Taurus Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility


Famous Taurus-Aquarius Couples: Billy Joel and Christie Brinkley, Harry and Bess Truman, Lee Majors and Farrah Fawcett, Ryan O’Neill and Farrah Fawcett

Both Taurus and Aquarius are fixed signs so there is a lot of loyalty and staying power.  Taurus brings out the more conservative side of Aquarius which in ancient astrology was ruled by the arch-reactive planet Saturn.  The attraction is one of substance and brilliance.  Opposites attract.  Taurus sees in Aquarius a reason to live.  Aquarius sees in Taurus a grounding foundation, a safe place to hang out.  After all, it gets trippy being out there in the cosmos all the time.   These two speak different languages than the rest of us but are fiercely loyal to one another based largely on how safe Taurus makes Aquarius feel.  Aquarians can feel very exposed because they don’t naturally focus on the day-to-day concerns in life.  Aquarius, on the other hand, keeps Taurus from getting too stuck in the mud, as her mantra is always, “Look!  Look up at the stars!”  When they learn to work together as a team they make the maximum amount of realistic progress possible.  That’s no small claim to fame.  Aquarius may have very brilliant insight into what Taurus wants to accomplish. Bess Truman may well have been the reason Harry is so highly regarded.  Aquarians always know how to build networks to accomplish what would be impossibly hard alone, the Taurus way.


How to Attract a Taurus Man as an Aquarian Woman:  You probably have to make it happen because you’re looking in two different directions.  He’s looking down at the ground and you’re looking up at the sky.  You have to connect the dots for him, like notice his rut, I mean path, and plant yourself in front of him regularly until you become part of his known universe.

How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Taurus Man:  Let’s begin by admitting that, where courtship is concerned, you like the woman to do the heavy lifting.  Isn’t that precisely why you’re attracted to this supercompetent Wonder Woman who knows what she wants and how to get it?  You’re the perfect match.  She’s as bold as you are shy.  In fact you’re probably answering her ad on match.com in another window while browsing the astrology sites.  Aquarians love the internet so you’ve found the perfect way to meet and likely the perfect partner.  With her, if she likes you, she’ll do it all.  What you need to do is just hit the ball back over the net.  Be your sure, steady, tortoise-wins-the-race, reliable self.  That’s what she’s looking for in a man.  She can handle all the rest herself.  What a relief.  One hint that’s important, though.  Don’t be too frugal on your dates.  You’ve got to contribute some energy, too, and it works for you to contribute energy in the form of money.

Degree of Romance:  Neither sign is particularly interested in or impressed by romance.  She expects you to protect her but otherwise it’s more likely to be “business as usual”, as you tend to create a down-to-earth, practical working arrangement for getting things done.  That’s what you each value.

Degree of Passion:   Aquarius’ detachment brings out Taurus’ lustful nature.  Taurus grounds Aquarius’ fantasies.

Degree of Friendship:  These two can be faithful and committed friends.  Especially for a shared vision, Aquarius provides the inspiration.  Taurus provides the perspiration.  They communicate very well together which helps keep the bond of friendship working naturally in their favor.

Degree of Marriage: These two make a very positive marriage because they are both likely to share somewhat conservative values and are willing to work hard for what they want.  One of the most reliable partnerships, neither is inclined to be very restless or to look outside the marriage for unfulfilled needs.  Their expectations about marriage tend to be very realistic which is a big plus.


Progression of Relationship:  Taurus is quite predictable about progressing the relationship and Aquarius likes to follow the rules as well.  Aquarius will make it happen.

Sex:   Sex is enormously fulfilling and a major component of their relationship.  Taurus is, as always, a steady provider, where Aquarius always has a few tricks up her sleeve.   Her complete lack of inhibition helps him explore whole new worlds while his steadiness gives her great comfort.

When It’s Over:  This relationship will have a very bitter ending as both are inclined to invest heavily and to feel like they failed at some enormous undertaking.  Possessions become bones of contention.  Words fail.  They can no longer comfort one another.

Our Rating: 9/10

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98 Responses to Taurus Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility

  • Lynn says:

    Atma. thanks for your feedback. See that some of what you said could have been a possibility in this relationship. He certainly acted in love for some time. I am not much of an actor and it is hard for me to understand why someone would pretend to love another person. Anyway, your Taurus veiwpoint helped.

  • Lynn says:

    P.S. Atma, if you are half as wonderful as my ex-Taurus man was, there is a very lucky girl out there,, maybe already in your life. He was such a beautiful, wonderful man.

  • atma says:

    I agree.. i may have made some wrong decisions … but its not that I did it in spontaneity .. i tried to understand my situation at that time and did what felt the best for both of us… and i perfectly agree that true love can withstand any barrier….but barriers isnt what i wanted my love to live with.,. it would give me more pain to see my love suffer coz i am not a good provider… i can provide her the love… well i really dont know if it was the right thing but luckily god gave her a happy life, and i know she was a strong woman and i am really happy for her happiness.. coz what i believe in love is… whatever happens.. i only and only want to see my love happy and comfortable… if i am not able to do it, i still want her happy someway… and it is also true that… i would hav cursed myself if she was in a worse situation… but god is great and gives me the sign to this day that may be i did the right thing.. (to convince myself..)

    I can tell you one another important thing …. i dont hav a love yet.. but as a taurean… i hav set my mind on one thing… that, whoever i fall in love with, the woman i marry.. will be the one i will love more everyday until i die… she will be my wife and she deserves to be adored and pampered and loved… coz she is only mine and i will cherish her… forever… taureans love the idea of getting committed forever… they like romance and mushy stuff.. but if things dont happen as expected… they break and get frustrated… but if things go well… they woud do anything to make it stronger. I know that really doesnt make a lot of sense.. but it is that way, may be with different levels within taureans..

  • Lynn says:

    There ya go atma. You r already on the right road. If you love her and make her your wife, cherishing, pampering and showing affection will keep the fire burning, but make sure she gives the same back to you, b/c you deserve it, too!!

  • atma says:

    here is a question for all the Aquarian honey bunnies…

    what/how/when do u want a Taurean to do for you?? expectations..??

