Taurus men are not particularly creative or smart (they can’t spell lol) so they cannot appreciate what’s special about the Aquarius. If you want to keep him, never show him you love him.

It’s amazing how Taurus is the only sign that can conquer me. Aquarius, stay away!

He’s funny, caring, adorable, and stubborn as hell and I just love it! He’s everything I can ever need in a man without even trying. And his possessiveness only heightens my sexual passion for him. Oh yeah and the intercourse is basically AMAZING. He was my first, and let me tell you… It was a billion times better than I expected. Normally your first time should be awkward and just painful. Well, he changed my views when he made it both entertaining and basically enjoyable. He had me smiling from the start to finish… Making it a memorable experience…

But even with all his “great” qualities… I’m still worried whether I should let him sweep me off my feet completely. He’s very well known at school by most of the female student population and he’s pretty introvert when it comes to talking about himself… I don’t know if I should keep going with no worries or keep a watchful eye… Help please…

IM CURRENTLY DATING A TAURUS HUNK FOR MORE THAN 5 LONG YEARS..

HE DIDNT COURT ME OR ANYTHING..

HE WAS STRAIGHT-FORWARD..
FRANK.. AND VERY CONFIDENT WHEN HE ASKED ME TO BE HIS GURL..

HE JUST ASKED ME 3 QUESTIONS:

1. DO YOU HAVE A BF? I SAID NO.
2. DO YOU LIKE ME? I SAID YEAH. (I THOUGHT HE WAS PLAYING GAMES SO I JUST SAID “YEAH!”)
3. SO, YOU’RE MY GURL NOW? I SAID, SURE! (HAHA! SO FUNNY! I REALLY THOUGHT HE WAS JUST SOBBER!)

THEN THATS THE TIME WE STARTED DATING..

WE’VE BEEN ON AND OFF BEFORE..
HE KEEPS COMING BACK..

THEN AFTER PLAYING GAMES,
HE BECAME SERIOUS..
HE BECAME POSSESIVE OF ME..

HE TREATS ME LIKE A PRINCESS..
HE COOKS FOR ME..
HE EVEN PUT THE FOOD ON MY PLATE..
(EVERY SINGLE TIME!)
HE MAKE SURE IM SAFE,AT ALL TIMES!

HE IS SWEET..
VERY SWEET..

I DONT FIND HIM ROMANTIC..
BUT HE WRITES LOVE LETTERS TO ME..

HE GIVES ME HUG..
KISSES.. EVEN WHILE WE WALK, HE KISSES ME..

HE’S GONNA TREAT YOU LIKE A BABY..
I MEAN, HE’S REALLY GONNA BE THERE WHENEVER YOU NEED HIM..

HE WILL DO ANYTHING THAT YOU WANT..
EVEN THE MOST SIMPLE THINGS..

HE NEVER COMPLAINS WHENEVER I ASK HIM TO GET WATER IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT..
TURN-OFF THE LIGHTS EVEN WHEN HIS SO TIRED AND LAZY TO GET UP (HE’LL STILL DO IT..)
HE DOESNT MIND WHEN I CHANGE THE CHANNEL TO THE MOST BORING SHOW..
HE DOESNT MIND WHEN I ASK HIM CARRY MY LITTLE CUTE PINK CLUTCH!

I NEVER WENT HOME ALL BY MYSELF, WHY?
HE ALWAYS WAIT FOR ME BY THE DOOR EVERY AFTER CLASS AND MAKES SURE THAT WE GO HOME TOGETHER..(WHEN I WAS STILL IN COLLEGE)..

WHEN I WAS WORKING,
WHEN HE CANT PICK ME UP,
HE ALWAYS MAKE SURE THAT I GO HOME HAPPY..
I MEAN, THE FOOD IS READY..
I HAVE NOTHING TO THINK ABOUT WHEN I GO HOME..

HE PROTECTS ME AGAINST ANYONE..
HE MAKES SURE THAT NO ONE WILL HURT ME IN ANY KIND OF WAY..

WHEN HE IS UP TO SOMETHING HE WILL REALLY DO IT..
WHEN HE TELLS YOU SOMETHING, OR PROMISE YOU SOMETHING, HE WILL DO IT..

BUT THERE ARE ALSO ROUGH TIMES..

AS AN AQUARIAN, I LOVE MY FREEDOM..
BUT AS A TAUREAN, HE IS POSSESSIVE AND JEALOUS..

THE ONLY REASON WHY WE FIGHT IS HIS JEALOUSY.

HE JEALOUS EVERYTIME.
WHEN I SAY EVERYTIME IT MEANS ALWAYS!

WHEN I TALK TO OTHER GUYS, EVEN TO SOMEONE WHO IS GAY.. HE IS JEALOUS..

WHEN I TALK TO A GURL,
HE THINKS SHE’S A LESBIAN..

