Zodiac Compatibility

I am a Saggie, and my love is a Scorp from INDIA. The magnitism between us was immediate, though I had no clue of his interest in me. He was secretly tracking me out of interest, until he found the right time to make his move of approach. When we did begin to talk, we would talk for hours about everything and anything. We truly feel we are soulmates, and our intimite experiences are beyond all spiritual realms. The only thing is he truly did put me through an unbelievable time of interrogation, ferretting out everything he held in suspicion. I felt like a sheered and naked bone by the time he was finally done. This went on for quite a time. He does watch all that I do, though finally trust has been established.I believe he will never completely stop looking over my shoulder, as he is immensely possessive and jealous. This does not bother me, actually. In fact, I like his attention and possessiveness. I completely trust his loyalty, and he trusts mine. Ironically, the times when we both wanted to “cash in the chips” so to speak, we could never manage to tear ourselves apart. One of us always ended up lowering our pride and approaching the other, strangely usually this is him. I think this has gained respect from him, because although I love him intensely, if he is wrong, I stand my ground, refuse to be his doormat, and let him know, I will walk if necessary. On flip side, when I am wrong, I allow him to vent his anger, sincerely apologize, and work on a compromise and understanding. I sure don’t like his temper though! He has showed me his “inner self” something that I know is no small thing, as his family has not even seen some of these aspects. I love him intensely with all of my soul, and would never be the same again without him.

WOW is all I can say. This is so accurate it is quite scary. I am a Sag woman with a Cancer moon. I have fallen so in love with a Scorpio man and how you describe the interaction between the two is identical 100% to the way that we are together. I read the Cancer woman Scorpio man section also as I have a lot of cancer traits when it comes to my love life. Thankfully, the smothering aspect isn’t in me as I like my independence, but I feel extremely deeply and I am sensitive and I know that this has drawn this Scorpio male to me. I have opened myself up to him, even when he was guarding himself. He appreciated this willingness to make myself vulnerable for him, as he would not do this for anyone himself. He deliberately tested my emotions by going with someone else just to see how it made me feel. This is cruel, but somehow I understand his motives. As crazy as it is, I don’t think he enjoys hurting me. At the time he did this he was staring at me, trying to see how hurt I was and he saw it in my eyes. He wanted to see my reaction. However, when I looked at him he was deeply unhappy. It was quite breathtaking how obvious it was to me. I could see it so clearly. He has been a complete whore and slept with lots of women, but I know this is through insecurity and a fear of falling in love. He knows he is amazingly good looking and can draw women to him without effort, but I can see that this is not truly what he desires. I feel he wants a really deep connection with someone while having an amazing friendship, lover and soulmate. I want this too and I am waiting patiently. Every time I see him, something is different and has progressed slightly. When I would look into his eyes he was almost scared to do it. I could feel he was holding back. Yesterday, we were together and he was looking into my eyes so intensely and I could see one small brick from the wall which is his barrier removed. I never push for more. I enjoy what there is and treasure it and hope his barrier continues to come down. I think by leaving him to do this in his own way and in his own time I will give him the space to go with his feelings. I hate being pushed or smothered so I can easily do this for another person.

Although I have cried over him, though about him so much I try to convince myself he is not giving me a second thought and have tried to make myself believe that so I can turn off my feelings, but my intuition tells me this is not the case. He is so emotional underneath his coolness, its hilarious to me no one else sees it. I think his emotions run very deep, I can feel them like electricity when he is near me. It is astonishing. Its so weird, but this is the only man I can actually see myself marrying, even though he is so complex and I worry he will not be true to me. I worry about that, but at the same time I think that if he is in love he can be faithful. I have never really pictured being able to be married to any of my boyfriends, even the man I had two children with and lived with for nearly 14 years (a Gemini – what a disaster !!!!).

It would be my dream come true to be with him forever. I am ready to settle down now at long last.

Scorpio man and Sag woman can DEFINITELY work, it is Superlative, he does get controlling and I dont give an inch, and he mellows down, wow and wow… but it is not too often. lol

I am very laid back and easy, I dont pressure him to call me daily or meet weekly or do this or do that, .. but I only put my foot down and press the heel when he is Unfairly Demanding, then I dont give a fraction of a millimeter, forget the inch.

in his mellow and soft times (cough.. you know when), he even admitted he loves me most for my strength when I say NO to him and NO to further negotiations on the subject.

he is a Quint-essential man, I love that about him, he is protective, caring, authoritative and amazingly insightful. Men bore me too quickly, but not this guy, even his silence is amazing, he can play with my hair and listen to my silly gibberish for hours, without saying a word, and he actually Listens (unlike libra or gem who are waiting for a pause to start this chrip chrip..)

whats best about him… rofl.. is that he is MANIPULATIVE, giggle, yes.. and he admits it.. so all the cunning, manipulating tasks I leave to him. Dealing with stupid relatives or refusing to go to dumb get togethers etc, finding a way out of tricky situations,, I always look at him and he takes over and is soooo suave at this, this suits me perfectly and him too.