    Treat you, adore you, talk with you, work with you, love you, fight with you, stay silent and be patient with you, stand you, sleep with u ;) , enjoy with u, …
    when do you want the taurean to just shut you up with ur nonsense and irritation … with the most passionate kiss.. and when do you want to slap across ur man… when he aint speaking to you…

    in short stay forever with u….

    comments plzz

  • Lynn says:

    atma, My ex-Taurean man had a knack for talking and making me laugh. He viewed things on a slightly offset fashion, that I got. I could make a goofy off the wall comment and instead of him looking at me like a dog at a new bowl, he would snap back with something just as zany or more. He was always telling me how wonderful I was,.sending me romantic txts thru out the day. He would cook wonderful meals for me and enjoyed doing it, he gave me long romantic massages and told me how beautiful he thought I was.
    We talked about everything, we had no secrets, or so I thought. We dated a little over 2 months before we became intimate. He was wonderful there too, so wanted to please me, took his time, never hurry up the football game is coming on. He held my hand and hugged me just because. He did so many little insignificant things that meant so much to me. He was a little moody at times and that was the only time I would get frustrated with him, b/c he would tend to shut me out. Anyway, b/c of all those things and ways that he treated me, it made me want to treat him the same way back and I fell in love with him. It is over now and that’s the only time I have wanted to kick his ass, b/c there was never a reason given to me. We never fought, we had disagreements but would talk them thru.
    He was intelligent, and very deep thinking, generous, loving, affectionate, looked at me like I was the only thing he saw. We had alot of activities that we enjoyed along with just lying on the couch watching TV and doing nothing. There was never any pressure.
    I miss him to this very day. I am sure there are some Aquarian women out there who do not like some of the things that I like, sometimes zodiac signs can be deceiving. My Tauean man and I connected on a higher level than just the physical, to the point that it scared me just a little. I am sure that one day I will meet someone and move on, but I will never forget him and how wonderful he was.
    Hoped this helped somewhat.

  • atma says:

    tx lynn… it was wonderful to read ur wonderful experience… reminds me of some past memories. sacrificing was like a cutting my heart into two pieces. people move on.. but u right lynn somethings simply wont fade from ur head n heart.

  • taurus11 says:

    Type your comment here

    Lynn :

    You know, I would like to get some Taurus male feedback and insight on this. What do you guys think?

  • taurus11 says:

    oh my gosh. i am attracted to this Aquarius female! she is… not your normal girl. shes outgoing and deviates from the norm a little. i really like that. i don’t like generic people too much. i want someone who is willing to think outside the box like my self. if not at least LOOK outside the box. my radical ideas on chi, spiritual advancement and chi really seem to intrigue her. people say that makes me a little eccentric but luckly for me she digs it! its almost shocking how perfect i think we would be together!!!!

  • Lynn says:

    Taurus, your Aquarian girl is drawn to that “higher plane” of thinking that you possess b/c for her there is something more out there that goes beyond the physical realm. Oh, don’t get me wrong, she enjoys the physical but it will depress her if she stays in the physical for too long… She has to wander beyond to be fulfilled and if sounds as if she thinks you are perfect to wander with. Tip: Never belittle her or make fun of her desires to seek the spirtual side of life, cherish it and and know that is part of who she is. Good luck.

  • atma says:

    Good point Lynn. Spiritualism embraces thinking. Thought for a good, more for the other than you, can bring harmony. Compatibility is a product of head not heart. All said, if each can play the same game, you strike love.

    Tx for the insight.

  • Lynn says:

    Well, here I am again, missing my Taurus man. Thinking one day he will at least make some contact with me. I miss him so much. He will never know how much. It is like a piece of my very soul has been ripped away.
    I have been dating on and off and I catch my self comparing them to my ex-taurus….I know that is not fair,,,but they all are so regular. My guy was a cut above, so engaging and interesting. I find myself bored with all the others. I think of him so much through out the day and don’t know how to stop. Curse you Taurus men. Why do you have to be so wonderful.

  • erica says:

    Aquarian woman with the older Taurus man: he is well grounded and very sensuous. He is devoted and know what a girls whats and needs. He is the rock I never had. I am a spiritual sexual inspiration to his well grounded desires. I missed him whenever he is not around. He constantly comments how beautiful I am from head to toe. He is not the a very attractive person. However, he is talented and attractive in other ways. My body quenches for his touch and when I will feel him next. He has the softest hands that I have ever felt and he seems to be intridgue with my sexual out and over the edge sexual desires.

    Signed
    Never had a lot like this before.

  • Lynn says:

    Erica, your description sounds so familiar, hope he isn’t my ex. If he is, congrats for stealing him away, you are a lucky woman. I too desired my Taurean’s touch, to feel him next to me, his scent. This Aquarius girl has lost many tears over this one and still is.

  • lost and confused says:

    Advice is what I need: I would love to hear some input from anyone that is willing to give it. my story is long but to understand my situation I think I should start from the most important points. Have been talking to a man with the birthday of May 28th. i read the Taurus sign and the Gemini sign, Taurus fits this man to a T. We have been talking for 5 months now. He has been divorced for 5 years and has had no relationship with anyone else sinse his divorce. He has a 20 year old son and a 10 year old son (different mothers). His youngest son is his world. Both live with him. At first we spent a few days a month together. Now I am lucky if I get to see him once a month. He says he always wants to b friends first and dont want things to go bad between us. He said he wants to take things slow. His 10 year old just loves me to death. When we r together his son has said many times it is just like a family when we r together. The divorce ended because he found out his ex wife was gay. This I am sure has been very hard for the man I am talking to as well as the little boy. Our relationship is based on texting. He works afternoons and I work days. It seems that themore I ask to spend time with him the longer it is before I c him. The more I try to talk to him the more he avoids me. If i make no attempt to speak with him… he comes back at me hard. he will text me more.. I just dont understand his way of thinking. what is it that he wants. Ihave ask him a number of times if he wantsme to step away and he tells me no not at all. he is always saying he is just so busy. Can anyone explain to me what it is this taurus/gemini wants or does not want?
    Thanks for your time

  • Michelle says:

    Been married to my Taurus man for over 6 years now and we are a wonderful, dedicated match. He is the domestic rock upon which my whole world rests. I always challenge his mind and romance him in new ways to keep him interested. And his mind is as sharp as they come and the way he thinks about things is so different from me that it always surprises me when he says something so insightful, so true and I didn’t see it coming!

