better i need you , i told him. its been 1 year since he died, and its very obvious to me that i cant live without him. i always hope he will be in my dreams but he never is. not once.

  • Mishka says:

    @LA i am so sorry for you. may God give you the strength to carry on coz carry on we must. think positive. be happy and live life. keep your heart open and love will find its way in….again. its not just a commercial its the way to live. he will come in your dreams at your most difficult times. and it will be a comfort and you will know what to do.

  • AJ says:

    I’m a scorpio man and when I met this aries women, I felt the strong connection straight away and I knew that I wanted to be with this woman. We spent so much time together, the connection was very strong and I felt that we were growing together, but there seemed like something wasn’t quite right. I told her my feelings and it appeared that she did not share them. After a short time of distance, I felt that I could not do without her in my life.

    Turns out she had felt the same connection but was scared of it’s intensity. But I told her that I would not give up unless she told me straight up that she did not want me to be around. She never did, so I continued with her. Her walls seemed insurmountable and her determination strong. She fought against me with her words and I waited. She knew I would not stop and that I had a determination of my own. Then, it would seem that she could no longer resist her own feelings for me and now she is mine. It is still new, but it is very strong. I hope it grows stronger for her as it will for me. There is something so good here, I’m even a little in awe of what’s going on…

  • confused aries says:

    i was going with a Scorpio i really loved him and he loved me as well then he cheated and i loved him so much i took him back we stayed together until we were together for 4 months days later we broke up and i really want him back but he wants me to prove to him that i love him which is complicated but i really love him and want to make this work

  • tisha says:

    WOW. thats it. I have been in a wicked off and on again relationship with a scorpio man that it all those things! I am a very independent hardworking single mother of 3 boys and am not used to being treated how he does. but he is soooo suppportive and uplifting while the same time completely jealous and it almost seems insecure sometimes. I dearly love him and am letting him have his dominant way with me, tryin to show him my loyalty….the sex is the most amazing I have ever had! OMG its super hot and pornographic! :) but he can be soooo frusrtating sometimes!

  • tisha says:

    and the damn tests…..omg the tests of loyalty are ridiculous!

  • Aries says:

    Scorpios are liars and very cold . Avoid

  • belinda says:

    Scorpios will pull you in…and play mind games…they have huge who’s and think they are all that! Don’t fall for their toxic manipulation! They wasn’t to control you Aries and are very jealous and immature if you don’t act totally smitten with them. If you try to slow things down they will immediately become icy cold and ingnore you and torture you. They will try to make you think that you lost out on the best thing ever and make you think that they are moving on…but really the Scorpio hasn’t moved on…he is still plotting his revenge. Don’t fall for the tricks…..the best thing to do when they start pulling away is act like you couldn’t care less! That drives them insane! If they love you enough they will eventually come back..but make them work for it! Lol.
    Scorios are sexy and intense..but total babies and control freaks…best to avoid unless you think they are the hottest thing ever…Really, the intensity and sexiness wares off and Aries figures out that Scorpio is a Major PIA..BEST TO AVOID!

  • belinda says:

    I meant to say they have huge Egos…sorry for the typos ;)

  • ELAINE says:

    OMGOODNESS, THIS TMI FOR SURE…..THE ENTRIES THAT HAVE BEEN SHARED ARE SO FAMILIAR. IM AN ARIES
    HE IS SCROPIO. THIS MAN PRETTY MUCH FOLLOWED ME ON THE INTERNET FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS CONSTANTLY REACHING OUT TO TALK OR WHATEVER….I WASNT INTERESTED UNTIL RECENTLY LIKE A MONTH AGO. WE WENT OUT ON DATE VERY NICE I MUST SAY….ALTHOUGH I LIKED HIM HE MOSTLY GREW ON ME. WE WOULD SEE OTHER AT LEAST 2 O 3 TIMES A WEEK….AT THE TIME HE SEEMED SO ANXIOUS TO SEE ME. THEN HE HAD ONE OF HIS OUTBRURST AND NEEDLESS TO SAY THAT WAS IT. THE NEXT DAY HE IS CALLING AND TRYING TO CONVINCE ME TO GO OUT WITH HIM MAKING LIGHT OF THE OUTBRUST. I AGREED AND THINGS WERE GREAT! THEN ABOUT 2 WKS ANOTHER OUTBURST WE WALKED AWAY WITHOUT EVEN SAYING GOODNITE. LATER THAT NITE RECIEVED TEXT TELLING TO LOOSE HIS NUMBER. I REPLYED NO PROBLEM. 2 DAYS LATER HE IS CALLING AGAIN MAKING LIGHT OF THE SITUATION ASKING TO SEE ME AGAIN. ALTHOUGH WE HAVE NOT SET DATING BOUNDARIES SOME HOW I ASSUMED THAT WE WERE WORKING TOWARD AN EXCLUSIVE FRIENDSHIP. ESPECIALLY WHEN HE HAD MADE MENTION THAT HE DIDNT LIKE WHEN I EVEN MENTION ANOTHER GUY EVEN IF HE HAPPENS TO JUST BE A CO WORKER. I CHOSE TO RESPECT THAT REQUEST WITHOUT TELLING HIM……THEN ONE NITE WHILE AT HIS PLACE HE RECIEVED A CALL FROM ANOTHER WOMAN WHILE IN BED WITH ME. HE GOT UP TO GO TO ANOTHER ROOM AND TALK WITH THIS WOMEN. I WAS DEVESTATED
    HE TRIED TO APPEASE ME….I LEFT EARLY THE NEXT MORNING….HE CONSTATLY CALLED FOR ME TO COME BACK OR COULD HE COME TO ME, I SAID NO. WE WERE PLANNING A TRIP TO BEACH FOR THE WEEKEND AND I CANCEL THAT. I TOLD HIM NOT TO CALL ME OR I WOULD PRESS CHARGES…..0NLY BECUZ I KNEW HIS PERSONALITY WOULD NOT LET ME BREATH AND THINK.
    HE RESPECTED THAT….LOL
    AFTER A WEEK I CALLED BACK…HE SEEM TO BE MORE CURIOUS ABOUT WHAT I DID WHILE AWAY…NOW THAT WE WERE TALKING AGAIN HE BEGIN TO DESCREETLY USE THE LOVE WORD….SUGGESTING THAT HE AND I WOULD HAVE FUN IN HIS NEW HOUSE TOGETHER. NOW ALL OF A SUDDENT HE BECOMMING ICY, COLD AND DISTANT JUST LIKE EVERY ONE SAYS…….HE ONCE YESTERDAY I CALLED BACK HE WOULD NOT ANSWER. HE CALLED BACK I WAS ON ANOTHER CALL, TRIED TO CALL BACK HE WOULD NOT ANSWER……HERE GOES THE ARIES….MY PLAN OF ACTION IS TO STRAIGHT IGNORE HIS ASS FROM HERE ON. I DO STILL WANT HIM RIGHT NOW…..HOWEVER IM STARTING TO GET TURNOFF WITH THE SHANANIGANS.

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  • Frank says:

    Jaineyy :

    I’m an Aries born March 25th and I had a Scorpio guy stalking me. I don’t like Scorpio guys and they always seem to like me, same with Pisces. I don’t know why I attract those two signs so much.
    All I want to say is that I love Virgo men!!!
    Virgo men are beautiful and look like supermodels. Their goal is to make you happy not stalk and plan your misery lol
    us Aries love being happy, social and fun and Virgos are stable and laid back plus they know how to make money and are very generous with it haha
    trust me go for the Virgos

    If you Did Not get to know the guy, why are you commenting on here. -_-
    It’s a rhetorical question.

  • Frank says:

    shaher yar :

    hi..i m scorpio male and i m in love with aries woman …i m trying to make her fall in love with me but she is ignoring me from last two years ..but i m still waiting for her …every time i msg her or call she ignore me so plz kindly tell me what i should do to make her fall in love with me

    If she seems uninterested in your conversations and bored of you, give her some space and see if she responds to you. If she is talkative and enjoying your conversations, keep at it hopefully she will come around soon. But if she only want’s to be friends you have to respect that if you want her in your life, or you can part ways and you can continue your life with out her. From there, all there is left to do, is reflect on past events; growing stronger as you move past them.

  • Frank says:

    belinda :

    Scorpios will pull you in…and play mind games…they have huge who’s and think they are all that! Don’t fall for their toxic manipulation! They wasn’t to control you Aries and are very jealous and immature if you don’t act totally smitten with them. If you try to slow things down they will immediately become icy cold and ingnore you and torture you. They will try to make you think that you lost out on the best thing ever and make you think that they are moving on…but really the Scorpio hasn’t moved on…he is still plotting his revenge. Don’t fall for the tricks…..the best thing to do when they start pulling away is act like you couldn’t care less! That drives them insane! If they love you enough they will eventually come back..but make them work for it! Lol.
    Scorios are sexy and intense..but total babies and control freaks…best to avoid unless you think they are the hottest thing ever…Really, the intensity and sexiness wares off and Aries figures out that Scorpio is a Major PIA..BEST TO AVOID!