I have been with all the zodiac (how sag is that, except taurus and cancer .. ), and I did not find a more complimenting mix.

… probably because his moon and mars are in leo and venus in sagittarius, but it is touchwood, amazing, I feel he Completes me, all that I do not have, he has.

He is most HONEST, he knows his pitfalls and admits, he can take criticism and even ponder where he should. I am similar.

the bottom line, I trust him.

the way I came to know is funny, I lost my baggage and ticket on airport, and was just left with mobile in my pocket, and he was *one of the guys, in love with me* (cough) at that time, but then and there, I thought of contacting no one, but him, I felt **this is the guy who will fly to another city and be here**, that realization was most strange. Though i did not call him, I did find my belonging back,, and find the Desire of my Heart.

it is the most truthful and best writeup about sag woman and scorp man, so RIGHT on mark.

thank you for this.
sexy sag

@ Tallulah, a scorpio will test your strength, do not become a doormat to him, he will walk all over you.

that seven years thing is so true, probably because of saturn being in virgo. Home and Security is becoming my top priority as well.

bring your fire out and do not let this scorpio torture you anymore, Trust me, he will jump the highest of bar set to come up to your standard, do not lower your bar. Raise it.

all the best.

My most recent ex-girlfriend is a Sag. We were an amazing couple! The only thing that prevented marriage was the fact that she listened to her friends more so than me. She broke it off, and know she regrets it! We still maintain a good friendship that on occasion slips into being lovers again. Go figure.

You are also right when you say Scorpios are the only ones that are capable of keeping us faithful. I always wanted love this deeply and I have never met any other man that can feel to the extent that he does. Only that level of emotion can keep that kind of passion and desire alive between two people. I used to dream about that in bed as a 18/19 year old, crying because I really believed I would never find something like that.

I have that intensity also and that is why I think we Saggies stray. Its not that we are incapable of being faithful. We are always painted as being sex mad for the sake of it. I don’t think that is true. I think we want deep connections but we see through a lot and we can accept situations like shallow people ie Geminis and interact with them whilst knowing that our hearts have not been touched and therefore we will not necessarily be committed. We are very adaptable and can go with the flow so to speak. When we meet a Scorpio its like a breath of fresh air and a shock to the system and a challenge all in one and we are truly overwhelmed in a way that makes us feel alive. This is so very rare.

yes, that intensity part is totally true..

i dont find people at-par with me there too,,, do emotions means crying out loud and saying them all, I cant do that,, but then that ONE PERSON who can touch me and makes me feel that he *understands* is very surprised to know the depth, that otherwise I shrug off ..

how is your scorpio doing T?

my scorpio gives me the taste of my own medicine when I dont go deep or too emotional by staying away.. (its like INSTANT give-n-take with scorps), but he is so LOVING,, and i guess I am getting good at reading him,, and making him do anything I want, without asking..

oh k, that was soo superficial and ostentatious, dont mind plz..

Wow…wow…this is me and my guy now. He’s a scorpio and I’m a Sag (not sure about what moon I’m in) but everything is true. He ended it with me but lured me back with movies and a day trip complete with apology and amazing sex! I think we are on more solid ground now: we’re making time for each other, talking more to each other and the like. I do sense that he is worried about ‘how things will look’ (as if I care-typical Sag huh?) regarding to his ex. Like many of the other posters, my scorpio is a complimenting balance to me and I am hoping that it will continue to blossom into something more!

the only problem with sag/scorpio couple is the inability of sag’s to keep a secret. Scorpios demand secrecy from their partner but sag’s compulsive desire to want to always blurt everything is painful.