    We trust each other with anything and everything, and we’ve found the balance between my need for independence/eccentricity and his need for security/routine. He is very possessive and jealous sometimes, and in my experience, this is just one of those areas where the Aquarian woman has to yield in order for happiness to flourish. The Taurus man needs to know that he is wanted as much as he wants you, and that means making the sacrifice sometimes to do as he asks — like, cut ties with that ex boyfriend who you’ve been friends with for years but it makes him uneasy (I know, asking an Aquarian to lose a friend is like asking them to cut off an arm!). For me, it’s worth the trade, to have such a devoted husband, patient and loving father to my son, and the most incredible sex life imagineable.

    Pamper him with backrubs and good food, and you’ve got yourself a protector, a chivalrous gentleman, and best friend for life!

  • atma says:

    @ flora
    a smile in my love’s face is all what makes me happy..
    whether she is happy with me or with someone else..

    for some it is hard to realize that..
    yes its equally painful for me as well, but i can treasure only one
    the one who is always smiling with me.

  • ZOEY says:

    WELL IM A AQUARIUS FEMALE AND IM WITH A TAURUS..IMEAN HE IS JUST EVERYTHING I ALWAYS WANTED WE HAVE BEEN KNOIN EACHOTHA FOR A WHILE NOW BUT BEEN DATING 1 MONTH AND WE BUMO OUR HEADS BUT I SWEAR I LOVE HIM HE TOLD ME HE LOVE ME B4 WE GOT TO A MONTH I JUS WONDER WHAT WILL THIS RELATION BE LIKE HOW WILL THE SEX BE.? AND DO WE HAVE WHAT WE BOTH NEED

  • Priscilla says:

    taurus really needs to loosen their purse strings and they are so lazy…Other than that it was ok. I mean comon you need to get your a.. moving if you going to have a livelihood. Somehow they dont grow up in a sense moving from job to job and no hassles statying home if need be.

  • Ken says:

    Taurus here, 33, she is 23. I really love this aqua girl (fits her to a t) ha, but with that said, I’ve had to find counsel. I have been mostly infatuated and in love with Virgos they are mostly the ones I have adored and cherished. But this Aqua girl I am getting to know, I feel she may outshine them all, but I am in the middle of a great transition in my life. I am on a path that I am not wavering from, no matter what. It has led me on the greatest discoveries I have made in my entire life. But it also precludes me from any sort of relationship (have been celibate for 7 years, difficult but I have done so for my innermost predilections and beliefs), although I do want to keep her in my life. The gist I get, the vibe I get is that she feels the same as I do in terms of attraction and feeling. Maybe I am wrong but usually right in spotting mutual attraction…I just want to be forthright with her but can find no way to express this with her. I have been too forthright in my previous relationships and I now realize tact is something I have sorely lacked my whole life. What would be the right thing to say to keep her as a friend always?

  • Michael says:

    I’m a Taurean Male and was with my Aquarius female for only months, but can honestly say it was one of (if not thee) best relationships I’ve ever been lucky enough to have been in. I am completely honest when I say that I would absolutely still be with her at this very moment if she wasn’t so immature and selfish. In the beginning I knew she was immature, she gave me a wedgie before we really became friends on the first night we had hung out together. She thought that was funny and I knew she needed a laugh due to what she was going through so I didn’t even care. The first night we went out as a couple was at a show where she proceeded to hand out her number to another guy because she thought he was too drunk to drive, and offered him a place to stay (her house!) for the night to sleep it off. She invited me in but I layed her into bed because I knew she had too much to drink as she was talking to quite a few other guys and getting free drinks all night( I didn’t find this out until after the night was over). I didn’t take her out to hang out with my friends again after that because I felt embarrassed. She knew it, and she even apologized and I understood. I chalked it up to Aquarius’ uncanny ability to be social with everyone and her/their need to flourish in such a setting. These girls will not be held back in any way, so if your contemplating having any sort of relationship with an Aquarius then keep that in mind. I knew it coming into this and even told her that we would most likely be better as simply friends. I never once wanted to hold her back but I could feel it between us that it might get to a point some time in the future that she would pursue more than I could give her. Which was fine, I knew it would eventually happen so when it did only a short time ago, I wasn’t confused or angry or even frustrated because I saw it coming. What DID confuse and frustrate me is that Aquarius females want it all, at least mine did. We had such unimaginable potential, from my perspective anyways. I was able to connect with her for only a few random moments as I think she was afraid to let me into her own world. I couldn’t truly love someone who needs to keep me at bay and out of their comfort zone, which again I saw ‘friends’ being a better option due to this. I don’t know, and I can’t imagine all Aquarius females are like this but I know she’s been hurt in the past, we all have. How we choose to learn and keep moving from those lessons is completely up to us. The truth is, I could never completely establish myself with her. God knows I wanted that to happen more than anything else in the world, but it just wasn’t going to no matter how hard I tried or what angle I approached it from. There is a feeling you get when you are with someone that you know is on the other side of a conversation, and it’s been labeled ‘chemistry’. I saw there could be more ‘chemistry’ there than anyone else I’d ever been with, but 99% of the words I’d said had gone unnoticed, not replied to, blatantly ignored and completely over her head.
    As I’m reading these comments others have left for us all, I’m noticing the word ‘superficial’ coming up on more than just one occasion. That means I’m not alone when I say my Aquarius female had lived on this superficial place for maybe too long to be able to catch the direct and sometimes in-direct idea’s of what I had held so high for our future together. Communication was poor. I’d brought it up so many times it seemed useless to keep playing my broken record. Our inability to convey our feelings to each other left us in a weird zone that I’d never been to before. How I can love someone so much but not be understood by her? She would say the same thing although I believe I understood her possibly better than she understood herself. She always said ‘actions speak louder than words’. She was right, her actions spoke volumes and I understood more about her every time I would catch her doing something selfish I would hesitate.
    Taureans pull away and that’s true about me as well, I pulled away and thought twice about seriously investing myself into this relationship when I saw this same girl that I’d been in love with stay out late and drink when her young children were at home sleeping. I tried to convey how irresponsible and immature this was and I wasn’t direct with this approach, but should I have to be? I’m stubborn yes, so I proceeded to be direct and tell her, but these conversations as well as others seemed to go in one ear and right out the other. Nothing it seemed had a way of sticking, we could never build the foundation. An idea that I’d had in the very beginning of this had faded. It left me nearly broken, even now I still think about what could have been and how it could have gone different.
    What I wrote above may come off as a bit judgmental. I’ll admit to this much, that I’m not the greatest partner. I’m lazy, I procrastinate, But I know how to get the job done. I have the ability to understand things beyond even my own levels of experience, as I’m sure most/some other taureans can also do. Maybe that’s truly what Aquarius holds in such high regard, their unorthodox ways are understood by us and possibly by nobody else. I saw clearly the what, the how, and the why of this girl. I could see her coming home from work to our house, and I’d be there for her and know exactly what to say and how to say it to make her feel better if she’d had a bad day. I would know exactly how she was feeling at all times and was there for her, and I truly wanted to be there for her more than anything else. This was (or so i thought) possibly the last girl I was ever going to want to be with as I mentioned before. I told a friend that I still love this girl, and that if she wasn’t so selfish and such an axxxxxe, then I would absolutely still be with her. He said that I should tell her that, and see what happens. I can’t understand how or why that would change anything though.