HE WANTS ME TO BE “HIS ONE AND ONLY!”
THATS SWEET..
BUT HE THINKS IM HIS PROPERTY..

WHEN WE FIGHT,
HE REALLY MAKES SURE THAT IM HURT..
YOU WILL HEAR THE WORDS YOU NEVER WANT TO HEAR..
YOU WILL FEEL THE PAIN YOU NEVER EVEN IMAGINE THAT HE CAN DO..

HE IS A BULL.
HE OUTRAGE WHEN HE IS MAD. TRULLY MAD.

I FEEL SCARED WHEN HE IS MAD AT ME
BECAUSE I KNOW,
AND IM EXPECTING HIM TO BE VERY VERBAL AND PHYSICAL TO ME..

I FEEL ABUSED WHEN WE FIGHT.
I CANT FIGHT BACK BECAUSE I KNOW IT WILL ONLY WORSTEN THE SITUATION..

THATS THE ONLY THING THAT I WANT TO WARN YOU IF YOU WANT TO DATE A TAURUS GUY..

THEY CAN BE THE SWEETEST, MOST RELIABLE GUY IN THE WORLD THAT YOU WILL MEET..
BUT
HE CAN ALSO BE THE WORST MAN WHO WILL BREAK YOU HEART AND SOUL..

I LOVE HIM SO MUCH THATS WHY WE ARE STILL TOGETHER..

BUT I KNOW, IF I CANT CHANGE HIM..
WE WILL ONLY END TO BE “SOMEONE I USED TO KNOW..”

Not all aquas are that superficial, you know. And really, if you don’t fully agree with you bull, well you can tell him how you look at things and then you both try to find some middle ground, this is usually how things work in a relationship…

Communication, communication, communication….

Peace & love

My aquarius girlfriend is now not talking to me. She said she’ll talk to me in person but she did not. I am giving her time and space right now. But I am really hurt. I don’t know where our relationship stands now.

All she said is she made up her mind and we will talk in person. I don’t know if she just don’t have the guts to dump me. Or if she’s not sure she what she wants.

Should I just let her go and assume that we’re over? It’s been a week. And I am losing sleep.

I’ve had two failed marriages which I think was based on me thinking of my first and he was married once but it lasted for 3 months.

Do you think this is a good idea to marry him?

Thank you. Well she is actually mad at me. She thinks that I am not sincere, that all I care about is myself. There were 3 incidents in the past 10 days that we had an argument about me wanting her to meet me. It was not that I was pushing her to meet me… but I guess she felt that I don’t care of what she’s saying. She felt I care more about getting what I want. That is probably why she’s changed in the past few weeks.

We haven’t talked for the last 2 days. She said we’ll talk on the 3rd day. The last time we talked, she said she’s getting uncomfortable with me. I’m thinking that she’s about to break up with me.

I really love her. But I guess I can’t do anything if she doesn’t love me anymore. I am really trying to work hard in this relationship even though I don’t understand some of the aquarian ways… I just wish she works with me.

Any advise on how to make our relationship work? How should I deal with an aquarian girlfriend? Do you think she’s about to break up with me?

im guessing that she doent trust that if u break up, u wont be going to her house in some sort of revenge. she also may be embarrased to tell her friends about boyfriends and such(they could make it a big deal around her)
shes gunna be detached, she dosent want to bug you. id say she still loves you. if i date someone, im commited to them. if i dont like em, im still friendly.

if i loved them, but lost interest, i hide in my shell, run away at the sight of them, and lose all contact with em :-! but eventually ill start talking to them. the whole avoiding them kinda hurts their feelings tho :-/ oops

this is my personal views of what i would be thinking if i was her, sorry if it doesnt help.

So we’ve been together for about 5 months. In the beginning she was very attached to me. She would always talk to me at night. She would text me sweet stuff, etc. She would always meet me at my place. We’ve been intimate in most occasions.

But these past few weeks, I’ve been feeling that she’s detached and I’m feeling taken for granted. Sometimes, she won’t even bother to reply to my texts. When I call her, most of the time no answer and would take hours to call me back. When she say, she’ll call me, she does not.

I might have a clue on why she’s acting differently lately. She thinks I don’t trust her. She can’t blame me. If she said she will meet or call me, I would be waiting. And if you don’t show up or call me, I would be worrying.

Sometimes, I feel that she’s lying about small stuffs to avoid hurting me.

And another big thing that bothers me. I don’t know where she lives. She said, she had a history with a stalker and that she’s afraid. So I’m just patiently waiting.

Our relationship is slowly progressing. She recently invited me to a family party so I’ve already met her parents. Her parents know we’re dating. But she introduced me only as friends to others.

We still talk almost everyday. She still say she loves me. It’s just that I’m confused. I’m really trying to understand her and compromise.

Does she really still loves me?