I am a Sagittarius that is crazy about a Scorpio man. We actually dated many years ago when we were in our teens. I hurt him pretty badly then, and I still feel like he hangs onto that anger or resentment. We sometimes have the most intimate conversations in terms of how he feels about other things in his life..things that I am certain he doesn’t share with anyone…and almost every time he opens up to me, he shuts down pretty much the next day, and he won’t speak to me for a few weeks. I try so hard to not feel hurt by this, because I understand that he is very complex and it is not easy for him to open himself up like that…There are moments where I feel as if I should give up, but something keeps pushing me towards him…and I think I might be one of the most important people in his live even thought he would never say that, or let me know that he feels this way. But when he feels like he is spiralling out of control, it is me that he takes comfort in….but I wonder if he keeps me at an arms length because of the pain that I caused him earlier in life, or if he reaches out to me when his is in just because I am comforting to him… I wish I knew what to do. Everything in me tells me to keep trying, and remain positive…but that might just be the Sagittarius in me :0)

i am a sag woman who was datin a scorpio man he ended it after 3 months sayin it didnt feel right, that is the only explanation he will give. The endin came out of the blue as i thought every thing was good so im totally lost with this one, as ididnt want it to end.

I love the honest and loving depiction that you have written! I am a sag woman and I have never been more in love or felt so connected then I do with my Scorpio. The thing is we definitely had are downs and times were things were on the edge but the love between us kept us going. Even though most sites depict a sag female as being simple minded and flighty (witch is sometimes true) you really captured my honest feelings perfectly. Honesty and truth is all that ever matters to me and it’s great to know that I have someone who feels just the same.
Even though I find that he can sometimes take loyalty to the EXTREME he means no harm. During these last few months I decided that because of some very unsure behavior on his part that it would be best for me to just walk away. That is something that for me as a sag I find very easy to do, but he is the only person who I have ever forfeit to in a sense. He is the only person that has ever been able to make me doubt myself and for me I find it so attractive. I left him before I felt he would break my heart something I am usually never afraid of. I knew though from the beginning that he was the only person who had the ability to do that.
Since then I haven’t communicated with him for two and a half months. He has since rushed into a new relationship with a Virgo female. Although the relationship between them is said to be a good one they have no “fire” as I would call it. There is a strong force that holds a sag woman and a Scorpio man together. I know that he is still as in love with me as he was before if not more. After this short time of separation I know we have both had allot of time to reflect on the mistakes we made in the relationship. I know that he would drop everything to be with me. I’m just waiting for the right time. I miss him dearly and I know that I don’t feel this alone.
My advice to a sag woman going after a Scorpio male is that there will definitely be struggles but the pay off will be great and the love felt between the two cant be captured anywhere else.

I can’t believe what has happened to me. My not very good relationship with my overbearing Leo boyfriend is definitely in a very bad state and most of the time he ridicules me and makes me unhappy. The bad is outweighing the good in a big way and when that happens its time to seriously evaluate.

Anyway, the Scorpio boyfriend I had when I was 19, was someone I hung around in in a very close knit group of guys who I went to school with. I was the only girl. Within that group, I was very best friends and grew up with two guys whose home was my second home I was in there so much. This Scorpio was great friends with my best friend and then we became best friends too. We were a triangle of the most potent ultimate friendship. Scorpio was mad about me, but it didn’t work out. It was beautiful and intense and amazing, but I felt suffocated at that time. I wanted to be free etc. being a young Sag.

When I had my son with a Gemini in my early 20′s (BIG MISTAKE A GEMINI FOR ME) I realised very quickly that this person was not genuine and was incredibly fake. What you saw was not what you got AT ALL. When my son was 1 I had an affair with my Scorpio again, but I went back for the sake of my family. We didn’t see each other for ages until the funeral of my two other best friends dad which was about 9 years ago. We exchanged numbers again and he texted me. My partner saw it went mental (crazy) and we never had contact after that. On the occasions since I was 19 when we would bump into each other,every time we saw each other I could see that he still loved me. It was so obvious. It never went away. I also had feelings for him too and a complete utter respect and understanding for him. I totally got him as a person. This was over a period of 20 years as I am 39 now. 20 years and his feelings never changed. He told me they got even more intense because he missed me so much. I missed him too on all levels.

Anyway last week I thought of him. He came into my head. As my relationship with my Leo has got worse and now as well as in the past, I have often thought about the relationship I had which was so fantastic. So what happens? I only bump into my Scorpio in shopping mall the day after thinking about him. He then tells me that the night before, he was looking at the ring I gave him ages ago when I was 19 and some postcards. He could not believe he bumped into me. It was so strange. We thought of each other at the same time then met by chance. Or was it fate?

I offered him my number as I definitely did not want to lose contact as he is my best friend in the world. Thats how it feels. When I got home later that evening he texted me saying how happy he was to see me and inviting me for a coffee and a drive somewhere. From that point we have been texting and emailing each other. The things he as revealed to me in terms of his feelings for me have taken my breath away. After all of these years he said that he missed me all this time. That he never felt right with anyone else and that our sexual relationship was the best he ever experienced. He said he could only be himself with me and that my sexual openness and acceptance of him, on all levels, was something he never forgot. I had the same positive feelings for him and came to a conclusion, which I shared with him.

