Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man Compatibility


Famous Gemini-Scorpio Couple: Baa  Rafaeli and Leonardo DiCaprio  

There are about five people present in this relationship. It’s a box inside an enigma inside a mystery.  The trouble is that it’s hard to catch everybody at home at the same time.  It’s definitely a costume party, which remains a party as long as no one has to take their mask off. 

How to Attract to a Gemini Woman as a Scorpio Man: Have you ever tried to squish an ant at a picnic?  You know the way you have to chase it with your eyes and hands at the same time?  That is what it is like trapping the beautiful Gemini creature who is as alluring as a butterfly.  Long periods of intense waiting and watching must be followed by deft acts and deeds.  This lady, one of the most desirable in the zodiac, is as hard to pin down as quicksilver, her mercurial ruler, which is exactly what you need to lighten you up in the right way.  Besides, the fascination is undeniable.


How to Attract a Scorpio Man as a Gemini Woman: Gemini women hardly need advice on how to catch a man, or at least catch his eye.  There is something about you like a worm on the end of a hook that lures the big fish.  Scorpio, being a deep creature, is utterly fascinated by your superficiality and allure.  The more mercurial you can be, the better, even to the point of being purposely irresponsible about small and inconsequential things – be a little bit late, be hard to catch on the phone, say “I’ll get back to you” a lot, be willing to disappear.  All your beautiful words and verbal ability mean absolutely nothing to him, but he will be transfixed by the sound of your voice. 

Degree of Romance:  This can be an incredibly romantic combination.  No one knows the act of flirtation like a Gemini, and Scorpio is the perfect instrument to play to.  The Gemini woman can never ever be possessed by the Scorpio man (despite his deepest desire), and she will find the intensity of his intentions inconsequential and humorous.  It is the stuff great operas are written about.  The potential for Scorpio’s suffering is immense.

Degree of Passion:  There is a tremendous degree of passion possible, but unfortunately it is one-sided. Geminis don’t digest passion well.  It is never their first choice on the menu.  Scorpios live for passion.  Is this a good mix?

Degree of Friendship:  Oddly enough this pair can give each other a merry chase intellectually and they can entertain each other endlessly with a running commentary on the foibles of human nature.  They make great traveling companions on the journey of life.  Her wit complements his perceptiveness for some great “aha” moments.  This couple will enjoy talking about other people immensely and trying to dissect their motives.

Degree of Marriage:  This couple has the downside of sticking together through thick and thin to the point of real pain and absurdity.  There may be a constant diet of betrayal, painful and unnecessary confrontations, ridicule, sarcasm, and vendetta, and yet the relationship endures.  This is not the best recipe for mental health.

Progression of Relationship:  You know how you stare at the chess board at the beginning of the game trying to figure out what your strategy is? Figure two people doing that at the same time and then changing their strategy in response to the other person’s every move.  The possibility of mind games is absolutely boggling and this may take the place of an erotic connection.


Sex:  For the restless mind, sex can be an outlet for ingenuity and cleverness.  When you combine a restless mind with a subterranean urge to discover the deepest, darkest motives in order to control the other person, you have a very interesting range of experiences being worked out through sexuality.  This is one combination that may be very “studied” in its approach to sex.  Hardly anything either one does is unpremeditated, although for completely different reasons.

When It’s Over:  The Gemini butterfly will flutter away to another flower in someone else’s garden, leaving the Scorpio to plumb the depths of his soul alone.  While Geminis take a lot of knocks for being shallow, her superficial nature can keep this break up from going off the deep end.

Our Rating: 6/10

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62 Responses to Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man Compatibility

  • buttercup says:

    I think this is very true, well some parts. I’ve recently started talking to a Scorpio male Ames I am really interested in him. I can already see that he is very jealousbut also very romantic

  • Shehnilla Mohamed says:

    Hey there, /i a just coming out of an almost 7 year relationship with a scorpio man. How I wish I had read up on our compatability before going into it – it has been such a roller coaster with more downs than ups and now that I have read he personality traits I agree that Gemini and Scorpio are not compatable

  • gemini woman says:

    Scorpion man will break your heart and manipulate you they willl act as if they are sad when they cheat but only acting so they can Win you.. Stay away Geminis they have a dark and dark side that the happy times won’t be worth it!!!

  • gemini woman says:

    i was on a conversation wth a scorpion man for months who is 10yrs elder to me and i had the best time of my life with him…. he was damn caring, honest, devoted… but one day he suddenly comes up with “you are such a kid” and stopped the conversation there, thinking nothing, even when i told him tht i love him, he said he is not the right person 4 me….and now he is dating a scorpion female…. i still don’t understand what that whole time was about

  • SO EFFIN TRUE says:

    ^ ditto.
    I don’t think scorpio men generally think us gemini females care since we are a bit ‘eccentric’. But I do believe that they are amazing lovers and this match will work if they let each other be themselves. Its a challenging yet worthwhile combo.