    Response to comments:

    @Thia; I lol’d when I read that your the only one that can deal with his bullishness, I remember telling her that before.

    @Paul, I know the feeling Bro! So sorry to hear things went that way. I don’t know that she didn’t care, she was there in the first place. Maybe it was just for the sex? Or maybe she just didn’t know how to care, who knows.

    @Aquagirl, Yea, Aquarius girls will do what they want, when they want it, and if they don’t get their way then oh wow, you have a whole new set of issues to deal with now. Which leads me to ‘Soya’s comment’ of Taureans making better fathers than husbands. Well maybe that’s because when Aquarius girls don’t get their way, then they (maybe not all Aquarius girls) turn into little children and don’t know what to do. Well here comes the authoritative Taurus who knows how to handle such situations! Sound familiar to any of you? Yes we make great fathers because we know how. At least I do, and I’ve always been told I will make a great dad if/when I have children of my own. Some of your outbursts just seem funny and puzzling to us, so we/I know not to take it seriously. It’s like a children’s outburst, I know you’ll be over it within minutes so why fuss and argue over it?

    @Ms Peaches; i think your correct on the ‘limited togetherness’. Views and perspectives are completely different, and if any of you have found the balance that’s necessary to sustain this relationship then I have nothing but the best wishes to send you. I wish we could do the same, and things were different on my side.

    @Jenn; I’m really happy for you both, for real!

    @la Porcha; I had the same feelings, no matter how messed up things seemed to be I still wouldn’t of traded it for anything. I was ‘in’ no matter what!

  • Michael says:

    Priscilla :

    taurus really needs to loosen their purse strings and they are so lazy…Other than that it was ok. I mean comon you need to get your a.. moving if you going to have a livelihood. Somehow they dont grow up in a sense moving from job to job and no hassles statying home if need be.

    Your absolutely right, we DO! There’s something I do, and it’s an analytical approach to literally everything to an extent that it takes up so much time to make a single decision that by the time the decision has been made by us, we/I have already lost the chance it seems. Taureans theme should be ‘Better late than never’.

    ZOEY :

    WELL IM A AQUARIUS FEMALE AND IM WITH A TAURUS..IMEAN HE IS JUST EVERYTHING I ALWAYS WANTED WE HAVE BEEN KNOIN EACHOTHA FOR A WHILE NOW BUT BEEN DATING 1 MONTH AND WE BUMO OUR HEADS BUT I SWEAR I LOVE HIM HE TOLD ME HE LOVE ME B4 WE GOT TO A MONTH I JUS WONDER WHAT WILL THIS RELATION BE LIKE HOW WILL THE SEX BE.? AND DO WE HAVE WHAT WE BOTH NEED

    Nobody can answer ‘if we both have it or not’ or ‘how good the sex will be’ but both of you. I would stop asking and try it out

    lost and confused :

    Advice is what I need: I would love to hear some input from anyone that is willing to give it. my story is long but to understand my situation I think I should start from the most important points. Have been talking to a man with the birthday of May 28th. i read the Taurus sign and the Gemini sign, Taurus fits this man to a T. We have been talking for 5 months now. He has been divorced for 5 years and has had no relationship with anyone else sinse his divorce. He has a 20 year old son and a 10 year old son (different mothers). His youngest son is his world. Both live with him. At first we spent a few days a month together. Now I am lucky if I get to see him once a month. He says he always wants to b friends first and dont want things to go bad between us. He said he wants to take things slow. His 10 year old just loves me to death. When we r together his son has said many times it is just like a family when we r together. The divorce ended because he found out his ex wife was gay. This I am sure has been very hard for the man I am talking to as well as the little boy. Our relationship is based on texting. He works afternoons and I work days. It seems that themore I ask to spend time with him the longer it is before I c him. The more I try to talk to him the more he avoids me. If i make no attempt to speak with him… he comes back at me hard. he will text me more.. I just dont understand his way of thinking. what is it that he wants. Ihave ask him a number of times if he wantsme to step away and he tells me no not at all. he is always saying he is just so busy. Can anyone explain to me what it is this taurus/gemini wants or does not want?
    Thanks for your time

    Sounds familiar. We go slow, even after that fact that things have progressed we still want to go slow. In my original post here I made things sound much much worse than they really were. I’m sure I confused some of you reading this when I combined ‘I’d still be with her’ and then laying out every negative aspect of what happened. This might relate to your post because he may or may not be thinking of what bad might come out of the situation, and he’s got 2 kids to worry about as well and how they might feel if things should go south.