I appreciate any Aquarian views. What should I do?

As for me I hope to find a guy one day that will ground me a little, much like a taurus could. I would want someone who wouldn’t question every single thing and just go with it though. Life is not that serious. Live a little.

taurus really needs to loosen their purse strings and they are so lazy…Other than that it was ok. I mean comon you need to get your a.. moving if you going to have a livelihood. Somehow they dont grow up in a sense moving from job to job and no hassles statying home if need be.

Your absolutely right, we DO! There’s something I do, and it’s an analytical approach to literally everything to an extent that it takes up so much time to make a single decision that by the time the decision has been made by us, we/I have already lost the chance it seems. Taureans theme should be ‘Better late than never’.

ZOEY :

WELL IM A AQUARIUS FEMALE AND IM WITH A TAURUS..IMEAN HE IS JUST EVERYTHING I ALWAYS WANTED WE HAVE BEEN KNOIN EACHOTHA FOR A WHILE NOW BUT BEEN DATING 1 MONTH AND WE BUMO OUR HEADS BUT I SWEAR I LOVE HIM HE TOLD ME HE LOVE ME B4 WE GOT TO A MONTH I JUS WONDER WHAT WILL THIS RELATION BE LIKE HOW WILL THE SEX BE.? AND DO WE HAVE WHAT WE BOTH NEED

Nobody can answer ‘if we both have it or not’ or ‘how good the sex will be’ but both of you. I would stop asking and try it out

lost and confused :

Advice is what I need: I would love to hear some input from anyone that is willing to give it. my story is long but to understand my situation I think I should start from the most important points. Have been talking to a man with the birthday of May 28th. i read the Taurus sign and the Gemini sign, Taurus fits this man to a T. We have been talking for 5 months now. He has been divorced for 5 years and has had no relationship with anyone else sinse his divorce. He has a 20 year old son and a 10 year old son (different mothers). His youngest son is his world. Both live with him. At first we spent a few days a month together. Now I am lucky if I get to see him once a month. He says he always wants to b friends first and dont want things to go bad between us. He said he wants to take things slow. His 10 year old just loves me to death. When we r together his son has said many times it is just like a family when we r together. The divorce ended because he found out his ex wife was gay. This I am sure has been very hard for the man I am talking to as well as the little boy. Our relationship is based on texting. He works afternoons and I work days. It seems that themore I ask to spend time with him the longer it is before I c him. The more I try to talk to him the more he avoids me. If i make no attempt to speak with him… he comes back at me hard. he will text me more.. I just dont understand his way of thinking. what is it that he wants. Ihave ask him a number of times if he wantsme to step away and he tells me no not at all. he is always saying he is just so busy. Can anyone explain to me what it is this taurus/gemini wants or does not want?
Thanks for your time

Sounds familiar. We go slow, even after that fact that things have progressed we still want to go slow. In my original post here I made things sound much much worse than they really were. I’m sure I confused some of you reading this when I combined ‘I’d still be with her’ and then laying out every negative aspect of what happened. This might relate to your post because he may or may not be thinking of what bad might come out of the situation, and he’s got 2 kids to worry about as well and how they might feel if things should go south.

By going slow in my experience; it worked well in the very beginning because I had no expectations, and I don’t know if she even looked at me as a possibility. In my opinion I don’t think she did because she gave me a wedgie the first night lol. I just wanted to be cool, and I saw she was going through a tremendous amount of stress and already having a mutual friend who had given me a heads up on that, so I wanted to be there for her. I’ll admit I was extremely attracted to her already, but I knew how to let that go first seeing as I didn’t think she was into me at all on that kind of level. She wanted to be friends as well so it was great. I got to know her more and more and as each day went by I realized how just ‘cool’ this girl really was. I didn’t stand a chance. I was in no way nearly as cool as she was. I was in no way as fun, outgoing, and charismatic as she was. There was absolutely no way I could get her. This girl was a rock star, some of her family called her that. I believe it to be true. I think in every sense of the word, from the personality, the outgoing traits, the ability to talk to anyone and put a smile on their face, and the dress code that they follow pertains exactly to this girl. Everybody loves a rock star. They entertain us, they lift our spirits, they give us energy, they don’t care what you say or do because they already know their own path and there’s nothing you can do to stop them, in short there is more spirit inside of them than most. Well I happened to fall in love with this rock star. I remember kissing her for the first time, it felt so incredibly natural. My gut instinct of meeting her thinking that there was no possible way I stood any sort of chance that I had already come to terms with was apparently wrong. Everything was fluent in the beginning. It just flowed and there was nothing else I wanted to do, or anybody else I wanted to be with. It didn’t matter though, and that’s what hurt the most. She did everything, even if I told her no, even if I didn’t want her to spend money on lunch she still would. Even if I told her not to drive us out somewhere she still would. Even when I was sick as a dog and didn’t want to see anybody in the world she still came. Even when I was sickest on my birthday she still came, with a home made ice cream birthday cake. Her children even made me a card. I didn’t deserve this. Because no matter what she did, or how amazing she was, I was still wondering if I was really what she wanted. You know that analytical frame of mind that Taureans are said to have? Well it just so happens that I’ve got it. I remember driving back from her house (I was always staying later than I should because I would lose track of everything else in the world when I was with this girl) and started thinking that I could really be with her forever. I thought about it more, and about her past and what she had chosen to do with her life prior to me, and I wondered if I could sustain her? Was it selfish of me to think of it like that? To some it may, who am I to choose for the both of us something like that? She is a rock star at heart, who am I to deserve someone this incredible? That same rock star attitude that draws me to her starts to push me away slowly. This happened when I saw some things really start to develop but with that thought of long-term in the back of my mind, I had to be sure. I needed to be sure that this was the girl for me, but when my attempt to slow things down only escalated things to go faster, I didn’t know what else to do. I know I made some mistakes, I know that I was always honest with her though, with every single thought that popped into my head that pertained to both of us, and I think I should have held some of those things in. Not all, but maybe just some of them.