  • Mia says:

    I’m a Gemini female who’s in love with a Scorpio man and we do differ but for some reason he won’t walk away and its scary cause I don’t know how long I’m gonna feel like this. I like to be free and he’s clingy

  • D says:

    reading all of these differences is truly mind opening.
    I hope that it can work out, as I am really captivated by a Scorpio male.

  • Shacklolo says:

    My husband (Scorpio man) and I (Gemini woman) have been together for 12 years. We have been married for 11 years and my husband holds on to every negative thing its crazy. He repeats events but the truth is distorted to make myself out to be a victim. I’m running out of things to do to make this works. He doesn’t want to end the marriage, but I do. I’m tired of his controlling and angry ways.

  • Bethery says:

    As a Gemini woman I have found that my Scorpio man brings out passion in me and makes me lose interest in my freedom. He has learned not to hold me back but honestly I find him so fascinating that I don’t want to leave. Frankly disagree with parts of this article. You can make it work if you really Love one another.

  • Darkwolf says:

    There are a few points on which I have to disagree, as a Gemini woman particularly with respect to the statement below:
    “When It’s Over:  The Gemini butterfly will flutter away to another flower in someone else’s garden, leaving the Scorpio to plumb the depths of his soul alone.”
    I personaly would never dream of doing such a thing to the person I’m planning to spend the rest of my life with who himself is a Scorpio. His gentle, kind, sweet tempered and selfless nature alone would not permit me to do such a thing, and even with those reduced which I highly doubt they would be the effection I have for him would stand to prevent it. As for compatibility,
    “Degree of Marriage:  This couple has the downside of sticking together through thick and thin to the point of real pain and absurdity.  There may be a constant diet of betrayal, painful and unnecessary confrontations, ridicule, sarcasm, and vendetta, and yet the relationship endures.  This is not the best recipe for mental health.”
    Pardon my language but, that is complete and utter BULLSHIT.
    There’s so much more I can say on this but I believe I’ve made my point.

  • 100% Gemini says:

    I am a proud Gemini who has a lot of experience with Scorpios in general. This can be a great combination when you’re willing to change and compromise a LOT for the other person, but otherwise it’s literally a relationship from hell.
    To start off, my mom is a full blown Scorpio woman and we NEVER got along when I was living in her house. She was WAY too emotional for me and cocky and competitive and if something didn’t go her way she literally went ballistic. Don’t tell anything you don’t want revealed later to a Scorpio because man or woman THEY WILL HOLD IT AGAINST YOU. When working on business matters or talking about finances or passions in life, though, we were on the same page. The same level of intellect is there but if something does not go their way or if they feel threatened they will definitely lash out. My mother was also married to a Gemini man and his need of freedom was too much for her and their relationship ended after he was unfaithful and she was, probably, kind of crazy. Scorpios want to feel wanted 24/7 and us geminis NEED freedom and diversity in our lives. Rather than going out, she always wanted to stay in: we would stay in for weeks at a time. Scorpios will lash out if you suggest otherwise.
    I also talked to a Scorpio male for some time and we were texting from November of one year to June of the next year and got pretty much NO WHERE. Their communication styles are so different than us and as a Gemini I felt the need to constantly keep the conversation going but don’t do that. They’ll have short answers but just answer short as well and they’ll keep coming back with more questions for you as they’re curious individuals. Although Scorpio men and women are loving and devoted, they can reach a level of psychotic in my book and don’t provide the excitement we geminis oh so crave, and I’m pretty aware of what every astrological sign is capable of.
    I don’t usually write on these websites but as a Gemini warning another Gemini, please be careful with this relationship. They lash out and aren’t as spontaneous as we would hope and although sagittarius’ are listed as our opposites, I feel that Scorpios are the absolute LEAST like us.
    I have found that my best matches are aquarius’, libras (weirdly all of my best girl friends have been libras), Aries, Leo’s (sometimes), and surprisingly cancers. Scorpios are just totally different and can be unbearable. Best of luck!

  • Glutton 4 Punishment says:

    I married one and dated 3 or 4 Scorpions. At first it’s exciting. Then it gets boring. Then exciting. Then I end the rollercoaster ride. There’s another Scorpion on the prowl.

    …this Gemini is in need of some excitement, mentally and sexually. I’m ready to roll.

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