    By going slow in my experience; it worked well in the very beginning because I had no expectations, and I don’t know if she even looked at me as a possibility. In my opinion I don’t think she did because she gave me a wedgie the first night lol. I just wanted to be cool, and I saw she was going through a tremendous amount of stress and already having a mutual friend who had given me a heads up on that, so I wanted to be there for her. I’ll admit I was extremely attracted to her already, but I knew how to let that go first seeing as I didn’t think she was into me at all on that kind of level. She wanted to be friends as well so it was great. I got to know her more and more and as each day went by I realized how just ‘cool’ this girl really was. I didn’t stand a chance. I was in no way nearly as cool as she was. I was in no way as fun, outgoing, and charismatic as she was. There was absolutely no way I could get her. This girl was a rock star, some of her family called her that. I believe it to be true. I think in every sense of the word, from the personality, the outgoing traits, the ability to talk to anyone and put a smile on their face, and the dress code that they follow pertains exactly to this girl. Everybody loves a rock star. They entertain us, they lift our spirits, they give us energy, they don’t care what you say or do because they already know their own path and there’s nothing you can do to stop them, in short there is more spirit inside of them than most. Well I happened to fall in love with this rock star. I remember kissing her for the first time, it felt so incredibly natural. My gut instinct of meeting her thinking that there was no possible way I stood any sort of chance that I had already come to terms with was apparently wrong. Everything was fluent in the beginning. It just flowed and there was nothing else I wanted to do, or anybody else I wanted to be with. It didn’t matter though, and that’s what hurt the most. She did everything, even if I told her no, even if I didn’t want her to spend money on lunch she still would. Even if I told her not to drive us out somewhere she still would. Even when I was sick as a dog and didn’t want to see anybody in the world she still came. Even when I was sickest on my birthday she still came, with a home made ice cream birthday cake. Her children even made me a card. I didn’t deserve this. Because no matter what she did, or how amazing she was, I was still wondering if I was really what she wanted. You know that analytical frame of mind that Taureans are said to have? Well it just so happens that I’ve got it. I remember driving back from her house (I was always staying later than I should because I would lose track of everything else in the world when I was with this girl) and started thinking that I could really be with her forever. I thought about it more, and about her past and what she had chosen to do with her life prior to me, and I wondered if I could sustain her? Was it selfish of me to think of it like that? To some it may, who am I to choose for the both of us something like that? She is a rock star at heart, who am I to deserve someone this incredible? That same rock star attitude that draws me to her starts to push me away slowly. This happened when I saw some things really start to develop but with that thought of long-term in the back of my mind, I had to be sure. I needed to be sure that this was the girl for me, but when my attempt to slow things down only escalated things to go faster, I didn’t know what else to do. I know I made some mistakes, I know that I was always honest with her though, with every single thought that popped into my head that pertained to both of us, and I think I should have held some of those things in. Not all, but maybe just some of them.

    Either way, this led to the end of the relationship. Truth of the matter is that there are a number of reasons that her and myself should not be together. My selfishness was more than her selfishness though, she had little bits of superficial selfishness, whereas mine ended any bit of possibilities of what could have been between us. There’s a saying, you can’t truly help anyone until you can help yourself first. And that’s my selfish reason for being single right now ultimately. I honestly don’t think about any little/big negative thing she did during our small amount of time together, because I loved her too much to let any of it bother me, and maybe that’s what made her so comfortable. And vice/versa, because no matter what dumb words came out of my mouth, she didn’t let anything get to her. And there’s something in there that made me comfortable too.

    Things are different now between us, I’ll say here that I still think about how it would be if things were different, but I’d never say it to her. I know things wouldn’t be different though, as much as I can think good now, away from the situation and from a different perspective, I don’t think it can work. At least right now. Being friends now, I still can’t wait to make fun of her for something stupid though, she still manages to brighten my day up a little no matter what she says or how she says it, just talking to her works for me for now. And I hope that never goes away. At the same time nothing lasts forever, so I try and stay busy and try not to read too much into it. Just like in the beginning when things came easy and we could laugh at each other without thinking a single other thought but just having fun.

  • ShutupKris says:

    I dated a Taurus for a few months. I was drawn to the touchy huggy feely stuff. You either want something or you don’t. I never understood his push pull game. He was sure he knew me better than I knew myself but that made me really mad. The last thing on the planet I want to hear was “Oh you will be fine” when everything is going wrong. But he always told me that. I can deal with not understanding most things and just going with it but I really feel like he always played up his feelings and completly disreguarded mine. I tried to make things work but I didn’t understand him, and overall I didn’t like the way he made me feel. I guess I was craving the connection we had in the begining and I had a picture in my mind of what he could have been for me and how things could have played out and I really wanted that. I do wish I could stop seeing what i want to see and learn to see what is really right in front of me. I was iffy about getting into a relationship at this stressful time in my life and I don’t regret that I did it. Even thuogh it didn’t end well I did gain from the experience. I do regret letting myself get that close to someone though. I wish nothing but the best for my Taurus guy and hope he finds someone better suited for him in the future.

    As for me I hope to find a guy one day that will ground me a little, much like a taurus could. I would want someone who wouldn’t question every single thing and just go with it though. Life is not that serious. Live a little.

  • aquariette says:

    … theres this taurus guy that i know likes me, but i dont like him back… :( i dont avoid his texts or anything like that, i reply… he remembers things i told him a month ago wich is nice… but idk… i like him as a friend?

  • Winie says:

    I thought the Aquarian was(when With Leo ) a Rebel Witout a cause How can she now “like to follow the rules?”" Confused ??

  • RobbyZ says:

    Please help me understand my Aqua girlfriend… she’s 23 single mom and I’m 34 who’s really in love with her. I look really young though.

    So we’ve been together for about 5 months. In the beginning she was very attached to me. She would always talk to me at night. She would text me sweet stuff, etc. She would always meet me at my place. We’ve been intimate in most occasions.

    But these past few weeks, I’ve been feeling that she’s detached and I’m feeling taken for granted. Sometimes, she won’t even bother to reply to my texts. When I call her, most of the time no answer and would take hours to call me back. When she say, she’ll call me, she does not.