Either way, this led to the end of the relationship. Truth of the matter is that there are a number of reasons that her and myself should not be together. My selfishness was more than her selfishness though, she had little bits of superficial selfishness, whereas mine ended any bit of possibilities of what could have been between us. There’s a saying, you can’t truly help anyone until you can help yourself first. And that’s my selfish reason for being single right now ultimately. I honestly don’t think about any little/big negative thing she did during our small amount of time together, because I loved her too much to let any of it bother me, and maybe that’s what made her so comfortable. And vice/versa, because no matter what dumb words came out of my mouth, she didn’t let anything get to her. And there’s something in there that made me comfortable too.

Things are different now between us, I’ll say here that I still think about how it would be if things were different, but I’d never say it to her. I know things wouldn’t be different though, as much as I can think good now, away from the situation and from a different perspective, I don’t think it can work. At least right now. Being friends now, I still can’t wait to make fun of her for something stupid though, she still manages to brighten my day up a little no matter what she says or how she says it, just talking to her works for me for now. And I hope that never goes away. At the same time nothing lasts forever, so I try and stay busy and try not to read too much into it. Just like in the beginning when things came easy and we could laugh at each other without thinking a single other thought but just having fun.

Response to comments:

@Thia; I lol’d when I read that your the only one that can deal with his bullishness, I remember telling her that before.

@Paul, I know the feeling Bro! So sorry to hear things went that way. I don’t know that she didn’t care, she was there in the first place. Maybe it was just for the sex? Or maybe she just didn’t know how to care, who knows.

@Aquagirl, Yea, Aquarius girls will do what they want, when they want it, and if they don’t get their way then oh wow, you have a whole new set of issues to deal with now. Which leads me to ‘Soya’s comment’ of Taureans making better fathers than husbands. Well maybe that’s because when Aquarius girls don’t get their way, then they (maybe not all Aquarius girls) turn into little children and don’t know what to do. Well here comes the authoritative Taurus who knows how to handle such situations! Sound familiar to any of you? Yes we make great fathers because we know how. At least I do, and I’ve always been told I will make a great dad if/when I have children of my own. Some of your outbursts just seem funny and puzzling to us, so we/I know not to take it seriously. It’s like a children’s outburst, I know you’ll be over it within minutes so why fuss and argue over it?

@Ms Peaches; i think your correct on the ‘limited togetherness’. Views and perspectives are completely different, and if any of you have found the balance that’s necessary to sustain this relationship then I have nothing but the best wishes to send you. I wish we could do the same, and things were different on my side.

@Jenn; I’m really happy for you both, for real!

@la Porcha; I had the same feelings, no matter how messed up things seemed to be I still wouldn’t of traded it for anything. I was ‘in’ no matter what!

for some it is hard to realize that..
yes its equally painful for me as well, but i can treasure only one
the one who is always smiling with me.

We trust each other with anything and everything, and we’ve found the balance between my need for independence/eccentricity and his need for security/routine. He is very possessive and jealous sometimes, and in my experience, this is just one of those areas where the Aquarian woman has to yield in order for happiness to flourish. The Taurus man needs to know that he is wanted as much as he wants you, and that means making the sacrifice sometimes to do as he asks — like, cut ties with that ex boyfriend who you’ve been friends with for years but it makes him uneasy (I know, asking an Aquarian to lose a friend is like asking them to cut off an arm!). For me, it’s worth the trade, to have such a devoted husband, patient and loving father to my son, and the most incredible sex life imagineable.

Pamper him with backrubs and good food, and you’ve got yourself a protector, a chivalrous gentleman, and best friend for life!