When we were 19 I was unable to deal with intensity. I wanted something like that ideally, but I was not ready for it. I felt trapped sometimes and claustrophobic by his intensity at times. He was wanting to marry me all those years ago, but was too afraid the ask, as he didn’t think I would take him seriously. I did not know this until a week ago. He is expressing in words his feeling to me now after all of these years and I am awe struck by it. He says he needs me and I am everything to him and he means it.

This time I was thinking that I did not want to get into a relationship with him again or just sleep with him behind other peoples backs. Apart from being wrong and unfair, it isn’t how I want it to be. He said the exact same thing to me. He says he wants to settle down and he would have married years ago if he was with the right person.

We are seeing each other today. He wants time to talk about us. He wants to marry me. He says he never wants to lose what we have and he wants to play for keeps. He has really matured and the way he speaks to me now is different to before in that he is more expressive of his deep feelings and it is really beautiful.

LIFE IS SO SO STRANGE ! I think we were destined to meet again. I have had many hard years as a Sagitarrian, I don’t know why, but I have really struggled. I have made progress and I work and study hard, but somehow my life has been arduous, without much being given to me in terms of support and true love. However, I always think positively and I feel that little rays of hope and good things do gradually start to happen.

It is possible that we are meant to be husband and wife and were always destined to be together forever one day. I am glad we have been given another chance. A later in life relationship between us can work most definitely as you say. Your description above is 200% exactly on the ball and describes me and my Scorpio perfectly in absolutely every way!!!!!!!!!!!!

well James,

from the sound of it,,, the first sag was very young and almost a child, and sags take some hard lessons before we start to take life and emotions seriously.

as for being typical,, your second sag, is actually TYPICAL, not the first. Sags are not Selfish people and I guess they find it very very hard to turn back on friends when they are in trouble, and most importantly, they do not do so for any favors-in-return..

So typical. Posted something on the non-optimistic side, didn’t get approved. Disgusting censorship )

If you’re up for studying it in greater depth, you may want to look at your decanates. This is the influencing sign within your element based on which of the 3 10-day blocks of the sign you’re in. An easy way to calculate it is just to know that the 1st decanate is your own sign, the physical aspect, the 2nd is the next on the wheel in your element, the mental aspect & the third is the last same element sign, the spiritual aspect.

okay so wow once again I find a post that mirrors my experiences with my Scorpio friend. I say friend because right now we are dating and taking things slow because I just recently divorced and have a 2 year old and don’t want to dive head into a new relationship so fast. With him I don’t mind if I do but I’ve had past relationships where all I did was get into them to hastily and they ended up crashing. If this guy represents what a Scorpio man is about then I must say that above any other zodiac sign I’ve dated he is the most awesome. Yes Sagitarius woman and Scorpio male mix will get into heated discussions but what I love about him is that he actually “wants” to talk about things and not avoid conflicts like most men appear to do. I can go on and on but so many of your posts mirror what I feel and think about this guy. He is generous for sure and that’s not why I’m so into him but that is definitely the icing on the cake. He is definitely passionate and passion is something I’ve been missing for a while in my life. No matter what kind of disagreements we have we always make up almost in the same instance and the flame seems to burn hotter and hotter. Anyway you all know where I’m coming from. Just wanted to put my two cents in. SCORPIO MEN ROCK!

CORRECTION !! *Hi James,

i was just reading your post and i agree with sexy-sag who responded to it. The first sag’s youth would explain her entire actions. Naturally we are not selfish and would not turn our backs on our friends and when i read it i was surprised but then sexy-sag brought a good point about the first sag’s youth. When I was younger i was always very giving (for eg. i wanted to give my new bicycle to my younger sister because she didn’t have one yet) but there are certain I recall doing in my youth where I could’ve been more helpful toward a person and I blame it totally on my own lack of life experiences at the time. Your 2nd sag is who we’re really about and I am happy that it worked out for you two.
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@mike
If you’re still around, I’m so sorry for your loss, but your story gives hope…

That you and your beloved wife, who share an eternal bond, will be reunited in the afterlife…

And that no matter what others say, Scorps and Sags can have a beautiful love like yours.

I don’t know,I feel like he is my soulmate.
I have a terrible desire for him,a freaky passion to hold and never let him go.I want him so much (he more than me) but the situation right now isn’t good,because we still aren’t together..