    I might have a clue on why she’s acting differently lately. She thinks I don’t trust her. She can’t blame me. If she said she will meet or call me, I would be waiting. And if you don’t show up or call me, I would be worrying.

    Sometimes, I feel that she’s lying about small stuffs to avoid hurting me.

    And another big thing that bothers me. I don’t know where she lives. She said, she had a history with a stalker and that she’s afraid. So I’m just patiently waiting.

    Our relationship is slowly progressing. She recently invited me to a family party so I’ve already met her parents. Her parents know we’re dating. But she introduced me only as friends to others.

    We still talk almost everyday. She still say she loves me. It’s just that I’m confused. I’m really trying to understand her and compromise.

    Does she really still loves me?

    I appreciate any Aquarian views. What should I do?

  • aquariette says:

    hm, to me it sounds likeshes a bit cautious around you and may not trust you wholey. she also might think that she was too attached at first, and now is giving yu your space, or trying to make you chase after her a bit. some of ur texts may seem insugnificant or annoying to her, so she might just brush them aside. then again, she might look at the texts hours after you sent them and think that its too late for her to reply. the same thing goes for the calls, she could just be buisy. idk y she would lie, but i do too occasionaly.

    im guessing that she doent trust that if u break up, u wont be going to her house in some sort of revenge. she also may be embarrased to tell her friends about boyfriends and such(they could make it a big deal around her)
    shes gunna be detached, she dosent want to bug you. id say she still loves you. if i date someone, im commited to them. if i dont like em, im still friendly.

    if i loved them, but lost interest, i hide in my shell, run away at the sight of them, and lose all contact with em :-! but eventually ill start talking to them. the whole avoiding them kinda hurts their feelings tho :-/ oops

    this is my personal views of what i would be thinking if i was her, sorry if it doesnt help.

  • aquariette says:

    ps. i doubt she cares about the age difference as long as your a swell person in her eyes

  • RobbyZ says:

    @aquariette

    Thank you. Well she is actually mad at me. She thinks that I am not sincere, that all I care about is myself. There were 3 incidents in the past 10 days that we had an argument about me wanting her to meet me. It was not that I was pushing her to meet me… but I guess she felt that I don’t care of what she’s saying. She felt I care more about getting what I want. That is probably why she’s changed in the past few weeks.

    We haven’t talked for the last 2 days. She said we’ll talk on the 3rd day. The last time we talked, she said she’s getting uncomfortable with me. I’m thinking that she’s about to break up with me.

    I really love her. But I guess I can’t do anything if she doesn’t love me anymore. I am really trying to work hard in this relationship even though I don’t understand some of the aquarian ways… I just wish she works with me.

    Any advise on how to make our relationship work? How should I deal with an aquarian girlfriend? Do you think she’s about to break up with me?

  • Denise says:

    I am an Aquarius woman who went on vacation and two days before leaving, I inquired about my first love Taurus (29 years ago) and found out that he was in the country. I got his number and he came over the next day. I think he is the cutest man ever. I really really love him and he said he never stopped thinking about me. He surprised me and came to take me to the airport and give me a ring. Ever since I’ve returned from my vacation, I can’t stop thinking about him and he even talked about marriage and having a child together.

    I’ve had two failed marriages which I think was based on me thinking of my first and he was married once but it lasted for 3 months.

    Do you think this is a good idea to marry him?

  • RobbyZ says:

    @aquariette

    My aquarius girlfriend is now not talking to me. She said she’ll talk to me in person but she did not. I am giving her time and space right now. But I am really hurt. I don’t know where our relationship stands now.

    All she said is she made up her mind and we will talk in person. I don’t know if she just don’t have the guts to dump me. Or if she’s not sure she what she wants.

    Should I just let her go and assume that we’re over? It’s been a week. And I am losing sleep.

  • Tanisha says:

    OMG i met a Taurus boy once and he was such an a hole I was like Next…….

  • Venus says:

    In response to Michael: Wow it sounds like you really loved this aqua girl, too bad communication between you guys didn’t seem to work at all! Or that she didn’t seem to listen to you. Idk I’m an aqua myself and it’s true of aqua girls that we are not always completely aware of our partner’s feelings. But it sounds as if you, on several occasions, tried to explain to her how immature you thought she was acting and that she was causing you pain. I cannot understand how she didn’t take this seriously. Being a little “out there” is maybe an aqua thing but at the same time aquas are pretty sensitive creatures, at least I am, and someone telling me such things, I would have seriously started to review my behaviour towards this person.

    Not all aquas are that superficial, you know. And really, if you don’t fully agree with you bull, well you can tell him how you look at things and then you both try to find some middle ground, this is usually how things work in a relationship…

    Communication, communication, communication….

    Peace & love

  • aqua chick says:

    I AM AN AQUARIUS CHICK!

    IM CURRENTLY DATING A TAURUS HUNK FOR MORE THAN 5 LONG YEARS..

    HE DIDNT COURT ME OR ANYTHING..

    HE WAS STRAIGHT-FORWARD..
    FRANK.. AND VERY CONFIDENT WHEN HE ASKED ME TO BE HIS GURL..

    HE JUST ASKED ME 3 QUESTIONS:

    1. DO YOU HAVE A BF? I SAID NO.
    2. DO YOU LIKE ME? I SAID YEAH. (I THOUGHT HE WAS PLAYING GAMES SO I JUST SAID “YEAH!”)
    3. SO, YOU’RE MY GURL NOW? I SAID, SURE! (HAHA! SO FUNNY! I REALLY THOUGHT HE WAS JUST SOBBER!)

    THEN THATS THE TIME WE STARTED DATING..

    WE’VE BEEN ON AND OFF BEFORE..
    HE KEEPS COMING BACK..

    THEN AFTER PLAYING GAMES,
    HE BECAME SERIOUS..
    HE BECAME POSSESIVE OF ME..

    HE TREATS ME LIKE A PRINCESS..
    HE COOKS FOR ME..
    HE EVEN PUT THE FOOD ON MY PLATE..
    (EVERY SINGLE TIME!)
    HE MAKE SURE IM SAFE,AT ALL TIMES!