    I think the better thing to do is to “put your self in the other person’s shoes.” From there you can look at how they act, why they may be acting that way, and compare it with what you do know; namingly you. From there judge how you feel and how you want to act in retialation to their actions, and ‘figure’, or play a situation in your head, if your actions will anger the other person. FIgure out a couple different scenarios and the outcome of each. Try to figure out the next step, and when you do figure the next step, take it. Confront them with what you are thinking or ‘figured out’. If it is a “game”, tell them you are not used to games so your going to need to know the rules of this game so that you can infact play it safely: meaning that your going to need to know how to act in each situation to their liking. For example, if they sound jelous in some way tease them in a way that lets them know for sure you do love them And adore them. It’s part of getting to know the person and it can be fun, cute, whitty, silly, corny.. If you cannot seem to get along, you two do not know each other yet, or you two should not be friends or lovers anymore.
    Games are playful at heart if they are understood correctly. It’s all about attitude in the situation. If it is not a game and there is something wrong, comfront the situation non threateningly. A smile can crack a laugh or break a tear.
    “Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish”

  • Frank says:

    ELAINE :

    OMGOODNESS, THIS TMI FOR SURE…..THE ENTRIES THAT HAVE BEEN SHARED ARE SO FAMILIAR. IM AN ARIES
    HE IS SCROPIO. THIS MAN PRETTY MUCH FOLLOWED ME ON THE INTERNET FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS CONSTANTLY REACHING OUT TO TALK OR WHATEVER….I WASNT INTERESTED UNTIL RECENTLY LIKE A MONTH AGO. WE WENT OUT ON DATE VERY NICE I MUST SAY….ALTHOUGH I LIKED HIM HE MOSTLY GREW ON ME. WE WOULD SEE OTHER AT LEAST 2 O 3 TIMES A WEEK….AT THE TIME HE SEEMED SO ANXIOUS TO SEE ME. THEN HE HAD ONE OF HIS OUTBRURST AND NEEDLESS TO SAY THAT WAS IT. THE NEXT DAY HE IS CALLING AND TRYING TO CONVINCE ME TO GO OUT WITH HIM MAKING LIGHT OF THE OUTBRUST. I AGREED AND THINGS WERE GREAT! THEN ABOUT 2 WKS ANOTHER OUTBURST WE WALKED AWAY WITHOUT EVEN SAYING GOODNITE. LATER THAT NITE RECIEVED TEXT TELLING TO LOOSE HIS NUMBER. I REPLYED NO PROBLEM. 2 DAYS LATER HE IS CALLING AGAIN MAKING LIGHT OF THE SITUATION ASKING TO SEE ME AGAIN. ALTHOUGH WE HAVE NOT SET DATING BOUNDARIES SOME HOW I ASSUMED THAT WE WERE WORKING TOWARD AN EXCLUSIVE FRIENDSHIP. ESPECIALLY WHEN HE HAD MADE MENTION THAT HE DIDNT LIKE WHEN I EVEN MENTION ANOTHER GUY EVEN IF HE HAPPENS TO JUST BE A CO WORKER. I CHOSE TO RESPECT THAT REQUEST WITHOUT TELLING HIM……THEN ONE NITE WHILE AT HIS PLACE HE RECIEVED A CALL FROM ANOTHER WOMAN WHILE IN BED WITH ME. HE GOT UP TO GO TO ANOTHER ROOM AND TALK WITH THIS WOMEN. I WAS DEVESTATED
    HE TRIED TO APPEASE ME….I LEFT EARLY THE NEXT MORNING….HE CONSTATLY CALLED FOR ME TO COME BACK OR COULD HE COME TO ME, I SAID NO. WE WERE PLANNING A TRIP TO BEACH FOR THE WEEKEND AND I CANCEL THAT. I TOLD HIM NOT TO CALL ME OR I WOULD PRESS CHARGES…..0NLY BECUZ I KNEW HIS PERSONALITY WOULD NOT LET ME BREATH AND THINK.
    HE RESPECTED THAT….LOL
    AFTER A WEEK I CALLED BACK…HE SEEM TO BE MORE CURIOUS ABOUT WHAT I DID WHILE AWAY…NOW THAT WE WERE TALKING AGAIN HE BEGIN TO DESCREETLY USE THE LOVE WORD….SUGGESTING THAT HE AND I WOULD HAVE FUN IN HIS NEW HOUSE TOGETHER. NOW ALL OF A SUDDENT HE BECOMMING ICY, COLD AND DISTANT JUST LIKE EVERY ONE SAYS…….HE ONCE YESTERDAY I CALLED BACK HE WOULD NOT ANSWER. HE CALLED BACK I WAS ON ANOTHER CALL, TRIED TO CALL BACK HE WOULD NOT ANSWER……HERE GOES THE ARIES….MY PLAN OF ACTION IS TO STRAIGHT IGNORE HIS ASS FROM HERE ON. I DO STILL WANT HIM RIGHT NOW…..HOWEVER IM STARTING TO GET TURNOFF WITH THE SHANANIGANS.