I am a sag woman. I never dated in highschool because I held a high moral standard that dating was for adults and pregnancy was nothing I wanted to deal with so young. In college I couldn’t help but become curious about the young mean I kept seeing around me. For some reason I kept attracting gemini men into my life! As much as their words were adoring, the sex being passionate, and communication being exhilarating along with alluring childish antics, each and everyone of the 3 gemini men I have been with were not completely truthful, arrogant, sarcastic and talked more about things they wanted to accomplish (an impressive list) rather than actually setting goals to accomplish it. The weird thing is you never forget a gemini, they are so colorful that part of you always loves them and being the sag that I am, I wished the second but last would always come back to me despite the lies and arrogance.

However I am now with a scorpio. I was attracted almost instantly because he was sweet without saying one word and my curiosity got the better of me because I was constantly wondering what he was thinking about. He would offer his time to help me with whatever I asked; being a very independent person I feel like part of me was testing is the sweetness was genuine. This man fraustrats me because he is quiet and does not express his feelings. I am constantly asking questions to see if I can even scratch the surface of the depths of this man but it doesn’t work. I have never had anyone answer questions with silence before and not even flinch. There is this quiet strength he has at all times, which makes me feel safe and loved all at the same time.
I have not gotten used to how he constantly watches me, even if I don’t think he is watching me he is watching me. He catches little quirks of mine and seems to make a mental note for later. I feel like I am in a job interview with this man.
The thing that puzzles me is that he only wants to see me once in a while. We are both busy during the week because we run our own businesses but he will still skip out on the odd weekend that we are supposed to get together. I get that this man needs his space, but its too much. Sometimes I think he is out with other girls or with friends or out of town, but I’ve come to find that he is home watching movies by himself on those weekends. I don’t know if the guy is scarred of commitment or what! He constantly says he likes me a lot even though he doesn’t really show it. Says I am the most loving, free-spirited, compassionate and intelligent woman he has come across and that he is only begining to know me and really likes me so I shouldn’t fret.
However, I don’t feel like I am in a relationship because I am used to the constant adoration from gemini (when they are still into you) and the spats we have that draw us close. I can tell I shouldn’t get the scorpio man angry with my sharp tongue (half the time I know its mean but it is always the truth and I am always right, or so I like to think). I can tell there are layers to his emotions and if I hurt or insult him it won’t be easily forgiveable like with gemini where we scream, have sex and get over it.I
Lord help me but this relationship is hard. If you people are saying it will last if i just hold on….then I am just going to do that…I’ve always been loyal even with the gemini..they do not know a real woman

I am a Sag woman, who is dating a long distant Scorpio man!!! He is sexy, funny, motivated, emotional, hard working and secretive! The way how we meet is a long story, but it took us 2 years to finally make a move on “see how this would work!” After we talk almost everyday on the phone!! I flew to where he lived at and only stayed for a couple of days, but within those couple of days he took me around town and introduce me to his friends! And the sex was amazing!!! He said that I am welcome back anytime!!! And i “special” to him! I had a lovely time with him! When it was time for me to fly back home, he brought me flowers, but had a lil attitude! When i texted him that i landed..he said “It seems like i was happy” with a sad face symbol! I couldn’t understand why he would think that way when i had a beautiful time with him! I was just letting him know that was home safely! I tried to tell him that I really missed him, but i guess he didn’t believe me at the time! So he stopped calling for two weeks, so the Sat woman that i am; i was very blunt about how i felt and told him, which it lead to an argument. And we didn’t speak for 4 weeks!
On father’es day i sent a vast text to everyone that i knew was fathers! And he was one of the person that recieved it!! I was shocked that he responded back!!! And from there we started talking again up to now!!!! He had a passing of grandmother that he was Really close too! And he took it hard! Seen i live far, I wanted to be there for him! The most i could do see show my support through the phone and tell him that i am there for him regardless. After that He have been dedicating “love songs” but not telling me he loves me yet! Also he has telling me he wish i was there with him and he miss me more than i can imagine! But the problem is I feel a disconnection between us while he telling me this things! Because lately i notice we aren’t talking as much! He says he have been busy and have alot of things going on! I suppose to fly to see him in 3 weeks, but i asked him do he want me to cancel since he is not going to have much time to spend with me! He still wants me to come, but I feel a emotional distants between us and i feel hurt by it! Even though I know he really cares about me and really like him..I am having some doubts! Some of my friends told me to still go! But again I feel he is not being honest with me and it bothers me! Part of me loves him and part of me should walk away! What to do?