    HE IS SWEET..
    VERY SWEET..

    I DONT FIND HIM ROMANTIC..
    BUT HE WRITES LOVE LETTERS TO ME..

    HE GIVES ME HUG..
    KISSES.. EVEN WHILE WE WALK, HE KISSES ME..

    HE’S GONNA TREAT YOU LIKE A BABY..
    I MEAN, HE’S REALLY GONNA BE THERE WHENEVER YOU NEED HIM..

    HE WILL DO ANYTHING THAT YOU WANT..
    EVEN THE MOST SIMPLE THINGS..

    HE NEVER COMPLAINS WHENEVER I ASK HIM TO GET WATER IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT..
    TURN-OFF THE LIGHTS EVEN WHEN HIS SO TIRED AND LAZY TO GET UP (HE’LL STILL DO IT..)
    HE DOESNT MIND WHEN I CHANGE THE CHANNEL TO THE MOST BORING SHOW..
    HE DOESNT MIND WHEN I ASK HIM CARRY MY LITTLE CUTE PINK CLUTCH!

    I NEVER WENT HOME ALL BY MYSELF, WHY?
    HE ALWAYS WAIT FOR ME BY THE DOOR EVERY AFTER CLASS AND MAKES SURE THAT WE GO HOME TOGETHER..(WHEN I WAS STILL IN COLLEGE)..

    WHEN I WAS WORKING,
    WHEN HE CANT PICK ME UP,
    HE ALWAYS MAKE SURE THAT I GO HOME HAPPY..
    I MEAN, THE FOOD IS READY..
    I HAVE NOTHING TO THINK ABOUT WHEN I GO HOME..

    HE PROTECTS ME AGAINST ANYONE..
    HE MAKES SURE THAT NO ONE WILL HURT ME IN ANY KIND OF WAY..

    WHEN HE IS UP TO SOMETHING HE WILL REALLY DO IT..
    WHEN HE TELLS YOU SOMETHING, OR PROMISE YOU SOMETHING, HE WILL DO IT..

    BUT THERE ARE ALSO ROUGH TIMES..

    AS AN AQUARIAN, I LOVE MY FREEDOM..
    BUT AS A TAUREAN, HE IS POSSESSIVE AND JEALOUS..

    THE ONLY REASON WHY WE FIGHT IS HIS JEALOUSY.

    HE JEALOUS EVERYTIME.
    WHEN I SAY EVERYTIME IT MEANS ALWAYS!

    WHEN I TALK TO OTHER GUYS, EVEN TO SOMEONE WHO IS GAY.. HE IS JEALOUS..

    WHEN I TALK TO A GURL,
    HE THINKS SHE’S A LESBIAN..

    HE WANTS ME TO BE “HIS ONE AND ONLY!”
    THATS SWEET..
    BUT HE THINKS IM HIS PROPERTY..

    WHEN WE FIGHT,
    HE REALLY MAKES SURE THAT IM HURT..
    YOU WILL HEAR THE WORDS YOU NEVER WANT TO HEAR..
    YOU WILL FEEL THE PAIN YOU NEVER EVEN IMAGINE THAT HE CAN DO..

    HE IS A BULL.
    HE OUTRAGE WHEN HE IS MAD. TRULLY MAD.

    I FEEL SCARED WHEN HE IS MAD AT ME
    BECAUSE I KNOW,
    AND IM EXPECTING HIM TO BE VERY VERBAL AND PHYSICAL TO ME..

    I FEEL ABUSED WHEN WE FIGHT.
    I CANT FIGHT BACK BECAUSE I KNOW IT WILL ONLY WORSTEN THE SITUATION..

    THATS THE ONLY THING THAT I WANT TO WARN YOU IF YOU WANT TO DATE A TAURUS GUY..

    THEY CAN BE THE SWEETEST, MOST RELIABLE GUY IN THE WORLD THAT YOU WILL MEET..
    BUT
    HE CAN ALSO BE THE WORST MAN WHO WILL BREAK YOU HEART AND SOUL..

    I LOVE HIM SO MUCH THATS WHY WE ARE STILL TOGETHER..

    BUT I KNOW, IF I CANT CHANGE HIM..
    WE WILL ONLY END TO BE “SOMEONE I USED TO KNOW..”

  • anonymous says:

    Hey aqua chick have u thought of anything, which will help him in changing ????????????

  • Imi says:

    I’m an Aquarius(female) and I’m with a Taurus(male) and he has literally knocked my exs out the window. It’s only been a couple months and he’s already got ME hooked. Since the day we first meet our eyes connected and the conversation was extremely exciting and strange. And when he asked me to be his girl after me breaking up with my ex(stubborn Aries :/), I was happy and willing. Which is blasphemy considering my recent encounters with incompatible men and my issues with trust. But he makes me talk and blurt out everything on my mind in an instant. An I don’t mean my normal Aquarius tactic where as I am normally blunt and say my opinion but he just brings out the “mushy” side in me that I never knew existed.

    He’s funny, caring, adorable, and stubborn as hell and I just love it! He’s everything I can ever need in a man without even trying. And his possessiveness only heightens my sexual passion for him. Oh yeah and the intercourse is basically AMAZING. He was my first, and let me tell you… It was a billion times better than I expected. Normally your first time should be awkward and just painful. Well, he changed my views when he made it both entertaining and basically enjoyable. He had me smiling from the start to finish… Making it a memorable experience…

    But even with all his “great” qualities… I’m still worried whether I should let him sweep me off my feet completely. He’s very well known at school by most of the female student population and he’s pretty introvert when it comes to talking about himself… I don’t know if I should keep going with no worries or keep a watchful eye… Help please…

  • Aquadove says:

    So I met this great Taurus man about 10 years ago. We lived in different states, so when he come to town we would hang out. The sex was good and that was pretty much it. I personally never felt he was into me that much so I never really pursued him. We lost touch for the last 10 years and he finds me again. He said that he thought about me a lot and has tried to find me on several occasions. Also, he told me such sweet things and that I had left an impression on him. Weird because I never felt that from him at all back then. So yeah, we talked one time for a couple hours the other night with some great conversation. Haven’t heard from him in 2 days. What gives? I can’t tell what he wants or why he contacted me again. He’s still so handsome and gave me butterflies. damn it. ;)

  • jan22 says:

    I am an Aquarian woman who was best friends with a Taurus for years before we dated. After we dated, it only lasted 4 months. Now, we haven’t spoken to each other in 4 years. My warning to Aquarian females is to just stay friends with a Taurus. This romantic match is a disaster waiting to happen.
    The anger that a Taurus possesses is unmatched to any other sign and he WILL be emotionally abusive. He also will cheat. A LOT.