    You should probably practice some yoga, or maybe some taichi to help control your stress levels and than retype that because I feel like your yelling at me and I’m just some guy reading your words online. Your literally not in front of me. And if he cheated on you once, shame on him. If he cheats on your twice, shame on you.
    “Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish”

  • Frank says:

    confused aries :

    i was going with a Scorpio i really loved him and he loved me as well then he cheated and i loved him so much i took him back we stayed together until we were together for 4 months days later we broke up and i really want him back but he wants me to prove to him that i love him which is complicated but i really love him and want to make this work

    Listen, he seems to me like a shiester. Be careful with him. If you two do get back together always show him your love, but don’t be afraid to be a ß!†çπ if you have to. And if he gives you any business about it than you let him know he’s the boss but your the chauffeur, and the chauffeur always knows the best routes through town.
    “Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish”

  • Frank says:

    LA :

    im an aries women born march 22, 1988 my scorpio man just passed away hes been my other half since age 14. he was so funny then so serious i dont know how to explain our connection, our love for eachother was so strong many times he would cry in my arms and i wouldnt know why…about 4 yeas ago he became very sick ,i begged him to get better i need you , i told him. its been 1 year since he died, and its very obvious to me that i cant live without him. i always hope he will be in my dreams but he never is. not once.

    Sometimes you may have the most wonderful dream, and wake up and forget it.. consciously. But, subconsciously that dream is there and it helps shape your day, your life.
    He does visit you in your dreams, but it is a very emotional state for any form of being; whether it be conscious or subconscious. Just believe that he does visit and he is watching over you.
    He does not want you to forget him, but he wants you to live your life. If you have ever went through life and noticed how just one event at the beggining of a lifetime, can shape and cause a much greater event near the end of that lifetime, you realise things seem to happen because the situation calls for it to happen. And you can only hope that out of any sad or miserable situation, there will be a much happier, rewarding one not to far away.
    I’m not telling you to do anything you do not want to do, I’m simply suggesting you can live your life with him in your heart, and that may be all the love you will ever need.

  • Elaine says:

    I’m so sorry “some guy online” didnt mean to yell at you just didnt feel like turning the caps off. lol update. Belinda here said it best….but total babies and control freaks…best to avoid unless you think they are the hottest thing ever…Really, the intensity and sexiness wares off and Aries figures out that Scorpio is a Major PIA..BEST TO AVOID! My scropio started given me the cold treatment for two weeks then out of blue after I come to realize I he is a PIA and dont even want him any more especially since an old flame has resurfaced after realizing that im am a good catch after all. The scropio called out of the blue asking if you could stop by and say hello. I agreed. But he did not call or show….I felt no pain at all….infact i was quiet fine with it…..my concern though is he seems to be agitated or furstrated to even make that move in the first place…..should I be concerned? Becuz of there trait of vindictivness I have decided not too respond him anymore…..

  • Frank says:

    Elaine :

    I’m so sorry “some guy online” didnt mean to yell at you just didnt feel like turning the caps off. lol update. Belinda here said it best….but total babies and control freaks…best to avoid unless you think they are the hottest thing ever…Really, the intensity and sexiness wares off and Aries figures out that Scorpio is a Major PIA..BEST TO AVOID! My scropio started given me the cold treatment for two weeks then out of blue after I come to realize I he is a PIA and dont even want him any more especially since an old flame has resurfaced after realizing that im am a good catch after all. The scropio called out of the blue asking if you could stop by and say hello. I agreed. But he did not call or show….I felt no pain at all….infact i was quiet fine with it…..my concern though is he seems to be agitated or furstrated to even make that move in the first place…..should I be concerned? Becuz of there trait of vindictivness I have decided not too respond him anymore…..

    It seems to me like he wants you to miss him to make himself feel better. He may call randomly again, and if you do talk to him, tell him that you notice this and it does not draw you closer, but farther from him.
    It seems like he wants reassurance that you love him. By calling you to meet up but him not showing up, I believe he wants to see if you care enough to call and complain.