  • fay says:

    Omg Jan22, the same thing happened to me, wellsimilar anyway.
    I grew up with this Taurus guy 2 years younger than me, I was his sisters b. friend just 10 doors away, knew the whole family and we were really close. I didn’t see this guy for over 20 years and recently we met up through f.b. I thought it was just going to be a friendly accounter, he found me intensly attractive and couldn’t help himself! he showered me with complements romantic texts and I was overwhelmed. also he expressed freely his sexual desires towards me.. Then after just 3 dates we finished! Maybe it was too intense and too soon, but I wanted him badly and prehaps I played it all wrong! I have never experienced anything more sensual with any other guy ever, so romantic, he blew me away. Its a month and a half later, we kind of argued last time we met and I haven’t heard from him since, I wonder if an email to him explaining a few things without seeming needy would patch things up so we can remain friends? Still he was the best thing I Never had!… amazing guy..

  • Jdawg says:

    Im a taurus male…for you aquarious wome wich i cant seem to understand why i keep crossing paths with…i hate you..but cant live without you..so i guess i can live with you..but i think you ladis complicate things WAY to much…let us love you and in return let us know that you are trying your best…o and keep da sex comin or ill either cheat or turn into an ass…i consider myself a king and should be treated as one, not on no stuck up type attitude problem, but because ima treat you like a queen and only deserve the same..the only reason why we will trip is if we think we aint gettin the same level of love and respect back that we dishin out…so if we get mad, u know the solution…FIX IT…

  • lovemedo says:

    Taurus guys are dangerous for Aquarius women. We Aquarius usually think we’re the best and we’re naive. A dangerous combination. We assume that anybody who pursues us loves us and that they have the best motives. That’s not always true. Taureans are earthy and they don’t fight fairly. They will do everything to conquer you and when they do, they will lose interest.

    Taurus men are not particularly creative or smart (they can’t spell lol) so they cannot appreciate what’s special about the Aquarius. If you want to keep him, never show him you love him.

    It’s amazing how Taurus is the only sign that can conquer me. Aquarius, stay away!

  • Aquarius girl says:

    I love taurus men! I loved one for 9 years but couldn’t marry him cause I was floored by a scorpio.We both are married to different persons but I still adore him so much.He’s my cotton candy.He has a weird and sarcastic sense of humor. They have class.And the two celebrities I lust after ( David Beckham and George Clooney) are also taureans ;) Love you all taurus boys :)

  • aquagirl says:

    as an aqua woman i have learnt tranquility in turbulence. my taurus man of six yrs. idk…. he has to be inspired but is so sweet. he’s my hony bunches of oats my poochiewoochie snookums wuvuvuv!

  • Michelle says:

    Hey, an Aquarius girl here, looking for some input. I’ve never really cared for relationships and such, just because I didn’t myself in a good, committed one–both from me, and from any possible partner.

    Until recently, I met a Taurus male, about half a year ago. We work together at the same part-time job, and he doesn’t seem like the typical Taurus. He’s got a lot of friends, and is quite outgoing. He’s even told me that he “can’t do anything by himself.” (Meaning hanging out.) I wasn’t interested in him in a possible romantic way until just this month, and I’m seriously confused by it.

    He’s a great guy–reliable, confident, respectful, and easy to talk to. I just don’t even know how to try to start a closer relationship with him. To me, we’re more of on the line between acquaintances and friends. More than just knowing each other’s face, but less than chatting each other up regularly.

    Any suggestions? Thanks in advance!

  • Imi says:

    Well, I’m an Aquarius girl and I was with a Taurus man and he completely screw me over. We were together for almost a year and then he completely ruined it. He was cheating on me for 4 months with a Scorpio woman and I already became emotionally attached. He said he loved me and all that crap on how he’ll never leave, all the while he’s screwing this other chick and telling her how much he loved her. In the end, he choose the Scorpio and now Im done with Taurus men altogether. They aways end up with Scorpio’s and I’ve never seen it fail in my eyes. I just never thought that my Taurus would be taken away from me. So this is my warning to other Aqua ladies, be VERY careful around them, they bring out our sensitivity and it can either help you or end you. And in my case it fu-ked me over momentarily. Plus they are known to C H E A T. So if youre with one hook him now while you have the chance! And good luck… Because you’ll need it.

  • Aquarius girl says:

    Its weird that there is always a love-lust triangle between taurus, scorpio and aquarius . I had affair with a scorpio man who was like what 12 years older to me and was married to a taurus lady. We enjoyed awesome sex for 3 years and I ended it because he was getting obsessed with sex and wanted it everytime.Then I was in relationship with a taurus guy for 9 years but cheated on him with a scorpio man.Even after knowing this he still wanted to marry me and gave me a second chance but I was absolutely DEEPLY IN LOVE with my scorpio so I finally married my scorpio husband.I am still good friends with the taurus guy and he married a saggitarius girl.They both just had a baby daughter.I am the godmother of his baby :) so no regrets at all.

  • Curious says:

    this is so interesting, astrologer, how the dynamics of female aqua/male taurus has such a higher, MUCH HIGHER rating, above average rating than if the gender were reversed (Taurus female/aquarius male)
    I can see how it makes a difference. I saw that Arpad Busson/Uma Thurman in the other pairing, and thought, perhaps it’s because Arpad Busson has a Leo Mars and Pisces Moon. His leo mars to her Aqua moon? Those things could make it easier and much more binding. :)

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