    Next time you talk to him try to be understanding, but make sure that he understands you aswell. If you do not want to be with him anymore tell him so, and be straight forward. Kindness goes a long way but it can cover what is trying to be said, keeping the point from getting across. Tell him how you feel, what you want to do, and try to end it with no hard feelings between either of you. He may get defensive and shout, but stay calm and reassure him that your relationship is unhealthy for the both of you. That it is in the best interests of both parties to go seperate ways.
    If you figure out the rules of his ‘game’ he may want to talk more about it and possibly fix things. But that, of course, is up to you.
    Reflect on the past, and move towards the future.

    Remember,
    Scorpios can be very deep lovers and prefer a love to reflect their own. If they do not have that, they may feel the relationship is actually falling apart and their actions may seem like they are pushing you away, but they are actually trying to pull you back in. If this goes unseen or the love is not equal, there will be conflict and heartache.
    It may seem like a game, and sometimes it may just be, but keep in mind that they want to love you deeply, and a deep love is only appreciated when it comes from both parties.

    You said you two talked for a long time before actually going out. I do not know what the outbursts were about, but he may have been feeling like you were depriving him of your love, and that frustrated him. But being who he is, he may not have felt comfortable with talking about it, and the frustration from that turned towards something less frustrating- but with the added frustration, caused a problem and an outburst.

    “Do not ask why the situation happened, but what one did to cause the situation to happen”

  • Summer says:

    Im an aries girl and I recently started dating a scorpio, its going good, we have the same interest. We can talk and talk and talk. Hes very charming, but I think he might be a bit of a lier. Im not sure if I should fall for this scorpian, hes the 2nd scopio that Ive have ever dated and they are very passonite. But I should I avoid him, because I read all of these comments and I just got out of a relationship with a Sag and he really hurt me…and I just dont wanna go through this type of bull crap again….should zi give my scopio a chance?

  • candy says:

    Hi I Am An Aries Lady In Love Wit A Scorpion Man.At First It Was All FUn Hot Very Highly Passionate But Nw He Has Gotten Cold. Just By One MisTAkingingly Asking Him Should We breakup.He Room It So Personal. That He Don’t Come To mY Home No More, He Bearly RePlYs To My Txt On Line, HE Only Talks To Me When He wNts To. I Really Dnt Knw Wat He Nw Wants
    First U Had An ArgueMent He Came To Me , Told Me That He MisseD Me. That SAme Night Cátch Him Huging And Kissing Another Girl, Smf.
    What ShouId I Do?

  • candy says:

    I Am An ArIes Woman And He Is Scorpion Man. He Lives In My CommUnity. We Would Greet Each Other But Not KnowIng He Was In Love With Me. It Started At A PartY I Invited Him To. Whilst Dancing With Him He Kissed Me And That Same Night Did Live To Go At His Home . All Night He Wanted To Dance With Only me. From That Night We Became So Close. That The Bond Between Was Sooooo Great, Spontaneous, ignitEd, Etc.. But Nw He Has Changed. Only Because Of Him Acting Cold, I Asked Hi
    If He Wanted Us To Stop Seeing Each Other. That’s When This GA Started GoIng Out Of Hand. He DNt ComE At All. We Speak To Each Other When Seen On The Streets. He Bearly Answer Me On Line Txts. And On Top Of That Caught Hi. Hugging Up And Kissing Another LadyI That Same Community
    Which Before Told Me Hw He Missed Me Not Seeing Me The One Or Two Days Before. I Dnt Knw Where I Stand.

  • fiery_aries says:

    Scorpio men , these are the sexiest of the entire zodiac. I love the way these men carry themselves, like you can’t find even a single fault in their demeanor, not even a single microscopic chink in that shiny armor.
    and even though they are so sexy, they are not even a bit concieted about that like good looking Leo and Libra men are. they are not shallow, and don’t care about how you look. all that matters to them is your intelligence, confidence. they have little tolerance for stupid, over the top women though
    and I love Scorpios but it is sad that I can never have them. can’t say this for my other Aries sisters, but I can never be in a relationship with a scorp as with them, you can’t even make a single mistake, you don’t have any clue as to what might turn them off. did I mention they can be so paranoid at times? or how badly they are after your blood if you step on their sting?
    for an Aries woman, a Scorpio men is like that dazzling but unaffordable pearl necklace she has borrowed for a soirée. they are good for a deep conversation, or a one night stand, but you can’t keep them with you forever.one of you will end up badly hurt. but if you are an Aries woman who has managed to hold on to that intense sexy Scorpio , you are the luckiest woman alive. how did you manage that,girl?

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